For all my bro's who have been ditched. Listen to Kayle / Darius M for good info. BUT! Create also a playlist with Coach Lee videos. He is also decent, and his voice will help u sleep realy well. Its so calming. Just go to the gym and workout thats all u have to do. 7 out of 10 breakups are a shit test anyway.. And if not, u WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER! Once u have seen the redpill side, u can never go blue. Remember guys
Im 9 months of no contact without any sign of contact from her. Last week was horrible I felt like all the confidence that I have in the beginning was shit and with no hope anymore. Im trying to hold on because I understand that no message that I can send to her will cause any change because she left me and hasn’t contact me is because she doesn’t want me.
Last 9 month,ur so called ex taste already 9 men's dickkk,,how silly u r,,still u want her.. Always remember,,the person who loves u,,never leave you more than 24 hours,,no matter what happens,if u both have the same love.
I've done no contact about 5 times now, she comes back then we split again, I'm sick and tired of it, I still want her back but I think she's done for good this time, I have a ring she gave me as a gift a while ago, I'm really contemplating on sending it back to her to make some sort of statement, I don't know what to do
Don’t send it back, it will show that you are being affected by the breakup and will ultimately lower your value in her eyes. If you two had a good thing and it was special, she should return again eventually
My ex is a vegan and I needed a job and got one at my local grocery store at the deli and informed her that I got a job - when she found out she called me a " murderer " and ended the relationship. I went into no contact. She texted and wanted to go to a concert the next few towns over and I texted my friends wife because she had the tickets. I copied what my friends wife replied incase I didn't mess up the text and she flipped out and blocked me on Facebook. So now I'm in no contact 😐- I don't believe we can come back from this but who knows .
Vegans are crazy! They have no personality, no sense of humour, unhealthy cuz they eat so much sugar and crap, always tired, impossible to cook for, and try to make you feel guilty about your healthy eating. You haven't lost anything there mate.
I don't want her back, I just felt so betrayed and let down. I had to break up with her, it was just the last 2 weeks me witnessing a girl that completely changed, and we had became a full blown toxic couple. That shit was hurting me inside really bad, i just didnt let her see that. And I believe people will act toxic to you open on purpose to get you to do the break up. It's been a couple years and I still haven't contacted her. I felt let down and hurt even though it wasn’t easy as I’m explaining this. Yes indeed I miss her, BUT every time I thought of her nasty/fucked up ways - and how she was acting when she was drunk helps me move forward. I honestly don’t even want another woman (no I’m not turning gay) nor am I’m bitter or out for revenge, I’m just realizing there’s so much other shit to get into/accomplish then to try to make a woman happy all the time. Maybe in the future in my mid 30s i might be open back up to it, but as of now? I’m happy with my peace; getting off work eating, laughing at sitcoms and waking up gong to work peacefully and it quiet. No more hurt, no more pain. Plus I went thru another alcohol detox during that break up. I still drink to this day but no where near drowning myself behind a woman, and never ever will do it again.
I told.my ex 4 days ago that im done with her mind games. She started dating a coworker 2 weeks after we broke up i told her i need time to heal and leave me alone. She continues to reach out after i told her to stop. Usually happens when shes alone too. If shes with her new man, no contact. She's baiting me into contact and thinks i blocked her #
Advice please so I broke up with my gf like 1 month ago she still constantly talks although I'm the one texting her first. She hasn't blocked me on social media either and she says she wants a friendship and that we will never be together again. The reason why we broke up is because I may have cussed her out multiple times. I totally regret this and I'm willing to change to love her.
Im dealing with same case bro, do not initiate contact, and go in NC, make her feel your absence, she will miss you, and she will reach out. My ex reached out. Watch coach Lee's videos what he says is true.
I needed to hear this! She only told me how she feels, what she is not happy with when she is ready to leave me and move on. Deleted my number. I don't have/use social media. However I am taking action and feeling remorse, regret and willing to repent. However not sure how I can get my power back. We lived 1h away from each other. I saw a future. She is smart, analytical but also deals with previous trauma. I feel like a reasonable person that can manage but she says it's completely done. I believe her as she is proud and will stay true to her word. But I'm hoping that this is not completely true.
