People who "CAUGHT THEIR PARTNER CHEATING" without them knowing, What did you do? - Reddit Podcast

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  • @RabiezDeWorgen
    @RabiezDeWorgen ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "I grabbed all the things that would be missed, Including myself." Hahahaha I like that.

  • @ladybetrayus69
    @ladybetrayus69 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I did what any respectable lady would do when she finds her partner in bed with another woman. I told my overprotective father and brother let them handle him.

    • @XivioOfTheGreen
      @XivioOfTheGreen ปีที่แล้ว +26

      To quote Peter Griffin, "I just wanna talk to him..."

    • @queen4life676
      @queen4life676 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@XivioOfTheGreen lol

    • @jackchop1576
      @jackchop1576 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never mess with a borderline personality woman with violent psychopath male relatives!

    • @sageart4771
      @sageart4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Brian K Wow so Masculine. A man in bed with another woman and Father and brother shouldn't kick his ass why?

    • @harleyralston4365
      @harleyralston4365 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Brian K I had something like this happen to me girl lied said I fucked her best friend her dad and 2 brothers came to my house and kicked in my door little did they know I was only 14 😂 and she was 23 the family was super religious and the best part is they called the cops bc I pulled the hand gun my family had in a gun safe out when I heard some one kicking in the door. The look on the cops face said it all 😂

  • @TrumpetsGalore4
    @TrumpetsGalore4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Story 1:
    Wife- he kissed me
    OP- okay, maybe you should stop hanging out with him
    Wife- how dare you tell me to do such a thing?!?!

  • @richardherndon451
    @richardherndon451 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I worked for a high school. Sometimes we would watch the students on lunch out the window for a free drama show. One girl would ditch class to hang out with her boyfriend during first lunch. During second lunch she would hang out with her other boyfriend. Word spread because high schools and rumors. One day a call of a fight went out over the radio. I brought popcorn

    • @CainEverest
      @CainEverest ปีที่แล้ว

      "AND HERE COMES THE OTHER SCORNED GIRL WITH THE STEEL CHAIR! BAW GAWD, SOMEONE STOP THIS DAMN MATCH!"

    • @foreignbentley173
      @foreignbentley173 ปีที่แล้ว

      When I was in highschool a kid’s girlfriend ran in the class yelling about him giving her herpes he found his side chick and fought her for giving him herpes. Come to find out he passed it to like 4 girls at school (he got it from his homeboy) let’s just say all the girls jumped him at lunch while we loved it lol

  • @martinmarcos5340
    @martinmarcos5340 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Living well is indeed the best revenge. Two years ago my then gf dumped me and less than a month later I got the job that I still have which allowes me to live in comfort and much more. I stayed in touch a few months after we broke up and I could tell she was salty about it. So much that she specifically made sure that I knew she had a new boyfriend. That fkd me up for a few weeks but everything else in my life was perfect, so I hanged on to that and I got over it preety quickly.I havenpt heard of her since then but I´m just too busy living the life I could never have with her.

  • @Lucifer_Ism3
    @Lucifer_Ism3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Anyone who cheated is a liar and disgusting…

    • @daslemonke
      @daslemonke ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *But I'm not a liar and disgusting.*

    • @Five0Five
      @Five0Five ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well, I guess I'm a disgusting liar.

    • @SigridOfVigrid
      @SigridOfVigrid ปีที่แล้ว

      ong.

    • @ericsanders9847
      @ericsanders9847 ปีที่แล้ว

      And don’t forget stupid as well

    • @BlueDart1971
      @BlueDart1971 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Five0Fiveyep

  • @Mia-dt3gl
    @Mia-dt3gl ปีที่แล้ว +41

    With the regret and longing OP in Story 14 has, I’m wondering if her ex took his own life. Not because he lost OP but because his AP wouldn’t leave her husband for him.

    • @CrimsonAngelWinges
      @CrimsonAngelWinges ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Seeing as it sounds like she didn't tell the affair partner's husband I don't have a lot of sympathy for the OP in that story.

    • @wondertriplover
      @wondertriplover ปีที่แล้ว +1

      good lmao

  • @starchildofthesun
    @starchildofthesun หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I'm eating a cinnabon at the mall at 3:00 am"
    The worst part about that... is that is absolutely the weird kinda stuff that me and my poly partners do when our insomnia hits. We have seven adults and our adopted daughter living in our house, so if our insomnia hits we just leave to avoid waking up the whole house and just stop by anywhere that's open at that hour.

