Playing victim while being a bully. Therapy needs to be given not just for what she might or might not have been through but also for her lack of staying in boundaries and respecting others
This was very hard to watch and draining. She definitely played the victim a lot and it was frustrating. She just needs therapy and GOD! Most the latter. Smh, just watching this was draining.
She's like, "but Kendra wait...let me explain. My sob story is so good you're gonna want to throw the money at me"😂😂😂😂😂 Mission failed. Effie we all got pain❗️
She’s definitely not in a place to date. She wants someone to hear her but and be a friend for her for what’s she’s gone through and then if they are that person then she’ll persue a relationship. This is not the place for a for this. Come ready to date. When that’s the first thing out of your mouth you’re not ready sis. Now when you get into dating and want to tell your story of where you’ve come from that’s another story. You don’t start with that. You’re making that your key piece about yourself. Many of us have experienced trauma and hardships but we don’t start with that on a dating show.
Exactly. Ugh we ALL have problems. I’m tired of hearing someone whine. No one wants to listen to you trauma dump all day. They want a balanced friendship. If not, she will eventually delete and exhaust that person.
That woman is not ready for a relationship right now. She needs counseling. Therapy: spiritual healing. She was looking for something and it wasn’t a date. GOD give her healing.
@@tmcurlyshe got paid $60 because she lived in his apartment for 4 months rent free. He probably gave her cash to buy some necessities. Had he rented that space he would have income not a deficit.
She's used to being in the streets playing dope fiend games... She thought she could play on Kendra's sympathy. I'm so glad that Kendra shut her down. She still has a dope fiend mindset... Trying to finesse her way into her trauma dump act. SMDH
FIRST OF ALL I'VE NVR BEEN IN THE STREETS. I'VE HAD 9 SURGERIES SO IT WAS OPIOID ADDICTION. I'VE BEEN CLEAN SINCE 2021.I NVR ASKED KENDRA FOR A DIME. I HAD $998 IN MY CASHAPP FROM MY SSI. I NOW HAVE $300 AFTER I PAID MY BILLS AND RENT. BE BLESSED.
This is why therapy is needed. We do not realize that “trauma dumping” actually affects the listener. It’s like secondary smoking. I worked with troubled adults and I had to take a step back because of continuously hearing bad stories all day……and I’m in that field so I definitely understand Kendra as she pleas not to be put in that position. God bless her. She needs MH services because she was attempting to put Kendra on a guilt trip.
@@charlzwill495 It can be very draining and have you depressed and you don’t even know why. Kendra was already going through her emotions with it being her mother’s heavenly birthday. That lady needs a support group.
Kendra you handled this perfectly! Your discernment is truly on 1000 nowadays. Not only that you’ve really mastered your journalism skills and just continue to get better with time. You were more than fair with her, you exercised your boundaries firmly and gave her grace + multiple times to opt-out yet she chose to keep trying to manipulate you smh.
👑Kendra you handled that perfectly well, she was fixated on her trauma and her pain. This is YOUR platform and there is a formula you have established, periodT. You weren't rude nor insensitive at all, she was HIGHLY rude and deeply in denial. I think her best bet is to seek grief therapy and heal herself before she begins another journey looking for love or a relationship.
I AM BECAUSE THAT'S ALL MY LIFE HAS BEEN FOR THE PAST 5;YES SINCE MY MOM PASSED. I AM VERY MUCH IN PAIN. I THIS TIME OF YR I STRUGGLE IT SEEMED TO BE GETTING A LITTLE BETTER BUT THIS YR HAS BEEN ONE OF THE WORSE AND I DON'T KNOW WHY. I HAVE COUNSELING SINCE 2021 BUT MY FEELING'S CAN'T BE COUNSELED AWAY. SEEING HOW SO MANY PPL HEAR SOMETHING THEY CAN LATCH ON TO CHANGE AN ENTIRE NARRATIVE. I DON'T NEED THAT LADY'S MONEY.
@N52MORE ma'am there is no need for you to type all caps shouting at me. I never stated you wanted nor needed Kendra's money, firstly. I didn't change any narrative, secondly. If you've been in counseling since 2001 then perhaps you need a different therapist OR you are not truly working on yourself using the tools that your therapist had to offer. I also have a therapist and am currently on an as needed regimen: you are very defensive and obstinate regarding constructive input and boundaries. You would be better off loving yourself first and healing the traumas that are clearly still very raw that showed up on this show as a very vulnerable and emotionally wounded woman. Kendra nor the audience is your adversary. One thing I know surely is you cannot heal what you refuse to acknowledge. Be blessed and I pray you find the peace you deserve.
