Little did she know, she was building an army for herself. She raised those boys to step up for situations like these . Nozi is rich, rich at heart.❤️🤞🏽
The true definition of it takes nothing from you to be kind. Instead those same kids are ready to stand by her side no matter what. Because of that kindness and innocence
What a phenomenal woman she is I love her and her heart ❤️ may god continue to bless her.. she's a rock 🙏 I actually learned something amazing from her I wish I can have a moment with her .she really inspires me
I feel like throughout this whole situation, Nozi was called to be a mother more than anything else. She gave all her children a comfortable home to grow in and a supportive family. She has done her part.
One thing I've noticed about the hosts is that they have a passion for connecting with people. Sometimes it may seem like they are "interrupting," but in reality, they are sharing their own experiences to show that the guest is not alone. I believe their intentions are genuine, and unlike most interviewers, they are not just sitting there getting gossip.
I agree, I feel she sacrificed too much for him. She tried to build the family but somehow he is just not satisfied with it and I feel so bad for her because she seems like a nice person.
Nozipho, the super empath, the chosen one. Your contribution in this world will not go unnoticed. God knows your heart. He felt your pain and will always cover you. Blessings to you Nozi
This was so well handled, Nozipho is very private and digging to much would have been invasive. I watched it in the morning went to town and came back and watching it again thats how much i enjoyed it. I saw a woman healing, walking towards herself, and learning her new normal. When she heals more and gains strength, then she will go deeper. Also, these are ppls real lives it's not mgosi per se so it needs to handled with sensitive and i feel mo and phindi did just right.
I wish everyone can understand that. Its very important to make the guests as comfortable as possible and not make them feel like they are being interrogated.
I liked how Mo and Phindi made it seem like a conversation with a friend instead of a formal approach with just questions from them and answers from Nozipho. I enjoyed this ❤
But the signs were there. Firstly he neglected his own children when you met him and denied them to you. You taught him how to become the dad that he was before everything went left. He wasn’t that man/father initially. The veil has finally came off. Men are like this. Once he shows his true colours uyeyisa (lack of love and respect or none). I hope uNozi moves on and finds her strength and love her life the way she has always wanted. This is a lesson to all women out there that being bob the builder doesn’t make you any special to a man….
@@Vv-fl2rmthe fuss is, in him keeping with tradition he has disrespected and disregarded his wife and also this was never part of their agreement he didn’t voice out ukuthi he will want to practice isithembu. You can’t want to uphold church practices but uqale ngokujola maybe if he had actually followed proper protocol the outcome would be different. You can’t cheat then hide behind Shembe if you want isithembu I’m sure cheating is not a prerequisite for polygamy there are respectful ways to go about it. That is the fuss here
Nope she thought Zola would never leave her like the others of she does. Bakhulele eboarding school abantwa, with housekeepers at home. She fooled herself!
To the hosts: don’t be discouraged by the comments. I also want to add that uBhuti gets too excited and end up talking about themselves or prolongs the question. But again , don’t be discouraged because you will get better.
@@penelopechiloane7408 I agree, but they should learn how to read the room. I'm sure not all guests need the interviewer to relay their stories so they can open up.
I made a decision to read the comments after watching a video because they can change how you receive the message. I also think that this is a beautiful conversation
I also think it was a good conversation and Nozy looked comfortable and not under interrogation. She will do more interviews with other hosts with different interviewing styles . We cant get everything in just 1 interview.
Sometimes we don't understand why things happen the way they do but i think God brought Nozi into this man's life for the kids (red flags and all) and he will come after this storm to make things right for her ten fold. Nozi did the work and those children know love, family, sacrifice and more even with what the Father is doing the foundation is firm for those kids
Nozipho is still not holding her husband accountable. It's him he is like that you dated him like that, so there's no evil spirit controlling him. It's him, you did not dismantle anything, he did! accept that he is a terrible human being and he was from the beginning of your relationship. You showed him love and the possibility of a solid family, he participated but just like a wild animal he is his true nature emerged. You are such an amazing woman and you deserve so so much better Nozipho.
I feel for her and I wish we all had step mothers like that to receive and accept us with so much love. However, the red flags have always been there from the day they met. This husband was not honest about his other three kids while one babymama was literally expecting their child. He has a record of just leaving women pregnant and had he not married Nozi, those kids would have been fatherless. But in all aspects, this guy just never changed, he just managed to pretend for so long and he couldn't anymore. Anyway, Nozi you deserve to choose yourself because youve neglected yourself since the day you met this man. You also deserve to be protected.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 must only happen in case of death. Raising another woman's child while she's alive is not easy at all. It takes special people like abo Nozi to do it. Mina honestly, i can't. I don't want to do it. Omunye nomunye aka bonane nezinyane lakhe.
Nozipho is a phenomenal woman! I've never experienced such a gracious, loving and calm person. may God continue to protect and bless your family. The battle is not yours but God!
God will repay you, watch and see how this lady's testimony will confirm the greatness of the Lord. People wished for this interview to talk more about the other woman, I don't think even the sharks would get it out of her. She couldn't even comment on her husband's part , she would never speak of the other woman. Nozi is the girl she thinks she is, even with so much ammunition she chooses kindness. I STAN!!
Thank you Nozipho for opening up. Thanks Mo and Phindi for this episode. Nozipho, if you see this, please return to YT. You have a huge audience behind you and one awesome story to tell. we could learn a thing or two from you about building a family.
