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  • Everyone would have met so many toxic people in our life, and also we would have been in a toxic relationship. But have we ever wondered what makes a relationship toxic and how to come out of it? This video will take us through basic understandings of it. Watch the full video to know more ft. RJ Ananthi.
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  • @statusfrombooks1129
    @statusfrombooks1129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Once I was in a toxic relationship, many friends advised me to come out of it but with afraid of losing him I said to my parents that Iam in love with him & I like to marry him after 6 months of trouble both of our parents accepted for our marriage... that was the time I realised that he was not right partner for me bcoz iam the only one who is taking step to be with him but he casually blame me for everything... that time I took one decision that I can't be like this forever... then I said no for marriage to him and my parents both of them didn't accept that I said that we are not like lovers for 1 day also he always used to avoid me like that but nobody accepted it even my friends also... after that by God's miracle I find my true love of my life he was always with me and supports me but that was the time I realised iam actually in love with him, iam the type of person who deserves the person like him then I openly proposed him and he too accepted me as iam... but nobody accepted it so we did register marriage and iam really happy with him.

    • @mysaiappa
      @mysaiappa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats...be happy always😊

    • @nithyashreethangavel708
      @nithyashreethangavel708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      happy for you dear akka

    • @Ashwinthrock
      @Ashwinthrock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Appa by god's grace you didnt fell into the toxic relation . And got a one who deserve you.

    • @881025sulo
      @881025sulo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations 🎈

    • @gmscreations5616
      @gmscreations5616 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Niceeee

  • @QuotableVision11
    @QuotableVision11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    13 things to quit for all Strong Minded People in 2022 :
    1. Caring about what others think
    2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems ( life & business ) 4. Not prioritizing your health
    5. Wasting your precious time
    6. Chasing meaningless relationships
    7. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat
    8. Wasting time by scrolling social media
    9. Nailbiting / nailpicking habit for good ( if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life ! ) 10. Watching dirty websites 11. Drinking cocktails with alcohol
    12. Gaming for hours and hours
    13. Taking life too seriously Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list .
    Cheering For You 🎇I believe in You, Love from a Small TH-camr 💝

  • @SASahashra
    @SASahashra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Coming out of toxic relationship is really very hard once you did it you can feel the freedom

  • @KungumaKannika
    @KungumaKannika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Much relatable! Oru oru varthaiyum "Palar" "Palar" nu aranja mathiri iruku doiii ... Nammala frst namma nesipoom... Avanga nalla jolly a than irukanga...nammathan soga violin vasichutu irukoom ... Ithu ellam nammaku thevaiya !!

  • @abiramik9506
    @abiramik9506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    toxic relationship is not only between husband and wife, boy girl.. it's also between friends, other relationships, in laws, whomever you share your stay, home..

  • @umamaheshwari4549
    @umamaheshwari4549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Exactly ipditha en relationship irundhuchi! 2years varavan poranvanta lam polambi vazhlkai ye veruthu finally suicidal thoughts vandhu! Na books padikra person eh ila but vera vazhli ilama evanachum namala mari kashta patrupan avn edhachum ezhludhi vechrpan adha follow panlam nu soli relationship and psychology books padika start panan. Aprm dha therinjidhu andha toxic person eh na dha nu. Aduthavan toxic ah nu kuda kandu pudichrlam pola but nama toxic ndradha therinjika dha rmba kashtam nu nenakran.

  • @megalasenthilkumar03
    @megalasenthilkumar03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I think people get motivated by your speech..we are blessed to have you here :) You are a life changer for most of the people;) Keep rocking :)

    • @fathimaakeela4592
      @fathimaakeela4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I also came out from the toxic relationship..🤩🤩😆😆😆it is really fun and wonderful experience...it is totally different enviroment came out after that.that is surbley amazing..guys that you have suffering from that...please come out...beautiful world is waiting for you

    • @akhilakeshav
      @akhilakeshav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Defenatley she is life changer

  • @rubanm6752
    @rubanm6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i actually come out from toxic relationship ...😇, it's really hard and much much pain ...., but after that i find real happiness and beauty of the life ...❤️,and Start love myself...💯, really there is a better life out there....😇

    • @hariprakash5625
      @hariprakash5625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay positive ✨bru