@N52MORE seek counseling lady, it will do you well! You have overcome a lot! Let this not be humiliation for you, but and eye opener to your mental health. I pray you get the help you need!
She should have never called pretending to look for love. She needs to work on herself before trying to find love. This is not the place for this🤦🏾♀️🙄 Kendra was not rude at all. This is a dating show, not a therapist office😑
Alot of people don't have anyone to talk to. A person can break down and turn to anyone just for an ear. I don't agree this was the best move but I will not judge her on this.
@grandpahouse but if Kendra stated 2 days prior not to do that, then she should respect the rules of her show. She needs to see a therapist and not be on a dating show trauma dumping. Kendra tried being sympathetic and understanding, but she just bypassed what Kendra said and proceeded to do it anyway. Sorry, but this is not the place.
Yup. I hope Kendra rewatches her lives and learn from them. I would have never given that woman an inch. She played on Kendra’s heart.. Kendra didn’t even have to listen the woman is talking about something that has nothing to do with the purpose of the show
Her frustration shows in those long pauses where she considers her next move as nothing is cutting through to the emotions she was trying to control. She probably doesn’t know any other way to so life.
I agree with Kendra this is not a trauma dump show and this is not a friend show, SWEETIE YOU NEED THERAPY no man is gonna sign up to be your therapist
Glad Kendra drew a line, and enforced it. Addicted Andy, and Crystal Meth Mike, called all the way from Denmark, ,just to share their sad stories, and kill the vibe.
You did right Kendra, everyone with good wisdom and discernment can tell this lady is a personality and has a victim mindset. She is highly inconsiderate and disregarding of your boundaries. She a negative minded person, a Debbie downer and just plain ole fraud. You already have her plenty of warnings, direction and set boundary that she continued to breach and then tried to turn it around and project on you. 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾. Good for you Kendra.
I know a person like this. Angry all of the time. Mad at you because you could be experiencing similar problems but your perspective is different than theirs. Guurl go heal! Amen.
Kendra, very sorry to hear about your mother. I hope you still find peace during the holidays. And thank you for showing a balance of empathy and maintaining boundaries with this lady. Hope she gets help. 😊
I pray to the highest power that I don’t become traumatized, pitiful and bitter with old age. I pray for wisdom, beauty and LOTS of laughter inside and out. I want to be full of flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Heavy on the “you did that to yourself” yall hate when KG stands her ground. We ain’t here to hear people’s trauma 25/8. Yall don’t even be low with it anymore.
I guess that's what she does. Try to manipulate people by trauma dumping to get something. She probably have burnt so many bridges with that bull because she act like she not even trying to lift her spirits up, and when somebody say something about it, she try to act like they're wrong.
My mom been gone for 27 years and it still feels new. My dad been gone for officially one year and it feels like he just died yesterday bc the pain literally never leaves.
Theres a difference between somebodies trauma coming through while they are doing something as vulnerable as putting themselves out there and somebody deliberating collecting their trauma and using them on you like weapons. Kendra was in the right in identifying what this was off the bat and blocking this womans attempts
Lawddddd. KG you stood on business. This is how tou enforce your boundaries with people. This lady is not inly trauma dumping. She inflicts trauma on her family. Definitely plays the victim every chance she can get . Sheesh
She was determined to run it her way. Tear jerkers are incapable of doing their part. Even trying to cut the interview off she was trying to control this senario. Well done KG. For not getting caught up.
I absolutely love Kendra claiming her space. Her compassion let that woman get off way too many syllables. Candidly, no one wants that kind of emotional vampire friend. She wanted to be heard. We heard you sis - trauma and all. Now what? How about therapy instead of a dating show.
She either needs help in the recovery process , or she hasn’t gotten sober yet and is still intoxicated. Either way, she needs help outside of here. I feel like she’s still using, which is why her brain thought that this was a good idea. This is not where she needs to be. I truly hope she gets the care she needs, and after her brain is cleared, comes back here to apologize ❤ That’s what they do in recovery. She also needs counseling for her other trauma . Wishing her the best 🙏🏽
And remember Maggie came back and said the bed was stolen. Tried to get more $$ from Kendra. This is why rich people don't help family and friends, because they keep coming back thinking they are owed something 😢
I respect Kendra's discernment. And I pray that the lady seeks the actual help she needs, and teaches her children the same... Sounds like her daughter was involved. Please have ears to hear, healing is so necessary for the generations that continue.
