Yes u r right. But love just happens. No one searches/ tries to find it. U just feel good and strongly attached to someone and really want to marry her, take care of her and always keep them happy. U can't even see them shedding a drop of tear. It really hurts u 😢
Been a few years...... what can one do..... smoke it away, drink it away, work it away.... you can;t delete the feelings you got for someone when they gave you so much to feel :/
Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would BUT I DON'T WANT TO FALL OUT OF LOVE! Like I can't imagine living without being in love with him.
I do, her and I work together (Now I know what people say about work relationships) but her and I just connect so well, I make her laugh, she always gives me a happy smile when she see's me, always sits with me. But she has a boy friend, sometimes I feel like she knows that I like her, and sometimes I feel like she feels the same for me, but she is a good girlfriend and won't run off, I can respect that of course, but then, how much I would give for it to be different
MY EX GOT INTO DRUGS AND BAD RELATIONSHIPS, WE WERE ON AND OFF FOR 6 YEARS THEN 14 YEARS APART AND TALKED TO HER ON THE PHONE, SHE DIDNT REMEMBER WHAT I LOOKED LIKE BARELY REMEMBERED THE 6 YEARS OF US, NEVER FORGET ONE THING BOUT HER, STILL CANT
Falling in love with someone you can never be with is very painful. You can do nothing about it except, accepting the reality and move on with your life.
A True Love Official im going thru it with a guy friend. I like him but i know for sure he doesnt like me that way which i accept but what makes it more painful is that he talks abt the person he ACTUALLY likes to me and tells me all abt her and she sounds like an amazing girl and im so happy for him. Im not suprised im not the one but i still wish i was the one.
A Gay Has No Name what, I don’t get it sorry..! ? And just enjoy pain I feel that love so painful thing but we just need to learn, how we can celebrate it ...!
One of the worst feelings In the world is being heartbroken by which a relationship only happened in your head. Because how or when do you know it’s over, when it never even started ;(
It is, it's a combination of excruciating, stinging and numbing pain. All of those. It's the pain that makes you question everything, literally everything.
‘Spending every moment thinking of someone, who doesn’t think of you for a moment.’ Fell in that hole and got stuck there for a long time. It’s soul crushing for sure.
I choose to love you in silence… For in silence I find no rejection, I choose to love you in loneliness… For in loneliness no one owns you but me, I choose to adore you from a distance… For distance will shield me from pain, I choose to kiss you in the wind… For the wind is gentler than my lips, I choose to hold you in my dreams… For in my dreams, you have no end. Rumi
This year makes 50 years since I first saw her. We have been through too much to list here. Her mother said I was her first choice, unfortunately I was anything but for her father. Our paths crossed many times over the years and about 6 years ago she called me to have lunch. We talked for hours and finally when I was about to leave, she said, "I want to tell you I love you". We still have not been able to work things out, due to illness, my illness, but I can tell you, I love her more today than I ever thought I could. Even if we never are together, loving her and knowing she loves me means everything to me.
if the concept of another life is real, i hope the both of you get to be together. i'd really like to know about your story though, that's if you're comfortable with it. hope you have a great life ahead.!!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.... Touches my heart. I wish you both the best of luck, and health, and enjoy everyday of having this great love in your lives. 💙
Chicken Nuggets I met someone on the internet and I didn’t believe he was 13 so he showed me what he looked like and I was like “OMFG HES FRICKEN CUTE”
nějaká Nikča øøf well this person posted a picture a year ago and someone asked what one was him and he said who he was and he looked his age but we talk a lot and he’s really kind And we have a lot in common *me 12* 13 In 4 weeks I’ll be the same age as him lmao 😂
when you love someone so much, but you know that you'll never be the one-that they'll always love someone instead. that feeling is one of the worst feelings in the world
Here’s something that hurts more: having that person marry you then betray you by cheating then take half of your money and leave with someone else while giving you the finger.
it’s hard to be in love with someone you can’t have because you’re waiting for them to fall for you, but they’re waiting for someone they can’t have to fall for them.
Bon Bon I cry a lot, and I don't deal with it well. I'm in another relationship, and I still miss him. It took everything in me to tell him it's over, but we're both healthier apart 😔 I'm praying for you, sending love and strength to you ♥️
@@LightandLove73 thank you so much for your kind words. I left him, I cried myself out too. I still have love for him but my heart is no longer in the same place. Wishing you all the success and happiness in the world ❤️
I would never take it back because even though it hurts so much it is also the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. I wouldn't take it back because I love her.
This has over 5 million views. It blows my mind and gives me a strange sense of comfort to know that there's millions of people who share the same painful way of loving
🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 @1besieged🌸sigh - being love bombed, then scammed out of your savings/possessions because you're blinded by the love bombing and then being ghosted is right up there with unrequited love😟😕😢😦😶 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
@@SunMoonShadow I got out while the getting was good, and I left him 2X actually, I know he won't be pulling no dirty deeds on the next women he tries to scam on.... nope.
You phrased that as if you managed to put it behind you. If so, I really am glad for you. It is an awful feeling. But please! Please! How exactly did you get over it? This thing is voraceously eating away at whatever's left of my mind and soul. It has been for the past 4 years now. All I now want is for it to stop, I don't even care for her to love me back anymore. It's worn me out...
MadViewer01 yes I have come out of that phase, consoled myself by many words and situations. I consoled saying everything is temporary in this world, even if he would have been together with me today while dying I have to go alone from this world and one day that day would come so why am I mourning when we all know that nothing is constant. So cheer up and make yourself that busy that you don't even get time to think about her.
MadViewer01 don't you just hate it that there are people who get over so effortlessly. You and I appear to be on the same boat. How I cope is by keeping myself busy and I try my best to avoid these kinds of videos. Also I do find solace in meditation. There are several videos on here on healing. You can search them. Healing binaural beats or healing hypnosis. Something like that. May not work for everybody but it helped me. Do give those a try.
My friend doesnt believe that I have depression because she said "you're still young, and you cant be depressed you're always happy" So what if im faking it? "And plus people with depression doesnt tell it to anyone" You're my fucking bestfriend and you said we can fucking share our feelings to eachother ofcourse im gonna tell you that "pft, you arent depressed shut up. It just really easy to say 'i wanna die', but look! I dont wanna be dead. Stop faking it" shes real fucking stupid and doesnt understand how I feel
:/ almost 4 years ago my ex took my 1 and 1/2 year old daughter whike 5 months pregnant with my son and left me for a so called friend that just got out of jail and lives with his mom and I was trying to help get a job by driving him around to apply. (he is now in jail for life without parole) so she gets strung out on drugs and bounces around living in a van and apparently the back of tire shops and wherever but nobody could track her down. So a 24 days ago her mother contacted me and told me she had emergency temporary custody and asked if I wanted to be in their lives and I said of course. I spent everyday that weekend all day playing at the park with them it was great. So for the last 3 weeks I have talked to my kids and her almost every day and my transmission went out on my truck so I couldn't see them again as soon as I would have liked but we had a 4 way phone conference with the mother, her mother, myself and the caseworker. Amanda went off and isn't even eligible for custody due to drug charges. So me and her mom Patricia had agreed that she wanted me to have full custody of both of them and we made a plan with the caseworker and everything. Well Tuesday I get a call from the caseworker saying their is a custody hearing in 2 days and I can't reschedule. I tell everyone I can't be there or I'll get fired I had to have more notice than that I can't afford to lose my job that's detrimental to the kids and everything. Well they awarded her mom full custody and I have no visitation rights. I've cried so many tears over these years that when I got to see them I was happier than Ive ever been. Her mom has a history of drug use and a criminal record as well as living with her 80 something year old moms boyfriend and she is on bad health also. Its terrible.if you can this has crushed my soul. This is a level of pain I didn't know existed. And I hit a semi head on both of us doing 55 or 60 on purpose.
The most beautiful thing about one sided love is that it's pure and with no conditions or wrong intentions. I wish the other person could ever understand it.
I’m going through this right now. And sometimes the pain is unbearable. I know that I have to walk away but I can’t. I still hope that some day he’ll love me back.
The love you can never have is the most intense and heartbreaking kind of love you'll feel Yet it’s the most pure... everything you do for this person is out of pure love nothing else . You only want them to be happy
@@Melinda8162 You just know when it stops when you start working on yourself, make it about you, you're the one loving, you're the one capable of love.
@@misterkevin_rs4401 Thank you. It's probably more my fault. I fell so hard for him. And I don't see it ending too soon. But, I'll just have to accept what happens and yes it is hard.
The rejection of the person that doesn't love you back isn't what hurts. It's the long process of dealing with the pain of forcing yourself to see why you were wrong about them and letting go that really hurts. It's slow and agonizing, but eventually, you become stronger for it.
Falling in love with someone you can never have hurts, especially when you knew since the beginning that it was never going to happen, but at the same time, it is beautiful because in a way, it makes you human, of course at first when you look back you feel stupid and lonely and sad but when you really reflect on it it just means that you feel everything you needed to feel , you're human, and we can't choose who we fall in love with. So dont worry, the pain will pass and you will see this experience as something that made you grow
Yes, that is called settling and it will leave you just as harmed later in life when you will constantly wonder why you were so insecure on your own that you settled when you realize at 60 something that you would have been happier on your own. I know so many people who have, and they regretted it as long as they lived once they understood that settling for someone they liked a lot cut off any hope of finding real love. I am mid sixties and have been alone, no longer even in the market, not for a long time, but I am glad I lived it the way I did rather than settling for security, companionship, or sex. Because when you are staring at that dirt nap headed your way you will also know that life would have been nothing without hope.