    • @mampisarkar5823
      @mampisarkar5823 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How can you live from toxic relationship.. please help me, my bf also very toxic with me and if I talking about breakup then he started blackmailing me 🥺🥺🥺

  • @anitarashani9154
    @anitarashani9154 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was in a toxic relationship for nearly 3 years. I exactly felt all in this video. Who ever going through such don’t look back move on please. Help yourself and love yourself

  • @ameen1706
    @ameen1706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Very much important topic, very appreciated. Just came out of toxic relationship...it was very addictive even though u have been treated like nothing. Deprived of love , betrayed , cheated on, lost self value , begging.
    Gaslighting. Fear of abandonment and emotional abuse.
    In the beginning they treat u nice make u attached..and then that's all game over..u are slave.
    This thing not only broke my heart it shattered my mind...i lost myself. I was about to give up on me. But i went through it and came out stronger.
    Thing is happiness is within ourselves. Self love , self care
    Building our self esteem , belief , believing we deserve better. Good healthy support system. give some time..heal slowly and nicely..become independent. Relay on yourself emotionally.
    Life is too short to be drowned in pain. Raise up 👍

    • @karthikvpc
      @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just came out of 15 years long toxic friendship. He was full of negative thoughts and negative energy. His companionship was spoiling and damaging my personality. We have quarreled but patched up multiple times. But this time I need to confirm that he is a kind of psychopath who cherish by damaging himself and the people around him. It was a tough decision to break up because he was my only close friend. So, I feared of losing the only childhood friendship. But I feel completely relived now. I can see the world with a open mind now. God may show me some new friends who are good at heart !

    • @d_bee6448
      @d_bee6448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍👌FIGHTING✌️

  • @nilakanmanimanimaran9582
    @nilakanmanimanimaran9582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Before getting out of a toxic relationship, there will so much of emotional vandalism. But it's fine to quit. You will be happy and it will be good for the person on the other side too ✌️✌️

    • @karthikvpc
      @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok Kanmani 👍

    • @karthikvpc
      @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just came out of 15 years long toxic friendship. He was full of negative thoughts and negative energy. His companionship was spoiling and damaging my personality. We have quarreled but patched up multiple times. But this time I need to confirm that he is a kind of psychopath who cherish by damaging himself and the people around him. It was a tough decision to break up because he was my only close friend. So, I feared of losing the only childhood friendship. But I feel completely relived now. I can see the world with a open mind now. God may show me some new friends who are good at heart !

    • @maleficent6974
      @maleficent6974 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow... This is helping me...

  • @seethas865
    @seethas865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Inda Mari toxic relationship la namma career and personal growth gets affected. Waste of time and effort. Stress Nala health kuda affect agudu. So we should stop such relationship.

  • @CharukesiArunraj
    @CharukesiArunraj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Sister ..iruka relationship vitu vera thedi.. adhu idha vida mosama irundha enna pandradhu.. 😂 apdinu dha nariya per relationship continue pandranga 😂.. it sounds comical.. but ppl with more insecurity and sensitivity continue to stay in. PAINFUL RELATIONSHIP..😔 more over relationship apdindradhu.. bf and gf mattum illa.. also very close blood relations can also be toxic.. appo veliya vandhalum.. adhu pain dha indha society la🥺😭

    • @manjulasaravanan5976
      @manjulasaravanan5976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Relationship set aahalana yen relationship kulla ponum... Single ah irukka vendiyathu than

    • @srinithyamanavalagan1918
      @srinithyamanavalagan1918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do to??????????

    • @CharukesiArunraj
      @CharukesiArunraj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manjulasaravanan5976 adhum iruka Vida maatanga.. Parents oda duty nu solli marriage panika soli comple panuvanga.. emotional black mail iruku... Vera vazhi ilama marriage pannikanum 🤣

    • @CharukesiArunraj
      @CharukesiArunraj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@srinithyamanavalagan1918 I don't know 😇🙃

    • @Ramya0216
      @Ramya0216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CharukesiArunraj What urs it'll come..