  • @AJGecko18
    @AJGecko18 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wanna defend the pinã colada song (or however you spell it)
    I always thought of a married couple who had trouble connecting as they got older or maybe made assumptions about each other. So I see it as them learning about each other once more and truly connecting after all those years of distance. Being in a loveless marriage is tough, and while cheating isn’t the best way to go about it, the fact they found each other again meant that they were really perfect for each other, they just didn’t know how to communicate. That marriage probably grew stronger as a result of that.

    • @rheahorvath9274
      @rheahorvath9274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed with your poignant interpretation. Listen to the gentle words he uses. Found their way back to one another for a second chance at fated happiness. 💞🫂

    • @brndy79
      @brndy79 ปีที่แล้ว

      OVO9OOPo😊😊

    • @brndy79
      @brndy79 ปีที่แล้ว

      O
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    • @brndy79
      @brndy79 ปีที่แล้ว

      O
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    • @brndy79
      @brndy79 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @simiktek
    @simiktek ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Maybe i am weird...but i never understood why cheat? If you want someone other, just break up before no?

    • @doll9340
      @doll9340 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not weird. I feel the same way

    • @pengxins
      @pengxins ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Imo that's just how a normal and respectful person thinks

    • @WilDBeestMF
      @WilDBeestMF ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some just like to have their cake and eat it too.

    • @flapjackssyrup3905
      @flapjackssyrup3905 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never understood why people excuse the cheating lmao

  • @GeorgeMinton-jb8ky
    @GeorgeMinton-jb8ky ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great comment about not fighting for assets. My ex-wife fought over my participation in a sub s corporation retail store where I only had 1/3 of the stock. It had a $17,500 loan on it so really not much value at all. Note: 1\3 interest in a sub s corporation has no market value to an outside buyer. I finally offered her the stock which she did not want. She dragged out the divorce 18 months. No telling what percent of my lawyer fees could have been avoided if she had enough business sense to understand business valuations. Well, the time came for me to renew the plates on my car titled in my name that she was driving. I basically told her that once she signs the divorce papers through my lawyer that I will renew the plates and sign the car over to her. She did and got some money and I got the junk house that took 6 months to sell. She took my prize microwave. (top of the line) Never fight over assets.

  • @macylouwho1187
    @macylouwho1187 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yeah to heck with “the high road”, I’m petty AF. When my best friend started dating the guy that I was in love with and she knew it-and he was doing it to get back at me for the breakup (he was the cheating kind and I noped out), I went and found the guy that I knew she was nuts over. Hot, degenerate, playboy, fuq boy-he was all that. She had slept with him for months as a friends with benefits because he wouldn’t commit, and finally gave up on him but she was nursing a broken heart over him and that fire for him was still lit inside of her. My ex who was with her was literally giving people letters trying to get me back right in front of her and she would fly off the handle and tear them up. He took her to my MOMS to talk about getting me back and she lost it on him. He had no real interest in her. Anyway I was like “two can play this game, b-tch.” I went to see her ex sex partner guy, and told him the story. He had zero feelings for her so it didn’t matter to him. He was, however, a little interested in seeing if he could do the same thing to me (yeah, no. Hard pass, pun intended). But he went along with my plan anyway just “in case” it got him somewhere I suppose. He took me out in his boat, her parents had a boat too and everyone usually congregated on a particular island to party on the weekends. I knew she would be there. I was looking HOT in a bikini, makeup, hair cute etc. He was trying to get all over me but I was keeping him off me as best as I could. We pulled up to the island and he helped me out of the boat. Everyone was there, bonfires going, drinks all around etc. Eventually she caught sight of us. He was sitting on a cooler top and he was pulling me closer hands/arms going around my waist. She was stomping over to us angrily so I pulled his head into my stomach (barely above my bikini bottom top 👀) and was running my fingers through his hair. She stopped and just stared at us, and I could see the rage and tears welling. She spun around on her heel and stormed off. None of us said a word. It was all self explanatory. He and I high fived laughing and got back in the boat. I said I would see him around. Because I didn’t want to be a complete b-tch to him or make him feel used after helping me, I had a friend pick him up some good bottles of booze as a thank you for his time. I paid for it. And yeah that totally ruined her weekend I heard. And not long after she walked in on my ex screwing another girl in his bed and it was one of her other friends 😂. So there went that. She lost the guy and she lost her friend. And I was hella loyal to her and good to her prior to this, but the gloves came off when she immediately started dating my ex knowing full well that I was hurting over him and why. I guess she thought that he wouldn’t do the same thing to her? 😂. I’m sorry, but when a cheater takes a new partner a spot opens up for his new side chick, literally every time people. A tiger doesn’t change his stripes, he just gets better at camouflaging his misdeeds.

