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The story of the fiance sleeping with the father. I shows you how scummy his father was by going home and telling his wife their son was an abuser, when he knows his son has video evidence of what they did.
Yup, I was sitting here thinking "ok this is bad so far but some time away in consoling would fix this so why - Jesus christ he got the cat killed? Fucking irredemeble." Legit my active thought process
That's what I was thinking too. OP, Diana and the third ex were victims of Dave's ineptitude and Avery wasn't going to stop until he was locked up or dead. And guess which one it came to? Dave is responsible for this s#!t show getting out of hand because he thought he was protecting Avery from feeling abandoned.
The problem was that he was trying to be Avery's friend instead of his father, Avery ended his own life though, and the OP has never heard from her ex husband in years, she wants nothing to do with him anymore
I do wonder if Avery’s poor treatment of OP was because she said she wouldn’t be his mum, nor would she act like it. I do love kids but I’d make it very clear to my partner’s child I’m not trying to replace their mum. If they want to view me as a second mum they could, but I respect their relationship with their mum. It’s possible OP’s words left Avery feeling abandoned from the get-go. If OP had been a little kinder with her words or let Avery view her as a motherly figure, I wonder if things would’ve went differently?
@@crazyminegamer2339 That's what I wondered as well, especially since his own father was rarely ever actually available for him if he spent most of the day working only to basically pass out shortly after getting home.
When the op of the last story told that he was always overweight and hungry all the time I felt something odd with all of this. It finally clicks with him being neglected by his parents. I'm happy he's in a better place now.
The guy who caught his dad screwing his fiancee had a 3rd update. Time passed and he started getting better, he met with his mom and she apologized for what happened and they took first steps to being good again. She kicked his dad out with the fiancé after the video was shown to her and apparently the fiance is pregnant and doesn't know if it's his or the dad.
I'm legitimately glad the OP was able to reconcile with their mother after the fallout since I believed out of all the burned bridges I thought the mother deserved a bit of leeway considering the amount of regret she had after the fact. Of course that wouldn't be possible without the video evidence that OP that was, if anything, the main reason they still get to have a relationship with their mother is because they decided to record everything the moment walked into the house to find 2 of the closes people in their life cheating. They're strong I give them that but I hope things get better for them in the future and restore some semblance of the past relationship with their mom.
Therapy isn't about what the therapist thinks is going on with you. It's you telling the therapist and the therapist guiding you to why you might feel that way and how to resolve it. Start hiking. You need to be out in the woods
Didn't God also command that adultery is a sin, ask him about that, sorry but it's his fault he's a cheater and if he's willing to do it once he'll do it again save your self of the heart ache. Your not alone I got your back ❤😊
Adultery ranges from remarry (yes even as a widow/er) all the way to actually cheating. Jesus said marriage is literally giving you to someone. Divorce is not meant to be a thing. Literally if you have any doubts or unsure on someone DONT MARRY.
Actually...the bible states that divorce is allowed if either spouse was unfaithful. So this idea that it's a sin is true..but people like to leave out the part where it mentions adultery and how that would be considered grounds for divorce. :)
@@ItzPubby What are you talking about,cheating is a sin,and Christians who are not arrogant or make their religion their personality allow the divorcing if he cheated even Jesus allowed it,but people forgot about that
Yeah. Parents tried nipping OPs weight in the butt when they still could. He was so stubborn and got to almost dying in his sleep. Then realized “oh shit it’s not just shallow I’m actually dying”
Sorry to bring up religion but if this is Catholic stuff.. his sin does not give her a debt to pay, his confession to a Priest does not force her to clean up his sin. I'm glad she is divorcing him and I hope the baby is adopted out to someone who isn't evil and cruel. If not he might turn into Claude Frollo.
there’s a pattern in the stories this episode. everything starts making sense in the second half of the story. i couldn’t understand why avery was able to get away with half of what he did. it was because his father enabled him, which has now contributed to both of his divorces. the weight loss guy’s story makes a lot mores sense when his parents’s negligence and their creation of an environment that made his obesity pretty much inevitable come into the picture.
You have to love yourself enough to leave and he is not a true man of God or he would not have cheated and anyone who wanted to just forgive and forget should have put themselves in your place
9:54 fun fact: that's not what the verse says "God will never let you be tempted beyond what you can bear" which means something more along the lines of God will always give you an escape when you are burdened with more than you can bear.
Story 1: Avery was a monster and the trash took itself out. After he intentionally kidnapped OP’s cat and intentionally abandoned it at a high kill shelter, I lost any sympathy for Avery. His parents were failures and responsible for everything Avery did. Story 2: OP’s ex is a narcissistic monster and should be outed to the entire community as an adulterer and a spousal abuser. OP needs to severe this cancer from her life. Forgiveness in this situation is weakness, anyone saying otherwise is either a flying monkey or a floormat in denial. Lastly, an obstinate ex cannot stop a divorce. OP can look up the grounds for divorce, leave for a year, then file a petition for divorce and serve the petition through the sheriff or even notice by publication if OP leaves the state. If OP’s ex doesn’t participate, oh well, just file a motion to hold the hearing for divorce on a motions day and finish it. Story 3: OP should post the video on social media with the ex and the sperm donor tagged and send it to their friends, family, and coworkers. OP needs to go thermonuclear. OP should never forgive El, the sperm donor, nor the egg donor. What they did is unforgivable. Story 4: OP’s parents are within their rights to force their kid, a minor, to the fat camp.
Its Ok for the kid to be fat if that is what he wants. What wont be OK is for him to expect others to take care of him when he gets to where hes to sick to care for himself.
You were under no obligation to stay with an unfaithful spouse according to the Bible. There are consequences for adultery, like a broken marriage. How dare the husband hide behind the Bible. That behavior was extremely manipulative.
...I'm 34 years old, 6'7" and weigh 230lbs. The kid who's 275lbs was SEVERELY unhealthy and in real, actual, physical danger. Glad he started working on it.
I didn’t finish the video yet but I just wanna point things out For chubby op about medication, I understand how he didn’t want to take sth that he didn’t truly know the benefits. Doctors should be the one explaining to him (not only for medication but fat camp too!). If he truly understood the benefits and the risks of his health at that point. It would be easier.
Although I don’t like ultimatums that kid needs to get a reality check because he’s projecting and ruined your relationship between you and your family get him out and get a divorce
Im overweight, thanks to a combo of health issues, medication, and internal hardware, health misdiagnosis is super common in us and it can make our weight problems worse (shocker!) Im 5ft2 and weigh around 200 pounds now at 30. Lots of my issues are blamed on my weight when in reality the issues are to blame for my weight. (Im also AFAB which makes my situation different from that kiddo but the whole weight issue is soooo much more complex than people think.)
