Our Ancient Street Cat Passed Away

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
  • Hello friends! Unfortunately, we come bearing some sad news - our ancient ex-street-cat Crusty passed away a little while ago at the ripe old age of 21. So we decided to make a little memorial video for him here, as a celebration of his long, dusty life and how much he impacted ours. We met him back in 2015 on the streets, he was there when we started our channel - he judged my ugly clothing and lounged in a giant beanbag - and when we moved across the country, he came too. Tyler & I loved him like crazy, and we're gonna miss him like crazy - and we know that a lot of you guys will too.
    A huge thanks to Shelby & Sandy for the really sick art piece - you can check them out here!
    / shelbyandsandy
    MUSIC
    Via AudioNetwork
    PRODUCED & EDITED by
    Safiya Nygaard
    Tyler Williams
    Hannah Bruce
    GFX by Dayana Espinoza

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  • @safiya
    @safiya  2 ปีที่แล้ว +77546

    he was a good cat ❤️ thanks to all of you guys who have loved crusty over the years, and thanks to all who are leaving sweet messages in the comments below, it's making me cry but it's also making me feel better. love, saf

    • @whiskeredshrimp
      @whiskeredshrimp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      we will miss crusty so much ❤️ may he rest in peace

    • @1ryan273
      @1ryan273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      😪😪😪

    • @tekkiico
      @tekkiico 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      he was such a great cat

    • @ruby.xoxo04
      @ruby.xoxo04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ՏՏS stupid spam bot can you not

    • @thexcummins
      @thexcummins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      He had the best golden years. Don't ever doubt that ❤

  • @alyson7198
    @alyson7198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40147

    No such thing as "just a cat". No need to justify yourself. Cats are incredible, loving, little passionate souls. He loved you two so much and was so grateful for his life with you. RIP Crusty boy

    • @Alexa-hs5bd
      @Alexa-hs5bd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      Same with any pet. When you love them they become part of the family

    • @ruruka6500
      @ruruka6500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      @Savetion 👑 you have too much free time, also you care enough to comment so 🤡

    • @s9dx
      @s9dx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      @Savetion 👑 you’ve also commented a LOT on this video, so it seems like you care a lot.

    • @georginarussell1507
      @georginarussell1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      @Savetion 👑 how sad you came to this video so quick to comment that, clearly nothing better to do with your time

    • @tarajoa
      @tarajoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @Savetion 👑 clearly I do since I'm literally crying because of this video rn. Bro, you ain't invalidating fur parents feelings today 👊

  • @ShadowDragonia
    @ShadowDragonia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25409

    That old man found two crazy and confused kids and went "These are mine now" then refused to leave until he knew you two would be okay. Crusty was awesome and he will be missed greatly.

    • @jasperylemonade4545
      @jasperylemonade4545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +540

      Yess this made me start bawling all over again

    • @beliztola7177
      @beliztola7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/hogkKnRYS9g/w-d-xo.html

    • @אבישגגירד
      @אבישגגירד 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@jasperylemonade4545 was about to comment the same thing lol

    • @wonderland4515
      @wonderland4515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      this put a smile on my face before bursting into tears again

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Yes made me cry all over again as it made me remember the loss of my cat 7 years ago like it was yesterday.

  • @m_gwb
    @m_gwb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4821

    "He's willing himself to keep going." I think it was because it became apparent to him that he found his people and doesn't want to leave yet. So he kept going as long as he could just to be with both of you.

    • @justjaein
      @justjaein 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      oh gosh I’m crying so bad

    • @MistyLarasati
      @MistyLarasati 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      oh my heart 💔

    • @missk6193
      @missk6193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      this comment really gets to you because it's so true 😢❤

    • @enigma8764
      @enigma8764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      great now im sobbing

    • @sharonjoy3197
      @sharonjoy3197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok I definitely didn’t tear up at that part of the video…

  • @Bull-me8tz
    @Bull-me8tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6380

    "Do you think we can do this without him?" absolutely broke me because that's how I feel about my ancient dog. He's not just a cat. They're never just cats.

    • @ivannadelcastillo6127
      @ivannadelcastillo6127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i have an anchient cat too and i relate with this videobut i dont wanna kive wtthout boni[my cat shrs a girl]

    • @CoRLex-jh5vx
      @CoRLex-jh5vx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Had the same feeling when the cat I'd had my whole life (as in my parents got her as a wedding present before I was born) died. When she breathed out I held my breath for a really long time not knowing what it would be like to breathe in a world she wasn't there.

    • @AMarie333
      @AMarie333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @user-xo5zl6xr9e I lost one of my childhood cats when I was 19 and sometimes I still swear I see her out of the corner of my eye. We never forget our loved ones, no matter what species they are. 💗

    • @rentrie__
      @rentrie__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      my chihuahua is getting older, and im so stressed out knowing he's getting older. this really helps, knowing that everyone gets this feeling.

    • @Bull-me8tz
      @Bull-me8tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rentrie__ I work in veterinary medicine. One of my main job duties is walking owners through euthanasia paperwork. Trust me, just about every owner I've interacted with has this feeling.

  • @TitoTheRaccoon
    @TitoTheRaccoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29965

    Crusty absolutely deserved this tribute video. RIP lil Crusty 🤍🤎🤍🤎

    • @rainbow_dust57
      @rainbow_dust57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      shame on all the bots and spam postings under this comment.

    • @itsme_knb
      @itsme_knb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Awww...so sorry for your loss.. What a beautiful tribute. #RIPCrusty

    • @Katie_Lady
      @Katie_Lady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Animals absolutely have feelings and can return ours.

    • @LadyB_20
      @LadyB_20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He really did 😭

    • @cozypup2011
      @cozypup2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JENNITA B.O bye

  • @localrancher4146
    @localrancher4146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8346

    RIP Crusty, he'll forever be in our hearts.

  • @Alicehad3cats
    @Alicehad3cats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4559

    I know you said many times “I know it sounds silly”, but any pet owner know it’s now. They come into our lives and change them forever. We all loved Crusty and I’m so happy you had him in your lives

    • @thoatran2718
      @thoatran2718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ok

    • @charcoal8
      @charcoal8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Cats and dogs are part of the family and sometimes they're the only family member you can get on with

    • @ink3539
      @ink3539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Completely agree ❤❤❤

  • @bigdawg77
    @bigdawg77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3652

    "'He was only a cat'
    But he was human enough to be a great comfort in hours of loneliness and pain."
    -Gravestone inscription for Dewey, a cat that passed away in 1910.

