Best Ways To Handle Conflict In Relationships | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @evek.9022
    @evek.9022 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Pastor K. is a Comedian 🤣🤣🤣. I laughed so much while being blessed. He would tell the same story again and again but it will still be funny 😅😅

    • @Hankerleen_Hummpery.1
      @Hankerleen_Hummpery.1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂😂his jokes are always fresh and funny

    • @enejenks3841
      @enejenks3841 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As innnnnnn!!!!!!

    • @kadiekamara8461
      @kadiekamara8461 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My sister i joined you na 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂He is so funny 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️

    • @nyanibadarko333
      @nyanibadarko333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yghj😢

    • @kuekodz35
      @kuekodz35 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I listened to this one as my "going to sleep sermon" for the day, husband was already sleeping, I was laughing throughout I thought i was going to wake him up.😅

  • @ngozionyebuchi6754
    @ngozionyebuchi6754 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Women talk for affection while men talk for information ,sir u hit the nail on the head
    If u agree with me ,let gather here ❤❤

  • @sweetestesty
    @sweetestesty ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "You won't get the best from a woman except you first appeal to her emotionally." Word!

  • @hassanmotunrayo8074
    @hassanmotunrayo8074 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Am a Muslim but I love his preaching

    • @Freedom20255
      @Freedom20255 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dear leave Islam. No life in it.

    • @obiageliorji3370
      @obiageliorji3370 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please respect all religions. I am a Christian and one of my close friends is a Muslim and she is an excellent friend. I love her regardless. Love is the underlying quality of all religions. So respect and love all. As Christ loved all. Thanks

    • @Freedom20255
      @Freedom20255 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obiageliorji3370 You are ignorant! You are a Christian without the knowledgeofthe Bible! If your friend dies without Christ they are going to hell fire staight! God's Word can't be change! Truthdoesn't mean disrespect soand sleep! Fom your Bible: John 3:16-18 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
      18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      - Read verse 18and shut up!

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@obiageliorji3370 there was no disrespect in the comment. If you are a Christian, your heart must bleed for your Muslim friend. Jesus came that we might have life, and have it in abundance. This dear Muslim man, is on a Christian platform, confident enough to share their religion and that they are finding life in teachings inspired by Christ. Are you a Christian? Because if you are, you’d appreciate the correct spirit in which Hassan was invited to enjoy and experience a life in Christ.

    • @Ray_Chx
      @Ray_Chx ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Freedom20255as what?

  • @renateabi2662
    @renateabi2662 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m engaged and I must say it’s the perfect time for me to encounter your videos on a deeper level. Thank you so much pastor Sir

  • @olateekay
    @olateekay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awareness
    Acceptance
    41:38
    Appreciation 45:31
    Adjustment
    Alternation

  • @sweetestesty
    @sweetestesty ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Understanding perspectives is the first step to resolving Conflicts. Thank you, PK.

  • @rogersbrandon8474
    @rogersbrandon8474 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your parents raised you very well sir😅 you are loaded with wisdom and enthusiasm

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Pastor Kingsley you and Pastor Mildred are a blessing to this generation. Thank you.

  • @donmosco4285
    @donmosco4285 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This man is a legend , so funny to listen to,i enjoyed literally everything. May God continue to bless you with more wisdom , knowledge and anointing to keep on impacting my generation 🙏

  • @CordeliaChukwu-pr3xr
    @CordeliaChukwu-pr3xr ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Pastors K and M are a blessing to many through your impactful teachings. God bless you both.

  • @ikehamarachi
    @ikehamarachi ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anything that has more than one head is a monster! 🙌🏽

  • @lyndachinasa6189
    @lyndachinasa6189 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂😂😂😂😂 pastor thank you for the happiness and laughter you are sharing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @greatstar5470
    @greatstar5470 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A man's mind is wired for vision.... Dear lord, I will marry right.

