Not all the time. God did not put us here to be all alone on a consistent basis. I believe it is a trick of the enemy. If God wanted us to be all alone on a consistent basis he would’ve made one human being. We close our self off because we’ve been hurt and rejected and we’re tired of it. I know I did it and I went into deep depression. I had to learn how to forgive family members and stop having expectations. Everybody is not where you are spiritually. We have to learn how to love people where they’re at and not to close off just because they are not where we are spiritually. And we can’t try to have deep spiritual conversations with them because they’re not ready but it doesn’t mean that they don’t have love to offer us. We all need love.
I believe that the Lord will not mind if we are with people sometimes but not everyday.The Lord wants us to be more with Him so we can know Him for ourselves Amen 🙏🙏🙏😊
I say that all the time. I absolutely LOVE living alone. There's no drama and you get to do whatever you want whenever you want. It's very peaceful and the solitude can be addictive. However, there's one tiny aspect of it that's not so great. When you have the flu or get sick there's nobody to run errands for you or go to the market to get chicken soup or medicine and such. You have to drag your ass out of bed with chills and a fever and go yourself. It sucks but it builds character. 😊
To love yourself and rejoice. You have the spirit of God making you one with God. The IMAGE of God. Anyone argue this is not godly. I don't use the Bible for a cheat sheet by reacting scripture. Know knowledge in cheating the teacher.
Born orphan, rejected by mother and father, no family or friends, just being mocked, rejected despised, by almost all, no church, yet an Everlasting Love for God, and this love just increased, He is my God, My Friend. and my Saviour, forever.
@@felipekennedy3135 May God's blessings be upon beloved Jesus and Virgin Marry ❤ Say, "We have believed in Allah and in what was revealed to us and what was revealed to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and the Descendants, and in what was given to Moses and Jesus and to the prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them, and we are Muslims [submitting] to Him." Quran, al-Imran, vs 84 Salam brother
It’s been a very revealing 4 years in my life. I lost parents, children turning, being toxic, etc. it’s lonely, but I don’t miss the negativity and pain
Feeling alone? Reach out with all your worth to God because once you actually know Him and I do mean know Him as in know He's real not just choosing to believe He's real, then you realize you are never alone, He knows every single thought and feeling you have and if you focus on Him, He will start contacting you in response to what you are thinking, feeling or carrying in your heart, He's super personal.
Most folks in general don't care, long as they get what they want from you. Try using the word NO and see how long the leeches hang around. Family can be the absolute worse.
right... i find it interesting.. how, you never heard from them. til they NEED you! You help them.. and then they vanish.. never to call or offer a hand back....I don't hang with family, have a few friends... alone alot.. 2 dogs and a cat. my relationship with my dysfunction 44 yr old son.. is falling apart... i am so done with his 'shiteshow'.. i gave back the front row ticket.. to his disruptions and unhealthy antics...... i don't have time, energy or patience for others needy wanties... i did it for to long!!! I now say NO. .NO...
I’m blue being chosen , no friend , no family , nothing serious conversation with people too .I feel very lonely but I know this is my life path . I walk alone with Grace and Truth .
That word the chosen one , Jesus came to serve, not to be served. The son of the living God actually washed feet to be an example. We're to love people who are created in God's image. We're not better than, we just want others to know the love God has for them & know, really know their identity in christ & where they're going after physical death that comes for all of us
ultimately church’s are businesses. they want your money. i played guitar in a Church of God years ago. the people were…not very christian. read the Bible. Jesus was a badass ..didn’t take sh*t off anyone …look it up
Besides my parents, I have no family. I have no friends, the only time anyone calls me is when they want or need something. I don't even know why I have a cell phone. Women like me because of what I look like, but they think my money is theirs, and they're entitled to it.
Chosen ones are alone because GOD is with them! This world hate GOD! Stay focused! Remember GOD loves u, and is with u, then whom can be against u! Blessings and peace!
Amen, I've been telling myself the same thing lately. I hope I make heaven my home cuz I wish to meet Almighty God the best and only true friend I ever had and leave this hellhole called earth.
@@Spocklee He that believeth hath everlasting life!. Its a promise and statement from Jesus Christ. No works can justify us. We all have fallen short, and therefore guilty. But by faith in Jesus Christ are we justified and sanctified. He did all the works. Believe and trust in Him. Then u will enter heaven 100%
This is a very knowledgeable. You man. I don't know if it means anything to him. I'm proud of him. I heard it all my life. People are jealous of you. Family is the worst. My integrity and freedom I hold dearly.
Said the greatest hater of humanity, the man who wanted to eradicate humanity and build super-humans..Those who followed his teachings, killed millions of innocent people-mass murderers and psychos..Thats the kind of wisdom he passed to others..Its a shame you consider this man wise and sane,in fact he was insane he should have been behind bars..to say the least..🤮🤮🤮
l’m almost 53 with no family and absolutely no friends, people bug the shit out of me. l can only stand to be around others for maybe 30mins tops (and that’s pushing it). l like what l like and do what l want and never answer to anyone, when people are around l have to fake like l give a shit about their lives or l have to play host and make sure everyone is pampered and taken care of (cause everyone is such a little bitch). these days it’s just me and my dog living off-grid in the mountains of colorado miles and miles away from the nearest idiot, just the way we like it.
I’m 55, and the same thing keeps happening in my life. My husband just dumped me 2 years ago after 29 years of marriage and 5 grandchildren. I feel so all alone. Yes, I’ll keep going and this is God’s message to me today: Isaiah 43:18-19 18 “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. 19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.
That's fucked up... The grass isn't greener on the other side... I"m 64 with no family and a couple of acquaintances. Before I became aware of the matrix... I had lots of great times. I was a DJ with my own business as well as a internet business. I was making money out of thin air... Then my father died and then I went to the Bible and got it on CD and listened to it over and over. At least 20 times from front to back and some times even more... And then the light went off... All Religions lie... The Bible says so... My understanding from a thousand different perspectives (pieces of a mosaic are called tesserae, which is the plural of tessera, and comes from the Latin word for cubes or dice (para-dise). The cube is the geometrical contruct of the matrix. Hey ma, trix are for kids aka billygoats. The cube is represented everywhere... It's the 3D version of a Hex a gone (get it) found on the north pole of Saturn... Saturday... in Julius Caesar's July. Never mine. I think too much therefore I am, am not...
It's heart breaking and even mind torment. But let me give you a heads up sister. You have your freedom. No more watching adventure shows on TV. Now you can head out and create your own adventure.. me! I down sized everything. I'm poor. But content with great peace of mind. I know how lost and alone you feel. That will also pass. Here's what people do all there lives. They work jobs they don't like to buy shit they don't need to impress people they can't stand and owe the bank a fortune they will pay the rest of their lives. What a great life 😂right now is perfect timing to enter the journey. Just look at the past as learning lessons. And when things in your head start going crazy. Break your own heart open. Believe in GOD and remember all the things you did in this life. Not anyone else. The knowledge you need will start flowing through your mind slowly at first but this gets your journey started in the right direction. You will even start feeling younger physically and mentally. It's like falling in shit and coming out smelling like a rose and never be afraid to ask us older ones anything we are on a journey also. But different paths we always been on a different path but held down. You can do things others can't. You don't know it but they do. They know they can't have what you got and they don't want you to have it. There are whole communities hating on one homeless person. Why? They ain't got the balls to survive. Enjoy the journey. 🎉❤
There's a lot of people out there, the streets, your neighborhood, the place you live, even the library, that the only way they have to "excel" out of their low plane of mediocrity is pushing you down
You do not know that. Test every spirit whether they be of God or the devil. I don’t trust no one. Where’s the gospel? There are still lost souls out there. Yadee yadah won’t get a lost soul saved. The message is for believers, yet it felt like yadee yadah.
Theres no proof for the spiritually dead. We may not understand how he came to be, but the properties and laws of a different dimension are beyond our comprehension. With enough self reflection and critical thinking, creation is the most logical answer for life as we know it. " For the hearts of these people are hardened, and their ears cannot hear, and they have closed their eyes- so their eyes cannot see, and their ears cannot hear, and their hearts cannot understand, and they cannot turn to me and let me heal them."Matt 13:15
Family and friends will not support the chosen one. Instead they will oppose you. Because they can’t elevate with you. They lack belief in themselves. So if you grow, you’re going to be leaving them behind.
