Dear Iqra, I am writing this comment to let you know how wonderful heart and beautiful soul Allah has blessed you with. Your every vlog is so meaningful, the words and topics you choose to talk about are very insightful and relatable to full extent. Alhamdulillah I came across your channel to gain a different perspective and wisdom in a way. I truly appreciate your hardwork, enthusiasm and clarity of mind. May Allah SWT bestow His choicest blessings on you, Ameen Love & Hugs Your revert sister in Deen from India ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah make ease for you in this new path of life. May Allah brings lots of barakah n khair in your life ameeen. Your comment made my day ❤️
Meri shadi ko 15 sal hone wale hain mashaallah ❤️ or hamare relationship me aaj v wahi respect or muhabbat hai...... Mere husband ne mujhe shadi k bad ek bat kahi ki jis tarah miyan biwi ka mohabbat band darwaza k ander hota hai waise hi larai jhagra v band darwaza k ander hi hona chahiye...is cheez ko aaj tk main follow kr rhi hoon...
These four things should be Deal Breaker: 1. Physical Abuse 2. Substance Abuse (drugs, alcoholism etc) 3. Extra Marital Affair 4. Haram money Baqi sab maslay solve hojatay hein
Im sorry but if husband is a cheater?? I couldn’t do it anymore, i tried to save my marriage for ten years, but his cheatings never stopped, i had to ask for divorce, my marriage was effecting me and my children mentally, i had to quit, but Allah knows i tried my best.
I completely agree with you... Meri mother in law ne bhot choti choti baato pe bhot matter create Kiya. Somehow I adjust the things for one month... But some matter was exgraatte alot by my mother in law... And I spoke to my family and their family members... Matters to kuch solve hue ni .. balki ek hi mahene me hum dono husband wife k bich itni duriya badh gai .. k baate ab ego pe aagai .. ek mahena shadi rahi...8 mahene mai apni maike me rahi....or uske baad meri talaq ho gai.... Dekha Jaye to Baat shayad kuch bhi ni hoti .agar mai or mere husband samaj paate... Q k doosro ko bata k to baat... Talaq pe hi pohch gai... Khair ...Jo hua usse maine bhi yahi sabak liya hai... K husband and wife k beech kabhi koi teesra nahi aana chahiye....unki khud ki aulaad bhi ni... Dua kijye ....k Allah Tahla muje bhi sabar de.... Or hamare partners ko humare haq me behtar farmaye. Ameen
But a woman is helpless, when husband shares every small thing with his parents, and act innocent in front of u...commitment shall be from both the sides....one side this advice doesn't work
I agree with not complaining about small issues with people/family.. but Many people use the “don’t discuss our issues with family” as a way to continue abusing their spouse. If you are feeling overwhelmed by your relationship with your spouse and your body is screaming at you telling you that something is wrong and it’s not simply “not all marital disputes” please tell family and get them involved. It’s not just about physical abuse. Some people will neglect their duties or even withhold affection to control the relationship/you. This is abuse and overtime will chip away at your self esteem. The longer you accept it and keep silent the harder it will be to make a change. It’s okay to inform family of things that are driving you crazy/breaking your heart/will, and they can offer you a place to stay so the other spouse learns it is not acceptable and hopefully fixes up.
What will one do when u are the only one to communicate n the other one doesn't give a damn....it's easy to say when ur spouse atleast listens to u.....
I’m totally agree but mere husband har cheez me apni sisters ko involve karte the or mai khud tak rakhti thi is waja se humara reshta kabhi bhi teek nahi ho paya and we parted aways
Iqra apiya. Allhumdullilah allhumdullilah me bi esy hi krti ai hu and 10 years ho gay hen but sakoooooooon hy life me. Ye BAAT muje mery husband ne kahi thi walimy k bad ❤❤❤ AP ne re mind krva diya muje Mera function ❤❤❤ thankssssss❤
5 years ago,I had a really bad argument with my husband which led to series of other arguments which nearly led to our seperation. The worst thing was that our parents and the entire family got involved. Some said it was my fault ,some said it was his. Everyonw tried to mend our relationship. Everyone was too desperate to make us a happy couple. Noone gave us space ,no one really knew how to help a couple who wants to part ways. The pressure, the opinions ,the constant nagging left us in a very difficult position. Everything escalated really quickly to a worse state. The troubles we had between each other started to feel too small compared to the troubles our family gave us. Me and my husband ended up together only because we had to endure too much pressure from family. We both were super traumatized. The trauma of all the drama that was caused due to family's involvement still lingers in my heart. Since then we never tell anything to our family.we both have been emotionally shut.no matter how big the problem is ,we sort it out together no matter how long it takes.
I really liked this topic of yours, i was married at a young age but i knew the value of friendship and asked my husband to be my friend first and then my husband kyunki friend jaisa bhi ho apko acha lgta hai lekin husband/ wife se ek expectation ho jati hai aur waisa na hone par bura lgta hai. I hav been through though times but never ever i let others know about my jhagda and even if husband started to speaking out loud i used silence and sabr. Today is the day that my husband is supportive in every thing even my mother in law prefers living with me rather than her own daughter because of behaviour issues. All thanks to Allah. Dear Iqra u r guiding people with your beautiful words may Allah bless you always. Each and every topic was covered beautifully Masha Allah. Lots of love to you💕
Appreciating and very matured wife ...Allah apko Khush rakhy...Meri bhi shadi hny wali coming soon...InshAllah apny Jo Jo batain ki hy agar insan ispy Amal kry to waqai BHT sary fasad khtm ho jy ...very nice...life me aj aik new advice mili hy aik bari behn ki taraf say....thanks GOD bless you...
Hi! that’s great advice you gave out. I’d like to add though, please stop stereotyping women as ‘zara ziada emotional’ creatures. Yes we’ve been told this, but it’s actually a very hateful way of invalidating women. If you take a closer look at reality, it’s mostly men who lose control over their emotions and get verbally, and even physically abusive. Aap ne sunay hon ge qissay, jidhar ‘ghussay mein aa ke’ aik aadmi ne aurat ko talaaq ki dhamki di, aur talaaq bhi de di. It’s mostly, 90% of the time, men who are so emotional that they end up ruining their marriages in the heat of the moment. And by saying things like ‘women are just more emotional creatures’ - you are taking away men’s needs to hold themselves accountable for how they are actually the ones who are far more emotional. It’s men who show extreme road rage in traffic, who get extremely angry if someone overtakes them on the road, who throw a fit if the waiter gets their order wrong. ‘aadmi tou phir hotay hain thoray ghussay ke taiz’ is what is used to excuse them. you have a great platform, please use it to help women understand that it’s not their job to single-handedly save their marriage.
