How To Deal With Toxic Relationships | Dil Ki Baat
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- How To Deal With Toxic Relationships | Dil Ki Baat
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In the last dil ki baat video i didn't agree with you but I agree with almost everything that you said in this video , I am not married but i live in a joint family, my mother had to go through hell in order to survive here and she learnt her lessons the hard way , she learnt to develop boundaries , i always teach her to not say yes to everything and prioritize herself sometimes , take care of herself better , I have learnt everything from her she might not have known how to live in such a setting from the beginning but if In my future I have to live in a joint family setting I know so much Alhamdulillah. When you develop boundaries in a joint or a toxic family life becomes very easy .
you gave such valid point to have a successful relationship but sometimes we get fed up by constantly ignoring and tolerating things, what to do then?
Mai aapki baaton se ittefaq rakhti hun, grey line wali baat ne bahut kuch soochne par majboor kiya. Mai Mumbai se hun. Meri Love marriage hai, joke bahut ajeeb mahool or trans chizon ki wajah se hui otherwise mai kabhi love marriage nahi karti. Meri age complete 19 bhi nahi thi jab shadi hui. Shadi sabki razamandi se hui. Lekin mere pure sasuraal walon ne koi hadd nahi chodhe. Mai bhi sabko khush karne ke liye bahut sehti rahi. Itna zulm ke kya baat ki jaaye. Husband maa baap ko kuch nhi kehte the. Maine apni puri life me itne bure log nahi dekhe. Khair kya kahani sunaaon. 27 yrs complete hone wale hain. Sabr ka meetha phal mai ne khaana shuru kar diya hai. Mere bachche itna mera care or mohabbat karte hain. Husband bhi bahut bahut badal gaye hain. Aese aese surprise dete hain jo maine kabhi nahhi soochi thi. Mai ab bahut khush hun apne inaamaat per.
Lekin mera sasuraal walon se mujhe itni nafrat ho gai hai ke shayad wo kabhi kam nahi hogi. Love you Iqra❤
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Is dil ki baat py i totally agree with each and every point..💯
زندگی. میں. بہت قیمتی. اوقات. استعمال. بہت ضروری ہیں ۔
آپ. کی. گفتگو. بہت. زبردست. 💐🌹
This video is very relatable to the situation I was going through right now…..I was unwell from past two weeks just because of stress….Thankyou for helping me get out of this situation…..Jazak Allah khair ❤
Let the negativity of toxic people stay with them and not with them.never react to toxic people.
Mere kuch questions hai, please i hope aap answer karengi,
1) Agar in laws wale baar baar apke parents ke baareme aapse bura bhala kahe aur aap react karein ya parents ka stand lein toh wo toh aur zyada bura bhala kehne lagte hai tab kya karein? ignore karein? ya jawab dein😢
2) Husband hi miya biwi ki beech ki saari batien apne gharwalo ko batate firein aur chugliyan karein, tab kya karein?😞
3) Husband se detach rehkar kya rishta survive hosakta hai?😔
4) Ladkiyon ko sasural me chup rehkar sari nonsense sunna aur ghar me peace maintain rakhna hi sikhate hai toh bhi inlaws iska galat fayda uthakar aur zyada kuch bhi aakar kehjaate hai, toh girls kya karein?☹️
Was ongoing through this issue in a toxic relation but finally I set my own boundary and alhumdulillah now I feeling much better
I don't know why hr koi Asia kehta hai bs smile kren ignore kren is se sb theek hojayega, mgr real mai Asia hota hai mere sath Asia kbi nhe hua jb mai single thi to meri frnds mere relatives meri khamoshi or kindness ka faida uthate the
Bht zyada. Phir Maine khud ko change kya bht zyada kindness chor di thora dimagh se kam Lena shuru kya han kyu k us waqt mai single thi mjhe zyada problems nhe huin sb acha hoga ya.
Ab aajate hain in lows pe jb shadi Hui yahan mai khamosh rehti thi sb ko smjhne k lye. Sb ko smjh ek se derh saal lga mjhe ye smjhne mai k ye log is trha k hain k agr aap khamosh rahoge to ye or satate rahenge jb tk aap khamosh rahoge ye mazeed satate rahenge or JB tk sataynge JB tk aap Jawab nhe dete or JB Maine Jawab Dena shuru kya to ye log aahista aahista apni line mai rehne lage it means k hr family ek jesi nhe hoti kuch log aise hote hain k aap ki khamoshi aap k lye museebat BNA dete hain to hr kisi ko ye advice na den k smile kren khamosh rahen or sb theek hojayega.
Hr kisi k sath Asia nhe hota hai.