I’m not sure why everyone is complaining about the podcast hosts. No issues with the interview, it was beautiful and thank you for honouring Nozipho and her story. Wishing her and her family all the best❤
Yeah, I read the comments before I watched and it almost stopped me from watching, but I'm glad I didn't let the comments stop it. This interview went beautifully. I'm not seeing what the negative comments are coming from. It's 3 adults speaking and sharing their lives. It's a give and take. This was amazing❤
@@thaminyashetotally agree, it was a warm give and take and in sharing their experiences, the hosts created a safe space for Nozipho to open up to the extent that she was comfortable as well. Thank you for your vulnerability Nozipho❤
I also agree with you here , the guest was free and not scared to share her vulnerability because of the connection that the hosts built during the interview. Well done guys I really enjoyed the whole interaction ❤❤❤
I came back to say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time”. Sesi Nozi created her own image of who she thought he was and ignored who he really is. This man couldn’t pretend any longer
Nozi has the most beautiful heart, she raised this ungrateful mans children and he goes and breaks her heart like this, eish if only we could see what the future looks like. She really doest deserve what this man did to her, my heart is off to Nozi for being an incredible Mother to all those children and being a good person and not disparaging her husband at all no matter how badly he hurt her. What an amazing super woman.
It was a great interview. You approached it with positivity, avoiding gossip and focusing on uplifting her current situation. Nozipho, you are such a powerhouse, and U Bra God must have known you are capable of handling this
I actually enjoyed this, it felt more like an easy going conversation instead of an interrogative interview. Nozi also seems relaxed and so are the hosts.
@LoveMarriageAndFamilyPodcast You guys can tone it a bit. Dont come too strong than the person we here for. Dont ignore all the other people they sending constructive feedback.
@@murielmoyahabo6078Thank you. Because choosing to ignore what 90% of your audience is saying and branding it as a personal attack and only acknowledge the 20% isn’t going to make things better. Take the criticism and do better next time.
@@murielmoyahabo6078 lol they're definitely ignoring coz they're only liking those who are giving positive feedback and ignoring constructive criticism 😂😂😂
Love Nozipho. My sense is that there were red flags from the beginning that were ignored......and that this change is Husband has been a long time coming.
Thank you soo much sis Phindi and Bhuti Moh for handling the interview with so much respect and compassion. Thank you for protecting Nozipho throughout the interview and supporting her as well. I think we people just want the gossip and not to really go through the emotions with Nozipho whilst respecting what she would like to keep to herself to protect her family and personal space. You did a wonderful job and the interview was honest but also didn’t attack anyone. Keep up the great work I have subscribed to your channel.
This is the comment I was looking for❤ they conducted the interview with so much respect for nosipho and everyone that’s complaining and saying they want more kusho khona they looking for nasty gossip 🚮
I see everyone complaining about the hosts but I didn’t mind it! They made Nozi feel comfortable and it felt more like a conversation. She can be shy so I believe their approach was best for her. She’s so strong, I really enjoyed the interview
Love you Nozipho. You're such a kind, gentle and humble being- judging from the way you speak, choice of words and expression (very consistent). You seem so peaceful and I wish you conquer this..
I'm so sorry Nozi that you had to go through what you went through. But I know you will pull through. You're very intelligent woman. You're beautiful. You have a beautiful heart. You're definitely God's favourite child. He is with you. He will hold your hand through it all and get you to the other side. Mo and Phindi are wonderful interviewers. They are interactive, sympathetic and ask the right questions and I think Nozi felt safe to share her life story with them. According to me, this was the best interview ever. Thank you guys for this. You did exceptionally well. And God bless your channel and grow it even more. It so relatable to what most people go through in life. Love you guys so much. ❤
It is not as bad as the comments make it to be. It’s suppose to be a conversation and that, they had. Be that as it may, let us constructively give feedback and not just lash on people. Had it not been for Mo and Phindi, we will all be longing for this interview. Yho! To Mo and Phindi, well done guys!
I literally shed a tear while watching this as someone who’s been watching Nozi since her TH-cam channel days it breaks my heart that her husband is really moving forward with destroying their wholesome family 💔. I’m rooting forNozipho, uNkulunkulu emuhle njalo she will heal and do amazing things for herself .
Who else wonders where and how those kids would be if God had not chosen to use Nozi as the glue of the family? You can tell she comes from a family that places a high value on family and unity. Knowing the God that we serve, He will surely reward her for everything she has done, as this was His purpose for her. Thank you for sharing your story. As a young person, I have learned a lot from your journey and your willingness to share it with us. Your dedication to family and faith is truly inspiring, and it serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of love and unity in our lives.
I also believe that God will make all things work out for the children's good. They will learn never to idolize a human again, they will learn that God is a provider and that He is a jealous God. I pray that the whole family will be saved and move our from Shembe worship.
Keep speaking about it, it will help you heal . I am so sorry for everything that is happening. You will be fine sesi you will be just fine stay with God❤
That man knew exactly what he was doing. Nozipho is a very kind and a gentle human being, he thought Nozipho was going to agree to a second wife. He got shocked that she wasn’t going with his fantasy. That man will never last with that girl he is planning to marry as a second wife, Nozipho is gold. Her kind is not easy to find. If I knew her husband I was going to wake him up with a slap 👋😅. That man doesn’t see what God did, the time He wanted to marry a second wife, God put Nozipho on tv so that she would share her pain with South Africa. God wanted to heal her quickly, She is loved by God. The devil is a bastard, he is a liar.
Hosts were well engaged with Nozipho. I like that the conversation was not so much on the negative parts of Nosipho’s marriage but she spoke with grace about her journey in a balanced way. Lovely.
Clearly Zola is spiritually blind. He couldn't even recognize the favor that this woman holds. Nkulunkulu unebantfu bakhe, Nozipho is one of them, and unfortunately, he won't benefit from that favor anymore. Honestly I feel for him, because he'll be on survival mode from now on & best believe he'll feel empty even after he's gotten what he's been chasing.
