I really needed to hear this. Only this evening a friend asked me for a rather large loan, and though I am financially well placed, I didn't really want to lend it. Tomorrow I shall tell her I can do it.
Maybe write an agreement on how to pay it back and both of you sign it and give them a copy. It can effect friendships if its never paid back, a neighbour did this to ne
I loaned a silly amount to a really close friend . She took the money and moved away from cheating husband for a 'new' life...I never saw her or the money again. The thing is I missed her friendship more than the money.😢
Extremely well written and, quite good lessons here. That's right The Women are Smarter. Number two no good deed goes on punished, however, sometimes we just can't help it you'll see someone that needs something you got enough you give it to him f*** it
@@CarolWoodhouse-w2s thank you. I’m much better thanks to tons of therapy, horrible memories coming back and that whole thing, and terminating relationships. What a ride though!
@ people go through years of abuse and no one listens to them or believes them. Then tons of growth, pain, and therapy to be able to talk about it again. Nobody wants to waste more of their lives to indulge your compulsive need to sit as a judge and jury and decide whether you are personally satisfied with their truth.
I was surprised that it ended so quickly. Interesting story
Lovely! Thank you
Thank you F.S.for this gem 💟
I really needed to hear this. Only this evening a friend asked me for a rather large loan, and though I am financially well placed, I didn't really want to lend it.
Tomorrow I shall tell her I can do it.
Maybe write an agreement on how to pay it back and both of you sign it and give them a copy. It can effect friendships if its never paid back, a neighbour did this to ne
I loaned a silly amount to a really close friend . She took the money and moved away from cheating husband for a 'new' life...I never saw her or the money again. The thing is I missed her friendship more than the money.😢
I was married to an extremely generous man, money meant nothing to him. I find this story fascinating. A personality trait
Extremely well written and, quite good lessons here. That's right The Women are Smarter. Number two no good deed goes on punished, however, sometimes we just can't help it you'll see someone that needs something you got enough you give it to him f*** it
3 keepers in 1 day😊
Neuralsurfer Gold playlist🎉
I live a city block from where F.Scott grew up.. St.Paul, MN. ❤ his stuff ...(Selby Ave. Washington St.) are here . ("Died @ jus 44)..
My mom wanted me to give her a lot of money and when I said no, she tried to poison me.
Wow! Hope you're ok now.
OMG! 😳
Oh really? Perhaps she did, perhaps she didn't
@@CarolWoodhouse-w2s thank you. I’m much better thanks to tons of therapy, horrible memories coming back and that whole thing, and terminating relationships. What a ride though!
@ people go through years of abuse and no one listens to them or believes them. Then tons of growth, pain, and therapy to be able to talk about it again. Nobody wants to waste more of their lives to indulge your compulsive need to sit as a judge and jury and decide whether you are personally satisfied with their truth.