if you want, you can speak out about how you feel here. it may make you feel better. edit: a few years later i confessed my feelings to him. he broke my heart. that's all. it's been a couple of months, but i still can't move on. edit (another year later): i got my heart broken by another guy, but i'm fine. i can't stop romanticizing everything haha (it's not funny btw)
Mmm..... it's like I'm about 15 years old and i get this feeling that I've started to love that girl......would it be right to tell her at this age at this time or should i wait
Here I am awake from a dream seeing your face, we weren’t anything but to me it felt like something, I’m probably overthinking as usual but I hope if it’s meant to be you’ll come back . I had to be something more.. i had to.. there’s a look in your eyes I can’t forget about - e.m.
I can completely understand one sidded love hurts and whn u rnt the first choice of anyone and whn u r the one who texts first and all it hurts and I'm hurting that nobody talks to me unless I talk to them and I'm left alone and want to see wt its like to be loved..
@@AbhiShek-py7jk I'm in the same position you are...no one chats me up unless I do...I had this notion she liked me and all of a sudden...she told me she never liked me, being used for good grades is a different level of pain...it Hurts to be the one to start a conversation everytime
If you truly love someone, let them go, let them be free, let them find their happiness, if it's not you, let it not be you. Send them love, send them light and release them. And forgive them, and most importantly, forgive yourself. Feel what you need to feel, let it run through you, let it wash all over you, but don't let it drown you. Don't stay in that lost place. What is meant for you, truly meant for you, will never, ever, pass you by. Sending you all some love and light from my heart to yours 🌻
Thanks for this man, i needed it ❤. I have a bestfriend, and she's honestly my model woman. She's everything i could ever ask for. She deserves so much love, and i wish i could give her all the love that's pent up inside of me, but i can't. And we're very comfortable with each other, but everytime we meet, she always makes it clear that we're gonna be just friends no matter what, and i know that too. I have a lot of affection for her, and wish her the best. But i can't be with her. And that breaks me apart a little. I've been giving her hints about it too, but i can't confess, cause i don't want to ruin our friendship. I know this i a temporary thing, but it's still kinda hard.
@@justaloner4075 tell her. If loving honesty from your heart to hers ruins the friendship, then its a relationship that wasn't meant to last anyways and you can move on. By keeping it inside, you may be unwittingly closing your heart to other opportunities for that kind of love around you while being blinded by your feelings for her. Plus, you never know, she may actually feel the same but be too scared to admit it as you have been. Either way, at least you know. The not knowing or what could have beens will eat you alive. Be bold. Be honest. Be open to all possibilities and the universe will take care of you. Sending you lots of love and light 💜
I've been doing that for 3 years and it hurts. The funny part is that he doesn't even know it.... And the worst part is that my own sister has a huge crush on him, I watch them get close, day by day. While I put on a smile
25 years ago as a high school student I missed the opportunity to express my love for the girl I loved. Even after such a long time, I still have feelings for her and miss her very much. Recently by chance I saw a TH-cam video which showed the exact spot she used to wait for the train to go home, 25 years ago ( both of us took the same train to school and she went to our sister school). The spot hasn't changed a bit and we Humans have grown old. This really hit me hard in the heart! I totally agree that if you love someone, just tell them. I missed my chance and it's really painful when you see that person in your mind again and again.
I told my girlfriend that I love her and she’s never been able to say it back, just last night I learned why she was never able to. I was finally told about the sexual harassment and the sexual abuse from her last relationship. Yes it hurts sometimes knowing that she’s not ready to feel love for me, but I’ve been able to come to terms with it, especially now that I know the truth about her past. I made a decision, I’m going to love her, I’m going to keep telling her that I love her, I’m going to show her that she’s loved, and I’m going to be with her as long as she needs. I don’t know how, but I’m going to make her feel like she does deserve love and that she does deserve a better life
This is probably the sweetest thing i have ever heard in my entire life. You are doing the right thing. Dont give up on her. Wishing you a good eternity with her
I’ve been in love with him for 4 years, when i say love, i mean, i stayed by his side on his darkest days and his brightest. I stayed by his side when his bipolar made him push me away, i stayed when he broke my heart. I stayed while he loved someone else. I watched him love her and not me, i just want him to be happy even if it means i suffer. He’s my bestfriend. I love him so much that i lose myself in it. I love him more then life itself. I would die for him. It’s not easy, it’s agony. It’s pain. But his smile is worth it. He’s in love with someone else again and it hurts so much i feel like my heart can’t take it. If he ever reads this: i tried. I tried so hard. I love you. I’m sorry.
🖤🖤 I feel it and I completely understand, I want to tell her that I love her but I'm afraid that it would ruin our friendship as she doesn't love me back 💔it hurts but seeing her smile makes it go away but still there's pain can't help but suffer it alone. @Nunnie be happy dear 🖤 may u find ur "the one" and be happy..
Feeling unloved or unliked by someone u absolutely adore love and care about is the worst feeling in the entire world. Its like you can physically feel your heart sinking down to your stomach and it feels awful and you try your best to stop that feeling but it does not go away easily.
Sherlock. Love, Rosie. Harry Potter. Lah Lah Land. Sex Education. Peaky Blinders. Stranger Things. 13 Reasons Why. Captain America. Pride and Prejudice. Perks of being a Wallowflower.
I have to say something, anything, even if no ones reading this. I’m in love with someone and I can’t be with that someone. Romance movies are a luxury. If only movies could be reality. Feeling my heart actually break, that sinking, drowning feeling. It’s hurts.
Just know that you’re not alone. I’m going through the same thing. I thought maybe there was some hope but the pandemic ruined everything. I’m only still holding on because losing her completely will be too devastating at a time when I have no social safety net because of quarantine life.
there's one girl in my life, where I said so many romantic and heartfelt things to. Sang in her ear, touch he cheek and her tears of happiness, kissed her in the rain, held her under the stars. I read what you wrote, and I know the feeling. After all the things that were said, etc. she's gone.
Well how weird it is ? I've never been in love , never been in any relationship but I seriously want somebody beside me. With whom I can feel safe, I can feel free , have trips together, fight for food and just be there for each other ❤️
I have never been in a relationship too. And i never really Liked someone in this way. But now there is this guy that i really really like and i dont no what to do...
I remember my first time I fell in love. You were a magnetic person, your personality, your smile, your attitude... Everything seemed attractive to me. I felt that everyone around you loved you, and I had a lot of admiration for you. I saw in you everything that I wanted to be, and I started spending time with you. When I saw you, I was very happy, even if it was just passing by or saying hello. If I didn't see you it made me sad. And every time you proposed something to me, I always said yes, because I did everything possible to be with you as long as possible. What I remember most is how you would stare at me, and I would turn red and not be able to hold your gaze, but at the same time I loved looking at you. While you were present, the rest of the world did not exist. I listened to you carefully, all your anecdotes, and you listened to me carefully. You always had that beautiful smile, genuine and bright, and I would laugh with you at everything. Your way of walking hypnotizes me, I saw you from afar and was able to recognize you. I love your smell, and your look, and your smile, and your voice... I remember when you asked me to accompany you to smoke. I watched you smoke as if it were the most attractive thing in the world, and I remember how I watched in slow motion when you expelled the smoke. I remember when you proposed to me on the spur of the moment to go to a pub for a drink. You loved to drink, and I followed you. The nights we came back from drinking alcohol, acting stupid. The conversions and confessions we had, and the connection I felt in each of them. I confessed to you that I was bisexual and had just told my parents recently. We talked about our future, and how we saw ourselves in 10 years. I spent so much time with you, alone and with our group of friends, that I really got to know you well. I knew that when we went out partying the next day you weren't going to go to class because you fell asleep. I knew your favorite food, and that you don't like peas. I know your dog's name, what you love, what music you like, and your behavior patterns. You are kind, you care about others, and I never saw evil in you. And not only did I notice it, more people told me the same thing. You always had a charisma to attract other people. That's why you were always so valued, and surrounded by others. I really thought we had similar ideas and attitudes. And I fell in love with you without knowing it. I had a really bad time when I decided to suppress it so as not to ruin the friendship. I cried a lot, even in front of my parents, because you indirectly hurt me. And now, although we are still friends, there is nowhere near the same closeness that I had before with you. I barely know about your life, we almost don't look each other in the eye anymore, and at least I've changed a lot. I still remember each and every thing we did. And all the details that you had. The stupid anecdotes, and the holidays. Even though it's been a while, I need to get over you now, because life goes on and you are happy with someone else.