Have you ever seen someone in public that you never knew but felt a instant connection with that person like if they were your soulmate , true love at first sight and it hurt knowing you will never see them again... If you ever feel like this when you see someone be brave approach them politely start a conversation with them you never know they might feel the same way, you just need to spark the flame 🔥❤️
That....is terrifyingly true. I do like to imagine we all find happy endings to forfill our lives. But that may be just blind optimism. But it is optimism nonetheless.
Never say never (unless the person is married), but, don't expect the person to change and start loving you, but it is always possible, even if it may not always be likely. We just have to continue living our lives, bettering ourselves, etc. It may be hard at times, especially if you have to see that person at work, school, etc. several times a week, like I do (well, I could quit my job, but I would need another first, and it's not so bad when I'm near her, she doesn't hate me or anything, but is friendly still, but just doesn't want a relationship, told another girl I am not her 'type' Maybe she will change and realize her 'types' fail, since she's still single and is getting older, already 29, but maybe not. I won't wait around for her, I have to do my best to move on. And if she ever comes around, maybe I won't even be that into her anymore.).
There was this girl, perfect in every way, the star of my darkest night. I still remember the first time she confessed to me, even though she was 3 years older, i couldn't sleep that night. I'd always say that i was going to be there for her no matter what, and wrote poems for her and did the best i could since we were long distance. But we were a world apart, neither of our families would accept each other, and the more time passed by, i realized she would never be able to be happy with me. To this day, i think of her smile, and her eyes, and really hope she finds someone who can keep her happy. The pain never subsides, does it? It just becomes numb at a point.
I feel you, man. I just experienced this today. I confessed my intentions to this girl that I've been interested in for the last 9 months. Today, I finally asked her out, and it turns out that she's married. I feel like such an idiot, but I genuinely didn't know that she is married. She is beautiful, kind, and has an amazing, calming aura. Perhaps the 'ideal' woman in my eyes. I've come to accept that she isn't meant for me. It hurts, but I must move on.
Many men won't admit this. But even us men "some of us" pine for a woman we can't have. It's been such for myself for over 30 years . I went on with life But she will always be the one that got away.
RFKFANTS67 I feel you bro. Me too. It's been seventeen years but I still think of her every now and then. I know she's settled down and happy and that makes me happy also because I still love her and always will.
J Bro you really love her :) I know it’s hard but I just feel like being happy for her happiness is such a pure form of love. Your family needs you too, and you can be happy for them :)
J Bro wow... but don't you ever feel like it's worthless? And have you dated anyone since then? Just curious about your lifestyle in this case..I sorta know a person that I hope doesn't end up this way..
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Fatima I'm in the same boat and TRUST ME I don't want to do this to myself... Literally, if I could forget about him I would. I don't think anyone wants to be fixated on someone this long without being corresponded. IT HURTS
I wonder how many times someone has fallen in love with me, or just something *simple* about me that they love, but never told me. And imagine: You have been in someone's mind countless of times before. Perhaps someone is thinking about you *right now.*
Spoopy Lee or nobody is actually thinking about you and you just think that everybody likes you and you trust ppl who you think you actually are friends with one day they will just turn their back on you without any reason so you just give up on thinking and imagine that someone will ever like you
It's worst when you know you love each other, but because of certain circumstances you can never be together. You where meant only to cross paths but never to stay. 😢😔💔 I love him so much it hurts.
Even I am also having the same pain.It 's more painful wen u see him almost every day. U both want to say a lot but u hv to go.I wish I cud hv met him earlier or may b never😢
I’m in love with someone who lives in a different country and has different culture. We met when I visited his country. It’s so painful and beautiful at the same time. The worst part is that he loves me to but we can’t get each other. It hurts so much because I can’t stop loving and missing him. I can’t let him go.
I feel you too. 😭🥺 We were just meant to cross paths and forget one another. His actions made me fall in love with him.But I know that its wrong cause he belongs to someone else.Why does he have to do that?
"I can't think about anything or anybody else and I can't sleep, I can't breathe. I can't live". This describes our feelings so well. Seing that person you can never have living her happy life while you crave her all day.
I’ve been praying for a while now and I’m gonna continue even cuz she friend zoned me. I’m 14 but I really hope that someday, we might end up together in the future if god allows.
yes but if it doesn’t work out after you prayed it’s because God has a bigger and better plan for you. He has someone better for you OR He just knows what’s truly right for you.Trust Him. God bless.
falling in love with someone you can never be with, is the worst..you can never get over them..you can never move on..your heart will always be with them.. And it's more worst when you've fallen in love with the version of that person that you've created in your head, and realising that it can never be reality is so hard
@@faridaaali6170 it’s the version you create of them in your head that could never be reality ‘cause of a variety of reasons. It just hurts badly to know you’re falling hard for someone who could never be who you need them to be. But it’s also a reality to realize that the love you are looking for is already within you. No where else.
Honestly, there is a beauty in not being with someone you love. Albeit tragic, and stark, but beautiful as well. To survive these things, you can survive anything.
@@araucana1976 The love ain+t hugs and kisses and sex, as this world presents. /be not deceived nor naive. What is unknown life fact? - parenthood is GOD given and love is not LUST. John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. About being single: 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
Survive for what? We’re all gonna die someday anyway, what good is it to survive it? There’s nothing but more pain and more disappointment, and losing more pieces of your already broken heart. Let’s just get it over with
@lucasyoder22 eh people get over it Hell most people fall in love a few times I had a crush in high school nothing happened overtime I forgot about it Now I'm in a relationship with someone I love who loves me ... and I'd say that's alot more beautiful then a one sided love Along with if you don't tell that person hoe you feel ... well your an idiot xD Talking from experience
True pain is neither a cut nor a broken bone. True pain is making memories with someone you love, then watching that someone you love fade into a memory.
The sad thing is I fall in love with people but they have never fallen in love with me. There has been countless times where I’ve devalued myself because the person I see the world in will never look at me the same way. That kind of debilitating reminder stabs through my heart every time & I go into myself. I find the flaws that I have & fashion a noose with them that I hang myself with every time I feel that I am falling again. If I let myself fall. I have no one to blame but my ignorance. There is an emptiness within me that has been cultivated & nourished by those who have surrounded me. It’s not that I “can never have” this person. It is that they will never desire me.
I'm sorry. I would look up dating/relationship advice about laws of attraction and stuff. I think it could help. In my case, I've fallen in love with a celebrity and I need music training for years to audition for his company. Actually I had been interested in music training before I met him but unfortunately I've barely made progress due to depression, so my audition will have to be delayed by a year or 2.
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Cinn you sound so much like me...….I have that emptiness in me also. I just wish before I die somebody would love me. I see myself at my funeral and nobody there and no tears. That breaks my heart
I relate completely. The exact thing has happened to me. I don't know what is wrong with me. Am I unlovable? I'm always seen as just a friend. Even after telling them how I really feel. And the worst part is I have to see them everyday. I have to share the same office has them. It's so painful.
I seen a girl who kept staring at me, and I think she was going to approach me, but never did. She was SOOO beautiful. I should've just been a man and went up to her myself. I can barely make up her face in my head, but in my heart, I know she's just so beautiful. I will never forget the feeling I had when I saw her face. If only I could time travel!!!😭😭😭 I daydream in class, and it's her I think of. Then, when I try to ACTUALLY think of her and remember her face, I can't. I just can't😭. And it just hurts SOOOO much to know I'll never see her again smfh
I fancy my best friend and I love her more than anything in the world even if she prefers just for us to be best friends and I will always be there for her always i just wished we could be more than just friends 😢😢😭
@@SSs-ur5fo It gets better in time. Acknowledge what you feel. One day the pain will lessen until it won't hurt as much. I hope you always you choose yourself. You're worthy.
I just wanna be happy now I can't remember the last time i smiled out of happiness i just want to be with her I'll give anything to be with her anything
Yes , it's even worse when they are far away from you and you don't know if they are alright you can't even consent to being there its hard when they don't even know how you feel about them
I'm in the same boat. I hope we both can move on. When I found out he was married and had a sweet kids, I felt like being sick-I actually went into the fetal position, I was so upset. I've never had such a strong reaction to anyone like that in my life. I can never have him--he is so madly in love with his wife.
I feel you . I know the guy is in love with me and I'm also in love with him . I know we can never be together it's hard to accept the fact and it's even harder to let him go. It hurts every time I walk in and pretend not to see him . I know I'm hurting him but I have no way out of this . It hurts but what can we do about it . We we're meant to fall in love with each other but not to stay together 😔😭💔
There was this one girl in high school. She was genuinely kind. She was nicer to me than any other girl, and pretty much any other person in high school. The problem is that she was dating a good guy. The Cure's Pictures of You became my secret anthem. Especially when I went off to college and only had her senior picture and the message she wrote on the back. I saw The Cure in concert about a year and a half ago. As crazy as it sounds, I got tears in my eyes when they played that song during an encore. She ended up marrying her high school boyfriend and created a great family.
She has been gone for 10 years but she was and still is the true love of my life. She is happily married and lives on the other side of the world. I miss her and think about her often but it also gives me a good feeling that she is happy. Why? just because i love her.
@@hajo4522 I had just lost someone I thought he is better off being with someone. Because I didn't Adore him the way I should. I thought we are not compatible. I thought we are not a good match . I avoid and didn't give time and effort in it .. I wish I was at that level of love when he loved me. Why people must regret on things I told myself not to be regretful but I ended up making the biggest regret in life
I once heard someone say that unrequited love is a ‘special kind of hell’. Yep. That description is perfect. And I have a horrible feeling it will last a lifetime…
I guess that's how stalkers feel. It's more a delusion and obsession. It's unhealthy. Real love is something you build through the course of a relationship. It's not this obsessive infatuation with someone you barely know.
