Yeah, people that cant find love should love themselves then people will love them when that hard work turns to admiration. But alot of times that distaste and disrespect can have a reverberation effect inside the individual. If love is like 2 flames coming together then in order to love, you have to first start with sparking a fire within yourself. Thall shall not kill, thall shall not covet thy neighbors wife and 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV) and Ephesians 5:29-30 (ESV)
I love the philosophy we are spiritual beings on a physical journey. Yes, that’s wisdom. I felt it in my body and my soul separately. I felt my soul lifted from my body for a second. Wow.. crazy., I’m feeling better knowing this. Thank you for putting this on here. ❤
@Born To Thrive Not Survive! Correct, but that doesn't make those things non-physical. Waves in water are not water, and yet waves are physical processes, not spiritual ones.
For myself coming from a broken dysfunctional home. Never really feeling safe let alone loved. Trusting anyone is nearly impossible for me. So I’ll probably just die alone without anyone. Always enjoy your videos and point of view. Peace and Serenity
I have felt shattered & splintered my entire life due to a traumatic childhood. This is the first time I have ever heard anyone talk about it. Thank you, I am subscribing so that I may learn more. This is such a relief to know that I am not alone in this.
Esoteric literature states that Love is an actual cosmic energy, like electricity is: it is integral to cosmos itself. Also, it has a 'gluelike' effect and glues things together - in fact, gravity is the result of Love at the more subtle levels.
Too often love is a transaction. Children raised by an emotionally immature parent learn this lesson early. If you give only to keep them happy and loved, you are doing it for survival. You spend a lifetime giving to others instead of giving to yourself. And you never realize it because to you this is familiar. The blessing in this is you learn to be independent , capable, and strong. The down side is you have to come to a video to find what you missed!
@@daveross5954 Shit I am sorry been 3 yrs in that myself. It does get better, Those that are leaving I found are the ones not celebrating the real me. Best to let them go, holding on only hurts you more.
This was absolutely perfect and after being married for 29 years I can see that our love as grown from the needy to the transcendent. It hasn’t been easy but we had a lot to learn . Probably still do . Marriage and kids …. Life’s greatest teachers ?? Lol .
Good grief, *amazing* advice/teaching. And i'm not even Jewish. I have an adopted child who fits this description of a child left insecure because of the detachment at birth (when a baby is abandoned, after "knowing" the birth mother for 9 months, then being torn away, abandoned). She is an amazing girl, loving, successful, etc, but has always had an underlying sadness or insecurity, questions about "why would a woman give up her child?" etc. She loves us, but she still seems puzzled by the question, and some underlying hurt is in there somewhere, i believe. So this hit home. I'm so grateful he/you are teaching this, making people aware of the emotional security every baby/child needs from its mother, and this whole abandonment issue.
I too have a boy I adopted and I couldn't feel more love for him but he feels the same because of rejection from the birth woman. I cannot call her a mother because she's never acted like one and I don't understand her at all. I could never reject my child that way. 😢Very Sad. I feel It from him and I hurt for him. 🫂💖😪
@@debst.george4437 Well those birth moms' loss is our gain and treasure, isn't it. (I don't think my daughter's birth mom could help it, though, in her situation). But an adopted child might always feel some kind of subconscious loss, who knows. Anyway its good that this rabbi talks about this subject and how it can affect an abandoned and/or adopted child.
@@vickielewallen3799 Absolutely!I love him as if I had birthed him . I'll never forsake him. He's such a beautiful person. She has no idea what she's lost . But I still feel for his pain 💔 😔 💖🙏🙌🏻
I was raised by my birth mom, but also have attachment issues. I grew up always feeling like she didn’t love me. For some reason, she never could bond with me, and I apparently felt it. My dad says I would cry every time she held me, so she always just left to my father to take care of. I feel very close to him, but a mother’s love is necessary, and a child can tell when it’s not there. We have a good relationship, but’s more of a friendship now, instead of the deep love I feel for my dad. Sometimes, adoption is the better option. At least your adopted child grew up with a loving parent.
@@lizzyjeanne Sounds like you have a good dad, i'm glad. Well, like this rabbi teaches, even if parents mess up and you dont feel valuable, God created you, and values you very much. He's a good teacher/rabbi.
