Absolutely I stayed for a few decades only now I could see after being out completely 3 years and will continue to count!!!! Channels like this have helped me tremendously!! I am grateful 🙏
The fog is nothing short of demonic attack. And it is so strong that I noticed I felt relief initially at discard, as if something evil had fled from me. But the narcissistic fog is so powerful it lingers on in the aftermath
@philippians4410- As you continue to heal from all areas that needed healing, the demonic fog will start to fade away but also ask God in prayer to remove the residue that’s lingering and he will answer you….. but if there’s things that need to be confessed and they are not…. The process can take longer…. Bring who you are to Gods feet, and let God remove everything that he shows you about yourself that doesn’t belong….He wants to help you to heal by showing you the areas that lead you into danger….❤
Amen. The night he beat me up i said satan get behind me..then my head went into a wall..i shook it off got up and ran out barefooted..havnt been back since..Im blessed God protected me
I gained weight. The kilograms grew very quickly. I was shocked, of course. I read that a person gains weight without overeating, accumulating fat cells as a form of armor and protection from external influences after narcissistic abuse. Now, for the first time in more than two years, I found the strength to take care of my figure and went on a light diet.
So so true. I am so glad I can now see things clearly. Mentally I am getting stronger but physically it has hit me hard aswell. Chemo session again tomorrow. Wish me luck friends. Love you all ❤️ Namaste🙏❣️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you Andrew. As a children's book author once wrote "you can't go over it... you can't go under it.... you have got to go through it". Very true in various situations in life. I say it a lot to myself. 🙏😊
Yes! Yes! Today is Day 21 NO Contact/Blocked. When you leave them your mind starts to get clarity. It's hurts so bad 😢. You're sad, frustrated, and angry with yourself! Thank you for sharing ❤ the video. Stay strong 💪 survivors.
I completely disassociate myself with the world for so many years I don't know how we survived I don't even remember my kids going to school I wasn't there for them mentally and that just almost destroys me It's been over 15 years and I'm just starting to accept reality again these people are so evil and so destructive it had to be an act of God that got me and my boys through it..Thank you Andrew ❤
Same! Once I realized I spent years locked in on my narc’s shapeshifting face did I realize I missed so much with my kids. Now I see that time as what was needed to do to protect them from the manipulative bs.
I completely hear you❤I look at photos of my children from the worst period of time with the narc ex husband and I could cry when I think of how much the narc robbed both myself and the children of those years that are supposed to be happy and carefree in childhood. We're 7 years post discard from the narc. Tolerated him dropping in when he felt like it to see the children for 6 years post separation and finally we've all been no contact with him for almost a year now that the children are older and see him for who he is.
It's bad enough to have lived through the he!! yourself, but the years lost with your kids (literally because of living in survival mode), the depriving your children of joy & the possible permanent damage it's done to them I can barely live with. I tried my best to shield them, but the guilt is overwhelming. 😢
@@DSW-dq5bx sending love ❤ I understand that overwhelming feeling of guilt for what our children have experienced at the hands of the narcissist. As you say, bad enough for an adult to go through the hell but how these narcs can put their innocent children through such trauma is vile. The only comfort I try to seek from it all is that we love, care and respect our children and aren't responsible for another person's poor behaviour or their inability to love and care i.e. the narc.
❤ I completely understand and relate , I blocked so much out . I am very happy for you that you are on your way to healing for you and your boys sending love and prayers. It’s not your fault ! You were trapped in the fog.
When I was in the fog I was looking through rose colored glasses. Once the fog lifted, I was able to see clearly how I had been treated. Never again. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
There is so much hope for you. Keep going you will find yoursel just like Andrew says.!! Getting your human back is a wonderful way to put it. Thank you!
My two cats were at times the only thing that kept me grounded and kept me going. Unconditional love and companionship and having to ensure they were fed and cared for, which got me out the door each morning. Both have now passed, one just recently 😢.
"I don't have a problem, and you need to get some medication." Famous last words. He had the loudest voice for 21 years. Not anymore! I have the loudest and only voice. I have thought of this several times now that I would love to send the new supply a thank you card for taking out the trash! (I won't really send it). I did lose myself but am slowly finding myself and it's a beautiful sunrise as the cloud/fog lifts! Stay on the path!!!❤
The abusive cycle I have just been through was extreme. My adopted son, 24, staged a shocking and brutal terrorist-style raid on our home as he moved out 6 months ago today. In two hours, we went from me preparing dinner for us in the kitchen to me being served with criminal complaints and a protective order by the police, all based on lies. He filed three charges against me. The first two were dismissed, and the third goes to court next week. These are all to impress the new supply, his girlfriend, who is totally in command. Both of them should be in psychiatric help. This happened after I had dropped about $100,000 on his education, car, vacations and many other things. He even dropped out of university to annoy me. Thanks to you, Andrew, I now realize that my son is completely out of his mind. I doubt I could have survived these 6 months without your instructive and supportive videos.
You have got to be careful when the fog lifts and you heal and see clearly because that's when the evil forces start working on another plan to try to get you trapped in some other setup. Be careful of who approaches you and who or what you get involved with. Its not all sunshine rainbows the devil is always formulating a new plan.
