hey i wanted to congratulate you for taking a moment to be real with your viewers and talk about something serious for a second. ever thought of making more videos like this one ? maybe a second channel ?
I spent 3 years trying to be that person for another one, I was a completely different person, or at least I tried to be. I guess most of us have go threw that lessons in life.
Hopefully I remember this if I ever think that I found the one. I can compromise a few things, but trying to turn my life around just to appease them is a futile effort that will only result in pain in the long run.
@@zzygyy many men have a hard time accepting this. Almost all relationships are temporary. The man who insists his wife is 100% faithful are the ones who wives are the biggest whores.
My Fiancée of 5 years cheated on me. I instantly broke up with her. She begged me for a year to come back, while continuing to see this guy. Luckily all my friends, family, and acquaintances.. literally congratulated me on the breakup, so it was easy to forget about her. Now my life is kickass, and she is stuck with a looser 😄👊 .. I wish them the best 😉
Good for you! Have a great day! God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best! Jesus loves you! May the Holy Spirit guide you! 😇 💗🕊 Cheers to a better year buddy! 💞🥂🍻
Handled that like a boss! Her loss similar thing happened to me as soon as I found out I was like have fun now living a fun and drama free life should have left sooner!
She cheated on me with a person i thought was my best friend for 8 years after I had a very bad car accident. Lost 160lbs, started bodybuilding and focused on myself. Alpha M your videos helped me so much. Thank you. Edit* i didnt know my comment blew up, thank you Kings and i hope all of you achieve your goals💪
@@mikeydachancer7771 that's the right mentality for these matters, brother. Good for you. Instead of feeling it as time wasted, however hard that may be. It's best to think, reflect, and grow exactly as you did.
It would be an interesting concept if Aaron decided to do videos like this one if he is seated in front of a fireplace with bookshelves on both sides and the mantle is decorated with a carriage clock and two wrought iron candlestick holders. Aaron himself is seated in a high back leather armchair with a brass floor lamp on one side and an end table on the other side.
The quality of your job is so incredibly high. If you don't have a team behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing. You are a professional *johnson spy* ..
That’s what happened to me she was scared to break up, so her way was to cheat and then when I confronted her about it she avoided it and said “I can’t do this right now” and then blocked me so then I said “fuck it” she wasn’t worthy but what is the main goal is me becoming big in TH-cam so I’m grinding not worried about her what’s more important is the grind main thing I’m saying is relationships and girlfriends/boyfriends are all side priorities focus on you moral of the story
@@JGInfamous Hi there, yeah it's honestly so wrong by your gf/bf to do something like that. That's right man, fuck it, focus on yourself, and eventually you will find someone who actually deserves you. I see that you focus on a gaming YT channel, that's awesome. Good luck ! I am actually quitting gaming, in a few months I'll be done with it. It's not a bad thing, it's just that it's not a good place for me anymore(personally), I need to move on and start doing something with my life.
People often use the excuse "i was not happy" to cheat. That's NEVER a good excuse. If you're not happy with the person you are with, you discuss it, if you discuss it and nothing changes, you break up and find someone where happiness is a common ground. There is no excuse for cheating.
Or better. Find your pown happiness before entering a relationhsip. Yes you can love each other and you can make each other unhappy depending on behavior. But never let anyone be the basis of your core happiness.
@@raggarbergman Even if you find happiness before entering a relationship, you likely won't be oblivious to your partner cheating on you, it will probably still have an impact and you will probably still have to deal with it.
@@raz5240 Of course. The main meaning in my comment though is that you still need to have that core happiness before you start to rely on others to make you happy. If you have that at the core, the bigger are the chances that you bounce back faster than if all your happiness is relying on your relationship. :)
@@raggarbergman It's no about your happiness or lack of... it's about the other one's state of mind. But have your things in order is always a good thing.
If she cheats then remember she was never yours it was just your turn. Goes both ways though, learn to be faithful Men or be strong enough to break it off before you break her heart and leave her with insecurities that will last a lifetime. Nobody deserves that shit.
It took me two years of isolation to figure out what Alpha said in 10 minutes. I got my girlfriend pregnant in college. I did what I thought was right and put a ring on it, adopting my new responsibility whole heartedly. I’m not saying I was the perfect person but I tried really hard. I went to school, I went to work, and I took care of our daughter when I got home while she worked in the service industry at night. It was a hard relationship but I felt like we were sacrificing now for the future. I felt a gut feeling something was off but my brain rationalized that I’m just tired. Turns out she was cheating on me with multiple people. I confronted her and decided I have to forgive her for the sake of our daughter....she didn’t stop. We ended up getting divorced and I dealt with the pain by myself. Trust your gut, do not blame yourself brothers.
Sorry to hear what happened to you but very glad you were able to leave that toxic relationship. I really hope all is well with you and your daughter. 💯
I'm sorry to hear that you went through that brother. You're better off without her in the long run. I am divorced with a daughter too. I feel bad that my daughter is from a broken home but her mum wanted to bring another man into our house when I wasn't there in March 2018. I was a broken man for a year or two but I'm working hard on myself now. We will both be better off without them in the end mate👍
Men nowadays have a gun pointed at them when it comes to dating and one mistake means the end of everything. It's actually shocking how much pressure we have
That just isn't true. If you really feel that way, I would implore you to get into therapy. Trust me, a couple years of therapy did more for my life and dating life than a decades worth of dating advice and self help garbage. Life's answers are not out in the world. Its inside of us.