I must not be a chosen one because my family and friends support me. I'd rather not be a so-called chosen one and have friends and family that support me. You can have family, friends, and purpose all at the same time.
@@BREEZYM6015yeah a bit of a blanket statement(black or white thinking....as in all your family members???) by narc survivor...still like his work alot tho
Maybe only chosen ones will understand my comment. If you look at the other videos on this topic as well, you will see in the comments section. Chosen ones are alone or almost alone most of the time. Most people are not going to resonate with the chosen ones. And that is the purpose of us being chosen, to wake people up. When you awaken to your purpose, people will think you're crazy and some may even turn against you. This may even include your closest family members and friends. And it's because they can't meet you there. It doesn't make any sense to them, at their level of vibration.
I use to have soooo many friends and they’re still back in TX but then I moved out to east coast where my 2 lukewarm kids are - to be near to my grandkids! Been here a year and no friends🥹 BUT GOD!!! I am a 73 yr old widow- feel lonely but know my assignment is to pray and pour into my little gkids who are like little sponges and love Jesus! It’s ok- but praying hard every day for my kids/ my days of socializing are in the past- there will be plenty of that in Heaven for all of Eternity!! Can’t wait to meet all of you my Christian family!! GOD IS GOOD NO MATTER WHAT❤️ Thank you brother for getting this message out for those of us who sometimes feel quite lonely! Blessings! Hebrews 12:3
NO FAMILY! NO FRIENDS! NO RELATIONSHIP! GOOD BYE MATRIX! CHOSEN 1 OVA HERE! SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE💪💜💪🙏 SURVIVOR OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE! 💪💜💪🙏 GOD OVER EVERYTHING & EVERYONE!🙏🙌🙏 LOVE YOU JESUS💓🙏💓PEACE IS GLORY🙏🙌🙏💜💜💃💃💃
Spot on man. I grew up without a Dad, had friends and families growing up, even some people in Church I met when I got saved. As years go by, I've come to the realization that no one really cares, and I'm always left out. This is the life of being chosen and I've accepted it. Only God knows the outcome if things were the other way around. He knows best
I have from the time I have been born been separated from family, friends and love ones. Lost a daughter in a place and way truly unbelievable. God has put me in the most terrible and painful places and situations and always had to survive in strange places and situations that nobody could ever contemplate. So many places, situations and people. I have seen true evil and true good. It is like God is conditioning me for something that I am not aware of. The one thing I always wanted was to create a family but as I do all to build it gets taken away and I am left each time with humiliating and crippling memories. I can only trust God has a purpose for this very long road.
I hung on wayyy too long. I suffered mentally around many toxic people...i slept a lot cause of the stressful effects. I lost years but tried my best to grow and make hard decisions despite it all. This last year just hit a threshold of pain and im letting go. I swear if i hold onto to anymore crap and baggage ill die of a heart attack. Time to leave them all behind.
Totally relate! I had to distance myself from family and friends because they caused me so much stress and worry, I was not sleeping, gaining weight, smoking heavily and was having chest pains, I had to get away for my own sanity. I was trying to help them but anything I said was ignored so if they don’t want to hear what I have to say I won’t talk at all. It’s true the people you love the most will hurt you the most.
@@MelModica I felt crazy so many times around family. I'm in my 30s and carrying so much from never having needs met and I'm dying inside and it's probably noticeable im in pain. The emotional denial around them makes me insane. Everyone is acting like everything is fine and I just want to flip the table over and say when are we gonna be real for once. The trauma I've carried from never feeling safe has made it hard to just survive somedays. I remember one night on the way back home from seeing family a lady at a restaurant could see it. She came to take my order and asked are you okay? I lied and said yes...I had to hold back the tears...
Friends and family will absolutely hold you back and/ or sabotage you. Our purpose is only ours to fulfill, they cannot come anyways and they themselves had their own purpose to fulfill but would rather be grouped up.
I'm 62 female living with my dog. You just described my life. No marriage, no kids, many relationships but underneath it all driven by the need to grow and fear of getting stuck. I feel like others often can't see me because they don't have even the idea of me in their head. But it very easy for us to understand others, that's why we run. Lol
I'm 80 never married no kids but wanted them. I have two dachshunds and figure God created and put them here for a reason. Now past childbearing age I struggled with what my purpose in life is and was but now realize my purpose is to be obedient to and love and please God. Nothing else is as important and I pray for guidance and live one day at a time. I watch the world go crazy, I don't like it but accept their stations in life, I'm not their (the worlds' or familys') redeemer. After praying to Jesus for years for guidance and understanding, I don't overthink life, I accept that I am right where God wants me to be. That is real peace.
Exactly what happens to me right now , they all come against me ,haunt me down like a deer all because i choose God to believe in , even my own sibbling turns against me , he had the best life here , all he needed , but i see demons start to take over the masses ,even your closest ones ,all praises to the most high, protect yourself at all costs ✌️🔥
Don't forget, people with standards are intimidating and misunderstood by EVERYBODY. people can tell right off, you're not gonna fall for it. So they go away. 😮
I'm 52 and have noticed approximately every 7 years you feel like you're living differently and there's a need to stop and reassess where you are and who you are surrounded by.
@fredrickm4436 I noticed the 7 year thing myself then had to go research it. Mainly starting with the 7 year itch theory in relationships. But then I heard our cells regenerate at a rate such that every 7 years, we are basically biologically different I some ways. I'll check it out! Thanks.
@@71suezqz i read a PDF about chinese medicine and how our body mind and soul live in different stages of life too, it was really interesting, innocence of childhood and playfulness lots of energy, then the biological urges and seeking a partner becomes the next stage, id say that would be in your 20s, then the next stage is a kind of enlightenment or spiritual phase in which you begin to question government, wars, money systems, your own existence etc so id say thats in your mid 30's to 50, then the next stage is you begin to wind down, reflect on emotions and control them and do kind things for others and pass on wisdom to younger human beings, 50s to 70s, then the final phase is you prepare yourself for the final curtain and your journey in to your next body and life experience. the PDF said basically all humans go through this life transition.
Build a very small circle of one or two loyal friends who understand what friendship means, but discard everyone else. 99% of them are using you for something. Be kind to others, care for others, but do not let that 99% push you away from your purpose and your beliefs. I wouldn't have believed this video when I was 15 or 20 or even 35, but now that I am older I know it's true.
Yeah I have never understood most of the people I deal with . The modern world is very unstable and unnatural to me. My inner being says I should be isolated away from most people living on a farm, working in a field , taking care of my wife and children . Not having to attend work functions with service level idiots , not having to share living space with zombies , not having to deal with zombies at Costco etc
The chosen ones trigger the demons in the ones who are unawares. Then they attack. I prefer to be alone most of the time. I don't stick around to much anymore. They become jealous because they don't know their purpose and just follow the crowds. Love them and walk away when they start to get weird and treat you lesser then the rest of them. Take care of your health, mind, body and spirit because if they are jealous they will take advantage of you. Love yourselves first.
I thank you brother for your message! It really does mirror my life. At 38 years old I have finally excepted that it is OK to live your life solo. I do have many people that I can contact, I just don’t want to, our morals are just too different! I have lost the sense of being lonely, and now find myself as being free, I can go anywhere I wanna go I can do anything I want to do, and the only one to judge me is God! That is an OK life, I am OK with my options being open I am OK with looking towards the future, I know that I am never alone, because I have Christ! Life will be OK for all of us! I pray that everyone is always safe and happy with themselves! Never compare yourself to anyone, and live the life you have always dreamed! Nothing can stop you! God bless everyone here!
Pray for Him to heal you, you might be alone for a season but that is suposed to be while he prepare you and until gets you near the people He has for you at the right time. He didn´t created us to be alone. Please ask Him.
I just started watching your videos not too long ago I stopped smoking weed and drinking your videos are really motivating me to change my life completely thank you not too many people can get through to me
Same here no friends no family i cutted them yes actually im people person but tired toxic people Thank your videos bro ❤️ now i know it like me people have .....
For me the isolation that Im going through is one of protection for my mind and heart. Been trying to warn many of this global change for 30 years-always had nothing but mocking of those truly locked into these systems
I can relate , when I was young I was really popular and had lots of friends , when I got older I was alone and isolated and learned to live with it and I enjoy it
damn... same. I used to love being around people, now i pretty much hate it. For me i feel like my childhood friendships were authentic because there was no envy or hate, just fun. Nowadays it's all twisted. You can't even trust your own family.