    • @meredithcarter3175
      @meredithcarter3175 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Holy shit, that’s beautiful. 😭

    • @riabouchinska
      @riabouchinska ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Oh cmon I didn’t want to cry today

    • @MorganVsTheInternet
      @MorganVsTheInternet ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I keep flip flop between having our current hell fluff cremated so I can have his urn bared with me or find a place that does both human and pet burial!

    • @rubyrock7302
      @rubyrock7302 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I really feel that. My older cat (I have two), who we adopted when she was 3 months old, is very smart.
      I came home one day feeling upset and just had to cry and she rubbed against my legs at first and then settled on my lap. I felt better almost instantly. She’s always up to something mischievous and I often complain about her antics but I really love her and don’t know what I’d do without her 😢

    • @JaxFoxJaz
      @JaxFoxJaz ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There was another cat named Dewey who lived in a small town library in Spencer Iowa in the 90's who was also a rescue like Crusty
      And he ended up passing away in 2006 from a tumor.
      There's a book on him as a joint project of another author and the librarian who raised him, that is to me, an extremely underrated bit of non-fiction

  • @milesespadoto6359
    @milesespadoto6359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2337

    “because he was a really good cat and he deserved it” just destroyed me. thank you for sharing a bit of him with us all these years, he was the best crust anyone could ever ask for

  • @FoldingIdeas
    @FoldingIdeas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1291

    Such a ripe old age for a cat, especially one with Crusty's hard start to life.

  • @anybee212
    @anybee212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2986

    The fact that I am sitting hear crying over a cat I never even met, "just" because of this video, shows how much you loved him. RIP Crusty.

    • @TalixD
      @TalixD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same. And it's kinda hard to stop now. He was such an amazing friend.

    • @darksyn2091
      @darksyn2091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Seeing Saf cry really got me

    • @sweetpxtato
      @sweetpxtato 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too 😭

    • @B2UTYINDO525
      @B2UTYINDO525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 😭 I literally yelled "nooo" when I saw the tittle :") crusty will be dearly missed

    • @emmacollom4336
      @emmacollom4336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sames!!! 😭

  • @rasaagresti1268
    @rasaagresti1268 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    It was almost like he stuck everything out till you were married, refused to leave until you two are safe and secure

  • @xReflamed
    @xReflamed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3704

    You shouldn't apologize saying "it's just a cat". He's been a big part of your lives! Cats are just as much family as a human can be. He had a good run.

    • @style_icon997
      @style_icon997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes! I have a five year old cat and he is my baby!

    • @jack63kids
      @jack63kids 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He was family.

    • @Elyanley
      @Elyanley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      All pets are. They are family. They love us or tolerate us.. are our companions.. and they deserve to be mourned and loved and adored and cherished. Because they are our family. Feline, canine, or otherwise.

    • @Mothman_In_a_T-Pose
      @Mothman_In_a_T-Pose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Agreed!
      Pets are never "just a x". They're our family, our friends, our companions. They are a constant safe space and provide us joy, contentment, and love.
      When my dog passed away, it ruined me for a few weeks. It was a natural, expected death and he went out in his usual considerate way (this was the kind of dog who would only poop near trashcans on walks; we never trained him to do this), and it was objectively an "easy" death. But my dog had been my rock and my home for so long, it was like losing a piece of myself. He was like my unofficial emotional support animal, who had gotten me through so much. My entire life upended when I lost him. He wasn't just a dog; he was my family.

    • @kkuudandere
      @kkuudandere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@georginarussell1507 don't even bother replying, just report. they're likely just sad no living being has ever given them unconditional love like a cat could lol

  • @alexasunshine83
    @alexasunshine83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24893

    literally sobbing 😭 he definitely wasn't just a cat, he was your buddy and your family ❤

    • @snugglepuppify
      @snugglepuppify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I’m crying like a baby ❤

    • @jessgarza6910
      @jessgarza6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I’m glad I’m not the only one

    • @13hazelrain
      @13hazelrain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I was already sobbing, and then hearing the sadness in here voice at the end broke me. RIP Crusty.

    • @arayategan9218
      @arayategan9218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      There are dozens of us! Dozens!

    • @solstice3190
      @solstice3190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I was holding up until the painting and then I broke down :( I have an 8 year cat and as much as she drives me crazy and I joke about selling her, I still love her so much and would be devastated if anything ever happened to her. Sending lots of love, Safiya 🤎

  • @sarahsarosh
    @sarahsarosh ปีที่แล้ว +1517

    Sobbing my way through this. Crusty you will be missed💔

    • @HurstTheHybrid
      @HurstTheHybrid ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I've watched this so many times. I miss crusty but they helped him more then any cat could dream of. I bet he's in peace knowing he made so many happy and loved

    • @lynseychinnery5707
      @lynseychinnery5707 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here! When she saw that awesome piece of art you can see that just hit her heart so hard and that's what hit me; I've been there many times over the years, it's never easy but it's always worth the pain since I know they had the very best with me.

  • @vicbensonuk
    @vicbensonuk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +768

    Anyone who says "they're just a cat/dog or whatever..." has never truly loved an animal. So sorry for you Safiya and Tyler, he was your fur baby and you gave him an amazing last few years and all the love and care he wanted. Now, excuse me whilst I go cry and hug my dog.......

  • @Odinson930
    @Odinson930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2779

    People who criticized your coping mechanisms to handle Crusty’s deteriorating condition had no right to do that. Having a pet die is painful. Humor isn’t meant to be mean or spiteful; it’s so we can laugh, and that’s exactly what you did.
    Rest In Peace Crusty, you will be missed.

    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Well said!

    • @ladylovelylocks
      @ladylovelylocks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Laughing, is a very positive way to cope. She tried not to cry, to be positive and light. I don't think its wrong to cope that way, In fact, it's a very healthy way to cope. I don't think crusty would be happy, to see his parents crying and completely broken. Instead we should celebrate that his in heaven, playful, and exicted there. Its so nothing is sad, heartbreaking, and difficult.

    • @pupperpalace2363
      @pupperpalace2363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I had a puppy named bella and we only had her for about 6 or 8 months but she still had an impact when she died i could not stop crying for like 1 month

    • @kris778
      @kris778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Especially because people make stupid jokes (and often a little dark) about their own pets all the time !