You really shouldn't expect anything when you love someone cause not getting what you wanted , well it'll hurt a lot . Real life isn't like you see in Movies .
Feels like a crime to move on. The heart literally begs to wait and wait and gives hope that she might take a chance. Sometimes family pressure is the thing that one is afraid of. Hope we meet again. It's hard to forget something which was never wrong💔
I have fallen in love with someone I work with, he's everything I could ever wish or ask for, his beautiful deep brown eyes, amazing smile, the way me and him laugh at each other's dumb moments, how when he brings me home he makes sure I get in the house safely, the ease of just being around him and talking to him, but I just find it so hard to express what I want to say verbally, 3 little words are so hard to come out of my lips even though I just want to scream them out at the top of my lungs, why is love so difficult?
I remember my first time I fell in love. You were a magnetic person, your personality, your smile, your attitude... Everything seemed attractive to me. I felt that everyone around you loved you, and I had a lot of admiration for you. I saw in you everything that I wanted to be, and I started spending time with you. When I saw you, I was very happy, even if it was just passing by or saying hello. If I didn't see you it made me sad. And every time you proposed something to me, I always said yes, because I did everything possible to be with you as long as possible. What I remember most is how you would stare at me, and I would turn red and not be able to hold your gaze, but at the same time I loved looking at you. While you were present, the rest of the world did not exist. I listened to you carefully, all your anecdotes, and you listened to me carefully. You always had that beautiful smile, genuine and bright, and I would laugh with you at everything. Your way of walking hypnotizes me, I saw you from afar and was able to recognize you. I love your smell, and your look, and your smile, and your voice... I remember when you asked me to accompany you to smoke. I watched you smoke as if it were the most attractive thing in the world, and I remember how I watched in slow motion when you expelled the smoke. I remember when you proposed to me on the spur of the moment to go to a pub for a drink. You loved to drink, and I followed you. The nights we came back from drinking alcohol, acting stupid. The conversions and confessions we had, and the connection I felt in each of them. I confessed to you that I was bisexual and had just told my parents recently. We talked about our future, and how we saw ourselves in 10 years. I spent so much time with you, alone and with our group of friends, that I really got to know you well. I knew that when we went out partying the next day you weren't going to go to class because you fell asleep. I knew your favorite food, and that you don't like peas. I know your dog's name, what you love, what music you like, and your behavior patterns. You are kind, you care about others, and I never saw evil in you. And not only did I notice it, more people told me the same thing. You always had a charisma to attract other people. That's why you were always so valued, and surrounded by others. I really thought we had similar ideas and attitudes. And I fell in love with you without knowing it. I had a really bad time when I decided to suppress it so as not to ruin the friendship. I cried a lot, even in front of my parents, because you indirectly hurt me. And now, although we are still friends, there is nowhere near the same closeness that I had before with you. I barely know about your life, we almost don't look each other in the eye anymore, and at least I've changed a lot. I still remember each and every thing we did. And all the details that you had. The stupid anecdotes, and the holidays. Even though it's been a while, I need to get over you now, because life goes on and you are happy with someone else.
It hurts when you're falling in love with someone that you really connected to and get along very well just to suddenly find out that she's already in a relationship with someone
Sometimes I feel like I am drowning alone in my love and Everytime I see him my heart breaks over and over again because he has my heart no matter how much I don't want him too.
if he's in love with someone else, you'll have to let him go. I think you know that yourself. maybe if things don't work out between them, you can tell him how you feel.
💯% False. It is the unrequited love that is the truest. When you love in spite of knowing it can’t or won’t be reciprocated, that proves whether it’s real and steadfast or not. I have loved for 25 years without it ever being returned. Does that mean it isn’t true? No, quite the contrary.
I couraged (don't know if it"s an actual word but it pretty much sums that emotional ordeal of telling someone something soooo personal) up and told mine after 38 years of waiting in the shadows and being the good friend I've always been (and most probably will be), after a conversation with him expressing his love (he wrote it 10 times -he was drinking so I bet he was buzzed and inhibited), appreciation, respect and him being proud of me ... he told me it wasn't inappropriate, but he avoids my contacts. So what can I say... bring on the eternal heartbreak once again. 😓
i love someone, but it took me years to realize it. i remember when i met him, i thought we’d never talk, let alone be friends…well, we ended up talking two years ago, and his friendship has become one of the greatest things in my life. during those two years, i got into my first relationship, which was awful-i ignored all the red flags, including feeling unable to talk to my ex honestly and him wanting me for his own interests. (he finally broke it off over text, thank goodness.) through that whole time, my friend was always there whenever i needed to talk about ANYTHING. he cared more about me than my ex ever did, and he showed that in so many ways. i finally realized that i’d been in denial and found the courage to confess to him a couple months ago. while we’re still working things out, we’re still very close and happy in our friendship. :)
I love him sooo much . But.... he’s probably looking for a better girl than me . And it hurts every time when I realize if I lose him to someone else . I’d lose him . His smile, his laugh , his energy , his eyes and sometimes I try to move on cause I think that he would not love me back . But every time I look at someone else ...that’s when I realize nobody compares to him . I’ve kept this all to my self and no one knows. Him forever 💕💕💕
I started talking to this girl from work and honestly she’s amazing and for the first time in a long time I’ve actually cared about something and I don’t think I’ve ever felt this way about someone and I’ve been watching her and talking with her about rocky stuff in her relationship rn and I’ve been getting so many mixed signals and I honestly I was scared to actually start caring about her and when I finally start showing I care I got hit with the possibility I might have lung cancer. When her and some of my friends found out they’ve been super supportive and it’s been eating at me alottt and it hurts so damn bad when she hugs me and says it’s gonna be okay and I can’t even tell her how I feel about her or how thankful I am to have her in my life and now I’m starting to look at her like it’s the first and last time I’m gonna see her at the same time.
Loving someone who loves you is like a gift. But loving someone who doesn’t it’s a curse and it’s painful. We can’t choose who we love and we can’t stop loving someone. They always have a place in our heart. Love makes you strong and weak. Some of us are not lucky thats it. Once we lose our loved ones it feels like we don’t deserve to be loved. Why do we meet people we can’t be with???
Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him...
I’m in love with her... Sometimes I get the impression that she does too but maybe she’s just being really nice. A few months ago, right when I was gonna tell her how I feel, she said she was talking to someone else. I let that slide and she’s still my best friend and I don’t wanna change that. I don’t know what to do😔
does she have someone now? I think you should show her how you feel. you can then regret all your life that you didn't do it. if there is an opportunity to hint this to her, then use it. this does not mean that your friendship will be destroyed.
Do tell her. Maybe she will reject you, but you won't regret it. I am in the same position as you. I confessed and got rejected but I am still in touch with her. I will wait. But at least she knows .
I want to feel loved. Unconditionally, brilliantly, beautifully, and honestly. I want someone to believe in me, to fight for me, and to understand me. I want someone who is just as crazy as I am. I want someone to have weird two A.M. conversations with. I want someone who will love me just as much as I love them. But life has proven time and time again that I am unlovable. I'm too annoying, or too clingy, or too ugly, or too talkative. I just want someone to understand what I've been through and hold my hand and tell me that I'm not okay. Update: Found someone. They manipulated me. I broke it off.
Wtf!!!! Hold my beer. One question how many hands have you held so far and how many heads were held high cause of your support. Didn't mean to pry... but worth a thought. God bless tc.
The last time I saw this video I was yearning to be loved, crushing on my best friend when he was with someone else. Stumbled across this again today when I spent the last hour lying next to him looking into his eyes and kissing and caressing him. Love's beautiful. And the person's worth it.
One thing I am glad that I have done till now is to always express my feelings to the person I have always liked. even though I have never dated once in my life and it was always unrequited love for me, in future I would never have this regret that I never had the opportunity to tell them how I felt.