@@GizmoMaltese Not nice to judge a stranger! I ghosted said person if you must know! Perhaps you need to ask why you need to insult people on comments sections. Silly when I essentially agree with your comment. Think before you type.
Wow lol I’m here wondering if she still think of me after 1 year but she’s in another relationship.. do u think it’s still possible that she does? Fuck no 🧐 oh ain't that some shit 😂😂😂😂
I wish I never met him . I still feel the pain even after a year has passed. I met him again and now the most just increased . The most painful part is when you can't even talk to him because you feel so guilty for loving him😥😔
mariam tamale you find them inside you. You change in a thousand beautiful ways. You find them in simple things. You find them in other people, in everyone you love. They’re a part of you forever. Maybe one day we can all find peace in that :)
dark angel thing is he love her more than she knows if she would com home an give a honest true love an her Hart it will be great getting out here soon when it comes n if can't b with him at lowest won't when he got is the thing just give him a full 100 it hasn't been done yet an she knows this b true for one time mean it she hasn't yet
dark angel well u sleep if u was here n my arms why won't u com get back n them an stop the bull now u know u love me an u not happy where u at so com one
P B you literally said what I’ve been wondering for the past month now. There’s this girl who friend zoned me after 4 years of me working up the courage to tell her how I feel. At the same time that my heart is telling me to move on, it’s also telling to not let go in case there’s hope and that I can’t just let go after having loved her for four years. I don’t want to live life like this but moving on seems like something impossible rn for me
David Laranjeira just telling her is way better than not because if you tell her how you feel even if she doesn’t feel the same it’s 10 times better than a lifetime of regret
it's sad that falling in love is basically giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart but trusting them not to pull the trigger but when they do pull it you wish that they would have aimed at your head😭
i get what you’re trying to say, i really do. but assuming you were talking about dying, wouldn’t you die whether or not the gun was pointed at the heart or head? 😂
The hardest part when moving on from someone you love is where you realize no matter how slowly you walk away from them,,,they will never run back after you
earlier this year i fell so, so head over heels for this guy. he was absolutely perfect to me. i noticed the little things he did, like fidget with his hands when he got nervous or angry, and crinkle his nose when he was excited. but he never noticed any little things about me. he made me believe he was in love with me and then left me for someone else. someone who would never notice and appreciate him and the things he did like i do.
Same situation i felt that,,, it so sad really really sad,, thats life sometimes fair sometimes unfair,,, we fell in love to somebody who doesn't love us back
Makes me laugh when hot young women, literally the most valuble person on the plannet in terms of being given value and stauts at birth are complaining like this, this shit isnt for you, this shit is for men and possible very elderly women and heavily disables women only, for you, your just determined to feel sorry for yourself, i was about to say you can have more love and sex and offers within 5 mins of going out and doing nothing than all men in their entire lives dedicated to learning attraction to women, but its not even that, you dont even have to go out, you just need to post a comment on youtube and people are fallig over you ! i cant stand this victimhood modern women portray themselves in, your good ! you have everything, your life is easy beyond belif your a young pretty woman, its like prince harry or prince william complaining they cant get a date to a man like me who has never had anyone been rejected by everyone right up until middle age ! you just dont get how easy you have it and it makes my blood boil because theres people out there (99.99999 men) who will die alone live aline never have anyone, EVER, thats something women literally cant understand, and your moaning when all it takes for you is one youtube comment ! man life is sick ! i hope to god your never in a serious accident and lose all your looks and are wheel chair bound, but to be honest not even that would teach you how a lot of men feel because youl still be a lot better off because you will have experienced love and sex and affection, a ot of men never have, never will have anything but rejections from all women all the time, thats a fear that grips you at night, it kills a lot of young men too, and i understand why they are killing themselves at such an alarming rate,its this power gap between women having literally everything, you can have any man you ever see, that like maybe you can have 20 000 men a day with zero effort, weras a man might not get a woman in say 80 years of being alive, and its kiling men, its so sad, its outrageous and it must stop , sadly it wowntt stop because men are too afraid to complain and they are rightly scared if you complain as a man, your destroying any chance you ever have of a woman because women not only victim shame those men, but because there are soooo many hungry men they can afford to isolate him completly ! so you cant complain, you hav e a monopoly and its fucking outrageous ! literally you have everything and men have nothing and its one of the most important things on the plannet, its linked to the survival of our species and you have been given everything and me as a man have been born utterly wrthless and will continue to be worthless unless i can prove myself, non of you women ever hav e to do any of that becaue of your privelidge ! women check your privelidge, mens privelige is a 2% pay increase womens is being given the most valuble thing on the planet and have made men to be the most worthless thing on the plannet !
Never cried for anyone like this in life. But still I don't regret meeting that person. If it's not in fate, I'd still always have this feeling for that special someone.
Honestly this is really well said... For me, when i see this person i just feel the world seems more beautiful, but at the same time, i'm proud of myself that i'm not delusional, and i'm not obsessed with them, i even appreciate the person they are with... We cannot be with them, but it doesn't mean we can never be with someone we want to be with
I hope you read this and I hope you find someone who truly deserves you. I understand what you are going through because so am I. This girl I would do anything for her to be happy yet she is with another man. I been feeling like shit, nothing really excites me anymore. All I want is her but I can’t have her. I’m her friend that’s all I am to her.
Unrequited love is like condemnation from the cosmos. It’s so destructive to the self, it’s barely imaginable how you can possibly get past it, and indeed you can’t, or lucky are those who do.
I'm a man, and I understand and agree with this. Why? Because some men, like me, have gone through this situation, too. And, believe it or not, it's painful !
Babyjayybiebez Z well thats not exactly fair because if her friend is in love with him then by that logic neither of them could be with him, and it's also his choice to be with her friend. When you love someone yes you want to be with them, but even more so you value their happiness over your own even if it hurts more than anything ever has. You will continue on because you value their happibess over your own and that includes respecting who they are happy with.
This hits me on a deep personal level because I have been living with this pain for more than 30 years of my life. Im not getting into specifics but I met someone extraordinary beautiful when I was young but she was not from around and stayed for only a short while. But in that brief moment, my life changed forever. I just could not stop thinking of her and I have never been a whole and complete person ever since. The worst parts were the dreams I had of her. Some were so vivid that I really thought they were real. Im in my 40s now. Since then I had met plenty of other women. Slept with more than a few. Had the girlfriend/s but not a single one ever came to giving me the experience I had when I met the one I could not be with. I know I'll never be a whole and complete person but my only wish in life would be to see her again one more time and to wish her well and say a final farewell to her before I die. At least then, I'll be at peace in the end.
I’m in love with a guy who doesn’t even know I exist. It was just a small little crush but then his smile his eyes his personality everything about him is perfect and it’s not fair. I’ve never wanted someone or something so badly in my life he’s seriously all I want and I can’t have him. I’ve been through some painful shit but this is the worst I’ve even been through and I can’t do anything about it. I can’t control who I love anymore because no matter how hard I try to move on I just can’t .
To the person who read this, It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to loose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain trough your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved, because you are, I love you trough all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe you heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be, because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tired to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but dont your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me, because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it, when you don’t feel like belonging than build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind wants to have it. As one of the stars you see others stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in there life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence and when you can make me feel that way than you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you than don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart than I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general than I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic. Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water everyday in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer,I want you here. I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you a song as your friend. “Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you. In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here. I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay? Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :) have a good day and great years. I love you so much and am so proud of you, I hope you will remember my words- becho, the stranger that cares more about you than anything :)))
Mental pain is much much heavier than physical pain. Harder to overcome. I'm trying my best to overcome. But I don't know how long it takes. Day by day it's getting harder 💔
The worst part is when he calls you daily and is your best friend. At the same time knows about your feelings and encourages you to meet other people :(
Julia W I'm in love with my best friend. And it kills me to know he encourages me to be with other people and know he's with other people as well. I've been in love with this man for 6 years and I can't ever act on it.
@RealityHurts923 I kinda did it, once, when I was 10, it was messed up situation in general. I haven't had guys best friends until recently and nobody have ever invited me to a date, ever. My confidence levels are below 0 nowadays :/ I'm 21, by the way
I’ve been in love with my best friend for five years and I watched him crush and love and share his feelings and dreams about them to me and it crushed me everyday. Everyday since we both were first single I told him “I love you” every single day and he would always reply “I love you too but as a friend” and it didn’t do much make me angry but it made me cry for two years straight. Day after day I would say “I love you” and every time he would friendzone me. I knew one day he’d finally see me and fall for me the way I did with him. When we first started talking, it was on Facebook and i has been messaging him there since for a month and a half until we met in person. He and I went to the same school and he was a friends friend and the first day we talked I fell in love with him so much! I was over the moon. Everyday I would come home jump on Facebook and message him, asking him how his day was and how he was feeling and if anything new happened. When we met in person, I couldn’t believe that the guy I was talking over the internet with, the guy who I hadn’t met in person but only knew through friend was a couple kilometres away sitting down at lunch and reading a book. I feel in love with his personality before his appearance and that is so rare on this planet because everyone is so more interested in judging someone’s appearance before their personality. Yes this guy had a Facebook profile picture but I never really looked at it, I just added him by his name and just started messaging away. When I walked up to him and sat down, I introduced myself and got curious why he never sat with his friends. He told me that he liked to imagine a giant monster looking over everyone and the trees. After five years of friendship and crushing on him so much. He finally wanted to try dating with me. The first couple times didn’t work out because of personal issues from both parties but the following year we dated for a straight year and to be honest, my feelings changed a lot because he showed me the sort of person he was when he really didn’t need to worry about his character. You see, he like everyone else was wearing a mask and he wasn’t really the type who could love someone without being violent and controlling. I understand that relationships have their ups and downs but my experience in a relationship with someone I crushed for five straight year, changed my perspective on who he really was. My relationship was scary and after the first month I was afraid of him every day. He took control of my life and how I was to feel. He manipulated how others thought of me and used my past relationships as a trigger for my downfalls of depression and the thoughts for suicide. I was the closes person and I was the only person who really knew him and I mean this about the time before we started dating. Girls would always try working their way through me to be able to have him and I was so jealous but I supported his emotions and what made him happy. Once we started dating I really was, really the only person who really knew him and it was scary and dark. I’m slowly getting out of his control but it taught me that you don’t really know someone but that shouldn’t stop you from falling in love, it should really encourage waiting and learning and knowing the person with first hand of them alone than to experience after they have their grips of who you are.