Thank Rabbi Simon. Another great video. You're one of the only religious individuals that i listen to as a scholarly source. I really enjoy that you're able to get your messages across without shoving religious undertones down our throats every other sentence. 💙🙏
I am so grateful for your brilliant soul. The practical, empathic and true message I hear from you every time gives me real human hope . My soul sends you love, gratitude and respect.
Give freely or not at all. "Capacity" for this abundance is derived from self-integrity. Our relationships with others are a reflection of the one we have with ourselves. Giving what we need with an expectation of fulfilling reciprocation by another is misguided. Direct those efforts and intentions towards awareness and acceptance of the self (integrity). Abundance is achieved when we are satisfied. Love has no limits. Do not fear "losing" love.
My parents never abandoned me but, different people throughout my life did. Maybe then I shouldn’t feel abandoned and I do. It’s very hard. It’s the jealousy that did it to me. Jealous people of me being more lucky. I turned out emotional that they left me. I’m starting to understand it’s not my problem it’s them and their insecurity not mine. I just was so attached to them because I loved them. I still do.
BEAUTIFUL! Everything you ever say always resonates very deep within my soul.. Thank you . I know I'm not alone. As I have mentioned to you before I feel like I've always been aware of this information and have been on my journey for the confirmation that what I know is the truth .I'm 73 now and now know I've come full circle. Thank you so much.
Woah.. I never thought about my past addictions in the light of searching for love, for transcendence. So many of your words and teachings bring me many realizations and resolutions to moments in my life that I believed I long ago forgot about (if that makes sense?). Thank you, as always, for your words. Take care 🙂
What we really suffer from in this life, is our separation from our heavenly Father. We feel that loss and emptiness every day and we fill our lives with sometimes good things and sometimes bad things to fill in the gap. As a child, He gave me "moments" that as I grew older, looking back at those times, pointed out to me that he has always been in my life and continues to this day. I'm so very thankful for what he has done.
Thank you Rabbi for your videos. They are very healing for me. The man you described that couldn't even pick up on the concept of unconditional love is my mother in a nutshell. She's always been like that. I am currently not able to inhabit the home I live in and having some pretty bad health issues. When I asked her for help in my time of struggle instead of trying to give comfort or help she told me "life is not supposed to be easy."
Rabbi you've helped me so much to my life I've had so much Spiritual growth thank you for the wisdom the love that comes from your heart to the people much love a recovery as a Jewish woman thank you .🌹 Shalom
Rabbi Jacobson, I may not be of the Jewish fate but, I have all the respect owed towards you. I thank you for enlightening us with your wisdom and taking the time to 'speak' to us. I am grateful to have found your channel.
High truth ❤️ Before the density of the flesh spirit could just be whatever it wanted to experience. Love, light, and happiness to you, Teacher of the Light. ❤️
Thank you Rabbi - timely mesesage. I really appreciated your closing comments, all of us coming coming together to form one flame to be in a higher resonance together. I can think of no better way to start the week!
Thank you, Rabbi. Your talks always warm my heart. Occasionally, when I'm not able to totally focus on the video, I will play one of your talks. while I'm doing other chores or tasks and even when I can't make out what you are saying, over the rest of the household noise, it still makes me smile because I know that on some level, I'm receiving pure auditory positivity, like essential oils for your eardrums 😉 I believe that your message comes through the speakers like medicine for the soul. We are all but conduits for a higher powers grace to manifest on this earth before us. You, sir, are a powerful conduit, indeed. The talk always leaves me inspired. Of course I always go back and make sure to hear it all clearly. ;)
Acronyms from my HEART.. SOUL as... Source Of Unconditional Love ❤️ LIFE as Loving Invitation From Eternity... LOVE as Live Our Vital Essence... HEART as How Each Accesses Real Trust GOD as Gift Of Divinity...
Absolutely lovely!! I am learning a great many things from your channel Rabbi! I am grateful to have had your video pop up when that timing was right!!! I welcome love and healing! ❤😊
Instead of my usual comments, I'm going to quote two songs about love that I think pretty much say it all: The first one is by a rock group called Sweet and it goes like this (please excuse the paraphrasing): "Love is like oxygen. If you get too much, you get too high. Not enough, and you're going to die." The other is by Crosby, Stills and Nash and it goes like this: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." Sometimes you have to make the first move. Only your fear is stopping you.