@@ayandangcobo1755I agree. I thought family were those who really care about you and stuck with you until the end. Well it wasn’t up until I was diagnosed with multiple sclorsis. I was told that I’m faking it for attention and that I look fine and blah blah. Since that day my perception on family has changed. I don’t want to be around family or friends. When people are over I leave. I don’t want to be near anyone except my cat. At least my cat never leaves my side. Doesn’t judge me. Like my family does.
Straight preaching facts. I let go and after pain and heart break I picked up the pieces and my life is becoming better then ever! ❤ Ty for the message. Keep spreading your truth :)
Exactly brotha. Thanks for the reminder that we are just different and they wont be able to change. We cant help everyone and make them come with us.. my empathy is too damn strong and i go deep in everything, it hurts to know how most people are different than us and that we will be moving on without them but it is what it is. We need to be firm with our purpose. Strength, determination, merciless forever. Everyones life has been planned since birth. Everything comes together.
I don’t know what my purpose is. I’ve lost that direction in my life. I had a purpose before and I thrived. Today, I’m struggling and trying to sort out what my purpose is.
Each day is filled with many purposes, sometimes just getting out of bed, doing the mundane and self care is a profound purpose that leads to other things. So many look outside themselves for what must be found within. The kingdom of God is within so find your King because once this is done everything changes. Even if one is bed bound, life takes on a dramatic and exciting change as we feel worth, feel a purpose rather than have one to be attained outside of ourselves. Living life on purpose is the purpose lol. To be awake, aware, to know you are not the flesh yet the spirit within and then to connect with the spirit whom we belong to well that is the ultimate purpose to all our lives. Your direction is within, in silence, alone yet not but with God. He communicates with people in many many ways and all we have to do is reach out with a pure heart and mind. Do it Beloved and be amazed at how different life will be with just one little pure contact with Jesus. Hallelujah!
Spread the Gospel, that´s what we all have to do. Turn to God and He will guide you. What you must do in your day to day life like work?, probably has to do with your gifts, your talents, andif you do it all to glorify Him, you will excel at it.
I love all of us. Thank you greatly for sharing this truth. It is helping me to deal with life. I look at all living things, who we are, all organically connected to and understand when I advance it automatically forces the same from all the others behind me. Same thing for those ahead of me. When they advance so do I. Like a ball. I love you.
I have found a sense of peace and validation by learning about Jesus and his words. I've had anxiety and depression bad since living on my own 4yrs now. The Only thing that has saved me is learning about the truth and peace that the word of god is truth.
Good video this is how I think exactly, this fully makes sense. I've lost so many friends due to death and some moving away. and family members. One of my brothers died last summer in a car accident, my dog had to get put to rest due to old age 5 months ago, lost a really close female friend that moved away, life changes so fast within a matter of 6-12 months sometimes. We gotta just keep pushing forward 💪🏼 stay strong homies
So sorry for your loss. I’m 43 and lost so many people too and when I was a child I hoped everyone would live a long time, didn’t think we would experience this much loss til much later in life and it’s a painful reminder don’t take anyone or anything for granted cause things can change in a split second. Getting older is not for the weak that’s for sure.
@MelModica thanks for your kind words. Yeah as we age you witness more death an pain it truly is sad sometimes when I reminisce on the past. Just how life is
I came into this world 🗺️ alone so I leave alone. Nobody has control over my life. Friends are waste of my time because they are all full of spirit of envy and jealousy.
I need to connect with people who have been through this. I live somewhere where i don't know anyone. My narc husband just dumped me. We were together for 11 years. He has so much anger and was recently forbidden to come onto our the property for tearing the apartment door down because of his anger. I have people looking out for me for protection but it is so lonely. Getting ready to live in rv.
TJ, Im going through this now and I've lost everyone but one family member who acts more like an enemy. Brother been with you since day one. Love you bro❤✝🙏and Thank You from NYC
Sorry to hear that brother, i hope you will find the right people who will fit in your life🙏 the people you've lost are just not on your level, trust me i can know! Bless from Holland bro❤
Thank you brother Terry for all your contributions. You are truly a blessing to man, and chosen ones period. Greatly appreciate the reassurance and encouragement. Love ya, blessings and light to you on your journey!
I lost my husband, then my best friend, then my daughter and the rest of the family sided with her... followed by a broken back and no where to go...all in a Span of 5 months. Now I'm settled and loving spending lots of time ALONE
Sorry for your loss and i can relate because i lost my mom,my father and a brother who comitted suicide and i dont have a single friend and it hurts so much but God gives strength. A virtual hug for you from Amsterdam,The Netherlands ❤
How did I come across this video? Why did I click on it to watch it? The only thing that I can come up with is through the Divine. I know someone that I love deeply, who I will forward this to. This is a powerful, truthful testimony. Thank you.
This is so true. People cant just sit still and see God work. They are busy and distracted with all the cares of this life. Being pulled here and there.
You're a Godsend. We are moving like fluid. It's hard to trust that the life Im in right now will last. I have no faith that today will be the same as tomorrow. I was thinking yesterday about all the places I go that I have never gone with another person. Certain routes. A grocery store that have never walked the aisle with another person. I realized these places are sacred to me. I know if I brought another person to my spots, they wouldn't cherish these places and moments that have been a part of me for decades. Such as my family home. I will never bring another person into my domain again. Why? Because I have had people in the past be completely disrespectful of my world. Never again. I'll meet someone on common ground. Not at a place that is special to me.
Excellent and so very true! -And Well said. God Bless you and all the chosen who are keeping themselves in line with God’s purpose in this life. ❤ Praise OurLord Jesus!
You are speaking TRUTH here! x Its only when we are alone do we discover who we are destined to be with God. We realise its God we NEED and will sustain us with everything we need and will bring in those who are meant to be in our lives to help us and be there for us too x
I'm astounded at your level of wisdom for your young age. I'm in the same position right now. I'm the black sheep of the family for no reason. Dad dangles his money in front of my siblings to keep them coming back.
I had so much trauma I had to heal. I felt strong emotions coming up for YEARS. Now I feel tired ALL THE TIME and just focusing on getting my energy back to normal. It's been hell. People created so much drama for so long and people always got something to say especially family members like cousins. Always gotta say something to hurt even when I've done nothing wrong to them.
It’s like they are so miserable they just want everyone else to be miserable! I try to stay positive and uplift others but it’s extremely difficult when all they do is try to pull us down with them.
THIS HAS BEEN MY LIFE! BEEN LIED ON SOOOOO MUCH! EVERY TIME YOU TURN AROUND. SOMEBODY JEALOUS! SOMEBODY LYING! SOMEBODY TURNING FOLKS AGAINST YOU! REPETITIVE. WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS LIVE YOUR LIFE AND CARRY ON. SOMEONE EKED BRINGING STRIFE! REMARKABLY AMAZING IN A BAD WAY! BUT GOD ALWAYS COMES THROUGH! IT'S JUST SO HARD IN THE BEGINNING! THEN WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN YOU KNOW THAT IS NOT WHERE GOD WANTS YOU TO BE. AND KEEP IT MOVING! ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER FOR CHRIST. THERE ARE PERIODS IN BETWEEN THAT ARE DESOLATE. BUT IT GET BETTER SLOWLY..... HANGING IN THERE❤
Currently can relate... changes are happening and lost my woman who was my friend and my love...stole my heart away...complicated situation...but i feel so weak right now. Such a big part of me shut down after years and years of betrayal and smear campaigns, meeting somebody i could be open and vulnerable with, share love with, share my heart and mind with...damn it hits hard when that leaves again...but im fighting through to move away and start afresh.