I saw a physical therapist for 3 months after I broke my elbow. One of the loveliest women I had ever known, so fun and bubbly and sweet. But she was married, had kids, very happy woman. Having to act casual while saying goodbye to her on my last day was probably the best acting I've ever done. I went home and started sobbing a bit, and the months to come were very very sad as I couldnt stop thinking about her. It's been a year now and im much better, you do get over it, but man it hurts like nothing else.
I wish no one falls in this kind of love. It consumes you and it breaks you
Well i did and i really don't want anyone to feel Like that
Yes u r right. But love just happens. No one searches/ tries to find it. U just feel good and strongly attached to someone and really want to marry her, take care of her and always keep them happy. U can't even see them shedding a drop of tear. It really hurts u 😢
im 13 and hes 19
the person who kept me alive is fictional
Been a few years...... what can one do..... smoke it away, drink it away, work it away.... you can;t delete the feelings you got for someone when they gave you so much to feel :/
Agree
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could , I would but I don't want to"
More like: "Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would." (But I'm unable too)
And Ik this is a quote from the video but still^
wish it was easy :(
:===( why do I choose these choises I do
Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would BUT I DON'T WANT TO FALL OUT OF LOVE! Like I can't imagine living without being in love with him.
That title gave me feels. We all have that one person, don’t we?
I do, her and I work together (Now I know what people say about work relationships) but her and I just connect so well, I make her laugh, she always gives me a happy smile when she see's me, always sits with me. But she has a boy friend, sometimes I feel like she knows that I like her, and sometimes I feel like she feels the same for me, but she is a good girlfriend and won't run off, I can respect that of course, but then, how much I would give for it to be different
I keep falling for my high school ex. He's moved on to a lot of relationships and I'm still single. My current crush doesn't even know I exist. 😢
so fricking true!
yes
Kris LaWho yes
The worst feeling isn't being alone, it's being forgotten by someone you'd never forget.
Damn bro this hits
It's true...they've made such an impact in your life. You don't want to feel they're just getting on with theirs and you mean nothing.
And knowing they are happy with someone else while you think about that person each and every day even after so many years. 😔😔😔😔
It’s been two years since walked out of my life with him. She probably hasn’t thought much of me if at all and Ive shed so many tears for her.
MY EX GOT INTO DRUGS AND BAD RELATIONSHIPS, WE WERE ON AND OFF FOR 6 YEARS THEN 14 YEARS APART AND TALKED TO HER ON THE PHONE, SHE DIDNT REMEMBER WHAT I LOOKED LIKE BARELY REMEMBERED THE 6 YEARS OF US, NEVER FORGET ONE THING BOUT HER, STILL CANT
Falling in love with someone you can never be with is very painful. You can do nothing about it except, accepting the reality and move on with your life.
Mechamule haha
A True Love Official absolutely right
A True Love Official im going thru it with a guy friend. I like him but i know for sure he doesnt like me that way which i accept but what makes it more painful is that he talks abt the person he ACTUALLY likes to me and tells me all abt her and she sounds like an amazing girl and im so happy for him. Im not suprised im not the one but i still wish i was the one.
Nessa Gladys love is heaven only for those who know, how celebrate pain
A Gay Has No Name what, I don’t get it sorry..! ?
And just enjoy pain I feel that love so painful thing but we just need to learn, how we can celebrate it ...!
One of the worst feelings In the world is being heartbroken by which a relationship only happened in your head. Because how or when do you know it’s over, when it never even started ;(
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whtsaap him**
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Now, this hits differently
Never knew one sided love could be this painful.
Two sided love is worse.
Well Nunya, it is. And I can say this from experience.
That profile pic lol
It is, it's a combination of excruciating, stinging and numbing pain. All of those. It's the pain that makes you question everything, literally everything.
@@nasuhanazri3396 exactly. It's never ending
‘Spending every moment thinking of someone, who doesn’t think of you for a moment.’ Fell in that hole and got stuck there for a long time. It’s soul crushing for sure.
The moment when u tell to ur self "i wish i never met this person" but ... u know u just lied to ur self...
Truth...
Yeahhh true😭😭😓
I know
😔
Universal truth 😔
It's even worse when you see them every single day.
it is :´(
It really is
Shit YESS
School?
DocZero yes omg 💔
I choose to love you in silence…
For in silence I find no rejection,
I choose to love you in loneliness…
For in loneliness no one owns you but me,
I choose to adore you from a distance…
For distance will shield me from pain,
I choose to kiss you in the wind…
For the wind is gentler than my lips,
I choose to hold you in my dreams…
For in my dreams, you have no end.
Rumi
Wow
it hurt to me read this
😭😭
Damn this is deep
Kar3n love is hurt like disease
This year makes 50 years since I first saw her. We have been through too much to list here. Her mother said I was her first choice, unfortunately I was anything but for her father. Our paths crossed many times over the years and about 6 years ago she called me to have lunch. We talked for hours and finally when I was about to leave, she said, "I want to tell you I love you". We still have not been able to work things out, due to illness, my illness, but I can tell you, I love her more today than I ever thought I could. Even if we never are together, loving her and knowing she loves me means everything to me.
if the concept of another life is real, i hope the both of you get to be together. i'd really like to know about your story though, that's if you're comfortable with it. hope you have a great life ahead.!!
❤️❤️❤️
😮😮😮 wow. Touching))
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.... Touches my heart. I wish you both the best of luck, and health, and enjoy everyday of having this great love in your lives. 💙
God bless you
I hate how relatable this is but at the same time I love it.
Chicken Nuggets yep. I feel the same
Chicken Nuggets I met someone on the internet and I didn’t believe he was 13 so he showed me what he looked like and I was like “OMFG HES FRICKEN CUTE”
nějaká Nikča øøf well this person posted a picture a year ago and someone asked what one was him and he said who he was and he looked his age but we talk a lot and he’s really kind And we have a lot in common *me 12* 13 In 4 weeks I’ll be the same age as him lmao 😂
same
Chicken Nuggets I feel the same
One sided love can mentally destroy you...😥💔
It's the only kind of love, besides platonic love, that I've ever known.
@@ruisenor8993 I'm sorry to hear that:(
I know
Very true
😞
It hurts so bad when you told that person everything and now you are just strangers with memories
" I tried so hard and I'm never the one." -this hits me hard in the heart.
Sounds like a skill issue, become better.
@@jokerpilled2535 you sound like an asshole
So true
Me too...
@@jokerpilled2535 That's a very vague advice. You are not helping, you're just telling someone to get better
"I like dreaming about you
Because in my dreams you are always mine"
Tht hit me hard
But then you wake up. And you want to cry lol
@@anastasiarose5683 true😂😂
😭😭😭
Fake
when you love someone so much, but you know that you'll never be the one-that they'll always love someone instead. that feeling is one of the worst feelings in the world
Yes..
:(
Exactly.....
Yup goin through for past 2 years evry single ni8 nd now its ni8 3:37 am yp
m e l o d y yup
m e l o d y that’s the exactly feeling I have ... 3 years of this pain and it will go on forever..
Nothing hurts more than not being with the person you love
Here’s something that hurts more: having that person marry you then betray you by cheating then take half of your money and leave with someone else while giving you the finger.
You are right...I can imagine that... I think you've seen things like those...
Exactly. 😢
It's hurts everyday
It's one of the worst feeling when you realise you can never have the person you love. Men suffer the same but usually suffer in silence.
you're right. hurting so bad inside, it sucks
Same
+newstateonline I highly agree with you on that one, the feeling is.. soulbreaking.
yeah, I Literally Feel my Chest Hurt :(
newstateonline I agree, some women like to smile and laugh to mask the pain.
it’s hard to be in love with someone you can’t have because you’re waiting for them to fall for you, but they’re waiting for someone they can’t have to fall for them.
yeah..we same situations...
The cycle of love
It's difficult and the most devistating feeling. ... As the time have jss paused
Yahhh
Exactly the situation im in
You know it's love when all you want is that person to be happy , even if you're not part of their happeinss .
@Ronnie Moore
I said those exact words to the man I was leaving. It still hurts, but my heart was in the right place
@@LightandLove73 I said the same thing to the guy but I cannot leave. How do you deal with it?
Bon Bon
I cry a lot, and I don't deal with it well. I'm in another relationship, and I still miss him. It took everything in me to tell him it's over, but we're both healthier apart 😔
I'm praying for you, sending love and strength to you ♥️
@@LightandLove73 thank you so much for your kind words. I left him, I cried myself out too. I still have love for him but my heart is no longer in the same place. Wishing you all the success and happiness in the world ❤️
what if you're hurt in the process
I've felt this all my life. I'm nearly 50, and I was FINALLY the one chosen. I'm so grateful for my new wife
if it were choice who would choose this kind of love, so i wish we never met, but, we did 💔
Carlene by Olivia Pope 💔
I would never take it back because even though it hurts so much it is also the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. I wouldn't take it back because I love her.
maria help me please..... what is this movie name?
Falling in love with someone while you watch them fall in love for someone else is a different kind of pain.
