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If you happen to be in a relationship, whether it’s a rocky start or long-time solid one, a love diary is one of our favourite ways to maintain a meaningful connection in our fast-paced and easily distracted lives. It’s perfect for those touchy subjects and issues that can spark an argument when said out loud. In this video, RJ Ananthi shares her experience about being in love and being out of love. She shares some of the pages from her personal diary. Do check it out.
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Akka really Great akka ♥️😌 I don't know how to say & show my Love on you thank you So Much akka 😇for all ......I like u ka I want To see You but it's impossible because ur celebrities 😌 any way happy Pongal and Happy Jounery akka God Bless You
Hi akka
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Really that's what happened to me what you said is all iam gone through.... it's helpfull anandhi sis🌝 ...
Just imagine, the person who made Ananthi cry once watching this video and screaming internally that he missed his dream star!?
Maybe it was on her bucket list. 😅
Really...
A person being a star doesn't mean the person is right for you. A relationship is much more than that. Somebody who's a right fit for you may not be the right partner for me.
True... Felt like that..
Don't judge Books by its cover
நானும் ஒரு relationshipல இருந்தேன். எங்க ரெண்டு பேருக்கும் நிறைய விஷயம் different.
என்னோட எதிர்பார்ப்புக்கு ஏத்த person அவன் இல்லன்னு நல்லாவே தெரிஞ்சிது.
இருந்தும் இந்த relationship அ முடிச்சிக்க மனம் வந்ததே இல்ல. சண்டைகளும் பெரிசா எங்களுக்குள்ள இல்ல. ஒருத்தர ஒருத்தர் adjust பண்ணிக்கிட்டோம். இப்படியே போயிட்டு இருந்தப்போ திடீர்னு என்ன avoid பண்ண ஆரம்பிச்சான். என்ன ஏதுன்னு திரும்ப திரும்ப கேட்க போய்,
ஒரு நாள் இது சரி பட்டு வராது, உன்னோட character எனக்கு செட் ஆகாதுன்னு breakup பண்ணிட்டான்.
எனக்கு இருந்த வருத்தம் எல்லாம் 'ஏன்டா நியாயமா நான் தான் உன்ன வேணா ன்னு சொல்லி இருந்திக்கணும். நீ போய் என்ன சொல்லிட்டியே' ன்னு தான்.
நம்ம ego இந்த மாதிரி பேசும். நம்ம மேலேயே selfdoubt நிறைய வரும். நம்ம மேல நமக்கே கோபம் வரும். நிறைய அழுகை வரும்.
கொஞ்ச நாள் போக போக 'நல்ல வேல அவனாவே வேணான்னுட்டான். எனக்கு set ஆகாத person ன்னு தெரிஞ்சும் ஏன் நான் அந்த relationship ல இருந்தேன். it all happened for good' இப்டி தான் என் mind ரியாலிட்டிய நோக்கி போக ஆரம்பிச்சுது.
he is married now.
so what? எனக்கு அவன நினச்சு சந்தோஷமோ, கோபமோ இல்ல. No regrets.
அந்த லவ் moments, breakup pain இதெல்லாம் ஒரு experience ஆ மட்டுமே mind ல இருக்கு.
❣️❣️❣️
But na avala sincere ah thana love pnen, aval ena vitutu poi 8 mnths irukum enala mattum yen avala vittu velliya varave mudiyala
Bro. Naan oruthangala love panni 2year agidu avanga vittu poi. Avanga vera relationship kkula poidanga naan innum enda worka paarthudu avangala ninaichidu irukkan. But healing maximum agidan naanum nalla valuvan
"People attracts each other only for what they lack" - Itachi Uchiha.
Hatred is born in order to protect love- Madara Uchiha
Can the same person hate you in order to protect you (and still love you)?
Wise words from itachi
I literally started crying . it's been 4 years i know how hard that period is. some times we feel like it never gonna workout. next moment we wish them to be next to us. But ellam nanmaike.