Best thing I can recommend as someone working on losing weight. When it comes to the physical activity side, start small. Do your best to try and find small bits of physical activity that you can enjoy, even if it's just a walk around the block a few days a week. Food is the fun part. Experiment with some new healthier meals. Again, the most important part is to find something you like. Now for medical. During your next visit, it doesn't hurt to ask for more options when it comes to the medication you take and see if there is something that won't contribute as much to weight gain.
@@kensprivateinvestigation2128 I've actually cut off one of the meds that, despite being weight neutral, was packing on pounds. I was nearly 250 on that med. Some of the other meds I can't get off because they're the only weight neutral option that works for my chronic pain after back surgery in 2019. I've got rods in my back that affect my ability to move, so I do short walks (one corner to another on my street) because that's all I can handle without my mobility aid, which I try to use as little as possible for normalcy's sake. I've also got a binge eating disorder, I can go a day or two without eating then the third day I'm stuffing my face with everything in reach.
@@Lem.ons_ me? Excuses? Explanations. There's a thousand reasons to be overweight. I'm overweight due to multiple factors, and I also live with a dude who's morbidly obese simply due to his not giving a fuck about himself. It's a complex issue that isn't one size fits all, that's all I'm saying.
Agreed, I'm actually underweight and have been dealing with that all my life. I'm just tired of all the comments you can expect when you're outside the normal range. Like if you can't afford enough food or you're too depressed to eat or maybe you happen to stress eat snacks that don't really add weight to you, of course you'd be underweight, I don't need another "just eat more hamburgers" comment or be reminded of the issues that can come from it.
My mother sent me to 3 fat camps all of them border child abuse the first one I went to I broke my ankle and they refused to take me to the hospital 20 years later I still have a hard time with my ankle the second I was SA more than once these camps are he'll you can't force a child to diet go to camps and other things my relationship with food was ruined until my early 20s just like a drug addiction you can't force someone to change they have to want to do it for themselves
The cheating husband should look into what GOD says about cheating. And, what the spouse is allowed to do. She can, in fact, divorce him, for that. Divorce is permissible where sexual immorality occurred.
In story 3 I kinda feel bad for the mom?? Like she trusted her husband, and OP hadn't even so much as sent her a text telling her what happened so of course when he rolls up 2 people the mom already trusts have got their cover story down already, she's gonna come out pissed. OP should have sent the video on his way over or something because idk how he didn't see that the two sneaky manipulative liars were gonna sneak and be manipulative and lie to his mom. I feel like in all this they only have each other and he shouldnt have taken his anger out on her when from her perspective it's "oh my poor husband and my future DIL, how did I fail as a mother,,, wait omg he's a dirty cheater AND I've lost my son for litterally no reason because I didn't know"
OP did try to contact his Mom. She turned her phone off after what her hubby told her. That's also why she came out of the house blazing on OP. OP didn't give the details of what all she said. Just that she said things he never thought he would hear from her. OP didn't give her a chance after he gave the video. OP was already to far gone to consider that Mom wouldn't have ever went off like that had she known the truth from the get go.
The day it happened he should have called invto work, state that their was a family emergency and went straight to his mother. If he had done it then his mother would have known the truth from the start and the father would not have been able to return home. But we must remember that he was in shock and the father was a deceitful low life that would creep with his future dil so of course he would be a good liar.
"Losing five to ten years of being old" Yeah, NO. it's not five to ten years of your old life, its more, and sometimes, if you get the luck of the draw (sarcasm on luck) it cugs your life by half.
Eh, the kid clearly had some profound mental illness. Not saying that excuses anything, but it doesn't seem like the mother was the cause of it. Indeed, his focus was largely on his father and any relationships he had. That has nothing to do with her unless she was feeding him that poisonous belief, which doesn't sound like it was the case. She and his father/OP's ex should've gotten him treatment, though, or more effective treatment when whatever they were doing obviously failed so miserably.
Ngl, listening to the last story, when OP was saying he was happy with himself as he was (obese) i called it as a lie. A lot of people with obesity hate themselves but will delude themselves into believing theyre happy as is, because they doing what makes them happy (eating junk food). Im glad he was able to make the change before he could have potentially lost himself in his sleep.
The 3rd story is mood boosting. However, it leaves me fusterated. I am 300 lbs, enjoy hiking, ride my bike to and from work regularly, as well as to get groceries, and stick to a moderately healthy diet. I have been even 300 through all of that. I love hiking and doing nature photography as a hobby. I really wish with all that I would lose more weight. My diet is mostly meat, fruit, and vegetables.
If you are a woman, it is worth talking to a doctor who specializes in weight management for women. In many cases like yours, there could be major hormonal or other issues that affect your body’s ability to lose weight. It happened to several of the women in my family. Wishing you the best :)
The fat kid's story i can see both sides of. His parents want him to be healthier and he likes his body. Honestly id say try the camp, you can still have some junk food just try to enjoy the camp and work on it. And if it doesn't really work out, then thats fine because look at Gabriel igelases aka fluffy. Hes a fat comedian who is also kinda eating on a diet too. My advice is to try to meet halfway without sacrificing everything. Edit: I was listening but not paying attention that much apparently, whoops
Man, he's 280 pound at 14 years old, when his parents can still try to force him to treat his body better, and he's actively sabotaging his own health. The more he spoke, the more he sounded like an addict, believing the drug doesn't hinder his life style, that he can handle just fine since he can (still) do what he likes and is "active", he doesn't care about future health problems... I'd use reverse psychology, honestly: every meal would be a mukbang (Google it!) until he either be resonable or reach 600 lbs. By then "Eric Cartman" would be 18 and on his own to solve the problem, including medical bills. PS: Have been on diets most of my life, do exercise, control my food, but have anxiety spikes and lose control. Family genes don't help either. I understand what is to think like him, been there, done that, regreted bitterly.
For anyone like the 15 year old sees this.. You can do self aqua therapy to start and that will let you walk without gravity hurting you. If you are ashamed of your body, you can get a tailor to make you a swim shorts and pants. Ladies can get a "burqini" which covers you from your ankles to your wrists, and some comes with a swim skirt if you want it. You can then exercise in the pool.. careful though as your swimsuit and body will feel much heavier when you get out, but you'll be okay in a few minutes.