@@maestro-fifa4446 men always required to be best of the best in so many things in order to be liked by women. Being good looking, some sort of wealth, sense of humor, can cook, on and on. While all women need to do is being pretty and have nice body, then tons of men will automatically fly all around them like flies to honey. At this point, all women need to do is choose, and when being bored with one, she can move on the another easily, like at a buffet. Damn those simps
If you’re cheated on, Do NOT say anything to her. Don’t ask questions, don’t inquire, do NOT waste time wondering why. You won’t get the answers you’re looking for. Get up, walk out, and start erasing her from your memory. Allow your emotions to come and go, and simply love yourself as best as you can every single day. Trust yourself-you’re strong enough to walk away, and you deserve the best. And make no mistake about it, the best would never betray you like that. You’re the king of you, nobody else has any power over you.
I did not have money to counsel a psychiatrist after my breakup, so I had to deal with my breakup alone. Lonely in my own room. Shoutout to those people who became capable of indulging in their own pain which made them stronger than ever.
@Doctor Strange I'm fine now, didn't feel much better in the last 5/6 years actually... Started working out, started studying hard, started doing tuition to those lil kids, doing musics, performing live shows... I'm doing fine now brother... And it has been 6 months....
if it was from a girlfriend then its understandable specially if it was a new relationship, but if it was from a wife then its very bad, life is short, women have needs, women get better and better offers everyday, no one is gonna wait for your ugly a$$ unless they really love you and see a future with you, which is very rare, don't go to the army leaving someone behind at leas thtats what i think on the subject
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
My ex cheated and made me believe I was the father of her child until I found out I wasn’t just recently starting this process, ur advice is noted. Self focus going forward
This happened to me also! She cheated on me and got pregnant with another man and told me it was my baby when she knew it wasn’t. The whole thing was devastating. Don’t give up though…your best years are ahead!
Remember lads, this amazing community will always give each other help if needed. Really appreciate the amazing videos Alpha. Helps all of us. Stay strong everyone 🙏
my ex wife cheated on me and and i was so hurt. after that i said to myself. i'm gonna work on my self and be independent. be my own boss. 3 years later, i've never been so happy. i don't think i would get hurt like that anymore knowing that i'm so much better just by focusing on myself and not needing anyone.
Hey dude, just let her go. I know the pain very well. At least you have us! An amazing community to speak with in situations like this. We're always with you
I got cheated on once and it was in high school, I felt so betrayed and got so mad at her that I got her out of my life. Ever since then I kept my guard up when getting into another relationship with girls.
I really admire Mr. Marino sharing his deep experiences like getting cheated on with his viewers so he could give an aspect and be a good role model for current and future males. Thank you very much, Mr. Marino.
@@alpham stayy strong brother... everythings happens for a reason... i hope and pray u get better Love LIFE ahead soon. As u have changed many peoples life im damn sure u will get back to Life again. Its just a matter of Time. And the good thing abt time is that *it Passes by* ❤ we All love you for your great efforts and services for us. We are with u
I read the title and I was scared as hell 😂😂😂i thought Mr. And mrs. Alpha was gone but thank god BTW alpha you're like a second dad to most of us I came here an insecure 14 year old child and now I'm an 18 year old man living my best life Thanks man ❤
This has easily become one of my favorite & the realest cyber spy hub major level of mature grown conversations amongst legends intellectual mindsets. Different level of transparency. It's authentic. Dope to see! Salute to *johnson spy*
2 years ago I found out my ex girlfriend was cheating on me. It was one of the saddest and lowest parts of my life. I didnt want to be in a relationship anymore, I didnt trust anyone. I wanted to be in a relationship till I was older cause I thought girls are just same. But I went to therapy like Alpha and I took sometime to myself and it was the best part of my overall life. I was more happy and having a good time with friends and family. Then I made the decision to try relationships again and it worked I started dating my bestfriend who i knew from elementary. She liked me for who I was and I liked her for who she was and it was the best decision I made. I agree with all the tips Alpha says. He's the man
As someone who was cheated on, I was scared of opening this video. Thank you Alpha, you're someone somewhat in the middle of a father or an older brother.
The worst part is when they cheat on you and try to be nice afterwards. Like yo you just stabbed me in the back in one of the WORST ways possible and you wanna be nice to me after just to mentally make me feel twisted? I’m just gonna focus on myself
now this comment I agree with tbh we all have our own emotions I always said if I got cheated on I wouldn’t be hurt I’d just be disappointed because that is what it truly strings down too is disappointment but like you said doesn’t even matter the reason once it’s broken it’s broken and imma just move on
Aaron has been more of a father to me than my own father himself. Since age 17, now I'm 22, great career and running my own small businesses, killing it with the girls, confident, stylish, couldn't be more grateful. #TeamAlphaM
Aaron is making this very personal video as advise and for us to learn from his bad experiences. At the same time he is also very active in the comments. Say what you want but this guy cares about all of us.