    • @justinknight3737
      @justinknight3737 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol! Diabolical. Proper evil genius.

    • @jagnoorsingh9867
      @jagnoorsingh9867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like the plot of a Korean drama, damn

  • @andreasul2608
    @andreasul2608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My ex's current bf is sunscribing to a friends onlyfans, I relish in the fact that I know. No plans to tell her or do anything about it. I just love knowing that I have a weapon I could use anytime if I wanted to.

  • @megnotes7908
    @megnotes7908 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Story 14: depression can be exaCERBated (worsened), but not exaSPERated (felt intense irritation or frustration).

  • @jamesmccurry3698
    @jamesmccurry3698 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's the gameplay from?

  • @msanniefinds
    @msanniefinds ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so tired of people saying: you can’t help who you fall in love with.
    Yes, you can help it.
    Sure, you can’t help who you’re attracted to, but that doesn’t mean you need to start a relationship with that person.
    I think a lot of us make excuses for the person we are dating early on. If we see some bad behavior, we tell ourselves they are having a bad day or even worse, they have some past issues that they still need to work through but with you they will get better.
    No, they won’t get better. No, it’s not because they had a bad day. You just saw their true selves - warts and all. Those bad days will just grow and grow and become more frequent because they know you’ll put up with it.
    Or, they will keep lying and lying to you to keep you around until one day you are ‘shocked’ that they cheated on you.
    You can be attracted to lots of people - good and bad. But choose to fall in love with the good ones. It takes time and being very aware of how they treat you and others, but it’s worth it in the long run.
    I know, because I was the queen of making excuses for bad behavior from guys I dated. Don’t be like me. Choose to fall in love with the good ones.

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheaters/homewreckers don't care about the people they hurt. They are like tornadoes: they destroy everything in their path and never feel guilty for the aftermath.

  • @tesorosofthepastmetaldetec3601
    @tesorosofthepastmetaldetec3601 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve heard that “I fell asleep” thing before, she would get off work at 3pm text me and disappear until the next day, saying she rushed home and fell asleep until the next day 😳🤷🏼‍♂️
    btw that was like 16-18 hours 😢

  • @VersieKilgannon
    @VersieKilgannon ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "grabbed all the things that would be missed, including myself" 😂

  • @chrisanderson3535
    @chrisanderson3535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg that first story he sounds like an idiot being married and letting her hang out with a dude and after she said they kissed to think this was remotely ok! Hahaha dude it was over way before that kiss so I’m confused

  • @epepo
    @epepo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What game is that?

  • @brydonwood6000
    @brydonwood6000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tongue ring is a No for me 😅 got scrapped before

  • @googleuser868
    @googleuser868 ปีที่แล้ว

    “If a man is found lying with the wife of another man, both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman. So you shall purge the evil from ...

  • @flapjackssyrup3905
    @flapjackssyrup3905 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I honestly believe people like a little abuse in their life. Every single one of us has heard cheating stories and probably have seen it or been through it. We all know the signs of cheating so why make excuses for a cheater? It’s not cheating if you allow it btw. After you catch someone cheating and forgive it/ make excuses, it’s not considered cheating.

  • @DavidJimenez-tt5ok
    @DavidJimenez-tt5ok ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Worst excuse I heard was in Maury thr cheater was washing a car 3 in the morning

  • @CranBurst
    @CranBurst ปีที่แล้ว +1

    someone please tell me what game is running in the background

  • @taethatboyarebel
    @taethatboyarebel ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why do y'all even get married 🤦🏿

    • @DayDreamingWriters
      @DayDreamingWriters ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well
      Its hard to predict if your partner is a cheating scum

    • @HeyItsRicki85
      @HeyItsRicki85 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@DayDreamingWritersthat wasn't the question, why get married at all? What's the benefit?

