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You haven't quite got the understanding correct. The wounded healer fits in with the Hero's Journey too. What you've missed is the healer returns from spiritual transcendent experience, shown with Christ, prior to crucifixion, he had already died to the seperate self, the story of Jesus is of an ancient desert priest, proven with the 40 nights in the desert alone, severe fasting and meditating. It's why Himalayan Monks suffer so much to Realise all alone in the mountains, fasting and meditating for years Extreme suffering leads to surrender, surrender leads to self-transcendent mystical union at-one-ment in Heaven and in that liberating rapture is realised the absolute cure, 'elixir' for humanities dis-ease, the dis-ease causing suffering, is yes self-conscious fearful awareness and is overcome in transcendence to realise being purely lovingly unself-centred again, released from the mind-body complex association, liberated from the associated psycho-soma, to know the absolute ecstatic joy of the eternal present moment again, again because it's 'like a child perceives' but the difference in pure awareness returned is the conscious understanding of it and so an eternity of unconditionally loving understanding with it 🌞💖👼👁️
I have a strange feeling that you're going to like the film Prisoners. - Watch the film analysis 'Prisoners: Symbolism Done Right," - and thank you for the video.
If you haven't checked out Hercules the animated series on Disney I'd highly suggest to. Joseph Campbell would be very happy with the show I do believe
I've been there...and found my Twilight teasures in the pitch of Midnight... You only find them if you wait, because they are of the phosphorescent spectrum... And now I want to share those treasures with everyone I see... 🌫🌬🌪🌈🔮
"Pain and suffering are a kind of currency passed from hand to hand until they reach someone who receives them but does not pass them on.” - Simone Weil
So true sadly I thank mother earth and the Goddess for not passing on my trauma at one point it coulda been an easy thing to do but I made sure not to be put in those situations again I forgive everyone cuz everyone is suffering something!
Only in my pain, did I find my will. Only in my chaos, did I learn to be still. Only in my fear, did I find my might. Only in my darkness, did I see my light. -~ Unknown
@@user-kf7wl1pq9n wow, your level of sophistication is truly amazing. Be careful out this Christmas its supposed to rain. I have stepped in mud puddles deeper than your ambitions.
@@IisLasagnathey are infected when you ignore them, they are inflamed and you see it when people act like children. Ignoring is part of why our society is so sick, if they worked, wed all be good
Lots of healers did not heal themselves first, before they try to heal others, resulting in ego tripping or trying to heal themselves through helping others. So genuine (healing) is the magical word. If you want to heal others...you first have to heal yourself ❤️🙏
Believe Edgar Cayce said something similar. Regarding why he had to sleep to do his readings, and why he was supposed to only do a few readings daily, the story goes that in his past life, he used his gift in a dishonorable way, and as punishment EC had these limits placed on him in his lifetime.
@@bloom4385Truth. It is about balance in true healing and wisdom. The human experience entails the constant evolution of learning until the end. No one is perfectly ‘healed’ until we are done on this Earth.
To any young people who are suffering mentally because they are running away from a painful truth in their minds...let me tell you, you can never run away/hide from your own psyche...Face your fears head on and then move on with your life as u never will until you do.
The thing is "you just can't face your fears", it not doing once and all problems resolved. You just keep facing fears once and once again and it will never become easier. Fears will never disappear, just different fear will replace old one.
Yes but there are more noble fears and less noble fears. Or it would be more accurate for me to say our fears become more noble as we continue the practice of facing our fears. Such as the fear of not having enough for myself, replaced by the more noble fear that I did not share as much as I could have
@@RaZziaN1 and I think we can become more experienced at facing fears the question is will this give us the courage to face more difficult fears and maybe they will be just a difficult as all previous fears or maybe we will also have more good feelings in our reserve gained from working on previous fears in the correct way. Then maybe even greater fears will be easier in some matter when we know we have more gotten closer to whatever our greater purpose might be
john d rockefeller founded the field of modern medicine in 1913. imo mental health disorders were created by secret societies to manipulate and disempower people, everyone has their ups and downs or trials to overcome, thats just a part of the human experience. You decide how you think, feel and act not some mental health disorder that youve been diagnosed and labelled with. Your life will get better and the negatives will only make the positives that much better, namaste.
You are not alone same here, I understand the process which didn't make it easier funny enough infinite love and blessings let the focus be the energetic expansion of that which you are unto All creation
Learning about this is one thing, doing it is another. It can be painful, but in tending those old wounds I have found my power. I used to be called too soft, too effeminate. I have the body of a warrior, and the mind of a scholar, but the heart of a gardener. I am loathe to see the ugliness and suffering in the world, but that is where I must go, for that is where gardens are most needed. God bless all who are in the process of finding themselves.
I love what you say about going to the dark and suffering places because that is where gardens are most needed. If I dare say so I am on a similar journey. I fell from what seemed like grace from an apparently perfect spiritual community and ended up locked up in a nasty place for two years. Having gone through it I am now starting to garden in a deprived part of town where people desperately need good affordable food. I think that teaching children and young people how to grow their own food is essential. If each of us could just grow a little food it would make a vast difference, in my humble opinion.
Wow.. that's the most beautiful comment I've read because it describes myself. Sometimes I curse at myself for having such a tender heart and I've often prayed for Christ to toughen me up! Ah, but then we wouldn't be...us! I hope you're embracing that wonderful scholarly, and effeminate gardener within! ;) ❤️✨🙏 Much love and blessings to you.
I feel you sister/brother. 🖤 may Mother Earth and the Universe be kind to you on your journey. We carry a dual edged sword but.. I wouldn’t carry any other. Soft hearted warriors are needed. I firmly believe there is much more power in kindness. Because it’s harder to be and attain.
I grew up with my grandma who had a heart condition. Because I loved her so much I dedicated my life to become a doctor, a healer who could heal her ailments. On the day I got accepted to med school, I so happily shared the news with her. The next day, she died at the hospital. She had herself checked up, her doctor injected medication which she had an adverse reaction to and she died of anaphylactic shock. I was holding her hands while the doctors and nurses scrambled to save her. I quit Medicine as I was too broken. I am a wounded healer. Thank you ever so much for sharing this video. It made a profound impact and gave me so much to think about.
She was gonna die eventually. You studied and worked so hard, and gained skills that could help you save and help many other people. Don't give up, maybe it was meant to happen because you were meant for that path, and she would want you to do a lot of good and make the most of your skills and talent. You could help a lot if it's you or destiny. Obviously grieve how you need to. But don't completely close the door to opportunities, or stop your life as it might only hurt you and make you feel more down. Do what makes you happy and helps you heal a bit. But Things change in life, and death is a natural process, everyone has their time, and everyone has to die eventually. I'm sure she's proud of you, amazed at how hard you worked to help others, and Loves you. ♥️💟 and is watching over you. Encouraging you to live your life and do what's best for you. ❤️💛✨
I’m so sorry about your circumstances. I’ve been a physician for over thirty years and my mother was mishandled by her cardiologist. She died 3 months later after tremendous suffering. I’m sorry you decided to withdraw from med school, but thankful that you still have an opportunity to be a healer, should you so choose. It doesn’t have to be through such traditional means as a western medical degree. Our System is quite full of itself right now and frankly.. quite broken. But being a healer is about helping others through their suffering, healing whenever possible and bringing others into a more healthful outlook. I bet you are already doing that somehow, but if not, consider the possibilities.. or not 🤷♀️, just choose for yourself, and let go of any regrets about your choices, if you are at peace with them. Blessings.
@@Ricca_Day : Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with me. I've since then shifted to law and been practicing as a lawyer for almost 20 years now. At first I took up law because I wanted to use my medical knowledge to help prosecute malpracticing doctors and help attain justice for my grandmother. In the beginning of my practice I have assisted in prosecuting medical malpractice cases. But I have since then learned to let go of my biases and grudges. Like you, I have come to realize that the system is broken. In my country, so many of those in the medical profession are overworked, underpaid, and their hard work and sacrifice unappreciated. I have successfuly helped defend medical professionals facing baseless malpactice suits as my medical knowledge gives me an advantage few lawyers possess. I have much respect for those in the medical profession. Yours is a noble quest, to heal and ease human suffering. I thank you and other medical professionaals for your noble service and sacrifice especially during the pandemic.
"They tell us in the darkness there be monsters. But it isn't true. In the dark there is discovery, there is possibility, there is freedom." If you're going through a rough patch just know that this isn't the end, it's an opportunity to find yourself, to learn from your mistakes and most importantly an opportunity to grow.
