Your solutions are absolutely perfect! I went through this before I saw your video. I had fallen out of my healthy habits, I was behind in my online courses, and my business was going backwards. I locked myself in my office and avoided seeing friends so they wouldn't find out I was a total mess. What helped me get out of the rut was just accomplishing one small thing. It started with writing in my diary. Then I moved onto doing my daily stretches, then my daily veg juice, and the rest is history
After an incredible day I came home, opened my iPad and released I had left this video open and hadn't even made 3 in a half mins in. I left the house shortly after being seemingly compelled after watching this video. My day was wonderful and I was so productive. Powerful stuff these videos conjures. I notice it's 2016 and this video is 4 years old. Magic still springs from older stuff. I met so many new people, so many loves touched.
I just wanted to say thanks. I don't have any major problems, but I watched this and got a truly great nugget of knowledge--"Don't wait for motivation. Just get it done." Every time I look around and think about doing some project, that's what gets it DONE. No waiting.
When I feel stuck, I tend to wallow in my own self pity so I feel significant. But I'm always happier when I just get busy on what I know I should be doing.
The main thing I've learned when "stuck in a rut" is to not become a recluse. It really does make a difference to stay engaged in your relationships. There's support there. And sometimes a good distraction. Sometimes through conversation, you are able to put things in perspective. Sometimes a light bulb goes off... there's so many things that can come from engagement, that ultimately get you back on track.
One quick thing I do thanks to Marie is that I blast some dance music during the day and have a little RhhLive dance break! It puts me in a great mood, brings clarity and puts me in a happy space.
My biggest problem is to stick to anything. I get bored easily and I then stop doing it. It tends to happen with jobs. I keep leaving them. I don't know how to over come this and stick to a job.
While you explore your passion, maybe only work contract jobs (with a definite end in sight). That way you'll know exactly when quitting time will be (because the contract ends eventually) and if it's something you don't like doing at least you'll be able to pay your bills and know that you won't have to be there for long.
You are a genius! When I feel like that I get very tired and sleep A LOT. In the mornings I just don't feel like getting out of bed even though I'm awake, I force myself to sleep more as though I don't want to face reality.
I don't know. But thanks Marie, I will "Just do it" I'll do my hw without hating it as much. I'll bring the party to my classes and make the most out of them no matter how boring they may seem. It's time to get onwards with beginning my music career. I'll talk to my guidance counselor and outreach program and take the 1st step into being a superstar. I promised to myself I'll get there one day. I'll overcome every obstacle and you Marie along with other wise youtubers will be there 2 guide me!
"forget motivation" love it. i didn't think i would get anything from this video because there isnt much anyone else can do/say to get you started, but that's a great quote!
"No excuses" that is probably the best motivational thing ever. Whenever you don't want to do something that you should do just think of why you are not doing it and remember no excuses. Example- I don't wanna go running because I'm tired, NO EXCUSES! I dont wana study cuz I'd rather watch tv NO EXCUSES, apply it to everything in life.
If he's been diagnosed by a qualified doctor with chronic depression, it's not just a lie. It's a very much real condition. You can't just get over it by telling yourself you have control over it. And trust me, I speak for all people diagnosed with mental illnesses when I say it'd be better if it was all about mindset.
***** I agree with the fact that a lot if not most doctors are very much interested in money over their patient. However what you're saying doesn't really add up either. You can't be suggesting that we ignore every single diagnosis made in the health industry? Just because it's money driven? Just one right diagnosis is perfectly enough to refute your argument.
Ikr. Like who the fuck brought me into this world and why the fuck am I here. And the least of my problems is being "embarrassed about my life" like i wish I had something to be embarrassed about.
hmm I woke up age 3 and a half and clicked with God, I decided that what ever I faced I would keep my faith in God. 2 years after then I began to became up a victim of child abuse up till leaving home in my late teens and through it all God has comforted me by going out of his way to prove he exists in deeds, which I've never expected. that alone has kept me strong for a higher purpose and so I've never given up to date.
I'm almost never motivated, but I never enjoy being still either. I have a supportive mother who pushes me to do things, and working out is one of them (i have your Cardio Dance Blast workout DVD and have been using it since 2005, i still deeply enjoy it). I almost never workout, but I started doing it last week and I'm enjoying it. Now I work out even if I don't feel like it, like last Saturday. I just do it, and before I know it, I'm having fun. The same thing with everything else. I fully trust you, Marie, you're like the friend I never had. Thank you for your videos!