I'm pretty sure the majority of your subscribers, subscribed because some spicy seniorita lowered our self-esteem through cheating. So thank you Alpha. Thank you for this video. Thank you for all the other videos that make us better ourselves. And thank you for making us feel good and helping us to allow ourselves to not feel as embrassed and as alone when it comes to dealing with this stuff. Hats off, champ! We love you❤
My girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me. We got separated and became ldr for a year, she met someone else and left me. I've been single now for about 9 months and still in the process of moving on but I'm getting better and better day by day I'm also in my best shape. I could now say that it was the best and also the worst thing that ever happened to me in my life. I definitely dodged a bullet on that one. Best wishes for her tho
My (ex)girlfriend of 7 years cheated and broke up with me around a 6 days ago. I was an emotional train wreck for 5 days. I watched your video last night, and it made me see things more clearly, and feel much better about myself! Thanks for that!!!
This really speaks to me! My wife cheated on me back in October and she didn't say anything was wrong until we went to marriage counseling. She had said that I wasn't emotionally open and didn't talk about my feelings because that was just the way I was I almost NEVER talked about my feelings I always bottled them up and pushed them WAAYY down. So she met a guy on some weed smoking app and slept with him. I went to counseling for myself right after. Now currently going thru the divorce process and still dealing with my emotions of the entire thing and is still extremely hard to talk about sometimes but is getting easier to do so. This is one my my favorite channels of all thanks for all the videos and tips Alpha your awesome!!
Sadly this took me, and probably others way to long to realise by ourselves. It's nice to hear this validated, and kudos for doing this to help people going through this now
Once the trust goes, the relationship is over & you can’t get it back. It doesn’t matter if you go to marriage counselling because you are kidding yourself if you think the relationship can be fixed, this is where people kid themselves. End it and move on if you find your partner cheated.
I'm most sure that Brandon of *Johnson spy* is the solitary individual here that is really ready to complete this without any kind of grumble, I'm genuinely thankful to him for since, supposing that it weren't for him I wouldn't have discovered that my sweetheart was not the slightest bit steadfast from the beginning
I read somewhere that if you get cheated on, just be glad that they lost someone that cared for them (which is you), and you lost someone who didn't really cared for you. Yes I know, at some point they probably did cared for you, but think about it, they decided that short moment of cheating was worth more than everything the both of you had. Hence, logically they did not really cared for you that much either way you put it.
NEVER call yourself an alpha…. Even if you are one. It’s the cringiest thing I’ve ever heard & you’re gonna look dumb like Aaron here. I can’t be the only one who saw it coming that he’s gonna get cheated on. If you think this guy really is an alpha male, be ready to get cheated on too. Your money & status & looks don’t make you an alpha btw…. It’s your mindset.
My ex cheated on me with somebody she met in Florida when she was on vacation with her aunt. As soon as I found out I knew our relationship would end. I wish I had ended it right then and there instead of prolonging it because it hurts more the longer you wait
To you all gentlemen and ladies especially younger generation who are going through a tough and painful breakup. Tell yourself you are amazing, Be strong and nothing will ever last...Depression dosen't last, being heartbroken dosen't last, negativity dosen't last, Being too emotional dosen't last But Wanting to have a great and ever-lasting love relationship its very hard to be honest, it takes alot of effort and sacrifice for both partners to build this great and ever-lasting love relationship together.
Caught my ex cheating 3 days ago.. She went overseas for christmas was due to be back on sunday. I went to drop some presents off at her local house on the Friday as a surprise for when she came back. Turns out she was already back and with another guy. She lied to me about when she was returning home so she could be with him. We was in a relationship for 1year and close for 18months.
I did this for 13 years. Gave every dime I made to her. Let her handle my finances and the bills. Did what I thought a good husband should do by putting my family first. She waited for me to hurt myself at work and then threw me out with nothing and nowhere to go. Now I’m sleeping in my fathers apartment on his couch picking up the pieces of my life and my heart. Now I’m starting over at 39 from scratch. I should have done better by myself but life’s just beginning I guess. Very good advice my friend keep up the good work.
Whoever is reading this, marriage contract. Do it. It will save your life. If the other party doesn't want to do it, then that's your sign showing what they were after.
A year and a half ago we bought a house in Georgia together after living in Germany. Three months after living together, she left me for someone else. I've come a ways since then. Your videos have been a part of my healing and helping me find where to put my feet again, Alpha. God bless you my friend
Love you Aaron! I can totally relate. My ex-wife cheated on me. I've been divorced since 1996. I haven't found a keeper yet. I'm still hopeful. I appreciate all the coaching you give.
My first ever girlfriend cheated on me with her best friend, when I found out I dumped her. Ever since then I never tried to go into a new relationship cuz I have this feeling that I'm not good enough and she'll look for someone else. I know that the problem was with her and not me, but I can't help the feeling most of the time.
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I love you too Alpha ❤️
I don’t get it güey. How do the other people get more pinche likes than you? You’ve been struggling to get this far.
hey i wanted to congratulate you for taking a moment to be real with your viewers and talk about something serious for a second. ever thought of making more videos like this one ? maybe a second channel ?
to be fair you failed, you failed not bracking up with her sooner, but we all are or were young, and we all have time to grow and learn
Thanks for this Video Man. Needed this right now.
"Some of you are getting cheated on as we speak."
Me who has nobody: "Well, at least he's not talking about me."
🤣🤣😂
Same my guy 😄
😭😭
One of the perks being single. ;)
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“Some of you are being cheated on as we speak” 😭😂😂💀 why you come for us tho
Lmaoooo Fr 😂😂
I was like where is my gf 😂?
