A Foreigners FIRST Kazakh Wedding
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ค. 2024
- It was a great experience and I'm so thankful that Alina and Adilet let me film nearly everything!
My instagram: / rockyjourneys
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:00 Rules
1:59 1st Wedding
5:42 Kydalyk
7:09 2nd Wedding
13:14 Kydalyk pt 2?
17:06 My Thoughts
Жаныыыыым сол. Қазақ мәдениеті мен таныстырып жатырғаныңызға рахмет көп көп.
Are you from Kazakhstan? This is a documentary channel. I want to shoot an extensive video about Kazakh wedding. If you can help me, please reach out to me! My details are in the about section of this page 😊
Wow, if you listened all of Kazakh granny's endless speeches and survived - you are Hero)))
I'm impressed by your Kazakh pronunciation. It is much better than the pronunciation of russian speaking population of KZ. Good job!
confirmed
Exactly
Considering the fact that we use the same Cyrillic alphabet..
Айналайын, нағыз қазақ тойына барып бір демалып қайтыпсыз. Шаршаған боларсың. Видео шолуыңыз керемет екен. Әңгімеңіз сондай қызықты да күлкілі де болып шықты. Аман болыңыз!
for me, it was the most typical kazakh wedding EVER, like literally every aspect of it. Even the separate tea room haha.
1) the fat you ate was Құйрық-бауыр btw. It's the liver and fat of a sheep. Liver (бауыр) sounds like "sibling" in kazakh, and it symbolizes that two families are now together, and fat is a symbol of prosperity and money.
2) the second party is also really callrd құдалық. So you were right.
3) and bride familiy comes only after betashar, because it was typically done right after the bride comes to the groom's village (in the ancient times ofc). So bride is familiarized with the groom's village/family. And the second құдалық is when the bride's family comes after the bride after some time. After which the wedding is conducted. Nowadays, people still just keep this order.
Thanks for the explanations!
On no 2) the first part isn't "құдалық", but "құда түсу", which is done before the wedding and in essence is a proposal. The "құдалық" is done after the wedding and is a meeting of the two families, where they get to know each other
Сало?
Haha. Now it reminds me of time when I was getting married to my Spanish husband. His relatives were shocked from our traditions, especially when they had to eat head of the sheep as respected guests of the wedding. However, at the same time they were having a fun 🤩 Great explanation from your side 😊
Kazakhs do not critisize each others weddings simply because in different regions we have different traditions, so rituals and everything changes according to where the wedding is:)
Nice video!) thanks for making it)
Of course it was interesting! Wow! 😯🤯😍 I'm Costa Rican and I love every single bit of what I learn about Kazakhstan, so yes! It was super interesting to watch all this video. I loved it! ❤️
Я в столице Казахстана живу. Меня Ризабек зовут. Давайте познакомимся и будем дружить. Приезжайте в гости к нам. Мы встретим вас. И нас к себе пригласите в Коста Рику)))
@@rizabekbeksultanuly936 Ризабек шаришь
@@user-ir8bz4vc4x XD
@@rizabekbeksultanuly936RIZZABEK
You missed another important part of any Kazakh wedding on both the bride and the groom parts: " Al ende ozymis otyryp asykpai chai isheiik".... :)
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Ahahah
🤣🤣🤣👍
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 боюсь что поймут только в КЗ
😂😂
I’m so surprised how you well understood all the traditions and not making fun of it or hating! That’s so rare. And also your pronouncing is surprisingly so good!
В основном это русские могут смеяться и издеваться над чужой культурой
@@arystanbeck914 100%
@@arystanbeck914 Тагиииилллл.Интересно тут руские подписаны.У них же аллергия на амереканцев.
@@arystanbeck914 а кто это или что это русские?
@@user-gg3uh4kn9o русские шовинисты, расисты, пропагандоны. Не все русские люди, среди них много хороших, и есть среди других народов расисты и ксенофобы. Но среди русских процент ксенофобов самый высокий. Практически больше 90% русских имперцы и шовинисты, которые считают себя особой нацией которые могут решать за других как им развиваться и на каком языке разговаривать.
Every time it’s so exciting to hear about our culture and traditions from your point of view :) And I really appreciate that you pronounce correctly kazakh words and do respect our culture. I can totally understand your enthusiasm about the wedding, cause every time I’m abroad I also want to attend this cultural event, but unfortunately I couldn’t still. I guess one of the reasons is that in foreign countries people tend to get married comparably late, over their 30s.
Классно описали пооцесс!!! Все как надо! Так все зачастую и происходит! Очень все точно подмечено!!! Браво! С удовольствием Вас послушала!!!
Kazakhs love guests, and you were special guest in their wedding. Because you are foreign guest 🥰 Kazakhs called this "сыйлы қонақ" ) I think because of that they give you a speech in the weddings)
@@al1999 do you even hate them??