  • @peetywondr3256
    @peetywondr3256 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Worked as a mechanic at a place that put those magnetic numbers on the roof to identify the cars for service. My wife of two years and I became good friends with a fellow mechanic and his wife. We went out on double date nights, went to the races together, movies, local amusement park, etc., good friends, or so I thought.
    One day I went home for lunch and spotted a car with a magnetic number on its roof and decided to wait down the street a bit to see who came out of my house - it was my (so called) friend the mechanic. Long story short, over the next few weeks, he went to my house more than once during lunch breaks. This was all before cell phones and micro cameras, I borrowed a camera from another friend, with a great telephoto lens, I used it to get pictures as proof.
    Confronted my wife with "What did you do all day, Dear?" Answered with "Nothing" "Did you have any friends over or go anywhere?" "Nope".
    Asked about the mechanic coming over and she started with the usual "What are you talking about?". Showed her the pictures and all Hell broke loose. Confessed everything in an ocean of tears.
    Up side of this story is we are still together . . . but not until after months of therapy and years of mistrust.

  • @Taliesin-xd7ke
    @Taliesin-xd7ke ปีที่แล้ว

    Fingernails on a blackboard is the same as hearing the 'I'm LiViNg My Best LiFe Is ThE Best ReVeNgE'🤮.
    Absolute bollocks!!

  • @falkland_pinguin
    @falkland_pinguin ปีที่แล้ว

    This is worrying. People who have seen this might accuse me of cheating, as going to an airport at 3am to purchase and consume a cinnabun is totally something I would do.

  • @learnfromyourmistake1
    @learnfromyourmistake1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi great video

  • @Indubidably0
    @Indubidably0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The "high road" isn't actually the high road, it's the low cowards road, it's the road for the fearful doormat who lies to themselves in their shame so they can still look themselves in the mirror despite being a spineless jellyfish. Cowards deserve all the bad things that happen to them.

  • @BillyWilliamsBillythekid
    @BillyWilliamsBillythekid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    on some of these affairs the partner that is the victim
    wants to take it out on who their partners have an affair with
    that's not the problem
    the problem lies is what made her partner to stray to begin with
    so the partner has failed to communicate with the other to address the issue of why he or she went outside the marriage instead of talking it out to see if whatever issue that partners having to be solved
    I never could understand why they would blame the person whom their partner is with instead of the partner only
    yes the other person should know better to sleep or have anything to do with a married person
    I personally would not do it because I don't want it done to me why should I do it if I don't want it done to me yes read that again

  • @kaylabrownell1268
    @kaylabrownell1268 ปีที่แล้ว

    14:54 IDK man, this seems like it's going into r/thathappened territory.

  • @alive.i-guess
    @alive.i-guess ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oooh ive got one
    *tl:dr- cheated on me with 2 girls, tried with another, but still with him & he's getting distant again*
    so me and my bf were kinda on and off bc id have bad panic attacks and turn against myself and he'd basically go with the self-hatred/sabotaging thoughts i had, but ive got rly bad attachment issues and needed someone to cling to so i'd always wait for him to let me back in (the whole time thinking it was my fault). during one of the times we were rly close he started responding to my texts less and less, being less clingy when i saw him, and started talking to a girl in our friendgroup a lot more. i was apparently colorblind, so i didnt see the massive red flags, but i still knew something was off. one day when he wasnt there, i was casually talking to the girl and said something about how our 1yr was close and she turned sheet white and said "omg ur dating ~insert name here~?!" and i jus said yea and continued talking to my other friends there while she frantically texted someone (found out later it was him). i wish i could say this is where i figured it out, but it wasn't. later the same day, i got a text from my best friend saying that a bunch of the juniors were talking about my bf dating a completely different girl, and that she had suspected it for a while bc she had seen them together when i wasn't there, but didnt want to say anything just in case. thats when it set in, but i played it off and jus said sum like "well, as long as hes happy and tells me eventually im happy" (for background- i had cheated on a past relationship and went into this one saying idc if he cheats on me as long as he's open about it). then near the end of the day he texted me asking "youd be alright if i liked someone else, right?" and i responded with "so, are u talking about (1st girl) or (2nd girl)?" didnt hear anything back. we didnt talk for a bit, and i even left my friendgroup so he could stay in it without the awkwardness of me being there, but he eventually started begging for me to start clinging to him again. and my dumb arse did. we're still dating, and recently i found out about a 3rd girl who he tried it with and she rejected him. the cherry on top? he's starting to get really distant again but still expects me to cling to him and go to his house for ~things~
    sry for long comment but that's my experience

    • @Indubidably0
      @Indubidably0 ปีที่แล้ว

      Since you were a coward who couldn't do what had to be done the first time, everything you've gotten since is exactly what you deserve. Stand up for yourself, or be a worm.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cheating is always a choice... Unless it's being forced under duress extremely mitigating circumstances

  • @buddymacbuddington
    @buddymacbuddington ปีที่แล้ว

    I did nothing,why waste anything on them

  • @teddybetts3254
    @teddybetts3254 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the narrator Ian Danskin from Innuendo Studios?