That was foul 😂
Lmfao
Is just a way for him to feel better lol
If she cheats on you, she was never worth your time gentlemen. Stay strong 💪😁🖤
❤️🔥🔥❤️
Facts bro 🙏🏻
That's the sad part that you wasted so much time to someone that didn't worth it at the end
It was his turn stay strong king
yes but how about all the time she already made you waste
you will never be enough for the wrong person.
Amen!
I spent 3 years trying to be that person for another one, I was a completely different person, or at least I tried to be. I guess most of us have go threw that lessons in life.
Hopefully I remember this if I ever think that I found the one. I can compromise a few things, but trying to turn my life around just to appease them is a futile effort that will only result in pain in the long run.
The memes from this are amazing
Where are these memes?
@@foxsmith770 like the badboy vid he posted to this..
@@drblastboi-f2pplayer269 i’ve seen that 😭
That’s what brought me here to begin with... What’s culture-war angle on this, anyways? Are we mocking him because tries to help men?
@@maximelaneville854 its because he is corny
IF cheating happens then I leave immediately. No questions asked.
i will do that when i got cheated FR
Exactly. SHE was never yours, it was just YOUR turn.
Oh yeah of course.
@@zzygyy many men have a hard time accepting this. Almost all relationships are temporary. The man who insists his wife is 100% faithful are the ones who wives are the biggest whores.
Fax
alpha: **She Cheated On Me.**
me: I've never related more to this man in my entire life
Thats tuff man
Felt that
same bro stay strong king
Respect 🕴🕴
Chill bro❤ everything meant something
Can't get cheated on if you're never in a relationship. Big brain plays only 🤧🤧🤧
BIG BRAIN ALPHA MALE PLAYS
Man of culture
Only big man with big brains understand this
Chad move🔥
Yep, never been cheated on in my 30+ years of life cuz I've never been with a woman anyway =]]
My Fiancée of 5 years cheated on me. I instantly broke up with her. She begged me for a year to come back, while continuing to see this guy. Luckily all my friends, family, and acquaintances.. literally congratulated me on the breakup, so it was easy to forget about her. Now my life is kickass, and she is stuck with a looser 😄👊 .. I wish them the best 😉
This is so good to hear. Best wishes to you
Good for you!
Have a great day!
God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best! Jesus loves you! May the Holy Spirit guide you! 😇 💗🕊
Cheers to a better year buddy! 💞🥂🍻
Handled that like a boss! Her loss similar thing happened to me as soon as I found out I was like have fun now living a fun and drama free life should have left sooner!
Congratulations bro
GOOD FOR U BRO UR A FICKING LEGEND
She cheated on me with a person i thought was my best friend for 8 years after I had a very bad car accident. Lost 160lbs, started bodybuilding and focused on myself. Alpha M your videos helped me so much. Thank you.
Edit* i didnt know my comment blew up, thank you Kings and i hope all of you achieve your goals💪
Hope you kicked that former best friend from your life
chad
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@Jag Great giga chad
Nice job king
If anyone of the Homies reading this got cheated on..Sorry King🤝❤
Bro I gotta say, it made me a better man. I learned myself and I know what I want in a woman.
@@mikeydachancer7771 yessir
thank you and same to you
@@mikeydachancer7771 that's the right mentality for these matters, brother. Good for you. Instead of feeling it as time wasted, however hard that may be. It's best to think, reflect, and grow exactly as you did.
Thanks brother
I have never clicked so fast
Damn same
Same bro..
Me too
Likewise
Ikrr
I really like these sit down, almost like dad-advice talks.
He's kinda like a guardian for me, the best way to grow as man is to learn from others, especially if it's someone like Alpha, respect to the king 🙏🏻
Really wish my dad-son talks were like this than shouts
I really like this comment, Honestly.
Check out ABOUD his channel is better
It would be an interesting concept if Aaron decided to do videos like this one if he is seated in front of a fireplace with bookshelves on both sides and the mantle is decorated with a carriage clock and two wrought iron candlestick holders. Aaron himself is seated in a high back leather armchair with a brass floor lamp on one side and an end table on the other side.
The quality of your job is so incredibly high. If you don't have a team behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing. You are a professional *johnson spy* ..
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
The fact that she didn't have the "balls" to end it, is just disrespectful.
You deserve so much more Aaron
Good thing he found better, since he's married.
@@Rufio_Cristiforus_Tucarus You see...
That's something I was wondering.
Now I know, thank you for letting me know
@@ninjamin_ he literally says in the video that he broke up with the cheater after 5 years... and this relationship was when he was in his early 20's
That’s what happened to me she was scared to break up, so her way was to cheat and then when I confronted her about it she avoided it and said “I can’t do this right now” and then blocked me so then I said “fuck it” she wasn’t worthy but what is the main goal is me becoming big in TH-cam so I’m grinding not worried about her what’s more important is the grind main thing I’m saying is relationships and girlfriends/boyfriends are all side priorities focus on you moral of the story
@@JGInfamous Hi there, yeah it's honestly so wrong by your gf/bf to do something like that.
That's right man, fuck it, focus on yourself, and eventually you will find someone who actually deserves you.
I see that you focus on a gaming YT channel, that's awesome.
Good luck !