Me and My husbnd also 2 different personalities bt this tip is amazing k baat apni khud tk rkhni chahye ghar walon ko batani ni chahye koi b baat you hv share amazing thoughtful suggestions really need of every couple
Communication is the key Ek dosray se baat karen, ek dosray ki expectations pochen , apni similarities or differences k oper baat karen Dont assume or think usko pata hona chahiye , jub tak ap khud nahi baten ge Agr baat nahi ho pa rahi aur larai shuru ho jati hy tou I would advise k ohr ghar se bahr baat karen kisi park mai , beach pe, chai pe jahan ap ird gird moujood logo ki waja se apne emotions control kar saken Apni larai ussi waqt end karne ki Koshish karen aur ek dosray se khafa ho k na soyen subha utha k issue aur bada lagne lagta hy aur ghussa aur b barh jata hy Shuru ka Kuch Time baat karne se b larai hoti hy lekin phr aisi adat parti hy k laraiyan hona hi khatam hojati hy aur srf discussion karne hi solution mil jata hy Haftay mai ek dafa ek ghanta kum se kum zaror nikalen srf apne rishtay k baray mai baat karne k liye
Asalamualaikum wrwb Very good advice, Alhumdullilah married for 24 years and I have always done this and my husband too. We never shared anything What's happening at home with anyone and Alhumdullilah all the relationships with in-laws were always happy and everyone respects us as a loving couple.Alhumdullilah❤❤
My husband is lier. I tried to safe my marriage for 2 years. But marriage life was deteriorating day by day. Affecting my mental health as well. Now seperated with having my 8 month daughter in hand
Very good advice Respect sb se phly ha husband wife ma r ye boundaries ap dno ne hi set krne ha Married life is so beautiful But bht afsoos hota ha jb log is pakeeza rista ko khrab krte ha Sb parents ko apne beta ho ya bete un ko before marriage hi ye sb cheeze skhane chaye
اقراء جی ایسا لگ رہا ہے یہ تو میں بول رہی ہوں یہ میری سوچ ہے ۔ میں ایسی ہوں اپنی باتیں جھگڑے نوک جوک کوئی بھی کسی کو نہ بتاتی ہوں نہ ظاہر کرتی ہوں ۔نہ کیے کبھی ۔۔ اور بہت سچ بات ہے شادی سے پہلے دس بھی منگیتر سے بات کر لیں لیکن جب جائیں گئی ویسا نہیں پائیں گئی جو ہوتے وہ اور شادی کرکے روپ سامنے جو آتا ناں 😢
Thank you so much dear api iqra ap ny deeply baty share ki myri life ma be bohat problem the or hai inshAllah ma apny husband K sath mil k zindagi ko bahtar bano ge inshAllah plz pray for me every one ❤❤❤❤❤
A true bond is where both have respect for each other and takes their points to consideration. Male ego should not exist and that's great that u and ur husband both agree equally on each other's opinions. That's how every couple must work as a team
Dis is so true.. evn am married for more dan 6 years now.. evry single word of yours i can relate.. my thoughts are same as yours.. and alhamdulillah till today i never involve anyone in btwn us..my sil's always thought v never fight.. but one day i told dem dat its common to fight but v keep in btwn us nly.. and I live in a joint family.. nd Dil halka karne ki baat you should talk to allah cry in sujood.. Dil halka hojayega..
Jo sari batein aspne batayi sahi hain. Emotional intelligence bhi hona zaruri hai. Lekin ek baat ka dhyan rakhna zaruri hai ki, abuse ko samjhen. Not just physical abuse emotional and psychological abuse ko bhi. Abuser ko bahut faida hota hai agar aap apni baat kisi se nahi batate. To abuse ko kabhi na chupayen.
At least your husband listens to you and doesn't complain his mom anything MashaAllah. Any advice for such husbands jo apni maa ko sab kuch bata ker biwi ko bully kerwatry han.
Pehli nar mene kisi se sahi salah suni h kitni suljhi hui batein..mera bhi yahi mann h bilkul apki trah ..nahi to logo ko share kro to wo bus attitude dikhana sikhate he ghar ko yodna sikhate hen or badtamizi krna sikhate h ki tum ese kro nhi to samne wala apko chhota samjhega kamzor samjhega😢😢😢😢sad reality of our society 😢😢allah apko khush rakhe dear
Couldn't agree more on the fact that others can not forget and forgive like spouses can. Also, I want to add to the point to the deal breakers list. it's not just the physical abuse. Emotional abuse is a real thing our family had a realtion with a person with narcissistic personality to be specific he was a covert type.... Nobody in the world would believe that such a good person treated you like that, so... any kind of abuse is a deal breaker and requires 3rd party involvement for sure asap.
Mri b same ap jesi situation ha mra b aisy hi 2 sal nikah raha mre husband b uk or mjy b shadi k bad pta chala k mai ne jesa unhe 2 sal mai samja wesy to wo bilkul b nai... Or ap samj sakti hn is taklef ho jab aisy hota ha... Allah tala mre liye b asaniya paida kary or jesy Allah tala ne apko himmat di mjy b mily ameen.. Bht achy sy ap apni shadi ko manage kr rahi hn
Omg same was with me . Mery husband USA rehty h r Mera visa m kafi problems rhi so after 5y Mera visa laga but yaha aa kr Mjy totally different insan mila . AGR m kisi ko kch btaun to koi believe hi nh kr skta reality Kia h . Ub bs beti ki wajah s yaha reh rahi hmm . I was a working lady r always kehna yaha aa kr prhna job krna etc r yaha aa kr bat hi nh suntay . I can’t say a single word Jo m chahti hmm and this leading me towards depression and anxiety
Sister rozana 4 qul ayatul kursi or nazer ki ayat parth ker khud par or husband par tasavur me dam kren or paani par dam ker k khud bhi piyen or husband ko bhi pilaayen isse bhi lartaayi jhagertey kam hottey hn likin husband ko btayen nahi k paani dam walla he Normal paani me mix ker den
Mashallah bohaaat acha topic n bohaaat hi achi realistic approach to resolve the issues between husband and wife iqra sis you did the justice with the topic Allah aap ka Hami o Nasir ho aur sub husband wife ko aisa hi khubsurat rishta rakhna chahiay Allah hamesha khush o abaad rakhay aap dono ko Ameen
Best advice..... Allah hm sab behno ke liye aasaani kare Apart from topic...koi v garam chiz plastic m na dala kare bhut bhut zyada harmful effects hote h health pe..