    • @s_mai8970
      @s_mai8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Fr. The things like "how are you still alive" are simply coping mechanisms. I hate that people pretend they know exactly how you should be feeling and say when they've only seen glimpse of their lives through a screen. I lost a cat to a fatal disease. She was a strong little angel when she pushed through the "1 day left to live" up to a whole week and during the whole time I was just wondering things like how is she still alive when she's already so frail. It's all just to cheer yourself up. We know our relationship with our family more than anyone do.

  • @craftyflutist
    @craftyflutist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4940

    Losing a pet is always rough. He was such a special cat. You gave him such a good life. He is definitely watching you guys in heaven, enjoying all the food.

    • @marcushowell5898
      @marcushowell5898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Especially the sandwiches

    • @tarajoa
      @tarajoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Savetion 👑 it is funny that Crusty is in Heaven having his own feast rn, finally one of your comments that make sense 👏

    • @VynelRecords
      @VynelRecords 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True th-cam.com/video/imcVPpd-8bk/w-d-xo.html

  • @clintpotts5799
    @clintpotts5799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2470

    It’s been 8 months since I watched this and I think I cried harder than the first time. RIP crusty.

    • @Ichigo-HKC
      @Ichigo-HKC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same!!

    • @auqoaakiauo9603
      @auqoaakiauo9603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @charityselick
      @charityselick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm bawling rn my kitty is 20 and getting skinnier b y the day. Rip crusty!!!

    • @bluhtane
      @bluhtane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @brooklynstuckart7543
      @brooklynstuckart7543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep rewatched it again and it hits just as hard

  • @sallyjustus7944
    @sallyjustus7944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    “He was only a cat, but he was human enough to be a great comfort in hours of loneliness and pain” -written on a small tomb stone from 1910. Sums up Crusty pretty well too

  • @elenasimone2773
    @elenasimone2773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3851

    he's not even my cat and i'm crying, he wasn't "just a cat", he was a friend and a companion who got you and tyler through some really tough spots, and i genuinely hope that he's having an amazing time in the kitty afterlife and watching over you guys

    • @charlottescott3496
      @charlottescott3496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      i could not stop crying when i saw this vid

    • @nicolebailey9084
      @nicolebailey9084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I wasn't expecting to cry. I love how she told his story.

    • @Person-bp7qk
      @Person-bp7qk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It got me near the end, I lost my oldest cat last year pretty fast and I still hurt so of course when I saw how they reacted to the artwork I had some tears in my eyes as well.

    • @nikky1858
      @nikky1858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      While hearing Safiya voice cracking, my eyes started to water more.

  • @NaomiVictorias
    @NaomiVictorias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18855

    This is literally the definition of ‘you don’t choose cats, they choose you’ 🥺
    I’ve got tears in my eyes watching this. I lost my cat in 2020 and I miss him everyday - I’m so glad you give Crusty as much love as he gave you 🤍

    • @bree101angel
      @bree101angel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I admit that I cried too. I lost one of my cats very suddenly as well in January.

    • @NaomiVictorias
      @NaomiVictorias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@bree101angel I was in floods by the end 🤭 sorry for your loss!

    • @bree101angel
      @bree101angel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@NaomiVictorias Thank you. My condolences on yours as well.

    • @livfellows5960
      @livfellows5960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @DaraJill
      @DaraJill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I firmly believe the best cats are the ones that feel like they "cosmically" come to you. My cat had been in the shelter for less than 24hrs when I went to adopt. Had I gone the day earlier as I was planning she wouldn't have been there yet.

  • @jazzy3120_
    @jazzy3120_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    Knowing Crusty waited until you guys moved and were situated; where he knew you would be okay, to find peace is just beautiful. He loved you guys so much. I've put this video off for so long and I'm still bawling like a baby..

  • @Pansyleia
    @Pansyleia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1692

    "Do you think we can do this without him?" That. That summarizes the pain and sadness of loosing "just" a cat.
    Hell, I did handle it pretty good until the painting.... Then, the rest of the video was blurred by tears....
    Rest in peace, Crusty, you got the best family.

  • @revoltedray
    @revoltedray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2819

    It's so sad that she feels the need to say, "I know he's just a cat" because he wasn't JUST a cat. That was her bestfriend and I know if I ever lost my dog I'd be broken. I feel so bad for people who say "well, they're just an animal" because they'll never understand the bond you gain

    • @MonikaMonikaaD
      @MonikaMonikaaD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Truly

    • @neonblkhole
      @neonblkhole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts

    • @Last_kids_on_Earth_fan
      @Last_kids_on_Earth_fan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yap

    • @Last_kids_on_Earth_fan
      @Last_kids_on_Earth_fan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep*

    • @karlamedina856
      @karlamedina856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It’s so true I used to say that to people when I lost my cat but then I realized that no he was Familly a companion through thick and thin and will be forever loved :) animals are a life just like us and can impact us just like other people do

  • @anastasiamariediaries
    @anastasiamariediaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1242

    I cried my eyes out! Rest in peace Crusty Boy. You were so loved.

    • @beliztola7177
      @beliztola7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/hogkKnRYS9g/w-d-xo.html

  • @lawn_clippings4life
    @lawn_clippings4life ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Crusty was never just a cat. Crusty was the crustiest, grumpiest-looking little old man any of us could ever ask for. He deserved a whole documentary.

  • @CelieCandy
    @CelieCandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2393

    i started sobbing when Safiya voice cracked. every pet owner knows how much impact of losing one of their family members. he was not “just” a cat, he was a family and a best friend. RIP Crusty ❤️

    • @tulsikanodia
      @tulsikanodia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Dude, same. Starting tearing up, if the video had gone on for even a lil bit more I’d have cried.

    • @honeydays
      @honeydays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I had to wait a few weeks before watching it because I knew I was going to cry I’ve cried twice now

    • @Jamangel
      @Jamangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes literally in tears 😞 rip crusty

    • @Jamangel
      @Jamangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@honeydays yes😞

    • @imjordanhanzon
      @imjordanhanzon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Saaaame

  • @amyzieba5050
    @amyzieba5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1456

    I was crying but when Saf started crying in the voice over I started sobbing. The amount of love in this video is incredible. You two gave Crusty the best years of his life. He’s not just a cat, he was a part of your family. He will be so dearly missed

    • @brooklynn6916
      @brooklynn6916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I started crying at the art piece but then was like hyperventilating crying when she started crying in the voiceover

    • @popejamie
      @popejamie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brooklynn6916 same 😭

    • @PandaMom9230
      @PandaMom9230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Got all teary hearing his story. Ugly cried when she got emotional.