Kuch nhi bht kuch helpful tha mai ek aise hi toxic jethani k saath rehti hun jiske harsh words seedha dil par lgte hai bcz unke bachhe hai or mere liye toh unke hisab se mai koi kam ni krti har cheez mai mujhe copy krna or phir mujhe ye dikhana ki unke aagey mai kuch nhi or bhi bht kuch lkn apki baatein bht motivate krti hai mai practice krungi ki inn points ko apni life mai adabt krlu or aise insaan se distance maintain krlo…
Thankyou you thought me how to arrange grocerry its been 2 year here in uk but never do any work at home now i watched your videoz and manage the work full werk especially grocerry ❤
Yes u r true zyada ache banogi or had sy zyada kaam krna k yai log khush ho jayngy aisa start sy nhi krna chhaiye qk aik baar adat parh gai sab ko phir wahi krna hoga so start sy limit rakhna chhaiye ..mare shadi ko 15 years hony waly hy but mujhy ab b wahi sab kuch krma hota hy ab mai change ho hi nhi sakti 😂😂 so its my opinion k kaam krna lakin limit mai baqi izzat or ahtiram must hy us mai koi kami nhi honi chaiye
Aoa sister.i appreciate ur points bt now a days people are not having patience.although they knew every thing bt it's very difficult to follow.insan Koshish karay to sab hojata hai.thanks for good advices I really feel happy to hear all Dil ki bat.jazakAllah.may Allah give you all the happiness of world.
Iqra me ny aj first time kisi b TH-cam vedio py comment kr ri hu. Ic vedio ny mjy comment krny py. Mjbor kia. Bhtreeen suggestions di. Ap ki. Vedios bht relatable hn mre life sy. Allah ap k liay bht asania peda kry. I wish k bht zda log apki Vedios dekhain.
Hi … I agree to all what u have said … our own peace of mind have to be our first priority!! I really really find ur videos helpful ….ur doing a very good job … stay blessed !
Wow Masha Allah ❤️ beahtar se behtareen dil ki baat ❤ please make sure aise hi strong tips or b share kare ❤
Jo Bhi kaha sahi kaha hai i really agree with you,never response to toxic people, people get mad on u it’s their behavior bcoz they r not happy in their life and they r trying to ruin ur peace that’s y they do i work in a psych hospital and i know all this.we should ignore and move on.
How can we move and ignore to our partner in his toxic behavior
Very inform vedio
Precious video
Bhut piyari bate batai h
I agree with Each and every point.Best video ever 👌👏
Api apny belkul Sahi bat kahi shadi ke shrohat mei in-laws mei both ziada close nai honi Caye.mei kud is masly sy guzar chuki hoo.mei b apni family members gal's ko yehe advice deti hoo.ap ny meri dil ki bat kehdi ❤🎉❤
Mene b yehi ghlti Ki hy , Shadi K baad sb K sath achy se rahi even mujh pr bht taunt kr deti thi nandy , mazak urana .main ignore krti thi K susral Waly ye na smjhy K bht maghroor hy ye. Koi b importance or respect nh deta hy .susral middle class hy .SaaS susr nh hain .pr Nando se hmesha frndly rahi hn .pr unho Kabi mujy ehmiyat nh di hy .
Mene b yehi ghlti Ki hy , Shadi K baad sb K sath achy se rahi even mujh pr bht taunt kr deti thi nandy , mazak urana .main ignore krti thi K susral Waly ye na smjhy K bht maghroor hy ye. Koi b importance or respect nh deta hy .susral middle class hy .SaaS susr nh hain .pr Nando se hmesha frndly rahi hn .pr unho Kabi mujy ehmiyat nh di hy .
I totally agree with 1st point even I am thinking similarly I'm not married but ye experience se keh Rahi hu aap kisi k liye bht achhe banenge to ek time k baad jb aapko return na milega to hurt aap hi honge
Nice Dil ki batain ki hn AP n
Greatttttt
Most points are right and need to be reemphasised regularly to keep us sane but probably everyone’s situation is different and so is everyone’s tolerance.Also even keeping difference and tolerance aside being repeatedly annoyed tests you to the extent where you do explode just like someone mentioned above so may Allah give us all Sabr and hidayat is all we can pray for.Aameen🤲🏻In such situations ye saari discussions dhari ki dhari rehjaati hain
Zbrdas dear sam asi baten hain jo sun kr buht heart hoi ke har dur se guzr gae ab tu lekin ane wale bachon keliye ye baten buhttt khas hain thanks for allh or thanks for iqra dear tumhari baten darect dil ko lagty hain ...or tumhari mazeda kahne b ma sha allah khush raho Ameen ❤
Superb points
Too good❤
Great 👍.. har point helpful tha.. Jazak Allah 😊
Thank you so much apki baton se advice se meri kafi tnsn realise ho gyi overthing krna bi kafi kam ho gya h😊
Wow iqra zaberdast ❤boht accha laga aap ki tips sun kr God bless you 😊
Superb Advice mam
A. O. A dear iqra sooooooo helpful vlog such ma all points r so good I agreed k khud ko khud hi ehmeeyt deni parti ha ... Khush raho dear iqra
beautiful explaination❤
Kia bat hai je app ki
Best vlog.....👏👏
Very useful😊 zaberdast 👌
AP ki advise bohat achi hay plz Dil ki BAAT continue rakhain lots of love ❤
Jitni b boundry set krlo kch logun ko farq nae prta wo tease krty hi krty hain
Kuch log aap ki life mai aate hi isi mind set ke sath hai ke wo aap ki boundaries cross kar ke aap ko trigger kare aur jub insan react kare tu victim card play kare khud ke lie.