Beutiful interview Phindi and Mo i enjoy this interview i love how you had also share ur own journey so that Nozi can be free and learn from experience as well , this is ur platform big my people ❤❤❤, to Nozie you such a beutiful heart nono may God bless you❤
Someone gets it!!! This is not a tabloid platform. The aim here is a conversation and making our guests feel comfortable. If people are looking for a bashing platform. Unfortunately this is not the one!!!
I love how Mo also opened up and spoke about their story with his son just so Nozi can see no one is perfect only God is... Angisoli nix with this interview I thoroughly enjoyed it. Well done Mo and Phindi❤
Never put your dreams aside for a man. Never have kids you can’t take care of when he left you. People change everyday, you’ll never know when they will change. It’s so sad to see this woman building with an unfaithful man from the beginning but ignored the red flags. Yoh kubuhlungu sis, may God protect you and give you a better man.❤
Wow Nozi, I can relate so much to your story. I, too, am part of a blended family with children from both sides, and it's heartwarming to see how well you manage it. I truly respect and admire you for your strength and love. Wishing you nothing but all the blessings in life. Keep shining♥️💐 Thank you so much for trusting us with your life story 🫂
I'm glad they interviewed her. They had a conversation and some information was kept private. As it should. Oversharing always has horrible disadvantages because people will use that info against. They will even go as far as you told us. I'm glad this interview went this way ❤❤
What a beautiful story. ❤❤❤Nozipho is such a wise, mature and graceful lady. She exudes such a godly character - like I am in so much awe. I can feel her beautiful, pure energy through the screen. The way she narrated her story while still respecting the father of her kids? Like wow, women like this are so rare. She has such a beautiful character. Oh and she was a pleasure to listen to, so well spoken - the way she articulated herself in sharing her story and just keeping it classy & graceful? Wow...and can we talk about how beautifully she speaks IsiZulu!? Yooh hayi ndimthandile shem. May God's grace always carry her.❤❤❤
Men can lie and they very lie well. I loved my dad with all my heart, he was my world. He loved my mom, with all his heart and respected her or so it seemed. He was a family man in the home and we later found out he was for the streets chile. He hid it so well for over 30 years that my mom landed in hospital when she found out. Zola sounds like he got caught in a lie and decided to add another lie on top of it, now the problem is the repercussions of that lie where not well thought out by him. He thought it would be easy but he thought wrong. Also it sounds like God blessed Zola because of Nozi and not the other way around, because there were so many red flags about this man from jump. Sisi Nozi, with or without this man your are blessed either way. The evidence is all around you. Ask God to forgive your husband because men who do these kinds of things, it does not end well for them. God will always uphold the sanctity that is marriage with everything that He has especially if it is blessed by him, and yours was absolutely blessed by him.
What an incredible incredible woman... I have no words!! This man having so many kids really fumbled the bag with Nozipho. Haibo, yazi I will never understand shame.
I actually enjoyed the interview, it was a conversation that was flowing and they asked what a lot of people want to know and understand because we’ve heard stories regarding Nozi’s marriage and they got to the crux of it. I look forward to more interviews, now that Nozi has shared regarding her marriage which is what brought her to some of our screens in the first place, I look forward to learning more about uNozi the woman, who she is and how she plans on navigating life after this ordeal. This interview that focused on this aspect was necessary. Thank you for opening up Nozi. ♥️ Thank you to the hosts also for asking relevant questions, it didn’t feel like umgosi it felt like friends reassuring a friend and allowing her to share her side of the story.
Ai guys, this is a conversation. I don't think there's anything wrong with an interview also telling their life story similar to a guest's. It eases the guest also. This is not the Oprah Winfrey Show. That woman had no emotion when she interviewed her guests. To the hosts, keep it up guys. You are human and have empathy. We are not going to watch people interview others like they are robots. Engagement is important
They kept interrupting, jumping from how she grew up to being a middle child. in the end she wanted to speak more about her late father but was rushed. there was no moral of the story.We don't have a problem with them telling us their stories as host. They must let the guest to finish her sentences 😭🤣 Oprah Winfrey listen to her guest. They must not do that for other interviews. We didn't get to know who nozi was beside her 8 kids and cheating husband. When she was trying to touch on her background about who she is before marriage, her family, her career and more they made it about themselves
I am so confused about the criticism towards the hosts. I read the comments early on and was expecting to be disappointed but wasn’t. They hosted and Nozi shared her story as she was comfortable with. They gave her the floor. I only wish the interview was longer.
No need to drag Oprah into this. You can praise them without criticizing or comparing them to anyone. Some people will like this channel and some won't and it's okay. I'm enjoying this podcast as it is... won't compare it to others. Mo and Phindi are doing it their way and I love it for them.
All I can say is that God is Love n God is Good.Nozipho usimelile as oMama, usimelile as Housewives n usimelile as IMBOKODO.Nkulunkulu wayekhona, usekhona n usazobakhona.Ngyabonga Dadewethu
Kade ya qala ukusa le ndoda ya nozi ihamba izalisa and leave kids AI suka this man really didn't deserve Nozi such a generous humble woman. May God protect and bless u Nozi ❤❤❤❤
You're right, red flags were there from the begin. The problem is we always think "it'll never happen to me". A person's history says a lot about them, let's not lie.
@@cindy588that "not to me" led her to collect all the other children to prove to Zola that she is marriage material, years later Zola reverted back to his true self❤ Wouldn't be shocked that there are other children made within the marriage that Nozi is not aware of.
Yoo this is a very sad situation I don't wish it for any women I was in a similar situation. I'm still in the marriage so unhappy I wish benginaso isibindi esifana nesakho ❤❤
So true... this man never deserved her in the beginning... he seems like a lousy dad denying his kids just to get a girlfriend 🙄 ay that speaks volumes..
