[ASMR] comforting you're autistic boyfriend [M4A] [Autistic speaker x listener] [Reverse comfort]

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  • @jomana577
    @jomana577 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This is so cute omg I want to cry and hug him until he calms down

  • @incompetentloser4941
    @incompetentloser4941 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I am not autistic, but the way you described how your brain would shut down when overwhelmed by sound is EXACTLY how I feel. I wish I could have expressed my feelings that clearly when I struggled with this during school.

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It took me over 19 years of my live to realize that I'm not the only one feeling like this. It is never to late to express your feelings and its never wrong to let people know what you need.
      Hope my video helped you in some way

  • @Cassidy_Iida
    @Cassidy_Iida 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I wasn't diagnosed with autism but I show some traits. I don't like loud sounds or yelling either. I also have shutdown modes not often, but it happens

    • @Transftm
      @Transftm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hate them to😢..

  • @Lindusus
    @Lindusus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I was diagnosed with autism two years ago and I understand that many symptoms are reletable, it is valid to ask questions but before self-diagnosing you need to be well informed! It's ok to have some traits but don't fit the criteria, just be yourself!❤

  • @alicetv303
    @alicetv303 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm not autistic but I just can't help but admire autistic people. Idk why but I just think they're cute. Their behavior, the way they don't always understand stuff that other people do and how they sound. It's all just sooo cute and adorable❤❤

  • @carisaquintel1057
    @carisaquintel1057 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I have a brother who is autistic and currently nonvocal unless he's screaming. He is around 4 years old and is the cutest I've ever seen. I worry about him, maybe a little too much sometimes, but this honestly makes me feel a little better. ❤

  • @saikikusuo7182
    @saikikusuo7182 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    ❤ this is amazing! I cried while listening to this it's so relatable it makes me feel happy that i am not alone one who experience this.

  • @raidensmith3733
    @raidensmith3733 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That intro was so cute thank you for that

  • @TheMazShow25
    @TheMazShow25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I love this! I’m also autistic and I would love to see more like this!

  • @LettixD
    @LettixD 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hello Silver! Thank you for this amazing video you doing so great! And I can relate in some way I do not have autism anything in that sort but I am also very sensitive to loud noises and crowded places.
    I get very anxious and hyperventilate what can cause me to have a break down or pass out I don’t have many people that understand that or support me is rather people making fun of me screaming in my ear and saying that I do all of that because I want attention.
    I have massive social anxiety,separation anxiety and depression.I overthink everything I do and question myself if I do everything right and people including my family doesn’t understand that they say I need to grow up and don’t be so sensitive.
    I try my hardest to go threw those days and be there for me friends no matter what! And if you need someone to talk to I am always there! Your not alone and we love and support you ❤

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I can relate to your situation. In hyschool people were always loud and no mater how many times I told them about it, they never listened and just kept on being loud around me (I believe on purpose). When people asked me why I didn't want to go to school, it is because of this.
      I am glad that I can help you in this way. Hope that people will listen to you someday. I am here for you. And I'm glad that you all are here for me.
      (This was a very scary video to make because I am very scared to show myself from a vonerable side. Glad that it went well.)

  • @err0r453
    @err0r453 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Oh my goodness, this is making me cry in class lol, this really makes me happy to know that I’m not alone. I’m really sensitive to loud noises and people yelling at me, thank you so much for this video, Silver. ❤

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Of course, I'm happy to help in any way I can.

  • @hilmastaffangard4354
    @hilmastaffangard4354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I totally get you especially with the saying one thing but mean something else especially on days im overstimulated or overwhelmed by thigs (im also autistic)

  • @miadogcatgays4333
    @miadogcatgays4333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for making this

    • @miadogcatgays4333
      @miadogcatgays4333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I have autism too

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Always happy to help.
      You're never alone in this. Always remember that.

  • @Mystickitiez
    @Mystickitiez 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I have ADHD, seperation anxiety normal anxiety and probably others that i don't know (possibly Autism but not diagnosed but hoping to get some answers after I figure out some health issues first) the noise is definitely the main reason why i go into no people mode faster (thats what i call it) i just need time away from the people with my headphones on (sometimes listening to your audios) thankfully a lot of the people ive surrounded myself with are very understanding and some even ask to try some of the things i use to help and they normally end up getting it for themselves as well. Lol i don't know if this has made any sense but i just wanted to tell the internet people because sometimes telling a stranger what your going through can help😊

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amazing. Telling people about what you need can help a lot. Currently whenever i am in a busy place (like the train) i put on my headphones and listen to a specific playlist i have made for myself. Usually this helps and i am glad that listening to my videos can do the same thing for you. Always keep people ho listen to you, close to you. They are some of the most valuable people in your live. Thanks for your story, and keep it up. I believe in you

    • @Mystickitiez
      @Mystickitiez 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Silver-Amethyst thank you very much 😊 I will definitely be keeping them close

  • @VibeForYou-
    @VibeForYou- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Omgg that soo saddd that i really wanted to give you a big big BIG hug!!! I hope you doing ok ^_^ !!

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm okay. Thanks for the hug

  • @Airis_heree
    @Airis_heree 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I never know how autistic people felt because I never talk to them, but I know one lately, he rarely talk because he can't, he will scream if he got frustrated or sad, it's kinda make me feel worse because I can't do anything for him

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is wonderful that you want to help him, but you don't have to feel bad if you can't. Showing interest and showing that you care means the world to some people. So I thank you for wanting to help, even if you feel like you can't.

  • @tirilhamra9183
    @tirilhamra9183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love this!

  • @DeeDeeblackqueen
    @DeeDeeblackqueen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am only at 57 seconds and I can already relate. I am a 22 yo drop out with OCD but an old friend has ADHD so I can seriously relate to this wonderful man here

  • @Indyyyyy3
    @Indyyyyy3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I also have autism it’s really hard for me when I’m in school and I’m just scared to tell anyone not even my friends know only my family knows and I’m scared how my friend will react.

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am not going to tell you what to do. All I know is that telling the people around me really helps for me. Especially if your autism gives you problems in your day to day live. And if your friends care about you, than telling them this should only make things better. They might be able to help you get through the day better. But I also get why you're scared to tell them. So take your time. All in your own pace.
      Ik geloof in je.

    • @Indyyyyy3
      @Indyyyyy3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Silver-Amethyst toen ik dit las begon ik oprecht te huilen niemand heeft dit me ooit verteld en ik ben oprecht blij dat jij me snapt want niet heel veel mensen snappen hoe ik me voel dankjewel ❤️

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Als je ooit iets kwijt wil, met iemand wil praten, of gewoon iemand hebben die een luisterend oor kan bieden. Ik ben er voor je. En je bent altijd welkom op mijn Discord server als je even wil praten.

  • @Doughnutkinggg
    @Doughnutkinggg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wait a handful isn’t an amount that fits in a hand?! Well... huh... 6:00

  • @SayanHaqueOfficial
    @SayanHaqueOfficial 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @LettixD
    @LettixD 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Woooowwww!!! Early 😘

  • @Indyyyyy3
    @Indyyyyy3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Btw are you Dutch bc you have such a Dutch accent !

    • @Indyyyyy3
      @Indyyyyy3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Of hoe je dat ook schrijft idk ik ben nie goed in Engels

    • @Silver-Amethyst
      @Silver-Amethyst  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ja, ik ben Nederlands

    • @Indyyyyy3
      @Indyyyyy3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Silver-Amethyst dat dacht ik all :)