  • @fathimaakeela4592
    @fathimaakeela4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I also came out from the toxic relationship..🤩🤩😆😆😆it is really fun and wonderful experience...it is totally different enviroment came out after that.that is surbley amazing..guys that you have suffering from that...please come out...beautiful world is waiting for you

    • @fathimaakeela4592
      @fathimaakeela4592 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@amjath96 I am good.thank you

  • @elakiyanelango202
    @elakiyanelango202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think this is the 10th time am watching this video rmba kolapamave irunthuchu nw am clear yes me too in a toxic relationship nw going to get out of this shit in two days,marubadium manasu marida kudathunu than comment pani vechikuren 😬 i hope it will be smooth ending plss pray for me, than you ananthi u r really awesome❤

  • @gayathri9407
    @gayathri9407 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes I realised and moved on from the toxic relationship...but it hits me hard and breaks me.. once I moved on it feels so good

  • @karthikvpc
    @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank you Anandhi for a timely message. I just came out of 15 years long toxic friendship. He was full of negative thoughts and negative energy. His companionship was spoiling and damaging my personality. We have quarreled but patched up multiple times. But this time I need to confirm that he is a kind of psychopath who cherish by damaging himself and the people around him. It was a tough decision to break up because he was my only close friend. So, I feared of losing the only childhood friendship. But I feel completely relived now. I can see the world with a open mind now. God may show me some new friends who are good at heart !

    • @Duruvansivakumarshorts
      @Duruvansivakumarshorts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I bet you will never regret this decision..ivainga kooda irundhu dhinamum saguradhuku..thanimai evlavo mel..you will truly find a better companion..trust me it happened for me..

    • @karthikvpc
      @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Duruvansivakumarshorts நன்றி நண்பரே 😍🙏

  • @johnheathalin7397
    @johnheathalin7397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is the best book I have read
    It's way more than relationship
    I like the way he calls out the bullshit we carry on with this
    Things I am gonna carry on my life about this book
    1. Don't chase happiness but build satisfaction
    2. You're not a James Bond/Princess, No one is special in this world
    3. Don't over estimate others and underestimate yourself and don't run behind approval
    4. Rejections are normal and people are wierd

    • @Ashwinthrock
      @Ashwinthrock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      3rd point suits me apt bro . I will henceforth try to be happy within me

    • @johnheathalin7397
      @johnheathalin7397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Write it down and read it everyday you will be more aware

  • @sow6160
    @sow6160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I should hv seen this video before my marriage...my kind advice to all peopl who c this video..pls com out of toxic relationship as she says...my experience: was n love for 8 yrs even knowin all things elama seri agum nu i married ..
    Within 6months suffered alot... physical abuse mentally abused.....now am blank now the break up is called as Divorce...love panumbothu na just break up nu poirukum ipo everyon r gng to suffer ..

  • @sudheaver9697
    @sudheaver9697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Anandhi..... Im not completely out of that toxic relationship but i have taken the first step. After that one day i have been with my friend, i felt like i breathe, i live life,no need to keep on proving ...omg....i really felt the liberation. Best book to invest on

  • @cralionking
    @cralionking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I would say every relationship needs time. You should give your partner their time and space, set boundries between yourself. Reduce expectations and ensure the other person is happy because of you. Fight really hard to fix it. Make them realise your worth. Coming out should be the last option. I know many cases where people have lived happily after putting a lot of effort to make it work. This generation nobody has patience, no real life experiences and no proper mentors. We are slowly transforming into a western society. Don't get influenced by the video straightaway. Asses your individual case, work on it to fix it. A beautiful relationship is a worth a million.

  • @gomathil4610
    @gomathil4610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I was feeling low but after watching this got some confidence sis, thank you so much

  • @devidurairaj2407
    @devidurairaj2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Recently i came out from a relationship. Definitely u can do that. Live your life for you. Don't try to forget him/her. But try to remember you and your parents

  • @sushpree7901
    @sushpree7901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Got emotional seeing this video.i am deeply connected to this video.
    Longing for a person to share how I feel but at the same time I don't want to share pain with others as anyone influence the situation.
    This video is definitely a god gift for me personally thank you anadhi

  • @vidhyakeerthana8946
    @vidhyakeerthana8946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Ananthi, I did stay in a legal toxic relationship, left my job, left my parents just to ensure the person will accept me and the number of times me and my son was used as a bait......it took a great courage, pain and fear to overcome. Thnks to my friends who supported me. My son Is happy now. My new year wishes to everyone. Remember once we are ready to face things will show its way to overcome. Now I am in a proudest job ever and my son is more happier and we explore things and make happier memories.love Ur work Dear.