It hurts but think of that: when someone can leave you, it is not meant to be. This person doesn’t deserve you, your love and your heart. The right person will show up, believe me 😉
To be such a young man you sure are very awakened to so much of the truth. You are very blessed and definitely a chosen One.❤ Thank you for sharing your story and I'm watching you from Virginia. I am a chosen One in many fields
This road seems like we are alone for it bro, some spirits even get in them to tell you the opposite of what’s your focus and mission in life according to Jesus and the focus you deep down is the truth. I used to be even popular whether was social media or just many friends, I don’t have that anymore, family is not around and even when I get to go to some gatherings, it’s just feels different and I think the isolation we’re supposed to have is taking it’s toll on us. But it’s for us to grow and be much stronger. God bless man
Brother you're absolutely correct. I wish I had these words for kids these days. Yeah I can say kids including you. Why, well I'm fifty years old now. I have zero friends now from my past and it's hard to forget them and the real fantastic times. I mean while times, I could never say on here. The things we did were crazy brother. I mean crazy. Though now at this age of 50. Nope zero friends left. I've been married and divorced now twice. I'm alone now. I'm currently taking care of my elderly parents. Are those friends around. Hell no. Long ago the went on to their own lives and future. Nothing will take that away from them. Even my very very best friend. He won't take my calls anymore. Nope. You're friends you think are you're best, I mean soul best friends. Litteraly like brothers. Since 1 st grade to 28. Now they are freaking gone. No one calls. No one responds nothing. You absolutely hit the nail on the head of what all men can expect from friends in the future. Women completely different though. They always seem to connect no matter the age or where they are at. They always keep their friends close. No matter what. I don't get why men abandon their friends so easy. It's like we treat our best friends like they never were ever friends. Just ignore them and they will go away. Though why. I don't get this rap. I miss my best friend. I miss all my friends. They could all care less. One thing about me though. When I was 20 I lost both kidneys. I did five years on dialysis. Finnaly got my first kindly transplant. Then graduated in aassive degree that 300 wanted to get in and only 100 of us made it. Then five years later because it was an extended and mandatory five year degree. Only 24 of us graduated on time. It was hard and sucked. No time in college to party and have fun. Nope, Study study study. All five years. I then went on to do many things in Highrises construction management. I even got into highrise inspection for years. It was awesome. Then started my own company in home inspection and did $230,000 a year. But then. My kidney failed. I called everyone I knew for support. Absolutely no one answered. Just like you said. These so called brothers or best friends. Absolutely not. They straight up abandon me. Though my friends and I would talk set plans and do stuff for years before. Even in college. We would all get together and camp, fish, hunt, whatever. We were all close. Though after my kidney quit. The transplanted kidney. No one wanted to deal with my trauma anymore or didn't know what to do or say. I then went onto another 7+1/2 years but was only given 8yrs to live. You think any of my friends cared. Laugh at that one. I left messages at my 7+1/2 years to say. I'm done, I really believe I won't make it. I can really feel myself dieing. Do you think anyone, I'm even talking about, who I called, my freaking Brother for real. Nope. Not even him. Well I did get that transplant avmonth later. I'm doing great today. The kidney was an exact match. I still need to take a crap load of anti rejection meds. Though I'm great. Do I hear from these friends anymore. Hell no. Never rely on you're so called friends forever. YOURE COMPLETELY ON YOURE OWN ECEPT FOR REAL FAMILY PERIOD. THATS IT. ITS SAID, ITS DONE THERE. ONLY REAL FAMILY. NOT WIFES, FRIENDS ETC. JUST FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. SO BE NICE TO THEM, MAKE UP TO THEM, THEY WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.
I agree. I grew up in the ‘90s and ‘90s when AIDS was a real existential threat: If you got it, it was a death sentence. But I was fat, so I didn’t sleep around. And I firmly believe God did this to keep me around to take care of my mother. Now that she’s passed, I can now focus on myself.
God stripped so many people -both family and friends pretending to be family, mostly "Christians" - from my life in different ways within 5 years and I'm finally at peace. Never been more fulfilled 😊
I have had a great life, I am a nurse and I have always tried to do the right thing. I lost my husband to cancer my sister in a car wreak and my dad and in the past few years my mother and other sister the pain and loneliness is terrible. I don’t get around many people my circle is small and i can’t figure out why I am left. I feel I have know identity and I feel like I don’t belong. I feel like I don’t want to be here anymore to be honest
So sorry for your loss, nobody talks about how as time goes on we lose people and it’s harder to make friends these days. I work night shift so I am alone most of the time.
You get used to doing everything alone, sucks at first but in the end you realize it's a blessing in disquise.
Not all the time. God did not put us here to be all alone on a consistent basis. I believe it is a trick of the enemy. If God wanted us to be all alone on a consistent basis he would’ve made one human being. We close our self off because we’ve been hurt and rejected and we’re tired of it. I know I did it and I went into deep depression. I had to learn how to forgive family members and stop having expectations. Everybody is not where you are spiritually. We have to learn how to love people where they’re at and not to close off just because they are not where we are spiritually. And we can’t try to have deep spiritual conversations with them because they’re not ready but it doesn’t mean that they don’t have love to offer us. We all need love.
I believe that the Lord will not mind if we are with people sometimes but not everyday.The Lord wants us to be more with Him so we can know Him for ourselves Amen 🙏🙏🙏😊
Some days are okay and sometimes it's hard. The hardest is when you're not feeling well and have no one.
I say that all the time. I absolutely LOVE living alone. There's no drama and you get to do whatever you want whenever you want. It's very peaceful and the solitude can be addictive. However, there's one tiny aspect of it that's not so great. When you have the flu or get sick there's nobody to run errands for you or go to the market to get chicken soup or medicine and such. You have to drag your ass out of bed with chills and a fever and go yourself. It sucks but it builds character. 😊
@@josebro352 I just want someone to be here for me they don't even have to really do anything.
There must be some social services that deal with those situations.
But we have each other. We have life and breath and hope. ❤
@@di4085can fully relate
Purpose of human life: To love God, and to enjoy Him forever.
God? What is God to you?
Him? His infernal majesty?
To love yourself and rejoice. You have the spirit of God making you one with God. The IMAGE of God. Anyone argue this is not godly. I don't use the Bible for a cheat sheet by reacting scripture. Know knowledge in cheating the teacher.
@@WarrenDay-we9do God to me is me. I was born in his image. What do you see in the mirror. An image a reflection of yourself.
Born orphan, rejected by mother and father, no family or friends, just being mocked, rejected despised, by almost all, no church, yet an Everlasting Love for God, and this love just increased, He is my God, My Friend. and my Saviour, forever.
OMG!!!!I WISH YOU MUCH STRENGTH❤
The best house among the Muslims is the house in which orphans are well treated.” Prophet Mohamed Pbuh
Have a lovely day brother❤
@@AA-cu4mg my God, my Friend, and my Saviour is Jesus Christ, He is my Way, my Truth, and my Life. Shalom.
@@felipekennedy3135 May God's blessings be upon beloved Jesus and Virgin Marry ❤
Say, "We have believed in Allah and in what was revealed to us and what was revealed to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and the Descendants, and in what was given to Moses and Jesus and to the prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them, and we are Muslims [submitting] to Him."
Quran, al-Imran, vs 84
Salam brother
@@AA-cu4mg The best houses on earth are those filled with they whom serve the Lord. Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
It’s been a very revealing 4 years in my life. I lost parents, children turning, being toxic, etc. it’s lonely, but I don’t miss the negativity and pain
Born alone live and die alone in Gods Grace
Amen ✝️
True.
Feeling alone? Reach out with all your worth to God because once you actually know Him and I do mean know Him as in know He's real not just choosing to believe He's real, then you realize you are never alone, He knows every single thought and feeling you have and if you focus on Him, He will start contacting you in response to what you are thinking, feeling or carrying in your heart, He's super personal.
Most folks in general don't care, long as they get what they want from you. Try using the word NO and see how long the leeches hang around. Family can be the absolute worse.
exactly, you weed out the fake ones when saying no to being used.
Pure Wisdom. Im just 42 and that is just now seeping into me in every facet of my social life
right... i find it interesting.. how, you never heard from them. til they NEED you! You help them.. and then they vanish.. never to call or offer a hand back....I don't hang with family, have a few friends... alone alot.. 2 dogs and a cat. my relationship with my dysfunction 44 yr old son.. is falling apart... i am so done with his 'shiteshow'.. i gave back the front row ticket.. to his disruptions and unhealthy antics...... i don't have time, energy or patience for others needy wanties... i did it for to long!!! I now say NO. .NO...
they are THE WORST they know your weaknesses and prey on you
I'm getting ready bro. I must give some pain back to those who hurt me for no reason. I will come out victorious.