That last story.. I have struggled with the opposite problem in terms of weight. Both in terms of actually eating and putting weight on. Its rare if any that I actually feel hungry. ( Even then I admit I am not sure if its hunger or something else that I feel. I have struggled with understanding what I feel since some things that had happened to me when I was a kid. ) Different struggles, yes.. But it is something that makes me think of how sometimes we do not fully see how bad it really is till you get a serious health scare like that person did. ( For me I know why I am the way I am, its understanding the other bits that tend to cause problems for me. )
14 years is a pretty big gap, questionable if they were in contacts before but I think that a 25 year old is definitely old enough to make decisions for herself and should know what's good for her.
@@weeble_wobble2.0 Nope. It's inappropriate in this case. Someone who's barely a "proper" adult at 25 getting with a middle-aged man who turned out to be a neglectful prick.
@@gajendrasinghchouhan7877 She is old enough to understand relationships, sure, but that's still too old and inappropriate. He turned out to be neglectful and predatory, unsurprisingly.
@@user-fe8gx3ie5v Idk how to respond to your "too old and inappropriate". Yeah while he did turn out to be bad but that doesn't mean everyone gonna be same, some people are genuinely attracted to older people which is normal, nothing is inappropriate about this tbh, she was interested, he was interested too.
So in the last story op was just lying about the heart attack? He calls it a misdiagnosis twice but in the last update admits in the heading he had a heart attack and that he is still taking statins?
I’m pretty sure he just assumed a misdiagnosis. OP was so stubborn about how he was perfectly fine that he didn’t listen to what his body was telling him. When he started getting healthy, he seemed to accept that he did have a heart attack at 15 and started doing better.
To the chubby OP. As the fat person from my own past I can only say: Change comes from within, you need to want to change. I had to hit 124kg to get to rock bottom after always being in pain constantly, having skin sores and pimples never healing, had sleep apnea that got worse, as well as slowly problems cleaning myself as well as getting fluids in my legs - it was THAT bad - I'm brutally honest there. I was being denied at a clinic for Eating Discorders and being told by a ED therapist without a bypass I'll never loose weight, actually took her words as fuel for me to cling on. Lost 42 kilo since 2022 and even though it got harder to loose now I still keep on it. For heavily overweight people I can just say: try more lentils and LCHF, go on walks and do light and easy stretching routines. Tiny walks first then longer ones over time. I wasn't able to move around my house without a break at the start, now I walk the length of several subway stations without breaking a sweat. And start slowly integrating these changes, you want to form habits and not force yourself on these things. Learning to cook is essential but it is fun once you started and stuff tastes edible. Don't deprive yourself of things you like but know are not good for yourself. Just...in smaller and rarer portions. I still eat out, I still consume sweets but very rarely. And I am fine. I stopped thinking about these things by now. Also water. Drink more water and if possible black coffee instead of milk one. Hard at the start but at some point it tastes good. I vow for that xD The last time I felt that alive and happy about my body was when I was 10 years old and that is sadly not exaggerated. I can finally do stuff again and be a fun friend to be active with. Sometiems it needs time to realize what you want for yourself but thinking about food all the time is sadly not really right. I know that well as an emotional eater who got her support and happiness from food instead of myself and my environment. I will always recommend therapy. Maybe depth psychology therapy first to figure out where this comes from. If therapy is out of your options there are the Overeater-Anonymous. Becuase yes, food can be an addiction and it might be the worst to catch too. I hope OP can realize he is worth to be happy and also healthy and that these few missing years in the future DO matter when you get there. I thought that way too. To anyone who might be relating there. I believe in you, you are all worthy of love, happiness and well-being.❤
It's stories like the second that just pisses me off. Like her whole town, family, and husband is why so meny people hate us Christians. #1 in the Bible it is said that adultery is a sin. It is also in the Bible that whenever a family is blessed with a child it is from the mother herself. Not from a dead affair partner the husband had no reason to have an affair with. It is also said that you should forgive others. But God never said that you should forgive others but stay around the person who hurt you. These people are using the word in terrible ways. Especially because this never happened to them. I hate when a Christian does wrong to another Christian they use the Bible as like a ball and chain. Taking no responsibility for their actions and claiming God would want it that way. If God really wanted us to stay around people who would drag us down he take people out of relationships that are terrible in the first place. I hope she didn't lose her faith because of the crappy person her husband is and the basic abuse of the gospel her town runs under.
Your religion is just a cult designed to let men do what they want. It's so sad that she continues to stay in the cult instead of breaking free entirely
The fat camp story is sad. They were lucky they weren’t sent to one of the abusive camps. Some of the health stuff is exaggerated. For example: my stepmother is fat and apparently losing weight will solve her chronic bronchitis. No. No it won’t. But most of the exaggeration is in the doctors attributing everything to weight and ignoring any other symptoms. It’s how other health issues go under the radar until it’s too late. This also happens with other lifestyle illnesses. Some people are naturally thin and eat junk and sit around. They’re at a crazy risk for heart disease and diabetes and the like and doctors don’t look for it. In the end, take care of yourself as much as you can. Regardless of weight , you can get sick from poor habits. That’s the danger of the discrimination. Please stay safe y’all.
The story where the fiancée cheated with the dad, I hate how OP reacted to his mom's tirade. She had been lied to, but her reaction was entirely understandable given the information she had. Yes, she could've (and should've) given OP a chance to explain himself before bringing the hammer down, but to essentially disown her instantly over this is extremely unfair and just hurts them both.
In story 2 it was literally never mentioned the dead mother was her sister anywhere but the title and she acts like it was a stranger who died not her sister so I feel like it actually is fake
You can't force fat people to lose weight. I know. Because I am fat. And I have lost weight before. But you need to want to do it. Forcing a person to change their life completely because trying to lose weight is a challenge. You can't force someone to lose weight
Most drs will tell you that you'll need bariatric surgery. You don't. You need one of those new techs. Sono Belle and I'm not sure what the other one is called Sono Bello is a freezing technique that that destroys the fat cells and help with skin elasticity. Loose skin will be hard psychology
No, not the story about Avery and the OP's cat! I can't listen to that again,. I want Avery in locked away in jail with a bunch of muscular cat lovers!
What did Jesus say if you couldn't keep your eyes off another women get rid of them that's what he said so he most not be that into his religion if he cheated
A lot of the time (especially in my country) people get away with murder for many reasons, police suck and tend to victim blame where I’m at, could be what happened to her?
This is the stupidest one of these I've ever seen. SHE should have divorced that man for allowing his ADULT SON to treat her this way. The cat thing?!?! Wtf.
My cousin was huge and overweight her whole life, she started to work out cause she had gotten a trainer and she also got surgery to remove fat and skin. She said it changed nothing in her life and she gained the weight back fast but she was able to keep it steady and not be overweight like before, so no loosing weight doesn’t change a thing.