I was totally not motivated in business this week...had a couple of friends invite me to come business events over the next few weeks. I did some research on the speakers and got totally motivated again. It is great to get out of the house and be honest!
Get sh*t DONE! i love you! ur my new roe model. Im totally feeling that right now! I just spent the whole day learning about everything at work, and before I knew it, I was having a blast and was already escited about tomorrow! cant wait to o back to work! LOVE YOU MARIE!
So true. Thank you so much! I have a massive dream and most people don't understand me. So I stopped being motivated and started doing more. We actually don't even have to think all that much to do what out heart desires. I still need to work on my social life since I've been kind of detached from family and friends. Good thing I ran into this video because I was ready to head to my journey solo. Appreciate it!
I AM IN A RUT :( Great tips, I might go buy your book because I like your videos so much. I moved to Toronto for a job and then 2 months in they let me go because of "budget cuts" right after they had me train their unpaid interns. So now I'm in a new city with no job and I am feeling an immense amount of pressure to find one ASAP. But I really don't want to resort to taking a job that won't benefit me in the long term. I've done a lot of waitressing and retail in the past, and was finally kick-starting my career with my past two jobs, and now I feel like I've taken a huge blow and can't get back up. I've had some interviews that I thought I had totally nailed, but then I don't hear anything back (and yes, I ALWAYS follow up). Hit me with some advice guys! (I'm actually going to a job fair right now, so hopefully good things will come).
You will be fine. If you play the numbers game, eventually those numbers will come up, providing that you're not being too unrealistic about what is achievable in terms of your skill and/or qualification level. If you have exactly what interviewers are looking for on paper, which it sounds like you do as you'd not be considered for interviewing otherwise, then perhaps maybe it's a case of looking at other areas that are destroying you're chances. Do you come across well to the interviewer where you feel (personally) that there is some sort of rapport?...Are there others factors you can work on to provide the best possible interaction in the shortest time available, to create that all important first impression? I hope you have good luck as well in finding the job you want.
I can do to contribute like just doing the house work, staying active, enjoying the time I have with the kids...instead i was wallowing in my misery..rather than realizing i have a golden opportunity to get on track with this extra time... Well I am back in school and I have to say i am nervous because this is my last shot for financial aid to cover it. never give up and be honest to yourself and go for it. I just don't want to go through life and look back and say "what if i gave it my all".
I recently attended my bffs wedding, and met up with some old schoolmates. and they were really lovely and encouraging girls! they were like oh are you doing anything? and they were like thats ok, do you do anything like a hobby, and they were all like "you should do this". just try it! you never know!" and I felt so motivated and encouraged and really well received. I love being around those type of people! I should send them a heart emoji thing once in awhile. but I dont want to be a nuisance
I'm so glad I saw this.... When I was down, I spent countless of hours on youtube watching self dev videos and hours of listening to audio... I use to think I was wasting my time... but little did I know, I was doing the right thing! and I feel better knowing that it wasn't a waste! yahhoooooo!
This is really good advice. I've been there, and to the people in the comments saying that Chronic Depression is holding them back, it's not. I understand how incredibly hard it can be but there are actions you can take to get things moving. The first thing is really taking your mental illness seriously, but never playing the victim. Depression is something nobody else can overcome for you; you have to do it. Go to therapy and take it REALLY seriously; don't second guess everything your therapist tells you. Go to your doctor and get a prescription for an antidepressant if you don't already have one and take it every single day. I can tell you from experience those two steps (if taken seriously enough) will help tremendously and get you moving in the right direction.
Action gets rid of fear... sometimes it's plain old fear of failure that holds you back... loved the part on Do something even if it's totally not relevant to your larger plans. Yes it takes effort to get out of bed and stop ordering takeout :p (going through this phase right. Now.) but learning to hanging on the feeling of accomplishing even small tasks. And to celebrate the small victories. So important to do that. Small moments of feeling good about yourself all add up. Love and hugs!
Thanks Marie! I feel just like the friend you described. No matter what I've attempted to do, I just can't seem to get my business off the ground and I have lost motivation. I've be scrambling around for years trying to do this, and now I'm ready to give up. I took an action step today though, and I'm proud of myself.
love your video's very different, as for me I've been through that several times it don't get no easier special when i get anxiety attacks. I've learned that A) i have to define it in detail b) take small action like write it out
Yes I do feel stuck in a rut and do hide and feel embarrassed sometimes. But I get out and take my ass to the gym.,it instantly puts me into a positive mind frame..and then I stop beating myself up..I start opening up to myself, getting shit done (momentum!) and telling the truth, and that helps me deal with fear. I tell only those people I trust completely of my "situation" or tough time.
