I married a bottle of valium. - Lynn Toler

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  • @daddyyooh9000
    @daddyyooh9000 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Lawd with tears in my eyes I Love it. My condolences to Judge Lynne 🥀

  • @gigijerrie322
    @gigijerrie322 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    He was a VERY rare breed.....not too many of them out here.. my ❤ breaks 💔 for her.. 🙏

    • @FredJ2091
      @FredJ2091 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Actually there's plenty, just not a lot of women that are worthy of em'nowadays

    • @deej467
      @deej467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢❤

    • @gloriacourtney3756
      @gloriacourtney3756 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@FredJ2091 That depends on what you're drawned to.........

    • @indigoGoddess7
      @indigoGoddess7 ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s a study that revealed the happiest groups.
      1. Husbands
      2. Single & childfree women
      3. Bachelors
      Guess who was number 4 and came in dead last…
      Wives and mothers. If there are so many good men out there why is it that women face double the work with no pay? Why do so many women talk about how they have to go home and do more labour?
      This also refers to the emotional labour of the relationship.
      Please stop spreading false narratives and just READ! The information is all right there.
      If there were more good men, the divorce rates wouldn’t be so high.
      Your comment is ignorant and full of delusions. Do you live on planet earth where women’s reproductive rights are being destroyed? Do you really mean to tell me that those are good men?
      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭

  • @laticialockleer4929
    @laticialockleer4929 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    And I'm waiting to meet that brother!

  • @sheliabeal7857
    @sheliabeal7857 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Mrs. Toler....your whole face lights up and your voice echoes " I love him " when you speak of your husband. He sounds like a walking dream...for you ❤😊❤

  • @MsSassySean
    @MsSassySean ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm so sorry for your loss Lynn!😢

  • @barbarabattle7352
    @barbarabattle7352 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My heart transitioned to heaven six years ago. We were married for 45 years. Blessed to have him in my life..praying Gods peace and comfort on you.❤

    • @e.wilson9613
      @e.wilson9613 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May God rest him in peace.:)

  • @locs_bjuicy6397
    @locs_bjuicy6397 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He was a solid rock 🪨 in her life my heart aches for her in this type of pain. Peace on to you Judge Lynn! 🙏🏽

  • @DownSouth08
    @DownSouth08 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That’s love commitment and all that’s included in loving someone totally.

  • @josephwhite5402
    @josephwhite5402 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    He stayed in God's grace but believe me,he knew he was blessed to have a lady like you in his life Lynn Toyler and he would thank God everyday that God gave him the honor of of sharing the confidence of his God given grace with a virtuous woman of God like you..AMEN..SELAH!

    • @josephatherley86
      @josephatherley86 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very rare breed of person,one in a million.He always had your back from the beginning.Nuff Respect to you both

    • @valeriecourtney9033
      @valeriecourtney9033 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My husband was the same way R.I.H Babe❤❤❤

  • @pamelawalker3085
    @pamelawalker3085 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    🕊❤🙏🏾Eric Mumford🙏🏾❤🕊
    Now WE know!
    ❤Bless YOU Judge Toler❤

  • @fedupto68
    @fedupto68 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A rare gift that she knew she was blessed to have

  • @serious7179
    @serious7179 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He was that brother and she is that sister ❤ beautiful when two dynamic, deep, loving people join their lives together.

  • @shellyannlewis2595
    @shellyannlewis2595 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great memories, Happy Mother's day 💐❤️ Judge Lynn 💝.

