The Truth About Tinder...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- I'm officially out of the game. Here's why I'm officially done with Tinder.
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#tinder #dating
I feel like most of the chicks on tinder just be using It for the likes to boost their confidnece
Facts😂😂😂😂
straight up bro 🤣
That’s facts 💯
honestly
No cap
Same here , Im 20 and My older sister said i should try swiping . Ive actually had a lot of matches after a few weeks but its all about validation for them. It is like talking to a brick wall , they arent even interested in you . I started uni last year and it is so satisfying to talk to girls in person . Tbh it is not even about hooking up or flirting rn for me its just grounding talking to girls , making friends and just having a good time !
Damn, girls have it really easy for them
im giving up on anything that involves a relationship 😭😭😂 just staying to myself for a long time
feel you bro 🤣
This so much.
bruh you summed it up nicely at the end, well done!
There’s so many bisexual women on tinder bruh like fr and they’ll say they’re bi but on their bio they say they only like girls like wtf that’s not what bisexual means 😴🤦🏻 and tinder knows i’m looking for STRAIGHT girls smh
I used to be good looking to the point where girls would come up to me on the daily and start conversations with me even tho I'm a severely shy guy(didnt even say 1 word for a year) because I used to be bullied so much that my confidence didnt exist. Now that I'm finally better mentally I don't feel good looking anymore nobody looks at me and I'm a mess. Just download tinder but I'm glad I watched this video
Yo dude I’m turning 20 here shortly. But I’m in that same boatttt. I don’t match much with girls. I don’t go to school. I work at a grocery store and believe it or not I don’t see any girl my age. So it’s actually messed with me a little bit subconsciously that I don’t match much with on tinder and that I don’t speak to many even tho I think I’m okay at communicating. How did you push through that time when you were lonely?? I still approach girls when I can but damn there ain’t much that come around these days 🙄
Numpty go out on the weekends with friends or by yourself to places girls your age would frequent (beach,mall,clubs) yk also try and reconnect with some old hs girls you always wanted/thought were cute hope this helps
i feel you bro. i think whats really helped me is just creating. making videos like this really help me remind myself that im NOT alone. also, learn to enjoy your own company as much as you can. once you do that, people will begin to gravitate towards you naturally. you could also just try to make female friends on tinder (if youre still on it). that way, you will meet more women who know more women and so on and so forth
Same thing happened to me. I thought I would actually meet a woman who will be my future wife one day in tinder but boy was I completely wrong. When i met someone on tinder for the first time, that someone makes me feel like I was in a p**n hookup app. So i deleted tinder and learned my lessons. I strongly recommend to not trust any dating app. I want to go back to school/college so I meet a real girl to have an actually long-term relationship with in order for her to my wife and my life.
Tinder refunded the balance which is nice gesture
I agree with you, I live in Miami as 26 yo female. I used to use Tinder to meet rich dudes and deleted like 2 months ago. Especially if you live somewhere like Miami you eventually realize easy sex is not even fun. I really miss the sexual tention
I don't like women like you. You are a gold digger.
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS
thank you for your advice
Hi Jordan! I just finished my 90 days nofap and wants to ask you for some tips what I should do now?
Keep going
Keep going, the benefits may seem to die but they actually remain, you just get used to them, if you don't believe me go ahead and relapse 😂 see the difference it's phenomenal brotha!
^ what they said. keep going and stop counting the days at this point
Well, if they don't believe you are not a player because you have your tinder tuesdays videos on TH-cam, then let them go and don't worry about them😜 You'll find good girls in person!!! Do it the old fashion way, it's the best way! In most cases, Tinder isn't serious at all. I wish you the best ❤😄
i just download tinder app this week so let me use for two days
Well atleast u actually get dates on tinder. I just get nothing but fake bot accounts and scammers.
I had tinder but i just used it because I was bored that and there are some things I need to work on first
Bro it all depends some down to earth chicks are on tinder but it’s all about finding the right one
Do you have to pay money to get matches???
notification gang
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I skip the dates
What’s your name? We can talk😩 cause we fall in the same category.
What about bumble?
same thing. i never really got into bumble like that tho because there werent as many people on it
Truee, one of my mates started dating from it, tinder is more short term
I might be the only one out there who downloaded tinder to meet some friends. And believe me, I found some good friends 😜😄❤ it's not bad at all.