Darood Ibrahim daily 313times aur 4qul sures fatiha ayatul 70times subha shaam padhne se husband and wife me koi na itefaqi nahi aati padh k k dekhe please
What about husband who has this habit of complaining to his mother and sister about issues of his wife ? Initially he himself took promise not to involve others and now breaking his own promise every other day. He never admits his mistake, rather blames his wife for breaking his promises.
Alhamdulillah...Mine are love marriage... I am a Malaysian Pakistani and my husband are Pakistani...I'm so lucky to have such a loving, caring and supportive husband...we don't lived in family's house, we lived separately and that's why we are happy. I think the important thing is husband and wife have to communicate and do not tell to the 3rd person about your family's problems because it will make it worst. Mashallah we have been married for 25 years and have 3 son's. My advice do not tell your problem to others... It is better talk to your spouse.
Jazakallah for this wonderful message.. i just went through very hard time of my marriage. Lekin Alhumdulilah aub all good scene hai. I would like to mention yea jo kisi sy share na karnay ka kaha hai na bohat best baat bole hai. Exactly jitnay loog involve hotay hain outna he mushkil hojata hai sort out karna. Please remember me and my family in duas. Thank you.
Aslamualikum appi jazakallah kahir for shering this big tip because meri shadi abi nai hui hai but inahallah jald honewali hai aur muje kafi help melige is video say allah ne apko zariya banke mere pass behja es video say may allah bless you appi ❤
bohat hi piyari batee maire husband ne muje first night baat ki ti k humare drmayan ok b baat hogi is room se nhi nikligi na mare ghar wako ko pata lage na apke taraf hum done khud baat clear krenge Humdulilah humare kabhi kisi bi baat ka kisi ko kuch nhi pata hota.sab normal SHUKR ALLAH PAK KA
Maine aaj yonhi screen par aa rahi video open ki aur iqra ki bat bilkul ❤dil par jakar lagi aur maine subscribe kia channel and ek k bad ek kai videos dekhi Pure heart, Allah ki Naik bandi jise Allah ne in salahiyato se is liye Nawaza hai k wo logon k kuch kaam aa jaaye aur wo aaa bhi rahi hai❤ Allah Hamesha khush rakhe Aur Dunia Aakhirat dono jagha kamyab kare ❤Love from Saudi Arabia❤
AOA api main itna kho g thi vlog main mjy pata nai chla kab khatam ho gya vlog main or sunna chahati thi ap ny jo bat btai hai wo kamal hai 100% kam ki bat hai thanku so much .....thanku so much again...I am Atiqa Afzal
Newly married couples es video ko advice samj lain at least girls shdi k 15 sal bad sab bhtr ho jaye gaa kash mujy ye batin samj hoti to problem na ho ti .and ak advice agar hasband bura ha apny bachoo ko acha banaw main ny bachoo ko bohot focus keya thanks God bachy bohot achy hn
Alhumdullilah i have watched this video before my marrige...even as a teenager .... am going to get married soon and In Shaa Allah i will take care of those thing❣❣
Wese kabi kabi khayal aata he ke kyon larki ko hi husband ki sari family ko apna parta he husband pr to ye sab laago nhi hota. Jabke hamare mazhab e is chez ka koi concept hi nhi. Idhar larki ki shadi hoi or wo aisi aisi jhanjaton me parr jati he ke marte dam tak phir chutkara nhi milta. Afsoos......Hmara mazhab to boht hi simple he lekin society ke pressure or norms ne ise boht complicated bana dia.
This video is very helpful💯 and mai bhi ghar me sabse choti hun and Maine Apne bhai behnon k dekha hai nd mujhe ab bacche kaise paalna hai wo bhi samajh aa gayi hai kaafi had tak,Alhamdullillah ❤I just hope jab bhi I get married ,I try to give my best for the sake of Allah ,aur Apne jo bataya Bahut helpful hai ❤
True very true… i was too young when I got married but Alhamdulliah mere husband ne mujhe samjaya shadi se phley k Room ke bt kisi se share nhe krna kisi se nhe matlb kisi se nhe even parents se bhi nhe Trust me yhe sbse golden tip hai eik relationship ko successful hone main
Iqra baji, youre my unpaid therapist 🎀✨Im 19 and this year meri shaadi h. ma bhi london aa jaungi.mjhe aapki batain bohat achi lagti hain yani ap bohat achi achi batain batati hai naur tips deti hain .aapke daily vlogs mjhe bohatt pasand hain. Hope to meet you one day Inshallah.🌷🦋
What about agar larka bilkul b kharch na deta ho ulta depend karny lagay, har baat apni ammi aur behan ko bata kar ulti seedhi batien milkar karen.....musalsal character assassination ho sath na dien bilkul b apny parents aur siblings k sath mil kar target karty hn.... Phir
Such me bohot accha laga sun k me bhi married woman hu mashallah aap ki advice ko yaad rakhugi inshallah follow bhi karugi humare beech me bhi bohot zada ladai hue chodne tak ki hogye thi but jab se mujhe beti atata ki hai Allah ne alhumdulilah plz dua me yaad rakhe thank you so much ❤❤
Bilkul sahi kaha ap NY Mera experience Hy mery husband sy Meri boht laraya hoti thin 3,4 Saal Rahin hr hafty bat talak tak pohnch jati .... Meri na Ammi hen na behn koi..... Mai NY khalaon, mamu sy help mangi boht .. Kisi NY koi help nai ki, Kisi NY aik bar bhi mery husband sy bat nai ki ... 4.5 Saal Mai susral sy alag hui , laraya khatam hogain .. Sb Kuch thik hogaya , or Meri sari pehly ki batain Sb k damagh Mai hen. Or ab Mai izzat sy Kisi k Sath nazren nai mila sakti 😢
Kindly share video on joint family myn reh kr shohar KY sath kesy theek rha jay or susral walon ke batyn ziyadati ye sb Kuch shohar sy discuss kerna chahiye ya nhe or kesy kerna chahiye
Very well said 👏. And you know the facts you said about settling between couples internally on their own without involving 3rd party ------ 100 percent correct. When i got married, like you i soon understood that there would be so many issues between us although it was love marriage. Moreover, we work in same organization. But fortunately my husband and me sat down and promised ourselves that we would talk or discuss between us Without involving any other person. Iqra, this year in July , we would celebrate 25th years of marriage which has many ( secret) 😂 larai jhagre but still we are called by our relatives and friends as """"" jam sandwich couple """". God bless you and your husband 😊
So happy to talk about this topic with a great way to say.....❤❤❤ mri shadi ko 5 saal ho gay but aj tk mry susral ma khbi mry r mry husband ki koi bt kisi ka muh sy ni Soni q ka hum na khbi apni koi larai room sy bahir discuss ni ki....mujy lgta tha shyd Asa ma hi sochti ho ka husband wife ko apni bt kisi ko btani ni chaiy ..but seriously mujy apka vlog dakh ka son ka itni khushi hoi ka wakai ma na apni married life ka start sy ab tk jo Kam kiya wo wakai hmry rishty ko boht kabil e izat banata ha mry susral ma koi mry susral ma koi Asa ni ha jo hmy koi bt kry ❤❤❤❤
Assalamualaikum Iqra, aapne bhot informative video banaya hai, sachme apni problems un logo ko na btayeein jo na problem ka hissa hai aur na solution ka.... Iqra, aapse request hai aap Allah ka qalam jo haq aur tamam makhlooq ke liye hidayat ka rasta hai. Aap use pairo par rakh nahi padhe. Ek rehel lele ya fir koi paak cusion. Quran ko cover kare. Allah Subhana wa talah ke lafz hai isme.🤲🤲🤲
This is one of the most beautiful videos and lessons I heard today . I've seen this same situation in our house too. Unfortunately people take everything personally and they feel only they are right others aren't. Larkion ko he zayada sacrifice and compromise karna parta hai Chup rehna parta hai .