Easier for you imo. As he said in the vid, assume that they arent coming back. If they comeback in the future, you will have options, not dependent on them and their way
From a woman’s perspective, I blocked my ex a few weeks into NC. I did it because we’re not involved anymore, so why should he have the right to know what I’m up to? I want my privacy from him, and I also don’t want to see what he’s doing. Also for my healing to be easier. Plus if he ever reaches out, I wouldn’t want to hear from him over social media. He can email or call. 🤷♀️
No contact means respecting other persons wish when the that persons does not want you arround. Accordingly, it does not apply to the person doing the dumping, since the person being dumped does wish to be in contact. So no, what you are applying is not a possible situation. Besides, the power of time along with dumpees progress will slowly erode the dumpers will most of the time and they will reach out.
@@ZajcAnja everything I'm seeing, is if a guy leaves you, it's pretty much a done deal You aren't his"one". Men won't risk losing you forever if you're the one. Who wants to be with someone who needs time away and see our growth to come back? Have some self-respect and move on.
@@Jeanninecomeau lmao and I'm over here getting the opposite idea. That women have too many options and have no need to come back to you once they leave you. I feel that neither is true. It's just case by case, and random.
I not know about no contact I had two girl friend that got piss off I give them no contact one for 3 week's The other for two weeks The 3 weeks one I have a child with So I came back . But the rebound relationship as start at that time. I not know about be the bad ass man either I work security bodyguard I try to be nice guy Till it time to play hard ball but never on a personal relationship have to be soft to keep my license for the firearms
On the other side of our last breath is excruciating punishment or eternal joy. If you have not repented and Jesus has not transformed you, you might be in big trouble.There are some essential commands Jesus said. One was REPENT and believe the gospel. The next, the first verse below shows where someone asked Jesus about who is getting saved and Jesus said there is a narrow gate you MUST enter MANY will try and they will not be able. The seriousness and the cruciality of that statement is unmeasurable. Considering the stark differences these few phrases will have in someone's eternal destiny.This is Christ's measure of who has come to him and anyone who falls short of this will be cast out forever. In the fire that is unquenchable. Truly Horrifying. Jesus trains his servants in the great fire of affliction, giving them a glimmer of hell so they can warn others. Someone said in psalms IT IS good that I was afflicted that is how I learned your statues. And Jesus said faint not at my tribulations for you, which are for your glory. This is showing where a believer gets a taste of tribulations. And we know in the end will be the GREAT TRIBULATION WHERE God comes and renders judgement. Some things that keep us from God can be a love for money, self will, self pride, and not forsaking our own desires. Jesus wants all of us in exchange for eternal life. He says you were bought with a price. He's saying i purchased you, I redeemed you but I have some very high expectations of you. Which are to pray continuously, to continue reading the bible, to give a tenth of all you have to the church, to visit the widow and the fatherless in their affliction, to help those in need, to pray for the lost, and to go make disciples out of every nation. Spreading the word of God is not just for a preacher it is a job for all believers. We have to let people know what is at stake, we must fully inform ppl about what the bible says in hope of snatching them out of the clutches of Satan on the path to hell, totally blinded by the world. Serious self examination is necessary because the stakes are high. There is so much evidence in the bible of salvation and if you have none of it You are likely in big trouble and need to immediately throw yourself on the mercy of God and repent for sins and turn to Jesus in hopes that he will spare your soul from the lake of fire. The bible says if our gospel is hid, it is hid from those who are perishing, the God of this world (satan) has blinded their eyes so they cant see and cannot hear). PERISHING in contrast Jesus said he who believes in me WIll never die. Remember God knows whats in the heart if it is a life saving faith. Or do you have a kind of faith where none of this is really relevant, merely a waste of time. Jesus really asks for very little in light of eternal bliss, a Kingdom that will never end. With perfect justice and peace. Even in our life today though we have to give us things his way is better. He is the way the truth and the life and as the bible says broad is the way that leads to destruction. But that Narrow gate Jesus mentions leads to life. Jesus said if you seek me you will find me if you seek me with all your heart. Romans 10:9 if you can confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your that God has raised him from the dead you shall be saved. It is with the mouth one confesses and with the heart one believes unto salvation. Whoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Then said one unto him, Lord, are there few that be saved? And he said unto them,24Strive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able.25When once the master of the house is risen up, and hath shut to the door, and ye begin to stand without, and to knock at the door, saying, Lord, Lord, open unto us; and he shall answer and say unto you, I know you not whence ye are:26Then shall ye begin to say, We have eaten and drunk in thy presence, and thou hast taught in our streets.27But he shall say, I tell you, I know you not whence ye are; depart from me, all ye workers of iniquity.28There shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth, when ye shall see Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, and all the prophets, in the kingdom of God, and you yourselves thrust out. 12Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. 13But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end; While it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts, as in the provocation.