This one is a classic Marie. The truth will set you free! Stay out of victim mode. No hiding. Don't be a hermit. I commit this crime all the time! Thanks for keeping me in check!
wow everything she said applied to me. I feel so embarrassed that my friends are going further in there lives, and I'm still doing nothing, and now I'm motivated.
For me it's making a small decision or taking a small action,just one decision or action that moves me toward growth! Plus I read it on Mark Manson's site that it's actually action that produces motivation or inspiration: Action > inspiration > motivation > more action.
Just do ANYTHING when you are in a rut. Rome wasn't built in a day. I find when I lose my focus on doing just one thing, I get more done chipping away at multiple projects. Before you know it, you'll have 3 nearly completed projects opposed to a kick ass beginning of just one, whilst pulling your hair out and struggling.
Appreciate things I have which stops me from feeling sorry for myself and then look at my daughter and if I can't do it for myself I know I can do it for her!!! Xx
hi marie, yep ur right, im realy realy stuk...searching thru the net for some online job, been doing it for the last 3weeks, im stuck ...but watchn your video gves me alittle steping stone...
thats cool, as long as ur keeping urself busy in something u find fulfilling enough. just enjoy every second ur alive.its all good. things will fall together sooner or later. xx
Her motivation tip is a good one. I always am more successful when I just do it cause I have to in order to get something accomplished. Waiting for motivation is a waste of time. JUST DO IT!
These videos are practical, powerful, and precisely what entrepreneurs desire. I found Marie's video a few months back and created The Encouragement Corner. Marie, thank you for the reality check, ideas, and inspiration!
I remember I was subscribed to you under a different account when you had less than 10 videos! Since the google account merge, I made a new username. I am so glad I've found you again! You are such an amazing inspiration for a young woman like me!
Well I must say....I just love your videos.. You are amazing... You are creative talented passionate inspiring...You have a special power to reinvigorate people...Your intros your outros and content is awesome!!! These days I'm watching your videos every single day... There's so much to learn and I love being in student mode to grab knowledge and wisdom from any source there is. And You, in particular,,, throw in so much knowledge which is all practical stuff. Keep up the good work.
Stuck in a rut is a hard time for particular situation i.e no chances to improve life etc. But your video is good ideas for value communication to value listeners when the hard time on us
Oh Marie!!! You are so lucky I found this video because I was about to send my sad story for the same reason. I imagine your staff going like "oh noooo, another one!?" Kisses ... And I'm getting your book today!
Just wanted to leave some love and say that what you are doing is AMAZING! I love the videos and the message you are sharing with the world. Thank you!!
loved the video, got some new stuff out of it, I know I have a talent to learn FAST and get stuff done quick but the pressure I find myself in sometimes is killing me, I panic and I can't get out of a gutter, the 'forget motivation' = 'forget pressure' i could say :) oh and by the way I think 'do not be afraid to make mistakes' would be a good step as well, ofc as long as you learn from those mistakes because a lot if people fail at something and give up in fear they might fail again
My problem is I have too many talents and seem to jump from one thing to the next and rarely complete one thing. I have half completed jewelry, graphics, photography, 3D designs, sewing, drawing, painting............And yes, I'm broke! and frustrated. I get organized then someone says "hey, can you help me with this?" and there I go and don't return to what I was doing, sometimes for months! It just takes so little to become distracted or depressed.....sometimes both.
I recommend you check out Barbara Sher’s books, particularly ‘Refuse to Choose’ and ‘What Do I Do When I Want To Do Everything’ it’s all about the ‘Scanner’ personality type.
If I start getting in a rut and I see it coming before it really takes root, I procrastinate and listen to videos like this instead. I find that soon, the rut disappears from my mind for the time being and while my mind is clear, I can focus on what to do. The rut still gets me from time to time but now I have a defense against it if I see it coming.