Dearest Iqra, dil se shukriya, aapse badi houn umar mein, lekin aapse bohat kuch seekha hai aur seekh rahi houn. Allah aapko hamesha khush rakhe sehat de aur apne hifzo imam mein rakhe. Plz do remember me in ur prayers. You are a beautiful soul. Lots of love ❤❤❤❤
ASSALAMUALAIKUM MEIN PEHLI BAAR ITEFAAQ SE AAP KA YEH VLOG DEKHI HOON MASHALLAH ALHAMDULILLAH AAP KI DIL KI BAATH WAHI HAI JIIS KA ALLAH NE HUMME HUKUM DIYA HAI AISE HI AGAR HAR COUPLE FOLLOW KARE TO INSHALLAH TALAQ BAHUTH HI KUM HONGE AUR UN SAARE COUPLES PER ALLAH KI RAHMATEIN NAZIL HONGI JO KHUSHAAL SHAADI BARQARAAR RAKTE HAI. MEIN YAHAN DO AUR CHEEZEIN ADD KARNA CHAHONGI 1) MURAQABA KIYA KARO .. 2) AGAR AAP KO GHUSSA AAYE TO AAP US TIME US JAGAH SE HAT JAO. AUR ALLAH SE BAATEIN KIYA KARO AAP KA MASLA BAHUTH JALD HAL HO JAYEGA .INSHALLAH.
As always excellent advice. We had a neighbour who told her daughter on the day of Rukhsati that when things happens between you and your husband don’t tell me because she said I’m a mother I will judge and her hurt but you and your husband will forget and be happy after arguments but she said a mother won’t forget. You’re so good Masha’Allah Iqra because this is best advice you
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Dear Iqra, I am writing this comment to let you know how wonderful heart and beautiful soul Allah has blessed you with. Your every vlog is so meaningful, the words and topics you choose to talk about are very insightful and relatable to full extent. Alhamdulillah I came across your channel to gain a different perspective and wisdom in a way. I truly appreciate your hardwork, enthusiasm and clarity of mind.
May Allah SWT bestow His choicest blessings on you, Ameen
Love & Hugs
Your revert sister in Deen from India
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Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah make ease for you in this new path of life. May Allah brings lots of barakah n khair in your life ameeen.
Your comment made my day ❤️
Reallyyyy she is owsmmmmm woman mashallah...
Welcome to the religion of peace kajal
Ap boht acha bolti han
Such a pure lady May Allah bless you always ❤❤❤
Meri shadi ko 15 sal hone wale hain mashaallah ❤️ or hamare relationship me aaj v wahi respect or muhabbat hai......
Mere husband ne mujhe shadi k bad ek bat kahi ki jis tarah miyan biwi ka mohabbat band darwaza k ander hota hai waise hi larai jhagra v band darwaza k ander hi hona chahiye...is cheez ko aaj tk main follow kr rhi hoon...
So true. Masha Allah ❤️
These four things should be Deal Breaker:
1. Physical Abuse
2. Substance Abuse (drugs, alcoholism etc)
3. Extra Marital Affair
4. Haram money
Baqi sab maslay solve hojatay hein
Emotional abuse too sister. I agree with you
Im sorry but if husband is a cheater?? I couldn’t do it anymore, i tried to save my marriage for ten years, but his cheatings never stopped, i had to ask for divorce, my marriage was effecting me and my children mentally, i had to quit, but Allah knows i tried my best.
If husband is a cheater then what should a wife do?
How r u managing ur finances? Are ur parents supportive? Do ur children get bullied because of having a single parent?
I can feel your pain 😢
Same here sister. Ive been through the same.
Same here...but Allah pak ne Lambi Rassi di hai easy husband's ko so wait and watch agy kia hashar hota hai inka
I completely agree with you... Meri mother in law ne bhot choti choti baato pe bhot matter create Kiya. Somehow I adjust the things for one month... But some matter was exgraatte alot by my mother in law... And I spoke to my family and their family members... Matters to kuch solve hue ni .. balki ek hi mahene me hum dono husband wife k bich itni duriya badh gai .. k baate ab ego pe aagai .. ek mahena shadi rahi...8 mahene mai apni maike me rahi....or uske baad meri talaq ho gai.... Dekha Jaye to Baat shayad kuch bhi ni hoti .agar mai or mere husband samaj paate... Q k doosro ko bata k to baat... Talaq pe hi pohch gai...
Khair ...Jo hua usse maine bhi yahi sabak liya hai... K husband and wife k beech kabhi koi teesra nahi aana chahiye....unki khud ki aulaad bhi ni...