Yes ..just like the sun shine nows its way in evil can poor alongside or i new directions ! But dont distrust...trust yoursel first and it will poor out...👁️♋👁️
My 🐈 😻 just jumped up to cuddle while i started the video and i show him the screen and say this is Andrew and his eyes go big and his ears were moving all over the place and he seem to love it 😀 how sweet lol 🥰😍 Andrew you have another sub ❤️ 🐈 😻
I have a cat and that really just made my day there, AND Andrew’s response! ❤❤❤❤❤ Welcome to the community my fellow… I would say “cat owner”, but we all know THEY own US! 😂😂😂😂
@jennifernewton4637 hi 👋 glad it made you smile 😃 he's semi feral but is like a regular cat. He not keen on me picking him up but he will come and cuddle on his own time. He's from Bulgaria and the transport people labelled his carrier 'do not handle' he was known as the most fiery they have known 😆 😂 he's fine with me unless I try to take him out to vets then oh my goodness 😆 🤣 I love and respect his spirit and his courage and grit, even through the pain 😆 🤣 he pretty much beat me up until I gave up and said OK we'll leave it 😆 🤣 gotta love 🐈 😻 I'm going to get him to watch Andrew videos with me as he really took to it. Have a good day and give your 🐈 😻 a hug from us 🤗 🫂
I'm so thankful that I found my way out. He had my mind spinning round & round. The constant silent treatments, ghosting, value then devalue over & over...it was just awful. I'm slowly healing with no contact. Wishing everyone strength and ❤ during your journey. Thank you for another wonderful video Andrew!
when you discover who the narcissist truly is, and they figure out you know who they are.... in most cases the narcissist will discard you first, to protect their ego and suppress their shame. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
After the brutal discard, leaving me confused, lost and hurt- I started looking for answers and that is when I found out about narcissism- fog started lifting- I still have long way to go but I know I am heading in the right direction. Thank you for the videos, I am looking forward to it every day. 🙏
This is very accurate. It takes awhile to get out of the fog but persevere. Once your out, everything changes. You’ll see yourself and the narcissist clearly. You’ll see that there isn’t anything left for you so you’ll walk away. Then just keep going!
It’s like being covered by blood sucking leeches that attached to you so slowly that you didn’t notice, drawing your life force, weakening you. Once they fall or you pull them off, you are worn out. But, your blood cells will build up and slowly you will regain your energy. 😅continue to nourish yourself.
Thanks a thousand times, Andrew! Brilliant boat analogy . You don't vacillate, use no gimmicks, but deliver a "To the Point" message. Even with the majority of the fog dispersing, it still came with trying to rid myself of the trauma bond. I will say, without a doubt, Narcdaily was the "lens cleaner" when it came to clarity.👁👍🙏Namaste.
Yes, the fog will lift & the clarity will appear. The further you are out of the relationship, the more crystal clear things become. Like Andrew, I also have reached the pinnacle of indifference & healed. You can & will do it. Baby steps. One day it won't matter. It will be forgotten. Think about how far you have come already. Perhaps farther then you realize.. As Andrew said, "You were left stranded ". And now you are healing. Take everything on your heart to God in prayer. Love this video Andrew. It is very powerful, motivating, truthful and encouraging. I resonate with it completely. Love your boat & island analogy. Love your background and the sunlight☀️ filtering through 🙂. Have a good night. God bless☀️ ☀️
Once the fog lifts, and u see the truth, there is no turning back. Im far along in My journey towards indifference. Once u see the evil and u realize that you are the oppoisite. You stare into the abyss and you stand for yourself. You become narcissist kryptonite.
That’s not true. I turned back many times even after I knew who she was. I’m so codependent and have been bullied and hurt my entire life. I’m worth nothing
I've just come across your TH-cam videos and pretty much everything discussed is taking place or has taken place. Yet, I do not want to say anything and hide away and be silent instead. I realise now I was targeted and vulnerable. I am isolated and abused. I let this happen and betrayed myself from the start. (January 2014). I had never come across the term covert narcissism (CN) and I only moved to where I now live, to be near my daughter. I did not know the full extent of CN and the damage, harm and disdain for me. Or know they do not want you to have a relationship with our daughter and do all they can to end this. I do not have a roadmap and see a way forward. It has been nearly ten years and would not wish for anyone to go through this. It is crazy and cruel. I use maladaptive coping just to survive. This I know weakens my position considerably. She uses manipulation, the DARVO method and blame shifting very effectively and the flying monkeys all believed her false and fantasy version. I have normalized a very not normal life. I am drained and yet I know I need/must do something.
Try to remember who you were before you met her and find yourself again. What do you enjoy doing? Getting back to your true self is essential and a great place to start down the path 💪🍀
You'll probably go into isolation mode, which is normal & can be therapeutic while processing things, but you'll need a good support system & probably a therapist (who specializes in NPD) to be sure you don't stay stuck in that mode for too long.
Clarity is good but its also a bit scaring.When the fogg disapperas you migth stumble in the beginning but hopefully your steps leads towards a new healthy path in life ! People may se you as a strange lost one but pull on your safe belt and thriwe! 🎆🎆🎆🌪️
Yes the fog was No man's Land,all I knew I had to get away,,,,,,,(something had to go either me or the wallpaper) by,Oscar Wilde,,,,,,,,Freedom is great, 💯,t.y. ANDREW,🤗🕊️❤️🙏❤️☘️
Haven't tuned in with you Andrew for quite a while now! Watching your videos after the end of my marriage to a covert narcissist helped me more than you'll ever know! I am now nearly 2 years free, living my best life, have found love, I am so happy and have peace in my head. To anyone in the early stages, it really does get better, but it takes time and a lot of hard work, so stick with it, you've got this. So grateful to you Andrew, xx
I was as blind as a bat. Way too many red flags. She said 90% of her friends were male. She used to be on her phone whilst in bed with me with her back turned. It turned out she was texting the new supply. Thank you so much Andrew for educating me. I’m a lot wiser now and looking back I was a fool but I will never ever be put in that situation again ❤
Great message Andrew....great analogy.. When that awful fog lifts and the sun starts to shine through......you feel like jumping for joy ......for at last there is freedom and peace of mind to live life the way it should have been lived....before the interruption of the narc.
I had a sort of light bulb moment when I realized that being discarded was a compliment. Mine was a work situation, and the supply before me was someone talented, motivated, and honestly even a better fit for the position than me. If I was discarded as well, I'm in good company.
Once the fog clears you are left with so many questions wondering who really was that person that left you on that ship and why they left you. Healing is a journey to find your way back to the shore you came from and when the narcissist tried to hoover you, you tell them you will introduce them to some sharks you’ve met along the way.