This is just a summary of how unpredictable life is and that no matter how you can build something when the time arrives for it to break it just breaks whether it is built on the rocks or Sand😪😪😪
Totally enjoyed this interview it was light on the heavy stuff Nozipho has been through and we got to experience the family she comes from, the woman she is without her being caged to the humiliation and embassment she just publicly went through in her marriage! She is indeed a beautiful soul and a MOTHER!! Shes got this!! ❤
Aggg I just love you Nozi, your calmness, how you tell your story without attacking and bashing the other people shows that you have a big heart. God bless you.
Amadoda awanandaba. This man didnt care how much Nozipho was there for him all these years. Loved his children and raised them so well. Im in utter disbelief
Start by watching the video before you read the comments ,interview was great .It was more of conversation ,keep going guys .I really think people came here for gossip and they didn't get .
Therapy is very important! It helps us understand why we make the choices that we do and why we put up with things we shouldn't be putting up with! Healing can save us from a lot of heartache.
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Little did she know, she was building an army for herself. She raised those boys to step up for situations like these . Nozi is rich, rich at heart.❤️🤞🏽
U spoke it out my mouth… an army ready to stand up for her 💯
She will never be alone shame
😢😢❤❤❤ my sentiments
It's so unfair to place such a big responsibility on kids.
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Nozi is not a stepmom. She's a mother that stepped up ❤. God bless her beautiful heart and her kids ♡
His loss! What a phenomenal woman. Very rare!
A pure definition of inkosikazi, which is not supposed to exist as it's near impossible for one to exist. Amazing lady!
Nozi is a mother in all aspects, she has genuine love and patience and was commited to raising the childeren from the word go. Very unique.
Its her true calling❤❤❤
The true definition of it takes nothing from you to be kind. Instead those same kids are ready to stand by her side no matter what. Because of that kindness and innocence
Hands down! Whether Nozi is naive or didn't choose herself but she has a kind, generous heart and that touches me ❤️💜♥️
Definitely.his loss.
What a phenomenal woman she is I love her and her heart ❤️ may god continue to bless her.. she's a rock 🙏 I actually learned something amazing from her I wish I can have a moment with her .she really inspires me
@@PhindileMadikizela-jz3ig Yheyhi sis, her heart brings tears in my eyes 💝
@@neomos4537 Yes! When people get a rare treasure and decide to abuse it 💝
I feel like throughout this whole situation, Nozi was called to be a mother more than anything else. She gave all her children a comfortable home to grow in and a supportive family. She has done her part.
One thing I've noticed about the hosts is that they have a passion for connecting with people. Sometimes it may seem like they are "interrupting," but in reality, they are sharing their own experiences to show that the guest is not alone. I believe their intentions are genuine, and unlike most interviewers, they are not just sitting there getting gossip.
@@patiencentike7560me too
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Its that Nozi is still protecting him as a father, and is not speaking ill off him as a man. What a woman.
Cause she wants to leave the room to go back open.
She's a better person than I am. She is very strong
Wisdom
No there's kids involved remember @asandamahlubi1313
Nozipho bravo❤💕❤
Nozipho’s just go build your medical career babes . This man has chosen himself. Go do the same . For the sake of your sanity and kids
I agree, I feel she sacrificed too much for him. She tried to build the family but somehow he is just not satisfied with it and I feel so bad for her because she seems like a nice person.
I love Nozi's personality-so calm, gentle and loving. Love strength and power to you from GOD.
Nozipho is such a good human being hle. Wow she’s amazing
Nozipho, the super empath, the chosen one. Your contribution in this world will not go unnoticed. God knows your heart. He felt your pain and will always cover you. Blessings to you Nozi
This was so well handled, Nozipho is very private and digging to much would have been invasive. I watched it in the morning went to town and came back and watching it again thats how much i enjoyed it. I saw a woman healing, walking towards herself, and learning her new normal. When she heals more and gains strength, then she will go deeper. Also, these are ppls real lives it's not mgosi per se so it needs to handled with sensitive and i feel mo and phindi did just right.
I wish everyone can understand that. Its very important to make the guests as comfortable as possible and not make them feel like they are being interrogated.
True she doesn’t even want to share on when and how could 😊this possible started.
@@Reset_With_Louisa Thank you. That is key for us. This is not a tabloid/gossip platform. Making your guest feel comfortable is everything
@@Reset_With_LouisaI agree with you ❤
You did a great job. Thank you@@LoveMarriageAndFamilyPodcast
I liked how Mo and Phindi made it seem like a conversation with a friend instead of a formal approach with just questions from them and answers from Nozipho. I enjoyed this ❤
True..i dont know why people are complaing, Mo and Phindi will not change their way of doing things because of them...
My take as well, not all these interviews will go the traditional style, people are not robots. This is a friendly convo.
I concur ❤
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I loved it too, no judgment. i am certain even Nozipho felt comfortable
But the signs were there. Firstly he neglected his own children when you met him and denied them to you. You taught him how to become the dad that he was before everything went left. He wasn’t that man/father initially. The veil has finally came off. Men are like this. Once he shows his true colours uyeyisa (lack of love and respect or none).
I hope uNozi moves on and finds her strength and love her life the way she has always wanted.
This is a lesson to all women out there that being bob the builder doesn’t make you any special to a man….
When a man is not in his children's lives, it's a red flag! It is a character flaw!
The guy wants a second wife as per the norm kwa shembe where they attend church. He is not leaving his family or his wife. All this fuss is unecessary
@@Vv-fl2rm pls🙄
@@nette2144 I also learnt this the hard way😭💔
@@Vv-fl2rmthe fuss is, in him keeping with tradition he has disrespected and disregarded his wife and also this was never part of their agreement he didn’t voice out ukuthi he will want to practice isithembu.