I’m blue being chosen , no friend , no family , nothing serious conversation with people too .I feel very lonely but I know this is my life path . I walk alone with Grace and Truth .
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The church which is the body of Christ is your family
That word the chosen one , Jesus came to serve, not to be served. The son of the living God actually washed feet to be an example. We're to love people who are created in God's image. We're not better than, we just want others to know the love God has for them & know, really know their identity in christ & where they're going after physical death that comes for all of us
ultimately church’s are businesses. they want your money. i played guitar in a Church of God years ago.
the people were…not very christian.
read the Bible. Jesus was a badass ..didn’t take sh*t off anyone …look it up
Besides my parents, I have no family. I have no friends, the only time anyone calls me is when they want or need something. I don't even know why I have a cell phone. Women like me because of what I look like, but they think my money is theirs, and they're entitled to it.
Chosen ones are alone because GOD is with them! This world hate GOD! Stay focused! Remember GOD loves u, and is with u, then whom can be against u! Blessings and peace!
Amen, I've been telling myself the same thing lately. I hope I make heaven my home cuz I wish to meet Almighty God the best and only true friend I ever had and leave this hellhole called earth.
Amen ✝️🙏❤️
@@Spocklee He that believeth hath everlasting life!. Its a promise and statement from Jesus Christ. No works can justify us. We all have fallen short, and therefore guilty. But by faith in Jesus Christ are we justified and sanctified. He did all the works. Believe and trust in Him. Then u will enter heaven 100%
God who? WHAT is this God you speak of?
Lost everyone in the past 2 years..... I need to hear this thanks !
God give you strength !!
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This is a very knowledgeable. You man. I don't know if it means anything to him. I'm proud of him. I heard it all my life. People are jealous of you. Family is the worst. My integrity and freedom I hold dearly.
"The higher you soar, the smaller you appear to those who cannot fly."
F. Nietzsche, legendary German "laughing lion" philosopher..
Said the greatest hater of humanity, the man who wanted to eradicate humanity and build super-humans..Those who followed his teachings, killed millions of innocent people-mass murderers and psychos..Thats the kind of wisdom he passed to others..Its a shame you consider this man wise and sane,in fact he was insane he should have been behind bars..to say the least..🤮🤮🤮
Same guy who said God is dead but is now dead
@senjuebro same guy who wass ten times the man u will ever dream about being...boy! 😮
@@QuintonPearce that man couldn’t hold luffys pain, let alone mine bro
Nietzsche had full conversations with his horse. Probably his syphillis ridden brain.
l’m almost 53 with no family and absolutely no friends, people bug the shit out of me. l can only stand to be around others for maybe 30mins tops (and that’s pushing it). l like what l like and do what l want and never answer to anyone, when people are around l have to fake like l give a shit about their lives or l have to play host and make sure everyone is pampered and taken care of (cause everyone is such a little bitch). these days it’s just me and my dog living off-grid in the mountains of colorado miles and miles away from the nearest idiot, just the way we like it.
Best comment I have seen in ages
Awsome brother!!
''l like what l like and do what l want and never answer to anyone,''👏👏👏👏👏👏
Would love to see you throwing some " damnn thats crazy" listening to their drama
It’s sad but true most people cause nothing but drama. I prefer to be home alone with my cats in peace and quiet!
I’m 55, and the same thing keeps happening in my life. My husband just dumped me 2 years ago after 29 years of marriage and 5 grandchildren. I feel so all alone. Yes, I’ll keep going and this is God’s message to me today: Isaiah 43:18-19 18 “Forget the former things;
do not dwell on the past.
19 See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.
That's fucked up... The grass isn't greener on the other side... I"m 64 with no family and a couple of acquaintances. Before I became aware of the matrix... I had lots of great times. I was a DJ with my own business as well as a internet business. I was making money out of thin air... Then my father died and then I went to the Bible and got it on CD and listened to it over and over. At least 20 times from front to back and some times even more... And then the light went off... All Religions lie... The Bible says so... My understanding from a thousand different perspectives (pieces of a mosaic are called tesserae, which is the plural of tessera, and comes from the Latin word for cubes or dice (para-dise). The cube is the geometrical contruct of the matrix. Hey ma, trix are for kids aka billygoats. The cube is represented everywhere... It's the 3D version of a Hex a gone (get it) found on the north pole of Saturn... Saturday... in Julius Caesar's July. Never mine. I think too much therefore I am, am not...
Sometimes it's just nice to be free of someone and be happy again😂😂
❤ you are not alone. Health comes first 23:05
55 seems a bit young to have five grandchildren. Damn!
It's heart breaking and even mind torment. But let me give you a heads up sister. You have your freedom. No more watching adventure shows on TV. Now you can head out and create your own adventure.. me! I down sized everything. I'm poor. But content with great peace of mind. I know how lost and alone you feel. That will also pass. Here's what people do all there lives. They work jobs they don't like to buy shit they don't need to impress people they can't stand and owe the bank a fortune they will pay the rest of their lives. What a great life 😂right now is perfect timing to enter the journey. Just look at the past as learning lessons. And when things in your head start going crazy. Break your own heart open. Believe in GOD and remember all the things you did in this life. Not anyone else. The knowledge you need will start flowing through your mind slowly at first but this gets your journey started in the right direction. You will even start feeling younger physically and mentally. It's like falling in shit and coming out smelling like a rose and never be afraid to ask us older ones anything we are on a journey also. But different paths we always been on a different path but held down. You can do things others can't. You don't know it but they do. They know they can't have what you got and they don't want you to have it. There are whole communities hating on one homeless person. Why? They ain't got the balls to survive. Enjoy the journey. 🎉❤
Thank you. Beautiful. ❤ God is with you. You are not alone.
There's a lot of people out there, the streets, your neighborhood, the place you live, even the library, that the only way they have to "excel" out of their low plane of mediocrity is pushing you down
This dude is genuine and that nowadays is RARE
You do not know that. Test every spirit whether they be of God or the devil. I don’t trust no one. Where’s the gospel? There are still lost souls out there. Yadee yadah won’t get a lost soul saved. The message is for believers, yet it felt like yadee yadah.
Yah l thinking you’re superior and everyone else is a degenerate is so genuine?🤡
@@1Corinthians15_1-4there is no proof that God exists.
Theres no proof for the spiritually dead. We may not understand how he came to be, but the properties and laws of a different dimension are beyond our comprehension. With enough self reflection and critical thinking, creation is the most logical answer for life as we know it. " For the hearts of these people are hardened, and their ears cannot hear, and they have closed their eyes- so their eyes cannot see, and their ears cannot hear, and their hearts cannot understand, and they cannot turn to me and let me heal them."Matt 13:15
He's a TH-cam actor making money from "likes" and "subscribers".
Being alone gives you the freedom to be who you are - to be yourself.
Yes thank you Jesus 🙏😊😊😊 Amen
Family and friends will not support the chosen one. Instead they will oppose you. Because they can’t elevate with you. They lack belief in themselves. So if you grow, you’re going to be leaving them behind.
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I must not be a chosen one because my family and friends support me. I'd rather not be a so-called chosen one and have friends and family that support me. You can have family, friends, and purpose all at the same time.
@@BREEZYM6015yeah a bit of a blanket statement(black or white thinking....as in all your family members???) by narc survivor...still like his work alot tho
Maybe only chosen ones will understand my comment. If you look at the other videos on this topic as well, you will see in the comments section. Chosen ones are alone or almost alone most of the time. Most people are not going to resonate with the chosen ones. And that is the purpose of us being chosen, to wake people up. When you awaken to your purpose, people will think you're crazy and some may even turn against you. This may even include your closest family members and friends. And it's because they can't meet you there. It doesn't make any sense to them, at their level of vibration.
theres people who talk the talk and those who walk the walk
I use to have soooo many friends and they’re still back in TX but then I moved out to east coast where my 2 lukewarm kids are - to be near to my grandkids! Been here a year and no friends🥹 BUT GOD!!! I am a 73 yr old widow- feel lonely but know my assignment is to pray and pour into my little gkids who are like little sponges and love Jesus!
It’s ok- but praying hard every day for my kids/ my days of socializing are in the past- there will be plenty of that in Heaven for all of Eternity!! Can’t wait to meet all of you my Christian family!!