You explain our traditions so well and informative. I think it's very understable for foreigners. Thank you so much
aww thank you!
@@rockyjourneys OMG I CANT BELIEVE YOU ANSWERED ME
Рақмет сізге, сіздің көзқарысыңыздан біздің салт-дәстүрлеріміз одан да әдемі естілед🌷 қазақша сөйлегеніңіз - балдай
I don't like our big ceremonies and skip them, but I can't wait for my parents to come back with 'sarqyt', a bag with some piece of meat and various desserts, and you are lucky if they were put in separate bags, otherwise you may have a cookie that tastes like 'qazy'))
According to what you said in this video, it was ordinary modern Kazakh wedding. Of course, it was different long time ago, but now most Kazakhs try to follow traditions and cover at least main wedding process. Also they add something new which differ from past kazakh weddings.
@@al1999 I don’t know which city you live, but in my city kazakh people wedding is exactly the same as in this video - qyz uzatu, bet ashar, kudalyk, syrga salu etc. I’ve never been in european style kazakh wedding yet
@@al1999 i don't know why you are so proud by this, but forgetting your own culture and traditions is not okay
@@al1999 with all respect, it has nothing to do with the topic. Furthermore, in my opinion Almaty is number one city among all Kazakhstan cities where such weddings (described by Rocky in this video) are held. I was a witness of such weddings in Almaty several times
Kazakhs arguing ‘bout wedding under the english speaking video. I’ve seen all.
Actually “Betashar” is made separately from the wedding (Uilenu toi), it was in the past like this. “Kudalyk” is also made separately from Uilenu toy. Traditionally all this parties made separately from each other. However nowadays people are doing so, for minimizing expenses on parties. It’s Ok.
You were in Semey, awesome! I think you had a great time in my hometown! I really appreciate you doing everything to show our daily live, traditions and customs! Thank you!
Really amazing to know about Kazakh culture!!
Thank you so much for sharing!!
Your pronunciation of kazakh words is perfect. Thank you.
In my region on the day of the main wedding but before the event itself, bride and groom and their families and close friends all go to the mosque, where they get married by Islam traditions. Then the family leaves, but the friends stay and they go to all the famous and beautiful sights of the city to take photos. They go by cars or limousine cars which are decorated, and they make long loud signals all the way on the road, so that people know those people are getting married. They look out of the windows and wave, and people who sometimes wave back to them, make noises or just say "Congratulations!" loudly.
Other parts are almost the same as you told
Роки нағыз той мен ұзатуға барыпсың ғой =) I'm so glad that you've already seen many things during your stay here. Hope you're enjoying it :)
У вас на казахском произношение хорошее!! Рахмет!
Ол орысша тусинбейд))
Сонымен қазақша жаз, жазалмасан үйрен-оқы әйтпесе өзін жұртты мақтайсын бірақ орыс аққұлақтын тілінде жазасын
Сіз Қазақстаннансыз ба? Бұл деректі арна. Қазақ тойы туралы кең көлемде бейнебаян түсіргім келеді. Маған көмектесе алсаңыз, маған хабарласыңыз! Менің байланыс деректерім туралы бөлімде.
Видеомен бөліскеніңізге рахмет, білсем де қызықты болды!(●♡∀♡)
дұрыс, қолдаймын
Ur explanation about Qazaq wedding is so so well! I'm in shock.
thank you!
Your pronunciation of Kazakh world at so clearly. That's really cool😎
Actually Syrǵa Salu is not the part of Qyz Uzatu, it is something different, it is happens before the Qyz Uzatu, but nowadays, it is comfortable to do it together. Also about white carpet, it means like, let everything be good in new family, like actually family of wife gives their girl to the husbands family, and husbands family should be with her like with the it own girl.
Also about signing for official marriage. Usually kazakhs do it in another time, becouse it doesn't matter. But before the wedding party, young family goes to the mosque to be married by religious rules, it is like part of the wedding party also.
Omg, this is so cool, i am kazakh and i am so grateful that you made this video to everyone know about us
This was great. So different from here but with clear meaning and what a party, great job and thanks for sharing
Finally, thanks to Rocky, I started understanding all those traditions, how they are called, and they mean, and what you are supposed to do at a kazakh wedding.
This is great that you are really interested in the Kazakh culture. This is the example how the other foreigners(not just by geographic mean, but also by mental mean) should do.
I think most foreigners in Kazakhstan would like to see a Kazakh wedding :)
Thanks for the video. You do great work 👍. One of the interesting moments is MC/Tamada-organizer of toy.
Большое спасибо)))
Очень интересно посмотреть на все это со стороны иностранца)
қазақ мәднйетін жеткізгеніңе рахмет,тек қана сәттілік болсын !!!