I love someone I've been in love with since I was 15. I've loved him for 7 years now. We were together for 6 year and broke up a year ago. We didn't break up because something happened or because we didn't love each other anymore but because the relationship was only routine and we weren't happy together anymore. We are so different and always had trouble understanding each other and figuring out what the other person wanted for the future. He is very traditional and I'm not as much and always wanted to see what the future holds when it's happening and not have everything planned out for me. But I can't stop loving him and I can't fall in love with somebody else. At least not like this. He has a new girlfriend now and it breaks my heart but I want him to be happy and I don't know if we could make each other happy. We don't match well and I now that there could be someone out there who is way better for me and fits so much better. But love doesn't choose someone who fits. Love just happens. Love is just there. And it doesn't go away. At least not for me. I think he is my person. I think he is the love of my love. But I don't know what to do about this.
Loving someone is not in your control but resisting your feelings and never expressing them because you know it deep down you aren't good enough for them and they will be much happier without and that's what you want . Their genuine happiness !
when everyone encouraged you to go confess but when everything goes wrong in the end and you get rejected 🙃 , sometimes it's just better when it's unknown.
This is my first time commenting in a TH-cam video. Thanks to this clip, I finally got the courage to tell her that I love her. I always thought I wasn't worthy of her, that's what stopped me from telling her. And I hope the people here will find and get their love.
Love isn’t obsession - obsession is a dream that is so shiny that we can escape into it easily instead of dealing with the pain of trauma and healing. True love with all its might can be experienced when you love yourself first
The quotes in the background make the video so overwhelming. And bravo to you, because it is just beautiful and moving. (i'm french sorry if it's false"
Love is the icing on the cake, The cherry on top of life, Love is the warmth they bring, The passion of their existence bleeding onto you and seeping through your damaged skin, Love is not forced, Love is not blind, They will fall to you like an apple from a tree, ripe and ready to be consumed.
I‘m awed by how many of us share this vulnerability…😢 please continue to speak from the heart and express your feelings!! ❤ I share your pain and pray that you will meet the one who returns your love!! You were not rejected from something good, but redirected to something better 🙏🏼! In the meantime, have the courage to love yourselves ❤
I used to love him for years. It started in HS and continued in our mid-20's. He never knew about it. I never had the courage to tell him. I watched him love different women. Listened to him talk how much he loved them. I had loved him with all his demons and vulnerabilities but I had to give it all up. Two years ago, I chose myself over him. I may not be that happy with my decision but at least I have made the right decision for myself.
Falling for someone is really sweet like those fairytale, we think they love us back too and we'll have a really good happy ending together in the big castle and ball dances but in reality it's never like that! Suffering to love someone, hoping they start to feel the same way for you, wishing they be the happiest person even if with someone else! It hurts to see them love someone else and say we are just friends like they really didn't realized I'm in love with them, they just think it's the friend kind of love! Idk but we always fall for the wrong person get hurt a lot and then we are just too scare to love the right person and everything is ruined! I know there is no way the person about whom I wrote this will read it but even if they do I just wanna say "no matter happens I'll love you the same and yes I know there's no chance of us together but in my dreams there is always" And sorry for those who can relate to me... 🤍
Beautiful video to watch, beautiful to hear, and I hope that everyone feels love like this one day, for even a little while. Enough to remember and daydream about. Softness in someone's heart that can be seen in their eyes is a very heartfelt feeling to be lost in. Hoping for love, and not embracing it when right there, I couldn't imagine the feeling. Reach out with everything, and say it, say how much you love that someone, it might, just might be said back through the magic of something not understood, not seen, but wanted and thought of so badly.
I never could express my feelings. I suppose a lot of it comes from the way I grew up. I never really had a place to express the way I felt at home. I learned to bottle up my emotions, and to hide them deep deep down. I wish I told her how I felt in the moment. How I was madly in love with her, with every single thing about her. She made me feel like I was on top of the world, like anything was possible. I hate how life works sometimes. I might never get to see her again, and that destroys me inside. I hope that one day, whether in this life or a different one, she finds out how much she meant to me
We love each other, but the timing isn’t right, and by god I mean it sucks. I can’t stop thinking of her. I just miss her. We’re just friends now and we both love each other but the timing has so many different things goin on. 🥺
He passed away before we could even fulfilled our dreams and promises together. 💔 Rest in peace ,my love .I love you so much ,please return my love in our next life because if not ,my love for you would be useless and you will be forever and ever indebted to me. 😭
I've been wanting to find motivation like this because it tis something that is pushed back by logic. Love isn't logic, it is passion. I mean, doesn't it feel like a stab in the heart when they tell you to move on, even before you have a chance to make a move, and when you decide to not make the move and move on while waiting, it just makes that wound even worse? People keep saying love is attraction, but it is passion. That unconditional feeling! (edit) Like the video said: If you really love someone, tell them! Take that big leap of faith, even when people call you a fool!
Of all the years and times I've told people I love them it never happens. I've never ever heard it in return. So many times I've gotten a broken heart. I would say don't do it.
In some point in our lives we will get to the point of that there's things not meant to be ours, and we just live the rest of our lives remembering the beautifull memories that stayed with us from them or imagine and making up beautifull memories and scenarios with them
Untill its mutual its meaningless. It will make you more hollow instead of feeling complete. And its ok not be loved romantically by anyone. You cant make anyone fall for you. The thing you can do is pass on whatever your heart says, with minimum expectations in return which is hard. Love isnt a thing everybody can enjoy. Its a luxury. Anyways you have your self. That should be enough. Everything else is to just satisfy our premordial desires.
I have and will always love him... he made me feel better about myself, made me... love.. me... but he left because he wanted something more than looking and staring at a screen... a physical love I couldn’t provide because of distance... barriers... thank you and I love you forevermore...
When I was in 7th grade I met my best friend. I had a crush on her since we met, but I thought it was just a crush. As we grew older my feelings grew stronger. In an attempt to win her over i worked on myself as much as I could. I worked out like crazy, dedicated myself to being honest, learn as much as I could to become successful. She motivated me to be better. freshman year I thought she felt the same and I made my move and she didn’t. She would go on to date some people and our friendship remained exactly that. We were best friends because I didn’t wanna out either one of through losing each other. And because I built a fantasy that we had some kind of story that wasn’t finished yet. And one day maybe she would feel different about me. Nothing ever changed because reality always trumps fantasy. A year after we graduated we remained close as we started our adult lives. she was diagnosed with bipolar depression. I tried so hard to win her over, I helped her move several times, I would fix things up around her house, and we’d support each other. But I think I may have been blinded by the nature of a relationship. I thought she would change but you can’t change people. Recently she had one of her episodes that was self destructing. I’ve helped her with these in the past and now I just can’t be apart of it. It’s too painful and I’m too selfish to help her knowing I can never be with her. But they hurt me when she sets herself back on all her hard earned work. I love her but I can no longer keep trying to be with her. Which I believe makes me a bad friend. I’m not helping her because I can’t have her in my life the way I want.
I really, really like my co worker. He makes my entire week every time I see him, he gives me music to listen to and I love it. I think about him all the time, he makes me so happy, how could I ever tell him😪
Loving someone in todays society is so broken. There almost isn’t even such a thing as dating anymore, everyone either wants a sneaky link or just someone to have that “relationship” feeling but never truly give their heart out. People throw away someone who was truly amazing for them and gave them true, pure happiness, but they don’t want to accept it. Love today just doesn’t exist and it sucks… to all those single and lonely, stay true to yourself, that day we always fantasize about are right around the corner!
People tell you to just move one, if only it was that easy. It's been more than a year now and the thought of her still breaks my heart in every way. We'll be okay someday....Someday.
@@skywalk78none94 I'm sorry you'll grow through it. I've learned to live with the pain and time really helps you bear with it so it'll be okay eventually.
At the same time, knowing that you love someone so much, whatever you gain back from that same person, knowing that you can sacrifice for him/ her is a different feeling! Feeling of “Oh I’m in love! I feel a nice feeling…” And again that, “ I have nothing to do with that feeling! It’s impossible! He/she doesn’t know that I’m in love with him/ her! I’m leaving forever…” is very hard at the same time! Feeling unfortunate! Unlucky! Helpless! But still I love 💕 If he can open myself and see! If he can read me!