My girlfriend broke up with me on 18 May and one month of breakup we still talk on daily basis and we were in contact on calls, texts, video calls but after one month we had an argument regarding breakup which i started that why you did this to me and i stopped texting her on 19 June and calling her. I didnt blocked her or removed her from other social media accounts. She liked my recent content that i have posted on insta. My ex daily send me snaps like what is she doing like if she is working she send me his laptop picture on snapchat or if she cooking or eating something she sends of that stuff also and i also do send one snap (to maintain snap streak). So what do you think: is this good signs or bad signs ???? Please review this ???
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For all my bro's who have been ditched. Listen to Kayle / Darius M for good info. BUT! Create also a playlist with Coach Lee videos. He is also decent, and his voice will help u sleep realy well. Its so calming. Just go to the gym and workout thats all u have to do. 7 out of 10 breakups are a shit test anyway.. And if not, u WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER! Once u have seen the redpill side, u can never go blue. Remember guys
Lee is awesome. Amen to you bro.
so are you saying my ex might come back?
Women never come back, because they never leave the right person ever!
Im 9 months of no contact without any sign of contact from her. Last week was horrible I felt like all the confidence that I have in the beginning was shit and with no hope anymore. Im trying to hold on because I understand that no message that I can send to her will cause any change because she left me and hasn’t contact me is because she doesn’t want me.
Try your hardest to meet someone else bro, it's the only way I believe anyway, it will help
Matt, tell me a little about yourself and I'll tell you something I had to learn over the past year. I went through it too
Last 9 month,ur so called ex taste already 9 men's dickkk,,how silly u r,,still u want her..
Always remember,,the person who loves u,,never leave you more than 24 hours,,no matter what happens,if u both have the same love.
@@mikea1534 suck hey bro
@@mikea1534 please share your story bro
The bottom line is, don't be her safety net. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Like Chris Canwell said, attraction grows in space.
Stop wondering if you are good enough for them. If they don’t value you, they are not for you.
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Coach Lee is THE WHITE KNIGHT 🔥
This is so sad for men and women.... coach Lee is right.
I never initiate contact. The longest I go without contact from her is 2 days. It's been 1.5 months since I started it.
Oh snap! Finally. Reacting to one of the master lol
I've done no contact about 5 times now, she comes back then we split again, I'm sick and tired of it, I still want her back but I think she's done for good this time, I have a ring she gave me as a gift a while ago, I'm really contemplating on sending it back to her to make some sort of statement, I don't know what to do
Don’t send it back, it will show that you are being affected by the breakup and will ultimately lower your value in her eyes. If you two had a good thing and it was special, she should return again eventually
My ex is a vegan and I needed a job and got one at my local grocery store at the deli and informed her that I got a job - when she found out she called me a " murderer " and ended the relationship. I went into no contact. She texted and wanted to go to a concert the next few towns over and I texted my friends wife because she had the tickets. I copied what my friends wife replied incase I didn't mess up the text and she flipped out and blocked me on Facebook. So now I'm in no contact 😐- I don't believe we can come back from this but who knows .
Vegans are crazy! They have no personality, no sense of humour, unhealthy cuz they eat so much sugar and crap, always tired, impossible to cook for, and try to make you feel guilty about your healthy eating. You haven't lost anything there mate.
I feel you bro fr…but nah let that be
Her being a vegan was the first red flag. Run for the hills.