I am actually quitting gaming, in a few months I'll be done with it. It's not a bad thing, it's just that it's not a good place for me anymore(personally), I need to move on and start doing something with my life.
People often use the excuse "i was not happy" to cheat. That's NEVER a good excuse. If you're not happy with the person you are with, you discuss it, if you discuss it and nothing changes, you break up and find someone where happiness is a common ground. There is no excuse for cheating.
Or better. Find your pown happiness before entering a relationhsip. Yes you can love each other and you can make each other unhappy depending on behavior. But never let anyone be the basis of your core happiness.
@@raggarbergman some people especially guys let that happen way too often
@@raggarbergman Even if you find happiness before entering a relationship, you likely won't be oblivious to your partner cheating on you, it will probably still have an impact and you will probably still have to deal with it.
@@raz5240 Of course. The main meaning in my comment though is that you still need to have that core happiness before you start to rely on others to make you happy. If you have that at the core, the bigger are the chances that you bounce back faster than if all your happiness is relying on your relationship. :)
@@raggarbergman It's no about your happiness or lack of... it's about the other one's state of mind. But have your things in order is always a good thing.
These are the best Alpha M videos.
I need more of this.
Yes
Best Alpha M LESSONS
This 13minute video has alot of things we could learn from. This is a treasure! Thanks Aaron
My dog
If she cheats then remember she was never yours it was just your turn.
Goes both ways though, learn to be faithful Men or be strong enough to break it off before you break her heart and leave her with insecurities that will last a lifetime. Nobody deserves that shit.
Well said.
And this is why red pill knowledge should be spread.
You been listening to before the train wreck I see
Infidelity should still be a crime. So long as it's not, Western Society will fail.
Can't get cheated on if you're forever alone 🙃
But on a serious note for all my brothers that did get cheated on keep your head up kings. 👑
I have always being single and the best part is, you cannot be cheated on💪... same here bro😊
@@akhtars9602 yeh don’t fall for the trap of true love and marriage cause all that shit is fake af u don’t need no woman to be happy just urself
Alpha is a man Of Culture
He always stays strong 🔥
Yeah
I used to play brawl stars too
It took me two years of isolation to figure out what Alpha said in 10 minutes. I got my girlfriend pregnant in college. I did what I thought was right and put a ring on it, adopting my new responsibility whole heartedly. I’m not saying I was the perfect person but I tried really hard. I went to school, I went to work, and I took care of our daughter when I got home while she worked in the service industry at night. It was a hard relationship but I felt like we were sacrificing now for the future. I felt a gut feeling something was off but my brain rationalized that I’m just tired. Turns out she was cheating on me with multiple people. I confronted her and decided I have to forgive her for the sake of our daughter....she didn’t stop. We ended up getting divorced and I dealt with the pain by myself. Trust your gut, do not blame yourself brothers.
Sorry to hear what happened to you but very glad you were able to leave that toxic relationship. I really hope all is well with you and your daughter. 💯
Please love your daughter forever❤️
@@pedromata133 my daughter and I have the best relationship. Thank you brother!!
Its sad, she think even think about her daughter
I'm sorry to hear that you went through that brother. You're better off without her in the long run. I am divorced with a daughter too. I feel bad that my daughter is from a broken home but her mum wanted to bring another man into our house when I wasn't there in March 2018. I was a broken man for a year or two but I'm working hard on myself now. We will both be better off without them in the end mate👍
Just follow your own advice bozo🙄
“You don’t have time to waste on someone’s that’s not going to respect you” That hits too close. Thanks alpha I needed to hear that
Try this one, “the person that makes you feel like your in heaven, can also make you feel like your in hell.”😬
Being cheated on sucks. I had one girl and good riddance when I found out. Keep it moving and don't ever go back to that person.
Men nowadays have a gun pointed at them when it comes to dating and one mistake means the end of everything. It's actually shocking how much pressure we have
Men just give women too much power, that’s why it’s so imbalanced
@@mbank3832 Yes, that's the real problem.
That just isn't true. If you really feel that way, I would implore you to get into therapy. Trust me, a couple years of therapy did more for my life and dating life than a decades worth of dating advice and self help garbage. Life's answers are not out in the world. Its inside of us.
@@mbank3832 There needs to be a sense of equality somewhere in the world though
@@maestro-fifa4446 men always required to be best of the best in so many things in order to be liked by women. Being good looking, some sort of wealth, sense of humor, can cook, on and on. While all women need to do is being pretty and have nice body, then tons of men will automatically fly all around them like flies to honey. At this point, all women need to do is choose, and when being bored with one, she can move on the another easily, like at a buffet. Damn those simps
"How to transform from a Nice Guy to a Bad Boy"
"She Cheated On Me."
lol
"How to become a nice guy again"
If you’re cheated on, Do NOT say anything to her. Don’t ask questions, don’t inquire, do NOT waste time wondering why. You won’t get the answers you’re looking for. Get up, walk out, and start erasing her from your memory. Allow your emotions to come and go, and simply love yourself as best as you can every single day. Trust yourself-you’re strong enough to walk away, and you deserve the best. And make no mistake about it, the best would never betray you like that. You’re the king of you, nobody else has any power over you.
I did not have money to counsel a psychiatrist after my breakup, so I had to deal with my breakup alone. Lonely in my own room. Shoutout to those people who became capable of indulging in their own pain which made them stronger than ever.