  • @LunaP1
    @LunaP1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 8, hoebag let her projecting guilt do the talking real quick. He didn't even say he suspected her of cheating, he said he wanted to use her phone for games.

  • @ghostly5146
    @ghostly5146 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was dating an a-hole(sorry for bad language.) He broke up with my friend, got together with me, i broke up with him after 4 months cause he told me we had to have sex, i didnt want to, then when we broke up he tried to get togheter with his ex my friend again, me and the friend are still besties, but the guy is litteraly on our blacklist, a-hole was saying she abused him, i knew her like 2 or 3 years before him, I've known her for 4 or 5 years already i'm not stupid to believe that when there were singes he was doing it to her, the sings i noticed in our relationship, hitting me, calling me bitch and "his plaything", i still dont get why i liked him.🤦‍♀️

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude- story 7 is messed up- she immediately started deflecting the moment he asked for the password. That's what a lot of manipulators do.

  • @KISW1
    @KISW1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rip Jerry springer

  • @AndreM37
    @AndreM37 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao my ex cheated on me something bad…. I mean it changed me . Keeping busy making the most money I ever made like 6 figures but she successful to Lmao matterfact I think I lost I’m still single years later and she just living it up doing celebrity hair ….. dammit lol

  • @Caderic
    @Caderic ปีที่แล้ว

    What game is this?

  • @liyahalex7308
    @liyahalex7308 ปีที่แล้ว

    For story one I'd definitely go have a cinnabon at 3:30 am tbh. LOL!

  • @maggiebaxter610
    @maggiebaxter610 ปีที่แล้ว

    I now have that Pina Colada song stuck in my head. #EarWorm 😅

  • @K1ngRaven
    @K1ngRaven ปีที่แล้ว +1

    W

  • @Dtgray12
    @Dtgray12 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the game going on in the bg? Looks like f0x clone.

  • @sophiethecatacc.2backup501
    @sophiethecatacc.2backup501 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am here when 27th like

  • @piffard20
    @piffard20 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's the game in the background?

    • @housetraitor4806
      @housetraitor4806 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always wonder the same things in these videos

    • @PeterLawton
      @PeterLawton ปีที่แล้ว

      It's called, "Distracting". ;-)

    • @anark10n
      @anark10n ปีที่แล้ว

      Super Pilot

  • @GreatFly666
    @GreatFly666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys whats the game in the backround i need to know

    • @anark10n
      @anark10n ปีที่แล้ว

      Super Pilot

  • @theknight4279
    @theknight4279 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:25
    "I'm now happily divorced" is a very depressing sentence.

  • @kaitlynkoontz3788
    @kaitlynkoontz3788 ปีที่แล้ว

    What reddit thread are these from?

    • @Z.O.1991
      @Z.O.1991 ปีที่แล้ว

      r/AskReddit

  • @jasonblakemore-it4cw
    @jasonblakemore-it4cw ปีที่แล้ว

    3rd

    • @Sussno_o
      @Sussno_o ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah more like 4th

    • @RedMooshroom42
      @RedMooshroom42 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually 5th

    • @Sussno_o
      @Sussno_o ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RedMooshroom42 Nah 4th i had counted

    • @RedMooshroom42
      @RedMooshroom42 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Sussno_oI counted also and I counted again. Both times I got 5

    • @Sussno_o
      @Sussno_o ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@RedMooshroom42 I don't know where the i have aids comment came from because it didn't show up on my phone

  • @DonaldDucksRevenge
    @DonaldDucksRevenge ปีที่แล้ว

    I've seen a variety of your other videos and on this & your other channels (EmKay, Mostly Facts etc.) Your editorial commentary is sad and cringe. No special reflection on this video although I notice the output is quite high. Perhaps a reflection of your devotion to your content. Blocking these channels.

    • @BatsyValentine
      @BatsyValentine ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You had nothing better to do huh

    • @DonaldDucksRevenge
      @DonaldDucksRevenge ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BatsyValentine Hours of time savings. Just letting others know there are way better Reddit reader channels to watch

  • @om_dot_com1527
    @om_dot_com1527 ปีที่แล้ว

    my parents werent ever married but so they "divorst" and they are frieds just werent good together just know divors is not alwase bad