This is one of the suggested flaws for the sage background in D&D, "I overlook obvious solutions in favor of complicated ones." Finn is basically a witch.
There's a lot of content on Internet with trans people talking about being trans; that's good, but for me, now it's nicer looking trans people in common life circumstances: this makes it easier to normalize, and even dream with a life like theirs. I'm dreaming now with it. One of my favorite videos, Ashley; I really, really loved it. Good luck with your life! 🥰
I love that this channel isn’t just advice for trans people, but also showing how normal and fun life can be for someone who is further along in their transition. this video is really sweet and made my day 🫶🏽
Ashley: "This is supposed to be drilled into the wall" Finn: "Yeah, i'm not doing that" Also Finn: Proceeds to have issues related to it not being secured in any real way for probably hours
I think what we're seeing here with Finn is what happens when you give an ADHD person just enough executive function to actually follow through on all of the impulsive projects your brain tells you to do, lmao
taking an hour to make chips using a whole contraption in the process instead of just ordering takeaway is the most ND thing ive seen and this is type of influencer content I can get behind also apricate as someone who discovered they are AuDHD you talking about medication and its effects as I suffer terribly with executive dysfunction so its something im considering
Hey Icky, I take the same meds- Protip: you can dissolve it in water and control the dose. Going lower is easier a lot of the time, and you can build up a reserve while you’re at it. I tend to take half in the morning and a booster around noon to smooth out peaks/crashes but I have been doing this for years. I use 100g water per capsule to make the scale effectively show a percentage.
I think someone has to point out how good the editing feels. For example: Two bits always going back and forth, with the sandwich and questions part feels really natural. Last video was the same. Good job! These Videos have been a great watch.
the pure joy of seeing you two, is so endearing. may you have so many more days of fun and homemade chips ( and anyone telling Icky what she can and cant do to her own body -get stuffed!)
the country side of france you might be looking for would be provence, i would suggest looking for the best city in the provence region ( full name is provence-alpes-cote d'azur ) but provence is basicly the whole sea side, a nice region to go to is the loire area, its where most of the preetiest castle are and its very nice ( its a lot of tourism tho not much of a relaxed region to spend vacations ) otherwise i would sugest britanny ( bretagne ) very old astetic but very charming and the weather is 50% rain and sun i would probably not suggest that spot for a honeymoon but its nice to stay at for a few days and visit some villages
came in the comments to say exactly that. i live in provence and i would suggest aix-en-provence or any place around because it's really the heart of the provençal country. but yeah also the loire area is soooo beautiful, i use to go there often as a kid and it's really quiet and nice.
I love how f1nn is just the perfect example of golden retriever, autistic, adhd, and gender fluid. just impulsively buying stuff, and then using random stuff from the house to make a contraption because they didn't read anything, knowing basically nothing about what they do, and somehow manage to make something so jank and overcomplicated but it works and they're proud of it.
Anxiety on ADHD meds is definitely a thing. Changing dosages and considering other medications or foods you are currently taking can help. Caffeine definitely can make things worse, for example
ADHD meds gave me insane anxiety, i feel your pain, the only way i have been able to stick with a workout routine has been by getting addicted to rollerblading (: hope you can find the right balance!
Tank is just growing, as pups they can have a growth spurt and their front legs and rear are different making sitting difficult, its this phase in larger dogs which dip displacia happens often.
That potato cutting thingy is the modern "veg-O-matic". The difference is the veg-O-matic worked by you pushing down from above so you could let your weight do the work instead of relying on arm strength and having to have the device bolted to a wall. It still was a good idea to use thinner potatoes. In your case you could have cut the potato in half down the long way and then done two cuts with the device instead of one big excruciating cut through the whole tater.
I swear finn is such a girl sometimes with the way his portrays femininity, but then at other times he’s just a total bro, like when icky’s dolling herself up for the party and Finn’s just like “I got up 10 mins ago” that is such boy behavior!😂
Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are so cuddly. I had a roommate who had one and every time I came home from work and plunked myself on the couch it would lay on my chest and fall asleep. Such lovely little creatures!
1:17 that style of sitting can be safe and normal for dogs. It is an indicator for hip dysplasia but doesn't always mean that the dog has it. Sometimes dogs just learn to sit like that and end up finding it more comfortable.
