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  • @AngelaHorne-b6c
    @AngelaHorne-b6c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    STRAIGHT UP TRUTH FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯🤔🤔🤔

  • @larryatchley8116
    @larryatchley8116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't ever allow disrespect no one is worth not having peace love you Cynthia

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Holy Spirit is flowing through us!!! Let’s Get it!!

  • @ladyvee01anderson54
    @ladyvee01anderson54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Can't ignore red flags. That are showing
    Up in ur face. Just walk away focus on yourself 💪💙💪❤💪💙💪❤

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    L❤️Ve people even when they don’t deserve it , because GOD still loves us even when we are unworthy!🤗❤️

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom told me something along time ago and that was you teach people how to treat you by what you DO AND DONT accept from them.

  • @cynthiamoore496
    @cynthiamoore496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “They Ain’t That” Drop the 🎤! 😊

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got to rewind this.

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lord, thank you!

  • @gaynayeager8470
    @gaynayeager8470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You just spoke to me!! I needed this more than you know. Im learning to be in control of me. you cant be let down when you know the reality of the truth!!!! Yes!!! Thank you thank you Trent! Self help , I'm doing real good and gonna get better. Getting great tools from you! Let's get it.. 😁 Rehab time!

  • @winblessed1357
    @winblessed1357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    For real i used to ignore the reality, nowadays you are what you show me periodt.

  • @yummyyum1131
    @yummyyum1131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Respect is not a priority in any relationships nowadays

    • @b_cause
      @b_cause 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that's why relationships are not the same as before. Now we have people that think there some kind of gangster business leader but they are the same scum as before them. Scumbag ways are the same scumbag face change but they look like trash any timeline.

    • @b_cause
      @b_cause 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flabby

    • @charlesthrasher9124
      @charlesthrasher9124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you try to call

  • @sunshine-sm6nf
    @sunshine-sm6nf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my 2 adult children turned out like their Dad, drink too much, not dependable but I would not face reality and that kept me in misery. Yes, people show you who they are. Freedom in this.

  • @_beejoloves
    @_beejoloves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Straight facts!! 🔥🔥 Biggest takeaway?: let people show me who they are

  • @kaytimberlake7764
    @kaytimberlake7764 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tried for years to make my ex be someone they are not at all capable of being. I only saw his potential, i looked past the lies and disrespect because i wanted it to work. Now a year after the breakup i get flashbacks of all the disrespect i allowed myself to endure. Never again. "If you gotta question if theyre really for you, its a REASON" I was completely oblivious as Trent says to who he really was. Im grateful to be out of that situation. Trents vids helped me alot to handle the aftermath of the breakup and finally seeing the truth. Thank you Trent. And to anyone reading this,you dont deserve disrespect

  • @annadonahue4119
    @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Trent, I needed to hear this. I've refused to see this for years, especially when it came to family... but the previously unnoticed patterns have continued to wear into my heart, and now finally my head. Some very close relationships have been heartbreaking for so long... yet it's now sadly comical to realize just how long I was able to ignore reality. Your help showed up right on time to verify my much needed new understandings and new boundaries. God bless you, Trent!

  • @misleecassady4716
    @misleecassady4716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Perfectly realized… It took me many years to find this out! Some people can go a whole lifetime never learning this!

    • @annadonahue4119
      @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol! Folks like me! The turtles 🐢 ... Got it now tho! 👍🌟

  • @axtrustresor
    @axtrustresor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A while ago I started watching your videos and this is my first comment...
    I just want to say that I found your videos incredibly helpful and deeply true.
    Thank you for this opportunity which gave us a great chance to meet you, may God bless you and allow all who read this message to express and show their uniqueness.
    It all starts with us.👌🏽 Action is the key💯

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Narcissists are experts at making it your fault 👺

  • @theashleighroseshow9075
    @theashleighroseshow9075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is EXACTLY my lesson to learn right now. Hard onnnnne for me. But vital.