My therapist relates of another patient who also suffered depression but without the SI, and she stated the patients outlook was: you NEVER know what your life MIGHT be in 5 years. I admired this and offer it to those who are still struggling to find meaning. I am still on my healing journey, my own individuation. And when necessary, I recall this and look back over my 60 years and she is absolutely CORRECT! It can be different, it CAN change. I was able to get off SSRI'S after 30 years through seeking truths like this video offers. (And multiple other resources too long to list)...peace of mind to all who seek it
Simply you don't want to see others hurt? You feel that, from your own knowledge and moments when life put you down, even without lemons sometimes, you can help others avoid your mistakes? Yes, most of what we say to others is addressed to ourselves actually. Listening is all that most people need and it's a great way to heal. Being present is the gift you're making towards yourself and helping others should give you feelings of peace and gratitude. You are great, take care.
The man who has been through Hell. He heals others by showing that he has been there and returned. He is wise for he hasn't returned empty handed, as many never escape Hell. He returns with a message. This is his medicine.
I have to say I'm loving the vibe in here. I feel as though I have found my tribe. Philosophical, intelligent, beings who can have deep discussions of the trials in life.
When I was comforting a deeply wounded child, her cries of release were so deep, so profound, so powerful, they shattered a mirror of darkness shrouding a portion of my own soul's fountain. I had to hold back my own tears until I got home. After that point we shared a psychic connection and could communicate through eye contact. Her healing was not finished, but my role was complete. I hope to see her again someday.
No one likes pain. No one likes to hurt. But pain is necessary without pain we would never know something was wrong and needed to be healed. Great video ~ Thank you
After 206 breaks and or fractures of bones, brain and mouth cancer, blood poisoning and some. I am still here and have saved many lives. Gotta love it all. 4 years ago I fell off a cliff. 145 breaks/fractures in 1 hit. Collapsed lung and liver. My gall bladder is now in armpit. Doctors said 6 months hospital. I was walking in 3 weeks and out of hospital in 4 weeks. Pushing 60yo now and loving It. Bliss be with you!
After healing parts of my past trauma, I absolutely love this video. This world loves to break you down constantly, one can stay broken, as you are hurt more and more throughout life, living broken or you ask yourself "what did I learn through this experience" gain the wisdom and be proud of yourself. You are now stronger. Then help others when/if your able too
Agreed. But it contradicts the saying in this video “the shaman is not merely a sick man/ma’dam, he is a sick man who has healed.” Either way, all of this digs deep in my soul.. now sizing up on how these shoes fit me.. if at all. Love how the universe leaves these breadcrumbs for us. 🌱❤️💞
Paused before watching but I want to say from my experience it is quiet simple. You needed help and you never got it, so when you finally dont need help anymore, you live to give that help to others because you'll always see a piece of yourself in those who you are trying to help. You basically live to give others the help you never had.
In the eye of the Storm, I saw tranquility. In the movement of water, I found clear reflection. In the quiet of loneliness, I found loud answers. In the biggest mistakes, I learnt the most. In the scariest moments, I found courage. In the face of death, I found life. And in my wounds, I found a gem to share with others.
The most scary thing to face is not death, is your true self. Because your true self covered by yourself with all of these social conditions, family influences. You will feel that out of the world pain when you facing yourself knowing that you never were what you really are.
It’s hard to even fathom that you can produce so many amazing video essays with incredible art work, quotation and poetic prowess on a regular basis. Thank you for all that you do.
What's not to love about him? He made sense of our own shadows, great work for us to study even decades from now. He seems to gain a lot of popularity lately.
I've lived as a wounded healer the Last 9 years or so. I Had a very Traumatic childhood and tried to learn everytging about healing and wounds as to how they Form in the individual. I've come to the realisation on how to live Not in search of wound and healing. For the First time in my life i feel aligned with myself. I still want to be there for Others and act AS healer when i can but i do strive to live for my own better present and Future. The wounded wholeness ripped me apart for years. Thanks for your deep Dive into auch a rare psychological condition.
This shed so much light and confirmed so much for me. I am a teacher focused on healing my students so they can thrive and learn, and my wife is a therapist. We both have major trauma, but have been making tremendous progress in our own healing, which makes us that much more effective in our crafts. 🤯
Fantastic, keep on with your progress. I have always thought that teaching is not just about educating, as without providing a nurturing environment the students do not learn as well. Mindfulness and other kinds of things like meditation in class would be a great idea. We all need people who care and good on you for wanting to not only teach but help your students x
I'm a therapist who just had a meltdown about feeling like I'm too broken to do my job, and then this appeared on my timeline. I found it spooky, but great!
I’m learning this all at once… I can blame my upbringing, my current situation, my background. The people who coddled me, betrayed me, left me, used me, and hurt me. I can blame myself for being stupid, allowing victimization, and succumbing to trauma. But blaming won’t get me anywhere. Help, healing, peace, and forgiveness can only come from within. And it all starts with, realization.
Been going through this all of my life. Recently cut off and walked away from all family who has never been there for each other. Too twisted to even think about, in which would only be reprogramming my mental and repeating those cycles. Took me a long time to realize this, but it's been time. So I feel your words of so well. Glad to hear that you've been moving on. Love is love.
Really awesome to dissect the psychology of the wounded healer. I think the Marie-Louisze von Franz quote really summed it up, "The wounded healer is the archetype of the Self - one of its most widespread features - and is at the bottom of all genuine healing procedures." Essentially our own struggles and wounds can actually serve as a source of strength and empathy in helping others.Our own struggles are not just inconveniences to overcome, they are a tool for our own growth and ability to heal others. Challenges are the checkpoints we face in our own becoming. Thank you for sharing as always E!
Yes suffering so much of the mind-body complex association 'self', to a threshold point where suffering is absolutely unbearable and the mind-body complex has become to feel like torturous imprisonment and so a point of self surrender can be realised in rapturous self-transcendence to Self Realisation in the Light illuminating purely loving awareness 🌞💖👼👁️
This was like if you wanted a philosophically, psychologically,, scientificaly, morally and spiritually well rounded and balanced Speedrun tutorial in life. Especially for anyone in the midst of dealing with a conflict within them that they cannot ignore nor find a healing resolution...
As someone who has myself struggled with mental health issues and who is currently headed into the field of Psychiatry as a Doctor this seems poetically perfect.
I overcame bipolar and wrote a book about it, if you are interested I would like to gift you a PDF version of it The reason is that I went through the hell of dealing with therapist's, as well intentioned as they were, but after 10nyears of drugs I became fat and far worse mentally. I walked away from all of that and cured myself. 6 years now no medications, no symptoms, lost the weight, I am a completely different and healthy version of who I was
This strikes a chord with me. For a long time, due to PTSD from abuse, neglect, and loss, I've gained myself a savior complex, wherein I saw myself as a martyr, forever bound to my suffering in the hopes of sparing others from the same fate as I, a Prometheus to warn his children. Unfortunately, I found myself being arrogant, trying to help those even though they didn't want to be helped, forcing my will upon them without being considerate of their own needs versus my own. Although I didn't value my own life, I tried utilizing my savior complex to justify my existence, in the hopes I could achieve happiness by helping others, but at the expense of my own. It's taken me a long time to realize that ultimately, there's only so much I can do. Now...I question...am I a wounded healer?
You are. I believe you are. You fell into the same neurotic thing I did. My problem was the selfish broken people around me. They choose to run from themselves and place blame on me. It molded me into a person whose life was worthless, but so desperately wanted to heal others. I have come to the realization that, it's me. I have the power to forgive myself. To value me. No one will do this for me, it'd be wrong as well, as it's not really me. I have forgiven myself. 28 years of this misery has turned into something I know is good but so foreign to me. And now, I take proverbial inventory of myself. The drive in my heart, body, mind, and soul is still there. I want to help the less fortunate, because I can feel the pain that they feel. It's my nature. It's our nature.
I would think so, because for you to come to this realization, it seems you overcame the complex. And now you realize what you were doing "wrong" makes you capable to heal and continue healing others.
Thank you for sharing your truth. I am no stranger to your dilemma. The rigors of the unfoldment of your curative powers (which aren't yours but God's), is soothed with the balms of knowing that all knees will bend, eventually. Sit back and witness their suffering. Be compassionate but proffer no solutions. Jesus Christ did not go around and heal people who did not ask for it. It is amazing how deep some people's bottom is! This must be hit for them to be willing to be willing. I have tried to lead the suffering, particularly my immediate family, to "the still waters" and it has only lead me to frustration and resentment. My cause had the effect on them which resulted either in their mocking criticism or their deep seated enmity. Take your pick, lol. Physician heal thyself and thy presence will be a continuous state of benediction to those who know not who we are, or what we are, or why. Let them come to you when they're willing to do whatever it takes, broken of their own self will and ego. Only the willing.
The wound can Ether heal you or it can wake you up. The wound callapses the ego in order to let the sun of enlightenment shine through. Great work brother
The root of suffering is want and attachments. Nature is the most powerful healer that I know of. Being in nature recharges your soul and actually calms the amygdala which controls fear, anxiety, rumination (circular thinking), and negative thoughts.