Dua kijye ....k Allah Tahla muje bhi sabar de.... Or hamare partners ko humare haq me behtar farmaye. Ameen
But a woman is helpless, when husband shares every small thing with his parents, and act innocent in front of u...commitment shall be from both the sides....one side this advice doesn't work
You are right sister
This video is a therapy. I am going through a fight with my husband. Seems like Allah sent this video to me as a message
Same here
I agree with not complaining about small issues with people/family.. but Many people use the “don’t discuss our issues with family” as a way to continue abusing their spouse. If you are feeling overwhelmed by your relationship with your spouse and your body is screaming at you telling you that something is wrong and it’s not simply “not all marital disputes” please tell family and get them involved. It’s not just about physical abuse. Some people will neglect their duties or even withhold affection to control the relationship/you. This is abuse and overtime will chip away at your self esteem. The longer you accept it and keep silent the harder it will be to make a change. It’s okay to inform family of things that are driving you crazy/breaking your heart/will, and they can offer you a place to stay so the other spouse learns it is not acceptable and hopefully fixes up.
What will one do when u are the only one to communicate n the other one doesn't give a damn....it's easy to say when ur spouse atleast listens to u.....
I’m totally agree but mere husband har cheez me apni sisters ko involve karte the or mai khud tak rakhti thi is waja se humara reshta kabhi bhi teek nahi ho paya and we parted aways
Allah pak sb ki jorian salamat rakhy...Allah pak mery husband ka saya hmesha mery sr p slamat rakhy...mjy bht dar lgta hy kyun k main bht kam aqal hun
Me too😊
If husband and wife follow the principles and guidelines in Islam the marriage would be a blessing. Very good blog.
Iqra apiya. Allhumdullilah allhumdullilah me bi esy hi krti ai hu and 10 years ho gay hen but sakoooooooon hy life me. Ye BAAT muje mery husband ne kahi thi walimy k bad ❤❤❤ AP ne re mind krva diya muje Mera function ❤❤❤ thankssssss❤
5 years ago,I had a really bad argument with my husband which led to series of other arguments which nearly led to our seperation.
The worst thing was that our parents and the entire family got involved. Some said it was my fault ,some said it was his. Everyonw tried to mend our relationship. Everyone was too desperate to make us a happy couple. Noone gave us space ,no one really knew how to help a couple who wants to part ways.
The pressure, the opinions ,the constant nagging left us in a very difficult position.
Everything escalated really quickly to a worse state.
The troubles we had between each other started to feel too small compared to the troubles our family gave us.
Me and my husband ended up together only because we had to endure too much pressure from family. We both were super traumatized.
The trauma of all the drama that was caused due to family's involvement still lingers in my heart.
Since then we never tell anything to our family.we both have been emotionally shut.no matter how big the problem is ,we sort it out together no matter how long it takes.
MashaAllah such wisdom. Golden rules of marriage survival. ❤
Can’t agree any better than you
I really liked this topic of yours, i was married at a young age but i knew the value of friendship and asked my husband to be my friend first and then my husband kyunki friend jaisa bhi ho apko acha lgta hai lekin husband/ wife se ek expectation ho jati hai aur waisa na hone par bura lgta hai. I hav been through though times but never ever i let others know about my jhagda and even if husband started to speaking out loud i used silence and sabr. Today is the day that my husband is supportive in every thing even my mother in law prefers living with me rather than her own daughter because of behaviour issues. All thanks to Allah. Dear Iqra u r guiding people with your beautiful words may Allah bless you always. Each and every topic was covered beautifully Masha Allah. Lots of love to you💕
Appreciating and very matured wife ...Allah apko Khush rakhy...Meri bhi shadi hny wali coming soon...InshAllah apny Jo Jo batain ki hy agar insan ispy Amal kry to waqai BHT sary fasad khtm ho jy ...very nice...life me aj aik new advice mili hy aik bari behn ki taraf say....thanks GOD bless you...
Hi! that’s great advice you gave out. I’d like to add though, please stop stereotyping women as ‘zara ziada emotional’ creatures.
Yes we’ve been told this, but it’s actually a very hateful way of invalidating women. If you take a closer look at reality, it’s mostly men who lose control over their emotions and get verbally, and even physically abusive.
Aap ne sunay hon ge qissay, jidhar ‘ghussay mein aa ke’ aik aadmi ne aurat ko talaaq ki dhamki di, aur talaaq bhi de di.
It’s mostly, 90% of the time, men who are so emotional that they end up ruining their marriages in the heat of the moment.
And by saying things like ‘women are just more emotional creatures’ - you are taking away men’s needs to hold themselves accountable for how they are actually the ones who are far more emotional.
It’s men who show extreme road rage in traffic, who get extremely angry if someone overtakes them on the road, who throw a fit if the waiter gets their order wrong.
‘aadmi tou phir hotay hain thoray ghussay ke taiz’ is what is used to excuse them.
you have a great platform, please use it to help women understand that it’s not their job to single-handedly save their marriage.
