Maybe the reason few men both know these things and use them is that the skills to get into the relationship are not the same as the skills to make it great. To me, these values epitomize the achievement of love, not necessarily the precondition for it, that is, not the ingredients of attraction. It's helpful for someone who wants to cement and perfect a successful relationship, improve a marriage perhaps, but not so much for someone trying to get into one in the first place. The means to get to the point in the relationship where these tools apply, I fear, may be more superficial, subtle, culturally condition and brutally competitive. Perhaps the competition for attraction selects for male focus on different values.
1. Unprompted compliments on non-physical traits. 2. Consistent (not constant) communications. Quality over quantity. 3. Anticipation- thoughtful planning of future interactions. 4. Be comfortable (together) in silence. 5. Genuine interest in her success, achievements, growth, aspirations 6. Appreciate her quirks/uniqueness 7. Mindful gestures 8. Emotional consistency- being a steady presence.
In normal world, these principles would worked. Unfortunately, if you are kind for your girlfriend or for a girl which you just meet, she will tell you that you are nice guy and dump you or friendzoned you.
Woman always run to guys that are pure garbage and always friendzone good guys because they like being treated like s--- by them and are fools/morons by thinking they can change them. If you are truly a good guy with a good heart and actually care about them , they dump you or friend zone you everytime-just treat the girls like garbage and they love you.
Joy Joy your hair looks fabulous , you have one of the best channels on youtube. Your advice is genuine and has a very old school feel to it, something society really needs !
Part of the reason I left my previous relationship was due to a lack of ambition. They were content with sticking with a basic barely above minimum wage job and not accomplishing anything more significant. Also not super happy that that would mean we would have less of a financial safety net.
You always say be a good listener, but you must realise that us men have trouble listening when a beautiful girl is talking to us. We drift off into our fantasy land as we look at her sparkling eyes and kissable lips. Now what did you say again?
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.
Nice one...informative :) All i know is that 99% of men will AGREE, that the 'ANNA'S THUMBNAIL' is at least 500 TIMES better than the generic AI Model art thumbnail !!! YES YES YES HAPPY ABOUT THAT... I DON'T NEED MUCH. LOL
You're quite intelligent Anna and you do have thoughtful things to say. But you have so much information to squeeze into a little time. So you have to speak very fast which unfortunately kind of makes it hard to fully absorb all the information. It sort of goes in one ear and out the other in a continuous rapid but monotonous flow. Maybe you should vary your pace a little to make certain points stand out a little. I always enjoy your postings. You seem like a really nice person.
It's not her problem. It's your problem that you can't listen if things go in one ear and out the other. But if she is speaking too fast for you, slow the video playback speed down...
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Maybe the reason few men both know these things and use them is that the skills to get into the relationship are not the same as the skills to make it great. To me, these values epitomize the achievement of love, not necessarily the precondition for it, that is, not the ingredients of attraction. It's helpful for someone who wants to cement and perfect a successful relationship, improve a marriage perhaps, but not so much for someone trying to get into one in the first place. The means to get to the point in the relationship where these tools apply, I fear, may be more superficial, subtle, culturally condition and brutally competitive. Perhaps the competition for attraction selects for male focus on different values.
Foresight, huh? Didn't see that one coming! 😅
It was excellent, and as always brilliant.
1. Unprompted compliments on non-physical traits.
2. Consistent (not constant) communications. Quality over quantity.
3. Anticipation- thoughtful planning of future interactions.
4. Be comfortable (together) in silence.
5. Genuine interest in her success, achievements, growth, aspirations
6. Appreciate her quirks/uniqueness
7. Mindful gestures
8. Emotional consistency- being a steady presence.
In normal world, these principles would worked. Unfortunately, if you are kind for your girlfriend or for a girl which you just meet, she will tell you that you are nice guy and dump you or friendzoned you.
Woman always run to guys that are pure garbage and always friendzone good guys because they like being treated like s--- by them and are fools/morons by thinking they can change them. If you are truly a good guy with a good heart and actually care about them , they dump you or friend zone you everytime-just treat the girls like garbage and they love you.