@@skyblaizepleiadianhighcoun9993 Einstein was a fraud. A puppet like Degrassi and Cox. All the theories they are saying are false. Standard model all wrong. If you want the evidence Mudfossil University will present this without any doubt.
The reason i am going to school to become an Athletic Trainer is because of the several injuries I sustained in my time as an athlete. I strive to be the one to help those athletes recover and play at their best
Someone healed me in a way I cannot explain. Most would say the opposite... But healing isn't just always a truly peaceful process. They once told me how wounded they were and had no idea what they ultimately did FOR me. She gave me more than I EVER could have given her. ❤️💪
Macro vs Micro had success in doing a few Macro first . Allowing the mushrooms to blast you into self awareness , showing you the shadows and trauma that have been hiding under the rug . Micro dosing has helped me stay on the pulse of my shadow work , helping me remember my best self .
0:05 Microdosing makes me feel more human . I personally feel like microdosing increases my ADD for the day , but I may have to dial the dose down a little . The benefits outweigh the downsides .
@@Alex-ik9pdI've talked to people who micro and macrodose to help with a TBIs . I'm told that it's easier to find words when talking , and it helps improve short term memory . I've also heard of it helping with hearing , where people who could no longer hear birds could hear them again .
This channel is golden. Pain is the only way to find meaning in existence for which peace is the only cloth for the cold reality that there’s an end. Without destiny the only inevitable is fate. One must grasp their destiny or at least muster the will to endure life. The one who accepts fate greets destiny. The one who see through the pain. Undergoes a great metamorphosis
It isn’t the only way. There are many ways, to connect with people, moments, all kinds of experiences which do not involve pain, in the least, from which we can gain meaning. Pain is one of the most jarring, and likely to create resentment, of the ways, which is why it merits addressing. The way people choose to handle it, tends to create needless pain. But pain, in and of itself, is not the point.
@Fowchiii LIED, PUPPIES DIED how can you heal if there is no pain ? Pain is life. If you don’t address that. You then resent . There are many ways to heal but not if you don’t acknowledge the trauma that is the root. Same merit as peace. It’s not a one size fit all. But to say pain has no purpose just discredit the healing process. That’s human conditioning. If one become resentful then they become consumed by the void. Pain is a measure of growth. In this context it’s about healing. Which indicates overcoming pain so you can be able to connect with others. Pain is the point of healing my friend. You just mentioned pain as well so pain serves it’s purpose in humans. But after a while it builds walls. People connect based on that common core. We all feel sadness , pain , doubt. Which why healing is necessary so you don’t become your wounds. You can’t judge how people go about healing. Nor can you really grasp how pain can alter a person. Which makes HEALING come forth. The wounded healer knows suffering so that’s why they promote peace. By acknowledging and realizing the pain people harbor within them. Even if they don’t speak on it. A healed soul knows a healed soul by its familiarity.
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied I agree. Pain isn't the only way. It can certainly be used to test the meaning we think we found in existence, though. Friction isn't the only kind of purposeful contact, ya know.
I have been studying Jung intensely for some years now, and i can honestly say that this is without a doubt the best channel on anything Jung related. I thank you for bringing Mircea Eliade, and the great Karl Kerényi to light too, especially Kerényi had a huge influence on Jung, and anyone truly interested in Jungs work should read some of his works in my opinion, he and Jung did write a book together, about the Divine Child, and the Mother/Maiden Archetypes. The Divine Child could be a future theme for a video suggestion. I dont know if you are aware of this but Jung in a letter wrote that Henry Corbin, the french philosopher and theologist, had gave him, Jung, the rarest gift, the gift of being completely understood, that statement alone should spark some interest for further investigation. Thanks for making these videos, you are again and again taking them to another level, Jungs work is filled with so many branches of different fields and thought, and you have succeeded in bringing that wide diversity of the arts and thought into a whole, and that is remarkable. Keep up your tremendous work and calling.
Yet Jung slept with his patients while being married, who he also turned into teachers of psychology. Funny how people put him on a pedestal while not knowing what things he has done and who he therefore was.
@@ivboltwhat you have here is a discussion about the ‘nature’ of man and the morals of man👉A man’s ‘nature’ will always win over the morals of the man👉that’s why pushing a religion on a man never turns out well nor the war on drugs👉No man is ever 💯 faithful (it’s not in his genetic nature) bc if he isn’t physically lusting, he is emotionally, financially, mentally, or even spiritually! Being Naive should be considered just as much a sin as is gluttony, yes?!….(Food for thought: 3/4 of American’s are considered medically overweight!)
The reason you cry out for life is not for yourself but for the others around you that would grieve your life if you were to go missing. You are a part of humanity.
I’m glad that TH-cam suggested me this video. Never did I gaze upon a video like that. And now I’m your new fan. Huge amount of dedication and love you’ve given to this creation. I truly admire your craft 😮 Thanks, man!
As a CNA that worked in the hospital during covid. I appreciate this. I saw so much death and sadness. I struggled feeling like I wasn't doing enough.. one of our doctors took his own life. COVID took a toll not just physically but mentally
I had an NDE after an accident where I suffered a TBI. I came back different. It took a decade for me to get my feet mostly back under me. However, now I am much better equipped to help others. I suffered my suffering in order to help heal myself and others.
I‘m drawing things like this since I’m a child. The things you are quoting and describing, the pictures and symbolism, I can relate 100% even never hearing this.
This is mindblowing... while listening to this episode I was struck by this thought. I'm coming from a religious background where normally people pray to God to be healed.I will try to explain it from a christian perspective. There is nothing wrong to be healed,its good to pray, but somehow I see people paralyzed of fear.. their only focuse in prayer is to be healed. God can heal you at the right time.. or He can't. The most important thing is to embrace the journey, its never about the healing of the outer man, its about the journey of tyself, the healing of the psyche, the soul, having the right attitude in the mid of the problems. We are like Akoya pearl oysters, we don't look for pain, but pain can produce something valuable. Ap. Paul was praying for healing, but God's answer was "my grace is enough"...and God's grace made him one of the greatest apostles. This is a reminder for us..."all things work for the sake of those who have trusted Him"
Such high quality work. I've been on the journey of this archetype most of my life so far, at times being wounded and at others helping to heal. This perspective is invaluable in psychology and in social work(which is my field.) Big thanks!
I've noticed this in myself, I know the origin of my suffering, but rather than accepting the wound, I instead continue to dwell on the suffering. Thinking, replaying, reimagining, each time making it take new forms. It's the feeling of if I let go and confront it, what then? It's scary. I look at others even my so-called antagonizers and see the same thing. We all share a common tragedy, which is the deviation from the ideal state, it is heartbreaking. Life happens to and changes everyone, for better or for worse. But I guess that's the ultimate gift of humanity, through the tragedy we reinforce each other. There's no shortage of things to bring a man down, but together we've always shouldered the burden. It's a thing of beauty.
Life doesn’t “happen” to us. Things happen, but we have a say in how we handle it. You explained for yourself exactly what you are doing that is causing you more pain. Just do the opposite. Don’t focus on fear, accept it, and do the right thing for yourself anyway. Not as a favor to you, but as a favor to the world, and to whomever interacts with you or crosses your path. We don’t have the right to experiment with life, in this way. You know why, you know what, so stop. Stop allowing your brain the space to wallow. Get busy. Learn something new, occupy that time, with something mildly productive. Cleaning, a hobby, reading. Learn other things, grow in simple ways. Stop believing you have the right to wallow. None of us does.
I enrolled myself into a Shamanism Training, my dark night of the soul started before. It was until I took the Shamanism path that the real "dark inner job" started... Last week I had deep experiences with Jesus energies (not the religious approach). When I watched your video I cried because it's another confirmation about my path and leaving behind the most deep dark work and depression that I had. The path and the work continues, however, understanding what happened along the way it's magic in order to continue facing whatever my higher self will bring to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! Blessings!! 🙏✡️💖✨
As someone who's currently suffering from depression, this channel has helped me immensely. It opens my eyes to the things my parents never talked about growing up. I was treated like an look alike toy, I don't have a relationship with either of them now. It's mind blowing to understand that I'm a wounded healer. I would rather others be happy, instead of myself. It's a hard concept to unlearn. Thank you for you content. I appreciate it.
I am so sorry about your past and just by reading your comment i know you are a really strong person 💕 much love and stay blessed ❤️ You are a champion 🥂
Those that have been through the most always make the best healers & can guide people on the correct life path !! But as a healer you can never give some one what you don’t possess. So if you are on the other of a healer stay charged up in many ways & do all the shadow work you can in your self for a clear clean Chanel of healing energy .
I am eternally grateful for this channel, content and above all, the person whos standing behind this. I would be more than happy if you could recommend us some of your favorite books. That way, we will get to know you better! Keep up the great work, sir.