Bro when you said you went on tinder because you were lonely, i couldn’t relate more...
Once you start approaching in public you won't want to swipe anymore. You'll level up majorly as a man when you can approach in public
Big fax💯💯
i guess
I agree. But it really does suck when you don’t go to college/school. I’m 19 and there’s no girls ever see and it messes with me when I go weeks without talking to ones I like. I act a little off
Numpty bro it’s so much better i been outta high school for 3 months since i graduated & i rarely see girls at all bro i’m just waiting to look for a job so i can chase the $ chase no girls bro unless they come to u
@@numpty9566 Need to focus on being comfortable with yourself and who you are as a person
I definitely recommend that people who are introverted like me, delete the app, as addicting as it is delete it. You are only enabling your introverted personality and I feel like the real quality and even more attractive women are those that are not on tinder. Even just casual hookups theres probably better ones you can find by just going out. Being introverted can be a set back if you are seeking to find more friends.
Agree fellow introvert here too.
yeah tinder shouldn’t even be called a dating app tbh
True bc most ppl on there be too strict on what they looking for, and a lot of fake accounts exist on there
Its a validation app, not a dating app.
It’s a fucking game
So what is it if it's not a dating app
Doing the same. Meeting someone in real life puts so much more respect to yourself. Online dating has so much negativity associated with it.
Bro i found a shawty on there, and she just wasted my time. Like you said in a more recent video, some of these females suffer from depression, anxiety or they’re emotionally unstable. And this chick didn’t know how to communicate at all. Ya know? I didn’t bash her but it was hard to cut her off... we did stuff too iykyk, so we had already, or I had already created an attachment with her. I can’t waste my energy no more to people who can’t reciprocate my energy. I learned my lesson today.. it’s been a shitty day but you live and learn
Broooo i know the feel am dealing with that exact something its crazy..
You can say the same about the male specie. Full of rage, emotionally unaware, & misogynistic.
Anyone who call women “females” is not worthy of respect 🤦🏾♀️ that’s pure misogyny right there
@@WoahhTeamJacob goes both ways, I agree
@@glohelfeliclar8473 I’m sorry for offending you, it is noted not to address women by females. I’ll be more aware to the choice of words I use.
Tinder is no use in todays society
I love the quote "hurt people, hurt people". I love your perspective on this. Thanks for the video
You will feel more confident in yourself and boost yourself up as a man if you meet women in real life. I agree with you dude, tinder can be addicting just like social media, plus girls on there aren't even interested, you can have a decent conversation with them for like 5 minutes then they ghost on you and it's exhausting. Feel much better connecting with them in real life rather than behind a screen
Every time I wanna get back to dating or in a dating app Imma whatch this video ❣️
I am 18, I workout and go to university but corona messed me up so its online school. I am on tinder and I get literally no matches and I'm not sure why exactly but it does mess with my confidence but I'm planning on deleting it and jus focusing purely on me by working out, eating well and just becoming more alive and self aware. Thanks for making this video it was helpful btw.
Idk if you did already but Delete it. Once I did I got a relief somehow and hopeful
@@spaceyface853 yeah I've deleted it for a while and am jus focusing on myself now. Prioritizing my own happiness, working out, going hard in school etc. Things will fall into place for a future wifey by themselves if you're the best version of you that you can be.
Statistically, only 20% of the app users are female. So, honestly, don't let it mess up your confidence because it isn't representative of real life ❤.
@@mrs.potatohead8471 started getting a lot of matches after I posted better pics of me doing stuff rather than stupid mirror selfies lol, Ty tho
@@TheGreatAli02 Well you're most likely above average then! :)
So we’re literally living the same life. Crazy.
Yeah I got off tinder to now I want to go out and approach girls in real life for better connections. I think I was addicted to seeing how many likes I would get. This was so relatable bro great video heard nun but fax👑💯🙏🏽
i feel it bro. meeting irl is always better, and tinder creates an artificial barrier for doing that. glad youre ahead of the game bro ✊🏾
I like it how he pronouces Tuesday as Toosday😂😂
What is PMO?
This is so relatable man, I’ve had some bad experiences with Tinder as well.
Just don’t go black pill. I feel you though
Tinder is hard for women too it is not worth all the trouble trying to match with someone and turn around and it does not work out. It is hard to find anyone who is compatible.
Tonita Queta Parks exactly! its super unnatural tbh. i wish you the best tho, i know youll find someone one day ✊🏾
That is cap!