It's the worst pain I wouldn't even wish on my enemies 😢
😢😢 that's the point ,when you start feeling ,life is worthless
😢😢😢
This
You can say that again. The pain is unbearable 💔💔💔
This has over 5 million views. It blows my mind and gives me a strange sense of comfort to know that there's millions of people who share the same painful way of loving
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
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@@meshachogan2473 hey man just listen to helecopter helecopter 🚁🚁🚁 song and everything will be restored 👍
Love is a risk, well worth taking. It’s better to have loved than to have never loved at all.
Spoken like someone who has never been heartbroken
So nicely said.
*after 1 eye contact with that cute cashier at the drugstore*
Ankine Apardian so go for him! Why is that an impossible love situation in your opinion?
Nourhan Salloum Bruh it's a joke..like a brief eye contact and polite smile with a stranger and suddenly you're all dramatic and in love 😂
Hahahahah XD
that person will Drug you!
Ankine Apardian it happens.
Unrequited love, the most painful emotion on the heart.
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@1besieged🌸sigh - being love bombed, then scammed out of your savings/possessions because you're blinded by the love bombing and then being ghosted is right up there with unrequited love😟😕😢😦😶
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@@SunMoonShadow I got out while the getting was good, and I left him 2X actually, I know he won't be pulling no dirty deeds on the next women he tries to scam on.... nope.
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@@1besieged 🌸😆😆You shiny soul! You're my hero, bless you 👊😄👍💕🙆💞24/10/2020@18:11
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It can even be a killer for some if not many people.
@@SunMoonShadow I do gold digging, I go out with guys if they like spending on me. I love luxurious restaurants.
Been there. Gone through the excruciating pain. The effort to hide the silent tears from the world and still show a brave face in front of everyone.
You phrased that as if you managed to put it behind you. If so, I really am glad for you. It is an awful feeling. But please! Please! How exactly did you get over it? This thing is voraceously eating away at whatever's left of my mind and soul. It has been for the past 4 years now. All I now want is for it to stop, I don't even care for her to love me back anymore. It's worn me out...
MadViewer01 yes I have come out of that phase, consoled myself by many words and situations. I consoled saying everything is temporary in this world, even if he would have been together with me today while dying I have to go alone from this world and one day that day would come so why am I mourning when we all know that nothing is constant. So cheer up and make yourself that busy that you don't even get time to think about her.
MadViewer01 just start loving yourself dude. Honestly thats the best remedy.
Cruel world. Love yourself first then others!
MadViewer01 don't you just hate it that there are people who get over so effortlessly. You and I appear to be on the same boat. How I cope is by keeping myself busy and I try my best to avoid these kinds of videos. Also I do find solace in meditation. There are several videos on here on healing. You can search them. Healing binaural beats or healing hypnosis. Something like that. May not work for everybody but it helped me. Do give those a try.
Trying to forget someone you love is like remembering someone you never met. Impossible.
Wow! That is really deep.
@@ML98837bob Not deeper than the fall. But thank you. If you're on a path of recovery, you are stronger than you know. Be well& safe.
*Depression has joined the chat.*
*Anxiety has joined the chat*
Anx: Heyy. Whatcha thinking bout?
I would like that but you’re on 200 and I can’t handle 201
My friend doesnt believe that I have depression because she said "you're still young, and you cant be depressed you're always happy"
So what if im faking it?
"And plus people with depression doesnt tell it to anyone"
You're my fucking bestfriend and you said we can fucking share our feelings to eachother ofcourse im gonna tell you that
"pft, you arent depressed shut up. It just really easy to say 'i wanna die', but look! I dont wanna be dead. Stop faking it"
shes real fucking stupid and doesnt understand how I feel
@@cmemed1657 I'm 25 and depressed and sucidical. I feel that I'm out of place and unwanted
Anxiety is textin
"I try so hard and I'm never the one."
:(
x
High-key been feeling that.
From the kne and only Caroline Forbes
:/ almost 4 years ago my ex took my 1 and 1/2 year old daughter whike 5 months pregnant with my son and left me for a so called friend that just got out of jail and lives with his mom and I was trying to help get a job by driving him around to apply. (he is now in jail for life without parole) so she gets strung out on drugs and bounces around living in a van and apparently the back of tire shops and wherever but nobody could track her down. So a 24 days ago her mother contacted me and told me she had emergency temporary custody and asked if I wanted to be in their lives and I said of course. I spent everyday that weekend all day playing at the park with them it was great. So for the last 3 weeks I have talked to my kids and her almost every day and my transmission went out on my truck so I couldn't see them again as soon as I would have liked but we had a 4 way phone conference with the mother, her mother, myself and the caseworker. Amanda went off and isn't even eligible for custody due to drug charges. So me and her mom Patricia had agreed that she wanted me to have full custody of both of them and we made a plan with the caseworker and everything. Well Tuesday I get a call from the caseworker saying their is a custody hearing in 2 days and I can't reschedule. I tell everyone I can't be there or I'll get fired I had to have more notice than that I can't afford to lose my job that's detrimental to the kids and everything. Well they awarded her mom full custody and I have no visitation rights. I've cried so many tears over these years that when I got to see them I was happier than Ive ever been. Her mom has a history of drug use and a criminal record as well as living with her 80 something year old moms boyfriend and she is on bad health also. Its terrible.if you can this has crushed my soul. This is a level of pain I didn't know existed. And I hit a semi head on both of us doing 55 or 60 on purpose.
x yeah i dont try so I guess thats the problem?
"I'm never the one." That's me in a nutshell.
That hit me too
This whole thing is me in a nutshell
Me too 😥
@@hiroda459 I know how you feel. I honestly feel like my sister always is the one she doesn't even have to try to be she is
@satya shukla Thank you for saying that. : (
The most beautiful thing about one sided love is that it's pure and with no conditions or wrong intentions. I wish the other person could ever understand it.
Damn... I usually call people put for their lame comments, but you get respect. That's real af.
Whoever watches this video has gone through or is going through the pain. I pray to god that you get the power to move on. May god bless you.
Her name is Helen we work at the same place I love her very much for she's very beautiful and very much an angel
Please yes I swear 😞💔🙏🏼
I’m going through this right now. And sometimes the pain is unbearable. I know that I have to walk away but I can’t. I still hope that some day he’ll love me back.
@Rukayat Bola i dont want that person back..i just wanna cut out the feelings.
Thank you.
The love you can never have is the most intense and heartbreaking kind of love you'll feel
Yet it’s the most pure... everything you do for this person is out of pure love nothing else . You only want them to be happy
very true!
Ikr
True 💯
Your only making yourself miserable & feeding their ego. Most likely a narcissist. Run for your life!
@@topkat8268 Run and don't stop! There sure are a lot of narcissistic bastards in the world. I give up on love.
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could I would." This hits so hard.
I thought this was a woman thing.
I'd like to know too, how do you stop? Without losing your mind?
@@charlesmagne1316 Internalized patriarchy check.
@@Melinda8162 You just know when it stops when you start working on yourself, make it about you, you're the one loving, you're the one capable of love.
@@misterkevin_rs4401 Thank you. It's probably more my fault. I fell so hard for him. And I don't see it ending too soon. But, I'll just have to accept what happens and yes it is hard.
The rejection of the person that doesn't love you back isn't what hurts. It's the long process of dealing with the pain of forcing yourself to see why you were wrong about them and letting go that really hurts. It's slow and agonizing, but eventually, you become stronger for it.
It just surprises me that how many people go through the same feelings but no one in the world knows about it.
Neelam khalil preach
Because were so conditioned to make like everything's alright instead of showing it. Like "civilized" people.
Falling in love with someone you can never have hurts, especially when you knew since the beginning that it was never going to happen, but at the same time, it is beautiful because in a way, it makes you human, of course at first when you look back you feel stupid and lonely and sad but when you really reflect on it it just means that you feel everything you needed to feel , you're human, and we can't choose who we fall in love with.
So dont worry, the pain will pass and you will see this experience as something that made you grow
True
I actually think it's worse when you had this flicker of hope in the beginning and then you understand that it'll never happen
@@iichittaphon9170 why that now damn
@@iichittaphon9170 what happened it didnt take place
at the same point some won't like bieng grown up if the way is that hard as it is 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
What’s ironic is that we fall in love with people we can never be with, but in the process, completely ignore people we can actually be with
Yes, that is called settling and it will leave you just as harmed later in life when you will constantly wonder why you were so insecure on your own that you settled when you realize at 60 something that you would have been happier on your own. I know so many people who have, and they regretted it as long as they lived once they understood that settling for someone they liked a lot cut off any hope of finding real love. I am mid sixties and have been alone, no longer even in the market, not for a long time, but I am glad I lived it the way I did rather than settling for security, companionship, or sex. Because when you are staring at that dirt nap headed your way you will also know that life would have been nothing without hope.
@@markwalker3499 That’s not always true. One can move on without being married to the love of their life in their lives. I did.
Shit that's me
that they ignore is me.....
As the saying goes: love is blind and I dare to say lust only makes us more.
Much love,
~ Mila
Have you ever seen someone in public that you never knew but felt a instant connection with that person like if they were your soulmate , true love at first sight and it hurt knowing you will never see them again... If you ever feel like this when you see someone be brave approach them politely start a conversation with them you never know they might feel the same way, you just need to spark the flame 🔥❤️
Love has become a fantasy that exists in everyone's wishlist but in few fates.
That....is terrifyingly true. I do like to imagine we all find happy endings to forfill our lives. But that may be just blind optimism. But it is optimism nonetheless.
@@chebaca8 reality is anything but optimistic.
@@jokerpilled2535 no
One hundred percent true....Love is our life but we live without the one whom we love.