I just would like to thank you for sharing such a great knowledge with us. It us amazing how you reveal( reveal: to see under the veil) the mysteries connecting the bridges from Greek mythology to modern psychology, showing that all is one and how these old traditions had as ultimate goal to transcend the unconscious into something conscious. Thanks for channelling it❤️
Rising like a Phoenix from the ashes..... I myself had a choice of two paths. Empathic that I am, we see which path that I chosen ..... "no pain,no gain." Beautiful light ✨ at the end of rivers of tears. Through it all, wounds are healing....I've never felt so alive. Thanks to these great videos , more like myself will heal.
I hope anybody reads this. I'm 20 and I was watching one last video before heading back to sleep after waking up in the middle of the night and I felt I myself could need the message for some personal isssues that were keeping me up. I am an artist at heart and I am in the middle of a novel that's been in the making for almost 5 years, I almost feel like this video was meant for me on several levels. Not just for my own philosophies in my waking life but also for the whole premise of my book. I swear to God I only just now watched this video and almost every single subject covered in the video down to the symbolisms and meaning of the quotes, I have mentioned down pact as if I used this video as reference. I have never seen this in my life and I am somewhat convinced I have the wisdom of someone powerful. Nobody knows me yet and im sure not many people will hear me, but I swear if these teachings were conjured by pure philosophers wayyyyyy ahead of my time and I've never looked into alot of their teachings but somehow managed to find a video that could explain the main premise of my book to the tea?? Oh trust me, someone will see how legendary this comment is one day once my knowledge comes out.
I've only just turned 18 and have been reading jung and peterson since 16, I now am far beyond his works on the collective unconscious, the persona, shadow and a large portion of his work. I have alot more information to absorb clearly, will take my entire life no doubt, just to scratch the surface of reality, can't wait to learn more. Enjoy watching your videos, brilliant format.
Marilyn Monroe would make a fascinating case study (in her youth she endured a lot of trauma but was mostly FINE👉until, she started seeing top notch psychoanalyst’s, who pushed her down into the depths of her past traumas so that she could become a more feeling👉believable actress/filled her cup full of pharmaceuticals that unfortunately lead to her early demise!…) Reminds me of Nich’s saying & paraphrased: “If you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes back at you aka Don’t wrestle with monsters lest you become the monster!” 🦋
This was beautiful and insightful. You have a gift for wording things in a way that many can understand and relate to. Your videos have helped me tremendously, thank you.
you dont know the joy i feel when i find i have been doing the things that were best for me just by following my heart and my gut, to think that i accidentally discovered an ancient secret to the key of happiness. I always felt that it was impossible for things to be truly separate, that the laws of the physical world also apeared in the spiritual world, to cure any sickness, to heal any pain, one must first locate and identify where the problem is
A lot of people don't know that Freud went through something very similar to jungs confrontation with the unconscious when we was first working out his ideas. Henri Ellenberger points out in his book Discovery of the unconscious. He calls it a creative illness and details some of the specific symptoms if anyone's interested
By far this hit home harrdd.. I’m healing almst 3yrs now really putting myslf thru it mentally frm a break up.. this is the best, really glad I found this last nite 1am Philadelphia PA USA Mch luv/rspct.. listening to this again tonite.. and Kpng it in heavy rotation, exactly what I needed. Thank You..
This is so true. I would not change the suffering I have experienced as horrible as it has been, as I am a much more complete person. I am more aware of others and what they maybe going through. My wounds have helped me to be a better person and healer and the feeling I get in my soul when caring for others is the greatest feeling.
I came into the world in the middle of a huge tornado. One produced in my own childhood home. When you’re able to breakthrough that circumstance you are so dizzy and unknowing. It’s take a lot of luck, circumstances and natural abilities to find what life really is or to even question what I am. No easy feat. I feel I’m at the end of my crossroads and must choose. It’s difficult to remove things from the path. It takes time and perseverance. Indecision and distractions pass the time... I just know I am here to learn a lesson and I haven’t learned it yet.
Does a sail have anything to say as the wind breezes it across the ocean? It observes the beauty and horror of its adventure in forbeared silence. It moans and groans when one tugs and pulls to redirect yet flutters in the wind nonetheless. Before it knows, it's arrived at the destination. She is the ocean, the boat, the sail, the wind, and the one who redirects. If any semblance of this ego identifies with Her fully, may it only be a semblance in service as a silent sail swiftly and smoothly supporting seekers to Her shores.🙏
This video was fantastic. As someone who could never afford therapy and had to teach myself a lot about human psychology and the way the brain works; you are really amazing. I diagnosed myself with Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD) years ago; so I know that you’re very on point with the way you talk about human behavior and emotions. This was such an amazing video. I enjoyed the Anatomy of a Villian, video. This one was just as good if not better. Keep up the amazing work!!
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You haven't quite got the understanding correct.
The wounded healer fits in with the Hero's Journey too.
What you've missed is the healer returns from spiritual transcendent experience, shown with Christ, prior to crucifixion, he had already died to the seperate self, the story of Jesus is of an ancient desert priest, proven with the 40 nights in the desert alone, severe fasting and meditating.
It's why Himalayan Monks suffer so much to Realise all alone in the mountains, fasting and meditating for years
Extreme suffering leads to surrender, surrender leads to self-transcendent mystical union at-one-ment in Heaven and in that liberating rapture is realised the absolute cure, 'elixir' for humanities dis-ease, the dis-ease causing suffering, is yes self-conscious fearful awareness and is overcome in transcendence to realise being purely lovingly unself-centred again, released from the mind-body complex association, liberated from the associated psycho-soma, to know the absolute ecstatic joy of the eternal present moment again, again because it's 'like a child perceives' but the difference in pure awareness returned is the conscious understanding of it and so an eternity of unconditionally loving understanding with it 🌞💖👼👁️
I have a strange feeling that you're going to like the film Prisoners. - Watch the film analysis 'Prisoners: Symbolism Done Right," - and thank you for the video.
If you haven't checked out Hercules the animated series on Disney I'd highly suggest to. Joseph Campbell would be very happy with the show I do believe
I've been there...and found my Twilight teasures in the pitch of Midnight...
You only find them if you wait, because they are of the phosphorescent spectrum...
And now I want to share those treasures with everyone I see...
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This was fascinating, profound knowledge
"Pain and suffering are a kind of currency passed from hand to hand until they reach someone who receives them but does not pass them on.”
- Simone Weil
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I love her
sounds like karma
Eastern Wisdom to strive toward.
So true sadly I thank mother earth and the Goddess for not passing on my trauma at one point it coulda been an easy thing to do but I made sure not to be put in those situations again I forgive everyone cuz everyone is suffering something!
Only in my pain,
did I find my will.
Only in my chaos,
did I learn to be still.
Only in my fear,
did I find my might.
Only in my darkness,
did I see my light.
-~ Unknown
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I believe the author of this beautiful poetic truth, is none other than, Time.
That's pretty damn good, man.
Gay
@@user-kf7wl1pq9n wow, your level of sophistication is truly amazing. Be careful out this Christmas its supposed to rain. I have stepped in mud puddles deeper than your ambitions.
“The shaman is not merely a sick man, or a madman; he is a sick man who has healed himself.”- Terence McKenna
Damn
So he's still a madman
Soo if I heal myself through food and good thoughts I can call myself a shaman.🙂
@Lilith's rain B23 # LIONS R LOOSE!!! Thanks. Merry Christmas to you too.
@@Aryhada yes, if you assume your daily stress as equal as others’ life trauma.
''The secret of healing is inside the wound which contains the medicine. True health comes from acceptance of our wounds.''
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A little AA ,NA
I don't think you should accept your wounds and let them get infected...
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@@IisLasagnathey are infected when you ignore them, they are inflamed and you see it when people act like children. Ignoring is part of why our society is so sick, if they worked, wed all be good
Lots of healers did not heal themselves first, before they try to heal others, resulting in ego tripping or trying to heal themselves through helping others. So genuine (healing) is the magical word. If you want to heal others...you first have to heal yourself ❤️🙏
Right
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Believe Edgar Cayce said something similar. Regarding why he had to sleep to do his readings, and why he was supposed to only do a few readings daily, the story goes that in his past life, he used his gift in a dishonorable way, and as punishment EC had these limits placed on him in his lifetime.
but have you ever met someone who is completely healed?
@@bloom4385Truth. It is about balance in true healing and wisdom. The human experience entails the constant evolution of learning until the end. No one is perfectly ‘healed’ until we are done on this Earth.
To any young people who are suffering mentally because they are running away from a painful truth in their minds...let me tell you, you can never run away/hide from your own psyche...Face your fears head on and then move on with your life as u never will until you do.
The thing is "you just can't face your fears", it not doing once and all problems resolved. You just keep facing fears once and once again and it will never become easier. Fears will never disappear, just different fear will replace old one.