Hope things get better
@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 thanks man! ❤️ Let's see, I'm trying my best to cope up...
@@ianishraque how much was her gym experience how much years of hard workout ?
@Doctor Strange I'm fine now, didn't feel much better in the last 5/6 years actually... Started working out, started studying hard, started doing tuition to those lil kids, doing musics, performing live shows... I'm doing fine now brother...
And it has been 6 months....
@Doctor Strange keep ur heads up king👑
3:03 the vulnerability in his voice is so genuine, you are amazing alpha!
And it makes for a good sales pitch too
Worst type of cheat...when you’re in the Army and she cheats/dumps you while deployed.
spain with you the n
if it was from a girlfriend then its understandable specially if it was a new relationship, but if it was from a wife then its very bad,
life is short, women have needs, women get better and better offers everyday, no one is gonna wait for your ugly a$$ unless they really love you and see a future with you, which is very rare, don't go to the army leaving someone behind
at leas thtats what i think on the subject
@@Hisham_HMA you sound like such a beta
@@Hisham_HMA Wow! You really sound like an expert on the subject matter. Please continue to enlighten us.
My only rule with woman, do not fuck a girl who is with a man that you should be thankful to.
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
Thanks *brian hacks online* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
How to get over a break up in 3 steps
1. Listen to Alpha
2. Watch all 3 movies of Batman
3. Become Batman and Be Awesome
The dark knight trilogy?
Done
Lol I hope you know being Batman alone takes years of training
@@KingLucarioxx decades
2 of those steps suck
My heart dropped reading that title
My ex cheated and made me believe I was the father of her child until I found out I wasn’t just recently starting this process, ur advice is noted. Self focus going forward
Dang bro, keep ya chin up man
disgusting ex
Fckec up
This happened to me also! She cheated on me and got pregnant with another man and told me it was my baby when she knew it wasn’t. The whole thing was devastating. Don’t give up though…your best years are ahead!
Watch red pill channels how to recover from that.
Remember lads, this amazing community will always give each other help if needed. Really appreciate the amazing videos Alpha. Helps all of us. Stay strong everyone 🙏
More power to you bud 💪🔥
I thought you were a bad boy
OH MY GOD ITS THE MEME
My dad told me once when a woman says that they love you dont get to happy ask yourself until when because people change like the seasons
That’s very wise advice, and I wish I heard it sooner.
People change like the seasons. That’s good stuff
Thanks guys
I mean that doesn't necessarily mean that their love won't be forever
In other words to be to attach easily, look at the actions no words.
my ex wife cheated on me and and i was so hurt. after that i said to myself. i'm gonna work on my self and be independent. be my own boss. 3 years later, i've never been so happy. i don't think i would get hurt like that anymore knowing that i'm so much better just by focusing on myself and not needing anyone.
Just have one night stand. At least
u made me smile man, im happy for u!!
The pain of being cheated on absolutely stings!
Hey dude, just let her go. I know the pain very well. At least you have us! An amazing community to speak with in situations like this. We're always with you
So the "alpha" shit doesn't work
no shit
I got cheated on once and it was in high school, I felt so betrayed and got so mad at her that I got her out of my life. Ever since then I kept my guard up when getting into another relationship with girls.
Happened to me in HS as well but was a good wake up call and prepared me for the future and the red pill.
My wife invited over 3 black guys home while I was at work,
@@Bad_Karma-nf2cm nothing to worry about, just some helpful plumbers laying pipe.
@@Bad_Karma-nf2cmI don’t believe you
I really admire Mr. Marino sharing his deep experiences like getting cheated on with his viewers so he could give an aspect and be a good role model for current and future males. Thank you very much, Mr. Marino.
The title should be like “She cheated on me, again.”
Sorry to hear that man... u deserve better!
i got better:)
@@alpham trust me man...I needed this comment from you cause i was warried a lot...I thought the worst.
@@alpham That’s amazing Alpha! I’m glad you were able to rebuild and now you’re helping everyone become better men💪
@@alpham ofc you have better, your channel A.M
No one deserves anything
"Alphas" posting their L's. LOL
Maybe you were too alpha for the shorty 👿
Really curious to see how today's video sponsor is going to be built into this.
Edit: Not disappointed!
Like butter... Smooooth 😁
@@alpham For Sure 🔥🔥
@@alpham stayy strong brother... everythings happens for a reason... i hope and pray u get better Love LIFE ahead soon. As u have changed many peoples life im damn sure u will get back to Life again. Its just a matter of Time. And the good thing abt time is that *it Passes by* ❤ we All love you for your great efforts and services for us. We are with u
I read the title and I was scared as hell 😂😂😂i thought Mr. And mrs. Alpha was gone but thank god
BTW alpha you're like a second dad to most of us I came here an insecure 14 year old child and now I'm an 18 year old man living my best life
Thanks man ❤
Same bro!! Good thing I watched the whole video first before I commented something bad. 😅
Best things to have when you are getting cheated on or just talking to a girl:
1. Self-respect
2. Confidence
Stay strong fighters!🔥
Wah wah wah
u gonna drop her @ tho 🤤‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I haven't seen your video yet but one thing for sure your Senorita is never going to cheat you.❤
Sometimes it's hard to accept someone is cheating, but doing so and moving forward is genuinely important for your wellbeing
Brick wall background: Shit's about to get real.