  • @selflove5812
    @selflove5812 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Huge respect to the friends who where at that moment on your side by respecting your decision,it may be of any relationship

  • @vijayshankar22
    @vijayshankar22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is always peace in relationship if it isn't in yours and you always feel burdened I guess you have to rethink on the relationship and let go be free , explore ! Make breakups peaceful not rude or always crying or cursing. If you are with a kind of person who just understands the logic behind your words and doesn't compel you in anything then it's worth ! Those kind of relationships are there and you just have to meet a lot of people be friends then you'll know ! Don't jump into a relationship just because you feel alone , that's a bad idea 💯

  • @geethabala3571
    @geethabala3571 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Next relationship: தெரியாத பிசாசுகூட வாழ்றதுக்கு தெரிஞ்ச பேய் better
    Best relationship: உலகத்துலேயே நம்ம புரிஞ்சவங்க நாம் மட்டும் தான் so love ourselves.
    இதபன்னும்போது atomic ஆ நம்ம சுத்தி இருக்கிறவங்க சரியாய்டுவாங்க.

  • @prathikshasenthil6863
    @prathikshasenthil6863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have to say i was the one toxic in my relationship. He showed me soo much affection which i took as an advantage and made it toxic. I was always very polite and friendly to be with. I don't know which changed me like a hell in my relationship. I would scold him for nothing and made him beg behind me. Like for the initial one year, i was very arrogant and toxic in my relationship. Everything changed when our relationship became long distance coz of covid. I realised i was toxic, i cried many nights for hurting him. I felt he doesn't he deserve me and he deseves better. When i told him how i felt, he said its good u realised now and u will soon come out of it. He helped and we built our relationship healthy. I lowered my expectations and gave him space. I always put myself in his position which reduced the misunderstandings.

  • @sameeranazubby3960
    @sameeranazubby3960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yep I'm there 5years of relationship it's not really toxic one but sometimes he's is immature rarely he's behavior completely selfish so I did breakup and lots of rebounce and I felt very lonely after I left from the relationship now itself I saw your video it's damnnnn open my eyes I felt motivated✌happy breakup days, love your self

  • @lavanyalara1401
    @lavanyalara1401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New yearனு கூட இல்லாம செம்ம confusion la இருந்தன்..... இப்போ க்ளீயர் ஆகிடுச்சு.... t.x akka 🙏🏼 Happy new year ♥️

  • @harikishore205
    @harikishore205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Caring kum Love kum (difference therila )
    Paasam thukum Kadhal kum (difference theriyama )
    Poi Toxic Relationship la Lock ayuraanga..!!
    Periya Kodumai : Oru silaruku Toxic relationship la irukom nrathae therila !!😢

    • @harikishore205
      @harikishore205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ungala Pudikum But ithu Love ila nu sona kuda Purinjika theriyathu Ooru sir Ithu (generation sir ) 👍

    • @Mel-by7re
      @Mel-by7re 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      movies don't project real love or to identify healthy relationships. it will be good to do that

  • @paramasakthi7328
    @paramasakthi7328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I also come out from the toxic relationship
    Now only I feel so good happy
    But often times feelings also hurt a lot,but don't consider that.... In that time divert mind with someother things....

  • @harikirishna4439
    @harikirishna4439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ✨..even those lines are special. Because today I felf that my relationship is in toxic. I confused what kind of relationship is this.i likes and loved more and more. Even I lost many of my friends for that person. But now I am feeling very bad and guilty about my blindly toxic relationship.😑😓.. I forget to love myself.and my family tooo. But I can back them and sure one day that person release how I took care of him.. Lost mee... It's paining but now I am feeling my self better and I can take breathe my self. Thanks so muchh😌🙏

    • @dpriyan7653
      @dpriyan7653 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Brother u r message is veryy deep and i the same happened for me even more too but even sometimes I'm having some unwanted thoughts and after seeing anadhis video and some of the comments im sure ill be free one day ill succeed in my life and ill lead a happy life

  • @venkatviswanathan6543
    @venkatviswanathan6543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This book probably helps many people's mental health, thankyou for suggesting this book...... 💙💐

  • @MGW2610
    @MGW2610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Toxicity is addictive. In psychology, there are many definitions... push and pull, anxious attachment styles etc.
    In toxic relationships people go looking for someone who they feel familiar with. its nothing but your wounds seeking similar grounds..