  • @adegbenrooluwabunmi9113
    @adegbenrooluwabunmi9113 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Even this msg will help.parent understand their male children and the female children, so they don't think the male child do not remember them until when they need something unlike the female child

  • @NassunaShamim-l5v
    @NassunaShamim-l5v 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is rich. Thanks sir. You bless the world with your wife. We shall not blame anyone if we fail in marriage.

  • @CharitySamuel-ow6qj
    @CharitySamuel-ow6qj 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr Kingsley He makes my day mood 😅the chewing part and al the sermon has really blessed me

  • @stepheniseyemi2313
    @stepheniseyemi2313 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Seriously, "We need to talk" Scares me more dan anything.... Pst. K always on point

    • @blessingekanem6474
      @blessingekanem6474 ปีที่แล้ว

      My husband to be is always scared. When I say “we need to talk”😂

    • @stepheniseyemi2313
      @stepheniseyemi2313 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL, That word fears most men, cause the thought will be what have i done again@@blessingekanem6474

  • @KingdomLifeDec
    @KingdomLifeDec ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have learned to appreciate veey much that my husband is hrd working and not lazy. He is a great provider. But I still hate not seeing him home every night,because of work😩

  • @ojewalesegunraphael8533
    @ojewalesegunraphael8533 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks somuch for this pastor Kingsley..I have been getting it all wrong all these times. You are speaking directly to me and mine...I will value this lessons for life! Thank you Jesus...way to Go!!!❤

  • @JokiinJo
    @JokiinJo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The sermon was great, but something I've noticed with Pastor K's messages is that they always seem to run out of time and rush the actual topic of the sermon. I was really looking forward to learning more about conflict resolution.

  • @onyinyeokoyeuzu8850
    @onyinyeokoyeuzu8850 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pastor Kingsley and Mildred will always be a blessing to me. ❤Am glad i got to know them even before I will get married, i must have learnt a lot from their wealth of knowledge and experience

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato3848 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why can't people just be respectful? Why is it so hard to be respectful? No matter the differences being respectful is the key. Considering the other and not having the intention to hurt.

  • @nwachanglory6723
    @nwachanglory6723 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Thank you so much.... I've indeed have perspective and extremely bless.
    As a single, I've breakup with guys due to "undiluted altitude" as per my thoughts resulting from my ignorance about such vital information and was about to do same with the present guy thinking he making everything up . And now, i bless Almighty God for leading me to your soul uplifting message (s). Thank you so much Pastor. Am Bless and redeem from the power of ignorance all thanks to you.
    God bless you glorious with more heavenly blessings in Jesus mighty name,AMEN🙏🙏🙏

  • @emmerogbeide
    @emmerogbeide 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Pastor K you have just explained a whole lot. Thank you and May God continue to impart wisdom on you.

  • @AzubomDillice
    @AzubomDillice 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omo i feel blessed after watching this😊
    Alot has been going on in my relationship ❤

  • @bukolamodupe6263
    @bukolamodupe6263 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No there is special Grace for Pastor Kingsley , couldn’t agree less with everything he said about we the women 😂✨

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *agree more. To agree less is to disagree.

  • @thetaniart
    @thetaniart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I need people to know that when PK is giving examples about man and woman's differences, he's talking about good and responsible people. Not some foolish men for example we have that want to marry rich women to live soft life or some women who don't want to work or do anything but still feels she should have a say in a home.
    As PK says always, the church is like a hospital and people shouldn't marry cos they saw someone in church meanwhile his or her life outside that church is like Batman and Bruce Wayne's life.
    As a Muslim, I'm happy you Christians have a man like PK to guide you in marriage because the world is in a mess. I have my Muslim preachers are listen to too like the likes of Mufti Menk and Co but generally I'm happy I'm still alive to listen to honest men of God because the future of our children and grandchildren are not safe at all....there's a lot of work to do to protect them even when we are no more so pls (christians) hold such men very very tight and heed their teachings because many pastors preach based on how the finances can be made and trust me I know....my mother is a Christian so I really do know that we have far more fewer pastors and bishops to just speak the truth and guide another human being to be better.