@Remember the Potterheads girls, im with you. i feel the same way. that's why i made this video, because it hurts. but...its a little more complicated. i realized it too late. if you want, you can speak out here to make it easier for you.
Remember the Potterheads trust me, the best thing to do is try and become closer friends with them and when you have those deep convos about life and love and whatever, when love comes up they might give you some hints if they like you or not. Or the other option is just saying straight up that you like them and if they say yes that’s amazing and you will be forever glad you said it but if they say no, it will be ok because you can’t hold out forever for that one person and at least if they say that it won’t be the end of the world and you can move on easier and find love with someone who loves and adores you back and would do anything for you. You will be loved.
Sometimes right person find right person but at wrong time Sometimes right person loose right person because of wrong decision Sometimes right person can't love other person because to loose right person
I've known her most of my life... She's my best friend... Loving someone as beautiful as we could imagine isnt the easiest thing. Man or woman there are sacrifices that bring so much pain. But we lovr none the less
'Find someone who you can love like crazy and who would love you the same way back,' 👈this hit hard. Sometimes it's trauma bond, that makes us want unavailable people who won't love us the same way. We need to love ourselves that much to know we deserve better, and have enough self respect to let go of anyone who doesn't serve us.
no, the love that breaks you apart, and keep you in the uneneding cycle of wait, it is toxic for you. sometimes we are too overwhelmed by the feelings, we think we are cheating if we try to control our emotions for the other person; but that wait and irrational hope is costing you your inner peace of mind, and memories, and leads to self-doubt and loathing. these things sound good in movies, but when i see some of my friends relentlessly waiting for reciprocation, when the other person has clearly declined the offer, they are stuck in the loop.
I feel like a villian in someones love story omggggg 1:18 I was the wrong person that was datd by him. I feel tramautized because i did something i never knew i would do. I was the villain for once Like the bratty protagonist that regreted everything she/he did. I loved him. But he just.. I made a mistake... We we're perfect, we had a beautiful relationship, I don't even know why I gave him up.. Now he's with another person, a person I envy so much.. We we're together, and I 'ended' it, I ignored his texts, I ignored him.. I just want him back and now, we we're friends and tonight, I made another mistake.. He left me completely. I hate her. Sorry, I'm just so heartbroken, I cried 2 full days just because of him, It's my fault, but i wish it wasn't so we can be together.
if he left you completely, then he is not worthy to be with you. he was able to let you go, now you have to do it. it's very difficult, I'm still trying to do it. think again, did you really want to be with him, or did you just not want to be alone?
there's this girl ... she has opened my eyes up to a new world. i think about her a lot. we've kissed, but it doesn't seem like that big of a deal to her. she seems to be in search of something else, and i've just been thrown to the side while she searches. maybe she wants something 'casual' - a kiss here and there for a laugh. i know i have so much to offer to her, and if anything i've tried to not overwhelm her with all that i *CAN* offer. how do i know that she's not really interested in me? you don't take more than a full day to respond to someone when you have an interest in them ... my brain tells me that there are more negatives than positives to getting with this girl, that she hasn't maintained the small interest that she showed in me at the beginning of this journey, but my heart, my silly little heart, tells me to confess to this girl, show my true colours ... of course there are details that i cannot disclose, but that's the jist. it's magical because it's my first experience with someone of the same sex, and this magical feeling might be caused by just that. I read a comment below 'if you truly love someone, let them go, let them be free'. good luck to you all, lovers. spread love and kindness
Probably noone will see it. But I'm so scared of what I'm feeling right now. Because I know that I love the wrong person who don't and won't love me back. But it's just so hurtful to face with this fact everyday
i wish i could fall in love with someone else. i love this girl that made me scared of love but i can't stop loving her, i'm really doing my best rn. i just wish i could fall for somebody just the way i did with her. love to y'all
What’s worse is all of this when you have a disability that makes it so much more difficult to understand other people so you never say anything because you have a fear of being judged when you’ve been judged your whole life
He will never know how many poems i wrote him . He will never know how he saved me from everything. I wanted to wake up once more just to see him again. He's been my light , my dreams for 4 years . His eyes are seeing someone different and he belongs to someone different but still i cant let him go out from my mind
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if you want, you can speak out about how you feel here. it may make you feel better.
edit: a few years later i confessed my feelings to him. he broke my heart. that's all. it's been a couple of months, but i still can't move on.
edit (another year later): i got my heart broken by another guy, but i'm fine. i can't stop romanticizing everything haha (it's not funny btw)
This made me cry thank you.
Mmm..... it's like I'm about 15 years old and i get this feeling that I've started to love that girl......would it be right to tell her at this age at this time or should i wait
@@kiddynamite4863 tell her bro and when you know the answer it may be a blessing or it may give you assurance
@@nithipanv4979 thanks...... I'll try my best
Here I am awake from a dream seeing your face, we weren’t anything but to me it felt like something, I’m probably overthinking as usual but I hope if it’s meant to be you’ll come back . I had to be something more.. i had to.. there’s a look in your eyes I can’t forget about - e.m.
Falling in love with someone while you watch them fall in love with someone else is a different level of pain
bitter truth
And thats happening here and im just smiling and noding
I can completely understand one sidded love hurts and whn u rnt the first choice of anyone and whn u r the one who texts first and all it hurts and I'm hurting that nobody talks to me unless I talk to them and I'm left alone and want to see wt its like to be loved..
@@AbhiShek-py7jk I'm in the same position you are...no one chats me up unless I do...I had this notion she liked me and all of a sudden...she told me she never liked me, being used for good grades is a different level of pain...it Hurts to be the one to start a conversation everytime
it is
Cheers to the people who've been hiding their real feelings for someone's happiness.
yep
Why cheers? I don't get it
@@heather7356 i think it’s because they’re strong enou to do that which i can relate too :’)
Cheers 🍻
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"Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?" "Because we expect the love we think we deserve." So true
ofc
Sadly yes 😭
My favorite quote to
It hurts so much. 😢
*accept
If you truly love someone, let them go, let them be free, let them find their happiness, if it's not you, let it not be you. Send them love, send them light and release them. And forgive them, and most importantly, forgive yourself. Feel what you need to feel, let it run through you, let it wash all over you, but don't let it drown you. Don't stay in that lost place. What is meant for you, truly meant for you, will never, ever, pass you by. Sending you all some love and light from my heart to yours 🌻
Thanks for this man, i needed it ❤.
I have a bestfriend, and she's honestly my model woman. She's everything i could ever ask for. She deserves so much love, and i wish i could give her all the love that's pent up inside of me, but i can't. And we're very comfortable with each other, but everytime we meet, she always makes it clear that we're gonna be just friends no matter what, and i know that too. I have a lot of affection for her, and wish her the best. But i can't be with her. And that breaks me apart a little. I've been giving her hints about it too, but i can't confess, cause i don't want to ruin our friendship. I know this i a temporary thing, but it's still kinda hard.
@@justaloner4075 tell her. If loving honesty from your heart to hers ruins the friendship, then its a relationship that wasn't meant to last anyways and you can move on. By keeping it inside, you may be unwittingly closing your heart to other opportunities for that kind of love around you while being blinded by your feelings for her. Plus, you never know, she may actually feel the same but be too scared to admit it as you have been. Either way, at least you know. The not knowing or what could have beens will eat you alive. Be bold. Be honest. Be open to all possibilities and the universe will take care of you. Sending you lots of love and light 💜
Thankyou :’)
@@justaloner4075 so, did u confess?
I've been doing that for 3 years and it hurts. The funny part is that he doesn't even know it....
And the worst part is that my own sister has a huge crush on him, I watch them get close, day by day. While I put on a smile
I just want to feel loved... even once.
one day it will be. don't doubt it, wait a little longer
@@redbery when ? How long I have to wait
i just wanna feel what is like to be loved.
One day
I wonder what it feels like to be chosen.
25 years ago as a high school student I missed the opportunity to express my love for the girl I loved. Even after such a long time, I still have feelings for her and miss her very much. Recently by chance I saw a TH-cam video which showed the exact spot she used to wait for the train to go home, 25 years ago ( both of us took the same train to school and she went to our sister school). The spot hasn't changed a bit and we Humans have grown old. This really hit me hard in the heart! I totally agree that if you love someone, just tell them. I missed my chance and it's really painful when you see that person in your mind again and again.