  • @rsvijayan5943
    @rsvijayan5943 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, sometimes we must take a hard decision to move on with grace , poise n comfort which is the best solution in a toxic relationship!!

  • @harshinimohan3981
    @harshinimohan3981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Exactly every women i grew up with, my mother, my grandmother, my aunt everyone ☀️
    They think they are sacrificing and that's the right thing too.

    • @Mel-by7re
      @Mel-by7re 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      if the other person cares for you, supports you and puts efforts for you, yes. or else no no no

    • @s.shanmugasundaram8869
      @s.shanmugasundaram8869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mel-by7re if another person cares or loves you truly they won’t like it if you “sacrifice”. They will actually be against it. When that is not happening that is not true care or love.

    • @Mel-by7re
      @Mel-by7re 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@s.shanmugasundaram8869 every marriage has some adjustments to be made from both sides but as along as its not completing letting go of your dreams, your goals and losing yourself completely it is ok. love makes you give in sometimes but it should never be forced or something outside of your boundaries or limits.

  • @for_a_shortwhile
    @for_a_shortwhile 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    ♥️Really gud content akka💯 I've been there for few years. As u said, i couldn't think out of the relationship as it was my life line. Bt, later i realised life has much more to offer than being in a toxic relationship, where u r not even considered & prioritised. When Zero efforts been put by ur partner to save the relationship which is divine for u. That's the time I decided to let it go.... And "finally i found peace of mind after 1 year of Breakup." Now these r the best days of my life. "Prioritise Peace of mind" This vdeo resembles many of our lifes. Hope it slaps on everyone's face before it's too late. Thanx for this vdeo 👍

  • @nandhinivelu6504
    @nandhinivelu6504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The best thing in 2021 is
    I found ur videos and started addicted😍

    • @karthikvpc
      @karthikvpc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just came out of 15 years long toxic friendship. He was full of negative thoughts and negative energy. His companionship was spoiling and damaging my personality. We have quarreled but patched up multiple times. But this time I need to confirm that he is a kind of psychopath who cherish by damaging himself and the people around him. It was a tough decision to break up because he was my only close friend. So, I feared of losing the only childhood friendship. But I feel completely relived now. I can see the world with a open mind now. God may show me some new friends who are good at heart !

  • @revanth36
    @revanth36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Single mindset:- goyyala toxic aa கூட ஒரு relationship இல்லை யே da, 😅

  • @jgodwinperies
    @jgodwinperies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Finally i found best TH-cam channel in my life
    Thanks for your actual live events and facts sharing with us

  • @monikagin
    @monikagin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for the video.
    It's really hard going in circles in a toxic relationship. The problem is that I keep falling back into going in circles even after talking about it with friends to help me out of the dangerous toxic relation. No wonder my friends are angry or upset when I fall back to the attachment of toxic circle. I am trying to get off, yet the guilt is high to walk off the toxic relation. I am still trying to do something for myself. It will take some time for things to change, still work in progress.

  • @deepthiiks
    @deepthiiks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So true! It's such a tough topic to talk about in Indian culture. Romba polite ah azhaga ah solliteenga :)

  • @Kk-xr5mm
    @Kk-xr5mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Deivamee🤩 Just now toxic relationship naala bayanGara depression la irundha ena da panalam nu yosichitee summa TH-cam open pana unGa video dha first la vandhu ninunuchii seri ena da play pani papomee nu paatha vera level Ga enooda problems ah apdiyee puttu puttu vachitinGa🤣🤣🤣Na ipa semmayana oru toxic relationship la matikutuu mulikuraa akka 😭😭😭😭 unGa video pathadhuku aprm enaku oru idea kidachiruku akka very very thanks akka🤝 keep it up akka we want more videos👍we will support you more akka🤩❤️❤️

  • @sprashant26
    @sprashant26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very motivating talk. It gives me the thought that I should introspect my rltp and see if the other person is being toxic or am I myself being toxic. Have to read this book. Thank you for the talk 🙏🙏