Your not alone... everybody on this channel came here for a reason including me.. keep your head up and keep pushing forward cause it will get better : )
when I feel disoriented and in a rut that is because I fall out of the basic routine of working out and running every morning. For some reason my greatest ideas come to me while running, and then clarity and organization =)
well, i am in that position right now. my dad passed away couple months ago, and i know it still affects me in certain way. i'm not really close to my brother and sister, i live alone. and i quit my job because i feel disoriented, like lost control over myself. it's been month but i feel better about myself, i am sure there is no overnight solution, but actually it'll get better
You said right. It's painful. I see there is no solution for that at that time so I actually LOVE going to different places, traveling with hubby and meeting friends...but yeah, next time I will implement the "telling the truth factor" :) Vitoria
I like the, get something done idea! I tend to avoid social situations when I have been feeling low in the past... maybe try getting around more folks in future! Thanks!
love your hair and the fact that you were straight-forward and not just making sounds. I also like the typography to visualize what you're saying instead of just talking. I'm a huge believer in things that happen for a reason, so you never know! go out and try something!
I have been having the problem where I take advice and it either takes over my head or goes over my head. Like the being honest, I was constantly just complaining and complaining all the time to my friends. While they were supportive at first, they grew to dislike me because I seemed so negative all the time. I was playing victim like nobody's business. I became the toxic friend to my best friend and she dropped me. I have been so depressed and just miserable since and it shows. I am filled with guilt and shame of my past actions and I know that the consequences of my actions aren't going to leave my shoulders anytime soon. I have moved to a new place, I am unemployed, and completely lost on what my goals are anymore. I'm picking up little by little though. I am only 18 as well and I am really trying to steer my shit train onto some tracks to completely reinvent myself and to become who I am again.
I agree with everything she had to say. I'm sorta of in a rut or i should say I'm playing the waiting game. I am happily married with four wonderful kids. I am 37 and pursuing a career in applied science respiratory therapist. I am currently sitting on 28 credits short of 36 credits to graduated. I took a year off cuz I was failing miserably. I couldn't seem to concentrate for some reason. My wife works and I am a stay at home dad atm...The role reversal is the big thing cont...
I love this video - it's an energetic mish-mash of AWESOME! It perfectly sums up how I've been feeling recently and I realise that trying to get motivated just isn't necessarily the right way... "Just get sh*t done" is exactly right!
Thanks! I feel much better. I'm a teenager nearing adulthood and I'm just not motivated to get things done because I'm lazy and scared of growing up but thanks to you, I feel much better :) xoxo
Your solutions are absolutely perfect! I went through this before I saw your video. I had fallen out of my healthy habits, I was behind in my online courses, and my business was going backwards. I locked myself in my office and avoided seeing friends so they wouldn't find out I was a total mess. What helped me get out of the rut was just accomplishing one small thing. It started with writing in my diary. Then I moved onto doing my daily stretches, then my daily veg juice, and the rest is history
After an incredible day I came home, opened my iPad and released I had left this video open and hadn't even made 3 in a half mins in. I left the house shortly after being seemingly compelled after watching this video. My day was wonderful and I was so productive. Powerful stuff these videos conjures. I notice it's 2016 and this video is 4 years old. Magic still springs from older stuff. I met so many new people, so many loves touched.
I'm watching this after 7 years 😂
@keenly awesome - thanks for watching!
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily.
Zig Ziglar
Haha!!! Bingo! SOOOO True! Well said, D Ray!
I just wanted to say thanks. I don't have any major problems, but I watched this and got a truly great nugget of knowledge--"Don't wait for motivation. Just get it done." Every time I look around and think about doing some project, that's what gets it DONE. No waiting.
When I feel stuck, I tend to wallow in my own self pity so I feel significant. But I'm always happier when I just get busy on what I know I should be doing.
The main thing I've learned when "stuck in a rut" is to not become a recluse. It really does make a difference to stay engaged in your relationships. There's support there. And sometimes a good distraction. Sometimes through conversation, you are able to put things in perspective. Sometimes a light bulb goes off... there's so many things that can come from engagement, that ultimately get you back on track.
@PeaceUdo It's an attitude thing for sho. Light heartedness, play music, dance, look for what's fun, funny or entertaining about any situation!
Love these tips for dealing with being in a rut. It can be really lonely when you are in a rut... staying social is a great recommendation.
Monashee
yeah if u have friends
One quick thing I do thanks to Marie is that I blast some dance music during the day and have a little RhhLive dance break! It puts me in a great mood, brings clarity and puts me in a happy space.