You can’t want to uphold church practices but uqale ngokujola maybe if he had actually followed proper protocol the outcome would be different. You can’t cheat then hide behind Shembe if you want isithembu I’m sure cheating is not a prerequisite for polygamy there are respectful ways to go about it. That is the fuss here
Nozipho was born with motherly love❤❤❤❤❤I salute you mommy
Nope she thought Zola would never leave her like the others of she does.
Bakhulele eboarding school abantwa, with housekeepers at home.
She fooled herself!
What are these comments? Clearly you guys just wanted isgaxa only. This episode is nice. Just conversations flowing. LOVE IT
Haaa bitso😂😂😂
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To the hosts: don’t be discouraged by the comments. I also want to add that uBhuti gets too excited and end up talking about themselves or prolongs the question. But again , don’t be discouraged because you will get better.
Constructive criticism ❤❤❤ inhlonipho unayo Yanga💞
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Actually I enjoyed the story in between 😊
On the one hand, when he does that I notice the guests tend to relax and open up more. I honestly appreciate that about him.
@@penelopechiloane7408 I agree, but they should learn how to read the room. I'm sure not all guests need the interviewer to relay their stories so they can open up.
I was almost discouraged to watch the interview because of the comments. I think this was a beautiful conversation.
I made a decision to read the comments after watching a video because they can change how you receive the message. I also think that this is a beautiful conversation
Beautiful conversation❤️❤️
@@sinegugumaphumulo4100it truly was a good episode
Siyabonga ❤
I also think it was a good conversation and Nozy looked comfortable and not under interrogation. She will do more interviews with other hosts with different interviewing styles . We cant get everything in just 1 interview.
Sometimes we don't understand why things happen the way they do but i think God brought Nozi into this man's life for the kids (red flags and all) and he will come after this storm to make things right for her ten fold. Nozi did the work and those children know love, family, sacrifice and more even with what the Father is doing the foundation is firm for those kids
Nozipho is still not holding her husband accountable. It's him he is like that you dated him like that, so there's no evil spirit controlling him. It's him, you did not dismantle anything, he did! accept that he is a terrible human being and he was from the beginning of your relationship. You showed him love and the possibility of a solid family, he participated but just like a wild animal he is his true nature emerged. You are such an amazing woman and you deserve so so much better Nozipho.
Angithi uyamkhohlisa ethi he is on a journey. I think she is considerate of the children as well.
@@khosiethabekhulu3497she’s truly one in a million. But I’m glad she’s still fulfilling her purpose with the kids.
With the heart that she has,she’ll always win 🥹
I hate it when she keeps making excuses for him, saying “you know men… uyawazi amadoda “ uhhhhmmm no ma’am that’s YOUR man. It’s a serious red flag
I think she was born to be a mother lo cc , it’s a pity she partnered with a person who’s not for family like her
I feel for her and I wish we all had step mothers like that to receive and accept us with so much love. However, the red flags have always been there from the day they met. This husband was not honest about his other three kids while one babymama was literally expecting their child. He has a record of just leaving women pregnant and had he not married Nozi, those kids would have been fatherless. But in all aspects, this guy just never changed, he just managed to pretend for so long and he couldn't anymore. Anyway, Nozi you deserve to choose yourself because youve neglected yourself since the day you met this man. You also deserve to be protected.
Thank you
This !!
You nailed it
This is so profound
So true..:nozi chose not the see the scammer zola is
Yoh she needs to conduct a step mothering masterclass! 🔥 so many nuggets! 💕
Exactly I thought of my stepmom Yhoo 😢
She’s just like my mom. She’s such an amazing step mom 🥹
Stepmothering should be the last option for women.
yeeyyy!! Ngoba siyahluleka🤣🤣🤣 Phela ngoba some of these step kids ama dimoni & make it hard to build a relationship with.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 must only happen in case of death. Raising another woman's child while she's alive is not easy at all. It takes special people like abo Nozi to do it. Mina honestly, i can't. I don't want to do it. Omunye nomunye aka bonane nezinyane lakhe.
Nozipho is a phenomenal woman! I've never experienced such a gracious, loving and calm person. may God continue to protect and bless your family. The battle is not yours but God!
This woman’s aura is deep ,full of love .
God will repay you, watch and see how this lady's testimony will confirm the greatness of the Lord. People wished for this interview to talk more about the other woman, I don't think even the sharks would get it out of her. She couldn't even comment on her husband's part , she would never speak of the other woman. Nozi is the girl she thinks she is, even with so much ammunition she chooses kindness. I STAN!!
Imagine bathanda nje iindaba aba
This lady is intentional, nurturing, peaceful,loving. God bless Nozi❤
Thank you Nozipho for opening up. Thanks Mo and Phindi for this episode. Nozipho, if you see this, please return to YT. You have a huge audience behind you and one awesome story to tell. we could learn a thing or two from you about building a family.
This is the kindest comment. Awww Tessa 🥹♥️
She is special 🤍
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I’m not sure why everyone is complaining about the podcast hosts. No issues with the interview, it was beautiful and thank you for honouring Nozipho and her story.
Wishing her and her family all the best❤
Thank you Mokgadi❤
Yeah, I read the comments before I watched and it almost stopped me from watching, but I'm glad I didn't let the comments stop it. This interview went beautifully. I'm not seeing what the negative comments are coming from. It's 3 adults speaking and sharing their lives. It's a give and take. This was amazing❤
@@thaminyashetotally agree, it was a warm give and take and in sharing their experiences, the hosts created a safe space for Nozipho to open up to the extent that she was comfortable as well.