    • @lady_stog
      @lady_stog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too 😢

  • @GothStocking
    @GothStocking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    Don't you ever dare to say "he was just a cat" and put down your feelings of your loss. You're allowed to grieve a pet that was your companion for many years. I sincerely believe Crusty had the best possible golden years of his life with you guys. ❤

    • @chantellelandon85
      @chantellelandon85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely. There's a lovely poem that is indeed about a dog. But tbh it applies to all pets it's called just a dog. And it talks about how dogs are special and people who say it's just a dog, Don't understand and Never will. It's a lovely poem.
      The same sentiment can apply to a cat a rabbit or any animal. No animal is ever just a.... They're family, they're our furry friends and companions and sometimes all we have in the darkness.

  • @justnobodytocareabout
    @justnobodytocareabout ปีที่แล้ว +307

    "maybe he knew that we needed him." That broke my heart, but it's so true... crusty will be missed ❤

  • @michalgarner1382
    @michalgarner1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1736

    not me crying over an internet cat I never met.
    but seriously saf and ty: you two gave him the best six years of his life, I'm sure. losing a pet is really hard, keeping both of you in my thoughts.

    • @mejutakemi51
      @mejutakemi51 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/dyOBsVxM9Z8/w-d-xo.html

    • @veroniicagu
      @veroniicagu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😟

    • @TheGinaChan
      @TheGinaChan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crying over pets should always be ok

  • @SoniasWay
    @SoniasWay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    You shouldn’t be apologizing saying “it’s just a cat”. He was a big part of our lives. Cats are as much a family member as humans. He had a good run

  • @Waterflame
    @Waterflame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3083

    There's no such thing as "just a little cat" when he's a member of the family. RIP Crusty. I hope you are both able to lean on each other in this time of mourning, and know that there are thousands of us mourning with you.

    • @laurasimon3323
      @laurasimon3323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. Even if your pet is a jumping spider, a lizard, a cat, or dog, they are family no matter what.

    • @beliztola7177
      @beliztola7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/hogkKnRYS9g/w-d-xo.html

  • @andbree1014
    @andbree1014 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I know that I'm a little late to the party, but this hit so close to home. When I was in kindergarten, we got a kitten. She made it through everything with me. About three months after I graduated from college, she passed away, about a month shy of her like 18th or 19th birthday. It's been almost ten years and I still think about her and I still miss her. They're not just a pet, they're a friend, they're family.

    • @rionka
      @rionka ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True 💜

    • @nomoretwitterhandles
      @nomoretwitterhandles 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm also a bit late to the party, despite being a Saf fan since she worked on Buzzfeed! I knew this video was going to destroy me, so I've been delaying the inevitable... and I definitely sobbed through this one.
      I've also had a cat pass away about 11 years ago, but not due to age; it was more like, she disappeared one day and came back with the most random, gut-wrenching problem that's too disgusting for me to talk about here. We ended up having to put her down the next morning. I even swore at my dad for the first time because, at the time, I didn't think he cared enough that my cat was dying. Looking back, I know he just didn't know how to handle seeing his child grieve so hard. But at the time, I would've sworn at anyone--my parents, the president, God, whoever--if it meant she got to live for one more day. Even now I miss her.
      Anyway, my point is that you're absolutely right. Pets are absolutely our family. You never stop grieving over family, but you cry less as time goes on. Our pets deserve that much.

  • @Sara-without-the-h
    @Sara-without-the-h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    NEVER say “he was just a cat”, NEVER dismiss your feelings, animals become family…😿 Rest In Peace Crusty!

    • @roseFairy601
      @roseFairy601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah people that don’t see pets as family did not have pets

    • @jennaye8142
      @jennaye8142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Completely agree. The bond we have with our cats and other pets is the same bond we have with our loved ones. The same love. Love is just love, afterall.

  • @Kate-n2310
    @Kate-n2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2579

    Don’t apologise for grieving. He’s not “just” a cat, he was your family. I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing him with us ❤️

  • @aprilclinton2317
    @aprilclinton2317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1292

    He wasn’t “just” anything. Crusty was family, still is. You can still do this, both of you can. It just might take you time, and you take the time you need. You’re human. I’m so sorry about Crusty, but he’s the best boy always and forever. We all love you so much.

    • @tiffanyescamillaaa
      @tiffanyescamillaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crusty was family I cried watching this when my dog passed away I did a native hair cutting ritual that my native dad did on me because we both agreed she was family

  • @roh8727
    @roh8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I just re-watched this and I can't stop crying. I hate the fact that Safiya felt like she had to say "it's just a cat" but honestly, if you've had a pet in your life, you know they are not "just an animal". They are family. Losing a pet will forever be one of the toughest losses a person can go through.

  • @jdethcreations1740
    @jdethcreations1740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    I lost it at the art piece. Bless his little heart, he was the perfect vessel of love. Rest in purrs, Crusty.

    • @MoonSt0n3
      @MoonSt0n3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Safyia crying at the art made me cry so much

    • @ILuvAyeAye
      @ILuvAyeAye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@MoonSt0n3 Yes, and Tyler crying. The first dog I ever had just passed away, I really loved how brave she was to put this out here. My little sister actually commissioned a friend to paint a picture of the dog, and of my current cat. I love the art so much.

  • @lexaena
    @lexaena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    Losing a pet is the weirdest pain, because we know their lives are so much shorter than our own, but we love them enough for many lifetimes. Crusty was a part of your family, and by extension, our family as your youtube fam. RIP little buddy, I hope you're gettin all the turkey cuts you can handle while waiting for Saf and Tyler.

  • @MariaEduarda-mp9kr
    @MariaEduarda-mp9kr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    The fact that you decided to do a roadtrip so that he could be left out of his transport box and near you two the whole time is one of the sweetest things ever

    • @koi.in.pond3149
      @koi.in.pond3149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did the same thing with my cat when traveling. She passed last year. Kidney failure.