That was just Beautiful! Thank you for speaking such wisdom and sharing your uniqueness with the people of world! Wholeness, Balanced Vibrations, and many Blessings! ♥️
Love IS Love. I arrived with love and I leave with Love. I love life, I love creation. Love IS unconditional. Love gets distorted under the umbrella of attatchments and material distractions. As my physical, mental, emotional humanistic qualities dance in balance and harmony together in this journey, the intamacy with my Soul expands conscious wisdom to its' mate (Me). Being the best me/ Mate for my Soul. My Soul Mate and I are One. A "Soul Mate" is not found outside of myself, it is within. My personal perspective. Many Blessings to all the explorerors travelling this adventure. Thanks embraced with love and gratitude to you Rabbi Simon Jacobson.
I love who ever freed me. I don't agree with parents sending there daughters on the streets in the world living on lies but I'm glad I was finally found and saved. Whm ever did that thank you.
Human love & romantic love are two different things. It took me a number or years to learn this distinction. Human love is grounded and based within a relatedness shared between people which endures and strengthens over time. The highs & lows of romantic love are based within our projections of each other and this often does not last.
@@UnashamedCaliforniagirl in some cases it is although I’m not speaking of infatuation here. What I was speaking on is two people living within their established long standing projections of each other, based within romantic love (which really isn’t love btw), until the illusion of one or both of their projections shatter; and then one or both people break up, separate, or divorce, etc. There are long standing marriages built upon projections which have nothing to do with infatuation. So there is a difference between romantic love & human love. The unfortunate thing in this day & age is that most people don’t know the difference between the two. There is a great book on the subject, “WE: understanding the psychology of romantic love,” by Robert Johnson.
This idea of unconditional love means a love that doesn’t change. Ie a love that remains forever in the same unending form. People that say I love u to many multiple partners do not have real love just a form of love at the time
Humbly: In a conversation about God with a psychiatrist, he asked and answered, "So what is the language of God? Intimacy." I think that in talking about love I would say that it is the intimacy that is generated in letting go of oneself to know and understand another; creating intimacy. We can do this with friends, spouses, and even strangers. It is in this practice of intimacy that we learn the language of God. How are we to spend eternity with God without knowing his language. How are we to be at "home" (as in "going to our final resting place") without practicing being part of another while staying truly ourselves. I would say "love" is about God. Love listening to you! Blessings and Joy!
This should absolutely be part of young people’s education. i once heard someone say the two most important decisions of your life are to believe there is a God and who you marry.
Much love and respect you, Rabbeynu!! This is magnificent!! There are Rabbis out there who make marriage like a cold necessity to do the Mitzvah of procreation. Thank you for this Torah truth!!!
Proceed, not forwards an in onbalance can give bigger problem, not in relation (with dear ones). It is not special, without love. It is more, not grow up an communication, with the eye of full grown human-way. In love, thank you rabbi.......
Thank you for such deep heart touching words thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and like always I'm crying crying and crying thank you very much❤
I have mastered Love. Last name was given to me to do it. Love is understanding through knowing, knowing through listening, and relating through experience. Anyone who is privileged doesn't know love. Part of love is the willingness to struggle. That's why people who write books don't understand love.
Bestowal is love, God is Love - Love is the source... everything in all of existence comes out of love! All “difficulties” exist, ONLY, so that we can know love!
How much will a person suffer? And, what for? There's never a need to ask what a person loves, because you can observe it. But, to me still, the nature of it is a mystery. Thanks Rabbi...