Me and My husbnd also 2 different personalities bt this tip is amazing k baat apni khud tk rkhni chahye ghar walon ko batani ni chahye koi b baat
you hv share amazing thoughtful suggestions really need of every couple
Thats exactly what we r doing since 4 years.. jo b hy apas mie sought out krien .. thats a good advice❤
Communication is the key
Ek dosray se baat karen, ek dosray ki expectations pochen , apni similarities or differences k oper baat karen
Dont assume or think usko pata hona chahiye , jub tak ap khud nahi baten ge
Agr baat nahi ho pa rahi aur larai shuru ho jati hy tou I would advise k ohr ghar se bahr baat karen kisi park mai , beach pe, chai pe jahan ap ird gird moujood logo ki waja se apne emotions control kar saken
Apni larai ussi waqt end karne ki Koshish karen aur ek dosray se khafa ho k na soyen subha utha k issue aur bada lagne lagta hy aur ghussa aur b barh jata hy
Shuru ka Kuch Time baat karne se b larai hoti hy lekin phr aisi adat parti hy k laraiyan hona hi khatam hojati hy aur srf discussion karne hi solution mil jata hy
Haftay mai ek dafa ek ghanta kum se kum zaror nikalen srf apne rishtay k baray mai baat karne k liye
Asalamualaikum wrwb
Very good advice, Alhumdullilah married for 24 years and I have always done this and my husband too. We never shared anything What's happening at home with anyone and Alhumdullilah all the relationships with in-laws were always happy and everyone respects us as a loving couple.Alhumdullilah❤❤
Boht achi baat ki hai aap ne bus humen ye baten late samjh aati hain.. I wish unmarried larkiyan is ko seekhen aur Amal kreyn
Meri shadi ko 3 month hue hain or apk is vlog say muje kafi help mili h jazakALLAH Kafi cheeze samaj main ai h
My husband is lier. I tried to safe my marriage for 2 years. But marriage life was deteriorating day by day. Affecting my mental health as well. Now seperated with having my 8 month daughter in hand
Very good advice
Respect sb se phly ha husband wife ma r ye boundaries ap dno ne hi set krne ha
Married life is so beautiful
But bht afsoos hota ha jb log is pakeeza rista ko khrab krte ha
Sb parents ko apne beta ho ya bete un ko before marriage hi ye sb cheeze skhane chaye
اقراء جی ایسا لگ رہا ہے یہ تو میں بول رہی ہوں یہ میری سوچ ہے ۔ میں ایسی ہوں اپنی باتیں جھگڑے نوک جوک کوئی بھی کسی کو نہ بتاتی ہوں نہ ظاہر کرتی ہوں ۔نہ کیے کبھی ۔۔ اور بہت سچ بات ہے شادی سے پہلے دس بھی منگیتر سے بات کر لیں لیکن جب جائیں گئی ویسا نہیں پائیں گئی جو ہوتے وہ اور شادی کرکے روپ سامنے جو آتا ناں 😢
Thank you so much dear api iqra ap ny deeply baty share ki myri life ma be bohat problem the or hai inshAllah ma apny husband K sath mil k zindagi ko bahtar bano ge inshAllah plz pray for me every one ❤❤❤❤❤
A true bond is where both have respect for each other and takes their points to consideration. Male ego should not exist and that's great that u and ur husband both agree equally on each other's opinions. That's how every couple must work as a team
Dis is so true.. evn am married for more dan 6 years now.. evry single word of yours i can relate.. my thoughts are same as yours.. and alhamdulillah till today i never involve anyone in btwn us..my sil's always thought v never fight.. but one day i told dem dat its common to fight but v keep in btwn us nly.. and I live in a joint family.. nd Dil halka karne ki baat you should talk to allah cry in sujood.. Dil halka hojayega..
Jo sari batein aspne batayi sahi hain. Emotional intelligence bhi hona zaruri hai. Lekin ek baat ka dhyan rakhna zaruri hai ki, abuse ko samjhen. Not just physical abuse emotional and psychological abuse ko bhi. Abuser ko bahut faida hota hai agar aap apni baat kisi se nahi batate. To abuse ko kabhi na chupayen.
بالکل ٹھیک شاباش بہت سمجھدار بچی ہو اللہ تعالی میری بیٹیوں کے نصیبی اچھے کرے اور تم جتنا سمجھدار بنائیں
At least your husband listens to you and doesn't complain his mom anything MashaAllah.
Any advice for such husbands jo apni maa ko sab kuch bata ker biwi ko bully kerwatry han.
Thnks for giving wonderful advise .. allah mjhe b itni smjh de ki shadi k bd m gltiya na kru or mre hone wle husbnd b ameen
Pehli nar mene kisi se sahi salah suni h kitni suljhi hui batein..mera bhi yahi mann h bilkul apki trah ..nahi to logo ko share kro to wo bus attitude dikhana sikhate he ghar ko yodna sikhate hen or badtamizi krna sikhate h ki tum ese kro nhi to samne wala apko chhota samjhega kamzor samjhega😢😢😢😢sad reality of our society 😢😢allah apko khush rakhe dear
Couldn't agree more on the fact that others can not forget and forgive like spouses can.
Also, I want to add to the point to the deal breakers list. it's not just the physical abuse. Emotional abuse is a real thing our family had a realtion with a person with narcissistic personality to be specific he was a covert type.... Nobody in the world would believe that such a good person treated you like that, so... any kind of abuse is a deal breaker and requires 3rd party involvement for sure asap.
Mri b same ap jesi situation ha mra b aisy hi 2 sal nikah raha mre husband b uk or mjy b shadi k bad pta chala k mai ne jesa unhe 2 sal mai samja wesy to wo bilkul b nai... Or ap samj sakti hn is taklef ho jab aisy hota ha... Allah tala mre liye b asaniya paida kary or jesy Allah tala ne apko himmat di mjy b mily ameen.. Bht achy sy ap apni shadi ko manage kr rahi hn
Omg same was with me . Mery husband USA rehty h r Mera visa m kafi problems rhi so after 5y Mera visa laga but yaha aa kr Mjy totally different insan mila . AGR m kisi ko kch btaun to koi believe hi nh kr skta reality Kia h . Ub bs beti ki wajah s yaha reh rahi hmm . I was a working lady r always kehna yaha aa kr prhna job krna etc r yaha aa kr bat hi nh suntay . I can’t say a single word Jo m chahti hmm and this leading me towards depression and anxiety
بہت زیادہ اچھی باتیں بتائی ہیں آپ نے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ اور سب کے لئے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین
Ye batain mjhy bht km umer m bht achi trhan smjh achuki thi
Sister rozana 4 qul ayatul kursi or nazer ki ayat parth ker khud par or husband par tasavur me dam kren or paani par dam ker k khud bhi piyen or husband ko bhi pilaayen isse bhi lartaayi jhagertey kam hottey hn likin husband ko btayen nahi k paani dam walla he Normal paani me mix ker den
Mashallah bohaaat acha topic n bohaaat hi achi realistic approach to resolve the issues between husband and wife iqra sis you did the justice with the topic Allah aap ka Hami o Nasir ho aur sub husband wife ko aisa hi khubsurat rishta rakhna chahiay Allah hamesha khush o abaad rakhay aap dono ko Ameen
Best advice..... Allah hm sab behno ke liye aasaani kare
Apart from topic...koi v garam chiz plastic m na dala kare bhut bhut zyada harmful effects hote h health pe..
Darood Ibrahim daily 313times aur 4qul sures fatiha ayatul 70times subha shaam padhne se husband and wife me koi na itefaqi nahi aati padh k k dekhe please
ما شاء الله
Ese hi achchi knowledge dete hai ❤
What about husband who has this habit of complaining to his mother and sister about issues of his wife ? Initially he himself took promise not to involve others and now breaking his own promise every other day. He never admits his mistake, rather blames his wife for breaking his promises.