  • @pavithrasubburaj614
    @pavithrasubburaj614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hai ananthi.... Happily nan athula irunthu velila vanthuten. Toxic ah irunthathu remba varsam munnadi... Actual ah namaku antha time nallathu sonna friends kooda apo namaku kettavangala therivanga. In fact intha relationship vanthu kandipa love ah than irukanum nu ila.... nama best friends kulla kooda irukum .nama frnd Vera yaarkitayachum pesuna or avanagala best fend nu sonna .... Antha time la vara possessiveness.... maturity ilama ukanthu alurathu, namma cal attend panala na voice note send pandrathu ithulam namma yaara remba pidichu irukunu pandromo avangalukey pidikaathu. Aluthu poraadi iruntha time lam miss aana apram thonum. Intha olgathula NamalA thavara namaku yaarumey nerantharam ilanu ... Neenga pesum pothu neraiya visayam relate panika mudinjathu... and yaarum yaaravathu pesala or ignore pandranga nu feel panatheenga. Live your life as ur wish❤️

  • @arudrak5250
    @arudrak5250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Rudest comment Ever :
    Whatever the level of love, care, commitments a couple have /had in a relationship "none of the partner aint will die for if either one of them dies",they still keep on moving with their life after u left her/him.
    If you are loving someone remember you are just loving an emotional illusion of that instance, It may not exist in your life at anypoint of time.
    Love yourself Live your life!

  • @myclassroom7543
    @myclassroom7543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes very special ....book மட்டும் தான் நல்ல friend .. மனிதர்கள் ரொம்பவே பொறாமையும் அதிகாரம் மிக்கவர்களாகவும் இருக்காங்க...

  • @kadhijamohamed6893
    @kadhijamohamed6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So correct 💯 . Experienced the same and recently came out of the relationship with my 2 kids

    • @d_bee6448
      @d_bee6448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the best for your new life👏👏👏✌️

  • @realizesgoodthingsbestways5619
    @realizesgoodthingsbestways5619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I left toxic relationships feel good now. Thank you for your advice

  • @reenadeena
    @reenadeena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not the books inspires me, it's your cute expression inspires me. Love you. God bless you.

  • @sethunagakarthikm4022
    @sethunagakarthikm4022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First of all, I am going to gift this book to myself 🙂.

  • @kovendhans3739
    @kovendhans3739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Indha video oru one year munnala potrundha nallarndhrukum...but no problem, naan idhula sonna advices ah own ah follow pannikiten andha time la😇

  • @mohamedfarook.i8624
    @mohamedfarook.i8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wherever she saying is damn true .. i was in toxic relationship she tried to kill me 20-30 times in the past 3 years.. Some how survived because of her worst childhood she was hurting me like anything in the world

    • @pragadeeshas
      @pragadeeshas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't feel bro time heals everything

    • @mohamedfarook.i8624
      @mohamedfarook.i8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pragadeeshas Am perfectly Now Am beginner level Public Speaker, My life encouraged with my passion Am writing a Book. life Transformrd here in all 5Main Aspects Physical health, mental health, emotional Health and spiritual health.

    • @mohamedfarook.i8624
      @mohamedfarook.i8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pragadeeshas Thanks for your Love brothrr

  • @jack777ram
    @jack777ram 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Superb Ananthi. . Same situation me and my kids. . Trying to come out of it. . Wife threw kids in Ashrama. . Omg she is so crazy almost 8years we suffered. .By God grace found my kids. . Now need to come out of her memory. .This video make more sense for us. . Thanks😊 . . Stay blessed. .

  • @vigneshthambi9101
    @vigneshthambi9101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Relatable and eye opener!! Thanks for the suggestion.. will read this book. Thanks again!

  • @sureshnandhagopal4941
    @sureshnandhagopal4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    100000000000000000000 times true . Chance e illa :) .. I mean, each and every line. After break up, I went in a loop over and over again and agian , ena da ithan mudiva ninachen .. as she said, its just time people. jail kulaye romba varushama irunthutu sudden a unaku release . , enjoy nu solita first few months life mosama than therium . then we realize what does freedom actually feel like .. cheers to everyone hustling tough times . and big cheers to Namma Anandhi :P

  • @shriraam8330
    @shriraam8330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came out of it Most of the things u told was absolutely right . After the certain point, u already knew this is the end ,dont hesitate to end things like this .if u didnt it will cost ur health

  • @nandhakumarrnandhakumar7311
    @nandhakumarrnandhakumar7311 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    உங்க பதிவினை கேட்க கேட்க .. ஒவ்வொரு பிரச்சினைகளுக்கு தீர்வு கிடைக்கிறது ..நன்றி 🙏 உங்கள் சேவைக்கு .