I had Covid ..this forced me to slow down physically and mentally..completely went into panic mode.. yes slowed my life down ..terrified of what I was forcing myself to acknowledge that the person I had married 20 years ago was a fake and wicked…please don’t bury your head in the sand…my body took the toll of abuse…if you open up to them about this …they will NEVER NEVER take any kind even remotely to take responsibility …you have to accept their version of love or love yourself more and plan carefully to LEAVE.
Thank you Andrew ❤ Yes, the fog is a place we definitely can't see through whilst we're In it, then slowly there's a realisation that we need to get out!! I did leave after 20 years and once I did,I never looked back.
2 days ago is the 3 year anniversary for me since I seen the narc! Yay❣️ It was so hard but wow as I look back now it’s so much better and so much healing has happened in the 3 years ❣️☀️
Bravo & congrats! 5 months no contact & 2 months divorced here. Reached pinnacle of indifference when he came to pick up the last of his junk & there was NO emotion. Was like a stranger to me after 27 years. No more control over my life & the fog has lifted significantly. God is good & forever faithful!!😊
✨💖✨☀️🌿🌳🌷Thank you for shining the light on the path out of the narc fog today Andrew. What a blessing and relief to be out of that nightmare of narc darkness and crazy making. 🌪️ I remember driving around on my daily schedule with my head spinning thinking how am I going to get out of this….how do I make it stop…such turmoil! I thank God and you Andrew for helping me out. Happy to be on this side of this but with much healing to go. Not looking back at the narc, but internal healing and re-centering, rebuilding. I welcome any suggestions from the community. Thank you for this wonderful video Andrew and to the community for sharing from the heart. God bless you all as we walk this journey together. ❤️🩹 ☀️✨💖✨🌷🌿🦋🌳🌎🙏🏻✝️🕊️
Yes yes yes I lost myself for a lot of years always hoping better times lay ahead Wrong! Things only got worse After being discarded the fog slowly started to lift For years it continued lifting, inch by inch Thirty years later it is lifted The issue now is trying to forgive myself for allowing the abuse to me and my friends and loved ones. I am not sure will ever totally forgive myself My favorite movie ‘The bridge on the river Kwai’ is fantastic The British Colonel sides with the enemy in a fog, until the movie crescendo when he realizes his mistake. “He looks at the fog he has been in, and says “What have I done”? I feel like the British Colonel as I look back and say “What have I done”?
Thank you for your insightful videos, Andrew! I must comment that for many people, IF they don't HEAL their emotional trauma, they tend to repeat the same pattern over and over, just wearing a different face and having a new name!! I'm an older woman (69) who's been down that road a couple of times. After he has gone, I wait about 10 YEARS before I get into another relationship!! I've done a lot of work on myself to heal from being raised by a narcissistic father. We don't have any therapists that specialize in narc abuse healing. But I currently am in NO CONTACT mode with the most recent narc. Sigh.... Videos like yours helps a LOT though! Keep up the great work!
Out on the perilous deep Where danger silently creeps And storm's so violently sweeping You're drifting too far from shore Drifting too far from shore You're drifting too far from shore Come to Jesus today Let Him show you the way You're drifting too far from shore
Thank you Andrew! People around me still don’t understand that I’m in a fog right now. I’m loosing sleep, my key, credit card recently. Thank you everyone for your support. Is it just me or people think it’s funny when you leave a person that mistreated the relationship?
Thanks Andrew, for another amazing video. Everything you talked about resonates so well now that I'm away from my narc 'husband.' The phrases they use (on their victims), sound like they're from a textbook used in a Narc 101 class. Lol. I recognize all of them. There is a part of me that wishes I had known all of this 30+ years ago when I met him in college. However, if we hadn't been together, I wouldn't have my incredible children. They are amazing humans and I am eternally grateful for them. They (and my fur kids), are the only good things that came out of the narc nightmare. Blessings to all. Listen to Andrew, everyone. He knows what he's talking about. All the best.
Amazing, you have had at least 5000 new subscribers in the last month! Well done! The message is getting out there & there are good souls, who need guidance & introspection.
Left 2 years ago.Went back because I cared about this person. Left again because things just got worse,not going back this time! Yes things do get very clear!❤
It's such a great analogy! Definitely remember being on that boat, alone in the fog and mist. Not knowing the ex narc partner had already jumped ships. ⛵️
What a great analogy (mental picture)! And so much truth here. I wasn't on that boat very long (it was only via text and across the country and for several months), and he recently discarded me. Thank you God! Even so, boy, what an experience. And even though online, I could make out red flags all over, but stayed. What a life lesson, overall. Thank you for this guidance thru your channel.
Thank you Andrew for another great video that is so important. I love the “Run for the hills”! I wish I had known. Thank you for all your support and inspiration. ❤🙏🌻
It does take a lot of time to heal. It is very much worth doing the work. You then gain knowledge and tools to become the best version of yourself. Then work towards living your very best life,,,
It’s been 3 years since I went no contact after a 3 year on/off relationship with a super narc and some days it’s still a struggle. Thank you for your videos.
Hey there handsome! Kinda relaxing in bed… back pain 😬 GREAT video, and SO accurate! In the narc relationship you’re so confused and disoriented it’s frightening. You don’t understand why this is happening or how to FIX it. You do EVERYTHING you can to plug ONE hole in the boat, but as soon as you fix that one another pops up. 😔 When someone has you FEELING that way, it’s time to cut ties IMMEDIATELY! EXCELLENT video, Andrew… MASTER of IMAGERY 😉😘❤❤❤ Love you! Have a WONDERFUL day my friends! Love y’all too! ❤❤❤
@@Divinely_Guided444Awww, I’m sorry I missed your comment here, Sherry! I’ve been trying to keep the pain at bay by staying in bed mostly, and taking over the counter pain relief, which has been helpful, so I’m doing a bit better now. Thank you for the well wishes! Hope you’re having a WONDERFUL day! ❤❤❤❤
I week and 1 day of no contact. I honestly hope he does have a new/old supply, so he will leave me be. The last thing I said to him was, "Do not call me back." Of course he did, but it was too late.❤
Thank you for your videos, Andrew. They really help me. Whenever I get to ruminating and feeling sad I listen to your videos and I remember.... no.... hell no.... I'm in a so much better place than I was. And yes, once I went no-contact, the narcissist (my mother) hoovered me. With anyone they could find. :( I wasn't aware I had to block SO MANY PEOPLE. :( My saving grace was (aside from your videos) were my good friends whom I'd made outside of my family life. My mother literally isolated my father from all of his relatives, and as he was dying, she tried to hoover me and isolate me from my husband AND my kids. It was then I realized... oh hell no. NO ONE competes with my kids for my love and attention. NO ONE. I dropped her like a hot rock, because I am my father's karma. She isolated him from his family all my life..... villainizing them, up until his death bed. It wasn't until he was about to die, and he asked me to contact his last remaining sister, I realized all those LIES MY MOTHER TOLD ABOUT MY FATHER'S FAMILY. I am my father's revenge. I am living a wonderful life WITHOUT my mother. She recruited her greedy family members to her, leaving my father alone. Well, I am living my life away from those evil people. I escaped. So to anyone reading this, if you're married to a narcissist... for the love of your children or future children.... leave. please leave.