My biggest problem is to stick to anything. I get bored easily and I then stop doing it. It tends to happen with jobs. I keep leaving them. I don't know how to over come this and stick to a job.
I have this same problem I'm never with a job more than a month or two sometimes a couple weeks.
***** Yes I agree with you. By the way I am a woman! Lol! Yes I am creative I am a film maker.
While you explore your passion, maybe only work contract jobs (with a definite end in sight). That way you'll know exactly when quitting time will be (because the contract ends eventually) and if it's something you don't like doing at least you'll be able to pay your bills and know that you won't have to be there for long.
that is an excellent reply, two thumbs up to you Renee!
Atia Shah that's how you know it's a sign you should be doing something bigger than an ordinary job, your work in films will pay in the future
You are a genius!
When I feel like that I get very tired and sleep A LOT. In the mornings I just don't feel like getting out of bed even though I'm awake, I force myself to sleep more as though I don't want to face reality.
I don't know. But thanks Marie, I will "Just do it" I'll do my hw without hating it as much. I'll bring the party to my classes and make the most out of them no matter how boring they may seem. It's time to get onwards with beginning my music career. I'll talk to my guidance counselor and outreach program and take the 1st step into being a superstar. I promised to myself I'll get there one day. I'll overcome every obstacle and you Marie along with other wise youtubers will be there 2 guide me!
"forget motivation" love it. i didn't think i would get anything from this video because there isnt much anyone else can do/say to get you started, but that's a great quote!
"No excuses" that is probably the best motivational thing ever. Whenever you don't want to do something that you should do just think of why you are not doing it and remember no excuses. Example- I don't wanna go running because I'm tired, NO EXCUSES! I dont wana study cuz I'd rather watch tv NO EXCUSES, apply it to everything in life.
All this advise is good but if you are going through chronic depression that itself is crippling in terms of 'getting things done'
sooo true
If he's been diagnosed by a qualified doctor with chronic depression, it's not just a lie. It's a very much real condition. You can't just get over it by telling yourself you have control over it. And trust me, I speak for all people diagnosed with mental illnesses when I say it'd be better if it was all about mindset.
***** I agree with the fact that a lot if not most doctors are very much interested in money over their patient. However what you're saying doesn't really add up either. You can't be suggesting that we ignore every single diagnosis made in the health industry? Just because it's money driven? Just one right diagnosis is perfectly enough to refute your argument.
Ikr. Like who the fuck brought me into this world and why the fuck am I here. And the least of my problems is being "embarrassed about my life" like i wish I had something to be embarrassed about.
hmm I woke up age 3 and a half and clicked with God, I decided that what ever I faced I would keep my faith in God. 2 years after then I began to became up a victim of child abuse up till leaving home in my late teens and through it all God has comforted me by going out of his way to prove he exists in deeds, which I've never expected. that alone has kept me strong for a higher purpose and so I've never given up to date.
I'm almost never motivated, but I never enjoy being still either. I have a supportive mother who pushes me to do things, and working out is one of them (i have your Cardio Dance Blast workout DVD and have been using it since 2005, i still deeply enjoy it). I almost never workout, but I started doing it last week and I'm enjoying it. Now I work out even if I don't feel like it, like last Saturday. I just do it, and before I know it, I'm having fun. The same thing with everything else. I fully trust you, Marie, you're like the friend I never had. Thank you for your videos!
I was totally not motivated in business this week...had a couple of friends invite me to come business events over the next few weeks. I did some research on the speakers and got totally motivated again. It is great to get out of the house and be honest!
Get sh*t DONE! i love you! ur my new roe model.
Im totally feeling that right now! I just spent the whole day learning about everything at work, and before I knew it, I was having a blast and was already escited about tomorrow! cant wait to o back to work!
LOVE YOU MARIE!
interesting style of presentation & good production value
So true. Thank you so much!
I have a massive dream and most people don't understand me. So I stopped being motivated and started doing more. We actually don't even have to think all that much to do what out heart desires. I still need to work on my social life since I've been kind of detached from family and friends. Good thing I ran into this video because I was ready to head to my journey solo. Appreciate it!
Yep. I started 1st of march at a company working with Influenza. Thanks for asking.
Thanks Marie. I need to be #1.Honest with myself as to what I am facing n what I am feeling.