  • @maxinedarville5587
    @maxinedarville5587 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow God bless you and your family Judge Lynn🙏🏽♥️

  • @ClaudettePamela
    @ClaudettePamela ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He simply loved you ❤

  • @areyoufreeenough1372
    @areyoufreeenough1372 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That kind of brothers or sisters💫💫💥 are rare

  • @veronicaatkins4417
    @veronicaatkins4417 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so sorry she loved her honey so much😢

  • @user-st6nt4ou6f
    @user-st6nt4ou6f ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless her heart❤❤❤❤. I cannot imagine the grief and loss she is feeling

  • @FLOKADO
    @FLOKADO ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I married a 5’6 and needed a bottle of Valium

    • @salima9722
      @salima9722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @salima9722
      @salima9722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Kado. I know the feeling.😂

    • @breeminor498
      @breeminor498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Kado😮😂😂😂😂

    • @user-gw7mu2wm1q
      @user-gw7mu2wm1q 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @patsybrown2337
    @patsybrown2337 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow that man is a special man so much care so much love i no you miss him its ok the love you have for him will help you heal ❤

  • @jacquelinerawls3905
    @jacquelinerawls3905 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GoD Bless His and Her
    Rest 🙌🏾 This Beautiful
    Woman💅🏾 Peace and Blessings JLT🙏🏾

  • @therealkoolaidandkale
    @therealkoolaidandkale ปีที่แล้ว +12

    They definitely don't make them like that anymore. The dudes these days are emotionally volatile and sassy as hell..... the most feminine group of dudes that I've ever seen.

    • @celiameaux7880
      @celiameaux7880 ปีที่แล้ว

      sickening to see these dudes so effeminate

  • @e.wilson9613
    @e.wilson9613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He sounded perfect, but of course nobody's perfect.:)

  • @melissahicks766
    @melissahicks766 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Judge Lynn...I love how yall loved. Im here for you.

  • @sharonjumba4648
    @sharonjumba4648 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I understand her deep grief. 😢

  • @deej467
    @deej467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love her❤ shes so real and so humble🙏

  • @queenv1827
    @queenv1827 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father blessed them with each other. Glory Hallelujah

  • @kikiboharris1010
    @kikiboharris1010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deepest condolences to Judge Lynn Toler. 🙏🏾❤😢

  • @briancarter655
    @briancarter655 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    it's important for guys to here testimonials about what you needed. which is cool and kind of elegant. we heal together by sharing pain. pain requires action or someone to do something.
    Did anyone catch this vibe?

  • @hattiecolley54
    @hattiecolley54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How Wonderful. One of a Kind! My Prayers r with u All the time. U r so Loved. Thank u for sharing!

  • @CHICKDEBORAHBRANNON
    @CHICKDEBORAHBRANNON 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THAT BROTHER, SAY IT JUDGE 😇🙌🏽🗣️

  • @dolsiemercado3140
    @dolsiemercado3140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. The judge was so lucky and blessed that she bumped into the love of her life. May God and her guardian angel continue protecting her while her heart and soul is healing. That is a wonderful thing to say about your husband. 😘😘😘

  • @nancybutler6582
    @nancybutler6582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy happy happy I can Identify with him..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ericab936
    @ericab936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May he rest in peace. God bless u judge our prayers are with u.

  • @tulanithemisa5894
    @tulanithemisa5894 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's such a beautiful man ,who leaves a wonderful memory behind for you to look back and smile ,a man of peace ,unconditional love every woman deserves all god blessing upon you my dear lady

  • @stephaniesow7762
    @stephaniesow7762 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Judge if you see this The Sun Will come out

  • @karinacontreras2303
    @karinacontreras2303 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That brother ❤

  • @vanessacarpenter6247
    @vanessacarpenter6247 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are a true warrior we love you

  • @sharonroseway7155
    @sharonroseway7155 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU WERE BLESSED

  • @gailmcneill57
    @gailmcneill57 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He stills live in you and always will

  • @Jessica-mw3wr
    @Jessica-mw3wr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so damn sorry for her loss. This is just devastating.

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They had a True Bond.

  • @beatricemccray7815
    @beatricemccray7815 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had one of those but he wouldn’t take any mess he didn’t care who is was or what they did he was 6’2” if they jumped him he would fight them back whether he got beat or he beat them no matter how big or small he didn’t back down and he thought the sun rose and sat in me for 30 years he past in 2014 I don’t think that I’ll never find another one of him the rest of my life so I feel ya sis!