Thank you for this cute video. It’s so venerable to know that foreigners appreciate this cultural experience ☺️
Appreciate it. About the ‘чайный стол’ (tea table), in the east and northern part of the Kazakhstan they have it, but in Almaty and some parts of the country they don’t have it sadly. It’s the best part actually in my opinion 😆
Yes I agree, my Нагашылар are from notth and I geot used to this Чайхана, byt in Almaty its not like this
The second day after wedding party( Uilenu toi), second party called "Domalak stol" literal translation "Round table" where present only kudalar (parents of bride's) and closest relatives. They're special guests. So they're having more time to get to know each other and talk.
Also in central KZ it called Qaitarma
Наконец вышло новое видео! Мы так тебя ждали
она не понимает русский язык, пишите на английском или казахском, пожалуйста!
@@al1999 вот и представители казахской "культуры" подъехали. Себя не позорь, ребенок.
Негізі менде жас кезімде аса үйлену тойларына барғым келмейтін 😅 . Бірақ қазір мен осындай тойларды сағынып жүрмін. Барса ғой деп кейде ойлаймын, өйткені бұл ұзақ болса, тойға бару , жақын адамдарыңды кездестіріп , демалу сондай керемет 😁
Ps. Ешкім сөз беруді жақсы көрмейді🤣
Тойдың да мәні сонда ғой, дос-жарандарды, ағайын-туысты көріп, сөйлесіп, көңіл көтеріп қайту.
Бір жағынан той қазақтың қалтасының соры.
My fiancé is American, I’m Kazakh:) and I will highly recommend watch this video to him😅
Аркайын жазып отырсын бұл норма сияқты.
Rocky Шымкентке келін бол!!! 😅😃😅
If you were in Western part of KZ, you would see different tradition toy or wedding. Invited around 500-600 guests.
These weddings were also during quaratine times, so they had to reduce the numbers
@@rockyjourneys oh right then. After kudalyk there is no other event I believe, but annually during the Korisu (at 14 March) Greetings as we call ( western tradition) to visit bride’s house ( Kuda and Kudagai) 😀
@@Nur-vh8ex +
You have such a pleasant voice, great pronunciation, i understand everything without subtitles 🙂
Lol that’s a typical toi, glad you were part of that iconic experience
16:58 this part explains everything why we celebrated in this way. Because before to get from one side to another one it took pretty long time and also visiting often your daughter usually was kinda abnormal thing
But nowadays that's not a problem
OH!!! that photo at the end! you look like a little girl there! very cute)
The most shocking wedding tradition for me was the American one. A wedding rehearsal. Just imagine a Kazakh wedding rehearsal 😂😂💀
Еуропалық ақсүйектерге ғана тән ба десем репетиция жасау
Awesome video Rocky 😍😍😍 that was a huge experience 👏
love ur vids Rocky, hope u'll be makin a lot of them❤
I love your videos. They are so informative. You’ve given us a wonderful opportunity to experience another culture if only for a few intriguing minutes. Thank you so much!
thank you!
I want to go to someone's wedding😭
I haven't been to there for 6 years!When I watch videos from anybody's wedding I get jealous🥺
Thank you for everything)) You are very interesting to tell. It's nice to hear from you.
Hi, we all support you from Kazakhstan
Another amazing video, Rocky! Thank you!
thanks for watching!
Kazakhs and Azeris are so similar in traditions. The Ozan with dombra is doing "Beg algishi" in order to call relatives to give some money or presents
О Роки спасибо вам за правильное объяснение, и лично вас уважаю!
Separate room for deserts it's called "shaihana". And yes, it means that wedding almost ended.
Very good video. I liked it very much. Everything is pretty well said. These events are very important for the Kazakhs. Thank you very much. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Жастар бақытты болсын 🤲🏻🎉
Күшті видио, маган өте ұнады , рахмеет Рокки 🔥😍
Классное видео, мне очень понравились , спасибо Рокки 🥳💛
Рахмет!
Той болган негизи кушти гой
I hate when you're forced to give a speech ugh gives me so musch anxiety
but it's a requirment, i guess, you can only avoid it if you're not a relative or close friend, if you're a child or if there are a lot of guests
so in a sense, if you were required to give a speech, means you are important person to this wedding c:
you also attended both uzatu and toy! i never got to go to both weddings (it's ok to go to only one of those depending on what side do you belong to, bride or groom, if you're not super close, so one wedding was always more than enough for me thank you very much 😅😅😅)
Cute Spongebob girl informing me my tradition
Thanks for your video! It is interesting to see it from a different perspective.