  • @Indraja03687
    @Indraja03687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because we love to be in pain than in joy knowingly or unknowingly we like to be entangled with issues and enjoy the emotions like self pitty anxiety lost in thoughts etc.... yes we are the reason for our sorrows

  • @sathyamarjory8291
    @sathyamarjory8291 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This book is much wanted by the world.coz people are entangled like this type of toxic relationship.I walked out of this toxic relationship and now happy

  • @rabinesh1259
    @rabinesh1259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so matured. Your Life partner is so lucky.

  • @keentoknowher
    @keentoknowher 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    @13.42 It's me! I came out of this, I had been played and I am brave enough to walk away,
    and I don't have any cruse words for him. Now I love me ,I, myself more then ever, I am not gonna mistreat me again.

  • @kirubishrowdi
    @kirubishrowdi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Romba pidichu iruku intha vedio... Like 👍 pannite
    Comment pannite
    Sorry!! Share pannala.....

  • @Surya_Narayan_B
    @Surya_Narayan_B 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Na toxic relationship la irundhu breakup aana apporo Morning v2la irundhu veliya Bike eduthan appo en kannu munnadi oru tree romba hight ahh irunchu appo tha first time pakuran. Appo think panna ivlo nala kan mundi thana irundhu irrukan nu Now i love my self and ive much more happy now 🥳

  • @vmv1544
    @vmv1544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Crazy yes, its only bcoz it's Toxic.
    Don't be crazy.
    If the person understands your craziness, and still he values you, then its not a problem.
    Toxic is something of mismatch of way of life.

  • @Duruvansivakumarshorts
    @Duruvansivakumarshorts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    perfect book and perfect articulation..i have experienced that bliss after i came out of such a relationship..self respect namaku mukkiyam nu realize panrapo..we automatically come out of toxic relationship..

  • @anushas2654
    @anushas2654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks a lot for talking about books like Attitude is everything, As a man thinketh and Think like a monk.. It gave so much insights to me and very much beneficial.. Keep up the good work...

  • @rakshanaar5964
    @rakshanaar5964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My whole life is cleared and freshly started by this 15mins vdo.....

  • @sharmathapr3036
    @sharmathapr3036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ananthi akka looking so Georegeous in the outfit and your confidence level is 💥

  • @DineshKumarPTheni
    @DineshKumarPTheni 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are all mentioned in this book are absolutely right. I have come out of a toxic relationship. I am also seeing many married women struggling in toxic relationship (her husband) but they are not ready to accept that the relationship is actually toxic and they suffer everyday. They believe like they can give chance (again and again) for years even for the lifetime to change their character or whatever the issue but in real time it won't happen. Problem here is they take ownership or responsibility or accountability for everything they are undergoing and they are not ready to accept the reality.

  • @wisewords7589
    @wisewords7589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most needed!!
    Thank for this video at the right time😇
    Love u Anandhi akka❤nd thanks for this channel❤

  • @yasminshafa4756
    @yasminshafa4756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yangamma iruntha ivalo days ah.. ivalo days ah intha channel ah miss panitanae... 😍😍

  • @rakshana_raveendran1
    @rakshana_raveendran1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U r Soo confident I can felt an high enthusiasm energy form u keep rocking ananthi

  • @brindhasathish7442
    @brindhasathish7442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you ananthi for this book review... very useful for me in 2022.. Happy New year... God bless you.. 🙏

  • @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062
    @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To get success start meditation satsang laughing dancing singing walking fasting and music are best medicine's of the world.

  • @jayasrisivakumar2948
    @jayasrisivakumar2948 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am come out of toxic relationship😊. Thank you anathi said detailed about it.

  • @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062
    @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Couples are happy outside internally UNHAPPY INSIDE.

  • @monishasamuel8430
    @monishasamuel8430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best video ever.. 💯 true my dear.. but i don't know how to quite this toxic but will try.. thanks to anadhi & author

  • @saranyasaroji9927
    @saranyasaroji9927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Toxic relationship irrunthu more than 10 yrs matigittu irrukkaen. Kulanthaiga veliyila vara mudiyala. Life fully waste. Ippadiyae valavendiya nilamai. Sometimes ninaikiramathiri valamudiyirathu easy kidayathu.