I think you are going through same situation as I am
Love hurts, loving the wrong person destroys you.... And meeting the right person at the wrong time kills you.
I wish I seen this 9 months ago.
Amen to that.
Neither do. Not loving God destroys and kills you.
OMG - So relatable
currently have that right person wrong time situation, i can only hope that the pain will one day go away
Welcome to the broken hearts club 💔💫
Thanks ..
Where do I sign up
Been here for years..don't think i'd leave one day..
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Join the club everyone.
After reading some of the comments, I'm glad I'm not the only one who has fallen in love with someone and will never be able to have them
Never say never (unless the person is married), but, don't expect the person to change and start loving you, but it is always possible, even if it may not always be likely. We just have to continue living our lives, bettering ourselves, etc. It may be hard at times, especially if you have to see that person at work, school, etc. several times a week, like I do (well, I could quit my job, but I would need another first, and it's not so bad when I'm near her, she doesn't hate me or anything, but is friendly still, but just doesn't want a relationship, told another girl I am not her 'type' Maybe she will change and realize her 'types' fail, since she's still single and is getting older, already 29, but maybe not. I won't wait around for her, I have to do my best to move on. And if she ever comes around, maybe I won't even be that into her anymore.).
There was this girl, perfect in every way, the star of my darkest night. I still remember the first time she confessed to me, even though she was 3 years older, i couldn't sleep that night. I'd always say that i was going to be there for her no matter what, and wrote poems for her and did the best i could since we were long distance. But we were a world apart, neither of our families would accept each other, and the more time passed by, i realized she would never be able to be happy with me. To this day, i think of her smile, and her eyes, and really hope she finds someone who can keep her happy. The pain never subsides, does it? It just becomes numb at a point.
Jesus Christ heals depression and anxiety
@@yertsomeI met whatever God is on a mushroom trip, he certainly does!
I feel you, man. I just experienced this today. I confessed my intentions to this girl that I've been interested in for the last 9 months.
Today, I finally asked her out, and it turns out that she's married. I feel like such an idiot, but I genuinely didn't know that she is married.
She is beautiful, kind, and has an amazing, calming aura. Perhaps the 'ideal' woman in my eyes. I've come to accept that she isn't meant for me. It hurts, but I must move on.
Unfortunately the pain never goes away. You just learn how to live with it over time.
You never unlove someone. You just learn to live without them.
Many men won't admit this. But even us men "some of us" pine for a woman we can't have. It's been such for myself for over 30 years . I went on with life But she will always be the one that got away.
RFKFANTS67 I feel you bro. Me too. It's been seventeen years but I still think of her every now and then. I know she's settled down and happy and that makes me happy also because I still love her and always will.
J Bro you really love her :) I know it’s hard but I just feel like being happy for her happiness is such a pure form of love. Your family needs you too, and you can be happy for them :)
J Bro wow... but don't you ever feel like it's worthless? And have you dated anyone since then? Just curious about your lifestyle in this case..I sorta know a person that I hope doesn't end up this way..
Men pine for women more than women pine for men bro.
By a large margin.
You've gotta be a true G to get women pining for you.
Everytime I see him, I think of us being together. But I know deep inside, it's never going to happen 😔
Same :)))
Omg same😭😭💔💔
Same...
Ugh same
I'll never get over this one girl. It will take paragraphs but damn. She's too perfect for me
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
8 years has passed... And I'm still thinking about him
I feel so sorry for u
I feel you girl, Me too. It’s almost been 9 years for me and it hurts to think of him w anyone else. :(
Fatima I'm in the same boat and TRUST ME I don't want to do this to myself... Literally, if I could forget about him I would.
I don't think anyone wants to be fixated on someone this long without being corresponded. IT HURTS
Dont the feelings fade away? How is it possible is beyond me
How long did u date for?
I wonder how many times someone has fallen in love with me, or just something *simple* about me that they love, but never told me.
And imagine: You have been in someone's mind countless of times before. Perhaps someone is thinking about you *right now.*
Spoopy Lee i always wonder about these stuff
Spoopy Lee or nobody is actually thinking about you and you just think that everybody likes you and you trust ppl who you think you actually are friends with one day they will just turn their back on you without any reason so you just give up on thinking and imagine that someone will ever like you
사나한 gay
Scaro I don’t have a dad
o k i Love gays
It's worst when you know you love each other, but because of certain circumstances you can never be together. You where meant only to cross paths but never to stay.
😢😔💔 I love him so much it hurts.
Even I am also having the same pain.It 's more painful wen u see him almost every day. U both want to say a lot but u hv to go.I wish I cud hv met him earlier or may b never😢
@@priyakachhap8559 😢💔
I’m in love with someone who lives in a different country and has different culture. We met when I visited his country. It’s so painful and beautiful at the same time. The worst part is that he loves me to but we can’t get each other.
It hurts so much because I can’t stop loving and missing him. I can’t let him go.
@@hiphopismylifeoldschool8331 same, he's from another continent too
I feel you too. 😭🥺 We were just meant to cross paths and forget one another. His actions made me fall in love with him.But I know that its wrong cause he belongs to someone else.Why does he have to do that?
"I can't think about anything or anybody else and I can't sleep, I can't breathe. I can't live". This describes our feelings so well. Seing that person you can never have living her happy life while you crave her all day.
Damn not even flex tape can fix this damage.
"Wow ThAtS a LoT oF dAMagE"
e_ris_ gian_g how about some more ;(
Your profile pic is everything
too much heart damage
this isnt something to joke about
I pray before God that everyone in this world gets to marry the person they love. 😣
I’ve been praying for a while now and I’m gonna continue even cuz she friend zoned me. I’m 14 but I really hope that someday, we might end up together in the future if god allows.
ADARSH DIVYAJYOTI
Ameen.
Not just they love but they love them back :)
yes but if it doesn’t work out after you prayed it’s because God has a bigger and better plan for you. He has someone better for you OR He just knows what’s truly right for you.Trust Him. God bless.
The problem is often times it overlaps
“I wish I never laid eyes on him.” I felt that and I couldn’t hold back the tears 😭
Tell me about it :(
Samantha Jones this is too true.
😢😢
It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one that feels this way, it’s horrible
I hate that pain...... you actually feel your heart breaking.
No One. Yes it does. I hope whatever pain you're going through that you heal from it. And have a beautiful 2018❤❤❤💙
falling in love with someone you can never be with, is the worst..you can never get over them..you can never move on..your heart will always be with them..
And it's more worst when you've fallen in love with the version of that person that you've created in your head, and realising that it can never be reality is so hard
Yes. She is a version of the real person, but from 2017. She no longer exists as such. But I am still in love.
Alll of this, it’s literally the worst!
@@sirenaspeaks how do you mean
@@faridaaali6170 it’s the version you create of them in your head that could never be reality ‘cause of a variety of reasons. It just hurts badly to know you’re falling hard for someone who could never be who you need them to be. But it’s also a reality to realize that the love you are looking for is already within you. No where else.
This is so true and it is even more painful when that version doesn’t exist
Honestly, there is a beauty in not being with someone you love. Albeit tragic, and stark, but beautiful as well. To survive these things, you can survive anything.
Absolutely love your comment!
@@araucana1976 The love ain+t hugs and kisses and sex, as this world presents. /be not deceived nor naive.
What is unknown life fact? - parenthood is GOD given and love is not LUST.
John 15:13
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
About being single:
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
Gosh I hope. 🥺
Survive for what? We’re all gonna die someday anyway, what good is it to survive it? There’s nothing but more pain and more disappointment, and losing more pieces of your already broken heart. Let’s just get it over with
@lucasyoder22 eh people get over it
Hell most people fall in love a few times
I had a crush in high school nothing happened overtime I forgot about it
Now I'm in a relationship with someone I love who loves me ... and I'd say that's alot more beautiful then a one sided love
Along with if you don't tell that person hoe you feel ... well your an idiot xD
Talking from experience
True pain is neither a cut nor a broken bone. True pain is making memories with someone you love, then watching that someone you love fade into a memory.
That’s deep…
The sad thing is I fall in love with people but they have never fallen in love with me. There has been countless times where I’ve devalued myself because the person I see the world in will never look at me the same way. That kind of debilitating reminder stabs through my heart every time & I go into myself. I find the flaws that I have & fashion a noose with them that I hang myself with every time I feel that I am falling again. If I let myself fall. I have no one to blame but my ignorance. There is an emptiness within me that has been cultivated & nourished by those who have surrounded me. It’s not that I “can never have” this person. It is that they will never desire me.
I'm sorry. I would look up dating/relationship advice about laws of attraction and stuff. I think it could help. In my case, I've fallen in love with a celebrity and I need music training for years to audition for his company. Actually I had been interested in music training before I met him but unfortunately I've barely made progress due to depression, so my audition will have to be delayed by a year or 2.
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Cinn you sound so much like me...….I have that emptiness in me also. I just wish before I die somebody would love me. I see myself at my funeral and nobody there and no tears. That breaks my heart
I relate completely. The exact thing has happened to me. I don't know what is wrong with me. Am I unlovable? I'm always seen as just a friend. Even after telling them how I really feel. And the worst part is I have to see them everyday. I have to share the same office has them. It's so painful.
Have you tried telling some of these people how you felt?
I seen a girl who kept staring at me, and I think she was going to approach me, but never did. She was SOOO beautiful. I should've just been a man and went up to her myself. I can barely make up her face in my head, but in my heart, I know she's just so beautiful. I will never forget the feeling I had when I saw her face. If only I could time travel!!!😭😭😭 I daydream in class, and it's her I think of. Then, when I try to ACTUALLY think of her and remember her face, I can't. I just can't😭. And it just hurts SOOOO much to know I'll never see her again smfh
Never say never. I hope you two find each other again some day.
so u liked her looks?