You're not alone. Ellam nanmaikkae!! 🫂❤️
People do try to comfort the broken ones. The reality is , it is the broken one that'll eventually fix herself/himself..Life's bout to be lived. You'll just do fine buddy. Cheers. 🤝
Relationship la irundhu pirinjavangalukku feel aagumo ennamo..😆😇
It's been 4 yrs, still can't find the closure. I know he's not mine but still I long for him donno why. This video helps me to realise that I'm not only one who's going thru this. Tysm anandhi.enakkune kaduvul anupuna video mari iruku😅
After sulking for months due to heartbreak, even after listening to all those consoling words from friends..was still deeply longing for atlst one hour of actual peacefullness .. Dunno how but by coming across this vedio has made me feel soo much better. And makes me want to again focus on myself and accept the fact tat yes i am hurt
Thankyou so much anandhi
U have really helped soo many people
நதி போல ஓடிக்கொண்டிரு.... Life is a Full of surprises..😂 ....Ithu nadanthathu nala ungala life evlo nalaa marrichinu inum konjo years kaluchi ungalku Nala puriyum... May be ipo kuda..... You gave the lot of positive energy to all. So keep doing this ...akka 💕
I was literally in a confused state for months and months with my break-up decision. I'm so thankful for your heart warming words which made me feel better and soothing. You really gave a spark to my brain to think positive mentally and pulse to my heart for a healthy beat, Thanks again ❤️
Same situation I came across ✌ I can understand her feelings in those questions.. Without closure it's not easy to move on it will take years to move on... Once u did everything will look meaningful... For me also BOOKS only helped to overcome my loneliness, my answers to those questions, and questions I created about my future. The End is: Everything is temporary, Here live only ur life, that matters✌
I have 8 years beautiful memories ❤️......but ippo light ahh kan kalanguthu.........
நிறைய கேள்விகள், நிறைய இழப்புகள் நான் சந்தித்த ஒரு நபர் மிக அதிகமான நம்பிக்கை, அன்பு .. என்னை நிராகரிக்கும் பொழுது..அத்தனை பழிகளையும் சுமத்தி கொண்டு நிற்கிறேன். கடைசி கேள்வி:- நிராகரித்தவர்கள் மனோ நிலை எப்படி இருக்கும்? (சாதித்து விட்டோம் என்று கொண்டாடுவார்களா?
காதலிப்பவர்கள் இருவர் என்றாலும், breakup எனும் வலி ஒருத்தர் மட்டுமே அனுபவிக்கிறார்கள்.
True love never dies .. உண்மை
இப்பொழுதும் நேசிக்கிறது இந்த இதயம் அத்தனை பழிகளை சுமந்து கொண்டு 😀😃🙂🙃😊....
நீங்க சொல்றது என்னோட வாழ்க்கையிலும் நடந்து இருக்கு இப்பவும் பழைய நினைவுகள் ஞாபகத்தில் தான் இருக்கு
Valikuthu na valikuthu tha exactly crt 💯
remembering - raja rani '1st time oru ponnu love kaga ivlo feel panni pakuren'
No no. Lot of women feel nga. Depends on how much love they had.
Tha guy has escaped from this girl , definitely .
Now I'm in the situation.
Today is 25th day break up.
She blocked all the contacts. I can't think or breath without anything her. This pain she doesn't know.
But she can't block the the her memories and her thoughts. I can't believe this still. I'm watching this video 58th times making me healing my soul.
Thank you for this video sister 🙏
To be honest you saved my suside thinking after this video.
Thank you
Woww ananthi...it s just reflecting one's emotions as such ....
made me cry when u read the dairy although I ve never been i any any of such traumatic situation. Reading personal dairy required more courage and hats off to you for that. All time fav ananthi !!
I’m just undergoing akka😪! For no reason she left me 1 week ago saying that she needs an independent life and to settle abroad and to have no commitments! I’m still thinking why life isn’t fair with me now and what I have did wrong in this😣I just want to get away from this akka
Questions are the answers...! Time heals everything...!
Failed is failed There is Resent Any Way it's not easy to Relief..
நினைக்க தெரிந்த மனமே உனக்கு மறக்க தெரியாத ( நல்ல பாடல் கேளுங்க) R.J.Ananthi 👌👌..