I am kazak, had such wedding and now I wish I never had it🤦♀️I hope my kids won't have to have this obligatory exhausting stuff and do whatever they love
Why? Tge Kazakh weedings is amazing
The gift part is actually really interesting! Also, you get a chance to go the groom's house right after the Wedding(2nd one), it's even interesting to see how they open her dowry. ( with all the clothes)
Hi , the second құдалық is actually called "qaitarma" қайтарма literally means" don't let them go or get back" which sounds a little weird but it's the event where people from the bride's side get to see the groom's family's house after the wedding . So the kudalyk and earing thing are THE kudalyk where they get to see bride's family's house , all of those kudalyk and qaitarma usually just seeing each families house ( that's why they're should be held at home ) and just getting along and seeing new people. I've read all those comments saying it's tatty shai and stuff but they're wrong , they are different things , I could explain but this is already a long ass comment. Great video btw you explained everything very well. Also I know different regions have a little differences , but I'm sure it's not tatty shai or anything like that like others saying. Thanks for the video you did great
I personally heard of that separate room for tea and desserts for the first time in this video xD
@@kirun13 separate tea rooms are always been there , it's like people who organize the whole thing choose from two options : either have a separate room for tea( so u spend less money buying all the desserts ) u just have one big table and everyone can take someone else's sit after they're finish drinking tea , which I personally believe is not practical like you can't just sit around and talk 'cause there's people waiting for u to get up , OR THE SECOND OPTION just put desserts on each table after eating all the beshbarmak and salads
Керемет баяндап бердіңиз!
РАХМЕТ!
Жигит жактагы тойдан кейінгі кудалык ,,куда күту "деп аталады
Узатудын алдындағы
,,Куда түсу", ,, Сырға салу"
Өте тамаша!
@@al1999 мүмкін жаңарту керек шығар,келисемин
Мен мына шетелдік кыздын ниетине,курметине казакка деген тамсанып турмын да
@@al1999Сонда жазып жатқан боқ сөздерін ұят емес болдыма? Бірақ ата-заманнан белгілі дәстүрлер сен үшін уят.
Қандай күшті сөйлейді
Muchísimas gracias, increíble y útil video
Рахмет балам! Тойды дурыс айттын жане шыгыста кишкене айрмашылык болады .Орыстар айтпакшы восток дело тонкое.Аман болайык. Жастарга бакыт тилеик!
As a Kazakh, I confirm all the details were describes pretty precise and in correct way. Жарайсың 😊
Thanks for such video, it was very interesting to watch our Kazakh weddings from your side)
That was insightful to watch, thanks! :)
You pronounce the word combination "Қыз ұзату"so correctly in Kazakh...
Thank you for this video ❤️
Thank you for this amazing story) 👍♥️
Ммммм как мило , как вам повезло увидеть наши традиции, вы супер👍👍👍💞💞💞
I would sit through a Kazakh wedding AND reception. I’d be kind enough to bring a gift for the bride and groom!
Thanks again
Хай Рокки. Спасибо за субтитры. Привет из Астаны❤
Thank you very much, you are a good person. Always welcome to Kazakhstan
Роки, сен де біздің менталитетімізге үйреніпсің. Сөйтіп жүріп қазақтың келіні бол.
неге бірден келін болу?
I hope Rocky will be our Kazakh Bride 👰♀️ why not 😄
Құда түсу керек или басына қалта кигізіп..
Interesting and fun to watch! 👏🏼
Really good pronunciation of Kazakh words you have, kudos!
Awesome! Great explanation!
THANK YOU IT'S VERY MUCH INTERESTING, DIFFERENT !!!!!!
Рокижан, тойдан қалма! Сені жақсы көреміз
Very interesting. Thank you for this story
Im so happy to hear your opinion
Seems like you liked the experience. I wish you to experience it as a bride) Sure, you will be nice "kelin" 🥰
In early 1990s and before that in Soviet times the Kyz Uzatu were almost nonexistent
Қыз ұзату было всегда.
@@user-hq1iu8bi6v Soviet kesinde bolmady go. Almatyda korgen emes pin
@@RTTabyn БОЛДЫ !
As well as Salem beru/salu
Wow, you caught all the details very accurately. I suppose you had an expert who explained all that for you, or maybe you are so much into our culture and did a great homework. Applauds!
hope you'll get a chance to also participate "qudalyq" after the wedding some time. It's very interesting event, especially that part where only women gather to unpack stuff, share experience and say final wishes to the bride.
Our weddings are for the GUESTS, for their pleasure only!))) As bride I only felt relieved when it was over!!!))) So did my wife!!!)))
Жаным сол,қазақша сөйлегені тәтті өзінің☺️
You explained it so well, basically facts
Wow, congratulations! Good knowledge!
Рокки, сен базар жоқсың 👍 Универде көрсем, қолыңды алармын бұйыртса🤝🤝
omg, well done! you really well understood all this wedding stuff ahahah
and also i am surprised that i am on this video (i was dancer at groom’s wedding)
Hope you don't mind being in the video!
Thank u so much for yr Video.
You are so good with kazakh pronounciation, you obviously got a good listening skills.