I AM IN A RUT :( Great tips, I might go buy your book because I like your videos so much. I moved to Toronto for a job and then 2 months in they let me go because of "budget cuts" right after they had me train their unpaid interns. So now I'm in a new city with no job and I am feeling an immense amount of pressure to find one ASAP. But I really don't want to resort to taking a job that won't benefit me in the long term. I've done a lot of waitressing and retail in the past, and was finally kick-starting my career with my past two jobs, and now I feel like I've taken a huge blow and can't get back up. I've had some interviews that I thought I had totally nailed, but then I don't hear anything back (and yes, I ALWAYS follow up). Hit me with some advice guys! (I'm actually going to a job fair right now, so hopefully good things will come).
You will be fine. If you play the numbers game, eventually those numbers will come up, providing that you're not being too unrealistic about what is achievable in terms of your skill and/or qualification level. If you have exactly what interviewers are looking for on paper, which it sounds like you do as you'd not be considered for interviewing otherwise, then perhaps maybe it's a case of looking at other areas that are destroying you're chances. Do you come across well to the interviewer where you feel (personally) that there is some sort of rapport?...Are there others factors you can work on to provide the best possible interaction in the shortest time available, to create that all important first impression? I hope you have good luck as well in finding the job you want.
I can do to contribute like just doing the house work, staying active, enjoying the time I have with the kids...instead i was wallowing in my misery..rather than realizing i have a golden opportunity to get on track with this extra time... Well I am back in school and I have to say i am nervous because this is my last shot for financial aid to cover it. never give up and be honest to yourself and go for it. I just don't want to go through life and look back and say "what if i gave it my all".
I recently attended my bffs wedding, and met up with some old schoolmates. and they were really lovely and encouraging girls! they were like oh are you doing anything? and they were like thats ok, do you do anything like a hobby, and they were all like "you should do this". just try it! you never know!" and I felt so motivated and encouraged and really well received. I love being around those type of people! I should send them a heart emoji thing once in awhile. but I dont want to be a nuisance
I loved this "Losers wait for motivation. Winners Get Sh#t done." Thank you again!
her hair OMG! can she do a hair tutorial LOL
that's what I thought too, I just kept looking at her hair all the time
I'm so glad I saw this.... When I was down, I spent countless of hours on youtube watching self dev videos and hours of listening to audio... I use to think I was wasting my time... but little did I know, I was doing the right thing! and I feel better knowing that it wasn't a waste! yahhoooooo!
Marie is such a huge dork, I love her for it lol
This is really good advice. I've been there, and to the people in the comments saying that Chronic Depression is holding them back, it's not. I understand how incredibly hard it can be but there are actions you can take to get things moving. The first thing is really taking your mental illness seriously, but never playing the victim. Depression is something nobody else can overcome for you; you have to do it. Go to therapy and take it REALLY seriously; don't second guess everything your therapist tells you. Go to your doctor and get a prescription for an antidepressant if you don't already have one and take it every single day. I can tell you from experience those two steps (if taken seriously enough) will help tremendously and get you moving in the right direction.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Marie! You are a ROCKSTAR...love the tips and I will start using them right away!
Action gets rid of fear... sometimes it's plain old fear of failure that holds you back... loved the part on Do something even if it's totally not relevant to your larger plans. Yes it takes effort to get out of bed and stop ordering takeout :p (going through this phase right. Now.) but learning to hanging on the feeling of accomplishing even small tasks. And to celebrate the small victories. So important to do that. Small moments of feeling good about yourself all add up. Love and hugs!
Thanks Marie! I feel just like the friend you described. No matter what I've attempted to do, I just can't seem to get my business off the ground and I have lost motivation. I've be scrambling around for years trying to do this, and now I'm ready to give up. I took an action step today though, and I'm proud of myself.
@mydee1 thank you SO much for watching and subscribing :)
love your video's very different, as for me I've been through that several times it don't get no easier special when i get anxiety attacks. I've learned that A) i have to define it in detail b) take small action like write it out
Very relatable.Thank you! "Losers wait to be motivated.Winners get sh*t done." LOVE THAT.
Yes I do feel stuck in a rut and do hide and feel embarrassed sometimes. But I get out and take my ass to the gym.,it instantly puts me into a positive mind frame..and then I stop beating myself up..I start opening up to myself, getting shit done (momentum!) and telling the truth, and that helps me deal with fear. I tell only those people I trust completely of my "situation" or tough time.
This one is a classic Marie. The truth will set you free! Stay out of victim mode. No hiding. Don't be a hermit. I commit this crime all the time! Thanks for keeping me in check!