Sometimes my body gets worked up, higher heart rate and so on, when taking adhd meds. Sometimes I get properly anxious, but sometimes it's just the physical symptoms of anxiety, because of the meds and not actual underlying anxiety. Always tricky to figure out what's going on right now :D
The machine cutter thing they were using reminds me of what we used to use for cutting up onions and tomatoes and other things. They're going to make fries with it
Yea that's the problem with adhd meds in my experience is anxiety and mood swings. Also getting enough sleep and food. It can be hard to get over hope you're able to
when i had issues working out my ideal dose of adhd meds, it was generally cos the dose was too high. it was working fine for my adhd symptoms, but i also sometimes felt very irritable and generally like i was a bit "out of my mind", and when i took breaks from the medication, i'd get a massive negative mood swing that lasted a few days. my ideal dose is actually quite low, and it's the amount _before_ i get the "full effect" of my adhd symptoms treated. it gets like 95% of the way there but prevents negative side effects affecting my mood or state-of-mind.
yeahhhh those things are really only good if you can attach or at least clamp them to something that won’t move, and ideally if you’re heckin stronk. if you’re not a restaurant, a chef knife is probably the way to go 😂
I relate so hard to Finnster getting extremely into a project and insisting on following through no matter how complicated the solution ends up being
This is one of the suggested flaws for the sage background in D&D, "I overlook obvious solutions in favor of complicated ones." Finn is basically a witch.
Yep - me too. I guess my stubborn streak kicks in when I start something and I'd never admit defeat, or give up!
god i wish i could do that all the time
this is so real wthh
Yah it's no longer about the food its now about your ego
these two are literally the average bi couple
"I need something roughtly straight"
"That's hard to find around here"
LOL!
🎶f1nnster why did you eat my fries 🎶
someone stole my blood
you f1nnstered them and they were mine 💔💔💔
what kind of f1nn f1nns his f1nn5ters fries
And doesnt even f1nn me in the eye😥😥😥
@@ChaosqueenMaddy f1nnster there were queers there 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
There's a lot of content on Internet with trans people talking about being trans; that's good, but for me, now it's nicer looking trans people in common life circumstances: this makes it easier to normalize, and even dream with a life like theirs. I'm dreaming now with it.
One of my favorite videos, Ashley; I really, really loved it. Good luck with your life! 🥰
"do you want to order fries?" xD made me chuckle
I love that this channel isn’t just advice for trans people, but also showing how normal and fun life can be for someone who is further along in their transition. this video is really sweet and made my day 🫶🏽
Ashley: "This is supposed to be drilled into the wall"
Finn: "Yeah, i'm not doing that"
Also Finn: Proceeds to have issues related to it not being secured in any real way for probably hours
"I put marmite on your crumpet" has to be the most british phrase ever uttered.
F1nn and Icky are so wholsome I love them so much. couple goals FrFr
I love seeing Finn do stereotypical masc things it’s super funny. Especially seeing his dad do the dad stand right behind him
Everyone gather round, it’s time for Icky Lore once more
never knew making fries required so much engineering
I think what we're seeing here with Finn is what happens when you give an ADHD person just enough executive function to actually follow through on all of the impulsive projects your brain tells you to do, lmao
'good girl' startled a lot of people and briefly froze a lot of brains
FR i was not even SLIGHTLY ready for that
Couple goals: absolute chaos, but it kinda works
"Who knew fries took so much woodworking?" - an average train of thought for people with ADHD
taking an hour to make chips using a whole contraption in the process instead of just ordering takeaway is the most ND thing ive seen and this is type of influencer content I can get behind also apricate as someone who discovered they are AuDHD you talking about medication and its effects as I suffer terribly with executive dysfunction so its something im considering
Green tea can help with executive dysfunction if you haven't tried it.
@@maryann2970 I have been meaning to get into trying green tea so this for sure is a push towards trying it thank you I hope your having a lovely day
@@maryann2970 I've been trying green and so far no effects. Oh wait I misread, it's executive dysfunction... never mind.
10:18 "I need something roughly straight." "It's hard to find around here" lmaaaao 😂😭
as a bisexual, I take umbrage to you chastising your doggos abnormal sitting choices.