Joy Joy your hair looks fabulous , you have one of the best channels on youtube. Your advice is genuine and has a very old school feel to it, something society really needs !
Good advice for human relationships more generally
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I encouraged 1x woman (A Scientist) and through my connections she got much publicity and recognition. Also another woman similar things.
I just want to know where to find these mentally healthy women. 🤣
Fantasy lane in fairytale land!
She’s full of shit
Never-never land😂😂
Narnia, perhaps.
Part of the reason I left my previous relationship was due to a lack of ambition. They were content with sticking with a basic barely above minimum wage job and not accomplishing anything more significant. Also not super happy that that would mean we would have less of a financial safety net.
Yeah I expect more out of my future girlfriend too
@@jacob_massengale Fair enough! Also just given how insane rent prices are in my area I don’t really want to be the main person contributing to it 😬
Thank you Anna, you always brighten my day with your videos.
I want a girl like Anna..
Glad I'm watching-Ready to meet Real woman
Who are these men who don’t support they’re other half!?
You always say be a good listener, but you must realise that us men have trouble listening when a beautiful girl is talking to us.
We drift off into our fantasy land as we look at her sparkling eyes and kissable lips.
Now what did you say again?
Do you do personal training?
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating.
I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s.
Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.
thanks Anna, great, helpful information, and you're looking fantastic.
1:Money
2: An Independent man
3: An Attentive man
4: Your best friend
5: The aerobics instructor
6: Material crap
7: The divorce
8: Your misery
Biggest fan just so you 😊☺️
You’re a idiot if you’re a fan of this grifter who says the same thing BS every few weeks. lol
Girls should watch her they need to cause these ain’t working but it’s good
You’re so adorable 🥰
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I love your advice!!!! It's very very special and amazing WOW
2 4 8 who do you appreciate?
@Daathiel lol
If a woman wants you she will chase you even if you do nothing for her. Treat them mean and keep them keen.
Nobody wants to read SIMP comments
Great video Anna🔥
Thank you 😁
You look so wonderful in this video had to check it out WOW!!! hi there sweetie 😘 love your stuff on here. i watch it frequently
How do other women treat you when they see you knowing you are helping men to understand what women want?
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other."
She’s not doing that. She just making money off you idiots
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Nice one...informative :)
All i know is that 99% of men will AGREE, that the 'ANNA'S THUMBNAIL' is at least 500 TIMES better than the generic AI Model art thumbnail !!!
YES YES YES HAPPY ABOUT THAT...
I DON'T NEED MUCH. LOL
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Your hair & makeup look excellent ❤
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i'm the 1%
not that i knew it just something i was already doing on a semi unconscious level . now i know what it was called
A real background. 😍
go to the gym together
You're quite intelligent Anna and you do have thoughtful things to say. But you have so much information to squeeze into a little time. So you have to speak very fast which unfortunately kind of makes it hard to fully absorb all the information. It sort of goes in one ear and out the other in a continuous rapid but monotonous flow. Maybe you should vary your pace a little to make certain points stand out a little. I always enjoy your postings. You seem like a really nice person.
She’s playing you simps. Lol
@@Chachi21 How so? Explain.
It's not her problem. It's your problem that you can't listen if things go in one ear and out the other. But if she is speaking too fast for you, slow the video playback speed down...
@@Khans0120 She’s just saying a bunch of BS. Over and over. She’s only doing it to make money off of TH-cam and her advice is trash.
@@Khans0120 she’s saying absolutely nothing and speaking in generalities and there’s nothing to her content.
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Your very very beautiful... OMG. Keep up the great work you are doing
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🐻 let me guess a full purse errrr losing 2lb a day errr women love their food keep them well fed err shoes and bags 🤠 I think you've covered it teddy 😂
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I prefer your vids when youre further away from the camera. All of you is more lovely than some of you!😊
So, what you are trying to say without saying is "Show us your tits?!" Smooth...
She’s closer to the camera cause she’s hitting the wall and getting bigger and Don’t take advice from her.
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Most of these videos seem good. This one, not so much. I did all of this for my wife for 24 years and she divorced me
Go with what this woman says and you will never get a girl.
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