Wooooooo Kendra your job is HARRRRDD! Sheeeesh! That woman was one of the most hard-headed people I've ever seen and it was a passive disrespect that she was showing towards you because you told her up front not to do exactly what she ended up doing. She is definitely not ready to date nowhere near in the near future. She needs extensive counseling and to work on herself. If you are already a mess and you get with somebody all you're going to do is create a bigger mess 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ Kendra you handled that situation PERFECTLY!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰
Kendra did well handling her. She tried to flip it on Kendra like she did something to her, but Kendra was really nice about the situation because she could've got cussed out. Up there telling sob stories, being manipulative, and trying to play victim.
Good grief,Maybe she was hoping that Kendra would had cash apped her a $500 monetary gift out of pity? 🤷🏾♀️ Not to sound mean, she probably is going to stay single for a long time.
Kendra - you are a good-hearted lady, for real. You were just respectfully asking the woman to respect the core purpose of your platform. That's what anyone of us, your Kuzins expect. You were more than patient with the guest, who apparently really need to build her own social support circle. I'd dare to believe that when Christmas day hit, this woman realized that she is truly a lonely person. Well, a great 'book' has a suggestion: "He who has friends, must 1st show himself friendly." It's a fact, friendly people continuously accumulate friends - despite their past traumas, mental challenges, and physical limitations. I do pray that 🙏 the guest gets herself to a mental place where she transitions from "others did me wrong and I was their target" phase, to the "I will be approachable and friendly phase" so that she can build a social support circle. She was right about the idea tgat she needs friends, not a man. A dude trying to romantically pursue her would be mentally tortured by the unhealed woman, and that is not love.
I'm glad Kendra put everything in perspective at the end. I wish the guest the best but please, respect the show. Kendra was 100% right to react the way she did. This is a dating show, not charity, respectfully. Kendra blesses when the lord tells her to but isn't here to give handouts. Merry Christmas, everyone!
I watched it live you aren’t missing anything. The regular charity case. Everyone allegedly turned their back on her to no fault of her own. She is not responsible for the things that happened to her in her eyes. I hate HATE when people don’t take accountability for their life mistakes and want handouts. Get real. You got the same opportunities we had. You were an addict. It’s your fault. Stop blaming others for the misfortune in your life.
Even Kendra is getting tired of these messy people coming on her show. This is a dating show, not a therapist show. One thing about it, our people don't respect boundaries or believe in following any type of order or rules.
I lost patience with people that always want to talk about sad shit. I have my own shit to deal with and I can't just put it on other people. I will instantly tell them to shut the Hell up.
Kendra my dear u were A-1 with this lady. Hell we're all going thur something and she was trying to bulldozer her issues on Kendra & the rest of us. Thank u Kendra for being a G with this stubborn hard headed woman. And the G stands for "Golden" in this case. So in Kendra's voice "whew chile" pull it together lady 😮💯😂
I understand both sides because I was someone who use to be a doormat for people to trauma dump on. And like some of us it’s a time and place for things. Great job Kendra for handling it well💖💖
Kendra standing on business because this online panhandling has gotten out of control.
This!!!
TikTok begging now extends to TH-cam and Facebook. Since when did a dating show become where we discuss our struggle. This is an episode of Oprah.
it really has
Seriously it is especially on here
The food this holiday has been great
This is a manipulative spirit. Great job Kendra for standing your ground and setting your boundaries.
👏👏👍👍💯💯💯💯
😂
You stated that perfectly. A manipulative spirit!
I like how Kendra controlled the show and got her together.
I've never witnessed a hostile trauma dump before. Kendra is 100% in the right.
That's exactly what it was! Hostile trauma dumping.
Playing victim while being a bully. Therapy needs to be given not just for what she might or might not have been through but also for her lack of staying in boundaries and respecting others
Trying to force her to give her money is a new low 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂
Kendra is these female’s therapist, they are miserable and lonely, so they use Kendra to vent
Ma'am, please go talk to a therapist.
Right
She won’t …she only wanted Kendra to bless her🤦🏾♀️
she has a victim mentality and wants alot of sympathy. she didn't get it
Her whole life she’s been this way
Energy Vampire this would’ve been a great source of energy for her
Ppl think the world knows their history life😂 we don't. Most ppl are over thinkers
This was very hard to watch and draining. She definitely played the victim a lot and it was frustrating. She just needs therapy and GOD! Most the latter. Smh, just watching this was draining.
This comment section is proof that people lack empathy.