😂😂😂
😂
Fin just got like a million times hotter by being the handy type god damn.
Hey Icky, I take the same meds- Protip: you can dissolve it in water and control the dose. Going lower is easier a lot of the time, and you can build up a reserve while you’re at it. I tend to take half in the morning and a booster around noon to smooth out peaks/crashes but I have been doing this for years. I use 100g water per capsule to make the scale effectively show a percentage.
also thank you both for giving me the confidence to transition, I am so hot now ^w^
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i love how the thumbnail is basically just ashley pondering a fry/chip like it's the one ring
Really glad you two are going well. You two cooking together is great... live your work 😅😅
Ashley's favorite tree is a Western Hemlock... but not to worry. It's the weed that's poison, not the conifer. The two share a name, but that's all.
I think someone has to point out how good the editing feels. For example: Two bits always going back and forth, with the sandwich and questions part feels really natural. Last video was the same. Good job! These Videos have been a great watch.
she forgor 💀
the pure joy of seeing you two, is so endearing. may you have so many more days of fun and homemade chips ( and anyone telling Icky what she can and cant do to her own body -get stuffed!)
Hey ashley! It's great that your lil boy is finally making good progress in being house trained. Anyway how is tank doing?
I'm loving these vlog style videos! You are just as good with these as the advice ones. Big W Icky
the country side of france you might be looking for would be provence, i would suggest looking for the best city in the provence region ( full name is provence-alpes-cote d'azur ) but provence is basicly the whole sea side, a nice region to go to is the loire area, its where most of the preetiest castle are and its very nice ( its a lot of tourism tho not much of a relaxed region to spend vacations ) otherwise i would sugest britanny ( bretagne ) very old astetic but very charming and the weather is 50% rain and sun i would probably not suggest that spot for a honeymoon but its nice to stay at for a few days and visit some villages
came in the comments to say exactly that. i live in provence and i would suggest aix-en-provence or any place around because it's really the heart of the provençal country.
but yeah also the loire area is soooo beautiful, i use to go there often as a kid and it's really quiet and nice.
Your garden is HUGE holy crap.
This might just be he cutest wookworking / cooking channel ever...
This was so wholesome. I love you both. 💜
I love how f1nn is just the perfect example of golden retriever, autistic, adhd, and gender fluid. just impulsively buying stuff, and then using random stuff from the house to make a contraption because they didn't read anything, knowing basically nothing about what they do, and somehow manage to make something so jank and overcomplicated but it works and they're proud of it.
finnster is such a hot manly man with the woodworking skills
poggers
i love this format i cant wait for more vlogs cause its LOVELY!
I enjoy your videos Icky. You and F1nn get along so well, it's awesome you are so open and let us in a little. Thanks
oh my GOD why IS tank sitting like that!? 🤣😭
Also, vlogging your adventure with your clothing company is great marketing. Good idea!
your uploads always sync up with my walks home from work !! yipeee
Icky’s becoming my fav youtuber 🎉❤
luv luv icky vlogsss
Such an icky day. Loved seeing y’all in the new home and prepping for events. Very “day in the life”
Yall are chaos and Im here for it❤😂
F1nn's face when he is adding salt to fires got me cracking like crazy :D
Anxiety on ADHD meds is definitely a thing. Changing dosages and considering other medications or foods you are currently taking can help. Caffeine definitely can make things worse, for example
Hell yeah! Vlogs 4 da win 🫵🏻😭✨
The foreshadowing insert, Bravo editor Bravo
Omg the puppy’s getting so big! And Tank is growing up too!!
The vlogs are great.Really enjoying them.
ADHD meds gave me insane anxiety, i feel your pain, the only way i have been able to stick with a workout routine has been by getting addicted to rollerblading (: hope you can find the right balance!
All hail Queen Icky🙌
"Do you wanna order fries?" Stop my sides LMAO
I see them trying and it makes my heart warm but would love to show them how to do some of these things the more efficient way.
Tank is just growing, as pups they can have a growth spurt and their front legs and rear are different making sitting difficult, its this phase in larger dogs which dip displacia happens often.
