WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS *MENTAL HEALTH ADVICE* | Fame-ished Ep. 8
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ต.ค. 2024
- Sam and Andrew dive deep into mental health and expose all their inner turmoil!
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I was absolutely HOWLING at the beneficiary
I see a lot of people saying they need to structure their episodes better and get deeper on the mental health subject, I disagree I think they have a right to keep some boundaries while still sharing what they are comfortable sharing. I think they were very venerable in this.
And between this week and last weeks episode they got very deep on a lot of subjects. We gotta remember that they both have millions of views and it's very intimidating to bare your soul to a massive audience. I think this episode was very productive and sincere. And as far as structure I like that it’s not heavily scripted or structured because it makes you know it’s a genuine conversation and that’s why I personally watch Sam and Andrew. They’re very realistic and honest.
@@Lady.Fern. totally! I just don’t want them to feel pressure too
I honestly love that you guys aren't as scripted and it's just the two of you chatting! ❤
Agreed! These episodes have been so fun & entertaining!
Love their pod casts and I was never going to get into pod casts 🎉
The reason I love your podcast is because it's just like a conversation between friends. It's so natural. I hardly listen to any podcasts because they're too planned out. Keep doing you!
This podcast has made Mondays so much more bearable. What a great way to start every week 🫶🏽
i made the dixie comment and i wanted to comment and say IM SO SORRY. i was trying to be goofy silly but looking back at it and hearing your input, i can see how it looked. you are so SO much more wholesome and genuine in every aspect. i adore you and i appreciate you both opening up and voicing your feelings, it’s so easy to just type something up and comment without a second thought. thank you for reminding me to think about the things i comment.
love you both so so much
As a beneficiary of all your hard work, honesty, transparency, and mental health I’d like to thank you for making this podcast/video✨ love you both so much🤍
I would LOVE to hear a deep dive episode about how you guys grew up. Like what are the wisconsin/long island vibezzz and culture? What was your HS experience like! Love yall
It's important to know that depression and anxiety go hand-in-hand. Many people don't think they are depressed, but after finding the right meds, they see a huge difference.
Sam, you’re laugh about Beneficiary made my day thank you 😂😊
People say you need to plan your episodes better,but for me this is perfect as it is...i love the transpirincy and the honest talk and just the way you both are and talk i really love that.
Not everyone can have planned conversations and that is okay,just keep going as it is and i am here to be your suporter all the way❤
yeah i think it is better this way and it seems planned tbh.
Quick piggy back on Sam’s comment regarding “why do I not have it together yet”: girl I swear- none of us have our shit together. This is literally what life is all about- working on ourselves.
We do the best we can, and yes sometimes we do get caught in cycles. Guarantee that the people who comment that shit are also caught in their own cycles of struggle, they just aren’t a social media presence like yourself.
Thank you both for showing us vulnerability. I’m 28 struggling with anxiety/depression and my own bullshit cycles! But I’m doing a great job, and so are the both of you.
Yes and I think as neurodivergent people we need to stop striving for a neurotypical way of life we aren’t designed to live the same way and that’s okay! Easier said than done as the world definitely is set up to cater to the neurotypical mind, but we need to give ourselves the grace we deserve.
I can’t believe it’s already episode 8!! Love this podcast, hope Andrew and Sam are doing good❤
I saw so much improvement in my happiness when I pushed myself further and further to accomplish things and put myself out there. Instead of just accepting my bare minimum , I had to make myself uncomfortable. Now I am much happier !
Great comment! That is the challenge…. Pushing through feeling terrible to see and feel the benefits on the other side. Depression and anxiety are the great thieves. They will convince you that you can’t, make you feel you can’t even get out of bed, and steal your life from you. It’s imperative to get help. Keep trying until you find what works. Keep moving! One of the hardest things to do. Do not get shut in! Shut in =shut down. And if you cannot, pls seek professional help. The faster you get treated, the less entrenched depression gets in the brain. I waited far too long. But back in the 80s and 90s you did not mention it to others. There was great shame. Well things are different now and there is much better treatment. It took years for me to find the right treatment. But when I did? I could not believe what life felt like without anxiety and depression. It was incredible. I couldn’t have imagined it before. Depression almost killed me. It took me out of life for years. Pls don’t wait so long! And I have love ones who found the right treatment very quickly. (I was a hard case). So do not be afraid. It is way better then the alternative.
Sam, I really appreciate you being so open with your mental health. It helps me understand I'm not the only one going through this and it's normal.