  • @carnelia8
    @carnelia8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You could count on him. Made you feel safe. 😊

  • @jeanniejones8777
    @jeanniejones8777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful I'm glad she had the gift of stable real love...

  • @EdrisAtherley-smith
    @EdrisAtherley-smith 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Continue to conversation, their is not much of that type of real man like your husband out there, bless his heart and continue to live in his good memories you have to cherish.
    Bless your heart ❤️ and keep his memory alive 🙏🏽❤️☮️🇹🇹🇺🇸

  • @valerie8548
    @valerie8548 ปีที่แล้ว

    True be told he really loved her, what a gem. God bless her.🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏽🖤

  • @melvakphoebe6480
    @melvakphoebe6480 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of a kind! I Love 💕 it! He'll Always be by your side dear sister even while in the ancestry! May he forever rest in peace! What a divine love you have!! Every time you remember him, he lives on in your heart!! Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤!

  • @joyceaustin6567
    @joyceaustin6567 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God Got You 💜✝️💜

  • @user-uo9bh5vk7b
    @user-uo9bh5vk7b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is fortunate ❤

  • @Melissa-qg1ho
    @Melissa-qg1ho ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg!!! Judge Lynne, you were one truly blessed woman!!! A lot of women have prayed constantly for a man like that!!!

  • @christinabivins3839
    @christinabivins3839 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They don't make black males like that no mo ..and I meant no mo..not no more God bless take Care 🙏🏾

  • @DesYvonne3
    @DesYvonne3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reminds me of my baby!! It's UNbelievable.❤

  • @lorygibson6408
    @lorygibson6408 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a Brotha like that. He is a 6 ft 4 inch bottle of Valium. Judge Toler was blessed 😢

  • @stellajoseph2314
    @stellajoseph2314 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. So.beautiful. what a beautiful soul. May his soul rest peacefully in the Lord 🙏🏽❣️🥰

  • @jacobhorn4784
    @jacobhorn4784 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how she talks about him. That’s a real woman who took inventory of the kind of man she has and at the end feels blessed to have him and from what she says that is never going to change. All the other women in the message board should take notes because men are very simple and very utility like and we want nothing in return for the essential shit we do all around the world but loyalty and love

  • @idabowman4655
    @idabowman4655 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you always my dear

  • @montanezperkins3825
    @montanezperkins3825 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That a blessing

  • @vickijohnson7712
    @vickijohnson7712 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s not money, it’s not looks, it’s not name brand material things, that a man or woman needs in a relationship; it’s that person who will stand by you no matter what goes down. (not talking about unlawful things) someone who has you back through good and tough times. Someone you can count on. Everything else you can get or accomplish together.❤

  • @rosegardner5262
    @rosegardner5262 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Juage lynne i love you . God is good🤗🤗🤗🤗👍👍

  • @qwenmejia7027
    @qwenmejia7027 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love love her❤

  • @sueetta3053
    @sueetta3053 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was Blessed to have that kind of stability in her life

  • @sharonhaywood2818
    @sharonhaywood2818 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NOW THAT'S A BROTHER!!!!!!!! ✊🏽

  • @vickipetrotta8167
    @vickipetrotta8167 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love

  • @thatzmyart675
    @thatzmyart675 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's awesome, brother

  • @sandracarter9952
    @sandracarter9952 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤That is why she so heartbroken 💔 😔

  • @sharlenegumbs6190
    @sharlenegumbs6190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @jacquelinewarren6790
    @jacquelinewarren6790 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ooh hot damn I needed that.

  • @thembisilenkosi9353
    @thembisilenkosi9353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know what you are talking about on many occasions i didn't know how to discribe my husband because my friends were complaining about their marriages unfortunately his late, am still trying to understand what happened it's been 6 years now hopefully one day it will make sense miss him every day 💔❤️

  • @exquisitekind8055
    @exquisitekind8055 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!