I absolutely love the vlogs
Finnster D.I.Y sums up how I usually do tasks on a day to day basis
That potato cutting thingy is the modern "veg-O-matic". The difference is the veg-O-matic worked by you pushing down from above so you could let your weight do the work instead of relying on arm strength and having to have the device bolted to a wall. It still was a good idea to use thinner potatoes. In your case you could have cut the potato in half down the long way and then done two cuts with the device instead of one big excruciating cut through the whole tater.
I swear finn is such a girl sometimes with the way his portrays femininity, but then at other times he’s just a total bro, like when icky’s dolling herself up for the party and Finn’s just like “I got up 10 mins ago” that is such boy behavior!😂
10:00 is right there where my anxiety kicks in.
Tank's monster seating pose is amazing
This was hilarious 😂 totally something I would do ref the fries contraption 😅
I watched your last video doing dishes and I'm about to do that again! Thanks for being my shadow!
It really gets the people watching side of me giddy to see cute shiz like this ^^
Another great vlog!
I love the vlogs!!!
Hi icky ❤🎉
Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are so cuddly. I had a roommate who had one and every time I came home from work and plunked myself on the couch it would lay on my chest and fall asleep. Such lovely little creatures!
That’s a big change in content lol (but I like it ❤)
Finn is turning into a handyman..... Though I would suggest maybe you should get an expert if anything goes wrong in the house Love you both
this video made me very happy
love the vlogs :D
6:48 I've always loved cheese and jelly sandwiches!! I used to make them all the time as a kid
Loving the new vlogs 🩷
Finn saying “can you show me” to Ashley when she was showing him the tree healed something inside me
The HelloFresh Couscous was my favorite.
I'd never had it before, and it tasted amazing!
Another banger vlog
1:17 that style of sitting can be safe and normal for dogs. It is an indicator for hip dysplasia but doesn't always mean that the dog has it. Sometimes dogs just learn to sit like that and end up finding it more comfortable.
Icky back, back again
Sometimes my body gets worked up, higher heart rate and so on, when taking adhd meds. Sometimes I get properly anxious, but sometimes it's just the physical symptoms of anxiety, because of the meds and not actual underlying anxiety. Always tricky to figure out what's going on right now :D
F1nn: ooh, cabbage! 🥬
Ashley: VIOLENCE! THROW THEM AT PEOPLE! 😈
The machine cutter thing they were using reminds me of what we used to use for cutting up onions and tomatoes and other things. They're going to make fries with it
i had no clue cornstarch made fries this crispy! my entire life i've been battling with the soggy fries
The most elaborate way to make French fries
Yea that's the problem with adhd meds in my experience is anxiety and mood swings. Also getting enough sleep and food. It can be hard to get over hope you're able to
Whoever made the names for the different points in the video they have excellent taste.
Was this a cookery vlog or a woodwork vlog?! Those chips did look good, I have to say - even if they were hours in the making!
dang, thats a HUUUGE yard! Tank is one lucky doggo!
south of France is Spain, Icky.
I work at a hardware store and I was expeting to be disappointed with your tool choice.....DeWalt was a pleasant surprise y'all are doing good things.
5:47 Finn's Dad!!!
Fresh air is *always* a threat. Don’t let anyone tell Tank otherwise…!
when i had issues working out my ideal dose of adhd meds, it was generally cos the dose was too high. it was working fine for my adhd symptoms, but i also sometimes felt very irritable and generally like i was a bit "out of my mind", and when i took breaks from the medication, i'd get a massive negative mood swing that lasted a few days. my ideal dose is actually quite low, and it's the amount _before_ i get the "full effect" of my adhd symptoms treated. it gets like 95% of the way there but prevents negative side effects affecting my mood or state-of-mind.
8:53 YES, I've had this discussion with more people than you would expect, THAT is a sauce pan.
Good to hear the medication is working for you two 😊
yeahhhh those things are really only good if you can attach or at least clamp them to something that won’t move, and ideally if you’re heckin stronk. if you’re not a restaurant, a chef knife is probably the way to go 😂
You look better without filler you look amazing naturally
Vyvanse, Hell yeah!
can't believe you let him operate power tools. LOL
Can confirm, Jam and Cheese is amazing :)
my Mum introduced it to me as a kid.
Your so pretty Icky 😊