Then that guy is at fault...no need to involve 3rd party
Alhamdulillah...Mine are love marriage... I am a Malaysian Pakistani and my husband are Pakistani...I'm so lucky to have such a loving, caring and supportive husband...we don't lived in family's house, we lived separately and that's why we are happy. I think the important thing is husband and wife have to communicate and do not tell to the 3rd person about your family's problems because it will make it worst. Mashallah we have been married for 25 years and have 3 son's. My advice do not tell your problem to others... It is better talk to your spouse.
Jazakallah for this wonderful message.. i just went through very hard time of my marriage. Lekin Alhumdulilah aub all good scene hai. I would like to mention yea jo kisi sy share na karnay ka kaha hai na bohat best baat bole hai. Exactly jitnay loog involve hotay hain outna he mushkil hojata hai sort out karna. Please remember me and my family in duas.
Thank you.
Iqra ap boht achi baty krti ha Jin ko sun kr motivation milti ha. Please please please zada vlogs share Kia kra . Apki baty Sunna bht achi lgti ha
Aslamualikum appi jazakallah kahir for shering this big tip because meri shadi abi nai hui hai but inahallah jald honewali hai aur muje kafi help melige is video say allah ne apko zariya banke mere pass behja es video say may allah bless you appi ❤
bohat hi piyari batee maire husband ne muje first night baat ki ti k humare drmayan ok b baat hogi is room se nhi nikligi na mare ghar wako ko pata lage na apke taraf hum done khud baat clear krenge Humdulilah humare kabhi kisi bi baat ka kisi ko kuch nhi pata hota.sab normal SHUKR ALLAH PAK KA
Ma Sha Allah sis 😊
Randomly ye video samny aii i am not even married but found this video helpful ❤very wise advices 🫶🏻stay blessed
Maine aaj yonhi screen par aa rahi video open ki aur iqra ki bat bilkul ❤dil par jakar lagi aur maine subscribe kia channel and ek k bad ek kai videos dekhi
Pure heart, Allah ki Naik bandi jise Allah ne in salahiyato se is liye Nawaza hai k wo logon k kuch kaam aa jaaye aur wo aaa bhi rahi hai❤ Allah Hamesha khush rakhe
Aur Dunia Aakhirat dono jagha kamyab kare
❤Love from Saudi Arabia❤
AOA api main itna kho g thi vlog main mjy pata nai chla kab khatam ho gya vlog main or sunna chahati thi ap ny jo bat btai hai wo kamal hai 100% kam ki bat hai thanku so much .....thanku so much again...I am Atiqa Afzal
Newly married couples es video ko advice samj lain at least girls shdi k 15 sal bad sab bhtr ho jaye gaa kash mujy ye batin samj hoti to problem na ho ti .and ak advice agar hasband bura ha apny bachoo ko acha banaw main ny bachoo ko bohot focus keya thanks God bachy bohot achy hn
All words are 100% said truth... sacchi aapne sab sahi kaha.. totally agree with u
Alhumdullilah i have watched this video before my marrige...even as a teenager .... am going to get married soon and In Shaa Allah i will take care of those thing❣❣
Wese kabi kabi khayal aata he ke kyon larki ko hi husband ki sari family ko apna parta he husband pr to ye sab laago nhi hota. Jabke hamare mazhab e is chez ka koi concept hi nhi. Idhar larki ki shadi hoi or wo aisi aisi jhanjaton me parr jati he ke marte dam tak phir chutkara nhi milta. Afsoos......Hmara mazhab to boht hi simple he lekin society ke pressure or norms ne ise boht complicated bana dia.
Cheating is no no. Children will follow their father.so no bad example for them
Really i like ur positive haabit sister nd meri shadi ko 4saal hogy hyn but sometimes main bh asa he krti hon but ab nahe karungi
This video is very helpful💯 and mai bhi ghar me sabse choti hun and Maine Apne bhai behnon k dekha hai nd mujhe ab bacche kaise paalna hai wo bhi samajh aa gayi hai kaafi had tak,Alhamdullillah ❤I just hope jab bhi I get married ,I try to give my best for the sake of Allah ,aur Apne jo bataya Bahut helpful hai ❤
I exposed my silly problem to everyone and now damaged life
How intelligent you are, every single word you said is in our experience, very well explained. MashaAllah you are very good girl. Well brought up.
Alhamdulillah me and my husband have same thoughts👍🏻
ماشاءاللہ اللہ تعالیٰ تمہیں نظر بد سے محفوظ رکھے آ مین بہت سمجھ دار بیٹی ہو بالکل حقیقت پر مبنی vlog ہے
Ameen ❤️
Relationship psychologist se consult krna chahiye ek dosre ki personality ko samjhne k liye, aagar aap afford kr sakte hain
Aslamo alaykum masha allah par bahot intzar kiya aapke vilog ka muje bahot pashnad hai aapke vilog ❤
True very true… i was too young when I got married but Alhamdulliah mere husband ne mujhe samjaya shadi se phley k Room ke bt kisi se share nhe krna kisi se nhe matlb kisi se nhe even parents se bhi nhe
Trust me yhe sbse golden tip hai eik relationship ko successful hone main
Alhamdulilah ❤️
Iqra baji, youre my unpaid therapist 🎀✨Im 19 and this year meri shaadi h. ma bhi london aa jaungi.mjhe aapki batain bohat achi lagti hain yani ap bohat achi achi batain batati hai naur tips deti hain .aapke daily vlogs mjhe bohatt pasand hain. Hope to meet you one day Inshallah.🌷🦋
What about agar larka bilkul b kharch na deta ho ulta depend karny lagay, har baat apni ammi aur behan ko bata kar ulti seedhi batien milkar karen.....musalsal character assassination ho sath na dien bilkul b apny parents aur siblings k sath mil kar target karty hn.... Phir
Aapka ek ek lafz 100pct saccha hai maine bhi ise experience kiya hai thank u so much for ur efforts
I have to say something to my brother's don't cheat with your life partner give them top preference and respect.
It's a moment of pleasure for a lifetime of regret!!!
ketni piyari baatein ki hai apne .. ketna deep sochti ho ap .. very good advices .. thanks alot !
❤️
Dear Iqra
I have seen only 2 of your vlogs ,watching this vlog made me happy to see such wonderful people like you still exist. May Allah bless you.