Yes but there are more noble fears and less noble fears. Or it would be more accurate for me to say our fears become more noble as we continue the practice of facing our fears. Such as the fear of not having enough for myself, replaced by the more noble fear that I did not share as much as I could have
@@RaZziaN1 and I think we can become more experienced at facing fears the question is will this give us the courage to face more difficult fears and maybe they will be just a difficult as all previous fears or maybe we will also have more good feelings in our reserve gained from working on previous fears in the correct way. Then maybe even greater fears will be easier in some matter when we know we have more gotten closer to whatever our greater purpose might be
@@RaZziaN1 Facing your fears will make you more resilient and ready to face new fears.
yes but once u figure this out u then have to figure out how to face your fears
As a physician myself enduring a severe depression I can tell that your video made a profound effect on my wellbeing. thank you and God may bless you.
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john d rockefeller founded the field of modern medicine in 1913. imo mental health disorders were created by secret societies to manipulate and disempower people, everyone has their ups and downs or trials to overcome, thats just a part of the human experience. You decide how you think, feel and act not some mental health disorder that youve been diagnosed and labelled with. Your life will get better and the negatives will only make the positives that much better, namaste.
You are not alone same here, I understand the process which didn't make it easier funny enough infinite love and blessings let the focus be the energetic expansion of that which you are unto All creation
You're still human. You too need to be cared for and given time to heal and to recover, it does get better. 💚
As a physician myse- shut up
Learning about this is one thing, doing it is another. It can be painful, but in tending those old wounds I have found my power. I used to be called too soft, too effeminate. I have the body of a warrior, and the mind of a scholar, but the heart of a gardener. I am loathe to see the ugliness and suffering in the world, but that is where I must go, for that is where gardens are most needed. God bless all who are in the process of finding themselves.
I love what you say about going to the dark and suffering places because that is where gardens are most needed. If I dare say so I am on a similar journey. I fell from what seemed like grace from an apparently perfect spiritual community and ended up locked up in a nasty place for two years. Having gone through it I am now starting to garden in a deprived part of town where people desperately need good affordable food. I think that teaching children and young people how to grow their own food is essential. If each of us could just grow a little food it would make a vast difference, in my humble opinion.
Wow.. that's the most beautiful comment I've read because it describes myself.
Sometimes I curse at myself for having such a tender heart and I've often prayed for Christ to toughen me up! Ah, but then we wouldn't be...us!
I hope you're embracing that wonderful scholarly, and effeminate gardener within! ;)
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Much love and blessings to you.
I feel you sister/brother. 🖤 may Mother Earth and the Universe be kind to you on your journey.
We carry a dual edged sword but.. I wouldn’t carry any other. Soft hearted warriors are needed. I firmly believe there is much more power in kindness. Because it’s harder to be and attain.
I am right there with you guys. Let's build a team?
Beautiful ❤
I grew up with my grandma who had a heart condition. Because I loved her so much I dedicated my life to become a doctor, a healer who could heal her ailments. On the day I got accepted to med school, I so happily shared the news with her. The next day, she died at the hospital. She had herself checked up, her doctor injected medication which she had an adverse reaction to and she died of anaphylactic shock. I was holding her hands while the doctors and nurses scrambled to save her. I quit Medicine as I was too broken. I am a wounded healer. Thank you ever so much for sharing this video. It made a profound impact and gave me so much to think about.
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I am a nurse who has lost faith in modern medicine. I believe in healing with energy and nature, and eating healthier.
She was gonna die eventually. You studied and worked so hard, and gained skills that could help you save and help many other people. Don't give up, maybe it was meant to happen because you were meant for that path, and she would want you to do a lot of good and make the most of your skills and talent. You could help a lot if it's you or destiny. Obviously grieve how you need to.
But don't completely close the door to opportunities, or stop your life as it might only hurt you and make you feel more down. Do what makes you happy and helps you heal a bit. But Things change in life, and death is a natural process, everyone has their time, and everyone has to die eventually. I'm sure she's proud of you, amazed at how hard you worked to help others, and Loves you. ♥️💟 and is watching over you. Encouraging you to live your life and do what's best for you. ❤️💛✨
I’m so sorry about your circumstances. I’ve been a physician for over thirty years and my mother was mishandled by her cardiologist. She died 3 months later after tremendous suffering. I’m sorry you decided to withdraw from med school, but thankful that you still have an opportunity to be a healer, should you so choose. It doesn’t have to be through such traditional means as a western medical degree. Our System is quite full of itself right now and frankly.. quite broken. But being a healer is about helping others through their suffering, healing whenever possible and bringing others into a more healthful outlook. I bet you are already doing that somehow, but if not, consider the possibilities.. or not 🤷♀️, just choose for yourself, and let go of any regrets about your choices, if you are at peace with them.
Blessings.
@@Ricca_Day : Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with me. I've since then shifted to law and been practicing as a lawyer for almost 20 years now. At first I took up law because I wanted to use my medical knowledge to help prosecute malpracticing doctors and help attain justice for my grandmother. In the beginning of my practice I have assisted in prosecuting medical malpractice cases. But I have since then learned to let go of my biases and grudges. Like you, I have come to realize that the system is broken. In my country, so many of those in the medical profession are overworked, underpaid, and their hard work and sacrifice unappreciated. I have successfuly helped defend medical professionals facing baseless malpactice suits as my medical knowledge gives me an advantage few lawyers possess. I have much respect for those in the medical profession. Yours is a noble quest, to heal and ease human suffering. I thank you and other medical professionaals for your noble service and sacrifice especially during the pandemic.
"They tell us in the darkness there be monsters. But it isn't true. In the dark there is discovery, there is possibility, there is freedom."
If you're going through a rough patch just know that this isn't the end, it's an opportunity to find yourself, to learn from your mistakes and most importantly an opportunity to grow.
To grow up!
Real
Love this. A maxim of mine is to walk towards that which scares you.
I agree 💯
My therapist relates of another patient who also suffered depression but without the SI, and she stated the patients outlook was: you NEVER know what your life MIGHT be in 5 years. I admired this and offer it to those who are still struggling to find meaning. I am still on my healing journey, my own individuation. And when necessary, I recall this and look back over my 60 years and she is absolutely CORRECT! It can be different, it CAN change. I was able to get off SSRI'S after 30 years through seeking truths like this video offers. (And multiple other resources too long to list)...peace of mind to all who seek it
Pain is an elixir and we’re alchemists.
This is profound.
@@SmithsCrhronicles that was Never my experience. Calmness only evolved after resolution. It's taken 50 years to find peace.
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It really is, my next project is to understand how the zodiac and philosophy are related. This is all so fascinating.
*Pain is my bitch*
Yesss
Now I understand why I constantly want to help and fix people even though I myself am a walking disaster.
Simply you don't want to see others hurt?
You feel that, from your own knowledge and moments when life put you down, even without lemons sometimes, you can help others avoid your mistakes?
Yes, most of what we say to others is addressed to ourselves actually. Listening is all that most people need and it's a great way to heal. Being present is the gift you're making towards yourself and helping others should give you feelings of peace and gratitude.
You are great, take care.
If life gave me lemons every time I got hurt badly, I think I could have a lemonade stand as a decent business.
@@oanaalexia you can see you situation as gold or dirt, you decide what you see and this will manifest what itll become.Try it
@@itsdeadshot2501 how do you think I survived so far? I got my share but I'm proud to still be around.
@@itsdeadshot2501 The lemon part was a joke.
The man who has been through Hell. He heals others by showing that he has been there and returned. He is wise for he hasn't returned empty handed, as many never escape Hell. He returns with a message. This is his medicine.
"He who tracks his shadow's path and sees it for what it is, sees the path that creates shadows in others."- Wesley Lloyd
Truly eye opening
I have to say I'm loving the vibe in here. I feel as though I have found my tribe. Philosophical, intelligent, beings who can have deep discussions of the trials in life.
I feel the same
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our own modern day, online agora :)
🎉 👋 👋 hi buddy
I feel you
He who only deals outside is weak, He who deals inside is strong. He who deals both inside and outside is Excellent. Wisdom
"the wound, is where the light comes in" -Rumi
"Pain is the currency by which wisdom is purchased" unknown
Truth
True
It’s also where it goes out.
"There is a crack
A crack
In everything
That's how the light gets in..."
@@katrinatilley1427 Leonard Cohen ❤
When I was comforting a deeply wounded child, her cries of release were so deep, so profound, so powerful, they shattered a mirror of darkness shrouding a portion of my own soul's fountain. I had to hold back my own tears until I got home. After that point we shared a psychic connection and could communicate through eye contact. Her healing was not finished, but my role was complete. I hope to see her again someday.
Do you still practice telepathy?
I hope you will see her and that she thrives
That's beautiful. Can I ask you to expand on the story in more detail?
That is the most beautiful way of words.