10:03 I understand that comment-standard narc response You need help ( their answer after you brought their bad behavior to the conversation) Thanks for the video Andrew
Good morning. I woke up feeling very lonely and vulnerable. It is day 7 of no contact. Yesterday was a good day and I was feeling strong. Right now I want to reach out to him. I won’t do it, but I am hurting.
👍🏻 Thanks! It was 2018, when I've been in a toxic relationship with a woman. She clearly was a toxic Individual. In January 2020 I have realised it all. Thanks to god! It was a painful story. But it had to be. Sorry for my bad English. 😉
Yes run for the hills if this is possible!❤🎉 You can do it..Do not give up. Do not let them win. You win anyways but please dont give up. Find support for your exit from this mess. Your nervous system will hug you for this change you make!❤😊❤
Beautiful analogy with the boat and the cabins and you were looking for the narcissist but they moved on to another boat. They will do this over and over again until eternity. The empath is better than this, it's a learning lesson and this only in the flesh. We are divine and moving towards the abundant light... Thank you Andrew
Awsome title! Maybe we can make a song out of it... Something really up beat. Something we can dance to. Its a good feeling to have your life back, man!!!!.
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
@@cherylsabin2707 well the last time I checked you are entitled to half of what was shared in the matrimony. He’s being childish by not making a civil agreement. I hope you work through this and enjoy your life :)
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So true I didn’t know what was happening at all, confused and in despair. Only as time passes could I see how he had treated me so very badly
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that perhaps was the deepest hurt for me
Absolutely I stayed for a few decades only now I could see after being out completely 3 years and will continue to count!!!! Channels like this have helped me tremendously!! I am grateful 🙏
It's hard to understand the vicious cruelty....It hurts soooo deeply
Living alone doesnt mean that we are lonely
Me, myself and I agreed on all subjects whole heartedly 💃🏻
The fog is nothing short of demonic attack. And it is so strong that I noticed I felt relief initially at discard, as if something evil had fled from me. But the narcissistic fog is so powerful it lingers on in the aftermath
Yessss👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
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As you continue to heal from all areas that needed healing, the demonic fog will start to fade away but also ask God in prayer to remove the residue that’s lingering and he will answer you….. but if there’s things that need to be confessed and they are not…. The process can take longer….
Bring who you are to Gods feet, and let God remove everything that he shows you about yourself that doesn’t belong….He wants to help you to heal by showing you the areas that lead you into danger….❤
Yea that has to be it also when I was around them I would feel a strong confusion like a demonic force spinning my thoughts
Praying for your speedy healing mental and physical🙏❤💐And protection from evil 🙏🙏🙏
Amen. The night he beat me up i said satan get behind me..then my head went into a wall..i shook it off got up and ran out barefooted..havnt been back since..Im blessed God protected me
Thank God I Got Out Alive. It was A Lot to Deal With. But. 🙏💙🙏💞💯🔥😘
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I gained weight. The kilograms grew very quickly. I was shocked, of course. I read that a person gains weight without overeating, accumulating fat cells as a form of armor and protection from external influences after narcissistic abuse. Now, for the first time in more than two years, I found the strength to take care of my figure and went on a light diet.
Sealing the door shut without fear or second thoughts has been liberating.
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Tons of these💡💡💡 start popping up out of the blue after the fog clears!
Dont give up, and your are never alone!
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Yes 💡moments have been happening more and more !
I like that!
So so true. I am so glad I can now see things clearly.
Mentally I am getting stronger but physically it has hit me hard aswell. Chemo session again tomorrow. Wish me luck friends. Love you all ❤️ Namaste🙏❣️
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you Andrew. As a children's book author once wrote "you can't go over it... you can't go under it.... you have got to go through it". Very true in various situations in life. I say it a lot to myself. 🙏😊
Good luck . Just remember you have already shown yourself what a strong person you are 👍
The chemo will heal you
Your narc caused it all
I ASK FOR YOU GOD'S HEALING UPON YOU,.KNOW THAT HE KNOWS YOU ,HE SEES YOU,HE HEARS YOU , HE LOVES YOU ,HE CREATED YOU
Yes! Yes! Today is Day 21 NO Contact/Blocked. When you leave them your mind starts to get clarity. It's hurts so bad 😢. You're sad, frustrated, and angry with yourself! Thank you for sharing ❤ the video. Stay strong 💪 survivors.
I completely disassociate myself with the world for so many years I don't know how we survived I don't even remember my kids going to school I wasn't there for them mentally and that just almost destroys me It's been over 15 years and I'm just starting to accept reality again these people are so evil and so destructive it had to be an act of God that got me and my boys through it..Thank you Andrew ❤
Same! Once I realized I spent years locked in on my narc’s shapeshifting face did I realize I missed so much with my kids. Now I see that time as what was needed to do to protect them from the manipulative bs.