No matter how good you are women can never be pleased. They will always go out the way. Continue do your thing ma guy
This has easily become one of my favorite & the realest cyber spy hub major level of mature grown conversations amongst legends intellectual mindsets. Different level of transparency. It's authentic. Dope to see! Salute to *johnson spy*
this is not embarrassing alpha. you're incredible. period.
no hes not , nigga cheated on his wife 5 times
2 years ago I found out my ex girlfriend was cheating on me. It was one of the saddest and lowest parts of my life. I didnt want to be in a relationship anymore, I didnt trust anyone. I wanted to be in a relationship till I was older cause I thought girls are just same. But I went to therapy like Alpha and I took sometime to myself and it was the best part of my overall life. I was more happy and having a good time with friends and family. Then I made the decision to try relationships again and it worked I started dating my bestfriend who i knew from elementary. She liked me for who I was and I liked her for who she was and it was the best decision I made. I agree with all the tips Alpha says. He's the man
As someone who was cheated on, I was scared of opening this video. Thank you Alpha, you're someone somewhat in the middle of a father or an older brother.
The worst part is when they cheat on you and try to be nice afterwards. Like yo you just stabbed me in the back in one of the WORST ways possible and you wanna be nice to me after just to mentally make me feel twisted? I’m just gonna focus on myself
I have also been cheating on by my ex-girlfriend and the funny fact is that she never told me. I found out on my own.
@@Bada_Boom78 Intuition.
@@sachacorb any tips on what to watch
@@HelixBeats98 for what?
why'd you expect her to tell you that she cheated
@@mangoti_tanaka i don’t expect it though (and still don’t)
If I was cheated on it doesn’t matter what the reason is. Once the trust is broken that’s it!
now this comment I agree with tbh we all have our own emotions I always said if I got cheated on I wouldn’t be hurt I’d just be disappointed because that is what it truly strings down too is disappointment but like you said doesn’t even matter the reason once it’s broken it’s broken and imma just move on
Aaron has been more of a father to me than my own father himself. Since age 17, now I'm 22, great career and running my own small businesses, killing it with the girls, confident, stylish, couldn't be more grateful. #TeamAlphaM
Good for you man🙂
Yikes my man. Stay humble.
@@superspice5659 Who said he's not humble? It's just his success story.
Aaron is making this very personal video as advise and for us to learn from his bad experiences. At the same time he is also very active in the comments. Say what you want but this guy cares about all of us.
I needed this video about a year ago, but the embarrassment lives on still.
I'm pretty sure the majority of your subscribers, subscribed because some spicy seniorita lowered our self-esteem through cheating. So thank you Alpha. Thank you for this video. Thank you for all the other videos that make us better ourselves. And thank you for making us feel good and helping us to allow ourselves to not feel as embrassed and as alone when it comes to dealing with this stuff. Hats off, champ! We love you❤
My girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me. We got separated and became ldr for a year, she met someone else and left me. I've been single now for about 9 months and still in the process of moving on but I'm getting better and better day by day I'm also in my best shape. I could now say that it was the best and also the worst thing that ever happened to me in my life. I definitely dodged a bullet on that one. Best wishes for her tho
@Mohammad Bakeer so that she doesnt cheat others : )
Chin up king!!!
Do not wish her the best. I hope you get whatever you’re working for.
@@pickataco6739 so wish her the worst? Ugh...
@@Jayematic precisely? Yeah lol.
This is gonna help alot of people, stay stong kings 👑
When I tell you I clicked so fast
My (ex)girlfriend of 7 years cheated and broke up with me around a 6 days ago. I was an emotional train wreck for 5 days. I watched your video last night, and it made me see things more clearly, and feel much better about myself! Thanks for that!!!
Never take her back and sorry means nothing. I learned the hard way as well. One and done! Life is too short and women are very abundant.
This really speaks to me! My wife cheated on me back in October and she didn't say anything was wrong until we went to marriage counseling. She had said that I wasn't emotionally open and didn't talk about my feelings because that was just the way I was I almost NEVER talked about my feelings I always bottled them up and pushed them WAAYY down. So she met a guy on some weed smoking app and slept with him. I went to counseling for myself right after. Now currently going thru the divorce process and still dealing with my emotions of the entire thing and is still extremely hard to talk about sometimes but is getting easier to do so. This is one my my favorite channels of all thanks for all the videos and tips Alpha your awesome!!
Hope things get better never get married again it's a very stupid financial mistake
@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 fuck that Bitch man You are amazing
Damm reading all u guys stories just makes me happy to be single, yeah I’d never get married or have kids it’s a waste of time and not worth it at all
*I have never clicked so fast after seeing the notification*
The hardest lessons often bring out the ALPHA IN US !
Sadly this took me, and probably others way to long to realise by ourselves. It's nice to hear this validated, and kudos for doing this to help people going through this now
For anyone seeing this, I believe you can achieve your goals, all you have to do is to NEVER GIVE UP
Once the trust goes, the relationship is over & you can’t get it back.
It doesn’t matter if you go to marriage counselling because you are kidding yourself if you think the relationship can be fixed, this is where people kid themselves.
End it and move on if you find your partner cheated.