  • @lovearttherapyalways
    @lovearttherapyalways 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a good video. I needed this.... why do I insist on putting on rose colored glasses? I know this served me in my childhood because I was too young and vulnerable to speak my mind to a person who did NOT have my best interest at heart... but now... no... thanks .. no more rose colored glasses.. believe them the first time they show us who they are... jealous, heart less, back stabbers, so NOT worthy of your friendship nor time. Thanks so much T. Shelton for an excellent video! God bless you!

  • @Raptured_and_back
    @Raptured_and_back 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is what I needed to hear today. It goes deeper than this though, and a lot of it has to do with ourselves. People around us change their behavior when we change ourselves, and we can see it. When I go into purpose-mode and get on top of things really well, suddenly I have people showing interest in me, suddenly I get a text or phone call out of nowhere, because people can sense your energy change long distance, I know it's crazy, but much of people's behavior toward's us is completely dependent on our own actions. We essentially have some spiritual or psychic control over people based on how well we control ourselves. Idk, my two cents.

    • @annadonahue4119
      @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe you are right about our higher energy drawing different people towards us as well as raising those around us. Acquiring boundaries combined with realizations of truth in relationships with some loved ones, family and friends, has brought out the "hermit" in me. Your comment reminds me that I am growing toward a higher energy way of life.

  • @torib3th353
    @torib3th353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Enough said, Thank you Trent. Love your videos. They put out great insight. 👍

  • @thimygonzalez8838
    @thimygonzalez8838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This came in perfect timing thank you 💙🙏🏻

  • @jamieg1802
    @jamieg1802 ปีที่แล้ว

    so true,it was really every one of the people i thought were friends.

  • @craftingwithtresk5900
    @craftingwithtresk5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Coach really needed to hear this

  • @Sindysetter
    @Sindysetter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Straight up! Thank you for sharing this!!!!

  • @frankmclain2425
    @frankmclain2425 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know sometimes I can be selfish and only come to you in times of struggle, but you're always on point and help me during those times. I truly appreciate it

  • @Alcoholpad
    @Alcoholpad ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a wordddd. Listening while doing some art

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're right. My problem has been continuously meeting narcissistic people whenever I do put myself out there to meet new people. A new woman joined a group I'm in and she seems nice sometimes but she has several red flags of being a jealous, resentful, bitter, angry, back stabbing person. The trouble is I have no other local friends. I need to try out more groups and meet more people and I will but right now I'm just tired.

    • @annadonahue4119
      @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take care of yourself, meditate, be kind to yourself, study learn grow... and pray. One day you'll realize you've been filling your own cup back up. And you'll feel clear and clean and open again. 🌟

  • @brookeshepard9256
    @brookeshepard9256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your voice of reason is so sound. Such a good explanation of how to “label” without it being judgment- just calling it what it is in order to have the discernment for standards you deserve for your own life. Love this- thank you ❤❤❤

  • @oliviagarza7882
    @oliviagarza7882 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen. Thank you. ❤😊

  • @emeldataplin3886
    @emeldataplin3886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just spoke directly to me Trent I needed that my ex just called asking do I want a big wedding or private wedding and I told him you asked me that before if you're coming come straight I'm not going back and forth with you

  • @lexie919
    @lexie919 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️Spot on!
    Needed this!
    Love you!
    Thank you!

  • @cowanmichelle7120
    @cowanmichelle7120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are speaking big facts.. salute life lesson my brother

  • @michaelnicolai89
    @michaelnicolai89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Trent been listening
    to you for some time now
    and as a Vietnam Vet..
    with PTSD etc..and your
    Videos have help me so
    very much..keep doing
    what your doing we need
    people like you ..God Bless

  • @annastiskin7919
    @annastiskin7919 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach Trent....so 👍 true

  • @melindaferreira9879
    @melindaferreira9879 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so right on point. 💯.. I have experienced this.. and the peace and freedom even of recognizing who they are, what they are literally not capable of doing, I can't express properly but it's like I accept who they are, what their capacity is and I like them more, I can be more tolerant because this is who they are at their core. So, they can't hurt me anymore. Some I've cut off, others for various reasons are allowed limited access to my life.. so good so GOOD!!!

  • @yummyyum1131
    @yummyyum1131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is truth

  • @JT-xv1mm
    @JT-xv1mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect GOD!! ONLY.! Thx Trent.