I completely hear you❤I look at photos of my children from the worst period of time with the narc ex husband and I could cry when I think of how much the narc robbed both myself and the children of those years that are supposed to be happy and carefree in childhood. We're 7 years post discard from the narc. Tolerated him dropping in when he felt like it to see the children for 6 years post separation and finally we've all been no contact with him for almost a year now that the children are older and see him for who he is.
It's bad enough to have lived through the he!! yourself, but the years lost with your kids (literally because of living in survival mode), the depriving your children of joy & the possible permanent damage it's done to them I can barely live with. I tried my best to shield them, but the guilt is overwhelming. 😢
@@DSW-dq5bx sending love ❤ I understand that overwhelming feeling of guilt for what our children have experienced at the hands of the narcissist. As you say, bad enough for an adult to go through the hell but how these narcs can put their innocent children through such trauma is vile. The only comfort I try to seek from it all is that we love, care and respect our children and aren't responsible for another person's poor behaviour or their inability to love and care i.e. the narc.
❤ I completely understand and relate , I blocked so much out . I am very happy for you that you are on your way to healing for you and your boys sending love and prayers. It’s not your fault ! You were trapped in the fog.
When I was in the fog I was looking through rose colored glasses. Once the fog lifted, I was able to see clearly how I had been treated. Never again. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
Still in the fog.. but I’m helping to get my human free
The Cat is out of the bag, your Claws are ..
Aw 🐈 😻 cute and beautiful 🐈 😻 you help your human get better 🫂 🤗
There is so much hope for you. Keep going you will find yoursel just like Andrew says.!! Getting your human back is a wonderful way to put it. Thank you!
My two cats were at times the only thing that kept me grounded and kept me going. Unconditional love and companionship and having to ensure they were fed and cared for, which got me out the door each morning. Both have now passed, one just recently 😢.
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I am so sorry to hear that, I really feel for you ❤
When the fog lifts the eye is clear so is the spiritual heart clear no more lying to yourself
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Too true!
Beautiful hanna
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Absolutely!
Sounds like some great words to a song for us.!
"I don't have a problem, and you need to get some medication." Famous last words. He had the loudest voice for 21 years. Not anymore! I have the loudest and only voice. I have thought of this several times now that I would love to send the new supply a thank you card for taking out the trash! (I won't really send it). I did lose myself but am slowly finding myself and it's a beautiful sunrise as the cloud/fog lifts! Stay on the path!!!❤
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The farther away I am from the Narcissist, the more peace I feel in my soul🌈🕊🙄
The narcissistic fog has lifted. Thanks for your help buddy
P.s a song dedicated to all the tribe,,((I can see clearly now the rain has gone.))🎶🎶🎶🎶💪💪❤️❤️❤️❤️
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😮 I was thinking of that song after watching this and then see your comment 😮 the lyrics fit this video 🎯
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Thank you flowerpower
The abusive cycle I have just been through was extreme. My adopted son, 24, staged a shocking and brutal terrorist-style raid on our home as he moved out 6 months ago today. In two hours, we went from me preparing dinner for us in the kitchen to me being served with criminal complaints and a protective order by the police, all based on lies. He filed three charges against me. The first two were dismissed, and the third goes to court next week. These are all to impress the new supply, his girlfriend, who is totally in command. Both of them should be in psychiatric help.
This happened after I had dropped about $100,000 on his education, car, vacations and many other things. He even dropped out of university to annoy me.
Thanks to you, Andrew, I now realize that my son is completely out of his mind. I doubt I could have survived these 6 months without your instructive and supportive videos.
Good luck to you. I can totally empathize with your experience.
You have got to be careful when the fog lifts and you heal and see clearly because that's when the evil forces start working on another plan to try to get you trapped in some other setup. Be careful of who approaches you and who or what you get involved with. Its not all sunshine rainbows the devil is always formulating a new plan.
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Yes, yes, yes! Completely unexpected
Yes ..just like the sun shine nows its way in evil can poor alongside or i new directions ! But dont distrust...trust yoursel first and it will poor out...👁️♋👁️
My 🐈 😻 just jumped up to cuddle while i started the video and i show him the screen and say this is Andrew and his eyes go big and his ears were moving all over the place and he seem to love it 😀 how sweet lol 🥰😍 Andrew you have another sub ❤️ 🐈 😻
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone he's truly interested 😆 🤣 it's relaxing him too 😆 🤣
I have a cat and that really just made my day there, AND Andrew’s response! ❤❤❤❤❤ Welcome to the community my fellow… I would say “cat owner”, but we all know THEY own US! 😂😂😂😂
@jennifernewton4637 hi 👋 glad it made you smile 😃 he's semi feral but is like a regular cat. He not keen on me picking him up but he will come and cuddle on his own time. He's from Bulgaria and the transport people labelled his carrier 'do not handle' he was known as the most fiery they have known 😆 😂 he's fine with me unless I try to take him out to vets then oh my goodness 😆 🤣 I love and respect his spirit and his courage and grit, even through the pain 😆 🤣 he pretty much beat me up until I gave up and said OK we'll leave it 😆 🤣 gotta love 🐈 😻 I'm going to get him to watch Andrew videos with me as he really took to it. Have a good day and give your 🐈 😻 a hug from us 🤗 🫂
I'm so thankful that I found my way out. He had my mind spinning round & round. The constant silent treatments, ghosting, value then devalue over & over...it was just awful. I'm slowly healing with no contact. Wishing everyone strength and ❤ during your journey. Thank you for another wonderful video Andrew!
Welcome 🙏😌🙌
I found my way out. Some more great words for a song for all of us. We are the bright shining lights like Andrew says...
@@richardhowe3951 Indeed 💫
when you discover who the narcissist truly is, and they figure out you know who they are....
in most cases the narcissist will discard you first, to protect their ego and suppress their shame.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
Nice to hear from you. Hope all is well
thanks for your kind words! hoping business and personal are good with you also.
-cheers, steven
After the brutal discard, leaving me confused, lost and hurt- I started looking for answers and that is when I found out about narcissism- fog started lifting- I still have long way to go but I know I am heading in the right direction.