My Mother left when I was very young, she took the 3 older children with her , left my little sister and I behind. There has always been a horrible Deep Rooted feeling of not being enough for anyone in this world , and becoming co-dependent, and an over giver to earn love and trust from other. Those feelings , turned into self hatred over time. It's taken a long time , and alot of work ,on my part , to undo and relearn self love and exceptance, so I didn't hurt my own children in the same way. Thank you for this Beautiful Teaching , and one I will most likely will come back and listen too , several times. Blessings always 💗
I didn‘t have real love growing up with a highly abusive mother and a father who did not really know how to show it until the day before he died of Alzheimer‘s disease when he was 85. Two marriages taught me little about love because both were conditional with no children. I never knew about real love with people, because I didn‘t have it. I had no siblings either. I had a very sad life, but finally learned about unconditional love from pets, dogs and cats, that I‘ve had in my life since becoming an adult. I‘m needed and cared about with no evil or payback, except love. This is what I have learned in my life from never having learned about it from my parents or my two ex-husbands. As an older woman, the lessons I‘ve learned about caring, compassion, respect, and the truth, I‘ve learned from 4-legged pets. Yes, it is sad. 🤔😕 But it IS real and all I have known.
We have to be the change that we want to see in this world, and since we are all born of love in the first place, as in, that we were instigated into physical existence, by an almighty God who is the Father of all of our spirits, then love is our most basic nature and it's down to each one of us to live accordingly 🙏🏻💖
Love is affinity. It requires reality and communication to thrive. What is reality? It depends on affinity and communication. What is communication? It depends on affinity and reality. Transcendence is dynamic.
It's a beautiful study of yours! It's strange that a person can give love if he/she was born in a loving family and if he/she was born in an abusing family, he/she can not give love. So love is really something from univers, from God, but it can be possible or existante, only, if it is nourited in the family ( by parents)....?! Thank you!
A very good friend of mine said to me "Love is not something you find, it's something you do"
I love that
Yeah, people that cant find love should love themselves then people will love them when that hard work turns to admiration. But alot of times that distaste and disrespect can have a reverberation effect inside the individual. If love is like 2 flames coming together then in order to love, you have to first start with sparking a fire within yourself. Thall shall not kill, thall shall not covet thy neighbors wife and 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV) and Ephesians 5:29-30 (ESV)
Love is a verb.
@@Bori.1776 no its something you are...sexy or not
@@mikehunt576 huh
"We are not physical beings on a spiritual journey, we are spiritual beings on a physical journey." Now, there is wisdom.
We are physical beings on a physical journey. Spirituality is an emotional attachment to ignorance.
I love the philosophy we are spiritual beings on a physical journey. Yes, that’s wisdom. I felt it in my body and my soul separately. I felt my soul lifted from my body for a second. Wow.. crazy., I’m feeling better knowing this. Thank you for putting this on here. ❤
@Born To Thrive Not Survive! Correct, but that doesn't make those things non-physical. Waves in water are not water, and yet waves are physical processes, not spiritual ones.
@@peopleofearth6250 what keeps your heart beating?
@@elkypmtarot9098 Physics
For myself coming from a broken dysfunctional home. Never really feeling safe let alone loved. Trusting anyone is nearly impossible for me. So I’ll probably just die alone without anyone. Always enjoy your videos and point of view.
Peace and Serenity
Love the soul not the body, sacred soul connection ❤
Rabbi Simon I am a Catholic but your message always touches my soul; also I really like to watch every new episode Sunday thank you very much!
How do catholics connect the massive wealth of the vatican With yeshua?
I have felt shattered & splintered my entire life due to a traumatic childhood. This is the first time I have ever heard anyone talk about it. Thank you, I am subscribing so that I may learn more. This is such a relief to know that I am not alone in this.
I want to wish anyone who reads this comment wealth, great health, love, and happiness. Thank you Rabbi for spreading light. ❤
Listening to your words every day is like a candle melting an iceberg. Thank you for helping me change to the better. Love you brother❤
Love is a certain element of giving more than you receive….When you get beyond yourself you become more, not less. ❤❤❤
Esoteric literature states that Love is an actual cosmic energy, like electricity is: it is integral to cosmos itself. Also, it has a 'gluelike' effect and glues things together - in fact, gravity is the result of Love at the more subtle levels.
Too often love is a transaction. Children raised by an emotionally immature parent learn this lesson early. If you give only to keep them happy and loved, you are doing it for survival. You spend a lifetime giving to others instead of giving to yourself. And you never realize it because to you this is familiar. The blessing in this is you learn to be independent , capable, and strong. The down side is you have to come to a video to find what you missed!
Love is just another way to control somebody.
Unconditonal love is a myth in my opinion.
@@daveross5954 Perhaps unconditional love is something we should give to ourselves Acceptance of who we authentically are..