Thank you for your vulnerability Nozipho❤
I Love her. She's so motherly❤
I also agree with you here , the guest was free and not scared to share her vulnerability because of the connection that the hosts built during the interview. Well done guys I really enjoyed the whole interaction ❤❤❤
I came back to say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time”. Sesi Nozi created her own image of who she thought he was and ignored who he really is. This man couldn’t pretend any longer
Unfortunately that is true
😭 so true , he was a bad human being from the start now he is getting exposed. He was pretending all along
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Nozipho has been through a lot & like a phoenix she will rise to better heights🙏
This channel is about Conversations on Love, Marriage and Family.❤️❤️❤️Well done Phindi and Mo🙌🏽
Thank you Olwethu. God bless 🙏
First time watching and i can't stop crying. What are strong women, I wish her all the best
who else is crying with me 🥲seeing Nozi crying its hit hard 🥲oh God she is a strong woman 🥰🥰🥰
Men don’t like peace men don’t like strong women 😢😢
M with you,I just love Nozy so calm but I know God is preparing her for bigger things as much as it might be painful now it's only temporary
Me😢
Nozi has the most beautiful heart, she raised this ungrateful mans children and he goes and breaks her heart like this, eish if only we could see what the future looks like. She really doest deserve what this man did to her, my heart is off to Nozi for being an incredible Mother to all those children and being a good person and not disparaging her husband at all no matter how badly he hurt her. What an amazing super woman.
It was a great interview. You approached it with positivity, avoiding gossip and focusing on uplifting her current situation. Nozipho, you are such a powerhouse, and U Bra God must have known you are capable of handling this
Glad you enjoyed it!
I actually enjoyed this, it felt more like an easy going conversation instead of an interrogative interview. Nozi also seems relaxed and so are the hosts.
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@LoveMarriageAndFamilyPodcast You guys can tone it a bit. Dont come too strong than the person we here for. Dont ignore all the other people they sending constructive feedback.
@@murielmoyahabo6078Thank you. Because choosing to ignore what 90% of your audience is saying and branding it as a personal attack and only acknowledge the 20% isn’t going to make things better. Take the criticism and do better next time.
@@murielmoyahabo6078 lol they're definitely ignoring coz they're only liking those who are giving positive feedback and ignoring constructive criticism 😂😂😂
Love Nozipho. My sense is that there were red flags from the beginning that were ignored......and that this change is Husband has been a long time coming.
I say that too…
There were red flags lesi sko0n besishaya yonke indawo. Were red flags enough.
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Yhoo, so many kids that she were never told about but she chose to stay🤔
@@nobahlemjongozi1127 I blame this 💰 🤑
I never cry during people’s interviews, but this one got me. All the best for the future Nozi.
Thank you soo much sis Phindi and Bhuti Moh for handling the interview with so much respect and compassion. Thank you for protecting Nozipho throughout the interview and supporting her as well. I think we people just want the gossip and not to really go through the emotions with Nozipho whilst respecting what she would like to keep to herself to protect her family and personal space. You did a wonderful job and the interview was honest but also didn’t attack anyone. Keep up the great work I have subscribed to your channel.
This is the comment I was looking for❤ they conducted the interview with so much respect for nosipho and everyone that’s complaining and saying they want more kusho khona they looking for nasty gossip 🚮
I see everyone complaining about the hosts but I didn’t mind it! They made Nozi feel comfortable and it felt more like a conversation. She can be shy so I believe their approach was best for her. She’s so strong, I really enjoyed the interview
Love you Nozipho. You're such a kind, gentle and humble being- judging from the way you speak, choice of words and expression (very consistent). You seem so peaceful and I wish you conquer this..
I'm so sorry Nozi that you had to go through what you went through. But I know you will pull through. You're very intelligent woman. You're beautiful. You have a beautiful heart. You're definitely God's favourite child. He is with you. He will hold your hand through it all and get you to the other side.
Mo and Phindi are wonderful interviewers. They are interactive, sympathetic and ask the right questions and I think Nozi felt safe to share her life story with them. According to me, this was the best interview ever. Thank you guys for this. You did exceptionally well. And God bless your channel and grow it even more. It so relatable to what most people go through in life. Love you guys so much. ❤
How I love Nozipho, what a composed lady, God will bless you and your generations to come💋❤️
It is not as bad as the comments make it to be. It’s suppose to be a conversation and that, they had. Be that as it may, let us constructively give feedback and not just lash on people. Had it not been for Mo and Phindi, we will all be longing for this interview. Yho! To Mo and Phindi, well done guys!
I almost didn't watch because of the comments
Amanga wenu 😂
Axactly!! I'm done going through comments before watching something...
I personally I enjoyed the conversation❤
Me too hey@@khaboninamahlangu789
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I literally shed a tear while watching this as someone who’s been watching Nozi since her TH-cam channel days it breaks my heart that her husband is really moving forward with destroying their wholesome family 💔. I’m rooting forNozipho, uNkulunkulu emuhle njalo she will heal and do amazing things for herself .
Who else wonders where and how those kids would be if God had not chosen to use Nozi as the glue of the family? You can tell she comes from a family that places a high value on family and unity. Knowing the God that we serve, He will surely reward her for everything she has done, as this was His purpose for her.
Thank you for sharing your story. As a young person, I have learned a lot from your journey and your willingness to share it with us. Your dedication to family and faith is truly inspiring, and it serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of love and unity in our lives.
I also believe that God will make all things work out for the children's good.
They will learn never to idolize a human again, they will learn that God is a provider and that He is a jealous God.
I pray that the whole family will be saved and move our from Shembe worship.
Keep speaking about it, it will help you heal . I am so sorry for everything that is happening. You will be fine sesi you will be just fine stay with God❤
Yhoo uNozipho is such a strong woman!😭♥️
I see many people complaining about the style pf interview., but I find it refreshing ❤ it felt so natural
That man knew exactly what he was doing. Nozipho is a very kind and a gentle human being, he thought Nozipho was going to agree to a second wife. He got shocked that she wasn’t going with his fantasy. That man will never last with that girl he is planning to marry as a second wife, Nozipho is gold. Her kind is not easy to find. If I knew her husband I was going to wake him up with a slap 👋😅. That man doesn’t see what God did, the time He wanted to marry a second wife, God put Nozipho on tv so that she would share her pain with South Africa. God wanted to heal her quickly, She is loved by God. The devil is a bastard, he is a liar.