I'm in college...
Should I tell her???
@@lakhanpalsinghchouhan5639 If I were you, I would tell her. Good luck!
@@charithakarunaratne407 what if she rejected and I would hurted?
We can't make people like us.
@@lakhanpalsinghchouhan5639 Yes, that is true, but you have to try and see. If you are not bold enough the you would never know.
thanks for sharing this
I told my girlfriend that I love her and she’s never been able to say it back, just last night I learned why she was never able to. I was finally told about the sexual harassment and the sexual abuse from her last relationship. Yes it hurts sometimes knowing that she’s not ready to feel love for me, but I’ve been able to come to terms with it, especially now that I know the truth about her past. I made a decision, I’m going to love her, I’m going to keep telling her that I love her, I’m going to show her that she’s loved, and I’m going to be with her as long as she needs. I don’t know how, but I’m going to make her feel like she does deserve love and that she does deserve a better life
This is probably the sweetest thing i have ever heard in my entire life. You are doing the right thing. Dont give up on her. Wishing you a good eternity with her
Wow
Hey it's really nice of you.just get old with her make her strong, think about her and keep telling her that you love her.
Awe that is the sweetest thing ever. Hope you get the love that you deserve. Blessings 🕊
Very selfless. God Bless🙏🏼
I’ve been in love with him for 4 years, when i say love, i mean, i stayed by his side on his darkest days and his brightest. I stayed by his side when his bipolar made him push me away, i stayed when he broke my heart. I stayed while he loved someone else. I watched him love her and not me, i just want him to be happy even if it means i suffer. He’s my bestfriend. I love him so much that i lose myself in it. I love him more then life itself. I would die for him. It’s not easy, it’s agony. It’s pain. But his smile is worth it. He’s in love with someone else again and it hurts so much i feel like my heart can’t take it. If he ever reads this: i tried. I tried so hard. I love you. I’m sorry.
That’s fucking deeep 🥺😢
Everything that u are saying is the exact same way that is going on with me but that’s life and I’ll stay even if it means for me to suffer 🥺😪
I’m sorry he didn’t chose you
Abuse its not love ...
You sitting there hurting ...
Run away !
🖤🖤 I feel it and I completely understand, I want to tell her that I love her but I'm afraid that it would ruin our friendship as she doesn't love me back 💔it hurts but seeing her smile makes it go away but still there's pain can't help but suffer it alone. @Nunnie be happy dear 🖤 may u find ur "the one" and be happy..
Feeling unloved or unliked by someone u absolutely adore love and care about is the worst feeling in the entire world. Its like you can physically feel your heart sinking down to your stomach and it feels awful and you try your best to stop that feeling but it does not go away easily.
the truth in every word
Felt it over a million times
Sherlock.
Love, Rosie.
Harry Potter.
Lah Lah Land.
Sex Education.
Peaky Blinders.
Stranger Things.
13 Reasons Why.
Captain America.
Pride and Prejudice.
Perks of being a Wallowflower.
13 reason why beguile my Heart
still missing 1
The first monologue is from HIMYM by Ted❤️
Thanks
Don't tell them if you're not sure they feel the same about you, you'll ruin the friendship you have and that haunts more than anything else.
True
I agree
I have to say something, anything, even if no ones reading this. I’m in love with someone and I can’t be with that someone. Romance movies are a luxury. If only movies could be reality. Feeling my heart actually break, that sinking, drowning feeling. It’s hurts.
of course it will be read by me! I know it hurts. I watch movies about love and realize that this rarely happens in life. but it happens, right?
If it's not too person why can't you be with them? Love always finds a way
Just know that you’re not alone. I’m going through the same thing. I thought maybe there was some hope but the pandemic ruined everything. I’m only still holding on because losing her completely will be too devastating at a time when I have no social safety net because of quarantine life.
Hey, I read, and I want to know if you got that person, if you still love them, if you're okay
there's one girl in my life, where I said so many romantic and heartfelt things to. Sang in her ear, touch he cheek and her tears of happiness, kissed her in the rain, held her under the stars. I read what you wrote, and I know the feeling. After all the things that were said, etc. she's gone.
Well how weird it is ? I've never been in love , never been in any relationship but I seriously want somebody beside me. With whom I can feel safe, I can feel free , have trips together, fight for food and just be there for each other ❤️
I have never been in a relationship too. And i never really Liked someone in this way. But now there is this guy that i really really like and i dont no what to do...
@@RS-sv8qo go tell him
Me too
I remember my first time I fell in love. You were a magnetic person, your personality, your smile, your attitude... Everything seemed attractive to me. I felt that everyone around you loved you, and I had a lot of admiration for you. I saw in you everything that I wanted to be, and I started spending time with you. When I saw you, I was very happy, even if it was just passing by or saying hello. If I didn't see you it made me sad. And every time you proposed something to me, I always said yes, because I did everything possible to be with you as long as possible.
What I remember most is how you would stare at me, and I would turn red and not be able to hold your gaze, but at the same time I loved looking at you. While you were present, the rest of the world did not exist. I listened to you carefully, all your anecdotes, and you listened to me carefully. You always had that beautiful smile, genuine and bright, and I would laugh with you at everything.
Your way of walking hypnotizes me, I saw you from afar and was able to recognize you. I love your smell, and your look, and your smile, and your voice...
I remember when you asked me to accompany you to smoke. I watched you smoke as if it were the most attractive thing in the world, and I remember how I watched in slow motion when you expelled the smoke. I remember when you proposed to me on the spur of the moment to go to a pub for a drink. You loved to drink, and I followed you. The nights we came back from drinking alcohol, acting stupid. The conversions and confessions we had, and the connection I felt in each of them. I confessed to you that I was bisexual and had just told my parents recently. We talked about our future, and how we saw ourselves in 10 years.
I spent so much time with you, alone and with our group of friends, that I really got to know you well. I knew that when we went out partying the next day you weren't going to go to class because you fell asleep. I knew your favorite food, and that you don't like peas. I know your dog's name, what you love, what music you like, and your behavior patterns.
You are kind, you care about others, and I never saw evil in you. And not only did I notice it, more people told me the same thing. You always had a charisma to attract other people. That's why you were always so valued, and surrounded by others.
I really thought we had similar ideas and attitudes. And I fell in love with you without knowing it. I had a really bad time when I decided to suppress it so as not to ruin the friendship. I cried a lot, even in front of my parents, because you indirectly hurt me. And now, although we are still friends, there is nowhere near the same closeness that I had before with you. I barely know about your life, we almost don't look each other in the eye anymore, and at least I've changed a lot. I still remember each and every thing we did. And all the details that you had. The stupid anecdotes, and the holidays. Even though it's been a while, I need to get over you now, because life goes on and you are happy with someone else.
You really shouldn't expect anything when you love someone cause not getting what you wanted , well it'll hurt a lot . Real life isn't like you see in Movies .
Feels like a crime to move on. The heart literally begs to wait and wait and gives hope that she might take a chance. Sometimes family pressure is the thing that one is afraid of. Hope we meet again. It's hard to forget something which was never wrong💔
❤️💔❤️🩹
I have fallen in love with someone I work with, he's everything I could ever wish or ask for, his beautiful deep brown eyes, amazing smile, the way me and him laugh at each other's dumb moments, how when he brings me home he makes sure I get in the house safely, the ease of just being around him and talking to him, but I just find it so hard to express what I want to say verbally, 3 little words are so hard to come out of my lips even though I just want to scream them out at the top of my lungs, why is love so difficult?
The same thing has been happening to me:/
I remember my first time I fell in love. You were a magnetic person, your personality, your smile, your attitude... Everything seemed attractive to me. I felt that everyone around you loved you, and I had a lot of admiration for you. I saw in you everything that I wanted to be, and I started spending time with you. When I saw you, I was very happy, even if it was just passing by or saying hello. If I didn't see you it made me sad. And every time you proposed something to me, I always said yes, because I did everything possible to be with you as long as possible.