Beautiful
No one likes pain. No one likes to hurt. But pain is necessary without pain we would never know something was wrong and needed to be healed. Great video ~ Thank you
After 206 breaks and or fractures of bones, brain and mouth cancer, blood poisoning and some. I am still here and have saved many lives. Gotta love it all. 4 years ago I fell off a cliff. 145 breaks/fractures in 1 hit. Collapsed lung and liver. My gall bladder is now in armpit. Doctors said 6 months hospital. I was walking in 3 weeks and out of hospital in 4 weeks. Pushing 60yo now and loving It. Bliss be with you!
How the heck did you break that many bones and live??????????
@@JackFrost008 God knows!
Wow!
After healing parts of my past trauma, I absolutely love this video.
This world loves to break you down constantly, one can stay broken, as you are hurt more and more throughout life, living broken or you ask yourself "what did I learn through this experience" gain the wisdom and be proud of yourself. You are now stronger. Then help others when/if your able too
I made a song based off of this video and concept, thank you very much for the inspiration
So encouraging to me as a therapist. Exactly my view on healing…
Our wounds can never be resolved, only outgrown.
Agreed. But it contradicts the saying in this video “the shaman is not merely a sick man/ma’dam, he is a sick man who has healed.”
Either way, all of this digs deep in my soul.. now sizing up on how these shoes fit me.. if at all. Love how the universe leaves these breadcrumbs for us. 🌱❤️💞
@@azrael5310 I don't see it as a contradiction. Could simply mean that healing arises not from resolving old wounds but outgrowing them.
It’s good video puts too much on patient
Paused before watching but I want to say from my experience it is quiet simple. You needed help and you never got it, so when you finally dont need help anymore, you live to give that help to others because you'll always see a piece of yourself in those who you are trying to help.
You basically live to give others the help you never had.
Wonderfully presented and deeply insightful. Much appreciated. "The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are." ~ C. Jung
It's truly remarkable how you create one gem after the other. I'm deeply grateful for your content.
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Wtf is that a donation? Can I have one
@@idonenothingwrong bruh
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Eternalised. You are doing essential work for our spiritually and psychologically ill Age. Many thanks brother.
Suffering is your key. May we all open the locks.
In the eye of the Storm, I saw tranquility.
In the movement of water, I found clear reflection.
In the quiet of loneliness, I found loud answers.
In the biggest mistakes, I learnt the most.
In the scariest moments, I found courage.
In the face of death, I found life.
And in my wounds, I found a gem to share with others.
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holy fuck this is gold
Yeah!
The most scary thing to face is not death, is your true self. Because your true self covered by yourself with all of these social conditions, family influences. You will feel that out of the world pain when you facing yourself knowing that you never were what you really are.
What the fudge im scared of dying man not thinking about my true self 😭 lmfao
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Says the man who believes that he and his persona are one and the same, when it couldn’t be further from the truth
It’s hard to even fathom that you can produce so many amazing video essays with incredible art work, quotation and poetic prowess on a regular basis. Thank you for all that you do.
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Chat A.I.
Life is a tragedy, but its the tragedies of life that gives us strength and wisdom.
I love how much you love Carl Jung.
What's not to love about him? He made sense of our own shadows, great work for us to study even decades from now. He seems to gain a lot of popularity lately.
I've lived as a wounded healer the Last 9 years or so. I Had a very Traumatic childhood and tried to learn everytging about healing and wounds as to how they Form in the individual. I've come to the realisation on how to live Not in search of wound and healing. For the First time in my life i feel aligned with myself. I still want to be there for Others and act AS healer when i can but i do strive to live for my own better present and Future. The wounded wholeness ripped me apart for years. Thanks for your deep Dive into auch a rare psychological condition.
Whenever I’m in rough spot, especially with a hurt heart I always give this a listen. Thank you.
“No one can Give, What they Don’t Have.”
No one can love without loving themself.
@@bellakrinkle9381 💯% 👍
@@bellakrinkle9381And you can never know love without being shown what it is. Remember to spread it, no matter how small.
This shed so much light and confirmed so much for me. I am a teacher focused on healing my students so they can thrive and learn, and my wife is a therapist. We both have major trauma, but have been making tremendous progress in our own healing, which makes us that much more effective in our crafts. 🤯
Fantastic, keep on with your progress. I have always thought that teaching is not just about educating, as without providing a nurturing environment the students do not learn as well. Mindfulness and other kinds of things like meditation in class would be a great idea. We all need people who care and good on you for wanting to not only teach but help your students x
I'm a therapist who just had a meltdown about feeling like I'm too broken to do my job, and then this appeared on my timeline. I found it spooky, but great!
I’m learning this all at once… I can blame my upbringing, my current situation, my background. The people who coddled me, betrayed me, left me, used me, and hurt me. I can blame myself for being stupid, allowing victimization, and succumbing to trauma.
But blaming won’t get me anywhere. Help, healing, peace, and forgiveness can only come from within. And it all starts with, realization.
Been going through this all of my life. Recently cut off and walked away from all family who has never been there for each other. Too twisted to even think about, in which would only be reprogramming my mental and repeating those cycles. Took me a long time to realize this, but it's been time. So I feel your words of so well. Glad to hear that you've been moving on. Love is love.
If blaming doesn’t work what the fuck am I supposed to do when I just became an adult and I’m struggling with getting free of these monsters.
True health comes from acceptance of our wounds
Really awesome to dissect the psychology of the wounded healer. I think the Marie-Louisze von Franz quote really summed it up, "The wounded healer is the archetype of the Self - one of its most widespread features - and is at the bottom of all genuine healing procedures."
Essentially our own struggles and wounds can actually serve as a source of strength and empathy in helping others.Our own struggles are not just inconveniences to overcome, they are a tool for our own growth and ability to heal others. Challenges are the checkpoints we face in our own becoming.
Thank you for sharing as always E!
Yes suffering so much of the mind-body complex association 'self', to a threshold point where suffering is absolutely unbearable and the mind-body complex has become to feel like torturous imprisonment and so a point of self surrender can be realised in rapturous self-transcendence to Self Realisation in the Light illuminating purely loving awareness 🌞💖👼👁️
Psychoanalysts can "practice" without finishing their Analysis. This makes me think that wholeness or Individuation is extremely rare. Is it?
@@jeffp3999yes it's happening
This was like if you wanted a philosophically, psychologically,, scientificaly, morally and spiritually well rounded and balanced Speedrun tutorial in life.
Especially for anyone in the midst of dealing with a conflict within them that they cannot ignore nor find a healing resolution...
As someone who has myself struggled with mental health issues and who is currently headed into the field of Psychiatry as a Doctor this seems poetically perfect.
I overcame bipolar and wrote a book about it, if you are interested I would like to gift you a PDF version of it
The reason is that I went through the hell of dealing with therapist's, as well intentioned as they were, but after 10nyears of drugs I became fat and far worse mentally.
I walked away from all of that and cured myself. 6 years now no medications, no symptoms, lost the weight, I am a completely different and healthy version of who I was
Hello may I read the copy ? I’m currently in the same situation & would love insight
@@AwesomeAndrew Where you on Benzodiazepines for sleep issues?
@@AwesomeAndrew I would like the book as well. How do I read it??
@@AwesomeAndrew Hey king I would love to read that book of yours pls give me ur email address so I can contact you
This strikes a chord with me. For a long time, due to PTSD from abuse, neglect, and loss, I've gained myself a savior complex, wherein I saw myself as a martyr, forever bound to my suffering in the hopes of sparing others from the same fate as I, a Prometheus to warn his children. Unfortunately, I found myself being arrogant, trying to help those even though they didn't want to be helped, forcing my will upon them without being considerate of their own needs versus my own. Although I didn't value my own life, I tried utilizing my savior complex to justify my existence, in the hopes I could achieve happiness by helping others, but at the expense of my own. It's taken me a long time to realize that ultimately, there's only so much I can do. Now...I question...am I a wounded healer?
You are. I believe you are. You fell into the same neurotic thing I did. My problem was the selfish broken people around me. They choose to run from themselves and place blame on me. It molded me into a person whose life was worthless, but so desperately wanted to heal others. I have come to the realization that, it's me. I have the power to forgive myself. To value me. No one will do this for me, it'd be wrong as well, as it's not really me.
I have forgiven myself. 28 years of this misery has turned into something I know is good but so foreign to me.
And now, I take proverbial inventory of myself. The drive in my heart, body, mind, and soul is still there. I want to help the less fortunate, because I can feel the pain that they feel.
It's my nature.
It's our nature.
Thank you my friend. If you want to, I can share more of my story with you.@@volnutt1609
I would think so, because for you to come to this realization, it seems you overcame the complex. And now you realize what you were doing "wrong" makes you capable to heal and continue healing others.