With a hot slap nogal😂😂😂
Hosts were well engaged with Nozipho. I like that the conversation was not so much on the negative parts of Nosipho’s marriage but she spoke with grace about her journey in a balanced way. Lovely.
You get it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Clearly Zola is spiritually blind. He couldn't even recognize the favor that this woman holds. Nkulunkulu unebantfu bakhe, Nozipho is one of them, and unfortunately, he won't benefit from that favor anymore. Honestly I feel for him, because he'll be on survival mode from now on & best believe he'll feel empty even after he's gotten what he's been chasing.
This is so true!!!!!!!!
Wayibeke kahle yati🙌
So true
Yhaaaa nheeee😢
Camagu❤
Beutiful interview Phindi and Mo i enjoy this interview i love how you had also share ur own journey so that Nozi can be free and learn from experience as well , this is ur platform big my people ❤❤❤, to Nozie you such a beutiful heart nono may God bless you❤
I also LOVED IT❤
Beautiful conversation indeed ❤️❤️
Someone gets it!!! This is not a tabloid platform. The aim here is a conversation and making our guests feel comfortable. If people are looking for a bashing platform. Unfortunately this is not the one!!!
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The virgin stepmom will never be half the woman Nozi is.😢
Yazi 😢, it seems her only redeeming quality is her virginity besides that ubolile shame
Bro!!!
Right!
Never
I'm pretty sure the baby mamas before Nozi felt that way about her. As long as the girls continue to be pick me's history will repeat itself.
What a kind woman 😢😢 in her heartbreak but she still kind with her words ❤
Nozi was literally born to be a mother!❤ What a beautiful woman!
I love how Mo also opened up and spoke about their story with his son just so Nozi can see no one is perfect only God is... Angisoli nix with this interview I thoroughly enjoyed it. Well done Mo and Phindi❤
We love you back 😘
She married inuku le ndoda! Stay strong Mami we love you.
Never put your dreams aside for a man. Never have kids you can’t take care of when he left you. People change everyday, you’ll never know when they will change. It’s so sad to see this woman building with an unfaithful man from the beginning but ignored the red flags. Yoh kubuhlungu sis, may God protect you and give you a better man.❤
Wow Nozi, I can relate so much to your story. I, too, am part of a blended family with children from both sides, and it's heartwarming to see how well you manage it. I truly respect and admire you for your strength and love. Wishing you nothing but all the blessings in life. Keep shining♥️💐 Thank you so much for trusting us with your life story 🫂
“There’s no reward for being a good woman”
Truer than true.
When I grow up , i wanna be like Nozi ❤️
I love u Sis Nozi bathong such an inspiration
I'm glad they interviewed her. They had a conversation and some information was kept private. As it should. Oversharing always has horrible disadvantages because people will use that info against. They will even go as far as you told us. I'm glad this interview went this way ❤❤
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What a beautiful story. ❤❤❤Nozipho is such a wise, mature and graceful lady. She exudes such a godly character - like I am in so much awe. I can feel her beautiful, pure energy through the screen. The way she narrated her story while still respecting the father of her kids? Like wow, women like this are so rare. She has such a beautiful character. Oh and she was a pleasure to listen to, so well spoken - the way she articulated herself in sharing her story and just keeping it classy & graceful? Wow...and can we talk about how beautifully she speaks IsiZulu!? Yooh hayi ndimthandile shem. May God's grace always carry her.❤❤❤
The red flags were there from the beginning 😢😮 3 kids with 3 whole entire women and he lied that he didnt have any.
Three kids before 26 that's crazy
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4 kids by 4 different women (remember, Coco was denied at first)
@@Sbongile962 hmmm he was never a man that a good woman can build with..
I agree she had always seen good in him she is such a darling I wish she met some decent guy 17 years ago bt God is in control
This guy showed you flames beginning of this relationship 😭💔😭 its so sad that you didn't leave him that time 😢
Akere we green the red flags😢
Men can lie and they very lie well. I loved my dad with all my heart, he was my world. He loved my mom, with all his heart and respected her or so it seemed. He was a family man in the home and we later found out he was for the streets chile. He hid it so well for over 30 years that my mom landed in hospital when she found out. Zola sounds like he got caught in a lie and decided to add another lie on top of it, now the problem is the repercussions of that lie where not well thought out by him. He thought it would be easy but he thought wrong. Also it sounds like God blessed Zola because of Nozi and not the other way around, because there were so many red flags about this man from jump. Sisi Nozi, with or without this man your are blessed either way. The evidence is all around you. Ask God to forgive your husband because men who do these kinds of things, it does not end well for them. God will always uphold the sanctity that is marriage with everything that He has especially if it is blessed by him, and yours was absolutely blessed by him.
Exactly what I picked up.This marriage had no chance because it was built on lies from the husbands side.He is/was just not an honest man.
What an incredible incredible woman... I have no words!! This man having so many kids really fumbled the bag with Nozipho. Haibo, yazi I will never understand shame.
What an incredible person Nozipho is, May God's grace and peace surround you all the days of your life ❤
Oh Nkosi. Waze wangikhalisa Nozipho.😭😭😭
I wish I was half the woman you are. Beautiful, inside and out.❤❤
This too shall pass.
Nozzy we are with you babe, ayikho into engadluli, this too shall pass.God is working through you my love.