What I remember most is how you would stare at me, and I would turn red and not be able to hold your gaze, but at the same time I loved looking at you. While you were present, the rest of the world did not exist. I listened to you carefully, all your anecdotes, and you listened to me carefully. You always had that beautiful smile, genuine and bright, and I would laugh with you at everything.
Your way of walking hypnotizes me, I saw you from afar and was able to recognize you. I love your smell, and your look, and your smile, and your voice...
I remember when you asked me to accompany you to smoke. I watched you smoke as if it were the most attractive thing in the world, and I remember how I watched in slow motion when you expelled the smoke. I remember when you proposed to me on the spur of the moment to go to a pub for a drink. You loved to drink, and I followed you. The nights we came back from drinking alcohol, acting stupid. The conversions and confessions we had, and the connection I felt in each of them. I confessed to you that I was bisexual and had just told my parents recently. We talked about our future, and how we saw ourselves in 10 years.
I spent so much time with you, alone and with our group of friends, that I really got to know you well. I knew that when we went out partying the next day you weren't going to go to class because you fell asleep. I knew your favorite food, and that you don't like peas. I know your dog's name, what you love, what music you like, and your behavior patterns.
You are kind, you care about others, and I never saw evil in you. And not only did I notice it, more people told me the same thing. You always had a charisma to attract other people. That's why you were always so valued, and surrounded by others.
I really thought we had similar ideas and attitudes. And I fell in love with you without knowing it. I had a really bad time when I decided to suppress it so as not to ruin the friendship. I cried a lot, even in front of my parents, because you indirectly hurt me. And now, although we are still friends, there is nowhere near the same closeness that I had before with you. I barely know about your life, we almost don't look each other in the eye anymore, and at least I've changed a lot. I still remember each and every thing we did. And all the details that you had. The stupid anecdotes, and the holidays. Even though it's been a while, I need to get over you now, because life goes on and you are happy with someone else.
Ohhh! I really loved how you show your feeling to her and put them in words really brilliant ❤ and may God bless you
It hurts when you're falling in love with someone that you really connected to and get along very well just to suddenly find out that she's already in a relationship with someone
Same bro it's really sad
Worst part is : you get to know about her relationship from her itself because she trusts you and let's you know about everything going in their life.
Yo. That's so relatable.
Sometimes I feel like I am drowning alone in my love and Everytime I see him my heart breaks over and over again because he has my heart no matter how much I don't want him too.
if he's in love with someone else, you'll have to let him go. I think you know that yourself. maybe if things don't work out between them, you can tell him how you feel.
“True love is not real unless it is returned”. 💔
💯% False.
It is the unrequited love that is the truest. When you love in spite of knowing it can’t or won’t be reciprocated, that proves whether it’s real and steadfast or not.
I have loved for 25 years without it ever being returned. Does that mean it isn’t true? No, quite the contrary.
Definitely, true love is unconditional and that includes reciprocated love
True love is unconditional love
Then I have never loved anyone. ❤️🩹 (I did love my job! 🚂)
Love is a complicated simple word that hurts you the most and makes you the happiest.
What is more painful than expressing your love ?
Getting rejected by saying you're not my type
And your love is called obsession or infatuation
i am in love with my good friend, but i will never have him. so i'll always just watch from the sidelines :)
Tell him!! He may feel the same, don't waste love
I couraged (don't know if it"s an actual word but it pretty much sums that emotional ordeal of telling someone something soooo personal) up and told mine after 38 years of waiting in the shadows and being the good friend I've always been (and most probably will be), after a conversation with him expressing his love (he wrote it 10 times -he was drinking so I bet he was buzzed and inhibited), appreciation, respect and him being proud of me ... he told me it wasn't inappropriate, but he avoids my contacts.
So what can I say... bring on the eternal heartbreak once again. 😓
TELL HIM bestie you don't get to watch him love another you can be the one he loves
You never stop loving them,
i love someone, but it took me years to realize it. i remember when i met him, i thought we’d never talk, let alone be friends…well, we ended up talking two years ago, and his friendship has become one of the greatest things in my life.
during those two years, i got into my first relationship, which was awful-i ignored all the red flags, including feeling unable to talk to my ex honestly and him wanting me for his own interests. (he finally broke it off over text, thank goodness.) through that whole time, my friend was always there whenever i needed to talk about ANYTHING. he cared more about me than my ex ever did, and he showed that in so many ways.
i finally realized that i’d been in denial and found the courage to confess to him a couple months ago. while we’re still working things out, we’re still very close and happy in our friendship. :)
I told my crush that I love her but she said she's not ready for a relationship but I'm still hoping that she'd love me back
@@Eatpotatoeslivehappybebetter let's see what happens in the future thank you for the advice.
I did that years ago ...want advice ?
Move on ..
I think your crush is also need you because recently someone said to me that and I said I'm not ready but I really need that person
Wow same situation
Atleast u told, I don't have the guts, I am afraid that she will reject me🥴
It never goes away. One of the bravest things you can do is love a broken person. Even if it breaks you. I hope she’s well. God Bless.
I love him sooo much . But.... he’s probably looking for a better girl than me . And it hurts every time when I realize if I lose him to someone else . I’d lose him . His smile, his laugh , his energy , his eyes and sometimes I try to move on cause I think that he would not love me back . But every time I look at someone else ...that’s when I realize nobody compares to him . I’ve kept this all to my self and no one knows. Him forever 💕💕💕
I keep watching these videos and they absolutely rip my heart apart but like I'm addicted, I keep coming back
One word
INCREDIBLE 💜
thank you so much ❤️!!!
You got me....totally thought it was gonna be...
LOVE 💝
@@redbery awwwww that's so awesome
This is a masterpiece that deserves more views.
Falling in love the most beautiful and painful thing one can go through. Beautiful until it lasts, painful when it ends. Because forever isn't forever
Stumbled upon that type of love you fantasize about and let it slip a appreciate the creator for this
I started talking to this girl from work and honestly she’s amazing and for the first time in a long time I’ve actually cared about something and I don’t think I’ve ever felt this way about someone and I’ve been watching her and talking with her about rocky stuff in her relationship rn and I’ve been getting so many mixed signals and I honestly I was scared to actually start caring about her and when I finally start showing I care I got hit with the possibility I might have lung cancer. When her and some of my friends found out they’ve been super supportive and it’s been eating at me alottt and it hurts so damn bad when she hugs me and says it’s gonna be okay and I can’t even tell her how I feel about her or how thankful I am to have her in my life and now I’m starting to look at her like it’s the first and last time I’m gonna see her at the same time.
I'm really sorry
Loving someone who loves you is like a gift. But loving someone who doesn’t it’s a curse and it’s painful. We can’t choose who we love and we can’t stop loving someone. They always have a place in our heart. Love makes you strong and weak. Some of us are not lucky thats it. Once we lose our loved ones it feels like we don’t deserve to be loved. Why do we meet people we can’t be with???
Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him...
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I’m in love with her... Sometimes I get the impression that she does too but maybe she’s just being really nice. A few months ago, right when I was gonna tell her how I feel, she said she was talking to someone else. I let that slide and she’s still my best friend and I don’t wanna change that. I don’t know what to do😔
does she have someone now? I think you should show her how you feel. you can then regret all your life that you didn't do it. if there is an opportunity to hint this to her, then use it. this does not mean that your friendship will be destroyed.
Do tell her. Maybe she will reject you, but you won't regret it. I am in the same position as you. I confessed and got rejected but I am still in touch with her. I will wait. But at least she knows .
Don't forget one important thing, being yourself is always #1
I can't tell him how I feel, I don't think my mind and my heart are ready to hear that everything was just an unrequited love.
Falling is easy but when the same person becomes unknown that hurts too much
Falling in love with someone while watching falling them out of love with you is another level kind of pain
Hurts like helll.
Never give up on true love even when it hurts. Be brave enough to say sorry and forgiving comes easy.
I want to feel loved.
Unconditionally, brilliantly, beautifully, and honestly.
I want someone to believe in me, to fight for me, and to understand me.
I want someone who is just as crazy as I am.
I want someone to have weird two A.M. conversations with.
I want someone who will love me just as much as I love them.
But life has proven time and time again that I am unlovable. I'm too annoying, or too clingy, or too ugly, or too talkative.