Your videos are so inspiring.......I am studying for a very imp exam....but i find your advice just as useful.
I'm on a positive roll, such inspiration just keeps me going on a positive streak.
wow everything she said applied to me. I feel so embarrassed that my friends are going further in there lives, and I'm still doing nothing, and now I'm motivated.
I am still searching for the right job!!! so stuck in a rut!
Love this! I think more people should watch this video!
Great video!!,you are so right about getting out and being around people.
For me it's making a small decision or taking a small action,just one decision or action that moves me toward growth!
Plus I read it on Mark Manson's site that it's actually action that produces motivation or inspiration:
Action > inspiration > motivation > more action.
Thanks for sharing. I have been going through a lot. 2016 wasn't a great year for me. My goal is to make it better.
Just wait until 2020!!!!
Just do ANYTHING when you are in a rut. Rome wasn't built in a day. I find when I lose my focus on doing just one thing, I get more done chipping away at multiple projects. Before you know it, you'll have 3 nearly completed projects opposed to a kick ass beginning of just one, whilst pulling your hair out and struggling.
yes! My mantra when I'm in a rut isn't "all or nothing" but is "all or something". Do something rather than moping around feeling miserable.
Appreciate things I have which stops me from feeling sorry for myself and then look at my daughter and if I can't do it for myself I know I can do it for her!!! Xx
Well, I got lucky. I applied at the right time and they were gracious enough to employ me.
@zeeet thank you!
Im gonna try the bring the party technique whenever I dread doing anything now. Thanks for the tip, Ive never thought about things in that way before.
She didn't get too crazy with promoting her book... I like what she said about motivation . Thanks Marieforleo !
You're kind of awesome. Thanks for the advice Marie! I'm going to try and follow you advice while I'm in my rut! Thank you Thank you Thank you
hi marie, yep ur right, im realy realy stuk...searching thru the net for some online job, been doing it for the last 3weeks, im stuck ...but watchn your video gves me alittle steping stone...
thats cool, as long as ur keeping urself busy in something u find fulfilling enough. just enjoy every second ur alive.its all good. things will fall together sooner or later.
xx
Her motivation tip is a good one. I always am more successful when I just do it cause I have to in order to get something accomplished. Waiting for motivation is a waste of time. JUST DO IT!
These videos are practical, powerful, and precisely what entrepreneurs desire. I found Marie's video a few months back and created The Encouragement Corner. Marie, thank you for the reality check, ideas, and inspiration!
thanks. i feel i got a lot out of this.
I listen to personal development audios from my top leaders or read one of the books they recommend - totally changes my mindset.
This described me to a tee. I'm so happy I found this video!
I remember I was subscribed to you under a different account when you had less than 10 videos! Since the google account merge, I made a new username. I am so glad I've found you again! You are such an amazing inspiration for a young woman like me!
Don't wait for motivation ...This is excellent Marie
good tips. our tip is to remember that time is most important asset.
So true !! Thanks i need to hear this.
You are so right! Thank you!
Well I must say....I just love your videos.. You are amazing... You are creative talented passionate inspiring...You have a special power to reinvigorate people...Your intros your outros and content is awesome!!! These days I'm watching your videos every single day... There's so much to learn and I love being in student mode to grab knowledge and wisdom from any source there is. And You, in particular,,, throw in so much knowledge which is all practical stuff. Keep up the good work.
You are fantastic!!! Thx for all your POSITIVE tips!!! Love love you 😘
Stuck in a rut is a hard time for particular situation i.e no chances to improve life etc. But your video is good ideas for value communication to value listeners when the hard time on us
Oh Marie!!! You are so lucky I found this video because I was about to send my sad story for the same reason. I imagine your staff going like "oh noooo, another one!?" Kisses ... And I'm getting your book today!
@brandstyledesign NICE. Starting with the small stuff is a great way to get it going Erin!
Just wanted to leave some love and say that what you are doing is AMAZING! I love the videos and the message you are sharing with the world. Thank you!!
loved the video, got some new stuff out of it, I know I have a talent to learn FAST and get stuff done quick but the pressure I find myself in sometimes is killing me, I panic and I can't get out of a gutter, the 'forget motivation' = 'forget pressure' i could say :) oh and by the way I think 'do not be afraid to make mistakes' would be a good step as well, ofc as long as you learn from those mistakes because a lot if people fail at something and give up in fear they might fail again
@therealSantos92 awesome! Thanks for that book reco ;)
I love your videos AND your voice! Can't wait to start reading your book! Have a fun day!