    • @MariaEduarda-mp9kr
      @MariaEduarda-mp9kr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@koi.in.pond3149 that's sweet

  • @RnR369
    @RnR369 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I just rewatched this and I still shed a tear, a whole year later and a half later. WE MISS YOU CRUSTY!!!

    • @erinrenee980
      @erinrenee980 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gets me everytime 😢

    • @rionka
      @rionka ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same ❤

  • @KristenK78
    @KristenK78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1509

    Started crying at the art, which is PERFECT. He wasn’t just a cat, he was family, and this video tribute is beautiful. Never apologize for loving Crusty and giving him the best golden years.

    • @coppereos
      @coppereos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me too. Got through the first part but then lost it. 😭

    • @heyamberray
      @heyamberray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      haha oh man, I lost it at the picture as well.

    • @MrsLiddell
      @MrsLiddell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I lost it at the painting too! 😭😭😭

    • @foolishdonut
      @foolishdonut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. Really shot me in the heart

    • @Jamangel
      @Jamangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah me too😞 rip crusty

  • @mamajin8035
    @mamajin8035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    One thing I’ve learned over the years is it’s never “just a cat” it’s a best friend, it’s family. I’ve lost pet birds and while it seems so little from the outside, your relationship with crusty was deeper then we’ll ever know.

    • @mamajin8035
      @mamajin8035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WHY DO I ALWAYS GET BOTS ON THIS CHANNEL OMFG

    • @alicebthegachaweirdo8378
      @alicebthegachaweirdo8378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In 2015 our cat Magnus died after being ran over by a car. He meant so much to me and my sisters, he really was our little prince. I still miss him so much and I wish he were here still. ❤

    • @devakipurohit7363
      @devakipurohit7363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely spot on

  • @jadewalker4844
    @jadewalker4844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    Crying my eyes out this whole video. It’s never “just a cat” they’re a friend and member of the family. My old man likes to come up and lay near me when I’m upset, they care about us too I believe. Crusty got to live his last years in the lap of luxury with both material things and the love from you and Tyler and it looks like he loved y’all just as much.

  • @Rose62415
    @Rose62415 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He wasn't just a cat. He was your family and a great friend. Pets choosing to live with and love us is a super special bond. I'm glad you guys got to have that.

  • @JellyJessYT
    @JellyJessYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +861

    Rest in peace Crusty, he will never be forgotten that's for sure.

  • @scatachiel
    @scatachiel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    Me: Ok, don't cry, don't cry
    Me: *instantly starts crying*
    It's impossible to ignore how much a cat can mean to someone, no matter how crusty they are. You gave him the best golden years anyone could want, and it's obvious he loved you guys very much. I loved especially how "he was willing himself to keep going". That's a spiritful cat. Hopefully he left that resilience with you. I believe you can still keep doing this, but only if you still enjoy it

  • @ashleyb799
    @ashleyb799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    It's so weird to be so invested in a stranger, and even more so a strangers cat. I definitely cried while watching this though. RIP little old guy

    • @anoukskylar_art8375
      @anoukskylar_art8375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i was a bit teary but fine and then the last minute i heard safiya's voice crack i lost it !!!! rest in paradise crusty and may you be treated like the roman emperor you looked like ! with lots of turkey cutlet

    • @ashleyb799
      @ashleyb799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anoukskylar_art8375 that was definitely the moment they were free flowing and I went into ugly cry territory

  • @MarloweStuart_29
    @MarloweStuart_29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    When she said the vet told us to put him down I started crying because it made me think about my two cats and how I know one is 12 weeks but the other one is 8 years. You never know how much time you have left or your animal has left. It’s hard to imagine life without my animals. So everyone cherish the time you have with someone, something, or an animal. And always please stay safe

    • @macyyy1
      @macyyy1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

  • @emilyeads366
    @emilyeads366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    “Do you think we can do this without him?” Is such a real, raw question. I love my senior cat with every fiber of my being, just like you loved Crusty. He wasn’t just a cat. He wasn’t just a cat from the moment you laid eyes on him. He was your family and everything you’re feeling right now is so valid and makes so much sense.

    • @maeva2371
      @maeva2371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m literally crying so much 🥺🥺🥺

    • @maeva2371
      @maeva2371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s so sad that question

    • @maeva2371
      @maeva2371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I saw another comment saying you don’t choose the cat it chooses you

    • @maeva2371
      @maeva2371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That made me sob

    • @ghostlygena
      @ghostlygena 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      that hit me so hard too, I’ve had times recently where my cat was the only thing that kept me going. They are so special and we are so lucky to have them in our lives

  • @fighterfloyd22
    @fighterfloyd22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    Safiya crying at the art piece got me. Tears immediately.

    • @suzyq3095
      @suzyq3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too. I was already weepy and then I cried.

    • @murdertherain
      @murdertherain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The voice break at the end got me... I tried so hard!

    • @kr9807
      @kr9807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. 😭

    • @kaitlin4u
      @kaitlin4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s when it got me 😭

  • @maise8590
    @maise8590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Never say “he’s just a cat”. He was a friend and, more importantly, a family member. It’s always sad to lose someone close to you, regardless of species. The pain is real. Never let anyone make you feel bad for that.
    Rest In Peace, Crusty. You were loved by many. Now excuse me while I go hug my furry old man.

    • @sandraandrews9907
      @sandraandrews9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was more than "just a cat". 🐈 He'll never leave the two of you. God bless & RIP Crusty 🙏 🕊 🌈💔

  • @jordanhasch2544
    @jordanhasch2544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    To #teamtafiya: Crusty knew that you guys were struggling a bit, so he made a promise to himself that he was going to hang around long enough for you to come up for air. I know he's purring with delight at watching you two succeed and grow each and every day. I haven't been watching your vids for very long, but I know he's excited to see your next step.
    Love, from the Midwest, Jordan.

    • @Mellowcat.
      @Mellowcat. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I fricking love the way you put it.. a couple years ago my cat jellybean passed away and it killed me

  • @hiitsnicetomeetyou
    @hiitsnicetomeetyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1249

    Saf keeps saying that Crusty was "just a cat", but I didn't even know him and I'm crying. Cats are family too. They need love and care, and they give it back in their own way. You gave him an amazing life from the moment you met him, and he gave back to you however he could. I hope you get to meet again someday. Rest in peace lil dude ❤

    • @VolknerLightning
      @VolknerLightning 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I think she is saying that cause people with try to attack her with the argument of saying he was just an animal, we as humans forget we are just animals as well and that out existence is as worthy as their (cats, dogs, animals) existence.