I always look forward to Mondays because I see the videos while getting ready for uni. It makes Mondays a bit more bearable
Omg i laughed so hard @ the beneficiary convo 😂 love u guys please don’t change unless its for the better ❤
I agree so hard! Don't watch the news, especially if you have anxiety! 😅
I am absolutely in love with this era of relatability❤
Feeling Andrew on keeping things in until they boil over .This may not always work depending on family/friend dynamic, but I will tell my friends or family “I need a hug” at a random time and whether I want to or not, it usually always promts open communication about whatever Im struggling with. I think having someone you love, who loves you, giving you a warm embrace makes me feel safe, and subconsciously helps to open up.
Not me zoning out at the exact same time you both did 🤣😭 I was like “oh, perfect!”
I loved this episode. I always struggled with comparing myself because I was bullied all throughout my childhood and I quite literally took all of those mean words they used to call me into adulthood and used them on myself. I didn't deserve all those mean things I said about myself. When I turned 27 idk what it was but everything just clicked. I would have these flashbacks to those times when I was a kid, as I remember them vividly and could actually see why people treated me the way they did. It was a reflection of them and what they were going through, and had nothing to do with me. They were projecting. I just wish I had that realization sooner, but better late then never. And when Andrew said "instead of wondering how we can stop comparing ourselves, we should be thinking how can we love ourselves more." That hit different for me. ❤Thanks for the chat ❤
I BINGED all of your episodes yesterday at work, I love this podcast! You both are doing a fantastic job! Can't wait to listen more.
Beneficiary 😂😂😂 that made me actually laugh out loud 😂😂😂
I love how you guys openly talk about all this stuff. for a long time it was hard for me to show my feeling in front of others because I was raised to hide ba feelings. Seeing others being open an struggle with similare problems make it so much easier to cope and get out of my shell
Not gonna lie, I was hesitate on watching this episode because I thought it would trigger me even more with what is going on with me but I'm glad I didn't. This episode really helped me and I want to thank both of you for creating a safe space for me and everyone else. Yall are building a beautiful community, that I am so happy to be apart of🩷
This podcast is exactly how its supposed to be...you guys talk to use on a personal level and i literally save your podcast as if it's dessert i watch all the boring things when im doing stuff but u guys...its a whole thing..i have my dinner ready my couch and blankets cozy up...i save u guys the best for last cant wait to watch u guys grow!
Finding a good podcast is like finding a good therapist. And you guys are perfect for me! Love you guys! 💕
I don’t even like podcasts but have watched you both for years and THIS is it!!!! I’ve died laughing and cried hearing these, so thank you so much for putting yourself out there and KEEP POSTING ❤❤❤
I love how open you guys are with us. Creates such a wonderful community
I also have nighttime anxiety and it makes me sleep in late and loose a part of my day then depresses me all over again when my day ends. besides a routine you can go and get actual meds from a doctor after a diagnosis that help with anxiety and help you sleep. It’s a real thing so I feel you 😭
What I really love about my work is that nobody is allowed to have their phone for the entire day, even during lunch breaks. It feels so normal, everyone chat, no one is mindlessly scrolling, nobody misses it really. Sitting with your own thoughts is so natural and healthy. Years ago I stopped using social media and I think its one of the best things I’ve done for myself, social medias are trully depressing. Everytime I scroll for to long I feel like crap, like I waisted so much time, that I’m useless, and the content… oh my god. Nowaday the only time I spend on my phone is with TH-cam videos on the background, with real and interesting people like you two. I love your videos and listen to every single one of your podcast, can’t wait for the next one ! Thank you so much for talking about your struggles, Andrew is right it really help people out there. You are both very brave ❤
this podcast has honestly made me view my mental health so much differently than i ever have before, you two give such good advice.
I love your podcast
Why is this the best part of waking up on Mondays instead of my Folgers love you Andrew and Sam y'all need to have your mom's on the podcast with you or your boyfriends
Sam I’m like you I cannot make a morning routine for the life of me & your laugh when Andrew corrected you about benefianry I DIED
Not me crying at this. I never talk about feelings when I'm struggling. I grew up in a home where you don't talk about feelings. At 32 I'm working in therapy for my kids
ive been crying so much because ive been working 24?7 for school but theres still so much to do... thank you for this
The issue w/ trying to have a routine, is that somedays when you can’t do it all && then might have even more than usual on top of that, it feels like I’m not even doing the bare minimum. And then you feel disappointed in yourself for not accomplishing what’s basically already set up for yourself.
I love that you guys upload first thing in the morning that way when I get to work I haven’t something to look forward to❤
That meow at the end was my favorite thing ever🤣❤️
Andrew is my spirit animal after that “I don’t wanna know it gives me anxiety spool.” Cause I mean same. Never met anyone that has the same reaction. Like I mean ever since Samantha mentioned the Yellowstone guess what I lay awake thinking about lol
you guys, thank you so much for this! Like this literally has helped me so much cause a lot of people don't know what I struggle with because I quite literally put the biggest mask on most of the time, even to my own husband cause I don't want to be a burden. I know he wouldn't feel that way but I feel that way. But body issues and just getting overwhelmed with multiple simple tasks is a struggle lol YA GIRL NEEDED THIS!