Bohot achi batian api Hamesha ki tarha or Han in baton pr Amal karne ke bad hy zindagi me sakoon hota hai 👍🏻❤️
Loved this episode. Thank u so much. I always look forward to dil ki baat n all ur vlogs
Very nice !!completely agreed 👍...❤❤
Beautifully explain ❤
Im 21 years old And Mri Shadi jab be hoge but mjy Yeah sab BatYn bht Achi laGi❤
Bhut behtreen baat kahi aapne❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Nice words ❤❤❤❤
Well done ❤
Zabardast vlog ❤❤❤
I have learned a lot from your "Dil ki baat" series
JAZAK ALLAH KHER ❤❤❤
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Excellent and beautiful video
Veri nice 🎉🎉🎉
Very true reality is important and tarbiyat
Vere good ❤❤❤
Dear Iqra very useful suggestions Allah apko khush rakhe Ameen
Beautifully explained Iqra! I love the way you talk ❤️ Stay blessed 😀
Very well spoken iqra Baji jazak Allah Khair stay blessed ❤❤
Very nice full video is very helpful thanks for new information about life very good sister Allah aap ko khush rakhain Abad rakhain bohat intezar rehta hai aap k vlog ka
Ya baatiya khud samj aa jati ha lakin tab tak time nikal jata ha or phir humare hath ma kuch nhi hota😢
MashaAllah very well explaned❤
Best video iqra loved it ❤
Enjoyed your vlogs always
Thank you Aapi ye video banane ke liye ❤ese videos aur banao please ❤❤
I m dealing with extrmeely toxic relatives
Nice 👍
💯 right
Exactly😊
Super vlog Iqra mind fresh ho gaya
Thanks a lot for such beautiful advice. May Allah bless you. Be happy. Keep sharing your knowledge this will be a sadqa a jariya
Found everything useful ❤
Kabab ki recipe baray mazy ki lagh ri
Thank u for this video I really needed to hear those points
Very good information Iqra didi
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Thank you so much for being a source of inspiration!
MashaAllah😍
Very nice iqra ❤
Your channel is growing day by day
Mashallah aapkey vlogs sey sakoon milta hai bilkul sahi bhatey ki meyrey Saath boaht eysa Huwa hai but aab aapkey vlogs sey kafi aacha seekney ko milta hai bohat khosh rahey Allah bohat jhald aapki guod abaad karry aamin
You are my inspiration ❤❤ love you Aapi ❤hamesha sukoon me rahi🤲
Also that she sincerely helps you at your time n kids ko n involve her in some small stitching Buisness where she will be buzy n feel her self positive n productive
Mashaallah I love your vlogs really love ur vlogs am very happy aapka vlogs Dekker mere dil khush hojata hai
Love your vlogs ....
Love your vlogs ❤
The greatest test of good character is how a person of best character deals with the person of the lowest of character.
The prophet s.a.w was once insulted by a man while the prophet s.a.w. was sitting with Abu Bakr. Abu Bakr witnessed those insults and when the prophet s.a.w responded with patience, Abu Bakr responded. The instant he did so the prophet s.a.w. leaves. Abu Bakr worried the prophet s.a.w. was upset with him. The prophet s.a.w. replied that when the man was insulting the prophet s.a.w. Allah sent down an angel to respond to those the insults. As soon as Abu Bakr jumped in and responded, the angel left and a shayateen came down and sat in the place of the angel, thus egging on the discord. The prophet s.a.w. did not want to be in the presence of the devil.
The prophet s.a.w said that strength is not in how you overcome another person. Rather strength is in how you overcome yourself - i.e. the one who owns himself in times of rage, unlike others who spew words in fits of anger.
What is our beloved prophet s.a.w. teaching us here?
Soo much help full apii I'm getting marriage soon inshallah and this vlog is very helpful.. love from Pakistan.. hmeadha kush rhain auur acy hi mjhy acchi battain btati rhain tysm, 💞
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