I hope this woman heals and finds love.
She's like, "but Kendra wait...let me explain. My sob story is so good you're gonna want to throw the money at me"😂😂😂😂😂 Mission failed. Effie we all got pain❗️
lol right
😆😆😭😭😭😭
That part!!! She called the wrong hotline 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
EFFEY...BWAHAHAHA
She was really determined to trauma dump. If she re-directs that determination into something positive she’ll be so much happier.
Right
@meechellea this is the comment of the week right here. Great job 👏🏿
Professional victim
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Spot on!
Victim mindset
Not the trauma dump IMMEDIATELY after asking for no trauma dumping 😩😫
I saw this as more of panhandling than a trauma dump
@@tmcurlyshe was trauma dumping with an attempt to panhandle. I can’t stand ppl like that! So embarrassing.
Where are yall getting the panhandling? I get the trauma dump part. She doesn’t see that it’s what it is.
She’s definitely not in a place to date. She wants someone to hear her but and be a friend for her for what’s she’s gone through and then if they are that person then she’ll persue a relationship. This is not the place for a for this. Come ready to date.
When that’s the first thing out of your mouth you’re not ready sis. Now when you get into dating and want to tell your story of where you’ve come from that’s another story. You don’t start with that. You’re making that your key piece about yourself. Many of us have experienced trauma and hardships but we don’t start with that on a dating show.
Exactly!🤦🏽♀️
You enforced your boundaries. Well done.
Yes. 👏👏
This woman needs some serious healing. Her negative energy was so heavy....sooooo heavy and draining!!
I agree she had very very negative negative negative energy.
She had a sad, broken energy. Negative to me seems like an incorrect word.
Heavy and draining.
She needs a job that pays her per hour 🤦🏽♀️
@@ashleychamon6446 sadness is a negative energy so it is the correct word. You just don't like it. There is a difference.
Internet panhandling.
💯
Good one 💯
“I said NO” 😂
💅
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Loved it 😂
Lmaoooo
She definitely had that coming. This ain’t the Make A Wish-Kendra Edition Foundation
I can't blame her every other guest on this show acts like it and she entertains it. lol
But it is!
💯💯💯💯
@@trombonefellowbut she was so aggressive anyone would’ve been turned off by her attitude
It’s only make a wish when it comes to dating lol
Kendra’s discernment was strong with this one, she knew immediately 😂
This is a dating show, this is what Kendra was trying to avoid!
Exactly
Kendra started it by giving people money publicly. She should have done that privately.
We all got problems this isn't the place for this..
💯
The goal was to get funds
Exactly. Ugh we ALL have problems. I’m tired of hearing someone whine. No one wants to listen to you trauma dump all day. They want a balanced friendship. If not, she will eventually delete and exhaust that person.
She needs a therapist. This is the wrong platform for her issues.
We cant stress this ENOUGH 😂😂!!!
That woman is not ready for a relationship right now. She needs counseling. Therapy: spiritual healing. She was looking for something and it wasn’t a date. GOD give her healing.
THANK YOU.❤
@ GOD Bless you hun. I truly mean that. This is for you to walk alone. You’re not ready for another person to bare that cross. Look to him.
Nah it was all lies to get a cash app remember she said she got paid$60 for 4 moths work!!??🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@tmcurlyshe got paid $60 because she lived in his apartment for 4 months rent free. He probably gave her cash to buy some necessities. Had he rented that space he would have income not a deficit.
Yes! She needs to get to know God he will help and deliver!
She wanted Kendra to cash app her?🤷♀️
Yup
Probably so. This is sad. They got Kendra effed up
@@magpie2652 period. That's all she was looking for.
Yup
Was definitely looking for some Christmas cash.
She's used to being in the streets playing dope fiend games... She thought she could play on Kendra's sympathy. I'm so glad that Kendra shut her down. She still has a dope fiend mindset... Trying to finesse her way into her trauma dump act. SMDH
FIRST OF ALL I'VE NVR BEEN IN THE STREETS. I'VE HAD 9 SURGERIES SO IT WAS OPIOID ADDICTION. I'VE BEEN CLEAN SINCE 2021.I NVR ASKED KENDRA FOR A DIME. I HAD $998 IN MY CASHAPP FROM MY SSI. I NOW HAVE $300 AFTER I PAID MY BILLS AND RENT. BE BLESSED.
@N52MORE im sorry your going through alot I to was born and raised in camden please stay prayed up dear and I hope thi is get better
Yep sorry to say looking for something
@@N52MOREYou didn't ask, but You had high hopes of a cash app.