Thank you for sharing your truth. I am no stranger to your dilemma. The rigors of the unfoldment of your curative powers (which aren't yours but God's), is soothed with the balms of knowing that all knees will bend, eventually. Sit back and witness their suffering. Be compassionate but proffer no solutions. Jesus Christ did not go around and heal people who did not ask for it. It is amazing how deep some people's bottom is! This must be hit for them to be willing to be willing. I have tried to lead the suffering, particularly my immediate family, to "the still waters" and it has only lead me to frustration and resentment. My cause had the effect on them which resulted either in their mocking criticism or their deep seated enmity. Take your pick, lol. Physician heal thyself and thy presence will be a continuous state of benediction to those who know not who we are, or what we are, or why. Let them come to you when they're willing to do whatever it takes, broken of their own self will and ego. Only the willing.
@@volnutt1609 What the hell, you're describing me...
The depth of this video is indescribable. Very impressive! 👏
The wound can Ether heal you or it can wake you up.
The wound callapses the ego in order to let the sun of enlightenment shine through.
Great work brother
Man i cant even express how much i love your content. You are awesome
The quality of these essays surpass anything I yet saw
The root of suffering is want and attachments. Nature is the most powerful healer that I know of. Being in nature recharges your soul and actually calms the amygdala which controls fear, anxiety, rumination (circular thinking), and negative thoughts.
Maybe that’s why there is a big land grab on nature ?
"Expectation is the root of all suffering" -Albert Einstein
@@skyblaizepleiadianhighcoun9993 Einstein was a fraud. A puppet like Degrassi and Cox. All the theories they are saying are false. Standard model all wrong. If you want the evidence Mudfossil University will present this without any doubt.
I just started this adventure with my friends I can't wait to help people
The reason i am going to school to become an Athletic Trainer is because of the several injuries I sustained in my time as an athlete. I strive to be the one to help those athletes recover and play at their best
Beautiful video. My path to becoming a psychotherapist starts next year; but I now realise my path of becoming a healer started long ago
as an animal rescuer who witnessed and experienced death, cruelty, indifference, poverty, abuse, depression, it is soothing to listen to such video.
That last quote hits hard
Someone healed me in a way I cannot explain. Most would say the opposite... But healing isn't just always a truly peaceful process. They once told me how wounded they were and had no idea what they ultimately did FOR me. She gave me more than I EVER could have given her. ❤️💪
We are truly limitless! The only thing that binds us is our own minds! Love yourself and keep moving forward! ❤
This narration is so poetic that I am inspired to learn its language.
"the kingdom is within" it all starts within, with you 🧡
Macro vs Micro had success in doing a few Macro first . Allowing the mushrooms to blast you into self awareness , showing you the shadows and trauma that have been hiding under the rug . Micro dosing has helped me stay on the pulse of my shadow work , helping me remember my best self .
0:05 Microdosing makes me feel more human . I personally feel like microdosing increases my ADD for the day , but I may have to dial the dose down a little . The benefits outweigh the downsides .
@@Alex-ik9pdI've talked to people who micro and macrodose to help with a TBIs . I'm told that it's easier to find words when talking , and it helps improve short term memory . I've also heard of it helping with hearing , where people who could no longer hear birds could hear them again .
0:06 @@DanielJohn-xx6epWhat's the difference macro and micro sounds exciting and I'll love to try where can I get them ?
@@ThomasDaniel-kw4jeI can recommend you to mycologist dr.johnsonshroom , he's good . 0:10
@jojo-ow5whSure, dr.johnsonshroom 0:05
This is an incredibly underrated listen and watch. Priceless, to me.
This channel is golden. Pain is the only way to find meaning in existence for which peace is the only cloth for the cold reality that there’s an end. Without destiny the only inevitable is fate. One must grasp their destiny or at least muster the will to endure life. The one who accepts fate greets destiny. The one who see through the pain. Undergoes a great metamorphosis
It isn’t the only way. There are many ways, to connect with people, moments, all kinds of experiences which do not involve pain, in the least, from which we can gain meaning. Pain is one of the most jarring, and likely to create resentment, of the ways, which is why it merits addressing. The way people choose to handle it, tends to create needless pain. But pain, in and of itself, is not the point.
@Fowchiii LIED, PUPPIES DIED how can you heal if there is no pain ? Pain is life. If you don’t address that. You then resent . There are many ways to heal but not if you don’t acknowledge the trauma that is the root. Same merit as peace. It’s not a one size fit all. But to say pain has no purpose just discredit the healing process. That’s human conditioning. If one become resentful then they become consumed by the void. Pain is a measure of growth. In this context it’s about healing. Which indicates overcoming pain so you can be able to connect with others. Pain is the point of healing my friend. You just mentioned pain as well so pain serves it’s purpose in humans. But after a while it builds walls. People connect based on that common core. We all feel sadness , pain , doubt. Which why healing is necessary so you don’t become your wounds. You can’t judge how people go about healing. Nor can you really grasp how pain can alter a person. Which makes HEALING come forth. The wounded healer knows suffering so that’s why they promote peace. By acknowledging and realizing the pain people harbor within them. Even if they don’t speak on it. A healed soul knows a healed soul by its familiarity.
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied I agree. Pain isn't the only way. It can certainly be used to test the meaning we think we found in existence, though. Friction isn't the only kind of purposeful contact, ya know.
I have been studying Jung intensely for some years now, and i can honestly say that this is without a doubt the best channel on anything Jung related. I thank you for bringing Mircea Eliade, and the great Karl Kerényi to light too, especially Kerényi had a huge influence on Jung, and anyone truly interested in Jungs work should read some of his works in my opinion, he and Jung did write a book together, about the Divine Child, and the Mother/Maiden Archetypes. The Divine Child could be a future theme for a video suggestion. I dont know if you are aware of this but Jung in a letter wrote that Henry Corbin, the french philosopher and theologist, had gave him, Jung, the rarest gift, the gift of being completely understood, that statement alone should spark some interest for further investigation. Thanks for making these videos, you are again and again taking them to another level, Jungs work is filled with so many branches of different fields and thought, and you have succeeded in bringing that wide diversity of the arts and thought into a whole, and that is remarkable. Keep up your tremendous work and calling.
Where do you find these books or materials you mention?
@@MissLizzieLew hey Elisabeth, i have bought the books by the authors i mention, online. Which one of the authors habe you searched for?
Yet Jung slept with his patients while being married, who he also turned into teachers of psychology. Funny how people put him on a pedestal while not knowing what things he has done and who he therefore was.
What do you know about Mircea Eliade? :)
@@ivboltwhat you have here is a discussion about the ‘nature’ of man and the morals of man👉A man’s ‘nature’ will always win over the morals of the man👉that’s why pushing a religion on a man never turns out well nor the war on drugs👉No man is ever 💯 faithful (it’s not in his genetic nature) bc if he isn’t physically lusting, he is emotionally, financially, mentally, or even spiritually! Being Naive should be considered just as much a sin as is gluttony, yes?!….(Food for thought: 3/4 of American’s are considered medically overweight!)
The reason you cry out for life is not for yourself but for the others around you that would grieve your life if you were to go missing. You are a part of humanity.
Hurt people come to me all the time and i never get tired of helping. Now that i think about it closed off people tire me quickly
One must find the light hidden in the darkness
I’m glad that TH-cam suggested me this video. Never did I gaze upon a video like that. And now I’m your new fan.
Huge amount of dedication and love you’ve given to this creation. I truly admire your craft 😮 Thanks, man!
As a CNA that worked in the hospital during covid. I appreciate this. I saw so much death and sadness. I struggled feeling like I wasn't doing enough.. one of our doctors took his own life. COVID took a toll not just physically but mentally
prayers coming your way
There's a lot more deaths now after the jabs, that's for sure
You can’t run from anything which is on your mind and heart it will come for you like a shadow wherever you go. You have to fight it.
I had an NDE after an accident where I suffered a TBI. I came back different. It took a decade for me to get my feet mostly back under me. However, now I am much better equipped to help others. I suffered my suffering in order to help heal myself and others.
The Life within us is the healing, we just need to allow it, to accept..
I struggled a lot as a neurodivergent kid in school, and for that exact reason I want to pursue a career as a child therapist.
I‘m drawing things like this since I’m a child. The things you are quoting and describing, the pictures and symbolism, I can relate 100% even never hearing this.
This is mindblowing... while listening to this episode I was struck by this thought. I'm coming from a religious background where normally people pray to God to be healed.I will try to explain it from a christian perspective. There is nothing wrong to be healed,its good to pray, but somehow I see people paralyzed of fear.. their only focuse in prayer is to be healed. God can heal you at the right time.. or He can't. The most important thing is to embrace the journey, its never about the healing of the outer man, its about the journey of tyself, the healing of the psyche, the soul, having the right attitude in the mid of the problems. We are like Akoya pearl oysters, we don't look for pain, but pain can produce something valuable. Ap. Paul was praying for healing, but God's answer was "my grace is enough"...and God's grace made him one of the greatest apostles. This is a reminder for us..."all things work for the sake of those who have trusted Him"
this is one of my favorite videos on YT. Explains my need for suffering greatly because I want to become a great healer
Such high quality work. I've been on the journey of this archetype most of my life so far, at times being wounded and at others helping to heal. This perspective is invaluable in psychology and in social work(which is my field.)