My relationship has not ended up with a closure and now its not paining anymore.....Time will heal you up
I have done same thing except writing diary to come out of that relationship. It took almost 3 yrs to come out, now as you said she is no where in my mind as important and I will always believe that she will do better in her life 😊
Thanks to post this video because na ippa ennoda break up time la thaan irukkan. Enthavoru reason m illamma break pannittanga evvalavo try pannan avangala intha relationship la veikkanum endu but kadasila therinchithu let her go endu, then kashtamathaan irunththathu life ae mudincha maathiriyum, intha ulagame oru bin maathiry therinchithu but ennoda friend stoicism and nihilism concept ah ennakku intro thanthaaru athu patti thedi thedi padichchan ippa break laam oru issue ae illa endu understand pannittan. So break thaandiyum nalla life namakkaka wait pannittu irukku athuthaan unmai.
Thank you so much ananthi akka. I have lost someone I loved the most . It's been seven years since my college but still it's quite hard to go on a day without thinking about the memories. Deep inside I have always waited for the closure which I never got . Thank you for making this video. I hope time is kind with me to heal my heart .
Literally started crying😭..This video mean lot to me❤️..Your words gave me a clear picture of my heart.✨. Thanks a lot Akka❤️.. Now I feel free akka.💫
Break up after marriage it's really more more pain , overcoming or accepting is really so hard , don't no how to move on completely blank , literally crying......
Travel more both physically and mentally
I feel this topic applies to any relationship not just romantic relationships, of course, a romantic relationship hurts a lot. At times we need to move away, and accept things. No one curses us more than anyone else when we are down. Nice one guiding the wandering souls hoping to find the path of life. Books are best friends at any time. They give and teaches from the experience of others and shapes us as a better person.
Thanks for sharing your piece of mind and pure wisdom!
I am going thru the same emotion now, but after 4-5 months, I am finding strength to move on. I am not expecting any closure now. I am sure, I'll do better in life. I'll find trust and happiness again!
Thanks Ananthi! This message gave a personal touch of how you to look at relationship and now I can understand why any relationship means a lot to you... Nicely said, the after effects of not being able to accept the truth and take the relationship failure as a personal failure is that "we get into a vicious circle of attracting wrong person because we start believing that we are not worthy" . Other point is Its take lot of courage to move on into a new relationship after the failure because that is a sign that we started believing in ourselves...
A very bold and impactful sharing Ananthi. Liked the "Closure" thought a lot. This sharing will resonate with many people and heal all. Thank you.
It takes courage to bear your soul in front of an audience. Kudos girl, you are my inspiration 🤗
Bro it’s really the same I am going thru now. Thanks for this video. This is an eye opening for me.
Thanks a lot ananthi divorce aagi 3 months aagudhu innum andha trauma la irundhu veliala vara mudiala indha video making me better
It is really true...... Appadiye naa gothro. Pandra vishayangal ithu🥺🫂
Expecting something from others ...That's real hurt even though she is everything for me....
Interesting speech in sun tv பட்டிமன்றம் ❤
Ananthi Neenga Solra intha situationla dhan naan ippo erukan etha eppadi face panna poren theriyadhu but unga vedio Ennaku aruthala erunthathu thank you so much unga koda nerla pesanun asai mudinthal nandru
My 2 cents . Building a relationship based on emotion,feeling and impulse always ends in breakup. Emotion is called E-motion. It always goes on and off. You cannot build relationship by keeping emotion as the foundation. EMOTION IS NECESSARY BUT THAT SHOULDN'T BE FOUNDATION FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. so before entering the relationship ask this question to yourself and to your partner - How are we sustain and continue our relationship incase if our romantic butterfly emotions goes off? .. Think about it and post your answer in comments
When questions will disappear in my mind how long it take .olunga irunthaa ena ala vachitingalaee😂
The understanding about closure was really great. Can relate with other situations too! Thank you.
‘Time’ heals.
Akka feelings can be hurt always ... Akka neega yenoda mentor yenaku rhomba nalla irukum y na yenodo mindset ugaloda mindset onnava iruku....
Very relevant topic! Thanks Ananthi, we could sense the inner sadness in you as you go through your past memories..இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்...This tamil word has deep meaning it... It helps everybody to regain the strength that has gone for some reason....