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that lady needs a medical professional. not a friend.
Exactly
Nah the “story” was inorder to get sympathy so she could receive donations
Damn, even Kendra’s pen wanted nothing to do with this lady 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Kendra did nothing wrong. This lady was wild!
big facts
This is why therapy is needed. We do not realize that “trauma dumping” actually affects the listener. It’s like secondary smoking. I worked with troubled adults and I had to take a step back because of continuously hearing bad stories all day……and I’m in that field so I definitely understand Kendra as she pleas not to be put in that position. God bless her. She needs MH services because she was attempting to put Kendra on a guilt trip.
Right!!!! When you said "affects the listener" ✅✅✅✅
one of the reasons I'm very careful who i associate with nothing wrong with being a ear to hear but some people will use and abuse
@@charlzwill495 It can be very draining and have you depressed and you don’t even know why. Kendra was already going through her emotions with it being her mother’s heavenly birthday. That lady needs a support group.
@@bettyshabazz4092 It really does.
Her type of energy is dark and draining. As adults it is unfair to expect other adults to take in all of this
Kendra you handled this perfectly! Your discernment is truly on 1000 nowadays. Not only that you’ve really mastered your journalism skills and just continue to get better with time. You were more than fair with her, you exercised your boundaries firmly and gave her grace + multiple times to opt-out yet she chose to keep trying to manipulate you smh.
Dating is supposed to be fun! Who wants to sign up for this sad lonely life 😔
😆😭
Exactly
Thank you! These women don’t get it no one wants to immediately pick up a bunch of problems when trying to date and have fun
😂😂True Story!!
@@ClassE-Therapyright
👑Kendra you handled that perfectly well, she was fixated on her trauma and her pain. This is YOUR platform and there is a formula you have established, periodT. You weren't rude nor insensitive at all, she was HIGHLY rude and deeply in denial. I think her best bet is to seek grief therapy and heal herself before she begins another journey looking for love or a relationship.
I AM BECAUSE THAT'S ALL MY LIFE HAS BEEN FOR THE PAST 5;YES SINCE MY MOM PASSED. I AM VERY MUCH IN PAIN. I THIS TIME OF YR I STRUGGLE IT SEEMED TO BE GETTING A LITTLE BETTER BUT THIS YR HAS BEEN ONE OF THE WORSE AND I DON'T KNOW WHY. I HAVE COUNSELING SINCE 2021 BUT MY FEELING'S CAN'T BE COUNSELED AWAY. SEEING HOW SO MANY PPL HEAR SOMETHING THEY CAN LATCH ON TO CHANGE AN ENTIRE NARRATIVE. I DON'T NEED THAT LADY'S MONEY.
@@N52MORE so what did you come up here for? You're not making sense. You played yourself mamas.
@N52MORE ma'am there is no need for you to type all caps shouting at me. I never stated you wanted nor needed Kendra's money, firstly. I didn't change any narrative, secondly. If you've been in counseling since 2001 then perhaps you need a different therapist OR you are not truly working on yourself using the tools that your therapist had to offer. I also have a therapist and am currently on an as needed regimen: you are very defensive and obstinate regarding constructive input and boundaries. You would be better off loving yourself first and healing the traumas that are clearly still very raw that showed up on this show as a very vulnerable and emotionally wounded woman. Kendra nor the audience is your adversary. One thing I know surely is you cannot heal what you refuse to acknowledge. Be blessed and I pray you find the peace you deserve.
@N52MORE seek counseling lady, it will do you well! You have overcome a lot! Let this not be humiliation for you, but and eye opener to your mental health. I pray you get the help you need!
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She should have never called pretending to look for love. She needs to work on herself before trying to find love. This is not the place for this🤦🏾♀️🙄 Kendra was not rude at all. This is a dating show, not a therapist office😑
Alot of people don't have anyone to talk to. A person can break down and turn to anyone just for an ear. I don't agree this was the best move but I will not judge her on this.
@grandpahouse but if Kendra stated 2 days prior not to do that, then she should respect the rules of her show. She needs to see a therapist and not be on a dating show trauma dumping. Kendra tried being sympathetic and understanding, but she just bypassed what Kendra said and proceeded to do it anyway. Sorry, but this is not the place.
@ I agree! I'm not arguing with you. I been away with some angry and sad dudes, I'm just giving you their view. You are right!