This podcast has been so great and exceeded my expectations!! I think this is going to be really big for you guys 🩵
Who else here found Sam through Andrew? 😊🙋🏻♀️ I’m SO happy their friendship brought me to Sam and now this podcast 😁
I watched 8 episodes of fame-ished yesterday totaling 14 hrs all together. Now of course that was with pauses or rewinding because I got distracted and had to rewatch to see what they said. I didn’t go to bed till 3:30am. But it was so worth it!!! I love y’all!!!! Now it’s 12:46pm the next day and I’m awake and going to watch the last two episodes!!! I’m obsessed with y’all and this podcast!!! God bless y’all!
At the beginning u said how 25 changed things and it did for me too 25 I woke up from a 8 year abusive relationship and found a way to break out of it. My anxiety tick is scratching my thumbs mental health sucks, I am autistic with adhd, eating disorder (I will binge eat and then not eat for days to punish myself) ptsd and anxiety so it’s nice to here things from other ppl so u don’t feel alone ❤
Oh man…it feels like yesterday that I was 25. Y’all are still young. I’m going to be 41. Time flies soooo fast and I wish I could go back to 25. Thank you for starting a podcast. I love listening to you both ❤
I appreciate ya'll bring up about the mental health issues. I have anxiety, depression and PTSD. Listening to your podcast on Mondays make me motivated to start the week on a positive note. I love yall so much, keep being yall beautiful self. ❤
Thank you for getting anxiety and the news correct 😂
I don't usually comment but I did have a suggestion for going to restaurants alone and not being on your phone! When I go, I take a journal with me and write about my experience: where i am, what I see, how I feel, etc. No music, just taking in my surroundings and writing out how I feel in the moment!
I love this!!!
This was absolutely perfect!!! 10000% the best pod cast yet and it all made sence! So relatable! I love your videos before but these pod casts are fire 🔥 They make me laugh, cry and teach me. Love you guys!! ❤
I have severe obsessive compulsive disorder and ADHD and I learned THIS YEAR for me to be successful at mundane tasks that don’t get me a dopamine release and I get overwhelmed and my executive dysfunction kicks in - I have to make a process first.
I figure out a process that will cater to my habits. Like I keep my face washing routine in 3 different places - my bathroom, my vanity, and my nightstand. That way wherever I’m at I can start my night time routine. Sounds stupid and simple but it helps SO much.
I will say from my personal experience working a 9-5 job I still can not shut down the go go go mentality I feel like I need to keep working and that’s learned behavior from my mother.
I feel this as well. I'm so used to 10 and 12 hour jobs, that a 9 to 5 seems like such a luxury. 😩
Yall have not dissapointed with this podcast...I have loved every episode so far
Yayyy just about finishing the podcast. I am so happy to see ppl not as uptight with Mental illness. I relate to a lot that you said regarding ED and anxiety
This podcast definitely makes my Monday’s. I always look forward to watching it. Wow episode 8 already. Ive listened to every episode and I love it. I added this podcast to my morning routine. Andrew and Sam thank you making this podcast!! Can’t wait for more!! ❤❤❤
I love that your videos are over an hour long because I can watch the whole thing at the gym without having to worry to switch between videos.
Love you both and this podcast so much 💜
I want to say… thank you!! Because watching you guys has helped me a lot. Not only for myself but please know…. That my gf goes through a lot and simply just watching your videos has helped me understand her so much. And you have helped me realize how much i so love her and we can get thru these things together. I love you guys and i logo forwards to the podcasts!!
Harlow's meow at the end should be like the signature Famished podcast ending. It was perfect 👌 lol.
I’m so glad I’m not the only one feeling like this. Thank you for this episode 🤍
Not sure if Jerryl reads these comments/you show them to him… but I have never related to someone so much than when you mentioned his OCD & Trich pulling and the feeling of self-sabotaging determination and anxiety. Anyway, it was comforting to hear that someone else feels the exact same way and that it’s not a complete secret/taboo topic. ♥️
I feel like binge eating is on a spectrum. Just like you can have narcissistic tendencies without being a narcissist. Because I don't eat to the point of making myself sick, but I absolutely have binging episodes.
You two are babies! I have kids older than you. The two of you together are hilarious, love the podcast!❤
Thank you for putting out content together. I really appreciate that!!