Yearbook dude
I feel you man
I fancy my best friend and I love her more than anything in the world even if she prefers just for us to be best friends and I will always be there for her always i just wished we could be more than just friends 😢😢😭
_"I wish I never laid eyes on him"_
Joanna Κat me too
Joanna Κat me too😭
Happy to meet him, but he will never be mine. So I'm hoping to stay alone with me until the end of my life 😭😭😭
Fahad ibn Iqbal I know but I can't forget him. It's more than three years since I met him. Everyday my love grows through I can't help it
SAMEE
The person that is right for you will never turn you down. There is no such thing as unrequited love, only illusion.
falling in love with someone you can never be with = slowly losing yourself giving someone a huge part of you, from a distance
Struggling every single day in all possible ways.. n it sucks !!
@@SSs-ur5fo It gets better in time. Acknowledge what you feel. One day the pain will lessen until it won't hurt as much. I hope you always you choose yourself. You're worthy.
Right ❤️
Helecopter helecopter 🚁🚁🚁🚁
I just wanna be happy now I can't remember the last time i smiled out of happiness i just want to be with her I'll give anything to be with her anything
Nothing is more painful than loving someone who will never love you back. Even if you're on good terms with them
Describe good terms please.🩷
Yes , it's even worse when they are far away from you and you don't know if they are alright you can't even consent to being there its hard when they don't even know how you feel about them
Like being cordial.
I’m in physical pain. I wish I never met him, because I can never have him.
I'm in the same boat. I hope we both can move on. When I found out he was married and had a sweet kids, I felt like being sick-I actually went into the fetal position, I was so upset. I've never had such a strong reaction to anyone like that in my life. I can never have him--he is so madly in love with his wife.
@@laura2372 you fell for a lying cheater. Get out ASAP. Even if he divorces her, he will cheat on you. Don't stay in these abusive relationships
@@topkat8268 Thanks for your smart and caring advice. Your so right--life is too short! Your a smart person-thanks again and take care!
Relax.. Chill out... Nothing can beat time. You'll move on...
I feel you .
I know the guy is in love with me and I'm also in love with him . I know we can never be together it's hard to accept the fact and it's even harder to let him go. It hurts every time I walk in and pretend not to see him . I know I'm hurting him but I have no way out of this .
It hurts but what can we do about it .
We we're meant to fall in love with each other but not to stay together 😔😭💔
There was this one girl in high school. She was genuinely kind. She was nicer to me than any other girl, and pretty much any other person in high school. The problem is that she was dating a good guy. The Cure's Pictures of You became my secret anthem. Especially when I went off to college and only had her senior picture and the message she wrote on the back. I saw The Cure in concert about a year and a half ago. As crazy as it sounds, I got tears in my eyes when they played that song during an encore. She ended up marrying her high school boyfriend and created a great family.
Me: okay he probably doesnt like me oh well I suck
My brain cell: but he said hello to you one week ago
Me: ok he defenetly likes me
I can relate with that
@@maviaabbasi6701 same
yep i get that feeling
I know that feel
Been there and thought it'd be a small crush but he turned into something more so much more
I still think of her after 6 years. Time has never changed my feelings.
Thinking of her right now
I know it's hard to forget hope u find someone who helps to forget completely.
She has been gone for 10 years but she was and still is the true love of my life. She is happily married and lives on the other side of the world. I miss her and think about her often but it also gives me a good feeling that she is happy. Why? just because i love her.
THAT'S TRUE LOVE. I'VE BEEN THERE BUT OHH HOW IT HURTS.
@@hajo4522 I had just lost someone I thought he is better off being with someone. Because I didn't Adore him the way I should. I thought we are not compatible. I thought we are not a good match . I avoid and didn't give time and effort in it .. I wish I was at that level of love when he loved me. Why people must regret on things I told myself not to be regretful but I ended up making the biggest regret in life
I once heard someone say that unrequited love is a ‘special kind of hell’. Yep. That description is perfect. And I have a horrible feeling it will last a lifetime…
And for some of us, it's the only kind we've ever known. For me, a lifetime of examples, pretty much all one sided. It sucks.
I guess that's how stalkers feel. It's more a delusion and obsession. It's unhealthy. Real love is something you build through the course of a relationship. It's not this obsessive infatuation with someone you barely know.
@@GizmoMaltese Not nice to judge a stranger! I ghosted said person if you must know! Perhaps you need to ask why you need to insult people on comments sections. Silly when I essentially agree with your comment. Think before you type.
Üzülme hiç bir şey sonsuze dek sürmez
I have a great friend who I fell in love with, guess what, they’re asexual lol
Btw we are still extremely close friends
Thirty years have gone by, and I still think of him everyday....thirty years!
Wow lol I’m here wondering if she still think of me after 1 year but she’s in another relationship.. do u think it’s still possible that she does? Fuck no 🧐 oh ain't that some shit 😂😂😂😂
No , that is obsession move on .
@@novaisrael8028 same, i wanna know if he does?
I understand. It's my fifth year running...
Wow
What’s worse?
Loving someone who’ll never love you back or watching someone you love dearly slowly lose interest in you?
I’ve been through both 😔
"I'm never the one." My heart breaks all over again.
what the movie name
In my life it’s true. I have never been chosen
Me too
This has happened 3 times in my life, one friendzoned me, one didn't want me and the other one was my own wife.
oh Gosh!.......
seeing this hurt
I wish I never met him . I still feel the pain even after a year has passed. I met him again and now the most just increased . The most painful part is when you can't even talk to him because you feel so guilty for loving him😥😔
mariam tamale Girl yes I'm going through that right now . I've been crying all morning it hurts so bad
mariam tamale you find them inside you. You change in a thousand beautiful ways. You find them in simple things. You find them in other people, in everyone you love. They’re a part of you forever. Maybe one day we can all find peace in that :)
mariam tamale 😢😢😢😢
Spinox I'm crying cause my love life is fucked up
(If you are talking about me)
Spinox oh that's so sad I'm so sorry about that
I never loved someone that much and I was never loved
My best friend is flirting with him.
She asks ‘ everything alright ‘
Me ‘ yeah! I am just so happy that he is also into you! ‘
...
"Is this my friend too? Lmao
My best friend is dating him and they have almost been together for a year and I know he will marry her.
@@tacogool2541 shiit me too he will definitely marry her 💔💔
Isn't it just perfect? What a statement "I tried so hard and I'm never the one"!
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could I would." 💔
I wish we never met...I tried...and I failed....I cant sleep...I cant breathe...lot of pain...heartache.
dark angel you can breath. But that breath is is not like before it’s like it’s heavy
dark angel thing is he love her more than she knows if she would com home an give a honest true love an her Hart it will be great getting out here soon when it comes n if can't b with him at lowest won't when he got is the thing just give him a full 100 it hasn't been done yet an she knows this b true for one time mean it she hasn't yet
dark angel well u sleep if u was here n my arms why won't u com get back n them an stop the bull now u know u love me an u not happy where u at so com one
dark angel I hope your doing well... I feel the same way right now.
@@jzhz4629 making it boo
Do you know what is more painful?. YOU CAN'T CHOOSE WHO TO FALL IN LOVE WITH
And it hurts like hell.😭😭😭
P B you literally said what I’ve been wondering for the past month now. There’s this girl who friend zoned me after 4 years of me working up the courage to tell her how I feel. At the same time that my heart is telling me to move on, it’s also telling to not let go in case there’s hope and that I can’t just let go after having loved her for four years. I don’t want to live life like this but moving on seems like something impossible rn for me
Pick one out of a hat n there you go
David Laranjeira just telling her is way better than not because if you tell her how you feel even if she doesn’t feel the same it’s 10 times better than a lifetime of regret
😫😫😫
it's sad that falling in love is basically giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart but trusting them not to pull the trigger but when they do pull it you wish that they would have aimed at your head😭
Majida Moh honestly so true
@@anisahchowdhury3302 I love my best friend more than anything in the entire world even if we are just best friends she just means the world to me
i get what you’re trying to say, i really do. but assuming you were talking about dying, wouldn’t you die whether or not the gun was pointed at the heart or head? 😂
That's such a beautiful and heartbreaking metaphor
@@stacy4486 I agree
The hardest part when moving on from someone you love is where you realize no matter how slowly you walk away from them,,,they will never run back after you
earlier this year i fell so, so head over heels for this guy. he was absolutely perfect to me. i noticed the little things he did, like fidget with his hands when he got nervous or angry, and crinkle his nose when he was excited. but he never noticed any little things about me. he made me believe he was in love with me and then left me for someone else. someone who would never notice and appreciate him and the things he did like i do.
U deserve better then
But yes must've been hard
Same situation i felt that,,, it so sad really really sad,, thats life sometimes fair sometimes unfair,,, we fell in love to somebody who doesn't love us back
Same situation right now just dont know how to get over him
My heart hurts.
