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- I met a stranger and immediately knew what personality type he was.
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the title sounds like "witnessing the rare INFP in the wild, and it speaks"
Hahaha! 🤣🤣🤣I'm INFP and this made me laugh, thanks😂
Sometimes. Sometimes it speaks. Sometimes it sits and stares into space awkwardly while wishing they could be home right about now.
😂😂 well put
This bird is insane.
hahahaha yeah 😅
Lol 😂
he's infg I guess got mommy issues
He looks like a young Johnny Depp to me, also purportedly Infp and also was previously in a band. Different clothing and accent but similar energy.
i thought the same thing! very similar speech pattern and thoughtfulness. a certain passion to his words
Nice guy. I totally get him. I just wish more people would understand us INFP'S. The world would be so much better.
Also the classic INFP trail-off, ie 4:30. I do this all the time in this type of situation, in a meeting or what not, and I've seen many other INFPs do this also. Curious what causes that little INFP idiosyncrasy. He also uses a lot of hand gestures when speaking, which is very common among INFPs I think. This was great, he's a lovely gentle INFP chap isn't he! Cheers.
Yeah 👍👋
I do the same thing lmao.
Oh, the trail-off, my signature move. 🙂
I think it's like when you try to explain something you talk a lot and feel like it's a little bit all over the place so you try to give some kind of short simple conclusion to make sure people understand your point but then you realise you aren't making it any shorter or clearer, you are just repeating yourself so you just kinda stop
YAS.
If I wasn’t 💯 sure I was an INFP before, I definitely am now. Yikes. It’s like I know what he’s gonna reply before he says it. I relate to everything down to the hand gestures.
I love this fellow INFP!
As an INFP, the title made me feel special!
How to spot an INFP? We wear sunglasses...
yess haha!
So true😂😂
As an aspiring INFP, I need to wear glasses as well.
At night
@@Violet_Odorata Haha aspiring 😂 What are you now?
Johnny Depp vibes
what a noisy bird! lol
Very cool format!!!
I am very selfish but I do not appear to be. I want to think and do things only for myself. However I naturally instantly Think of other people 1st. Because I can put myself in their shoes and imagine things, And my Jiminy Cricket is a strict manager. So I look like I'm selfYes picking up trash that doesn't belong to me. But really I'm doing it for selfish reasons because it bothers me to see trash out in nature. I'm doing it for me I'm not doing it for nature I'm not doing it for other people I'm doing it because I want to enjoy nature without trash. Other people on nature just benefit from what I want. Someone else is struggling and in pain I automatically go to help them, But it's not for them. I'm not helping them because I want to. I really don't want to be bothered by it. But I see their pain and it hurts me. I don't want to hurt so I help them get better so that I can feel better.
That sounds a twisted way to put it!
I identify myself with this guy, from the ability to disconnect from the world and immerse myself into my art, all the way to finding it hard to put myself first.
We feel what others feel deeply, we can easily put ourselves in other people's shoes and that is beautiful it itself because we love harmony, wr love for people to be happy, joyful... we dont want to hurt anybody and hence we detect other people's hurt as well as hurting others, which wakes up in us what i call the "holy rage" and will corageouslt stand up loud and clear for the vulnerable and not tolerate injustice nor abuse of any kind.
We love to share, and we are often misunderstood and taken as arrogants or aloof 🤣🤣🤣 no happy middle with some people.
We struggle to put ourselves first... and yes, as we get older and more mature... we learn to navegate the waters of more interactions with others.
@@evasccl7846 Yes it is twisted. I feel like it's a curse and a blessing. More of a curse growing up and then shifting into a blessing as I matured And learn to understand myself better.
Oh my goodness, that's really how I describe myself too...
Hurting when you see other hurt is called empathy. That's healthy and normal. It is strange that you say you don't actually care about their pain, yet it hurts you to see it. How is that different to caring? Perhaps what you're saying is you imagine your life would be easier if you didn't experience empathy, as like most people you don't want to feel pain. However, generally the people I know without empathy though are horrible, and they are not actually happy.
He even looks like an infp. I would have guessed that before even talking to him lol very nice
I saw him and was like man this guy looks interesting I gotta speak to him!!
@@ErikThor thank you for your videos. You're pretty cool. A friend any INFP would love to have. But I think we INFP are usually better looking 🤭😁✌️
@@sexyeur Looool what!
@@sexyeur Rude! 😁
@@sexyeur Id love to be the friend of all infps!
Ahh! That constant lip movement and looking to the other sideeee while talking I also do that. And also stuttering too much. That would pretty drain a thinker
Because it’s the uncomfortability of being on the spot like that and being filmed being shot at with irrelevant questions to a deeper meaning of life 😅 get a genuine one on one with whom an INFP feels they can completely open up to and it’s eloquent and flowing, insightful, get a deeper world that the real world melts away.
I played music in groups (bands, orchestras) till in my 30’s, too shy to solo. A teacher shared with me that he viewed performance as a gift we offer to the audience, and that gave me the courage to accept offers for solo work. I do focus inward while playing, centered on the image or feelings that the piece evoked; that is the part of myself that I offer others through the music. Nonetheless, I feel deeply connected to the other musicians and to the mood of the audience. There are always real-time adjustments needed while performing - dynamics changes, missed cues… I try to put most my effort into preparation so that I am able to handle the unpredictable things that happen during a performance.
Love the vid and this guy, cheers, Erik. My INFP alarm went off straight away. I'm wondering if fellow INFPs also have this thing, when they can detect another INFP almost straight away.