@@ritahemmerly4224 I am trying but losing a lot of attachments dark night of the soul stuff.
@@daveross5954 Shit I am sorry been 3 yrs in that myself. It does get better, Those that are leaving I found are the ones not celebrating the real me. Best to let them go, holding on only hurts you more.
@@ritahemmerly4224 What if you do not want to feel happy or sad.i want to back were I was before I was born.
This was absolutely perfect and after being married for 29 years I can see that our love as grown from the needy to the transcendent. It hasn’t been easy but we had a lot to learn . Probably still do . Marriage and kids …. Life’s greatest teachers ?? Lol .
Good grief, *amazing* advice/teaching. And i'm not even Jewish. I have an adopted child who fits this description of a child left insecure because of the detachment at birth (when a baby is abandoned, after "knowing" the birth mother for 9 months, then being torn away, abandoned). She is an amazing girl, loving, successful, etc, but has always had an underlying sadness or insecurity, questions about "why would a woman give up her child?" etc. She loves us, but she still seems puzzled by the question, and some underlying hurt is in there somewhere, i believe. So this hit home. I'm so grateful he/you are teaching this, making people aware of the emotional security every baby/child needs from its mother, and this whole abandonment issue.
I too have a boy I adopted and I couldn't feel more love for him but he feels the same because of rejection from the birth woman. I cannot call her a mother because she's never acted like one and I don't understand her at all. I could never reject my child that way. 😢Very Sad. I feel It from him and I hurt for him. 🫂💖😪
@@debst.george4437 Well those birth moms' loss is our gain and treasure, isn't it. (I don't think my daughter's birth mom could help it, though, in her situation). But an adopted child might always feel some kind of subconscious loss, who knows. Anyway its good that this rabbi talks about this subject and how it can affect an abandoned and/or adopted child.
@@vickielewallen3799 Absolutely!I love him as if I had birthed him . I'll never forsake him. He's such a beautiful person. She has no idea what she's lost . But I still feel for his pain 💔 😔 💖🙏🙌🏻
I was raised by my birth mom, but also have attachment issues. I grew up always feeling like she didn’t love me. For some reason, she never could bond with me, and I apparently felt it. My dad says I would cry every time she held me, so she always just left to my father to take care of. I feel very close to him, but a mother’s love is necessary, and a child can tell when it’s not there. We have a good relationship, but’s more of a friendship now, instead of the deep love I feel for my dad. Sometimes, adoption is the better option. At least your adopted child grew up with a loving parent.
@@lizzyjeanne Sounds like you have a good dad, i'm glad. Well, like this rabbi teaches, even if parents mess up and you dont feel valuable, God created you, and values you very much. He's a good teacher/rabbi.
Thank Rabbi Simon. Another great video. You're one of the only religious individuals that i listen to as a scholarly source. I really enjoy that you're able to get your messages across without shoving religious undertones down our throats every other sentence. 💙🙏
I am so grateful for your brilliant soul. The practical, empathic and true message I hear from you every time gives me real human hope . My soul sends you love, gratitude and respect.
LOVE DOES NOT HURT. Betrayal, loss, lies... these things hurt. Not Love.
Give freely or not at all. "Capacity" for this abundance is derived from self-integrity. Our relationships with others are a reflection of the one we have with ourselves. Giving what we need with an expectation of fulfilling reciprocation by another is misguided. Direct those efforts and intentions towards awareness and acceptance of the self (integrity). Abundance is achieved when we are satisfied. Love has no limits. Do not fear "losing" love.
Thank you for this. I am adopted. Without going into my life, I can relate so much.
Mee too! 🫤😔💙
My parents never abandoned me but, different people throughout my life did. Maybe then I shouldn’t feel abandoned and I do. It’s very hard. It’s the jealousy that did it to me. Jealous people of me being more lucky. I turned out emotional that they left me. I’m starting to understand it’s not my problem it’s them and their insecurity not mine. I just was so attached to them because I loved them. I still do.
I always feel love when I come to this channel. Thank you Rabbi!
So needed right now❤❤❤
BEAUTIFUL! Everything you ever say always resonates very deep within my soul.. Thank you . I know I'm not alone. As I have mentioned to you before I feel like I've always been aware of this information and have been on my journey for the confirmation that what I know is the truth .I'm 73 now and now know I've come full circle. Thank you so much.