    • @sloanjulia17
      @sloanjulia17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      exactly. I think the hardest thing for me to comprehend with the pet/human relationship is that our timelines are different, that’s about it. They love as hard as we do, they get as sad as we do, they’re a part of our families as much as any person (my mom considered our dog Mike a sibling 😂, she even called him Michael when he needed to be scolded and he definitely learned that when his “full name” was being used, he was in trouble). They’re so much more than an animal and I don’t think anyone who says otherwise has even been as attached to a pet the way I have been or the way Saf and Tyler are to Crusty

    • @FUNboost-lu4sp
      @FUNboost-lu4sp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Took every word right out of my mouth ❤️

  • @Zwaa
    @Zwaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +843

    First off, Rest in Peace Crusty.
    Second of all, as someone who volunteers at a cat adoption organization I think your video does a beautiful job expressing that a cat can and will give you love, regardless of their age. Just a strong pro-adopt-a-senior-cat message that I can really get behind.
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and your memorial is beautiful.

  • @aplunks117
    @aplunks117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +693

    “Do you think we can do this without him?”
    You know he will never leave you. He’ll be waiting at your door on a stack of towels when you meet him across the rainbow bridge ❤️

    • @pigeondance
      @pigeondance 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BYE your comment made me cry even harder
      you're very sweet

    • @aplunks117
      @aplunks117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pigeondance I wrote it while crying! Sorry for the extra tears ❤️❤️

  • @oscar.olg08
    @oscar.olg08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    It has been months since this video was posted, but I will still cry in the art studio with safiya every time.

    • @nicolakunz231
      @nicolakunz231 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I also loose it in the art studio when Saffie cries.

  • @lourencoborges8057
    @lourencoborges8057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Here's me, a 31yo man, crying about a cat I never met in person. That's the magic of Crusty, Saf and Tyler. We'll always remember him.

    • @kitterz8529
      @kitterz8529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. Got me blabbing hard

    • @Marijkiee
      @Marijkiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true, cats are never ' just a cat' and their love is unconditional unlike some human relationships.

    • @ExxoToxin
      @ExxoToxin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      as soon as they revealed the little art piece they made the waterworks started to go xD

  • @seraphyn22
    @seraphyn22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1983

    Safiya and Tyler - We all know their never "Just a cat" or "Just a dog" they're our family. Thank you for sharing and all fur parents know how hard it is when you lose a member of your family. A beautiful tribute to Crusty.

    • @emiliofermi9994
      @emiliofermi9994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      나도 내가 키우던 강아지가 죽었을때 너무 슬펐었는데...

    • @mikamikan1079
      @mikamikan1079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True I hate dogs but I would never say that

  • @norasmith2474
    @norasmith2474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +881

    This was a really lovely tribute to Crusty. He could've lived and died on the streets but you took the steps to make him happier and healthier. RIP Crusty.

  • @csailer2353
    @csailer2353 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    What a sweet remembrance video. I did not know Crusty's origin story, or that you guys only had him for 6 or so years. You gave him what was probably the best years of his life. You can cherish that, knowing that he chose you to spend that time with. Both of my cats were strays, and chose me, and I think that makes me appreciate them even more. Having also lost numerous pets over the years, I can understand how hard it is to say goodbye. I loved seeing all the footage with Crusty, he lives on in the digital world.

    • @jessied3696
      @jessied3696 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      About a year ago we lost a family cat. I broke so many traffic laws getting to the vet.
      My brother wept so hard. One of the saddest memories was watching him angrily dig a grave.
      But right before he died, he purred so loud and snuggled us both. He was a solid cat.

  • @zoeycaratti9023
    @zoeycaratti9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +423

    Not me crying about a cat Ive never met, he was awesome, he lived his best life with y’all, RIP Crusty.

  • @kachweena
    @kachweena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    14:00 "He was just willing himself to keep going." That got me. Hit me right in the feels. RIP Crusty.

    • @gabiluch87
      @gabiluch87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh man, I was bawling already and that killed me

  • @biggestbraty
    @biggestbraty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    16:37 Saf: "Sorry, I came to this super cool art studio and im crying"
    Me at home also crying : yea who on earth would do something like that * sniffle * * wet sneeze *

    • @elisabethgillette1367
      @elisabethgillette1367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same though! That is precisely when I lost it

    • @leidahodges2139
      @leidahodges2139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me thought out the entire video 😭

    • @idontwantahandle436
      @idontwantahandle436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too, this comment made me chuckle 🙂 thanks for the laugh

    • @adventureseeker8496
      @adventureseeker8496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know oh my gosh I could not hold back my tears at that part

    • @joey4222
      @joey4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elisabethgillette1367 Same! Not me just sitting here bawling

  • @laurachauvin2592
    @laurachauvin2592 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It took me 2 years to watch this. It's too close to home. There are not the right words to express how beautiful you two are for giving crusty so much love. Crusty was the reason why my autistic son adopted his Lucy. Lucy who lived behind a library for (we think) seven years. She decided to claim him for the three years she had left. Thank you for sharing crusty with us. We are all richer for it.

  • @huffleproud7171
    @huffleproud7171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    Not me crying over a cat I didn’t know. We’ll miss you too Crusty. Thanks for sharing him with us and for being open about your feelings.

    • @tarajoa
      @tarajoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm over here crying too 😭

  • @aaralynelise
    @aaralynelise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    i started to cry when safiya cried when she saw the painting. he wasn’t just a cat. he impacted many peoples lives :)

  • @CristalianaIvor
    @CristalianaIvor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    everyone who says "it's just a cat" truly doesn't understand how much love you can have for those little demons.
    they are family members and they give you a special kind of love only cats can give you.

    • @stephaniec3759
      @stephaniec3759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed. They are family and we love them like family. We lost our 16 year cat last November and well it still hurts. They are a part of us as much as we are them. 💜

  • @kaylavarela7215
    @kaylavarela7215 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Saf I’m crying. People don’t understand how close these pets get to our hearts. They’re like our babies. Our forever companions.