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I needed this.

  • @marysarianides8150
    @marysarianides8150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Trent for helping everyone 🙏

  • @renukajaikaran5779
    @renukajaikaran5779 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, Treat. I needed this today. Thanks.

  • @pamelarandall1181
    @pamelarandall1181 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have inspired my entire

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is blessing me

  • @carolrodriguez5760
    @carolrodriguez5760 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NICE REMINDER...

  • @lifeofresilience
    @lifeofresilience ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes 👍 this is major facts! Really needed to hear this right now 🙏 Thank you Trent 🙏

  • @ilovetosingx3670
    @ilovetosingx3670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I trust them for who they are & I thank God for protecting me & yes my expectation of them is to be who they are & I trust that & I put my life in a better place & I’m going to stop bringing myself down & I set healthy boundaries for myself & I trust my intuition & my discernment & yes I’m going on my right path with God & yes I’m protecting my peace & I’m respecting my life . & yes I’m a brave chosen one woman 👩 & yes I’ll make the world 🌎 respect ✊ my greatness😇 & yes I put my foot🦶down for those who hated on me etc , but I’m changing my life for the better & yes I put a stop to it Trent & I’m going to stop giving the person the opportunity to bring me down . -Kim 👩🙏

  • @osoclassy27
    @osoclassy27 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooooo weeeee, I needed this

  • @karendoering9391
    @karendoering9391 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went through this just recently, and I felt really hurt. I know now.

  • @loismccleary1374
    @loismccleary1374 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand this Now. It's heartbreaking, but I take responsibility for what I allowed to deceive me. I can't expect someone to do or be what they are incapable of. I wanted to Believe. I have to accept what is😢😮😊 thank you kindly for sharing this 🙏 Very Powerful

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is helping me.

  • @ezellhudson-me7mh
    @ezellhudson-me7mh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @abelieverinhim7123
    @abelieverinhim7123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your knowledge, your wisdom, and for being real. I truly needed to hear this, its changed my perspective on a couple of relationships. Its opened my eyes to some areas that I need to change for the betterment of myself and my well-being. May God bless you, and thank you for being the voice of wisdom.

  • @Chosen740
    @Chosen740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good words, thanks for the bit of wisdom. 😍

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God thank you for this

  • @theprayerproject9635
    @theprayerproject9635 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true!

  • @ModupeWilliams-zb5pt
    @ModupeWilliams-zb5pt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good message

  • @s.p.baughman7885
    @s.p.baughman7885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Correct I choose to see the good in people that were not there for me ,they did not give a darn '

  • @craftingwithtresk5900
    @craftingwithtresk5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach your absolutely brilliant love learning with you our amazing brilliant coach Trent Shelton is really back with us all

  • @kmh564
    @kmh564 ปีที่แล้ว

    Especially some family members…I have a relative from out of state who told me something a while ago he said when they show you who they really are believe them for that’s how they have thought of you all along

  • @mohaganyrogers6727
    @mohaganyrogers6727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This it thank you

  • @sugarbeardesantis
    @sugarbeardesantis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely brilliant

  • @StennMathis
    @StennMathis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always said "No you CAN trust people, you can trust them to be exactly who they are" It's for you as the quiet observer to just...observe (how acute your attention is how long you'll take to see their colours), then make the internal adjustments...
    Observe first, listen 2nd, have a think, talk later :)

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kimberlyswanson1406
    @kimberlyswanson1406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally agree!!

  • @linkman1216
    @linkman1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:45 - 6:05 hit different man sheesh

  • @tiffanyyoung7846
    @tiffanyyoung7846 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been there and done that

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And throughout life and lessons that I had to learn this is one that I learned the hard way 🤦🏽‍♀️BUT it’s no turning back now that’s the past. I don’t give people the benefit of the doubt anymore. IT IS WHAT IT IS✔️FACTS 💯

    • @annadonahue4119
      @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omgoodness, I've heard "It is what it is" so many times, but it seems so apt here!

  • @lawrenceevers2219
    @lawrenceevers2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Take away is always protect my piece.