Thank you so much ❤️
ma sha Allah bht achi bt Hai same meri b yhi soch Hai me b aisa krti bht achi advice Hai kindly sb lrkian goar kijiye GA faida hoga in sha Allah
7 months into marriage i totally agree with you. I wish every couple is told this beforehand
May Allah brings lots of happiness in this new chapter of your life ❤️
Such me bohot accha laga sun k me bhi married woman hu mashallah aap ki advice ko yaad rakhugi inshallah follow bhi karugi humare beech me bhi bohot zada ladai hue chodne tak ki hogye thi but jab se mujhe beti atata ki hai Allah ne alhumdulilah plz dua me yaad rakhe thank you so much ❤❤
Ache ar suche log allaha ko bi pasand hain yar too good ☺️
MashaAllah ap bht positive hain❤, Yah best video hai...litterly is me bht se asi cheezin hain Jo me ny experience ki hain...
Bilkul sahi kaha ap NY
Mera experience Hy mery husband sy Meri boht laraya hoti thin 3,4 Saal Rahin hr hafty bat talak tak pohnch jati .... Meri na Ammi hen na behn koi..... Mai NY khalaon, mamu sy help mangi boht .. Kisi NY koi help nai ki, Kisi NY aik bar bhi mery husband sy bat nai ki ...
4.5 Saal Mai susral sy alag hui , laraya khatam hogain .. Sb Kuch thik hogaya , or Meri sari pehly ki batain Sb k damagh Mai hen. Or ab Mai izzat sy Kisi k Sath nazren nai mila sakti 😢
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ ہر ایک بیٹی کو ایسی سمجھ عطا کردے آمین ثم آمین
Marriage is a teamwork both there's no mean for only single person saving it
Bohat achi sharing,keep inspiring us...❤❤
Kindly share video on joint family myn reh kr shohar KY sath kesy theek rha jay or susral walon ke batyn ziyadati ye sb Kuch shohar sy discuss kerna chahiye ya nhe or kesy kerna chahiye
Very well said 👏.
And you know the facts you said about settling between couples internally on their own without involving 3rd party ------ 100 percent correct.
When i got married, like you i soon understood that there would be so many issues between us although it was love marriage. Moreover, we work in same organization. But fortunately my husband and me sat down and promised ourselves that we would talk or discuss between us Without involving any other person.
Iqra, this year in July , we would celebrate 25th years of marriage which has many ( secret) 😂 larai jhagre but still we are called by our relatives and friends as """"" jam sandwich couple """".
God bless you and your husband 😊
Bahot bahetarin bat batai❤👌👌
Very nice topic and good advice hamesha dua karna chahiye Kay sabr ki taufeeq rahe
Topic is good but I m surprised to see u using nescafe. As it's an Israeli product. Kindly stop using this
So happy to talk about this topic with a great way to say.....❤❤❤ mri shadi ko 5 saal ho gay but aj tk mry susral ma khbi mry r mry husband ki koi bt kisi ka muh sy ni Soni q ka hum na khbi apni koi larai room sy bahir discuss ni ki....mujy lgta tha shyd Asa ma hi sochti ho ka husband wife ko apni bt kisi ko btani ni chaiy ..but seriously mujy apka vlog dakh ka son ka itni khushi hoi ka wakai ma na apni married life ka start sy ab tk jo Kam kiya wo wakai hmry rishty ko boht kabil e izat banata ha mry susral ma koi mry susral ma koi Asa ni ha jo hmy koi bt kry ❤❤❤❤
Masha Allah ❤️
M india se ek hindu lekin problem same h par apka suggestion bahut hi badiya❤
Mashallah jazakilahu khairan, itni kam Umar me itni samajhdari ki batein meri choti behan dil khush ho gaya alhamdulilah ❤
Mujhe bhi meri marriage ko bachana hai plz help me
Assalamualaikum Iqra, aapne bhot informative video banaya hai, sachme apni problems un logo ko na btayeein jo na problem ka hissa hai aur na solution ka....
Iqra, aapse request hai aap Allah ka qalam jo haq aur tamam makhlooq ke liye hidayat ka rasta hai. Aap use pairo par rakh nahi padhe. Ek rehel lele ya fir koi paak cusion. Quran ko cover kare. Allah Subhana wa talah ke lafz hai isme.🤲🤲🤲
Itni pyari baten ❤subscribe to karna hi padega😊
This is one of the most beautiful videos and lessons I heard today .
I've seen this same situation in our house too. Unfortunately people take everything personally and they feel only they are right others aren't. Larkion ko he zayada sacrifice and compromise karna parta hai
Chup rehna parta hai .
Assalamualaikum 👋 Sister 😊 Good Morning 🌞 Nice Sharing Take Care Have A Good Day 👍 I Hope To See You Around 👋
Dearest Iqra, dil se shukriya, aapse badi houn umar mein, lekin aapse bohat kuch seekha hai aur seekh rahi houn. Allah aapko hamesha khush rakhe sehat de aur apne hifzo imam mein rakhe. Plz do remember me in ur prayers. You are a beautiful soul. Lots of love ❤❤❤❤
I appriciate your way of thinking. Mashallah nice advice❤.
This is so amazing sister you covered everything! Pray Allah give us the ability to practice and may it be sadqa jariya for you. Ameen
ASSALAMUALAIKUM MEIN PEHLI BAAR ITEFAAQ SE AAP KA YEH VLOG DEKHI HOON MASHALLAH ALHAMDULILLAH
AAP KI DIL KI BAATH WAHI HAI JIIS KA ALLAH NE HUMME HUKUM DIYA HAI AISE HI AGAR HAR COUPLE FOLLOW KARE TO INSHALLAH TALAQ BAHUTH HI KUM HONGE AUR UN SAARE COUPLES PER ALLAH KI RAHMATEIN NAZIL HONGI JO KHUSHAAL SHAADI BARQARAAR RAKTE HAI.
MEIN YAHAN DO AUR CHEEZEIN ADD KARNA CHAHONGI
1) MURAQABA KIYA KARO ..
2) AGAR AAP KO GHUSSA AAYE TO AAP US TIME US JAGAH SE HAT JAO. AUR ALLAH SE BAATEIN KIYA KARO AAP KA MASLA BAHUTH JALD HAL HO JAYEGA .INSHALLAH.
As always excellent advice. We had a neighbour who told her daughter on the day of Rukhsati that when things happens between you and your husband don’t tell me because she said I’m a mother I will judge and her hurt but you and your husband will forget and be happy after arguments but she said a mother won’t forget.
You’re so good Masha’Allah Iqra because this is best advice you
Thank you ☺️