Thankyou Rabbi Simon Jacobson, your wisdom here is very beautiful. 💜
I greatly appreciate the amount of research that goes into each of your presentations.
Woah.. I never thought about my past addictions in the light of searching for love, for transcendence. So many of your words and teachings bring me many realizations and resolutions to moments in my life that I believed I long ago forgot about (if that makes sense?). Thank you, as always, for your words. Take care 🙂
What we really suffer from in this life, is our separation from our heavenly Father. We feel that loss and emptiness every day and we fill our lives with sometimes good things and sometimes bad things to fill in the gap. As a child, He gave me "moments" that as I grew older, looking back at those times, pointed out to me that he has always been in my life and continues to this day. I'm so very thankful for what he has done.
Thank you Rabbi for your videos. They are very healing for me. The man you described that couldn't even pick up on the concept of unconditional love is my mother in a nutshell. She's always been like that. I am currently not able to inhabit the home I live in and having some pretty bad health issues. When I asked her for help in my time of struggle instead of trying to give comfort or help she told me "life is not supposed to be easy."
For me to love means to view the object as part of the whole. To love something means it is a part of you.
That's pretty "smooth" there Rob
Atonement…. A word I couldn’t get my mind wrapped around until I said it v e r y slowly listen At. One ment
That did it! I agree ! Oneness
Nice 👍🏻
Thank you Rabbi, I appreciate your talk and the wisdom therein.
Love you, Rabbi Jacobson. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Thank you for speaking the truth ❤
Forgiveness is Love..one of the hardest..but it will save you from massive pain. 😊❤
There are people I don't forgive because they don't deserve it. I'm not in pain
Rabbi you've helped me so much to my life I've had so much Spiritual growth thank you for the wisdom the love that comes from your heart to the people much love a recovery as a Jewish woman thank you .🌹 Shalom
After 60 plus years of devotedly loving people, I am burned out. I have some peace now. I am so grateful.
I pray for you every night. Thank you for what you do
Rabbi Jacobson, I may not be of the Jewish fate but, I have all the respect owed towards you. I thank you for enlightening us with your wisdom and taking the time to 'speak' to us.
I am grateful to have found your channel.
High truth ❤️ Before the density of the flesh spirit could just be whatever it wanted to experience. Love, light, and happiness to you, Teacher of the Light. ❤️
Thank you Rabbi - timely mesesage. I really appreciated your closing comments, all of us coming coming together to form one flame to be in a higher resonance together. I can think of no better way to start the week!
Speaking of which… I do *love* these deep conversations with Rabbi Jacobson. Much appreciated Rabbi.
I watched crying the whole time 😭😭😭
Thank you, Rabbi. Your talks always warm my heart. Occasionally, when I'm not able to totally focus on the video, I will play one of your talks. while I'm doing other chores or tasks and even when I can't make out what you are saying, over the rest of the household noise, it still makes me smile because I know that on some level, I'm receiving pure auditory positivity, like essential oils for your eardrums 😉 I believe that your message comes through the speakers like medicine for the soul. We are all but conduits for a higher powers grace to manifest on this earth before us. You, sir, are a powerful conduit, indeed. The talk always leaves me inspired. Of course I always go back and make sure to hear it all clearly. ;)
Thank you, Rabbi Jacobson!
T͟h͟a͟n͟k͟s͟ ͟f͟o͟r͟~͟~͟w͟a͟t͟c͟h͟i͟n͟g͟!͟!͟ ͟
I͟ ͟h͟a͟v͟e͟ ͟s͟o͟m͟e͟t͟h͟i͟n͟g͟ ͟n͟e͟w͟ ͟f͟o͟r͟ ͟y͟o͟u͟ ͟͟w͟h͟a͟t͟s͟a͟p͟p͟✙͟①⑤④⓪③⑨⑦⑦①⑦④ ✍͟✍͟️͟✍
Acronyms from my HEART..
SOUL as...
Source Of Unconditional Love ❤️
LIFE as Loving Invitation From Eternity...
LOVE as Live Our Vital Essence...