Thank you for the videos, I am looking forward to it every day. 🙏
Your smile is a bright shining light. Thank you 🙏💫
This is very accurate. It takes awhile to get out of the fog but persevere. Once your out, everything changes. You’ll see yourself and the narcissist clearly. You’ll see that there isn’t anything left for you so you’ll walk away. Then just keep going!
It’s like being covered by blood sucking leeches that attached to you so slowly that you didn’t notice, drawing your life force, weakening you. Once they fall or you pull them off, you are worn out. But, your blood cells will build up and slowly you will regain your energy. 😅continue to nourish yourself.
This is so absolutely true. Andrew I feel like you crept inside my mind. 9 days and counting. 🙏🙏🙏 PLEASE🌺
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You are anointed to teach this! ❤
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Me too
You are truly gifted for this Andrew. You have already touched and changed so many lives globally for the good and saved them from peril❤️🙏🏻
Thanks a thousand times, Andrew! Brilliant boat analogy . You don't vacillate, use no gimmicks, but deliver a "To the Point" message. Even with the majority of the fog dispersing, it still came with trying to rid myself of the trauma bond. I will say, without a doubt, Narcdaily was the "lens cleaner" when it came to clarity.👁👍🙏Namaste.
Namaste..🙌😌🙏
Yes, the fog will lift & the clarity will appear. The further you are out of the relationship, the more crystal clear things become. Like Andrew, I also have reached the pinnacle of indifference & healed. You can & will do it. Baby steps. One day it won't matter. It will be forgotten. Think about how far you have come already. Perhaps farther then you realize.. As Andrew said, "You were left stranded ". And now you are healing. Take everything on your heart to God in prayer. Love this video Andrew. It is very powerful, motivating, truthful and encouraging. I resonate with it completely. Love your boat & island analogy. Love your background and the sunlight☀️ filtering through 🙂. Have a good night. God bless☀️ ☀️
Once the fog lifts, and u see the truth, there is no turning back. Im far along in
My journey towards indifference. Once u see the evil and u realize that you are the oppoisite. You stare into the abyss and you stand for yourself. You become narcissist kryptonite.
That’s not true. I turned back many times even after I knew who she was. I’m so codependent and have been bullied and hurt my entire life. I’m worth nothing
I've just come across your TH-cam videos and pretty much everything discussed is taking place or has taken place. Yet, I do not want to say anything and hide away and be silent instead.
I realise now I was targeted and vulnerable. I am isolated and abused. I let this happen and betrayed myself from the start. (January 2014).
I had never come across the term covert narcissism (CN) and I only moved to where I now live, to be near my daughter. I did not know the full extent of CN and the damage, harm and disdain for me. Or know they do not want you to have a relationship with our daughter and do all they can to end this.
I do not have a roadmap and see a way forward. It has been nearly ten years and would not wish for anyone to go through this. It is crazy and cruel.
I use maladaptive coping just to survive. This I know weakens my position considerably.
She uses manipulation, the DARVO method and blame shifting very effectively and the flying monkeys all believed her false and fantasy version.
I have normalized a very not normal life. I am drained and yet I know I need/must do something.
Try to remember who you were before you met her and find yourself again. What do you enjoy doing? Getting back to your true self is essential and a great place to start down the path 💪🍀
sounds like you are seeing the breaking blue sky from within the fog ( building on today's theme) Trust and let your instincts guide you.
You'll probably go into isolation mode, which is normal & can be therapeutic while processing things, but you'll need a good support system & probably a therapist (who specializes in NPD) to be sure you don't stay stuck in that mode for too long.
9:56 yes I was told I need help and that I was “delusional “ even called my family members telling them they were concerned about my mental health…
That means You are Glowing and Growing, I am proud you.
Clarity is good but its also a bit scaring.When the fogg disapperas you migth stumble in the beginning but hopefully your steps leads towards a new healthy path in life ! People may se you as a strange lost one but pull on your safe belt and thriwe! 🎆🎆🎆🌪️
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Yes the fog was No man's Land,all I knew I had to get away,,,,,,,(something had to go either me or the wallpaper) by,Oscar Wilde,,,,,,,,Freedom is great, 💯,t.y. ANDREW,🤗🕊️❤️🙏❤️☘️
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Haven't tuned in with you Andrew for quite a while now! Watching your videos after the end of my marriage to a covert narcissist helped me more than you'll ever know! I am now nearly 2 years free, living my best life, have found love, I am so happy and have peace in my head. To anyone in the early stages, it really does get better, but it takes time and a lot of hard work, so stick with it, you've got this. So grateful to you Andrew, xx
This is by far your best video.
I'm here to say I've made it to the bridge, am seeing the fog lift and am finding my strength to get out!!
I was as blind as a bat. Way too many red flags. She said 90% of her friends were male. She used to be on her phone whilst in bed with me with her back turned. It turned out she was texting the new supply. Thank you so much Andrew for educating me. I’m a lot wiser now and looking back I was a fool but I will never ever be put in that situation again ❤
Great message Andrew....great analogy..
When that awful fog lifts and the sun starts to shine through......you feel like jumping for joy ......for at last there is freedom and peace of mind to live life the way it should have been lived....before the interruption of the narc.
If you are here,it's a never ending fight for your life..... for freedom...fight for peace.....
I had a sort of light bulb moment when I realized that being discarded was a compliment. Mine was a work situation, and the supply before me was someone talented, motivated, and honestly even a better fit for the position than me. If I was discarded as well, I'm in good company.
Once the fog clears you are left with so many questions wondering who really was that person that left you on that ship and why they left you. Healing is a journey to find your way back to the shore you came from and when the narcissist tried to hoover you, you tell them you will introduce them to some sharks you’ve met along the way.
Just started this journey a few days ago ---
LOL. about the sharks
They don’t love you. They love what you can do for them. They love using you.