I’m addicted to gaming lol😂
Better than porn, smoking and all that shit bro, that's great.
thats a very profitable addiction to have if you play your cards right ✊🏾
Ansh Khilnani u look cute boy
@@_tekk. thank you, appreciate it 😊
@paladin De Lupi shit, thought you were talking about me
Some guy asked how old l am and l said 15 jokingly..my account got banned immediately..🙄😏😣
“When I make a video on something, you know it’s for real” 💙
To be honest non of these lame broads want a real relationship.They dont take the time to value thier man that work hard and put thier life on the line.These women have issues.they nd to revaluate thier life first💯😤
I've gotten a shit ton of matches on Tinder and I've only been using it for like 2 months. I'm 25 and I don't use social media so that's why I made it cause females nowadays, at least the young ones in my generation find it weird to interact in person. Met some weirdos, some cute chicks, some mid chicks, some ducks, the whole thing. I guess I'm a millennial in the wrong Era cause I would prefer to meet women in person.
*Downloads Tinder*
*"Someone likes you see who it is"*
*Asks for payment*
*Deletes Tinder*
For a average man
Is it worth paying? Pls lmk
I wasted so much time on tinder 6 months gold talked to maybe 2 or 3 chicks got one date and this chick looked like a dude haha! after the gold expired I deleted it and never used tinder ever again. Total waste of time. I got better things to do than swiping left and right. Could be going to the gym learning songs on guitar making money. Way more valuable things. social media and tinder is such of a waste of time I feel so much better spiritually when I’m not on either of those things same bro I got hella addicted I’d be swiping for 3 hours a day. Tinder is trash. Just stay focus on you bro and your goals and they’ll come around. Theres a lot of chicks on tinder that have stds too same with other dating always gotta be careful.
Oh wow, so even GOLD account with money haven't done much? I was thinking fo getting one few times, but every time retreated from that idea. Considering your story, I a, grateful i ahve not wasted my time and money.
i was a swiping addict 😭
samee 💀💀💀💀
What is PMO?
I have always done better in public , you get to veg better. Text women and online gives women time to think and ask their girl friend for a certain response. In person you can read body language and people have to either be themselves or play themselves. I don’t want to be on someone’s virtual auction block.
I downloaded tinder again recently 2 years after I tried it an deleted it. Now I’m talking to 4 matches and one is talking about meeting up but after seeing this I’m worried lmaooooopainoooooo
Lol tinder doesn't even work for me, all I see verified chicks showing insta and claiming they're not looking for hookups
Yeah I don't understand why women get on a dating app and say not looking for hook ups or looking for a future husband
@@claudiomonreal4822 I believe women use it as an dopamine to make themselves feel like there attractive.
Alot of your issues, come from being young, in a world where you have too much access to things, but lack the experience and wisdom, to know how to operate them. When you get some years under your belt, the weight of such trivial things, won't be so heavy. You'll be fine. Just stay on your purpose, and everything else will fall in line. Good luck 👍
It's called instant gratification
You video helped me understand why I need to delete Tinder. Especially your point on the three types of people ot attacks. I definitely fall under lonely. Keep up the good content and thanks. 🙏
Dating apps in general suck and rarely if not never work. Stay away from them
Thanks for this video. I resonate a lot with this video, although I have not been on Tinder. I rarely can last on dating apps (few hours) but I do understand when you talk about the loneliness. I felt that way when I just moved from a country to another, and didn’t have many friends. I didn’t know how to interact with the girls or boys so felt like getting a “dating”/“meeting up” was a good idea.
I really started hating the idea of meeting up with someone from online because I felt that I never really get to know them and the expectations were mainly false.
i know it mustve been rough moving to another country and having to make friends. i feel like in those cases, its important to enjoy your own company, but also make sure youre going out and getting a feel for the culture. once you understand things better, itll be easier for you to put yourself out there. confidence comes from experience
Your videos are inspirational. You deserve at least 1 mil subs and i know you're gonna get there one day. Keep grinding my g 💯
i appreciate that bro! the numbers will come fasho, im just enjoying the journey ✊🏾
perfect timing fr, good looks 🙏🏽
I've always felt Tinder lowers the standard for for both genders. Given that both genders are after true commitment with their partner, it's not going to be as easy as going on an catalog and choosing a woman. I've always felt true love, and when I say true, I mean grounded love in which both partners are on the same level of maturity, commitment, trust and goals, it is only then that this love is found out there in the real world. Some people may find it sooner and some later.