HEART as How Each Accesses Real Trust
GOD as Gift Of Divinity...
Absolutely lovely!! I am learning a great many things from your channel Rabbi! I am grateful to have had your video pop up when that timing was right!!! I welcome love and healing! ❤😊
Beautiful .💫💜🙏 Thank you Rabbi. May God continue to Bless you.
Instead of my usual comments, I'm going to quote two songs about love that I think pretty much say it all: The first one is by a rock group called Sweet and it goes like this (please excuse the paraphrasing): "Love is like oxygen. If you get too much, you get too high. Not enough, and you're going to die." The other is by Crosby, Stills and Nash and it goes like this: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." Sometimes you have to make the first move. Only your fear is stopping you.
" NIRVaNA*** meaning Supreme PEACE** * BREATH in*** BREATH out
Appreciated***
Thank you Rabbi Jacobson
✡️🙏♥️🔥
Wish you and everybody here a great day and week!!
💪🙂👍
That was just Beautiful! Thank you for speaking such wisdom and sharing your uniqueness with the people of world! Wholeness, Balanced Vibrations, and many Blessings! ♥️
Love IS Love. I arrived with love and I leave with Love. I love life, I love creation. Love IS unconditional. Love gets distorted under the umbrella of attatchments and material distractions. As my physical, mental, emotional humanistic qualities dance in balance and harmony together in this journey, the intamacy with my Soul expands conscious wisdom to its' mate (Me). Being the best me/ Mate for my Soul. My Soul Mate and I are One. A "Soul Mate" is not found outside of myself, it is within. My personal perspective.
Many Blessings to all the explorerors travelling this adventure.
Thanks embraced with love and gratitude to you Rabbi Simon Jacobson.
This should be taught to those looking for a life partner
I love who ever freed me. I don't agree with parents sending there daughters on the streets in the world living on lies but I'm glad I was finally found and saved. Whm ever did that thank you.
Human love & romantic love are two different things. It took me a number or years to learn this distinction. Human love is grounded and based within a relatedness shared between people which endures and strengthens over time. The highs & lows of romantic love are based within our projections of each other and this often does not last.
That's not love , that's " infatuation" there is a difference between the two.
@@UnashamedCaliforniagirl in some cases it is although I’m not speaking of infatuation here. What I was speaking on is two people living within their established long standing projections of each other, based within romantic love (which really isn’t love btw), until the illusion of one or both of their projections shatter; and then one or both people break up, separate, or divorce, etc. There are long standing marriages built upon projections which have nothing to do with infatuation. So there is a difference between romantic love & human love. The unfortunate thing in this day & age is that most people don’t know the difference between the two. There is a great book on the subject, “WE: understanding the psychology of romantic love,” by Robert Johnson.
Thank you Rabbi Jacobson! Be blessed!
This idea of unconditional love means a love that doesn’t change. Ie a love that remains forever in the same unending form. People that say I love u to many multiple partners do not have real love just a form of love at the time
Humbly: In a conversation about God with a psychiatrist, he asked and answered, "So what is the language of God? Intimacy." I think that in talking about love I would say that it is the intimacy that is generated in letting go of oneself to know and understand another; creating intimacy. We can do this with friends, spouses, and even strangers. It is in this practice of intimacy that we learn the language of God. How are we to spend eternity with God without knowing his language. How are we to be at "home" (as in "going to our final resting place") without practicing being part of another while staying truly ourselves. I would say "love" is about God. Love listening to you! Blessings and Joy!
Spiritual and mental pains are not our main problem. Our main problem is physical: illnesses and shelter.
I often think of how peaceful the world would be without love, how peaceful, how tranquil and how dull.
This should absolutely be part of young people’s education. i once heard someone say the two most important decisions of your life are to believe there is a God and who you marry.
Much love and respect you, Rabbeynu!! This is magnificent!! There are Rabbis out there who make marriage like a cold necessity to do the Mitzvah of procreation. Thank you for this Torah truth!!!
Thank you for your love, wisdom and many kindnesses.
Thanks for sharing your great thoughts. You touched my soul.
Proceed, not forwards an in onbalance can give bigger problem, not in relation (with dear ones). It is not special, without love. It is more, not grow up an communication, with the eye of full grown human-way.