நீங்கள் சொல்வதில் நிறைய கதைவிடுவதுபோல் தெரிகிறது
You are a wonderful person with humanity and love. Don't worry about who ignores you anu. They don't deserve you. Your thoughts and ideas are really very matured and practical. So be cool never consider your ex- bfrd left you. He never deserves you. You are doing great job on book show and made others to feel what you feel after reading books. So be happy make other happy. Even i was on certain situation what you go through. So don't worry be happyyyyy 🤩🤩🤩🤩💯🙏👍.
Thanks for the enthusiastic presentation despite some serious setbacks in the past and doubtful success of this presentation!!
So much of hurts wounds in my heart still but somewhere such type of books keep me moving on 👒 off sister
Thanks much Ananthi for this post❣️The pain was inevitable and I could relate each & every line of yours and feel it completely.. Time heals everything.. The universe will rearrange itself to make everything happen for us🎉🥳
Oh! My God ! I am surpriseda Ananthi akka,
What I have done a year before? Written a monologue from my haunted Break up.
.ungaloda ella words um naa ipovum go through panitu dhaan iruken akka, may be innu maturity varala ninaikiraen.
Indha video paathona, i just went to read my writing
You are right. It just happens with or without justified reasons.
All relationships in life are like the Titanic, everyone can think its unsinkable but as a matter of fact all ships can sink in the mighty ocean. My point thinking that your relationship can't collapse is not a healthy thought, as we need to keep caution all along this journey, caring and sharing, taking necessary efforts to keep the relationship in a high morale. It's been 2 years since my myself trying to recover myself from a breakup of 8-year relationship.
In the opposite case, what if the person who knows it's not working has a completely different mindset and there is no freedom in the relationship.?
Same thinking
@@abbiraminarmadha9891 I'm considering a counseling about this, I think it'll be helpful in some way...
I've always loved listening/watching vulnerable moments of people's life. That's where it has always been kept raw,pure and sane. Nice of you to share your story with us Ananthi, thank you ✌The closure thing you talked about resonated with me much and guess what✨ there's always another day to live!
Everything is over..
Retrenched...
Bit old to go for a new job
God is kind to me by not granting family.. Or wife or kids.
Only thing is that no more travel, cannot travel 😮😭😭✈️🛫
Always you are my solution ❤
Life never change 😣😔😔😔😔
Don't expect "Life should be fair"🐧.
Currently suffering the pain...😭
I m in same state thanks for reviewing this a lot of relief comes when u get an Full stop ✋️ by listening these type of videos 📹 👌 thanks akka anyways praying for everyone who is feeling same as I m. ND I pray to God that we will come out of this. Strongly 💪 💪 💪
Much needed video❤
This is one of the most genuine content out there. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with such clarity in thoughts and empathising with others pain.
Now are you in a relationship
Sisy vera level explanation... Every word is crt. Clear ah peasiringa sis... Move on not easy than bt namma namma nambum poathu ellam sari agidum
மதன் மோகன் மாளவியா:(ஈரோடு)
1) stress-ல இருந்தேனானு கூட தெரியிலனா எனக்கு.
2) பெரியம்மாவும் அண்ணனும் இல்லைனா, என் நிலைமை மிகவும் மோசமாக ஆயிருக்கும்.
3)அண்ணன் சின்னக் குழந்தை மாதிரி. அவரைப் பார்த்து தான் மீண்டும் வந்தேன்.
Ipo varikum closure kidaikala ana answer kidaikama ketu ketu bore adichu athuva vae maranthupochu
Well said ma, but nothing is accidental, it's all our karma, though younger generation will mock at these things like karma, if we have spiritual understanding it's little easy to come out of these kind of depressing situations in life. We all have come to this earth not only to enjoy life but to experience life in all dimensions, it will have both pain and pleasure without which we will not be able to mature and grow. எது நடந்ததோ அது சரியாகவே நடந்தது, நடக்கிறது, நடக்கும். If we understand it, not only at mental level but at emotional level also, it will greatly help to come out of pain. To get this understanding we should keep watching our breath. It will be difficult initially but once it's practiced well, our life and perspective will change. This is what all enlighten masters teach us, Osho's teachings specifically.
Akka inaikuthanka pathen ungala movie la palamurai Bigil movie pathuruken aana innaiku thaan pathen ungala bigil intha akka movie lan nadichu irukku nu football commentator aa pathen super kaa
Hello RJ Ananthi, Please talk about Man-child Syndrome which is very common but we do not have the awareness. Sometimes we also have some of these traits without awareness, which If we become aware of and change it, it will create great impact in our lives.