    • @chitra-si9nb
      @chitra-si9nb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can understand your situation. Do not worry.. It's better to accept certain things which cannot be changed. Stay strong!

    • @madhusunya5028
      @madhusunya5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paramporul foundation TH-cam channel paaruga...I think it will help you...😇

  • @jenshajebas7770
    @jenshajebas7770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am not read this book but I experience this situations In my real life.......it's really a good lesson for me ....after exists that relationship I think about me ....

  • @willwin2819
    @willwin2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Akka. Y naan antha book lam vaanganum... Unga video pàkuraen and audio kekuraen..... I satisfied . Akka

  • @prammanayagam.s9869
    @prammanayagam.s9869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much

  • @mahishashakthi4080
    @mahishashakthi4080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🙄Karthavee🧚‍♂
    Single✨tha best uh🌈

  • @gitakrishnan3343
    @gitakrishnan3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been n an abusive relationship for around 2 and half years now. I was crying badly an hr ago due to toxic relationship where i was pleading to fix it.
    I break up with him right now. 🙏Thank u dear anandhi 🥰 for introducing this to me. Enough means enough now 🖕

  • @Deegan_Prashanth
    @Deegan_Prashanth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Toxic relationship not just can be with another person.
    it can be anything in this world like ideology, beliefs...
    i think me too was dealing kinda like toxic relationship with religion ( christian ) once i got the understanding of it
    i'm more peace full and happy!

  • @devisrisvm9660
    @devisrisvm9660 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    romba usefull ...best work...somtimes namakku nadakkrathu sariya thappa nnu yarkittayum keakka mudiyathu,,,overthinking la life poidum..,,,,tnq Ananthi.....antha movie example nalla erukuu...writer clear ahh sollirukanga..super work

  • @abdullasajahan7384
    @abdullasajahan7384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Akka after your speech, of course there will be lots of break ups

    • @amarnath-ki1oe
      @amarnath-ki1oe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too bro..i feeling bad things past couble of weeks..becoz of 4 year friendships break up...but after watching this videos i feeling good..

  • @nishanthisrinivasan1408
    @nishanthisrinivasan1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A true life changer in deed. Keep up the good work.

  • @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062
    @babaiyermanispiritualandpo2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SMARTY LOOKING AND SPEAKING AND PRESENTATION.

  • @KalyankksKks
    @KalyankksKks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy New Year to The Book Show team.... and main wishes to RJ Ananthi ( motivational 👸)

  • @shivanica
    @shivanica 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When everything is going on well, such book makes sense. But the wearer knows where the shoe pinches. Nothing of what is available on the shelf can ever be a remedy for one's problem. Problems are discrete in nature and no standardization can ever be done to remedy the situation, custom level strategies alone works (or even fails, nothing guaranteed).

  • @anitarashani9154
    @anitarashani9154 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Listening to this video when ever i feel sad. Thank you

  • @Vkp-zf8lj
    @Vkp-zf8lj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stunning.... I like ur way of talking

  • @saranyaachan0739
    @saranyaachan0739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my God, thank you 💕🙏 You made my day , it's new year i breakup , very toxic verrry toxic, im free now , thank you

  • @Art-vc9if
    @Art-vc9if 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Seeing u is so blissful ananthi
    So a big ❌ to podcasts🥰

  • @nivedhac5474
    @nivedhac5474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @mdshan6353
    @mdshan6353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Breakup la irunthu veliya Vanthu 1.2/3 year aachu irunthalum lita pain iruku ka 😪 after this progress i changed lot ....

    • @madhusunya5028
      @madhusunya5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Paramporul foundation TH-cam channel paaruga.. I think it will help

    • @mdshan6353
      @mdshan6353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madhusunya5028 meditation, exercise, songs, (movie)monthly 1 ,studies, prayers,main aa pod cast ellam try panniyachu ga still faded ..🥺 ellorum easy solliruvinga ennaku thana theriyum athoda pain...🚶🙂
      # new year ga

    • @madhusunya5028
      @madhusunya5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mdshan6353 just try paramporul foundation TH-cam channel once.... Then solluga...
      Happy new year😇

    • @mdshan6353
      @mdshan6353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madhusunya5028 haan

  • @amiskitchen9653
    @amiskitchen9653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true sissy many women’s tolerating because for kids or financially independent