Okay the second one sucks, but I don’t think it’s cool that he cut off his mom, especially since she lost her husband and now her son? He jumped the gun on that. And yeah, it sucks that she accused him, but it’s not like she knew her husband was a lying chest when he told her that story. He says that they were super close, so why not give your mother some grace?
What is this parenting??? stabbing or any attempt to attack with weapon -> straight trip to re-education facility cat incident -> mental hospital appointment and no electronics for at least a month god What are these people mentally doing, at cca 20/21 they should be able to live solo, find a job/part time + education and be able to "survive" meanwhile they are throwing tantrums at what is almost adult age here (18) Maybe it's good you have 21 y.o. since these seem to grow a bit slower when it comes to brain, like damn
If someone doesn't want to be "improved" by other people's metrics, then it's their prerogative to refuse and deny attempts at coercion, manipulation, shaming, and other harmful tactics. He seems reasonably intelligent and eloquent, and applied peaceful non-compliance in a practical way, which is something the vast majority of people, child or adult, refuse to do. Most people who face manipulation, coercion, shaming, and hostility react with active hostility or at least aggressive pettiness. It is possible to manage one's weight in a healthy and constructive way without the input of people whose entire careers seem built around negative tactics like using shame and coercion to force teens with weight problems to submit. The important thing with weight issues is managing one's health and body in healthy ways. No one ever feels better when they're SHAMED or coerced or manipulated into thinking they're less-than until they're skinny. Fat camps are not as notorious as anti-gay conversion camps, but most of the methods (Shame, coercion, torture) are the same. Good on this kid for reacting in a way that sends the message that he will not be coerced, manipulated, or shamed into compliance with other people's evaluation of what he SHOULD be.
For the first part, the camp stuff is... Well intentioned but still fucked up. You can't force something like that on a teenager. As another commentor said, "Change comes from within". To start his healthy lifestyle, he needs to understand why it's dangerous and take baby steps towards his own personal goals. I can understand why a teenager would feel unloved if they were suddenly pushed into something without any warning or consideration, like they aren't good enough the way they are. For the rest, I am so proud of OP! Congratulations!
why is it so hard for people to leave others alone if they are happy. if the kid is happy fat then leave him be. its the same as gay camps. stop trying to force change on poeple who dont want it.
I’m sorry but he should forgive his mom at least he should see it from her point of view she didn’t know until he told an showed her so they are kinda in the same boat the difference is that she was married to his father for years so she wouldn’t think 🤔 oh my husband is cheating on me with my sons soon to be wife she trusted his father but I feel bad for both his father f***** up his relationship with his mom
Fat camp would be such a help for you. They have therapists and you need an adult to talk to. You have an eating disorder. You just said that your are fat because you want to avoid shallow people. Enjoy the camp. Enjoy meeting the other kids that like you whose parents want to get rid of the kids for a while. Make new friends. You aren't spending time with your parents that don't want to spend the time with you and go meet kids like you that do want to e around you. If you need to fill your suitcase with junk food learning socialization is a good thing. Use this against your parents well I went to camp when I didn't want to you should want yo do this because that makes us even
Damn, I don't mean to victim blame but why the hell would she marry this man when he made it clear he wouldn't protect her. Her husband didn't stand up for her when he made that atrocious speech at their wedding. Her husband didn't do anything when his son killed her cat. A pushover indeed. But girl, the red flags were there. And you stupidly chose to ignore every single one and said I do.
Avery is not right in the mind, if he's still alive he should get help. The weight losing story at the end... so you still lose weight even though you're against it. Ha.
After a first post, I thought the kid was a psychopath. The second and I thought he just wants to die. He pooled through wonderfully, despite being so young and depressed at the time.
The 15-year-old. It really is important to focus on being healthy. I don't think he realizes he could have a heart attack at a young age. My father was 26 for his first. I feel so bad for him. I think it would be a good idea to get him to see a dietician: they can help him create a plan, and a cardiologist: will monitor his heart to make sure there is no/little damage. This really sounds like an insane situation. I hope he and his parents come to a reconciliation. Ok. The parents need a wake up call. They damn well better apologize and make amends
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I thought this sounded familiar
O wait I read it wrong nvm❤
the way I wrote it was dumb that's on me haha
@@ReallySparked why was your voice so deep this video
Diana left Dave because he wouldn't parent. His poor choices killed his kid in the end.
His mother giving up on him was also a contributing factor.
The story of the fiance sleeping with the father. I shows you how scummy his father was by going home and telling his wife their son was an abuser, when he knows his son has video evidence of what they did.
What?
@@TheWheelman298 What didn't you get from that?
If you kill someone’s cat, or indirectly do- you are irredeemable in my eyes.
Agreed. And what you do to my cat, I'm doing to you.
Part of me is curious if he watched John Wick at some point. We all know what happens when you mess with his dog.
Yep human garbage, glad he's not breathing the air the rest of us need.
Yup, I was sitting here thinking "ok this is bad so far but some time away in consoling would fix this so why - Jesus christ he got the cat killed? Fucking irredemeble."
Legit my active thought process
They say, if you can do it to animals then you are one step away from doing it to people....
Omg, Avery is horrible!!! That poor cat 😢😢😢
Yeah, that's sociopathic behaviour. Kid needs help, but I'm not sure he deserves it.
As an Avery. I do not claim this wretch. I would treat that cat with respect.
Avery is DOA
@@egyphon Good.
*was
Story 1: I suspect that Avery was actually mentally ill and Dad burying his head in the sand is why things got to this point.
That's what I was thinking too. OP, Diana and the third ex were victims of Dave's ineptitude and Avery wasn't going to stop until he was locked up or dead. And guess which one it came to? Dave is responsible for this s#!t show getting out of hand because he thought he was protecting Avery from feeling abandoned.
The problem was that he was trying to be Avery's friend instead of his father, Avery ended his own life though, and the OP has never heard from her ex husband in years, she wants nothing to do with him anymore
I do wonder if Avery’s poor treatment of OP was because she said she wouldn’t be his mum, nor would she act like it. I do love kids but I’d make it very clear to my partner’s child I’m not trying to replace their mum. If they want to view me as a second mum they could, but I respect their relationship with their mum.
It’s possible OP’s words left Avery feeling abandoned from the get-go. If OP had been a little kinder with her words or let Avery view her as a motherly figure, I wonder if things would’ve went differently?
@@crazyminegamer2339 That's what I wondered as well, especially since his own father was rarely ever actually available for him if he spent most of the day working only to basically pass out shortly after getting home.
Some people are just defective garbage.