  • @VinA-hq4eq
    @VinA-hq4eq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish my husband was like that , and you know the saddest part I love him 😢 he told me I don't I ask him how comes he can't explain, then he said to me I don't know that I don't love him😢

  • @teresaabrown8077
    @teresaabrown8077 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ what a blessing . We must always be there for each other Real Love keeps you strong 🙏❤

  • @hannesbotha1027
    @hannesbotha1027 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Respect for each other God bless you judge know you miss your husband

  • @kymgilliard3408
    @kymgilliard3408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU ARE AN AMAZING WOMAN....❤ STRENGTH

  • @rosalynharris3888
    @rosalynharris3888 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love me some you i miss my husband so much he was that man that always was there ❤❤

  • @peggyshah7323
    @peggyshah7323 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know your husband so well ,it amazing 👏 💖 😍

  • @lolalove2903
    @lolalove2903 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a special love! ❤️

  • @AvonLady98
    @AvonLady98 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kreyolqueen
    @kreyolqueen ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow 😢😮

  • @Spiritual1818
    @Spiritual1818 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏽❤️💜🙏🏽

  • @cybilrose8532
    @cybilrose8532 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @melissarain2906
    @melissarain2906 ปีที่แล้ว

    JESUS GIVE YOU STRENGTH.... SENDING HUGS AND PRAYERS😢😢😢😢😢❤

  • @thecoachesgirl
    @thecoachesgirl ปีที่แล้ว

    My my my😊😊

  • @desireebyfield1085
    @desireebyfield1085 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rare. Veeery rare.

  • @carlsanders6391
    @carlsanders6391 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    dwell with women according to knowledge husband's love your wives as crist loved the church and gave his life for it kjv.

  • @chasnfireflies317
    @chasnfireflies317 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She's missing him terribly

  • @joannawofford
    @joannawofford ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome that's the way give him his dues

  • @user-br9jq4ot7t
    @user-br9jq4ot7t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats a man. Like my father..a gental giant and a helper to all. Lord these kind men leave, and the is such a whole in your life.

  • @antoniapalmore7494
    @antoniapalmore7494 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dc loves you, Judge T

  • @simmiedavissimmiesings8185
    @simmiedavissimmiesings8185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate that she had to let him go. But I know they will see each other again

  • @rhayneday7496
    @rhayneday7496 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I knew him! Sounds like I could’ve learned some things from Big E. You can tell that she’d rather be single forever because no other man will be able to fill his shoes! That’s a good woman!

  • @mariebonytathelusma9381
    @mariebonytathelusma9381 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You had a good man Judge.

  • @AngelettaANance
    @AngelettaANance ปีที่แล้ว

    Every one please pray for her. She needs up to pray. My heart goes out to her. Jesus love on her she needs you.

  • @soulfulflowersoulfulflower
    @soulfulflowersoulfulflower ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ♥️🌼

  • @diananoonen2262
    @diananoonen2262 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is the test...
    Holding you by the ankle over a cliff!!!
    That is an important thought!

  • @sherry.downing
    @sherry.downing ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lydiapicano8806
    @lydiapicano8806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No wonder you married him Judge. May he rest in God's holy peace. ♥️🙏

  • @blackbutterflycacoon2606
    @blackbutterflycacoon2606 ปีที่แล้ว

    AAAAMEEEM!!!…

  • @gmerrill1923
    @gmerrill1923 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, Judge Toler, I realize that God has graced you with a living expression of His Holy Spirit in your Husband for you in this Life. Life is a learning instrumental institution for us all. Elohim, Father creator Maker of All, knows all our needs to learn lessons in this earth. Your Husband was a perfect match for YOUR Earth journey to know and learn some of the attributes of Holy Spirit/Father God.😮 Peaceful, Faithful and True, always there for you when you need Him to support our emotionalisms. Remember LIFE is a journey of Love lessons. At the end of the Day, God with get the Glory!!! God is a JEALOUS Eternal Holy One. 😮He Loves You and wants you to know how it is to be married to Him❤😊 God Really Loves You More. Hoping you are learning the lesson to move on day by Day.

  • @michaelhickman3580
    @michaelhickman3580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me