@@shesit318 wait nvm I didn't finish the whole video. She is doing a lot
She wanted donations she even said herself she wasn’t looking for love. No self respect
This woman tried to manipulate Kendra by saying she’s trying to humiliate and embarrass her. Kendra did nothing wrong here
Yup. I hope Kendra rewatches her lives and learn from them. I would have never given that woman an inch. She played on Kendra’s heart.. Kendra didn’t even have to listen the woman is talking about something that has nothing to do with the purpose of the show
Me me me, trying to embarrass me, me, me, me, me. I can see why she needs new friends.
@@bebepursley6539 I see why also
Even tried to act like she couldn't walk yet couldnt say how. My manager has had 6 back surgeries and still can atleast stand
Great demonstration of upholding firm boundaries while being compassionate
She sat there so reserved at first waiting for her moment to trauma dump then tried to play victim 😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂
Yep 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Kendra said not taday 🙅🏾 we don't wanna hear that sad shit 🤣💀
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 "Taday"
that lady pissed me off 😭 wish you well Kendra during this difficult time! ❤
Happy Heavenly Birthday To Your Mom Kendra ❤
Her frustration shows in those long pauses where she considers her next move as nothing is cutting through to the emotions she was trying to control. She probably doesn’t know any other way to so life.
She was able to walk on Monday when she called in, trying her best to find good lighting 😂
Exactly.
Yup! She was just angry cause Kendra foiled her plan
Short term disability 😂
There is a crutch in the background on the first day.
I wish people would get themselves together before trying to date. This mess is not attractive and you’re inviting vultures.
In this case, she's the vulture
She wasn't trying to date either. Some people just want to trauma dump and that's exactly what she was doing.
I think she wanted a Kendra Christmas cash app 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. Kendra wasn’t rude and was direct to the point. Aunty tried it
Name 3 flaws: 1. Combative 2. Combative 3. Combative!!!!
Your name tho 😆😆✅
😂😂😂😂
4. Combative
4 flaws. CRAZY
You were not rude at all. You had boundaries and she refused to respect them
That lady was out of line.. I'm standing with Kendra
Happy Heavenly Birthday to Kendra G’s Mom ❤❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️✝️
Amen ❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I agree with Kendra this is not a trauma dump show and this is not a friend show, SWEETIE YOU NEED THERAPY no man is gonna sign up to be your therapist
She wasn’t looking for a man didn’t you see what she was trying to do? She wanted to share her story so she could get a cash app
Glad Kendra drew a line,
and enforced it.
Addicted Andy,
and Crystal Meth Mike,
called all the way from Denmark,
,just to share their sad stories,
and kill the vibe.
Lawd not Addicted Andy and Crystal Mth Mike 😂 😂😂
You did right Kendra, everyone with good wisdom and discernment can tell this lady is a personality and has a victim mindset. She is highly inconsiderate and disregarding of your boundaries. She a negative minded person, a Debbie downer and just plain ole fraud. You already have her plenty of warnings, direction and set boundary that she continued to breach and then tried to turn it around and project on you. 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾. Good for you Kendra.
I know a person like this. Angry all of the time. Mad at you because you could be experiencing similar problems but your perspective is different than theirs. Guurl go heal! Amen.
Kendra, very sorry to hear about your mother. I hope you still find peace during the holidays.
And thank you for showing a balance of empathy and maintaining boundaries with this lady. Hope she gets help. 😊
“Thank you for embarrassing me..” is crazy work
0:37 “I’m really not coming on here” LMAO Kendra Face IMMEDIATELY shifted… to “say what now?”
😂😂😂😭😭😭
clocked it too trigger words lol😂
I pray to the highest power that I don’t become traumatized, pitiful and bitter with old age. I pray for wisdom, beauty and LOTS of laughter inside and out. I want to be full of flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Amen. 🙏
Amen! 🙌🏾
“I want to be full of flowers” 💐 that part Sis!!! Amen!!!!!!!
Amen
So you can give those beautiful flowers to those who are in need❤!
That lady has an addiction mindset. She was being manipulative her and that daughter looking for cash apps and help.
Heavy on the “you did that to yourself” yall hate when KG stands her ground. We ain’t here to hear people’s trauma 25/8. Yall don’t even be low with it anymore.
Who is y’all?
@@JustObserving313 whoever is mad & whoever come on here panhandling
True ? Why is it a highlight?
Good for Kendra! Protect your energy, people will really try to make you their emotional support partner 🙅🏾
I guess that's what she does. Try to manipulate people by trauma dumping to get something. She probably have burnt so many bridges with that bull because she act like she not even trying to lift her spirits up, and when somebody say something about it, she try to act like they're wrong.