I don’t have any remorse for Dave as it was his fault for allowing Avery to get this bad all because he wanted to be his friend over a father
avery is not an spoiled brat
HE IS A FREAKING PSYCHO
* was
He's fertilizer now... much more useful now.
Avery sounds like the kind of person that would use an automatic to play Russian roulette with. Not all handguns are equal
Story 1: Dave should be charged with accessory
Add 3 counts of reckless endangerment
When the op of the last story told that he was always overweight and hungry all the time I felt something odd with all of this. It finally clicks with him being neglected by his parents. I'm happy he's in a better place now.
The guy who caught his dad screwing his fiancee had a 3rd update. Time passed and he started getting better, he met with his mom and she apologized for what happened and they took first steps to being good again. She kicked his dad out with the fiancé after the video was shown to her and apparently the fiance is pregnant and doesn't know if it's his or the dad.
Thanks for the update, I felt it needed an additional update and what you've added helped.
I'm legitimately glad the OP was able to reconcile with their mother after the fallout since I believed out of all the burned bridges I thought the mother deserved a bit of leeway considering the amount of regret she had after the fact. Of course that wouldn't be possible without the video evidence that OP that was, if anything, the main reason they still get to have a relationship with their mother is because they decided to record everything the moment walked into the house to find 2 of the closes people in their life cheating. They're strong I give them that but I hope things get better for them in the future and restore some semblance of the past relationship with their mom.
Therapy isn't about what the therapist thinks is going on with you. It's you telling the therapist and the therapist guiding you to why you might feel that way and how to resolve it. Start hiking. You need to be out in the woods
Didn't God also command that adultery is a sin, ask him about that, sorry but it's his fault he's a cheater and if he's willing to do it once he'll do it again save your self of the heart ache. Your not alone I got your back ❤😊
Adultery ranges from remarry (yes even as a widow/er) all the way to actually cheating. Jesus said marriage is literally giving you to someone. Divorce is not meant to be a thing. Literally if you have any doubts or unsure on someone DONT MARRY.
Actually...the bible states that divorce is allowed if either spouse was unfaithful. So this idea that it's a sin is true..but people like to leave out the part where it mentions adultery and how that would be considered grounds for divorce. :)
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What are you talking about,cheating is a sin,and Christians who are not arrogant or make their religion their personality allow the divorcing if he cheated even Jesus allowed it,but people forgot about that
Yeah. Parents tried nipping OPs weight in the butt when they still could. He was so stubborn and got to almost dying in his sleep.
Then realized “oh shit it’s not just shallow I’m actually dying”
Sorry to bring up religion but if this is Catholic stuff.. his sin does not give her a debt to pay, his confession to a Priest does not force her to clean up his sin. I'm glad she is divorcing him and I hope the baby is adopted out to someone who isn't evil and cruel. If not he might turn into Claude Frollo.
I think there was mention of the ex being a pastor, so not Catholic.
there’s a pattern in the stories this episode. everything starts making sense in the second half of the story. i couldn’t understand why avery was able to get away with half of what he did. it was because his father enabled him, which has now contributed to both of his divorces. the weight loss guy’s story makes a lot mores sense when his parents’s negligence and their creation of an environment that made his obesity pretty much inevitable come into the picture.
I have heard story 2 before on another channel, and I still love that burn about the mistress not being there anymore 😅😅😅
You have to love yourself enough to leave and he is not a true man of God or he would not have cheated and anyone who wanted to just forgive and forget should have put themselves in your place
Second story: he slapped you, OP. There is no coming back from van, it will only get worse and worse and worse as the years go on.
Avery is a psycho. That poor poor cat-smh. And shame on Dave. He’s a pos. NTA OP.
Avery passed away and nothing of value was lost.
Actually an improvement.
9:54 fun fact: that's not what the verse says "God will never let you be tempted beyond what you can bear" which means something more along the lines of God will always give you an escape when you are burdened with more than you can bear.
The dad in the first story was so useless and enabling it probably would have been better had he not been around his kid.
Story 1: Avery was a monster and the trash took itself out. After he intentionally kidnapped OP’s cat and intentionally abandoned it at a high kill shelter, I lost any sympathy for Avery. His parents were failures and responsible for everything Avery did.
Story 2: OP’s ex is a narcissistic monster and should be outed to the entire community as an adulterer and a spousal abuser. OP needs to severe this cancer from her life. Forgiveness in this situation is weakness, anyone saying otherwise is either a flying monkey or a floormat in denial. Lastly, an obstinate ex cannot stop a divorce. OP can look up the grounds for divorce, leave for a year, then file a petition for divorce and serve the petition through the sheriff or even notice by publication if OP leaves the state. If OP’s ex doesn’t participate, oh well, just file a motion to hold the hearing for divorce on a motions day and finish it.
Story 3: OP should post the video on social media with the ex and the sperm donor tagged and send it to their friends, family, and coworkers. OP needs to go thermonuclear. OP should never forgive El, the sperm donor, nor the egg donor. What they did is unforgivable.
Story 4: OP’s parents are within their rights to force their kid, a minor, to the fat camp.
If it makes you feel any better, the first story has an update, the original poster divorced the man and last she heard of Avery, he killed himself
Story 2 Churches like cover ups.
Avery stabbed OP 😮😮😮😮
Its Ok for the kid to be fat if that is what he wants. What wont be OK is for him to expect others to take care of him when he gets to where hes to sick to care for himself.
Got to love that kind of Christians... True, true Ah... And a pastor... Of course...
You were under no obligation to stay with an unfaithful spouse according to the Bible. There are consequences for adultery, like a broken marriage. How dare the husband hide behind the Bible. That behavior was extremely manipulative.
"Now I'm dating a supermodel from Canada"...
🤔
...and then everyone clapped.
Pretty sure that was a joke, fam.
Yes. Also a long lost relative passed leaving him a cool 5 million.
...I'm 34 years old, 6'7" and weigh 230lbs. The kid who's 275lbs was SEVERELY unhealthy and in real, actual, physical danger. Glad he started working on it.
He slapped you girl I'd leave that very day
I didn’t finish the video yet but I just wanna point things out
For chubby op about medication, I understand how he didn’t want to take sth that he didn’t truly know the benefits. Doctors should be the one explaining to him (not only for medication but fat camp too!). If he truly understood the benefits and the risks of his health at that point. It would be easier.
*I Heard All These Posts Before!*
_But I think the 3rd post should have some updates now._
Not sure. Since I haven't heard that post in a long time.