I don't want her back, I just felt so betrayed and let down. I had to break up with her, it was just the last 2 weeks me witnessing a girl that completely changed, and we had became a full blown toxic couple. That shit was hurting me inside really bad, i just didnt let her see that. And I believe people will act toxic to you open on purpose to get you to do the break up. It's been a couple years and I still haven't contacted her. I felt let down and hurt even though it wasn’t easy as I’m explaining this. Yes indeed I miss her, BUT every time I thought of her nasty/fucked up ways - and how she was acting when she was drunk helps me move forward. I honestly don’t even want another woman (no I’m not turning gay) nor am I’m bitter or out for revenge, I’m just realizing there’s so much other shit to get into/accomplish then to try to make a woman happy all the time. Maybe in the future in my mid 30s i might be open back up to it, but as of now? I’m happy with my peace; getting off work eating, laughing at sitcoms and waking up gong to work peacefully and it quiet. No more hurt, no more pain. Plus I went thru another alcohol detox during that break up. I still drink to this day but no where near drowning myself behind a woman, and never ever will do it again.
Proud of you man stay up dude you got this we all got this
@@tysonpadilla8406 Thanks man. Just wish I was aware of this years ago. Could have been 15 steps further
I told.my ex 4 days ago that im done with her mind games. She started dating a coworker 2 weeks after we broke up i told her i need time to heal and leave me alone. She continues to reach out after i told her to stop. Usually happens when shes alone too. If shes with her new man, no contact. She's baiting me into contact and thinks i blocked her #
good
Imagine if coach Lee had an emergency breakup kit for political discourse lol
At the end of the day, just move on. If your ex is doing no contact and so are you, no one is going to contact each other.
Whats crazy my wife filed for divorce and we both are playing no contact. Doesn't look good.
I know that this channel is mostly for men, but the same thing applies to women.
I sure hope so
Advice please so I broke up with my gf like 1 month ago she still constantly talks although I'm the one texting her first. She hasn't blocked me on social media either and she says she wants a friendship and that we will never be together again. The reason why we broke up is because I may have cussed her out multiple times. I totally regret this and I'm willing to change to love her.
Im dealing with same case bro, do not initiate contact, and go in NC, make her feel your absence, she will miss you, and she will reach out. My ex reached out.
Watch coach Lee's videos what he says is true.
I needed to hear this! She only told me how she feels, what she is not happy with when she is ready to leave me and move on. Deleted my number. I don't have/use social media. However I am taking action and feeling remorse, regret and willing to repent.
However not sure how I can get my power back. We lived 1h away from each other. I saw a future. She is smart, analytical but also deals with previous trauma. I feel like a reasonable person that can manage but she says it's completely done. I believe her as she is proud and will stay true to her word.
But I'm hoping that this is not completely true.
@@ranajoypanja6714 How has it gone since she reached out?
Maybe if people stopped playing these stupid games things wouldn't be where they are today
These aren't games, she/he doesn't want you in her life, move on, work on yourself and maybe she'll consider things and now is up to you
What if they block you a couple weeks into NC
Easier for you imo. As he said in the vid, assume that they arent coming back. If they comeback in the future, you will have options, not dependent on them and their way
Been there done that lol
From a woman’s perspective, I blocked my ex a few weeks into NC. I did it because we’re not involved anymore, so why should he have the right to know what I’m up to? I want my privacy from him, and I also don’t want to see what he’s doing. Also for my healing to be easier. Plus if he ever reaches out, I wouldn’t want to hear from him over social media. He can email or call. 🤷♀️
More of these vids please
You like em?
I have to tell you, I love talking about politics....even with a guy.
What's funny is if both stay no contact they'll never get back together again.
No contact means respecting other persons wish when the that persons does not want you arround. Accordingly, it does not apply to the person doing the dumping, since the person being dumped does wish to be in contact. So no, what you are applying is not a possible situation. Besides, the power of time along with dumpees progress will slowly erode the dumpers will most of the time and they will reach out.
@@ZajcAnja everything I'm seeing, is if a guy leaves you, it's pretty much a done deal
You aren't his"one". Men won't risk losing you forever if you're the one.
Who wants to be with someone who needs time away and see our growth to come back? Have some self-respect and move on.
@@Jeanninecomeau people do learn from their mistakes. But if you feel you have to move on and you can, by all means, move on ☺️
@@Jeanninecomeau lmao and I'm over here getting the opposite idea. That women have too many options and have no need to come back to you once they leave you. I feel that neither is true. It's just case by case, and random.
@@ZajcAnja Thanks for being encouraging. Everyone else just screams at you to move on. I have little hope but it's all I have before utter depression.