HI ANANTHI
IT WAS NICE THAT YOU ARE SHARING YOUR STORY TO US
I HAD BREAKUP RECENTLY
IM WRITING HERE FOR EVERYONE
VERY SIMPLE THING TO OVERCOME THIS PHASE IS
"1)LET HE/SHE GO FROM US IF THEY WANT.
2)JUST THINK FROM THEIR ASPECT INSTEAD OF SEEING FROM OUR ASPECT WHAT WE HAVE DONE - THIS WILL HELP US HEAL FASTER
3)WHEN YOU ARE HAVING PAINFUL MOVEMENTS JUST WRITE SOMETHING ABOUT HE/SHE WHAT YOU WANT TO TELL THEM
4)EVEN THEY HATE YOU TO THE CORE JUST GIVE THE SAME LOVE WHAT WE HAVE,BECAUSE WE NEED NOT TO CHANGE OUR LOVE FOR THEIR MISTAKE
5)LOVE ITSELF IS GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING RIGHT....SO GIVE TILL YOUR LAST MOMENT OF LIFE.....THAT WILL GIVE YOU THE BEST SATISFACTION EVER....THAT YOU ARE TRUE TO SOMEONE WHEN YOU ARE DYING TOO....
"AVALIN BOODHA UDAL
ILAI ENDRAL ENA.
AVALIN NINAIVUGAL
EN ULATHIL IRUKUM
POOZHUDHU.
AVALAI KADHAL SEIDHU KONDAY
IRUKALAMAY INUM AZHAGAGA
KAMMAM ILAMAL".😍😍😍😍😍😍
Akka Put book review about Chanakya in you
U r great madam., So many lives will be set right with your own practical experience and courage genuine explanation.. love you for all of your great thoughts and expressions 🥰🥰
Guys try Bach flower essence therapy for crises. Trust me it works.
No words anathi akka its so healing me..
Who is he...for whom Aanandi cried...
🎈Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
➡️ Say you’re running and you think, ‘Man, this hurts, I can’t take it anymore. The ‘hurt’ part is an unavoidable reality, but whether or not you can stand anymore is up to the runner himself.💥
Have a great day 👍
Love From a Small TH-camr💙🦋
good motive akka thanks lots sis
Pls stages of grief video podunga mam.....
I feel u from each word from u... may be i also gone through this
Thank You So Much Akka.. Love You akka 💯
Man or woman, the feeling of heartbreak is real and devastating for both...
Thank you for this video akka 🥺🖤
I wish I could see this video earlier🥺 anyhow thanks 👍🏼
Pls stages of grief video podunga mam
Thanks your information
தோழியின் தோழி(சிவா):
1)திருச்சி நிறுவனத்தில் படித்தபோது எனக்கு இரண்டு தோழிகள் உதவினார்கள்.2)இரண்டு பேருக்கும் சண்டை என்று, சமாதானம் செய்ய பேசுறேன் என்றேன்.
3)சிவாக்கு அத்தை பையன் இருக்கிறார். அஸ்வினி (உடன்பிறக்கா தோழி) நட்சத்திரத்தில் பிறந்தவர்கள் அதிகமாக பேசுகிறார்கள் என்று பேசவில்லை.
உதவி- உணவு.
Thank you 💕😊 mam
PLAN B
Thank you so much for this video, Ananthi.
It's really i feel it ...
Thanks for the video... Ananthi
Ur really a magic! U dono he much u mean to me with ur words.. Luv u sister❤️
Thank u this needs to be said
she say including herself: nobody is perfect, you say including yourself: everybody perfect; I say excluding myself: both of you wrong
That person..... Doesn't deserve u.... He is unlucky.. someone understand u better than that person....
1) ஜே ஜே பாட்டு சும்மா வச்சேன் பா.( வெறுப்பேத்த)
This thing reminds me Lilly journals to ellan (it ends with us)
diary nala irku diary link nxt viedo la soluga akka
5:22 to 6:40 nearly same thought rises me. But you put in this video for right time helping me & correction for me that thought killing more than more..
Thank you sister 😊