My problem is I have too many talents and seem to jump from one thing to the next and rarely complete one thing. I have half completed jewelry, graphics, photography, 3D designs, sewing, drawing, painting............And yes, I'm broke! and frustrated. I get organized then someone says "hey, can you help me with this?" and there I go and don't return to what I was doing, sometimes for months! It just takes so little to become distracted or depressed.....sometimes both.
wow , i wish we can talk to each other,
I recommend you check out Barbara Sher’s books, particularly ‘Refuse to Choose’ and ‘What Do I Do When I Want To Do Everything’ it’s all about the ‘Scanner’ personality type.
I am so in this boat! Hope you find a resolution. xx
just leave the past glory in the past, if you keep working hard all your wonderful talent will pay you back
If I start getting in a rut and I see it coming before it really takes root, I procrastinate and listen to videos like this instead. I find that soon, the rut disappears from my mind for the time being and while my mind is clear, I can focus on what to do.
The rut still gets me from time to time but now I have a defense against it if I see it coming.
Your not alone... everybody on this channel came here for a reason including me.. keep your head up and keep pushing forward cause it will get better : )
when I feel disoriented and in a rut that is because I fall out of the basic routine of working out and running every morning. For some reason my greatest ideas come to me while running, and then clarity and organization =)
well, i am in that position right now. my dad passed away couple months ago, and i know it still affects me in certain way. i'm not really close to my brother and sister, i live alone. and i quit my job because i feel disoriented, like lost control over myself. it's been month but i feel better about myself, i am sure there is no overnight solution, but actually it'll get better
I love you Marie! Thank you. You helped me a lot!
Marieeeeeeeeee! you are inspiringly excellent. Thank you
This is such great advice Marie. Thank you! Just the pick-me-up I needed this morning.
You said right. It's painful.
I see there is no solution for that at that time so I actually LOVE going to different places, traveling with hubby and meeting friends...but yeah, next time I will implement the "telling the truth factor" :)
Vitoria
Love you Marie...you inspire me!
you got me motivated!!
thank you its only 4:26 minutes in and I'm already there thank you!
This is an oldie but a goodie. Thanks for the motivation!
I love you! You are great!
I like the, get something done idea! I tend to avoid social situations when I have been feeling low in the past... maybe try getting around more folks in future! Thanks!
Your quote helped me get ready for work much faster.
Thanks for the upload.
love your hair and the fact that you were straight-forward and not just making sounds. I also like the typography to visualize what you're saying instead of just talking.
I'm a huge believer in things that happen for a reason, so you never know! go out and try something!
So needed to hear this. Thanks!
I have been having the problem where I take advice and it either takes over my head or goes over my head. Like the being honest, I was constantly just complaining and complaining all the time to my friends. While they were supportive at first, they grew to dislike me because I seemed so negative all the time. I was playing victim like nobody's business. I became the toxic friend to my best friend and she dropped me. I have been so depressed and just miserable since and it shows. I am filled with guilt and shame of my past actions and I know that the consequences of my actions aren't going to leave my shoulders anytime soon. I have moved to a new place, I am unemployed, and completely lost on what my goals are anymore. I'm picking up little by little though. I am only 18 as well and I am really trying to steer my shit train onto some tracks to completely reinvent myself and to become who I am again.
Anyway, thank you for the advice. I really appreciated it.
I agree with everything she had to say. I'm sorta of in a rut or i should say I'm playing the waiting game. I am happily married with four wonderful kids. I am 37 and pursuing a career in applied science respiratory therapist. I am currently sitting on 28 credits short of 36 credits to graduated. I took a year off cuz I was failing miserably. I couldn't seem to concentrate for some reason. My wife works and I am a stay at home dad atm...The role reversal is the big thing cont...
So well spoken and informative, best video on you tube I've seen in a while! :)
I love this video - it's an energetic mish-mash of AWESOME! It perfectly sums up how I've been feeling recently and I realise that trying to get motivated just isn't necessarily the right way... "Just get sh*t done" is exactly right!
Thank you so much love
Thanks! I feel much better. I'm a teenager nearing adulthood and I'm just not motivated to get things done because I'm lazy and scared of growing up but thanks to you, I feel much better :) xoxo