I really think when you're focused on building yourself up, as guys, when you move out, you're working, seeing what it is you want to do, that the right woman for you will appear. I don't think she's going to appear in your hometown while we watch pornhub and sit on our asses. It will come when you break from addictions, pursue a meaningful goal, leave your parents house and go into the world that you will have stepped into a different playing field.
Interesting, I think everyone is lonely really. I enjoy connecting on Tinder because its fun and fascinating. Tread lightly. I guess I could fall into the lonely category but I am not desperate. I have found jobs through Tinder, discovered new music, made new friends, language exchange and connections around the world. It is what you make it I guess!
You found a job how? You mean connections
Why were you taking girls serious from tinder??
That's a good observation you're young and smart if you're looking for true love you'll have to walk the block to find a girl who's really interested in you but I would say what my mama told me take The Road Less Traveled
Pfff, you at least had some dates form Tinder. I been on this trash app for 3 years- not a single date!!! Had like 10 matches form all this time, and not much conversation. Chicks usually acted bothered, uninterested or never replied at all. And I did have pretty decent pics up there, and quite an attractive guy in real life. But Tinder was simply time-wasting on swiping,
95% women on tinder has a extra sorry just the truth if your good guy you’re not going to win because she’s use to bad guys
i dont care about the girls on tinder i just use it as a confidence booster and i like swiping sometimes lol
All the girls I dated online said my pictures never did me justice. They I was nice looking in pictures but when they saw me in real life, they all said “wow.. you’re hot! How old are your pics cause you’re so much more attractive in person”
All my pics were recent. I’m just not photogenic. I deleted the dating apps as girls said I look better in real life
@@starboy5888 Did you get laid? Does tinder really work?
You know, the first time i met Tinder was the moment i watched AOK channel that in the weird video i so the grown up Caillou tell his parents about Tinder and i thought Tinder is a some kind of car but now i am know becase you warned us what to do.
That Caillou adult parody is hilarious!!! Surprised to see another fan on a video like this.
I met a girl from tinder a year ago exactly, we hit it off and were together until August, she started dating another guy from her past overlapping with me by a week, I was traumatized cuz I lived with her for 5 of those 9 months, I got back on tinder and went out on a date with a super hot chick, she was playing games with me after. And I randomly got banned for no reason, haven't been on tinder for past 4 months and now that I'm on Christmas break I wanna give it another shot
Imagine getting traumatized by a female 💀
I flunking all my online classes (33% and 54%)I starting to lose all my motivation for this school year. Can anyone give me advice I’m overwhelmed with work. To play basketball I need to make a 70 or above, but I don’t think I will be playing this year. I think because of COVID-19.
Seththesloth Spiritual I get it , wait at least half a year before u make any desicions , things will change and u might make the wrong descision if you act too fast.
Bob proctor, check him out
i feel you bro. online classes are terrible. try to reach out to your teachers and see if you can maybe do some extra credit or at least get some more 1 on 1 interaction with them
Here’s a funny and honest story. Back in 2019 I used some pictures of one of my friends who’s tall and good looking. I mama hard to get like 37+ matches on just 2 weeks which isn’t surprising. Some girls gave even wanted to video chat me not realizing that they’re actually getting catfish lol. Most of the girls were good looking too. I had eventually deactivated it, now you make look at it as me being down bad but I look at it as my point being proven.
I relate to so much this guy says
Your 21 years old now you need to have fun while your young love will come don’t be in your fourties’ saying may I could of seen so many more women there is so many women in this world
Documenting finding a girl lol
Tinder is very addicting that's why I deleted it
Tinder is so boring the only reason I go on there is to screenshot girls
I don't use Tinder and from what I heard in this video I wouldn't plan to anytime soon!!!
I agree with everything you say on here. I was never on Tinder. I'm a bit older than you. I stopped online dating in 2015 and I was only using OK Cupid. You're adorable, though. I'm glad you found someone (according to the title of a suggested video from a week ago).
It’s a money grab ....you have to always pay
20 yr old virgin gang stand up😎
Imagine using tinder 😂😂
Lmao sitcho ass down you don’t pull shit
Exactly. Talkin bout some “imagine using tinder”😂😂
@@ArsalanKhan-vz1wy get outta here with that negativity
It’s 2020 bruh, who tf still e dates or uses dating apps😂
Ysn Bandz people are doin it because its 2020. What are you talking about😂😂 people are trying to limit person to person interaction. You been livin under a rock?