I just want someone to understand what I've been through and hold my hand and tell me that I'm not okay.
Update:
Found someone. They manipulated me. I broke it off.
Same. Same.
Wtf!!!! Hold my beer.
One question how many hands have you held so far and how many heads were held high cause of your support.
Didn't mean to pry... but worth a thought.
God bless tc.
Never give up. God has a plan for all of us. Time will tell 🙏🏼
Darling, dont worry - you willl get through this like a star
I kinda have a same story, i know you will find love, you are a strong and a great person. Good luck my friend
The last time I saw this video I was yearning to be loved, crushing on my best friend when he was with someone else. Stumbled across this again today when I spent the last hour lying next to him looking into his eyes and kissing and caressing him. Love's beautiful. And the person's worth it.
i'm so so so happy for you!!
One thing I am glad that I have done till now is to always express my feelings to the person I have always liked. even though I have never dated once in my life and it was always unrequited love for me, in future I would never have this regret that I never had the opportunity to tell them how I felt.
I love someone I've been in love with since I was 15. I've loved him for 7 years now. We were together for 6 year and broke up a year ago. We didn't break up because something happened or because we didn't love each other anymore but because the relationship was only routine and we weren't happy together anymore. We are so different and always had trouble understanding each other and figuring out what the other person wanted for the future. He is very traditional and I'm not as much and always wanted to see what the future holds when it's happening and not have everything planned out for me. But I can't stop loving him and I can't fall in love with somebody else. At least not like this. He has a new girlfriend now and it breaks my heart but I want him to be happy and I don't know if we could make each other happy. We don't match well and I now that there could be someone out there who is way better for me and fits so much better. But love doesn't choose someone who fits. Love just happens. Love is just there. And it doesn't go away. At least not for me. I think he is my person. I think he is the love of my love. But I don't know what to do about this.
Everyone deserves to be loved. Just trust me guys it feels amazing 🥺
I love him 3 years, and my love becomes stronger every single day. He loves another, his love is undisced, but i can’t stop loving him.
Yeah like he sometimes even calls me sister it just breaks my heart like dude please stop please
Loving someone is not in your control but resisting your feelings and never expressing them because you know it deep down you aren't good enough for them and they will be much happier without and that's what you want . Their genuine happiness !
when everyone encouraged you to go confess but when everything goes wrong in the end and you get rejected 🙃 , sometimes it's just better when it's unknown.
It's like Schrödinger's cat, until you tell them then the possibility exists that it will be accepted (as well as not accepted of course)
This is my first time commenting in a TH-cam video. Thanks to this clip, I finally got the courage to tell her that I love her. I always thought I wasn't worthy of her, that's what stopped me from telling her. And I hope the people here will find and get their love.
❤️
Love isn’t obsession - obsession is a dream that is so shiny that we can escape into it easily instead of dealing with the pain of trauma and healing. True love with all its might can be experienced when you love yourself first
The quotes in the background make the video so overwhelming. And bravo to you, because it is just beautiful and moving. (i'm french sorry if it's false"
thank you so much 😭❤️
“you gotta tell people how you feel when you feel it”
I agree so much! The needs music,heart,and so much felings tell every days that person you like them so much is so important,never forget this!❤❤❤❤❤❤
"You want the person you love to have everything they want no matter even if it destroys you."
I hope the next sunrise 🌞 would make our story complete ❤️.
Love is the icing on the cake,
The cherry on top of life,
Love is the warmth they bring,
The passion of their existence bleeding onto you and seeping through your damaged skin,
Love is not forced,
Love is not blind,
They will fall to you like an apple from a tree, ripe and ready to be consumed.
I‘m awed by how many of us share this vulnerability…😢 please continue to speak from the heart and express your feelings!! ❤ I share your pain and pray that you will meet the one who returns your love!! You were not rejected from something good, but redirected to something better 🙏🏼! In the meantime, have the courage to love yourselves ❤
I used to love him for years. It started in HS and continued in our mid-20's. He never knew about it. I never had the courage to tell him. I watched him love different women. Listened to him talk how much he loved them. I had loved him with all his demons and vulnerabilities but I had to give it all up. Two years ago, I chose myself over him. I may not be that happy with my decision but at least I have made the right decision for myself.
"Ted Evelyn Mosby", I love this guy. The greatest lessons about love comes from this guy.
Falling for someone is really sweet like those fairytale, we think they love us back too and we'll have a really good happy ending together in the big castle and ball dances but in reality it's never like that! Suffering to love someone, hoping they start to feel the same way for you, wishing they be the happiest person even if with someone else! It hurts to see them love someone else and say we are just friends like they really didn't realized I'm in love with them, they just think it's the friend kind of love! Idk but we always fall for the wrong person get hurt a lot and then we are just too scare to love the right person and everything is ruined! I know there is no way the person about whom I wrote this will read it but even if they do I just wanna say "no matter happens I'll love you the same and yes I know there's no chance of us together but in my dreams there is always" And sorry for those who can relate to me... 🤍
"WE ACCEPT THE LOVE WE THINK WE DESERVE."
WOW. I always see that quote, but now it hits so different. Thank you for this, I'm crying
Beautiful video to watch, beautiful to hear, and I hope that everyone feels love like this one day, for even a little while. Enough to remember and daydream about. Softness in someone's heart that can be seen in their eyes is a very heartfelt feeling to be lost in. Hoping for love, and not embracing it when right there, I couldn't imagine the feeling. Reach out with everything, and say it, say how much you love that someone, it might, just might be said back through the magic of something not understood, not seen, but wanted and thought of so badly.
Holy crap, that was outstanding!!! Thanks for putting this together 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫂❤️
When he said "Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date" that hit hard I dont know why we do :(
Loving someone that doesn't want a relationship with you again💔💔and I can't love anyone else
Feeling so numb😭😭😭
I’m in love with my best friend and I just hope that some day I am gonna hear “I love you the way you do”...
I never could express my feelings. I suppose a lot of it comes from the way I grew up. I never really had a place to express the way I felt at home. I learned to bottle up my emotions, and to hide them deep deep down. I wish I told her how I felt in the moment. How I was madly in love with her, with every single thing about her. She made me feel like I was on top of the world, like anything was possible. I hate how life works sometimes. I might never get to see her again, and that destroys me inside. I hope that one day, whether in this life or a different one, she finds out how much she meant to me
This Edit deserves more recognition
thank you so mush^^
Love is a mystery which reveals the inner person within us.
It's kinda tragic but we do tend to survive on that tiny bit of happiness by seeing the people we love knowing that we're hurting bit by bit.
We love each other, but the timing isn’t right, and by god I mean it sucks. I can’t stop thinking of her. I just miss her. We’re just friends now and we both love each other but the timing has so many different things goin on. 🥺
He passed away before we could even fulfilled our dreams and promises together. 💔
Rest in peace ,my love .I love you so much ,please return my love in our next life because if not ,my love for you would be useless and you will be forever and ever indebted to me. 😭
I've been wanting to find motivation like this because it tis something that is pushed back by logic. Love isn't logic, it is passion. I mean, doesn't it feel like a stab in the heart when they tell you to move on, even before you have a chance to make a move, and when you decide to not make the move and move on while waiting, it just makes that wound even worse? People keep saying love is attraction, but it is passion. That unconditional feeling!
(edit) Like the video said: If you really love someone, tell them! Take that big leap of faith, even when people call you a fool!
I do love someone but everytime I tell them they laugh at me and say that I'm nothing , I'm pathetic......😔well you can't really do much can you
the one you love doesn't deserve you. don't waste your time on this, you deserve better!!
Your worth isn’t dependant on any other person than your own character. If you try to be a good person than you are worth everything 💕
There is only so much you can do when they aren't interested in you. Just go out there and find someone who wants you as you want them .
Slap em ,leave em
Same honey same
Of all the years and times I've told people I love them it never happens. I've never ever heard it in return. So many times I've gotten a broken heart. I would say don't do it.
In some point in our lives we will get to the point of that there's things not meant to be ours, and we just live the rest of our lives remembering the beautifull memories that stayed with us from them or imagine and making up beautifull memories and scenarios with them
Untill its mutual its meaningless. It will make you more hollow instead of feeling complete. And its ok not be loved romantically by anyone. You cant make anyone fall for you. The thing you can do is pass on whatever your heart says, with minimum expectations in return which is hard. Love isnt a thing everybody can enjoy. Its a luxury. Anyways you have your self. That should be enough. Everything else is to just satisfy our premordial desires.