I love listening to this Mondays before school while I get ready thank you two for being yourselves ❤
"It's a black screen" haha
love y'all's podcast
As someone who’s had sleep problems because of ADHD, anxiety, during pregnancy and outside of it, the supplement that helped me the most with sleep was magnesium glycinate! I tried ashwaghanda, melatonin, prescription meds and eventually it stopped working.
Magnesium glycinate has been the only supplement that gets me to fall asleep, stay asleep, AND go back to sleep if I get woken up too early. I’d look into it!!
This podcast makes my Mondays and the beginning of my week so much better. The way you have a sit down discussion style is refreshing. Makes a comfortable conversation for so many and the subjects easier to face for themselves such as mental health. Thank you for your hard work and reaching out to so many. ❤
Sam’s tea pot laugh at beneficiary🤣
As a teacher, I have plenty of routine and im still going through it mentally. Have been for probably half my life. Sometimes it’s just a chemical imbalance. I had no reason to have anxiety and depression as a child. My parents are wonderful. It’s just how I am and supposedly some of my family members on my mom’s side are.
As an adult now, I have a hard time handling traumatic events in life. A car wreck stopped me from being able to sleep in the dark, drive on the highway, and caused me to have severe panic attacks.
Recently some pipes busted in my house. I can’t shower at my house, stay there calmly, without panicking at any sound. Many of my anxiety is money rooted. If I didn’t worry about money, I wouldn’t worry about these traumatic things as much because they could be handled quickly and with ease. That’s just my take. I think it’s different for everyone.
This is such an important and helpful episode. Thankyou both ❤❤❤
I love when I get to see your cat Sam, one of the best parts tbh
Omg I loved this episode! I love how real you guys are and not afraid to speak your mind! Andrew is no BS and I can’t get enough of it!! Keep it up❤️
I thought I spent too much time on my phone like 8 hours at most and y’all been on it for 13 & 14 hours I’m dead 😂
Hey guys! I’ve been a very longtime subscriber of Sam and have seen you both grow as TH-camrs/influencers. I don’t typically comment on videos (taking a note from Sam and pushing out of my comfort zone) but I had to just say this podcast is truly awesome. I love feeling like I’m a part of you guys just chatting, it feels like a much needed hangout/rant sesh with friends (not a forced, scripted,podcast) Thank you both for making me (and likely many others) feel sane by being people with platforms who don’t pretend to be perfect all the time. Side note: I appreciate how serious you are about mental health while also being able to respectfully make light of it (and making my laugh my arse off)😂 keep being beautiful humans 💕✨and thank you.
I was dying at beneficiary 😂😂😂
today is technically my monday at work so i'm so thankful for both of you and this podcast
I always feel more seen after watching these 🙏🏼 thank you guys for always sharing your vulnerabilities
Monday pod day is my favorite!!!!
I love love love you two. I have been watching for a long time cause I’m a small town WI girl myself and omg I love this.
I’m loving the podcasts. We love you because we relate so much 💕 btw you guys are not oldddd I’m 23 and been a fan for a while.
You guys are the best part of Mondays!!!!
Speaking of sleep issues: I watch Jaclyn Hill and she said there’s a company called Beam that makes night time drinks for sleep has helped her sleep so much since she stopped drinking. Just thought I’d comment in case anyone sees this and needs it!❤
I look forward to this podcast each week!
Andrews face hurts!!!! I understand cause IT'S KILLING ME😂😂😂
(MamaTmi❤)
Love you guys! So happy you guys are doing this podcast! ❤️❤️❤️
I look forward to this every week 💕
I actually really related to this episode, thank you so much! Love you both! 💖
Needed this to get through the first hour of my work day 💛
I haven’t watched it yet, but I have loved every episode and just woke up early (on my one day off!) to watch. I know it’s not going anywhere, I’m just excited haha
love love love you guys, makes my Mondays 100 times better!
hi guys! I love your podcast and personal channels. I’ve watched sam for years and you are so comforting to me. I was on the fameished instagram lately and saw all of the hate comments from trolls. It makes me so sad that you two get comments attacking your looks on a completely normal post☹️ I know you guys make jokes about it but just know that it’s okay to block all comments on there and prioritize your mental health. I just care about you sam and don’t want those comments to get to you☹️❤️ I hope you both have a fantastic week and know that everyone watching on youtube loves you and is here for you!!
Sam I love these ears!! So cute! Andrew the hair is flawless today 🤩🫶🏻
I never comment on videos but commenting to show support to your podcast! Seriously love you both
The last meow made the wait till the end completely worth it
Sam I agree with you about free time making your mental health worse.. ever since I’ve had a routine I feel so much better
Y’all make mondays something I actually look forward to now
I died laughing at the beneficiary bit
Adding this to my Monday podcast rotation has brightened my week