I just knew it wasn't your current wife, but either way clicked the video👍
I'm most sure that Brandon of *Johnson spy* is the solitary individual here that is really ready to complete this without any kind of grumble, I'm genuinely thankful to him for since, supposing that it weren't for him I wouldn't have discovered that my sweetheart was not the slightest bit steadfast from the beginning
I read somewhere that if you get cheated on, just be glad that they lost someone that cared for them (which is you), and you lost someone who didn't really cared for you.
Yes I know, at some point they probably did cared for you, but think about it, they decided that short moment of cheating was worth more than everything the both of you had. Hence, logically they did not really cared for you that much either way you put it.
The more you feel the pain... The more you become Wise...✌
Who else though his wife cheated😂
Me: At work
Alpha: She cheated on me
Me: Fuck everything else this takes precedence
" if you don't love yourself what the hell are you sposed to do with someone else "
NEVER call yourself an alpha…. Even if you are one. It’s the cringiest thing I’ve ever heard & you’re gonna look dumb like Aaron here. I can’t be the only one who saw it coming that he’s gonna get cheated on. If you think this guy really is an alpha male, be ready to get cheated on too. Your money & status & looks don’t make you an alpha btw…. It’s your mindset.
My ex cheated on me with somebody she met in Florida when she was on vacation with her aunt. As soon as I found out I knew our relationship would end. I wish I had ended it right then and there instead of prolonging it because it hurts more the longer you wait
She cheats she belongs to the streets.
She becomes my ex and is swiftly ex communicated from my life and i move accordingly. That Is All.
My crush talks to me first and answers my texts, it's time to use the wisdom I've gained here.
@Тодд Вест-Сэдлер I know "That perfect moment" doesn't exist. It'll happen at some point, just a matter of when.
@@MJ-sy2en yup🔥
It's time my G
It's not easier, not to try ! Regrets hurt forevermore, do it today pal.
@@MJ-sy2en do it. NOW
Found out I was being cheated on today, and this is the video I see first, going to work on myself and make things better, thank you Alpha
Found out I was cheated on today. Working up the courage to get better..
To you all gentlemen and ladies especially younger generation who are going through a tough and painful breakup. Tell yourself you are amazing, Be strong and nothing will ever last...Depression dosen't last, being heartbroken dosen't last, negativity dosen't last, Being too emotional dosen't last But Wanting to have a great and ever-lasting love relationship its very hard to be honest, it takes alot of effort and sacrifice for both partners to build this great and ever-lasting love relationship together.
Caught my ex cheating 3 days ago..
She went overseas for christmas was due to be back on sunday. I went to drop some presents off at her local house on the Friday as a surprise for when she came back. Turns out she was already back and with another guy. She lied to me about when she was returning home so she could be with him. We was in a relationship for 1year and close for 18months.
I did this for 13 years. Gave every dime I made to her. Let her handle my finances and the bills. Did what I thought a good husband should do by putting my family first. She waited for me to hurt myself at work and then threw me out with nothing and nowhere to go. Now I’m sleeping in my fathers apartment on his couch picking up the pieces of my life and my heart. Now I’m starting over at 39 from scratch. I should have done better by myself but life’s just beginning I guess. Very good advice my friend keep up the good work.
Damm so sorry to hear that u fell for the trap of marriage and love. They are both very fake and not real at all hope u doing better now
You was some big time simp chips
@ad izzle I just know the truth sad to see that ur still blind tell me about it when u get cheated on ok. Nothing lasts forever
@ad izzle thanks mate
Whoever is reading this, marriage contract. Do it. It will save your life. If the other party doesn't want to do it, then that's your sign showing what they were after.
A year and a half ago we bought a house in Georgia together after living in Germany. Three months after living together, she left me for someone else. I've come a ways since then. Your videos have been a part of my healing and helping me find where to put my feet again, Alpha.
God bless you my friend
Came here quickly as FK 😂 Thought Alpha's wife cheated on him😂
Me too. My heart dropped. Glad it was an ex.
Omg yesss,same!
When you say stuff like "she cheated on me multiple times but she's an amazing person" ... wtf?!? Not very alpha of you.
It's called being mature. He claims not being an angel. I'm sure his opinion has changed over time.As he Matured.Try watching the video.
A shitty action doesn't necessarily make a shitty person. Life isn't allways that black or white.
There are a lot of grays on our perception man.
@@elianmontero644 I don't agree with that. Breaking trust is the worst thing you can do to someone.
Bruh moments twitter brought me here.
SAME LOL
Love you Aaron! I can totally relate. My ex-wife cheated on me. I've been divorced since 1996. I haven't found a keeper yet. I'm still hopeful. I appreciate all the coaching you give.
If there’s no keeper you find then that’s perfectly fine, no wrong in the fact that sometimes there’s no one that’ll be right with you
Free agent lifestyle!!
If you haven’t found a keeper yeah dude you never going to. Sounds to me like you’re too damn picky.
My first ever girlfriend cheated on me with her best friend, when I found out I dumped her. Ever since then I never tried to go into a new relationship cuz I have this feeling that I'm not good enough and she'll look for someone else. I know that the problem was with her and not me, but I can't help the feeling most of the time.
same here dude
Didn’t you listen to Alpha? It’s not your fault. It’s not that you’re not a good boyfriend, it’s that she is a bad person
@@FunBoysGaming thanks bro me 2 will keep that in my mind onwards : )