As an Infp I am not sure that we do. Had a colleague for many years that I suspected was one where we developed a friendship,, very slowly over time and she was infp. I have more INFJ colleagues that I can pinpoint as being INFJs more quickly then I can my own type. Love the I/Enfj types.
@@antoinettenovella1630 Don't we all? 😊
@@antoinettenovella1630 Aw thanks lol ☺️
I saw the thumbnail and was ready to violate myself as im an infp myself :)
But he seem chill ...
I Never could be this chill...
We da best♥️
I can definitely relate. Great video. Btw, what's up with those birds? They're being very chatty. I also want to point out his clothing. Very INFP. Nice without standing out too much. Love the shirt.
The birds of Vondelpark are very extroverted!
I totally agree, I find for myself I need to really lose myself in the performance. I am aware of the audience but they are experiencing it with me. It is really strange. Anyways I am so glad I don't have to perform in public anymore.
For me, the moment someone tells me they're vegan my first next step is to assess the possibility they're also INFP 😂. Honestly, I think that speaks to the inner beauty of the INFP, I always hope to live up to their example. Surely INFP is the master type? 😎. -ENFP
@@Gjakdjruknownhpjs Nah we ENTPs are the master type, mainly because we are the most humble and not sarcastic at all...
@@farrex0 i see what you did there ;)
@@farrex0 classic entp 😅
@@farrex0 Where is the sarcasm bell? Seriously though, big fan of trolling Entps, great providers of entertainment.
Stardew Valley music playing in the background 🙂
It's the shirt.
Hi erik please reply to this one
I recently watched his video where he typed elon musk as intp and i am questioning his understanding of mbti or i might be wrong
What do you think the mbti type of elon is?
His videos are valuable to me but i also think that videos like social engineering shouldn't be available like this
hey piyush! im currently thinking intj but elon is a hyper divergent type who has trained himself to push himself to act in a highly controlled and deliberate manner to achieve his lofty vision. So he is tricky to type and not a normal intj by any meteic
when I jammed wvwb with my abuse band members.. it's euphoric.. u literally disappeared into the zone ( just like the movie soul--) its like you're flying. it's hard to explain but when ubsee musicians make the ugly face they're on the zone lok
Hi Erik, I think I messed up with an infp girl, I think I have come across as too intense and maybe somehow a Little bit more on the "logical" side.. She somehow ghosted me for several days, I then decided to apologize and made myself vulnerable, Is She gonna appreciate that and I should Just let myself waiting for her processing the whole thing or Is She permanently done with me? Is there a Hope? She Is so sweet but I think I have understimated her sensitivity :(
Hey Lorenzo! When she ghosts you theres not much you can do. Just focus on yourself and taking care of yourself. I cant say what she will do and you have no control over that either. You can just be true to yourself!
Gosh, first off, I sincerely hope I won't say something stupid. But, you know, much depends, I think, on what you exactly said, apologising. For me personally, as a fellow INFP, I love sincere ones (and you being vulnerable is most definately a plus 👍) and ones that focus more on what I as a person mean to you, honesty about that. As for being ghosted, nothing is guaranteed unfortunately, but I think us INFP's need our freedom, need space to figure out what things mean that happen to us in the real world. Te is our inferior function after all and either what I'm about to say is complete bs or this is indeed the reason we need a little more time away from people to figure out what just happened. I think, like Erik said, there isn't much you can do when she ghosts you, but don't assume the worst, give it time and after, to be honest, I'm not sure how long (sorry 😳), when it feels safe to do so I guess, try and ask how she's doing. Good luck!
Just keep your mind open, we take a while to process emotions. She may come back to you, hopely she does.
@@ErikThor being true Is pretty painful right now, I think I am addicted to those intense feelings, which Is weird, as an ENTP, we both enjoy our respective humor though.. but that damn Fi trickster and her Ti demon ... A fckn nuclear bomb..
@@lorenzopoggesi273 it's okay not all INFP are the same ..as not all ENTP are good or smart but.. hmm Here is a thing I did and it did help and I'm INTP and it may help you understand one another since INFPs have complex thinking they have dominate Fi ans they have Te inferior anyway Try watching TH-cam videos about INFPs I can recommend some since they get easily misunderstood ans they Do actually Ghost people a lot But that's because the have dominate Fi and they need time to heal and after you chat a bit they should open up it may take a while also INFP can use some passive agression but not because they are mean but they lose their cool at hard cases and may blame you and hats you if you tried to clam them down at the process also they don't open up easily and value people emotions A log Although they have a Sweet caring nature that are also Introverted and would hesitate coming to help in some cases they the type that are actually supportive ans kind hearted but because some issues they mess up being with people and can accidentally isolate themselves .. they do over think sometimes and feel like you don't want them when you get mad at them ... and when they are bothered they don't tell so let them cool down and don't push it ..
my friend is An INFP T so it may lik different but I hope that help .. mostly she will get upset when I don't consider people Emotions Though she knows where I'm coming from INFP don't like hurting people.. though they fall into in unfortunately bec of lack of there communication and sometimes wanting time be a lone and forgetting to tell there friends or anyone that they just want to rest making it feel like that hate you and don't want to talk to you anymore.. understand that both of you are different and you have to accept one another and to stay close for the good in you sometimes negative do happen but you have to accept your partner with there problems they are not perfect so do you too BUT tell them to kinda open up sometimes because it's difficult to understand how they think and that it hurts a lil bit and hopefully they will understand.. I hope that helps 🤍🤍🤍🤍✨✨
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These question don’t accurately type a person. You need to observe a person and get to know them to a certain extent to know which cognitive types they use most.
I just use these as a starting point. What questions would you like me to ask next? :)