I know this personality all too well.. A NARCISSIST… this woman is unwell and looking to manipulate any and everyone
Exactly uses her stories to get things like money from people. It’s even worse when you try to do that to a bunch of stranger(s) online 🤦🏽♀️
Thank you. I don't even need to be putting no energy into that
Exactly!!!!!
Whyyyy is this acceptable? She's to grown for this ...gotta heal her trauma, needs therapy
This is a lot of people’s narcissistic mothers that they don’t FW.. this woman is mental
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@@UnpopularAdvisorvery TRUE!
My mom been gone for 27 years and it still feels new. My dad been gone for officially one year and it feels like he just died yesterday bc the pain literally never leaves.
Please accept my condolences, I'm so sorry.
I too loss my father 2021 and the pain never leaves. 🙏🏽
My mom passed 8/31/03. Her bday was 12/23. Hurts like it was yesterday.
@@sleepyeyez01 I'm truly sorry, my condolences.
❤❤❤❤❤ God bless you
Condolences to you and your family🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
SHE. NEEDS. THERAPY. This season, hell, this YEAR has been rough. But she needs to take action and seek mental health. That was exhausting!!
She just wants a cash app.. that’s all
Yes.
*Exactly, people think she is genuinely suffering I doubt it that was her cover story*
@@tmcurlywell im sure she is genuinely suffering but she’s also a manipulator and wanted a cash app
Theres a difference between somebodies trauma coming through while they are doing something as vulnerable as putting themselves out there and somebody deliberating collecting their trauma and using them on you like weapons.
Kendra was in the right in identifying what this was off the bat and blocking this womans attempts
Lawddddd. KG you stood on business. This is how tou enforce your boundaries with people. This lady is not inly trauma dumping. She inflicts trauma on her family. Definitely plays the victim every chance she can get . Sheesh
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Her: can I ask you a question
Kendra: NO
😂😂 WHERE THESE PPL COME FROM
Lady why is you here?! People really be taking KG kindness for weakness. She wanted a cashapp & nothing more.
*Yes, the dramatic cover stories are a massive ploy to get money 🤑*
Happy Heavenly Birthday to your Mommie! Sending prayers your way Kendra!!❤❤❤
Kudos to Kendra. You weren't rude; you were trying to keep the show on track. This it's not a psych appt. Dont put ur burdens on us.
She was determined to run it her way. Tear jerkers are incapable of doing their part. Even trying to cut the interview off she was trying to control this senario. Well done KG. For not getting caught up.
I absolutely love Kendra claiming her space. Her compassion let that woman get off way too many syllables. Candidly, no one wants that kind of emotional vampire friend. She wanted to be heard. We heard you sis - trauma and all. Now what? How about therapy instead of a dating show.
Not rude at all. Kendra you handled this very well. It’s the holidays EVERYBODY has something going on, good and bad. This is not the place for her. ❤
God bless you Kendra. Sending so much love and a big hug. Rest in heaven to your beautiful mother
She was just here to make everyone miserable
I love how Kendra shut that drama down quick. Entire facial expression changed
She look like ‘all my life I had to fight.’
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Lol 😂 you know you wrong fam
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Thanks for setting boundaries Kendra.. you already told her NO trauma dumping.. It was selfish for her to ignore you
She either needs help in the recovery process , or she hasn’t gotten sober yet and is still intoxicated. Either way, she needs help outside of here. I feel like she’s still using, which is why her brain thought that this was a good idea. This is not where she needs to be. I truly hope she gets the care she needs, and after her brain is cleared, comes back here to apologize ❤ That’s what they do in recovery. She also needs counseling for her other trauma . Wishing her the best 🙏🏽
Nope. She wanted a cash app plain and simple. Listen to her story again.
@ That can be true too. I’m not denying that. I still think she’s on drugs/alcohol which is the main problem.
Lol she saw Maggie got a bed and decided to try it 😂
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And remember Maggie came back and said the bed was stolen. Tried to get more $$ from Kendra. This is why rich people don't help family and friends, because they keep coming back thinking they are owed something 😢
4:25 Kendra: oops, my pen is acting up.....
Me: yes, both your pen and previously the internet was trying to save us all from more trauma 🫣
I love Kendra's boundaries and her no-nonsense personality! Kendra was not rude. Love it💛💚
I respect Kendra's discernment. And I pray that the lady seeks the actual help she needs, and teaches her children the same... Sounds like her daughter was involved. Please have ears to hear, healing is so necessary for the generations that continue.