Gets me in the mood to write ✍️
I have and will always love him... he made me feel better about myself, made me... love.. me... but he left because he wanted something more than looking and staring at a screen... a physical love I couldn’t provide because of distance... barriers... thank you and I love you forevermore...
When I was in 7th grade I met my best friend. I had a crush on her since we met, but I thought it was just a crush. As we grew older my feelings grew stronger. In an attempt to win her over i worked on myself as much as I could. I worked out like crazy, dedicated myself to being honest, learn as much as I could to become successful. She motivated me to be better. freshman year I thought she felt the same and I made my move and she didn’t. She would go on to date some people and our friendship remained exactly that. We were best friends because I didn’t wanna out either one of through losing each other. And because I built a fantasy that we had some kind of story that wasn’t finished yet. And one day maybe she would feel different about me. Nothing ever changed because reality always trumps fantasy. A year after we graduated we remained close as we started our adult lives. she was diagnosed with bipolar depression. I tried so hard to win her over, I helped her move several times, I would fix things up around her house, and we’d support each other. But I think I may have been blinded by the nature of a relationship. I thought she would change but you can’t change people. Recently she had one of her episodes that was self destructing. I’ve helped her with these in the past and now I just can’t be apart of it. It’s too painful and I’m too selfish to help her knowing I can never be with her. But they hurt me when she sets herself back on all her hard earned work. I love her but I can no longer keep trying to be with her. Which I believe makes me a bad friend. I’m not helping her because I can’t have her in my life the way I want.
We have similar situations-
I really, really like my co worker. He makes my entire week every time I see him, he gives me music to listen to and I love it. I think about him all the time, he makes me so happy, how could I ever tell him😪
Love cannot be long hidden..it hurts both people..💞❤️
Loving someone in todays society is so broken. There almost isn’t even such a thing as dating anymore, everyone either wants a sneaky link or just someone to have that “relationship” feeling but never truly give their heart out. People throw away someone who was truly amazing for them and gave them true, pure happiness, but they don’t want to accept it. Love today just doesn’t exist and it sucks… to all those single and lonely, stay true to yourself, that day we always fantasize about are right around the corner!
We realise the existence of love when we meet a right girl ❤🩹
People tell you to just move one, if only it was that easy. It's been more than a year now and the thought of her still breaks my heart in every way. We'll be okay someday....Someday.
How are you doing now? Been less than a week for me im broken
@@skywalk78none94 I'm sorry you'll grow through it. I've learned to live with the pain and time really helps you bear with it so it'll be okay eventually.
@@oulsmy3028 it’s crazy she texted me right now about her dog dying…. and of course I made sure she was ok…. Sigh what a week
@@skywalk78none94 you did great. Hand in there man everything will be alright
@@oulsmy3028 thank you for your kindness it was definitely needed
I'm dyyyying, there is some dramione in this video. I repeat there is DRAMIONE 😂😍😂😍😂😍😂
At the same time, knowing that you love someone so much, whatever you gain back from that same person, knowing that you can sacrifice for him/ her is a different feeling! Feeling of “Oh I’m in love! I feel a nice feeling…”
And again that, “ I have nothing to do with that feeling! It’s impossible! He/she doesn’t know that I’m in love with him/ her! I’m leaving forever…” is very hard at the same time! Feeling unfortunate! Unlucky! Helpless!
But still I love 💕
If he can open myself and see! If he can read me!
I am brave. Or I thought I was. The coward in me will forever show through as I live in agony until the day I tell them- that I love them.
@Remember the Potterheads girls, im with you. i feel the same way. that's why i made this video, because it hurts. but...its a little more complicated. i realized it too late.
if you want, you can speak out here to make it easier for you.
Remember the Potterheads trust me, the best thing to do is try and become closer friends with them and when you have those deep convos about life and love and whatever, when love comes up they might give you some hints if they like you or not. Or the other option is just saying straight up that you like them and if they say yes that’s amazing and you will be forever glad you said it but if they say no, it will be ok because you can’t hold out forever for that one person and at least if they say that it won’t be the end of the world and you can move on easier and find love with someone who loves and adores you back and would do anything for you. You will be loved.
:,)
i fell in love with him, he was my everything. now i’m nothing to him but he’s everything to her.
Sometimes right person find right person but at wrong time
Sometimes right person loose right person because of wrong decision
Sometimes right person can't love other person because to loose right person
I've known her most of my life... She's my best friend... Loving someone as beautiful as we could imagine isnt the easiest thing. Man or woman there are sacrifices that bring so much pain. But we lovr none the less
'Find someone who you can love like crazy and who would love you the same way back,' 👈this hit hard.
Sometimes it's trauma bond, that makes us want unavailable people who won't love us the same way.
We need to love ourselves that much to know we deserve better, and have enough self respect to let go of anyone who doesn't serve us.
no, the love that breaks you apart, and keep you in the uneneding cycle of wait, it is toxic for you. sometimes we are too overwhelmed by the feelings, we think we are cheating if we try to control our emotions for the other person; but that wait and irrational hope is costing you your inner peace of mind, and memories, and leads to self-doubt and loathing. these things sound good in movies, but when i see some of my friends relentlessly waiting for reciprocation, when the other person has clearly declined the offer, they are stuck in the loop.
So true. Real life is not like the movies. This toxicity sucks the life out of you.
I feel like a villian in someones love story omggggg
1:18 I was the wrong person that was datd by him. I feel tramautized because i did something i never knew i would do. I was the villain for once
Like the bratty protagonist that regreted everything she/he did.
I loved him. But he just.. I made a mistake...
We we're perfect, we had a beautiful relationship, I don't even know why I gave him up.. Now he's with another person, a person I envy so much..
We we're together, and I 'ended' it, I ignored his texts, I ignored him..
I just want him back and now, we we're friends and tonight, I made another mistake..
He left me completely.
I hate her.
Sorry, I'm just so heartbroken, I cried 2 full days just because of him, It's my fault, but i wish it wasn't so we can be together.
if he left you completely, then he is not worthy to be with you. he was able to let you go, now you have to do it. it's very difficult, I'm still trying to do it. think again, did you really want to be with him, or did you just not want to be alone?
there's this girl ... she has opened my eyes up to a new world. i think about her a lot. we've kissed, but it doesn't seem like that big of a deal to her. she seems to be in search of something else, and i've just been thrown to the side while she searches. maybe she wants something 'casual' - a kiss here and there for a laugh. i know i have so much to offer to her, and if anything i've tried to not overwhelm her with all that i *CAN* offer. how do i know that she's not really interested in me? you don't take more than a full day to respond to someone when you have an interest in them ...
my brain tells me that there are more negatives than positives to getting with this girl, that she hasn't maintained the small interest that she showed in me at the beginning of this journey, but my heart, my silly little heart, tells me to confess to this girl, show my true colours ...
of course there are details that i cannot disclose, but that's the jist. it's magical because it's my first experience with someone of the same sex, and this magical feeling might be caused by just that.
I read a comment below 'if you truly love someone, let them go, let them be free'.
good luck to you all, lovers. spread love and kindness
Probably noone will see it. But I'm so scared of what I'm feeling right now. Because I know that I love the wrong person who don't and won't love me back. But it's just so hurtful to face with this fact everyday
I SAW THE TITLE AND I ALREADY HAVE KNOWN WHO HAD SAID THAT ...
i wish i could fall in love with someone else. i love this girl that made me scared of love but i can't stop loving her, i'm really doing my best rn. i just wish i could fall for somebody just the way i did with her. love to y'all
What’s worse is all of this when you have a disability that makes it so much more difficult to understand other people so you never say anything because you have a fear of being judged when you’ve been judged your whole life
this is amazing holy shit
hahahaha thank u❤️
He will never know how many poems i wrote him . He will never know how he saved me from everything. I wanted to wake up once more just to see him again. He's been my light , my dreams for 4 years . His eyes are seeing someone different and he belongs to someone different but still i cant let him go out from my mind