She is so well spoken, I love her voice, I could listen to her speak all day. She’s so amazing.❤️
She’s got a heart of a saint…… I truly believe in raising kids in one household…. I pray for her strength 🙏
Shared a tear watching this. Nozi, God has you. We goner see great things from this beautiful woman. God is goner restore. 🙏Watch and see
I actually enjoyed the interview, it was a conversation that was flowing and they asked what a lot of people want to know and understand because we’ve heard stories regarding Nozi’s marriage and they got to the crux of it.
I look forward to more interviews, now that Nozi has shared regarding her marriage which is what brought her to some of our screens in the first place, I look forward to learning more about uNozi the woman, who she is and how she plans on navigating life after this ordeal.
This interview that focused on this aspect was necessary. Thank you for opening up Nozi. ♥️ Thank you to the hosts also for asking relevant questions, it didn’t feel like umgosi it felt like friends reassuring a friend and allowing her to share her side of the story.
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This woman is Power ,her humbleness and kindness OMW .❤
Such an amazing woman. I shed a tear watching this....I pray for her strength ❤
If I can be half the person that Nosi is, I would have made it in life. God bless you Nozi ❤️
So long as u still breathing sizamaker it ❤
I respect how she never spoke ill about this man after he has hurt her so much. I respect you and your beautiful heart. Ngaze ngakuthanda
Ai guys, this is a conversation. I don't think there's anything wrong with an interview also telling their life story similar to a guest's. It eases the guest also.
This is not the Oprah Winfrey Show. That woman had no emotion when she interviewed her guests. To the hosts, keep it up guys. You are human and have empathy. We are not going to watch people interview others like they are robots. Engagement is important
They kept interrupting, jumping from how she grew up to being a middle child. in the end she wanted to speak more about her late father but was rushed. there was no moral of the story.We don't have a problem with them telling us their stories as host. They must let the guest to finish her sentences 😭🤣 Oprah Winfrey listen to her guest. They must not do that for other interviews. We didn't get to know who nozi was beside her 8 kids and cheating husband. When she was trying to touch on her background about who she is before marriage, her family, her career and more they made it about themselves
We appreciate your positive feedback 😊
I am so confused about the criticism towards the hosts. I read the comments early on and was expecting to be disappointed but wasn’t. They hosted and Nozi shared her story as she was comfortable with. They gave her the floor. I only wish the interview was longer.
@@gwenisaacs6180same here. I think I they allowed her to speak
No need to drag Oprah into this. You can praise them without criticizing or comparing them to anyone. Some people will like this channel and some won't and it's okay.
I'm enjoying this podcast as it is... won't compare it to others. Mo and Phindi are doing it their way and I love it for them.
All I can say is that God is Love n God is Good.Nozipho usimelile as oMama, usimelile as Housewives n usimelile as IMBOKODO.Nkulunkulu wayekhona, usekhona n usazobakhona.Ngyabonga Dadewethu
Kade ya qala ukusa le ndoda ya nozi ihamba izalisa and leave kids AI suka this man really didn't deserve Nozi such a generous humble woman. May God protect and bless u Nozi ❤❤❤❤
True.
You're right, red flags were there from the begin. The problem is we always think "it'll never happen to me". A person's history says a lot about them, let's not lie.
@@cindy588that "not to me" led her to collect all the other children to prove to Zola that she is marriage material, years later Zola reverted back to his true self❤
Wouldn't be shocked that there are other children made within the marriage that Nozi is not aware of.
Yoo this is a very sad situation I don't wish it for any women I was in a similar situation. I'm still in the marriage so unhappy I wish benginaso isibindi esifana nesakho ❤❤
So true... this man never deserved her in the beginning... he seems like a lousy dad denying his kids just to get a girlfriend 🙄 ay that speaks volumes..
I hope Nozipho chooses herself and start her career in medicine 🥺
Imagine if she pursues her career and her kids right there with her❤❤❤
This is just a summary of how unpredictable life is and that no matter how you can build something when the time arrives for it to break it just breaks whether it is built on the rocks or Sand😪😪😪
What a wonder ❤🎉😅😊, what a woman! ! ! Quiet strength, vulnerability and a heart of gold, I’m just awestruck.
Such a breath of fresh air uNozipho damn! Your husband will come back to you, don’t meet him where he is🤍.
This interview has been amazing been a while since I watched something so beautiful!!!!!! Wow Nosipho is such an incredible person🫶🏽✨
Totally enjoyed this interview it was light on the heavy stuff Nozipho has been through and we got to experience the family she comes from, the woman she is without her being caged to the humiliation and embassment she just publicly went through in her marriage! She is indeed a beautiful soul and a MOTHER!! Shes got this!! ❤
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Yooh! UNozipho is one in a million. Wow! I see the beauty of Jesus kuyo yonke lento. Love you Nozipho ❤.
Yho Nozi, you are amazing, kind, strong, loving and have a big heart. This too shall pass.
Aggg I just love you Nozi, your calmness, how you tell your story without attacking and bashing the other people shows that you have a big heart. God bless you.
Nozi got me emotional i never cry during people's interviews but this one was just tjo...I wish her all the best. She is amazing
I love the different perspectives of both Mo and Phindi, it made for a fuller conversation. Thank you guys. I wish your relationship all the best.
Siyabonga Dudu for the positive feedback ❤️
Amadoda awanandaba. This man didnt care how much Nozipho was there for him all these years. Loved his children and raised them so well. Im in utter disbelief
I already loved Nozi but how I am a serious Nozi Stan. Such an amazing woman
Start by watching the video before you read the comments ,interview was great .It was more of conversation ,keep going guys .I really think people came here for gossip and they didn't get .
Wena you get it ❤️
this woman is beautiful inside out yho,may God be with her and bring her husband back to his senses
Im just glad she finally stood up for herself
Proud of you mommy ❤
Therapy is very important! It helps us understand why we make the choices that we do and why we put up with things we shouldn't be putting up with! Healing can save us from a lot of heartache.