I had Covid ..this forced me to slow down physically and mentally..completely went into panic mode.. yes slowed my life down ..terrified of what I was forcing myself to acknowledge that the person I had married 20 years ago was a fake and wicked…please don’t bury your head in the sand…my body took the toll of abuse…if you open up to them about this …they will NEVER NEVER take any kind even remotely to take responsibility …you have to accept their version of love or love yourself more and plan carefully to LEAVE.
When the fogs lifts, you will see their true colors.
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Thank you Andrew ❤
Yes, the fog is a place we definitely can't see through whilst we're In it, then slowly there's a realisation that we need to get out!!
I did leave after 20 years and once I did,I never looked back.
2 days ago is the 3 year anniversary for me since I seen the narc! Yay❣️ It was so hard but wow as I look back now it’s so much better and so much healing has happened in the 3 years ❣️☀️
Brave! Well done!!!
Bravo & congrats! 5 months no contact & 2 months divorced here. Reached pinnacle of indifference when he came to pick up the last of his junk & there was NO emotion. Was like a stranger to me after 27 years. No more control over my life & the fog has lifted significantly. God is good & forever faithful!!😊
✨💖✨☀️🌿🌳🌷Thank you for shining the light on the path out of the narc fog today Andrew. What a blessing and relief to be out of that nightmare of narc darkness and crazy making. 🌪️ I remember driving around on my daily schedule with my head spinning thinking how am I going to get out of this….how do I make it stop…such turmoil! I thank God and you Andrew for helping me out. Happy to be on this side of this but with much healing to go. Not looking back at the narc, but internal healing and re-centering, rebuilding. I welcome any suggestions from the community.
Thank you for this wonderful video Andrew and to the community for sharing from the heart.
God bless you all as we walk this journey together.
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self care 💯 even when you don’t really feel like it. try to do something nice for yourself every day ❤️
Yes yes yes
I lost myself for a lot of years always hoping better times lay ahead
Wrong! Things only got worse
After being discarded the fog slowly started to lift
For years it continued lifting, inch by inch
Thirty years later it is lifted
The issue now is trying to forgive myself for allowing the abuse to me and my friends and loved ones. I am not sure will ever totally forgive myself
My favorite movie ‘The bridge on the river Kwai’ is fantastic
The British Colonel sides with the enemy in a fog, until the movie crescendo when he realizes his mistake.
“He looks at the fog he has been in, and says “What have I done”?
I feel like the British Colonel as I look back and say “What have I done”?
Great analogy. Good movie too.
Thank you for your insightful videos, Andrew! I must comment that for many people, IF they don't HEAL their emotional trauma, they tend to repeat the same pattern over and over, just wearing a different face and having a new name!! I'm an older woman (69) who's been down that road a couple of times. After he has gone, I wait about 10 YEARS before I get into another relationship!! I've done a lot of work on myself to heal from being raised by a narcissistic father. We don't have any therapists that specialize in narc abuse healing. But I currently am in NO CONTACT mode with the most recent narc. Sigh.... Videos like yours helps a LOT though! Keep up the great work!
Out on the perilous deep
Where danger silently creeps
And storm's so violently sweeping
You're drifting too far from shore
Drifting too far from shore
You're drifting too far from shore
Come to Jesus today
Let Him show you the way
You're drifting too far from shore
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They don't have a map , and I'm now protected
Thank you Andrew! People around me still don’t understand that I’m in a fog right now. I’m loosing sleep, my key, credit card recently. Thank you everyone for your support. Is it just me or people think it’s funny when you leave a person that mistreated the relationship?
Watching this at 2:20 AM.....your voice & perspective is so comforting, Andrew! Thank you ❤
Welcome 😊🙏🙌
Thanks Andrew, for another amazing video. Everything you talked about resonates so well now that I'm away from my narc 'husband.' The phrases they use (on their victims), sound like they're from a textbook used in a Narc 101 class. Lol. I recognize all of them. There is a part of me that wishes I had known all of this 30+ years ago when I met him in college. However, if we hadn't been together, I wouldn't have my incredible children. They are amazing humans and I am eternally grateful for them. They (and my fur kids), are the only good things that came out of the narc nightmare. Blessings to all. Listen to Andrew, everyone. He knows what he's talking about. All the best.
Welcome 😌😌☀️
Amazing, you have had at least 5000 new subscribers in the last month! Well done! The message is getting out there & there are good souls, who need guidance & introspection.
Left 2 years ago.Went back because I cared about this person. Left again because things just got worse,not going back this time!
Yes things do get very clear!❤
This boat analogy I shared with him !!! After he checked this He had to destroy me.
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It's such a great analogy! Definitely remember being on that boat, alone in the fog and mist. Not knowing the ex narc partner had already jumped ships. ⛵️
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Thank you!!!!!
What a great analogy (mental picture)! And so much truth here.
I wasn't on that boat very long (it was only via text and across the country and for several months), and he recently discarded me. Thank you God!
Even so, boy, what an experience. And even though online, I could make out red flags all over, but stayed. What a life lesson, overall.
Thank you for this guidance thru your channel.
Amazing truthful video 💕🌈⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Support 💙🕊🕊🕊💫💙
Amazing Andrew🙏🥳♥️
You really are amazing, Andrew🙏🥳♥️, Caving The path out of narcissistic abuse🙏🥳♥️
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Thanks again Andrew!! I am happily moving forward, thanks for the tools!!!
Passing on the education 😊
Welcome 😌🙏💯
Powerful message today. golden nuggets everyday.
Thank you..😌😌🙏
"Shake the cob webs from your head" 🙈 not an easy task. Thanks for another great video 🙏🇦🇼
Welcome 😌😌🙏
It is so amazing how you describe exactly the way I felt, taking me deeper
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Thank you Andrew for another great video that is so important. I love the “Run for the hills”! I wish I had known. Thank you for all your support and inspiration. ❤🙏🌻
It does take a lot of time to heal. It is very much worth doing the work. You then gain knowledge and tools to become the best version of yourself. Then work towards living your very best life,,,
It’s been 3 years since I went no contact after a 3 year on/off relationship with a super narc and some days it’s still a struggle. Thank you for your videos.