Although I don’t like ultimatums that kid needs to get a reality check because he’s projecting and ruined your relationship between you and your family get him out and get a divorce
Im overweight, thanks to a combo of health issues, medication, and internal hardware, health misdiagnosis is super common in us and it can make our weight problems worse (shocker!) Im 5ft2 and weigh around 200 pounds now at 30. Lots of my issues are blamed on my weight when in reality the issues are to blame for my weight. (Im also AFAB which makes my situation different from that kiddo but the whole weight issue is soooo much more complex than people think.)
Best thing I can recommend as someone working on losing weight. When it comes to the physical activity side, start small. Do your best to try and find small bits of physical activity that you can enjoy, even if it's just a walk around the block a few days a week.
Food is the fun part. Experiment with some new healthier meals. Again, the most important part is to find something you like.
Now for medical. During your next visit, it doesn't hurt to ask for more options when it comes to the medication you take and see if there is something that won't contribute as much to weight gain.
@@kensprivateinvestigation2128 I've actually cut off one of the meds that, despite being weight neutral, was packing on pounds. I was nearly 250 on that med. Some of the other meds I can't get off because they're the only weight neutral option that works for my chronic pain after back surgery in 2019.
I've got rods in my back that affect my ability to move, so I do short walks (one corner to another on my street) because that's all I can handle without my mobility aid, which I try to use as little as possible for normalcy's sake.
I've also got a binge eating disorder, I can go a day or two without eating then the third day I'm stuffing my face with everything in reach.
Why keep making excuses I don’t get it. You wouldn’t need to make excuses if you thought it was alright
@@Lem.ons_ me? Excuses? Explanations. There's a thousand reasons to be overweight. I'm overweight due to multiple factors, and I also live with a dude who's morbidly obese simply due to his not giving a fuck about himself. It's a complex issue that isn't one size fits all, that's all I'm saying.
Agreed, I'm actually underweight and have been dealing with that all my life. I'm just tired of all the comments you can expect when you're outside the normal range. Like if you can't afford enough food or you're too depressed to eat or maybe you happen to stress eat snacks that don't really add weight to you, of course you'd be underweight, I don't need another "just eat more hamburgers" comment or be reminded of the issues that can come from it.
My mother sent me to 3 fat camps all of them border child abuse the first one I went to I broke my ankle and they refused to take me to the hospital 20 years later I still have a hard time with my ankle the second I was SA more than once these camps are he'll you can't force a child to diet go to camps and other things my relationship with food was ruined until my early 20s just like a drug addiction you can't force someone to change they have to want to do it for themselves
Being neglected is being abused
The cheating husband should look into what GOD says about cheating. And, what the spouse is allowed to do. She can, in fact, divorce him, for that. Divorce is permissible where sexual immorality occurred.
In story 3 I kinda feel bad for the mom?? Like she trusted her husband, and OP hadn't even so much as sent her a text telling her what happened so of course when he rolls up 2 people the mom already trusts have got their cover story down already, she's gonna come out pissed. OP should have sent the video on his way over or something because idk how he didn't see that the two sneaky manipulative liars were gonna sneak and be manipulative and lie to his mom. I feel like in all this they only have each other and he shouldnt have taken his anger out on her when from her perspective it's "oh my poor husband and my future DIL, how did I fail as a mother,,, wait omg he's a dirty cheater AND I've lost my son for litterally no reason because I didn't know"
OP did try to contact his Mom. She turned her phone off after what her hubby told her. That's also why she came out of the house blazing on OP. OP didn't give the details of what all she said. Just that she said things he never thought he would hear from her. OP didn't give her a chance after he gave the video. OP was already to far gone to consider that Mom wouldn't have ever went off like that had she known the truth from the get go.
The day it happened he should have called invto work, state that their was a family emergency and went straight to his mother. If he had done it then his mother would have known the truth from the start and the father would not have been able to return home. But we must remember that he was in shock and the father was a deceitful low life that would creep with his future dil so of course he would be a good liar.
10:00 the bible also says that cheaters and the affair partner dont deserve to find love
"Losing five to ten years of being old"
Yeah, NO. it's not five to ten years of your old life, its more, and sometimes, if you get the luck of the draw (sarcasm on luck) it cugs your life by half.
Dianna literally did deserve to feel bad about her son's passing. She made that monster.
Eh, the kid clearly had some profound mental illness. Not saying that excuses anything, but it doesn't seem like the mother was the cause of it. Indeed, his focus was largely on his father and any relationships he had. That has nothing to do with her unless she was feeding him that poisonous belief, which doesn't sound like it was the case. She and his father/OP's ex should've gotten him treatment, though, or more effective treatment when whatever they were doing obviously failed so miserably.
She has little control of what type of person he became.
Hope she joins him.
Holy cow. Avery sounds like a classic psychopath.
Ngl, listening to the last story, when OP was saying he was happy with himself as he was (obese) i called it as a lie. A lot of people with obesity hate themselves but will delude themselves into believing theyre happy as is, because they doing what makes them happy (eating junk food). Im glad he was able to make the change before he could have potentially lost himself in his sleep.
The 3rd story is mood boosting. However, it leaves me fusterated. I am 300 lbs, enjoy hiking, ride my bike to and from work regularly, as well as to get groceries, and stick to a moderately healthy diet. I have been even 300 through all of that. I love hiking and doing nature photography as a hobby. I really wish with all that I would lose more weight.
My diet is mostly meat, fruit, and vegetables.
If you are a woman, it is worth talking to a doctor who specializes in weight management for women. In many cases like yours, there could be major hormonal or other issues that affect your body’s ability to lose weight. It happened to several of the women in my family. Wishing you the best :)
The fat kid's story i can see both sides of. His parents want him to be healthier and he likes his body. Honestly id say try the camp, you can still have some junk food just try to enjoy the camp and work on it. And if it doesn't really work out, then thats fine because look at Gabriel igelases aka fluffy. Hes a fat comedian who is also kinda eating on a diet too. My advice is to try to meet halfway without sacrificing everything.
Edit: I was listening but not paying attention that much apparently, whoops
Man, he's 280 pound at 14 years old, when his parents can still try to force him to treat his body better, and he's actively sabotaging his own health. The more he spoke, the more he sounded like an addict, believing the drug doesn't hinder his life style, that he can handle just fine since he can (still) do what he likes and is "active", he doesn't care about future health problems...
I'd use reverse psychology, honestly: every meal would be a mukbang (Google it!) until he either be resonable or reach 600 lbs. By then "Eric Cartman" would be 18 and on his own to solve the problem, including medical bills.
PS: Have been on diets most of my life, do exercise, control my food, but have anxiety spikes and lose control. Family genes don't help either. I understand what is to think like him, been there, done that, regreted bitterly.