GOD IS GOOD NO MATTER WHAT❤️
Thank you brother for getting this message out for those of us who sometimes feel quite lonely! Blessings!
Hebrews 12:3
People will only meet you as far as they meet themselves🤷♂️
Well said
Wow, that was powerful
Brilliant honestly
That is an accurate statement
Amen and Amen! Well thought and put out too us. 💯 Accurate. Thanks for reminding all these years
NO FAMILY! NO FRIENDS! NO RELATIONSHIP! GOOD BYE MATRIX! CHOSEN 1 OVA HERE! SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE💪💜💪🙏 SURVIVOR OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE! 💪💜💪🙏 GOD OVER EVERYTHING & EVERYONE!🙏🙌🙏 LOVE YOU JESUS💓🙏💓PEACE IS GLORY🙏🙌🙏💜💜💃💃💃
Jesus loves you..keep your head up. Stay strong
@@Pa_700 AMEN 🙏🙌🙏
@@Pa_700That’s me 100 %
Survivor of abuse praise God.
A wise young man. You've earned my subscription.
Same here....so refreshing to hear and spot on.👊👍
Yes i losted all my family 2 years ago and i have no friends and living with a family that is abusive in many ways
Spot on man. I grew up without a Dad, had friends and families growing up, even some people in Church I met when I got saved. As years go by, I've come to the realization that no one really cares, and I'm always left out. This is the life of being chosen and I've accepted it. Only God knows the outcome if things were the other way around. He knows best
I have from the time I have been born been separated from family, friends and love ones. Lost a daughter in a place and way truly unbelievable. God has put me in the most terrible and painful places and situations and always had to survive in strange places and situations that nobody could ever contemplate. So many places, situations and people. I have seen true evil and true good.
It is like God is conditioning me for something that I am not aware of. The one thing I always wanted was to create a family but as I do all to build it gets taken away and I am left each time with humiliating and crippling memories. I can only trust God has a purpose for this very long road.
I carry with me every living being and though I move through most days solo, this turns loneliness into strength and motivation ❤
I hung on wayyy too long. I suffered mentally around many toxic people...i slept a lot cause of the stressful effects. I lost years but tried my best to grow and make hard decisions despite it all. This last year just hit a threshold of pain and im letting go. I swear if i hold onto to anymore crap and baggage ill die of a heart attack. Time to leave them all behind.
Totally relate! I had to distance myself from family and friends because they caused me so much stress and worry, I was not sleeping, gaining weight, smoking heavily and was having chest pains, I had to get away for my own sanity. I was trying to help them but anything I said was ignored so if they don’t want to hear what I have to say I won’t talk at all. It’s true the people you love the most will hurt you the most.
i just had to let go of my anger i was felling the same!
@@MelModica I felt crazy so many times around family. I'm in my 30s and carrying so much from never having needs met and I'm dying inside and it's probably noticeable im in pain. The emotional denial around them makes me insane. Everyone is acting like everything is fine and I just want to flip the table over and say when are we gonna be real for once. The trauma I've carried from never feeling safe has made it hard to just survive somedays. I remember one night on the way back home from seeing family a lady at a restaurant could see it. She came to take my order and asked are you okay? I lied and said yes...I had to hold back the tears...
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I feel you man. Those individuals can kill somebody and don't give a damn!
_AMEN_ brother! You are a true, _authentic _LIGHT WORKER!_ You've seen the light.....stay powerful!!
Friends and family will absolutely hold you back and/ or sabotage you. Our purpose is only ours to fulfill, they cannot come anyways and they themselves had their own purpose to fulfill but would rather be grouped up.
I'm 62 female living with my dog. You just described my life. No marriage, no kids, many relationships but underneath it all driven by the need to grow and fear of getting stuck.
I feel like others often can't see me because they don't have even the idea of me in their head. But it very easy for us to understand others, that's why we run. Lol
I am 63 and am in the same position.
I'm 80 never married no kids but wanted them. I have two dachshunds and figure God created and put them here for a reason. Now past childbearing age I struggled with what my purpose in life is and was but now realize my purpose is to be obedient to and love and please God. Nothing else is as important and I pray for guidance and live one day at a time. I watch the world go crazy, I don't like it but accept their stations in life, I'm not their (the worlds' or familys') redeemer. After praying to Jesus for years for guidance and understanding, I don't overthink life, I accept that I am right where God wants me to be. That is real peace.
Exactly what happens to me right now , they all come against me ,haunt me down like a deer all because i choose God to believe in , even my own sibbling turns against me , he had the best life here , all he needed , but i see demons start to take over the masses ,even your closest ones ,all praises to the most high, protect yourself at all costs ✌️🔥
Believe in God if that is what brings you peace.
The truth is a burden that few can relate to.
Nobody no family no friends no new people only the chosen
We love you Jesus does too
You are very wise for being a young man. I know folks in their 40’s-50’s who haven’t even figured this it yet.
You are not alone....God is always with you.
Don't forget, people with standards are intimidating and misunderstood by EVERYBODY. people can tell right off, you're not gonna fall for it. So they go away. 😮
It gets hard having no friends but it's helluva lot better than being drained by them. You are very good
Jesus loves you. You have us. 😃
I'm 52 and have noticed approximately every 7 years you feel like you're living differently and there's a need to stop and reassess where you are and who you are surrounded by.
true.
Wow! You noticed that too. Awesome. Check this video out - Do Humans Have Seven Year Cycles Throughout Life?
Watch MrDawson38 - Do Humans Have Seven Year Cycles Throughout Life?
@fredrickm4436 I noticed the 7 year thing myself then had to go research it. Mainly starting with the 7 year itch theory in relationships. But then I heard our cells regenerate at a rate such that every 7 years, we are basically biologically different I some ways. I'll check it out! Thanks.
@@71suezqz i read a PDF about chinese medicine and how our body mind and soul live in different stages of life too, it was really interesting, innocence of childhood and playfulness lots of energy, then the biological urges and seeking a partner becomes the next stage, id say that would be in your 20s, then the next stage is a kind of enlightenment or spiritual phase in which you begin to question government, wars, money systems, your own existence etc so id say thats in your mid 30's to 50, then the next stage is you begin to wind down, reflect on emotions and control them and do kind things for others and pass on wisdom to younger human beings, 50s to 70s, then the final phase is you prepare yourself for the final curtain and your journey in to your next body and life experience. the PDF said basically all humans go through this life transition.
Build a very small circle of one or two loyal friends who understand what friendship means, but discard everyone else. 99% of them are using you for something. Be kind to others, care for others, but do not let that 99% push you away from your purpose and your beliefs. I wouldn't have believed this video when I was 15 or 20 or even 35, but now that I am older I know it's true.
Yeah I have never understood most of the people I deal with . The modern world is very unstable and unnatural to me. My inner being says I should be isolated away from most people living on a farm, working in a field , taking care of my wife and children .
Not having to attend work functions with service level idiots , not having to share living space with zombies , not having to deal with zombies at Costco etc
The chosen ones trigger the demons in the ones who are unawares. Then they attack. I prefer to be alone most of the time. I don't stick around to much anymore. They become jealous because they don't know their purpose and just follow the crowds. Love them and walk away when they start to get weird and treat you lesser then the rest of them. Take care of your health, mind, body and spirit because if they are jealous they will take advantage of you. Love yourselves first.
I thank you brother for your message! It really does mirror my life. At 38 years old I have finally excepted that it is OK to live your life solo. I do have many people that I can contact, I just don’t want to, our morals are just too different! I have lost the sense of being lonely, and now find myself as being free, I can go anywhere I wanna go I can do anything I want to do, and the only one to judge me is God! That is an OK life, I am OK with my options being open I am OK with looking towards the future, I know that I am never alone, because I have Christ! Life will be OK for all of us! I pray that everyone is always safe and happy with themselves! Never compare yourself to anyone, and live the life you have always dreamed! Nothing can stop you! God bless everyone here!
Amen to this ❤
Pray for Him to heal you, you might be alone for a season but that is suposed to be while he prepare you and until gets you near the people He has for you at the right time. He didn´t created us to be alone. Please ask Him.
@@LemonGreen-i7m amen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯😎😎💯💯
I just started watching your videos not too long ago I stopped smoking weed and drinking your videos are really motivating me to change my life completely thank you not too many people can get through to me
Same here no friends no family i cutted them yes actually im people person but tired toxic people
Thank your videos bro ❤️ now i know it like me people have .....