  • @derrickparker2156
    @derrickparker2156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my brother Trent is cooking I'm going to take you a little bit deeper don't put your trust and people when they showed you that they don't trust themselves don't put your loyalty and people when they show you that they don't have loyalty for themselves when a person truly have trust loyalty within themselves and you see it that right there that when you know you got something so like he said trust people actions and consistency

  • @andreanadean8935
    @andreanadean8935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deep

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏻

  • @karendoering9391
    @karendoering9391 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do that now. I just want you to know you saved my life. Thank you for loving me, that means a lot to me. I love you too. I am not saying goodbye. I am still going to follow you.

  • @kathymorgan7585
    @kathymorgan7585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was me I told my husband things I went thow he told us family and friends

  • @dionneciaramitaro8954
    @dionneciaramitaro8954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #truth

  • @annadonahue4119
    @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TY Trent 💙

  • @sunshine-sm6nf
    @sunshine-sm6nf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a friend who became jealous, yes quit giving her the opportunity to let me down. She was like that with another friend who had lost her son and she did not feel for her, she said well look at how much she has, she has a lot better life than me. Oh my just jealousy. I would have problems with adult kids and she did not validate me or show support. I have to accept her as she is to move on. Yes, I wanted her to be someone she didnt want to become. I have to see the truth in the person, yes, thanks.

  • @jeanettewilliams3730
    @jeanettewilliams3730 ปีที่แล้ว

    A MEN. I AM LOL FRIGHT NW. YOU ARE SPEAKING IN THE RIGHT HERE AND PRESENT. I AM NOW REALIZING IN THIIS SEASON.

  • @craftingwithtresk5900
    @craftingwithtresk5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Writing all this down how I learn more

  • @reneewilliams5375
    @reneewilliams5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Timely word

  • @daynacochrane2940
    @daynacochrane2940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How does one accept this fact when it's their own child? I struggle letting them go. Please help me.

  • @unfilteredcc999
    @unfilteredcc999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Said you were getting ready to shift to another Level of Greatness when you hurt your leg, and now it's evident! Like can you see this Shift? #staygreat

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️⚔️☮️❤️⚔️❤️

  • @johnnydennis8879
    @johnnydennis8879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    JD love 😍😎😎😎😎😎😎🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂😎😎

  • @Indiscrazyworld
    @Indiscrazyworld ปีที่แล้ว

    ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️🎯

  • @dna_hapiness
    @dna_hapiness ปีที่แล้ว

    @20 👀👀👀👀

  • @daniellamcmillian3322
    @daniellamcmillian3322 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👏👏👏👏💜💜💜

  • @girlpower9687
    @girlpower9687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t trust anything

  • @lateayanickson8417
    @lateayanickson8417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🙌🏾✨💫🔋🔋🔋🔋🔋🔋🔋

  • @MariaRodriguez-yl7cf
    @MariaRodriguez-yl7cf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They talk s*** behind your back

  • @MariaRodriguez-yl7cf
    @MariaRodriguez-yl7cf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always realize don't don't know how to say the truth

  • @mishelklemp4489
    @mishelklemp4489 ปีที่แล้ว

    Answer the questions you already know that DW flame

  • @lynettesanchez9315
    @lynettesanchez9315 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't turn into a pillar of salt let go let God it's not about me me look at the cross 🌈

  • @ashleykelly7750
    @ashleykelly7750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol idk even know what to say 😅

  • @sonofgod9124
    @sonofgod9124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People are selfish

  • @misleecassady4716
    @misleecassady4716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So sad and much time wasted

    • @kevinyarusso326
      @kevinyarusso326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true! Some of us walk away with a worse situation and the blame.

    • @annadonahue4119
      @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yet gratitude for the awareness and knowledge leading us forward into the opportunity to grow into a better version of ourselves!

  • @karendoering9391
    @karendoering9391 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don't know how bad I want to take revenge on this person. I know revenge belongs to the Lord.

  • @angelavaughan9266
    @angelavaughan9266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My birth family. Angela Michelle Vaughan March 22 1983 IRS.gov

    • @jo23369
      @jo23369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People pretend as long as it's convenient for them and as soon as you need them and there's nothing you can offer then they're out!