In love, thank you rabbi.......
Thank you Rabbi Jacobson 🤍🌟🐘
Thank you, Rabbi.
You made me smile and a little wiser today. God bless you.
True love is a quantum entanglement with the universe at large.
Very well-done descriptions of narcissicism and the underpinnings of Hollywood. These and many other things bear repeating. Thank you so much!
So love is the journey UP the ladder... From the bottom to the top!
Thank You Rabbi Jacobson.😭 U R las a Kind Grandfather for many also. UR Wisdom & Knowledge are a Touching Gift. 🫶☝️👍
Thank you rabbi, this was so deep and meaningful I had to stop listening and take a break a few times.
Thank you for such deep heart touching words thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and like always I'm crying crying and crying thank you very much❤
Thank you for this Rabbi ✡️ I needed this today ❤
Love is what we already are.
I always love to listen to your wonderful wisdom. Thank you for bring sanity to an insane world.❤
I have mastered Love. Last name was given to me to do it. Love is understanding through knowing, knowing through listening, and relating through experience.
Anyone who is privileged doesn't know love. Part of love is the willingness to struggle. That's why people who write books don't understand love.
In apocalypse after War the pain Ends
You are right
Bestowal is love, God is Love - Love is the source... everything in all of existence comes out of love! All “difficulties” exist, ONLY, so that we can know love!
Bless you good man!
God is Love ❤️
I am capable of loving ❤️. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏🏽
How much will a person suffer? And, what for?
There's never a need to ask what a person loves, because you can observe it.
But, to me still, the nature of it is a mystery. Thanks Rabbi...
Great Presentation! Educational. Inlighting! Many. Thanks!🎈
Hi Rabbi Simon. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful truth. You are truly a beautiful soul. God bless you 🙏 ❤
MashaAllah TabarakAllah beautifully teaching
My Mother left when I was very young, she took the 3 older children with her , left my little sister and I behind. There has always been a horrible Deep Rooted feeling of not being enough for anyone in this world , and becoming co-dependent, and an over giver to earn love and trust from other. Those feelings , turned into self hatred over time. It's taken a long time , and alot of work ,on my part , to undo and relearn self love and exceptance, so I didn't hurt my own children in the same way. Thank you for this Beautiful Teaching , and one I will most likely will come back and listen too , several times.
Blessings always 💗
God bless you, Sir!
Thank you Rabbi. Love your teachings.
Thank yuo for the message!
I didn‘t have real love growing up with a highly abusive mother and a father who did not really know how to show it until the day before he died of Alzheimer‘s disease when he was 85. Two marriages taught me little about love because both were conditional with no children. I never knew about real love with people, because I didn‘t have it. I had no siblings either. I had a very sad life, but finally learned about unconditional love from pets, dogs and cats, that I‘ve had in my life since becoming an adult. I‘m needed and cared about with no evil or payback, except love. This is what I have learned in my life from never having learned about it from my parents or my two ex-husbands. As an older woman, the lessons I‘ve learned about caring, compassion, respect, and the truth, I‘ve learned from 4-legged pets. Yes, it is sad. 🤔😕 But it IS real and all I have known.
Beautiful thank you
May God bless you my dear thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏
Loving life to you Rabbi. So wonderful. 🎉🎉
Thank you Rabbi excellent teaching I appreciate you sharing your wisdom with us!
We have to be the change that we want to see in this world, and since we are all born of love in the first place, as in, that we were instigated into physical existence, by an almighty God who is the Father of all of our spirits, then love is our most basic nature and it's down to each one of us to live accordingly 🙏🏻💖
God bless you Rabi,tgank you for your wisdom and teaching!
Love is affinity. It requires reality and communication to thrive. What is reality? It depends on affinity and communication. What is communication? It depends on affinity and reality. Transcendence is dynamic.
Thank you sow much dear brother ,blessings !!!
love= transcendence . Now I get it, thanx
It's a beautiful study of yours! It's strange that a person can give love if he/she was born in a loving family and if he/she was born in an abusing family, he/she can not give love. So love is really something from univers, from God, but it can be possible or existante, only, if it is nourited in the family ( by parents)....?!
Thank you!
Thank you Rabbi
Outstanding lecture! Always come back to it every so often.