For me the isolation that Im going through is one of protection for my mind and heart. Been trying to warn many of this global change for 30 years-always had nothing but mocking of those truly locked into these systems
I can relate , when I was young I was really popular and had lots of friends , when I got older I was alone and isolated and learned to live with it and I enjoy it
damn... same. I used to love being around people, now i pretty much hate it. For me i feel like my childhood friendships were authentic because there was no envy or hate, just fun. Nowadays it's all twisted. You can't even trust your own family.
@@ayandangcobo1755 💯💯
@@ayandangcobo1755I agree. I thought family were those who really care about you and stuck with you until the end. Well it wasn’t up until I was diagnosed with multiple sclorsis. I was told that I’m faking it for attention and that I look fine and blah blah. Since that day my perception on family has changed. I don’t want to be around family or friends. When people are over I leave. I don’t want to be near anyone except my cat. At least my cat never leaves my side. Doesn’t judge me. Like my family does.
@@JohnSmith-vb7zx 💪🏿 peace over everything brother. I think i might het a pet too cuz at this point i dont think i have anybody.
@@ayandangcobo1755 pets are amazing ! They greet you at the door every single day! I mean everyday ! They are with you until the end! And vise versa!
Straight preaching facts. I let go and after pain and heart break I picked up the pieces and my life is becoming better then ever! ❤ Ty for the message. Keep spreading your truth :)
Exactly brotha. Thanks for the reminder that we are just different and they wont be able to change. We cant help everyone and make them come with us.. my empathy is too damn strong and i go deep in everything, it hurts to know how most people are different than us and that we will be moving on without them but it is what it is.
We need to be firm with our purpose. Strength, determination, merciless forever. Everyones life has been planned since birth. Everything comes together.
I don’t know what my purpose is. I’ve lost that direction in my life. I had a purpose before and I thrived. Today, I’m struggling and trying to sort out what my purpose is.
Me too! Got sick, forced to retire, helped out with my Dad before he passed and now even with the birth of 3 great grands, I’m lost 😞
Me too I had a purpose lost family members gained a son bit at the same time transitioned and my mind set changed along with who I'm meant to be
Focus your mind we all get lost u just have to find yourself again remember you are loved
Each day is filled with many purposes, sometimes just getting out of bed, doing the mundane and self care is a profound purpose that leads to other things. So many look outside themselves for what must be found within. The kingdom of God is within so find your King because once this is done everything changes. Even if one is bed bound, life takes on a dramatic and exciting change as we feel worth, feel a purpose rather than have one to be attained outside of ourselves. Living life on purpose is the purpose lol. To be awake, aware, to know you are not the flesh yet the spirit within and then to connect with the spirit whom we belong to well that is the ultimate purpose to all our lives. Your direction is within, in silence, alone yet not but with God. He communicates with people in many many ways and all we have to do is reach out with a pure heart and mind. Do it Beloved and be amazed at how different life will be with just one little pure contact with Jesus. Hallelujah!
Spread the Gospel, that´s what we all have to do. Turn to God and He will guide you. What you must do in your day to day life like work?, probably has to do with your gifts, your talents, andif you do it all to glorify Him, you will excel at it.
I love all of us. Thank you greatly for sharing this truth. It is helping me to deal with life. I look at all living things, who we are,
all organically connected to and understand when I advance it automatically forces the same from all the others behind me.
Same thing for those ahead of me. When they advance so do I. Like a ball. I love you.
Thank you. Tuff pill to swallow. The PAIN. In the pit of my stomach. Less when I hear others experiencing same. Ehhh❤️❤️❤️
I have found a sense of peace and validation by learning about Jesus and his words. I've had anxiety and depression bad since living on my own 4yrs now. The Only thing that has saved me is learning about the truth and peace that the word of god is truth.
People want everyone to be alike. When somebody is different they gang up on you
Good video this is how I think exactly, this fully makes sense. I've lost so many friends due to death and some moving away. and family members. One of my brothers died last summer in a car accident, my dog had to get put to rest due to old age 5 months ago, lost a really close female friend that moved away, life changes so fast within a matter of 6-12 months sometimes. We gotta just keep pushing forward 💪🏼 stay strong homies
So sorry for your loss. I’m 43 and lost so many people too and when I was a child I hoped everyone would live a long time, didn’t think we would experience this much loss til much later in life and it’s a painful reminder don’t take anyone or anything for granted cause things can change in a split second. Getting older is not for the weak that’s for sure.
@MelModica thanks for your kind words. Yeah as we age you witness more death an pain it truly is sad sometimes when I reminisce on the past. Just how life is
No family no friends no headache
Jesus loves you
@@Pa_700 I don't need his love , how about he can send me $10 million dollars cheque
@@Pa_700 keep his love for yourself
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@@Pa_700jesus is a metaphor for Man (you), ignorant
I came into this world 🗺️ alone so I leave alone.
Nobody has control over my life.
Friends are waste of my time because they are all full of spirit of envy and jealousy.
I need to connect with people who have been through this. I live somewhere where i don't know anyone. My narc husband just dumped me. We were together for 11 years. He has so much anger and was recently forbidden to come onto our the property for tearing the apartment door down because of his anger. I have people looking out for me for protection but it is so lonely. Getting ready to live in rv.
TJ, Im going through this now and I've lost everyone but one family member who acts more like an enemy. Brother been with you since day one. Love you bro❤✝🙏and Thank You from NYC
me too brother. Terry is an old-soul saint who can truly help beyond his videos if you sign up for his coaching
THANK YOU BROTHER, PEACE, LOVE AND GODS BLESSINGS TO YOU✝❤🙏@@daxhunterjordan
IVE DONE THE WORST U CAN DO... trying to make it work. It never worked
Sorry to hear that brother, i hope you will find the right people who will fit in your life🙏 the people you've lost are just not on your level, trust me i can know! Bless from Holland bro❤
THAT MEANS SO MUCH BRO, LOVE FROM NEW YORK CITY❤@@jessemooij9952
Thank you brother Terry for all your contributions. You are truly a blessing to man, and chosen ones period. Greatly appreciate the reassurance and encouragement. Love ya, blessings and light to you on your journey!
Thats right BOSS. Living the independent life ever since losing My Friends and family.
This is very weird what’s going on with us. I’ve met a couple of other COs but this is heavy stuff! Prayers for all my brothers and sisters!
I lost my husband, then my best friend, then my daughter and the rest of the family sided with her... followed by a broken back and no where to go...all in a Span of 5 months. Now I'm settled and loving spending lots of time ALONE
Sorry for your loss and i can relate because i lost my mom,my father and a brother who comitted suicide and i dont have a single friend and it hurts so much but God gives strength. A virtual hug for you from Amsterdam,The Netherlands ❤
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How did I come across this video? Why did I click on it to watch it? The only thing that I can come up with is through the Divine. I know someone that I love deeply, who I will forward this to. This is a powerful, truthful testimony. Thank you.
Welcome to the Lone Wolf Era where the Lone Wolf thrives at the higher levels! 🐺
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We are royalty
..cut from a different cloth...👑☮️🦚
Many are called but few are chosen. He's preparing us for something bigger.
This is so true. People cant just sit still and see God work. They are busy and distracted with all the cares of this life. Being pulled here and there.
I FEEL VERY WELL ALONE
THANK YOU FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING CITIZEN
You're a Godsend. We are moving like fluid. It's hard to trust that the life Im in right now will last. I have no faith that today will be the same as tomorrow.
I was thinking yesterday about all the places I go that I have never gone with another person. Certain routes. A grocery store that have never walked the aisle with another person. I realized these places are sacred to me. I know if I brought another person to my spots, they wouldn't cherish these places and moments that have been a part of me for decades. Such as my family home. I will never bring another person into my domain again. Why? Because I have had people in the past be completely disrespectful of my world. Never again. I'll meet someone on common ground. Not at a place that is special to me.
I get it man. I'm a seeier, and empath and I try to tell my parents things that I see and they think I'm half nuts.
Excellent and so very true! -And Well said. God Bless you and all the chosen who are keeping themselves in line with God’s purpose in this life. ❤ Praise OurLord Jesus!