  • @dusk8771
    @dusk8771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    The fact that i'm crying over this cat- He definitely stayed until he believed you could be without him. He loved you guys, and I know you can do this without him. Even if you don't think you can, he's always there watching over you. Even if its with mild contempt :)

  • @beabarretto2526
    @beabarretto2526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    I can't stop crying. You guys gave this cat the best life. He really loved you guys and you can see it in how he wanted to be around you two. when a cat picks its humans , you know it will be a special relationship. RIP Crusty.

    • @saragreenfire4515
      @saragreenfire4515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. When a cat decides you are their human, you know it's gonna be for life

    • @maeva2371
      @maeva2371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here (RIP Crusty)

  • @ashleylabaki2872
    @ashleylabaki2872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    I’m genuinely heartbroken over a cat I never met. Rest In Peace, Crusty. You were an icon.

    • @megknitsstuff1727
      @megknitsstuff1727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. I think this is the first youtube video that has ever made me actually cry.
      Thank you for sharing him with us Safiya and Tyler. Definitely a legend.❤

  • @Harpylady269
    @Harpylady269 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think he was so chill with the move because he spent 11 years roaming free in the wild. He was a ramblin' man with the dust of the road on his boots. What an absolute champion.

  • @s.ironhart
    @s.ironhart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    “Just a (insert pet)” does not exist. He was loved, and will be missed. He was a good cat and just an amazing old man.

  • @abegley6588
    @abegley6588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    They're never just a cat. They're your best friend and child and it's always difficult when they go. He'll be in your heart forever and all of ours as well. Rip crusty

  • @sabinebruhns6632
    @sabinebruhns6632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Crusty was not just "a cat". As you mentioned, he was your little buddy, kind of an guardian angel and the best friend to both of you. He will forever have a place in your heart and that's how it should be. Your channel is his legacy and he will watch you from above and waits for you.

  • @BJDLove
    @BJDLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3417

    4 months later and I finally had the courage to watch this video. Waterworks as expected. Pets are never ‘just pets.’ We all know that. They are pieces of our hearts. Thank you for sharing Crusty with us and for giving him the best life.

    • @Mendejito
      @Mendejito 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Same same I put it off for the longest 😩

    • @defaye
      @defaye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i was finally able to watch it 😭

    • @ShareFort
      @ShareFort 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Took me 7 months and I can't even listen to the sound. Knowing me 🥲. I'll get too emotional and stop it just to cry. It's just not easy when you lose someone or even a best friend like rusty 😞. I think about it every day with my cat even though it's 3. But time tends to fly and it feels like yesterday when we got him as a kitten. Now he'll be 4 since next year is almost here 😭

    • @rezamaezamora4081
      @rezamaezamora4081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did it now, 7 months later I did not want to cry 😭

    • @kai_winchester_66
      @kai_winchester_66 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pets become part of the family so it's incredibly hard when you have to say goodbye.

  • @kimzzzzzzzzzzz
    @kimzzzzzzzzzzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    When Saf cried looking at Crusty's art piece, tears started rolling down my cheeks. I swear to God I never thought such a thing would make me cry. RIP crusty.

    • @caitlinpage
      @caitlinpage 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that really got me too.

    • @Gracewodag
      @Gracewodag 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same. That moment got me too.

    • @scarelebjd2983
      @scarelebjd2983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. As someone going through the same process and commissioning a piece of art, its a lot. It's so funny how a pet can just waltz in, take your heart and wrap around it. RIP Crusty,. He's a good cat.

    • @misseselise3864
      @misseselise3864 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same 😢

    • @ILuvAyeAye
      @ILuvAyeAye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@scarelebjd2983 I'm so glad you're commissioning the art. I turned 30 in the middle of the shutdown, right after COVID started getting bad in the US. So I was going to turn 30 while living with my cat, my little sister and her boyfriend, and I have no job, no significant other, I'm terrified for my parents who lived in NYC... I was not looking forward to it.
      But my sister commissioned a friend to paint me my roommate's dog (I lived with her and the dog for a long time, I love that dog so much), and my cat, and she surprised me with the art and a cake on my birthday. She made me turning 30 in shutdown my best birthday ever. The dog passed away very recently, and I am so glad I have the art. I hope it's a comfort for you too.

  • @TheNoteblockLizard
    @TheNoteblockLizard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1238

    This video hit me pretty hard ... especially near the end when Safiya's voice started breaking up ...
    I did the same thing for my rat, Pearl, when she passed around Christmas. I wrote a song for her, which I called "Saying Goodbye" and cried a lot while doing so.
    She might have been just a rat, but she was my first rat and she was my rat. She helped me overcome a lot of childhood trauma surrounding being afraid to allow pets close to me or to even pick them up. She was there for me all through 2020, even if all she wanted was food ...
    I'm a better person because of her and I completely understand.

    • @kiiiiiikiiiiiikiiiii
      @kiiiiiikiiiiiikiiiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Oh I'm so sorry you had to go through that! Pearl will always be with you

    • @FREDDIECASH229
      @FREDDIECASH229 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/I7OrZjDPh5w/w-d-xo.html finally it's here.

    • @carissa4081
      @carissa4081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She wasn’t “just a rat” she was someone you cared for deeply. I hope you’re OK.

    • @christinapierce873
      @christinapierce873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no pet is ever “just a…”, they are family 🥰

    • @plentymoony7706
      @plentymoony7706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is so true, its been two years since my cat passed away. flash back a year before, i talked to my therapist about missing my cat and crying so hard.

  • @meredithcarter3175
    @meredithcarter3175 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    If I may - Crusty is not “just a cat.” He’s your cat and you loved him and he matters. You don’t owe any of us an explanation or justification for how much you love & miss him. He mattered to you & he helped you through some tough, uncertain years. That’s all we, as your supporters, need to hear. Take as much time as you need. Grief never hurts less, but, eventually, it hurts less often. ❤❤❤

  • @natassjasliker7166
    @natassjasliker7166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    He wasn't "just a cat" he was your family. In tears for you. He's so lucky he found you guys, and you're lucky he did, as well.

    • @mariastella
      @mariastella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never, never, "just a cat". He was family. A friend. An unconditional love.

  • @aoielf
    @aoielf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    I'm over here crying my eyes out. This was absolutely beautiful.