The narc put a big hole in your boat before they got on the new boat.
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So true, but because or the fog you couldn't see it! 😮
Shocking realisation!!!
The sky is blue the paralysis has left !!!!
Your sleeping with the enemy 😴 ...& their still in your bed ...
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Feb 1st was my fog lift day because of you! I’m slowing realizing the hell of the past 28 years with my NARC,
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Love you Andrew!
Thank you, Andrew 🎉
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Hey there handsome! Kinda relaxing in bed… back pain 😬
GREAT video, and SO accurate! In the narc relationship you’re so confused and disoriented it’s frightening. You don’t understand why this is happening or how to FIX it. You do EVERYTHING you can to plug ONE hole in the boat, but as soon as you fix that one another pops up. 😔 When someone has you FEELING that way, it’s time to cut ties IMMEDIATELY! EXCELLENT video, Andrew… MASTER of IMAGERY 😉😘❤❤❤ Love you! Have a WONDERFUL day my friends! Love y’all too! ❤❤❤
Hey beautiful ❤❤ Hope your back pain subsides. Sending you healing light. 💜✨
@@Divinely_Guided444Awww, I’m sorry I missed your comment here, Sherry! I’ve been trying to keep the pain at bay by staying in bed mostly, and taking over the counter pain relief, which has been helpful, so I’m doing a bit better now. Thank you for the well wishes! Hope you’re having a WONDERFUL day! ❤❤❤❤
@@jennifernewton4637 you're up very early for Texas. Pain of all kinds can disturb our 😴. Rest peacefully. 🤍
I made it.i walk away.but my kids also the same . I can't come back.Time will Tell if I can still see my kids and grand kids .God will find the way.❤
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Great analogy with the boat...
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Thank you Andrew🙏I can remember I was like all my energy went away sometimes 😵💫
Very good one
Thank you
Good Morning
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I week and 1 day of no contact. I honestly hope he does have a new/old supply, so he will leave me be. The last thing I said to him was, "Do not call me back." Of course he did, but it was too late.❤
S. ex with the narc under false pretenses is akin to r. Ape... hindsight is 20/20 clarity ...
Im 4 years out and im still lost, alone and a shadow of my former self.
This video is spot on! Thank You
Thank you for your videos, Andrew. They really help me. Whenever I get to ruminating and feeling sad I listen to your videos and I remember.... no.... hell no.... I'm in a so much better place than I was. And yes, once I went no-contact, the narcissist (my mother) hoovered me. With anyone they could find. :( I wasn't aware I had to block SO MANY PEOPLE. :( My saving grace was (aside from your videos) were my good friends whom I'd made outside of my family life. My mother literally isolated my father from all of his relatives, and as he was dying, she tried to hoover me and isolate me from my husband AND my kids. It was then I realized... oh hell no. NO ONE competes with my kids for my love and attention. NO ONE. I dropped her like a hot rock, because I am my father's karma. She isolated him from his family all my life..... villainizing them, up until his death bed. It wasn't until he was about to die, and he asked me to contact his last remaining sister, I realized all those LIES MY MOTHER TOLD ABOUT MY FATHER'S FAMILY. I am my father's revenge. I am living a wonderful life WITHOUT my mother. She recruited her greedy family members to her, leaving my father alone. Well, I am living my life away from those evil people. I escaped. So to anyone reading this, if you're married to a narcissist... for the love of your children or future children.... leave. please leave.
Wow’s. This was so powerful
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I understand that comment-standard narc response
You need help ( their answer after you brought their bad behavior to the conversation)
Thanks for the video Andrew
This describes exactly how my life was.
Good morning. I woke up feeling very lonely and vulnerable. It is day 7 of no contact. Yesterday was a good day and I was feeling strong. Right now I want to reach out to him. I won’t do it, but I am hurting.
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👍🏻 Thanks!
It was 2018, when I've been in a toxic relationship with a woman. She clearly was a toxic Individual. In January 2020 I have realised it all. Thanks to god! It was a painful story. But it had to be.
Sorry for my bad English. 😉
Yes run for the hills if this is possible!❤🎉 You can do it..Do not give up. Do not let them win. You win anyways but please dont give up. Find support for your exit from this mess. Your nervous system will hug you for this change you make!❤😊❤
Beautiful analogy with the boat and the cabins and you were looking for the narcissist but they moved on to another boat. They will do this over and over again until eternity. The empath is better than this, it's a learning lesson and this only in the flesh. We are divine and moving towards the abundant light... Thank you Andrew
Thank you so much Andrew! ❤🙏
So true I can see clearly now I still must be carful but I do see now I say no today because I saw through the fog thanks Andrew ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻 so much for these videos Andrew. God bless you…
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Awsome title! Maybe we can make a song out of it... Something really up beat. Something we can dance to. Its a good feeling to have your life back, man!!!!.
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LOVE THIS!!!!!
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Fog is there for some things but one fog lifted and now I’m trying to accept it.
Yes I did loose myself and now I still trying to find myself 😂. Help!
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
I'm in the middle of divorce after 46 years of marriage and I'm almost thru it but now comes the money that he has to give me. And that's a no to him. He doesn't get court system. HES NO LONGER IN CHARGES AND THAT PISSES HIM OFF!! IM SLOWLY GET BETTER AND I HAVE ABOUT A MONTH LEFT WITH THIS PROCESS. he just doesn't get that is also my share of finances. 😊 I'm grieving because now this marriage was a lie. Only our kids were and are the best part of this marriage
@@cherylsabin2707 well the last time I checked you are entitled to half of what was shared in the matrimony. He’s being childish by not making a civil agreement. I hope you work through this and enjoy your life :)
andrew i think i saw the same man that was in your other video walking by be careful in the woods love you great video today 🤗👌
❤❤❤ Yes Andrew! Please be careful! You are BELOVED in this community!!! We need you safe and sound!
Love the boat metaphorror's 😎
Cant believe the timing of this video. The fog has lifted 👀 omg
Thanks for your videos Andrew...really helpful in clearing the FOG..