You are speaking TRUTH here! x Its only when we are alone do we discover
who we are destined to be with God. We realise its God we NEED and will sustain us with everything we need and will bring in those who are meant to be in our lives to help us and be there for us too x
I'm fine with being alone than being surrounded by these fake people.
I'm astounded at your level of wisdom for your young age. I'm in the same position right now.
I'm the black sheep of the family for no reason. Dad dangles his money in front of my siblings to keep them coming back.
Unlike most loners I'm apparently a chosen one who LOVES being alone and NEVER gets lonely 😁
God ☦️, should be our number one purpose, and focus.
God who? What is God to you?
I finally found my resting place I found the Lord!!!! Hallelujah Thank you for obedience.
I think that Jesus sets us apart for a reason. I'm about done trying to figure out why but deep inside I know, I just know why..
I had so much trauma I had to heal. I felt strong emotions coming up for YEARS. Now I feel tired ALL THE TIME and just focusing on getting my energy back to normal. It's been hell. People created so much drama for so long and people always got something to say especially family members like cousins. Always gotta say something to hurt even when I've done nothing wrong to them.
It’s like they are so miserable they just want everyone else to be miserable! I try to stay positive and uplift others but it’s extremely difficult when all they do is try to pull us down with them.
@@MelModicamisery loves company. Always remind yourself that you're responsible for YOUR emotions, NOT anyone else.
THIS HAS BEEN MY LIFE! BEEN LIED ON SOOOOO MUCH! EVERY TIME YOU TURN AROUND. SOMEBODY JEALOUS! SOMEBODY LYING! SOMEBODY TURNING FOLKS AGAINST YOU! REPETITIVE. WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS LIVE YOUR LIFE AND CARRY ON. SOMEONE EKED BRINGING STRIFE! REMARKABLY AMAZING IN A BAD WAY!
BUT GOD ALWAYS COMES THROUGH! IT'S JUST SO HARD IN THE BEGINNING! THEN WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN YOU KNOW THAT IS NOT WHERE GOD WANTS YOU TO BE. AND KEEP IT MOVING!
ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER FOR CHRIST.
THERE ARE PERIODS IN BETWEEN THAT ARE DESOLATE. BUT IT GET BETTER SLOWLY..... HANGING IN THERE❤
Ive lost so many friends but its all part of my journey and I trust god to guide me
Currently can relate... changes are happening and lost my woman who was my friend and my love...stole my heart away...complicated situation...but i feel so weak right now. Such a big part of me shut down after years and years of betrayal and smear campaigns, meeting somebody i could be open and vulnerable with, share love with, share my heart and mind with...damn it hits hard when that leaves again...but im fighting through to move away and start afresh.
It hurts but think of that: when someone can leave you, it is not meant to be. This person doesn’t deserve you, your love and your heart. The right person will show up, believe me 😉
Do it...you're worth it!!!
Loneliness is the hardest
To be such a young man you sure are very awakened to so much of the truth. You are very blessed and definitely a chosen One.❤
Thank you for sharing your story and I'm watching you from Virginia. I am a chosen One in many fields
I’m taking things easy nowadays. No more chaos for me
Friends + family = eventual betrayal
dam. Painfully, true🙏
You are the best, bro!
The righteous path is the lonely path.
This is One Great Video Terry !!! You are Spot on....
Seems like my whole life I put purpose at the bottom of my priority list and friends and family at the top and now it’s the opposite
This road seems like we are alone for it bro, some spirits even get in them to tell you the opposite of what’s your focus and mission in life according to Jesus and the focus you deep down is the truth.
I used to be even popular whether was social media or just many friends, I don’t have that anymore, family is not around and even when I get to go to some gatherings, it’s just feels different and I think the isolation we’re supposed to have is taking it’s toll on us. But it’s for us to grow and be much stronger. God bless man
Classmates,Roomates,Co- Woirkers, Co- Dpendents,&such.
You are exactly right because I'm alone all the time and God is by me
Brother you're absolutely correct. I wish I had these words for kids these days. Yeah I can say kids including you. Why, well I'm fifty years old now. I have zero friends now from my past and it's hard to forget them and the real fantastic times. I mean while times, I could never say on here. The things we did were crazy brother. I mean crazy. Though now at this age of 50. Nope zero friends left. I've been married and divorced now twice. I'm alone now. I'm currently taking care of my elderly parents. Are those friends around. Hell no. Long ago the went on to their own lives and future. Nothing will take that away from them. Even my very very best friend. He won't take my calls anymore. Nope. You're friends you think are you're best, I mean soul best friends. Litteraly like brothers. Since 1 st grade to 28. Now they are freaking gone. No one calls. No one responds nothing. You absolutely hit the nail on the head of what all men can expect from friends in the future. Women completely different though. They always seem to connect no matter the age or where they are at. They always keep their friends close. No matter what. I don't get why men abandon their friends so easy. It's like we treat our best friends like they never were ever friends. Just ignore them and they will go away. Though why. I don't get this rap. I miss my best friend. I miss all my friends. They could all care less. One thing about me though. When I was 20 I lost both kidneys. I did five years on dialysis. Finnaly got my first kindly transplant. Then graduated in aassive degree that 300 wanted to get in and only 100 of us made it. Then five years later because it was an extended and mandatory five year degree. Only 24 of us graduated on time. It was hard and sucked. No time in college to party and have fun. Nope, Study study study. All five years. I then went on to do many things in Highrises construction management. I even got into highrise inspection for years. It was awesome. Then started my own company in home inspection and did $230,000 a year. But then. My kidney failed. I called everyone I knew for support. Absolutely no one answered. Just like you said. These so called brothers or best friends. Absolutely not. They straight up abandon me. Though my friends and I would talk set plans and do stuff for years before. Even in college. We would all get together and camp, fish, hunt, whatever. We were all close. Though after my kidney quit. The transplanted kidney. No one wanted to deal with my trauma anymore or didn't know what to do or say. I then went onto another 7+1/2 years but was only given 8yrs to live. You think any of my friends cared. Laugh at that one. I left messages at my 7+1/2 years to say. I'm done, I really believe I won't make it. I can really feel myself dieing. Do you think anyone, I'm even talking about, who I called, my freaking Brother for real. Nope. Not even him. Well I did get that transplant avmonth later. I'm doing great today. The kidney was an exact match. I still need to take a crap load of anti rejection meds. Though I'm great. Do I hear from these friends anymore. Hell no. Never rely on you're so called friends forever. YOURE COMPLETELY ON YOURE OWN ECEPT FOR REAL FAMILY PERIOD. THATS IT. ITS SAID, ITS DONE THERE. ONLY REAL FAMILY. NOT WIFES, FRIENDS ETC. JUST FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. SO BE NICE TO THEM, MAKE UP TO THEM, THEY WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.
"Those who strive for excellence will always be opposed by those content with mediocrity" - E.J.H.
Wow. So much knowledge for a young man like this. It usually takes a human being getting to their 50's and above to understand this message.
I agree.
I grew up in the ‘90s and ‘90s when AIDS was a real existential threat: If you got it, it was a death sentence.
But I was fat, so I didn’t sleep around.
And I firmly believe God did this to keep me around to take care of my mother.
Now that she’s passed, I can now focus on myself.
You said “but I was fat”I started laughing
God stripped so many people -both family and friends pretending to be family, mostly "Christians" - from my life in different ways within 5 years and I'm finally at peace. Never been more fulfilled 😊
I have had a great life, I am a nurse and I have always tried to do the right thing. I lost my husband to cancer my sister in a car wreak and my dad and in the past few years my mother and other sister the pain and loneliness is terrible. I don’t get around many people my circle is small and i can’t figure out why I am left. I feel I have know identity and I feel like I don’t belong. I feel like I don’t want to be here anymore to be honest
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I understand. Sending you a hug and unconditional love :)
One step at a time, they are with you.
They would want you to live through them
So sorry for your loss, nobody talks about how as time goes on we lose people and it’s harder to make friends these days. I work night shift so I am alone most of the time.
Im with you,Your absolutly right. Gods purpose for yourself is the new person "YOU". Dont become a piller of salt, move forward.
Best is yet to come! 🕊️♥️✨
There are good people in the world. Pray fervently for the petitions of your heart.
TITLE: 💯 % It truly is like this!
Ur a woman, you betrayed 99% of the people you ever knew. Stop the hypocrisy