For anyone like the 15 year old sees this.. You can do self aqua therapy to start and that will let you walk without gravity hurting you. If you are ashamed of your body, you can get a tailor to make you a swim shorts and pants. Ladies can get a "burqini" which covers you from your ankles to your wrists, and some comes with a swim skirt if you want it. You can then exercise in the pool.. careful though as your swimsuit and body will feel much heavier when you get out, but you'll be okay in a few minutes.
Avery would be getting what he deserves if he kept it up
That last story.. I have struggled with the opposite problem in terms of weight. Both in terms of actually eating and putting weight on. Its rare if any that I actually feel hungry. ( Even then I admit I am not sure if its hunger or something else that I feel. I have struggled with understanding what I feel since some things that had happened to me when I was a kid. )
Different struggles, yes.. But it is something that makes me think of how sometimes we do not fully see how bad it really is till you get a serious health scare like that person did. ( For me I know why I am the way I am, its understanding the other bits that tend to cause problems for me. )
25-year-old being with a 39-year-old 🤢🤢🤢 Pastor making the clergy not look good.
14 years is a pretty big gap, questionable if they were in contacts before but I think that a 25 year old is definitely old enough to make decisions for herself and should know what's good for her.
Age gaps aren’t a big deal when they’re both CONSENTING ADULTS.
@@weeble_wobble2.0 Nope. It's inappropriate in this case. Someone who's barely a "proper" adult at 25 getting with a middle-aged man who turned out to be a neglectful prick.
@@gajendrasinghchouhan7877 She is old enough to understand relationships, sure, but that's still too old and inappropriate. He turned out to be neglectful and predatory, unsurprisingly.
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Idk how to respond to your "too old and inappropriate". Yeah while he did turn out to be bad but that doesn't mean everyone gonna be same, some people are genuinely attracted to older people which is normal, nothing is inappropriate about this tbh, she was interested, he was interested too.
So in the last story op was just lying about the heart attack? He calls it a misdiagnosis twice but in the last update admits in the heading he had a heart attack and that he is still taking statins?
Tbf, he said that he hadn't understood a lot at the time, being a kid. He didn't want to accept what his body was trying to tell him.
I’m pretty sure he just assumed a misdiagnosis. OP was so stubborn about how he was perfectly fine that he didn’t listen to what his body was telling him. When he started getting healthy, he seemed to accept that he did have a heart attack at 15 and started doing better.
To the chubby OP.
As the fat person from my own past I can only say: Change comes from within, you need to want to change. I had to hit 124kg to get to rock bottom after always being in pain constantly, having skin sores and pimples never healing, had sleep apnea that got worse, as well as slowly problems cleaning myself as well as getting fluids in my legs - it was THAT bad - I'm brutally honest there. I was being denied at a clinic for Eating Discorders and being told by a ED therapist without a bypass I'll never loose weight, actually took her words as fuel for me to cling on.
Lost 42 kilo since 2022 and even though it got harder to loose now I still keep on it. For heavily overweight people I can just say: try more lentils and LCHF, go on walks and do light and easy stretching routines. Tiny walks first then longer ones over time. I wasn't able to move around my house without a break at the start, now I walk the length of several subway stations without breaking a sweat.
And start slowly integrating these changes, you want to form habits and not force yourself on these things. Learning to cook is essential but it is fun once you started and stuff tastes edible.
Don't deprive yourself of things you like but know are not good for yourself. Just...in smaller and rarer portions. I still eat out, I still consume sweets but very rarely. And I am fine. I stopped thinking about these things by now. Also water. Drink more water and if possible black coffee instead of milk one. Hard at the start but at some point it tastes good. I vow for that xD
The last time I felt that alive and happy about my body was when I was 10 years old and that is sadly not exaggerated. I can finally do stuff again and be a fun friend to be active with.
Sometiems it needs time to realize what you want for yourself but thinking about food all the time is sadly not really right. I know that well as an emotional eater who got her support and happiness from food instead of myself and my environment. I will always recommend therapy. Maybe depth psychology therapy first to figure out where this comes from. If therapy is out of your options there are the Overeater-Anonymous. Becuase yes, food can be an addiction and it might be the worst to catch too.
I hope OP can realize he is worth to be happy and also healthy and that these few missing years in the future DO matter when you get there. I thought that way too.
To anyone who might be relating there. I believe in you, you are all worthy of love, happiness and well-being.❤
It's stories like the second that just pisses me off. Like her whole town, family, and husband is why so meny people hate us Christians. #1 in the Bible it is said that adultery is a sin. It is also in the Bible that whenever a family is blessed with a child it is from the mother herself. Not from a dead affair partner the husband had no reason to have an affair with. It is also said that you should forgive others. But God never said that you should forgive others but stay around the person who hurt you. These people are using the word in terrible ways. Especially because this never happened to them. I hate when a Christian does wrong to another Christian they use the Bible as like a ball and chain. Taking no responsibility for their actions and claiming God would want it that way. If God really wanted us to stay around people who would drag us down he take people out of relationships that are terrible in the first place. I hope she didn't lose her faith because of the crappy person her husband is and the basic abuse of the gospel her town runs under.
Your religion is just a cult designed to let men do what they want. It's so sad that she continues to stay in the cult instead of breaking free entirely
The fat camp story is sad. They were lucky they weren’t sent to one of the abusive camps.
Some of the health stuff is exaggerated. For example: my stepmother is fat and apparently losing weight will solve her chronic bronchitis. No. No it won’t. But most of the exaggeration is in the doctors attributing everything to weight and ignoring any other symptoms. It’s how other health issues go under the radar until it’s too late. This also happens with other lifestyle illnesses. Some people are naturally thin and eat junk and sit around. They’re at a crazy risk for heart disease and diabetes and the like and doctors don’t look for it.
In the end, take care of yourself as much as you can. Regardless of weight , you can get sick from poor habits. That’s the danger of the discrimination. Please stay safe y’all.
Avery wanted his parents to get back together, and OP was in the way.
The story where the fiancée cheated with the dad, I hate how OP reacted to his mom's tirade. She had been lied to, but her reaction was entirely understandable given the information she had. Yes, she could've (and should've) given OP a chance to explain himself before bringing the hammer down, but to essentially disown her instantly over this is extremely unfair and just hurts them both.
In story 2 it was literally never mentioned the dead mother was her sister anywhere but the title and she acts like it was a stranger who died not her sister so I feel like it actually is fake
The boy is dangerous and needs to be locked up.
What do you mean that after being stabbed it wasn’t enough for a police report?
Your husband has no trouble finding humble servants. Let him go. You need to see the birth certificate
I would of walked away at the wedding ceremony
You can't force fat people to lose weight.