Lame
Cynical Wizard bruh
Fetishes is this love at first sight? damn no? ok 😆
Same
Makes me laugh when hot young women, literally the most valuble person on the plannet in terms of being given value and stauts at birth are complaining like this, this shit isnt for you, this shit is for men and possible very elderly women and heavily disables women only, for you, your just determined to feel sorry for yourself, i was about to say you can have more love and sex and offers within 5 mins of going out and doing nothing than all men in their entire lives dedicated to learning attraction to women, but its not even that, you dont even have to go out, you just need to post a comment on youtube and people are fallig over you ! i cant stand this victimhood modern women portray themselves in, your good ! you have everything, your life is easy beyond belif your a young pretty woman, its like prince harry or prince william complaining they cant get a date to a man like me who has never had anyone been rejected by everyone right up until middle age ! you just dont get how easy you have it and it makes my blood boil because theres people out there (99.99999 men) who will die alone live aline never have anyone, EVER, thats something women literally cant understand, and your moaning when all it takes for you is one youtube comment ! man life is sick ! i hope to god your never in a serious accident and lose all your looks and are wheel chair bound, but to be honest not even that would teach you how a lot of men feel because youl still be a lot better off because you will have experienced love and sex and affection, a ot of men never have, never will have anything but rejections from all women all the time, thats a fear that grips you at night, it kills a lot of young men too, and i understand why they are killing themselves at such an alarming rate,its this power gap between women having literally everything, you can have any man you ever see, that like maybe you can have 20 000 men a day with zero effort, weras a man might not get a woman in say 80 years of being alive, and its kiling men, its so sad, its outrageous and it must stop , sadly it wowntt stop because men are too afraid to complain and they are rightly scared if you complain as a man, your destroying any chance you ever have of a woman because women not only victim shame those men, but because there are soooo many hungry men they can afford to isolate him completly ! so you cant complain, you hav e a monopoly and its fucking outrageous ! literally you have everything and men have nothing and its one of the most important things on the plannet, its linked to the survival of our species and you have been given everything and me as a man have been born utterly wrthless and will continue to be worthless unless i can prove myself, non of you women ever hav e to do any of that becaue of your privelidge ! women check your privelidge, mens privelige is a 2% pay increase womens is being given the most valuble thing on the planet and have made men to be the most worthless thing on the plannet !
I can feel it in my stomach how painful it is to be inlove with someone who you can never be with
Hello suzan how are you doing?
😥😥 im there & its hurts
You have no choice who you fall in love with,real love.
Never cried for anyone like this in life. But still I don't regret meeting that person. If it's not in fate, I'd still always have this feeling for that special someone.
I related to this video a few years ago, Now I’ve been with my soulmate for 2 years, I promise it gets better
@@lilmelodyy awww 😢
Honestly this is really well said...
For me, when i see this person i just feel the world seems more beautiful, but at the same time, i'm proud of myself that i'm not delusional, and i'm not obsessed with them, i even appreciate the person they are with...
We cannot be with them, but it doesn't mean we can never be with someone we want to be with
I'm a little late to this post but, I feel this. Never cried so much over for anything, and then this person came into my life and now must walk out 😢
@@arthurlihar786Same. Still crying.
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would. But I don't want to." shit this hurts. That's exactly how I feel right now 😥
U are not alone
Jamilayn same
Same. Just same 😭
Jamilayn_ same
Jamilayn_ I feel you so much, sister...
You’re the entire world to me, but to you I’m just a friend
Charlotte I don’t know you
But I know what you feel
I hope you read this and I hope you find someone who truly deserves you. I understand what you are going through because so am I. This girl I would do anything for her to be happy yet she is with another man. I been feeling like shit, nothing really excites me anymore. All I want is her but I can’t have her. I’m her friend that’s all I am to her.
That is exactly it for me. I cherish our friendship but it hurts so much that she is my Sun and i am a coworker.
This describes my feeling and relationship with him . He is my world and to him I am just a friend nothing else at all 😭😭
Unrequited love is like condemnation from the cosmos. It’s so destructive to the self, it’s barely imaginable how you can possibly get past it, and indeed you can’t, or lucky are those who do.
I'm a man, and I understand and agree with this. Why? Because some men, like me, have gone through this situation, too. And, believe it or not, it's painful !
daco yes im felling it its terrible
Jackson Goss we are quite some in the same boat.
That’s true it’s not just women who go threw this it’s men too x
Same brother
Yea, it hurts a lot. I am in this situation right now. Well, from 2013-now.
I fell in love with someone I could never be with, my friend dates him now.
It hurts alot but I just keep myself occupied with memes.
:( same :(
OMG MEEEE
Sameee fucking sameeee
If she knew you loved him and got with him then she's not a friend
Babyjayybiebez Z well thats not exactly fair because if her friend is in love with him then by that logic neither of them could be with him, and it's also his choice to be with her friend. When you love someone yes you want to be with them, but even more so you value their happiness over your own even if it hurts more than anything ever has. You will continue on because you value their happibess over your own and that includes respecting who they are happy with.
It’s really upsetting when you can relate to this
This hits me on a deep personal level because I have been living with this pain for more than 30 years of my life. Im not getting into specifics but I met someone extraordinary beautiful when I was young but she was not from around and stayed for only a short while. But in that brief moment, my life changed forever. I just could not stop thinking of her and I have never been a whole and complete person ever since. The worst parts were the dreams I had of her. Some were so vivid that I really thought they were real. Im in my 40s now. Since then I had met plenty of other women. Slept with more than a few. Had the girlfriend/s but not a single one ever came to giving me the experience I had when I met the one I could not be with. I know I'll never be a whole and complete person but my only wish in life would be to see her again one more time and to wish her well and say a final farewell to her before I die. At least then, I'll be at peace in the end.
I’m in love with a guy who doesn’t even know I exist. It was just a small little crush but then his smile his eyes his personality everything about him is perfect and it’s not fair. I’ve never wanted someone or something so badly in my life he’s seriously all I want and I can’t have him. I’ve been through some painful shit but this is the worst I’ve even been through and I can’t do anything about it. I can’t control who I love anymore because no matter how hard I try to move on I just can’t .
U can try . Never say never
Is it me?
@@JeonJungkook-qv3md Do yourself a favor and grab the nearest dictionary. Search for the word "joke."
I just finished crying lol. Also, i can relate to you on a spritual level.
Pro Genji
That was a bad joke. Maybe you should grab a dictionary and search for the word “funny”
To the person who read this,
It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to loose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain trough your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved, because you are, I love you trough all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe you heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be, because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tired to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but dont your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me, because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it, when you don’t feel like belonging than build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind wants to have it. As one of the stars you see others stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in there life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence and when you can make me feel that way than you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you than don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart than I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general than I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic. Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water everyday in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer,I want you here.
I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you a song as your friend.
“Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you.
In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here.
I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay?
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :)
have a good day and great years.
I love you so much and am so proud of you, I hope you will remember my words- becho, the stranger that cares more about you than anything :)))
Mental pain is much much heavier than physical pain. Harder to overcome. I'm trying my best to overcome. But I don't know how long it takes. Day by day it's getting harder 💔
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Thank you 😪❤
Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
The worst part is when he calls you daily and is your best friend. At the same time knows about your feelings and encourages you to meet other people :(
Julia W I'm in love with my best friend. And it kills me to know he encourages me to be with other people and know he's with other people as well. I've been in love with this man for 6 years and I can't ever act on it.
Wait, so you’re saying girls get friendzoned too? Maybe its Karma for friendzoning guys
@RealityHurts923 I kinda did it, once, when I was 10, it was messed up situation in general. I haven't had guys best friends until recently and nobody have ever invited me to a date, ever. My confidence levels are below 0 nowadays :/ I'm 21, by the way
I’ve been in love with my best friend for five years and I watched him crush and love and share his feelings and dreams about them to me and it crushed me everyday. Everyday since we both were first single I told him “I love you” every single day and he would always reply “I love you too but as a friend” and it didn’t do much make me angry but it made me cry for two years straight. Day after day I would say “I love you” and every time he would friendzone me. I knew one day he’d finally see me and fall for me the way I did with him. When we first started talking, it was on Facebook and i has been messaging him there since for a month and a half until we met in person. He and I went to the same school and he was a friends friend and the first day we talked I fell in love with him so much! I was over the moon. Everyday I would come home jump on Facebook and message him, asking him how his day was and how he was feeling and if anything new happened. When we met in person, I couldn’t believe that the guy I was talking over the internet with, the guy who I hadn’t met in person but only knew through friend was a couple kilometres away sitting down at lunch and reading a book. I feel in love with his personality before his appearance and that is so rare on this planet because everyone is so more interested in judging someone’s appearance before their personality. Yes this guy had a Facebook profile picture but I never really looked at it, I just added him by his name and just started messaging away. When I walked up to him and sat down, I introduced myself and got curious why he never sat with his friends. He told me that he liked to imagine a giant monster looking over everyone and the trees. After five years of friendship and crushing on him so much. He finally wanted to try dating with me. The first couple times didn’t work out because of personal issues from both parties but the following year we dated for a straight year and to be honest, my feelings changed a lot because he showed me the sort of person he was when he really didn’t need to worry about his character. You see, he like everyone else was wearing a mask and he wasn’t really the type who could love someone without being violent and controlling. I understand that relationships have their ups and downs but my experience in a relationship with someone I crushed for five straight year, changed my perspective on who he really was. My relationship was scary and after the first month I was afraid of him every day. He took control of my life and how I was to feel. He manipulated how others thought of me and used my past relationships as a trigger for my downfalls of depression and the thoughts for suicide. I was the closes person and I was the only person who really knew him and I mean this about the time before we started dating. Girls would always try working their way through me to be able to have him and I was so jealous but I supported his emotions and what made him happy. Once we started dating I really was, really the only person who really knew him and it was scary and dark. I’m slowly getting out of his control but it taught me that you don’t really know someone but that shouldn’t stop you from falling in love, it should really encourage waiting and learning and knowing the person with first hand of them alone than to experience after they have their grips of who you are.
@@daimone Any update? I hope you feel good now 😊
I saw a physical therapist for 3 months after I broke my elbow. One of the loveliest women I had ever known, so fun and bubbly and sweet. But she was married, had kids, very happy woman. Having to act casual while saying goodbye to her on my last day was probably the best acting I've ever done. I went home and started sobbing a bit, and the months to come were very very sad as I couldnt stop thinking about her. It's been a year now and im much better, you do get over it, but man it hurts like nothing else.
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