Big thanks!
I've noticed this in myself, I know the origin of my suffering, but rather than accepting the wound, I instead continue to dwell on the suffering. Thinking, replaying, reimagining, each time making it take new forms. It's the feeling of if I let go and confront it, what then? It's scary. I look at others even my so-called antagonizers and see the same thing. We all share a common tragedy, which is the deviation from the ideal state, it is heartbreaking. Life happens to and changes everyone, for better or for worse. But I guess that's the ultimate gift of humanity, through the tragedy we reinforce each other. There's no shortage of things to bring a man down, but together we've always shouldered the burden. It's a thing of beauty.
Life doesn’t “happen” to us. Things happen, but we have a say in how we handle it. You explained for yourself exactly what you are doing that is causing you more pain. Just do the opposite. Don’t focus on fear, accept it, and do the right thing for yourself anyway. Not as a favor to you, but as a favor to the world, and to whomever interacts with you or crosses your path. We don’t have the right to experiment with life, in this way. You know why, you know what, so stop. Stop allowing your brain the space to wallow. Get busy. Learn something new, occupy that time, with something mildly productive. Cleaning, a hobby, reading. Learn other things, grow in simple ways. Stop believing you have the right to wallow. None of us does.
so well done......you are very good as this
I enrolled myself into a Shamanism Training, my dark night of the soul started before.
It was until I took the Shamanism path that the real "dark inner job" started...
Last week I had deep experiences with Jesus energies (not the religious approach). When I watched your video I cried because it's another confirmation about my path and leaving behind the most deep dark work and depression that I had. The path and the work continues, however, understanding what happened along the way it's magic in order to continue facing whatever my higher self will bring to me.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Blessings!! 🙏✡️💖✨
As someone who's currently suffering from depression, this channel has helped me immensely. It opens my eyes to the things my parents never talked about growing up. I was treated like an look alike toy, I don't have a relationship with either of them now. It's mind blowing to understand that I'm a wounded healer. I would rather others be happy, instead of myself. It's a hard concept to unlearn. Thank you for you content. I appreciate it.
I am so sorry about your past and just by reading your comment i know you are a really strong person 💕 much love and stay blessed ❤️ You are a champion 🥂
Those that have been through the most always make the best healers & can guide people on the correct life path !! But as a healer you can never give some one what you don’t possess. So if you are on the other of a healer stay charged up in many ways & do all the shadow work you can in your self for a clear clean Chanel of healing energy .
"The wound
is the place where
the Light enters you." -Rumi
"The cure for the pain is within the pain." -Rumi
The wound is where the light enters. Rumi
He must have suffered so much to Realise such 🙏🌞💖👼👁️
@Aidan m have you actually Realise what you're stating though?
I am eternally grateful for this channel, content and above all, the person whos standing behind this. I would be more than happy if you could recommend us some of your favorite books. That way, we will get to know you better! Keep up the great work, sir.
Book list would be nice.
I have read the book Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. If I could only pick 10 books to read in my whole life this would be one of them.
I just would like to thank you for sharing such a great knowledge with us. It us amazing how you reveal( reveal: to see under the veil) the mysteries connecting the bridges from Greek mythology to modern psychology, showing that all is one and how these old traditions had as ultimate goal to transcend the unconscious into something conscious.
Thanks for channelling it❤️
Please consider looking at the Self Realization Fellowship (SRF) established by Paramahansa Yogananda. We are all one
Rising like a Phoenix from the ashes..... I myself had a choice of two paths. Empathic that I am, we see which path that I chosen ..... "no pain,no gain."
Beautiful light ✨ at the end of rivers of tears. Through it all, wounds are healing....I've never felt so alive.
Thanks to these great videos , more like myself will heal.
4:35 Asclepius is born saved from death so that he might grow up to heal others
Going to need to watch this a few times but the timing of this is amazing. Magical work!
I hope anybody reads this. I'm 20 and I was watching one last video before heading back to sleep after waking up in the middle of the night and I felt I myself could need the message for some personal isssues that were keeping me up. I am an artist at heart and I am in the middle of a novel that's been in the making for almost 5 years, I almost feel like this video was meant for me on several levels. Not just for my own philosophies in my waking life but also for the whole premise of my book. I swear to God I only just now watched this video and almost every single subject covered in the video down to the symbolisms and meaning of the quotes, I have mentioned down pact as if I used this video as reference. I have never seen this in my life and I am somewhat convinced I have the wisdom of someone powerful. Nobody knows me yet and im sure not many people will hear me, but I swear if these teachings were conjured by pure philosophers wayyyyyy ahead of my time and I've never looked into alot of their teachings but somehow managed to find a video that could explain the main premise of my book to the tea?? Oh trust me, someone will see how legendary this comment is one day once my knowledge comes out.
I believe in u
Thats😊 pretty cool dude, to say th😊e least!
I've only just turned 18 and have been reading jung and peterson since 16, I now am far beyond his works on the collective unconscious, the persona, shadow and a large portion of his work. I have alot more information to absorb clearly, will take my entire life no doubt, just to scratch the surface of reality, can't wait to learn more. Enjoy watching your videos, brilliant format.
Marilyn Monroe would make a fascinating case study (in her youth she endured a lot of trauma but was mostly FINE👉until, she started seeing top notch psychoanalyst’s, who pushed her down into the depths of her past traumas so that she could become a more feeling👉believable actress/filled her cup full of pharmaceuticals that unfortunately lead to her early demise!…) Reminds me of Nich’s saying & paraphrased: “If you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes back at you aka Don’t wrestle with monsters lest you become the monster!”
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I've been warning people about Jordan Peterson for years. Watch out for that maniac.
Please consider looking into the Self Realization Fellowship established by Paramahansa Yogananda
This was beautiful and insightful. You have a gift for wording things in a way that many can understand and relate to. Your videos have helped me tremendously, thank you.
you dont know the joy i feel when i find i have been doing the things that were best for me just by following my heart and my gut, to think that i accidentally discovered an ancient secret to the key of happiness. I always felt that it was impossible for things to be truly separate, that the laws of the physical world also apeared in the spiritual world, to cure any sickness, to heal any pain, one must first locate and identify where the problem is
When Eternalised uploads it puts a smile on my face. ✌👍
A lot of people don't know that Freud went through something very similar to jungs confrontation with the unconscious when we was first working out his ideas. Henri Ellenberger points out in his book Discovery of the unconscious. He calls it a creative illness and details some of the specific symptoms if anyone's interested
By far this hit home harrdd..
I’m healing almst 3yrs now really putting myslf thru it mentally frm a break up.. this is the best, really glad I found this last nite 1am Philadelphia PA USA
Mch luv/rspct.. listening to this again tonite.. and Kpng it in heavy rotation, exactly what I needed.
Thank You..
This is so true. I would not change the suffering I have experienced as horrible as it has been, as I am a much more complete person. I am more aware of others and what they maybe going through. My wounds have helped me to be a better person and healer and the feeling I get in my soul when caring for others is the greatest feeling.
I came into the world in the middle of a huge tornado. One produced in my own childhood home. When you’re able to breakthrough that circumstance you are so dizzy and unknowing. It’s take a lot of luck, circumstances and natural abilities to find what life really is or to even question what I am. No easy feat. I feel I’m at the end of my crossroads and must choose. It’s difficult to remove things from the path. It takes time and perseverance. Indecision and distractions pass the time... I just know I am here to learn a lesson and I haven’t learned it yet.
That was so well said!😇👌
That was excellent...ringing all kinds of connections...thanks for this one! Thanks for all your works, I love these videos!
Does a sail have anything to say as the wind breezes it across the ocean? It observes the beauty and horror of its adventure in forbeared silence. It moans and groans when one tugs and pulls to redirect yet flutters in the wind nonetheless. Before it knows, it's arrived at the destination. She is the ocean, the boat, the sail, the wind, and the one who redirects. If any semblance of this ego identifies with Her fully, may it only be a semblance in service as a silent sail swiftly and smoothly supporting seekers to Her shores.🙏
This video was fantastic. As someone who could never afford therapy and had to teach myself a lot about human psychology and the way the brain works; you are really amazing. I diagnosed myself with Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD) years ago; so I know that you’re very on point with the way you talk about human behavior and emotions.
This was such an amazing video. I enjoyed the Anatomy of a Villian, video. This one was just as good if not better. Keep up the amazing work!!
This is so moving. So much light for my seeds🕯Thank you.