Give up on dating not smashing
I joined tinder to joke at the amount of pics
Of people holding up fish they caught bc I live in the south. I ended up finding someone really attractive and great. We got into a relationship and he quickly became abusive. I haven’t dated after that and not really looking to bc I do want long term if I like them but I have a lot to work on. If I ever join again it’ll be to find ppl with similar hobbies. I lack the social skills to talk with my age group, my job turned me into a cold and blunt serving robot. Lol.
Let's be honest here- Men love with EYES, women love with EARS. So basically for men seeing a hot girl on pics and wanting her- kinda works, but in reverse - the women don't get to truly like you because they don't tend to hear you in any way. So Tinder is overwhelmed by crapload of horny,needy and bored guys, while there are far less number of ladies, most of which are not even interested in actually meeting you, but just getting a collection of male therapists to raise her personal ego.
Tinder just doesnt work for me. Im an average looking guy, not overweight or anything, and I barely get any matches. The matches I do get just ignore me even though Ill send them something thoughtful. Im convinced women are just on there for validation and to promote themselves. All the bios I see on there is just them telling you to follow them.
You are very well spoken, and self aware for your age. Good on you.
Keep up the good work jordan you'll make it
preciate the support bro ✊🏾
Unless you're a sex addict who looks like Chris Hemsworth, you should avoid Tinder at all costs. Go out there and find people who are right for you. Lower your physical standards a bit and focus more on better internal qualities like sense of humor, intelligence, being loving, selfless, hardworking and reliable. It's important to imagine the type of girl or guy you'd want to be in a relationship with but only out of self respect and don't obsess over it. Stay focused on yourself because this is YOUR OPPORTUNITY to be who you want to be. There's 8.6 billion people in this entire world and more than one would want to be with you. You just need to get off Tinder and go out in the real world.
Weed is not good kids
Wasgood bro love yo content keep da work out
preciate you bro ✊🏾
Fucking Genius
Bro if you wanna upgrade your self confidence and your charm, just work as a waiter for a year. Watch how EASY it turns to talk to women and influence people into what you want. Love is business, and business is a negotiation !
Ty
Omg you're gorgeous ! I think I might emigrate to America 🤣! Fancy a date in the UK? Haha xx
Tinder is probably not the greatest place as both genders can appear either nonshalant or vague. trying to find anyone in particular would be a 1% chance because it depends on where you live. when it comes to women using tinder, it's more of a natural selection of men to choose from. you run the risk of lowering your self-esteem after being unmatched or ghosted because you don't fulfill the necessary requirements of said girl. it's also a risk to your self-esteem because each individual girl expects something out of you. it could be anything, they may want you to flirt, to entertain them, to impress them, it can literally be anything if not specified in their bio. After an effort of trying to get a girls attention, you realize that you've portrayed a character that you're not. you end up doing said things like corny pick up lines, filtered or unfiltered pics, changing your bio too many times after many failed attempts. An endless cycle of "maybe if I do this, maybe if I do that" and then it because impossible to what you were even looking for.
It's even worse if you're looking for friendship, you may end up harboring feelings for said person knowing very well they don't want that, maybe you weren't as interesting to said person, it's just too many reasons to go through. it's just a drug that drags you down further untill you've reach the point of desperation. There may be chances you find a girlfriend and friends off of tinder but it's not like most of them will last that long.
Online dating is the absolute worse because it affects the way you think, especially for guys who don't know much about girls.
big scam
10:03 The Dennis Rodman photo had me rollin😂😂
these girls be out here getting double doubles at my expense 💀
I met my wife at a club and we have two children and here dad is rich and trust me looking forward to being rich is it
The reason why most of your matches doesn’t workout is because tinder is a hook up app and you seem like a nice dude who wants a steady relationship so it’s really not for you cause most girls their just wasn’t dick ain’t no need to take ‘em on a date
This guy is smart
The dating game has change for the worse nothing like it use to be 5 to 10 years ago
Sad truth about dating apps, you match and talk to a girl, she ghosts you after the first date
I agree 100% with you on everything you say here. And I too recently got through a heartbreak over a girl I fell for and went on a couple dates with.