    • @lucytube8857
      @lucytube8857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME

    • @bobby13855
      @bobby13855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too ✋ 😪

    • @lucilleuffelman9758
      @lucilleuffelman9758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Big cries. 💛

    • @tarajoa
      @tarajoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😭😭😭 this video reminded me of my childhood fur baby that I miss so much. I cry more for animals than I do people 😅

    • @tarajoa
      @tarajoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Savetion 👑 so you believe in an afterlife? Interesting for someone who seems to have no heart. I also have no time on my hands today, so every comment you make, I'll reply to. You buffon.

  • @Mack2279
    @Mack2279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1135

    When Safiya cried at the picture I can’t lie, my eyes welled up. Such an amazing cat, RIP baby boy.

    • @Mack2279
      @Mack2279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Okay the “can we do this without him” hit me. Now I’m legit crying
      I feel that, idk where I would be in life without my dog or if I’d even be here as dumb as it sounds it’s true

    • @Yien_57
      @Yien_57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      don't worry we all feel the same

    • @Millie_mae2342
      @Millie_mae2342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo same😢

  • @willgeorge794
    @willgeorge794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    It's been 8 months and now I feel like I'm ready to watch this video, but I'm still bawling my eyes out 😭

  • @gianna322
    @gianna322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1819

    Crusty wasn't "just a little cat". He was a loved member of your family. He was a spunky little personality and even though I never met him, I cried when I read your community post. He'll be missed. ❤️

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/HJ1SfNiJaKE/w-d-xo.html
      Finally its here.

    • @arrowversehandon2692
      @arrowversehandon2692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, especially since your life has changed a lot in the last 6 years it’s okay to view him as part of that

  • @anonymiss__
    @anonymiss__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    "... Maybe he knew that we needed him." I lost it :'( pets show us real love is not always expressed with words. RIP Crusty.

  • @annalisetholberg3458
    @annalisetholberg3458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    "'He was only a cat' - but he was human enough to be a great comfort in hours of loneliness and pain."
    This video made me cry very hard. We all love Crusty. He definitely wasn't "just a cat." I'm glad he was part of your life for the time that he was. You made him very happy.

    • @BubbleBunnyy
      @BubbleBunnyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There’s no such thing as just a cat or just a dog or just any animal. Every animal is special.

  • @rionka
    @rionka ปีที่แล้ว +11

    it's 2024 and im crying. He loved you. Thank you for giving him all the love, he knew. ❤

  • @mladylol6026
    @mladylol6026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    he wasn’t “just a cat”, he was a friend, fiend and loved old man. RIP Crusty, he’ll be missed by us all 🤍🤍

  • @wesleystolarchuk5018
    @wesleystolarchuk5018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    He wasn’t “just a cat.” He was your family, and it really shows how amazing you were that he chose you to be his family. Thank you for sharing your life with him. Now excuse me I’m gonna go bawl and cuddle my puppy 💛

  • @yukinakou2542
    @yukinakou2542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    No, he wasn't "just a cat." People with dogs always talk about how they're part of the family and more than a pet. Cats are that way too. They snuggle up into your heart the exact same way a dog does. All animals, all pets are more than pets. They have personalities and thoughts and feelings too. Crusty was a beloved soul who will be remembered by many.

    • @katherinemb5
      @katherinemb5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!

    • @Elentarien
      @Elentarien 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely this. They are sentient beings and are never 'just a. . .' I lost my kitty-companion in 2009 after a painful bout of cancer, and no joke, it was just as bad as losing a person. Thankfully this is now starting to be acknowledged, that the loss is just as 'big' as losing anyone else in you're life. The animals are never 'just a. . .' at all. They are friends, family, companions, loved ones. Their thoughts and feelings count just as much as any other person in our lives.
      Please don't feel the need to apologize or minimize how you feel about it. You two seem like you were awesome cat-guardians and took wonderful care of this little being and gave him a good life while you had him. He knew how blessed he was. Know that you did your absolute best by him and he knew it and appreciated it (cat style. :) ).

    • @jazzbuchanan8478
      @jazzbuchanan8478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely exactly what I was going to say my cat was my fur baby and meant everything to me she was not just a cat and neither was crusty.

  • @yasmineaz-zahra691
    @yasmineaz-zahra691 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i’m crying really hard when you said ‘maybe he like hanging out with us or maybe he know we needed him’ … and the fact he’s passed away when he’s sleeping, after doing the night routine normally make my tears just burst. i think he feel really happy at his last time, being with you guys… thank you for taking him in eventho he’s already old, thank you for always taking him to vet, and thank you for making him the happiest ancient cat in his golden time❤🥹

  • @cindya0212
    @cindya0212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    There is no such thing as “just a cat” or “just a dog”… Our pets are our family❤️❤️May Crusty rest in peace.

    • @immadrachett3290
      @immadrachett3290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed. I always saw Crusty as like their child. I remember seeing a random buzzfeed videos YEARS ago about Saf talking about their feral cat. Crusty was an icon just like Saf & Tyler, the best family youtube channel RIP Crusty, you were never "just a cat" you were family and trust me it isn't just Saf & Tyler that are going to be missing you like crazy. We all are

  • @artificial_goblin1953
    @artificial_goblin1953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    I'm usually not an emotional person, but when you showed the portrait of him, I couldn't help but cry. You gave Crusty such a beautiful last few years, and he loved you as much as you loved him.

    • @fleurvnrcisse
      @fleurvnrcisse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      im glad they adopted crusty too, he had a good life with saf

  • @sosewnknits
    @sosewnknits 2 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    “Just a cat” girl to me he was just a stranger on the internet and I’m bawling my eyes out! I can’t imagine what y’all are going through but I hope things are looking up. RIP Crusty. ❤️

    • @briannap691
      @briannap691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same tho. I lost it when she teared up on the audio

  • @nlr92054
    @nlr92054 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Not me watching this 2 years later and still crying 😭

    • @annagtace
      @annagtace 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      me too

  • @cristyhernan6806
    @cristyhernan6806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +734

    There’s no such thing as “just a little cat, [dog, etc]”. Animals are sentient, breathing feeling creatures with their own personality and quirks that become part of the family. I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @livenitup_de
      @livenitup_de 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

    • @whitneyd6827
      @whitneyd6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I had a pet bird who was killed at 15 and could've lived 10 more years and people always say "it's just a bird." Pets are never "just" anything. He was with me from ages 3-18, I couldn't remember life without him. I feel sorry for people who can't feel that depth of emotion for animals.