Wooooooo Kendra your job is HARRRRDD! Sheeeesh! That woman was one of the most hard-headed people I've ever seen and it was a passive disrespect that she was showing towards you because you told her up front not to do exactly what she ended up doing. She is definitely not ready to date nowhere near in the near future. She needs extensive counseling and to work on herself. If you are already a mess and you get with somebody all you're going to do is create a bigger mess 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ Kendra you handled that situation PERFECTLY!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰
Kendra, you were 100% right and handled things very well. I pray that she gets the help/ healing that she needs in her life.
Very proud that Kendra set and stood on her boundaries ❤
She needs to seek therapy, a friend is not going to make you feel whole
She should have followed the rules and asked for a "GENEROUS MAN MAKING 100K" like all the other beggars that come on the show.
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Absolutely 💯
Kendra did well handling her. She tried to flip it on Kendra like she did something to her, but Kendra was really nice about the situation because she could've got cussed out. Up there telling sob stories, being manipulative, and trying to play victim.
OMG the world doesn't owe her nothing how is this appealing
She don’t want therapy or counseling. She just want that cashapp money. Scammers be audacious these days
Good grief,Maybe she was hoping that Kendra would had cash apped her a $500 monetary gift out of pity? 🤷🏾♀️ Not to sound mean, she probably is going to stay single for a long time.
Kendra - you are a good-hearted lady, for real. You were just respectfully asking the woman to respect the core purpose of your platform. That's what anyone of us, your Kuzins expect. You were more than patient with the guest, who apparently really need to build her own social support circle. I'd dare to believe that when Christmas day hit, this woman realized that she is truly a lonely person. Well, a great 'book' has a suggestion: "He who has friends, must 1st show himself friendly." It's a fact, friendly people continuously accumulate friends - despite their past traumas, mental challenges, and physical limitations. I do pray that 🙏 the guest gets herself to a mental place where she transitions from "others did me wrong and I was their target" phase, to the "I will be approachable and friendly phase" so that she can build a social support circle. She was right about the idea tgat she needs friends, not a man. A dude trying to romantically pursue her would be mentally tortured by the unhealed woman, and that is not love.
Ma'am, respectfully, focus on doing your inner work. This ain't it. I speak from experience
Kendra did a FANTASTIC job! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
As soon as she said, it's a lot going on.We already know where it will going 😂😂😂
I'm glad Kendra put everything in perspective at the end. I wish the guest the best but please, respect the show. Kendra was 100% right to react the way she did. This is a dating show, not charity, respectfully. Kendra blesses when the lord tells her to but isn't here to give handouts. Merry Christmas, everyone!
RT…. I think social media has some how made it socially acceptable to beg
She decided the best time to bing that unnecessary ass story up was on Christmas day???
Not even wasting my time watching this!
Same!
Yep! I'm not wasting my time either
I fast forwarded right to the end. Now I’m done.
@ I did to an all I heard was she had a Backatomy an avoided the question can her angry looking as can walk or not😂😂😂😂
I watched it live you aren’t missing anything. The regular charity case. Everyone allegedly turned their back on her to no fault of her own. She is not responsible for the things that happened to her in her eyes. I hate HATE when people don’t take accountability for their life mistakes and want handouts. Get real. You got the same opportunities we had. You were an addict. It’s your fault. Stop blaming others for the misfortune in your life.
Even Kendra is getting tired of these messy people coming on her show. This is a dating show, not a therapist show. One thing about it, our people don't respect boundaries or believe in following any type of order or rules.
Wasn’t Looking for therapy. She wanted money
I lost patience with people that always want to talk about sad shit. I have my own shit to deal with and I can't just put it on other people. I will instantly tell them to shut the Hell up.
Yep. Straight change the convo in the middle of them talking…I can’t stand this behavior.
Kendra my dear u were A-1 with this lady. Hell we're all going thur something and she was trying to bulldozer her issues on Kendra & the rest of us. Thank u Kendra for being a G with this stubborn hard headed woman. And the G stands for "Golden" in this case. So in Kendra's voice "whew chile" pull it together lady 😮💯😂
Kudos to Kendra for setting boundaries and staying on code.. that lady s going through some stuff and she s very toxic...
I understand both sides because I was someone who use to be a doormat for people to trauma dump on. And like some of us it’s a time and place for things. Great job Kendra for handling it well💖💖
Same here! I had to learn to curb people and stop feeding into it. Kendra handled herself very well here 🙌🏾
I love how you handled this situation 🙌🏾