I know. Because I am fat. And I have lost weight before.
But you need to want to do it. Forcing a person to change their life completely because trying to lose weight is a challenge. You can't force someone to lose weight
Most drs will tell you that you'll need bariatric surgery. You don't. You need one of those new techs. Sono Belle and I'm not sure what the other one is called Sono Bello is a freezing technique that that destroys the fat cells and help with skin elasticity. Loose skin will be hard psychology
First story.
The son needs to be in jail for murdering a cat.
No, not the story about Avery and the OP's cat! I can't listen to that again,. I want Avery in locked away in jail with a bunch of muscular cat lovers!
Ultimatums don’t usually go well…
Looks like the Avery problem solved itself heh
What did Jesus say if you couldn't keep your eyes off another women get rid of them that's what he said so he most not be that into his religion if he cheated
I call bullshit. She was stabbed but not enough evidence?
A lot of the time (especially in my country) people get away with murder for many reasons, police suck and tend to victim blame where I’m at, could be what happened to her?
Avery parents are the horrible. Both of them. He is not under 10 yo.
woke up choking. sleep apnea
This is the stupidest one of these I've ever seen. SHE should have divorced that man for allowing his ADULT SON to treat her this way. The cat thing?!?! Wtf.
Man the op in the story where he loosing weight is wholesome
never back down....
My cousin was huge and overweight her whole life, she started to work out cause she had gotten a trainer and she also got surgery to remove fat and skin. She said it changed nothing in her life and she gained the weight back fast but she was able to keep it steady and not be overweight like before, so no loosing weight doesn’t change a thing.
Avery’s mom is behind this.
Oh, Christians, at it again
Okay the second one sucks, but I don’t think it’s cool that he cut off his mom, especially since she lost her husband and now her son? He jumped the gun on that. And yeah, it sucks that she accused him, but it’s not like she knew her husband was a lying chest when he told her that story. He says that they were super close, so why not give your mother some grace?
What is this parenting???
stabbing or any attempt to attack with weapon -> straight trip to re-education facility
cat incident -> mental hospital appointment and no electronics for at least a month god
What are these people mentally doing, at cca 20/21 they should be able to live solo, find a job/part time + education and be able to "survive" meanwhile they are throwing tantrums at what is almost adult age here (18)
Maybe it's good you have 21 y.o. since these seem to grow a bit slower when it comes to brain, like damn
You work remote, go find someplace quiet and pretty. With very few people and learn to breathe again. Put flowers in your hair. Read good books
Look for wine walks in your new city. They are amazing and you get to meet some amazing people
If someone doesn't want to be "improved" by other people's metrics, then it's their prerogative to refuse and deny attempts at coercion, manipulation, shaming, and other harmful tactics.
He seems reasonably intelligent and eloquent, and applied peaceful non-compliance in a practical way, which is something the vast majority of people, child or adult, refuse to do. Most people who face manipulation, coercion, shaming, and hostility react with active hostility or at least aggressive pettiness.
It is possible to manage one's weight in a healthy and constructive way without the input of people whose entire careers seem built around negative tactics like using shame and coercion to force teens with weight problems to submit.
The important thing with weight issues is managing one's health and body in healthy ways. No one ever feels better when they're SHAMED or coerced or manipulated into thinking they're less-than until they're skinny. Fat camps are not as notorious as anti-gay conversion camps, but most of the methods (Shame, coercion, torture) are the same.
Good on this kid for reacting in a way that sends the message that he will not be coerced, manipulated, or shamed into compliance with other people's evaluation of what he SHOULD be.
bro the minecraft dude got frustrated and quit
For the first part, the camp stuff is... Well intentioned but still fucked up. You can't force something like that on a teenager. As another commentor said, "Change comes from within". To start his healthy lifestyle, he needs to understand why it's dangerous and take baby steps towards his own personal goals. I can understand why a teenager would feel unloved if they were suddenly pushed into something without any warning or consideration, like they aren't good enough the way they are.
For the rest, I am so proud of OP! Congratulations!
Not the cat😢
People really care more about a cat over a kid?
Because that kid is a violent subhuman
Why wasn't the monster arrested?
why is it so hard for people to leave others alone if they are happy. if the kid is happy fat then leave him be. its the same as gay camps. stop trying to force change on poeple who dont want it.
I’m sorry but he should forgive his mom at least he should see it from her point of view she didn’t know until he told an showed her so they are kinda in the same boat the difference is that she was married to his father for years so she wouldn’t think 🤔 oh my husband is cheating on me with my sons soon to be wife she trusted his father but I feel bad for both his father f***** up his relationship with his mom
Scratch my previous comment - Avery needs locking up in a prison cell.
Fat camp would be such a help for you. They have therapists and you need an adult to talk to. You have an eating disorder. You just said that your are fat because you want to avoid shallow people. Enjoy the camp. Enjoy meeting the other kids that like you whose parents want to get rid of the kids for a while. Make new friends. You aren't spending time with your parents that don't want to spend the time with you and go meet kids like you that do want to e around you. If you need to fill your suitcase with junk food learning socialization is a good thing. Use this against your parents well I went to camp when I didn't want to you should want yo do this because that makes us even
Damn, I don't mean to victim blame but why the hell would she marry this man when he made it clear he wouldn't protect her.
Her husband didn't stand up for her when he made that atrocious speech at their wedding. Her husband didn't do anything when his son killed her cat.
A pushover indeed. But girl, the red flags were there. And you stupidly chose to ignore every single one and said I do.
Avery is not right in the mind, if he's still alive he should get help. The weight losing story at the end... so you still lose weight even though you're against it. Ha.
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Wait until Avery goes after his dad. When Avery figures out that dad is the problem
Unless he's a zombie he won't be going after anyone.
After a first post, I thought the kid was a psychopath. The second and I thought he just wants to die. He pooled through wonderfully, despite being so young and depressed at the time.
The 15-year-old. It really is important to focus on being healthy. I don't think he realizes he could have a heart attack at a young age. My father was 26 for his first.
I feel so bad for him. I think it would be a good idea to get him to see a dietician: they can help him create a plan, and a cardiologist: will monitor his heart to make sure there is no/little damage.
This really sounds like an insane situation. I hope he and his parents come to a reconciliation. Ok. The parents need a wake up call. They damn well better apologize and make amends
I don’t like op just from the start chooseing between op or his own son wtf op it maybe change tho
Story 1 op is not the a hole actually
Ok OP shouldnt have said itblike that but Avery is....terrible
Time does not heal all wounds. It will teach you how to deal with those permanent wounds more appropriately.
never ever get involved with childed people
Crotch goblins are a no go.