I not know about no contact I had two girl friend that got piss off I give them no contact one for 3 week's
The other for two weeks
The 3 weeks one I have a child with
So I came back .
But the rebound relationship as start at that time.
I not know about be the bad ass man either
I work security bodyguard I try to be nice guy
Till it time to play hard ball but never on a personal relationship have to be soft to keep my license for the firearms
On the other side of our last breath is excruciating punishment or eternal joy. If you have not repented and Jesus has not transformed you, you might be in big trouble.There are some essential commands Jesus said. One was REPENT and believe the gospel. The next, the first verse below shows where someone asked Jesus about who is getting saved and Jesus said there is a narrow gate you MUST enter MANY will try and they will not be able. The seriousness and the cruciality of that statement is unmeasurable. Considering the stark differences these few phrases will have in someone's eternal destiny.This is Christ's measure of who has come to him and anyone who falls short of this will be cast out forever. In the fire that is unquenchable. Truly Horrifying. Jesus trains his servants in the great fire of affliction, giving them a glimmer of hell so they can warn others. Someone said in psalms IT IS good that I was afflicted that is how I learned your statues. And Jesus said faint not at my tribulations for you, which are for your glory. This is showing where a believer gets a taste of tribulations. And we know in the end will be the GREAT TRIBULATION WHERE God comes and renders judgement. Some things that keep us from God can be a love for money, self will, self pride, and not forsaking our own desires. Jesus wants all of us in exchange for eternal life. He says you were bought with a price. He's saying i purchased you, I redeemed you but I have some very high expectations of you. Which are to pray continuously, to continue reading the bible, to give a tenth of all you have to the church, to visit the widow and the fatherless in their affliction, to help those in need, to pray for the lost, and to go make disciples out of every nation. Spreading the word of God is not just for a preacher it is a job for all believers. We have to let people know what is at stake, we must fully inform ppl about what the bible says in hope of snatching them out of the clutches of Satan on the path to hell, totally blinded by the world. Serious self examination is necessary because the stakes are high. There is so much evidence in the bible of salvation and if you have none of it You are likely in big trouble and need to immediately throw yourself on the mercy of God and repent for sins and turn to Jesus in hopes that he will spare your soul from the lake of fire. The bible says if our gospel is hid, it is hid from those who are perishing, the God of this world (satan) has blinded their eyes so they cant see and cannot hear). PERISHING in contrast Jesus said he who believes in me WIll never die. Remember God knows whats in the heart if it is a life saving faith. Or do you have a kind of faith where none of this is really relevant, merely a waste of time. Jesus really asks for very little in light of eternal bliss, a Kingdom that will never end. With perfect justice and peace. Even in our life today though we have to give us things his way is better. He is the way the truth and the life and as the bible says broad is the way that leads to destruction. But that Narrow gate Jesus mentions leads to life. Jesus said if you seek me you will find me if you seek me with all your heart. Romans 10:9 if you can confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your that God has raised him from the dead you shall be saved. It is with the mouth one confesses and with the heart one believes unto salvation. Whoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Then said one unto him, Lord, are there few that be saved? And he said unto them,24Strive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able.25When once the master of the house is risen up, and hath shut to the door, and ye begin to stand without, and to knock at the door, saying, Lord, Lord, open unto us; and he shall answer and say unto you, I know you not whence ye are:26Then shall ye begin to say, We have eaten and drunk in thy presence, and thou hast taught in our streets.27But he shall say, I tell you, I know you not whence ye are; depart from me, all ye workers of iniquity.28There shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth, when ye shall see Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, and all the prophets, in the kingdom of God, and you yourselves thrust out.
12Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. 13But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end; While it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts, as in the provocation.
Move on.
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My girlfriend broke up with me on 18 May and one month of breakup we still talk on daily basis and we were in contact on calls, texts, video calls but after one month we had an argument regarding breakup which i started that why you did this to me and i stopped texting her on 19 June and calling her. I didnt blocked her or removed her from other social media accounts. She liked my recent content that i have posted on insta. My ex daily send me snaps like what is she doing like if she is working she send me his laptop picture on snapchat or if she cooking or eating something she sends of that stuff also and i also do send one snap (to maintain snap streak). So what do you think: is this good signs or bad signs ???? Please review this ???