    • @Learn87-12
      @Learn87-12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is no marriage in heaven . Why not accept the death and resurrection of Jesus. Ask Him for forgiveness. Ask Him to come into your life, then you will be sure of heaven after death.

  • @runderbongfenepsemiki8210
    @runderbongfenepsemiki8210 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't get enough of this teaching and illustrations . I felt this was timely and talking directly to me. Chaii, sir, thank you immensely

  • @gingerb9997
    @gingerb9997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂😂pastor is soooo right about savers.....i am a big saver

  • @princessike-mbah5942
    @princessike-mbah5942 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How does one get Pastor K's book and Pastor M's book? Such a blessing to this generation ❤

  • @LauraKingsley-r5q
    @LauraKingsley-r5q ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even from conception, the xx is fast and lives longer while xy is very slow and dies off quickly.

  • @kemiore
    @kemiore ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just WOW. It's good to know one's calling, prefect it and continually walk in it. Highly blessed!

  • @ekyessien570
    @ekyessien570 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    P K dey preach sha. Thanks for always giving me advice whenever I need them I just to your channel and search for messages that resonate with my present situation.

  • @princessmelthembani7210
    @princessmelthembani7210 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was blessed and kept me awake from sleeping at wok😂😂😂 God bless this couple 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praise God for making man and woman different! I therefore bind myself and my god-ordained spouse to desire to understand and accept the differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage while binding to hell every lack of desire to understand and accept tge differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire to understand and accept the differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:7, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

  • @amarachieze7589
    @amarachieze7589 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He said "they've greeted themselves at the beginning of life, when they met..." 😂 😂 😂 😂
    So funny

  • @kemiakogun7667
    @kemiakogun7667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂😂absolutely love listening to pastor K. I laugh and learn at the same time.😂😂😂

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are funny I was laughing all the way, but Thank you I am not married as yet

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just go straight to the point ! Lol A man just gave a place to be touched ! 😊

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Men nko? Mummy already said they didn't dey💀🤣😂😂
    Enjoyed every bit of every second ❤❤❤

    • @LoveMuiru
      @LoveMuiru ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True 😂😂😂

  • @nwankwonkechi6557
    @nwankwonkechi6557 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love you Pastor K. Thank you for making us smile.
    God bless you and your wife for this wonderful teaching.

  • @sundaystella8023
    @sundaystella8023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor k is just the best…. Much love pastor M❤️🙌

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor K . I respect you , you know your stuff . More anointing , God bless your ministry . ❤❤🙏🏾👏👏

  • @kellyamouzou7278
    @kellyamouzou7278 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Running this one back twice! Thank you so much Pastor K, more blessings on your mission to help and educate us on important skills and tools for a successful kingdom marriage 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
    And thank you so much for the laughter!! 😂

  • @ibingoshuaibubok5610
    @ibingoshuaibubok5610 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you Pst K, this was exhilarating, satisfying and kept me glued. If I'd known some of these facts I would have made adjustments long ago but it is never too late. God bless you Sir and cause your ministry to continue to flourish in the name of JESUS CHRIST AMEN

  • @mammatehilapr5443
    @mammatehilapr5443 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waaaooouuuh ! I realy like your teaching PK. ❤😂

  • @adinduoluchukwu5136
    @adinduoluchukwu5136 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmmmmmmm thank you pst K and pst M am blessed with this teaching

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Long live pr kingsley

  • @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp
    @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man😂😂😂😂has made while blessing me

  • @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525
    @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your preaching sir. You are funny😂

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato3848 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is very enlighening However, there are things that cause conflict that is common to both. One of which is self engineer that is, not understanding; another trauma.
    The

  • @isaiahoby5808
    @isaiahoby5808 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ameeeeeeeen

  • @amourelove475
    @amourelove475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too much wisdom

  • @jmadume07
    @jmadume07 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good teaching. May God continue to minister to and through this ministry for his glory. Just to stir up a healthy discussion, I like to add that I agree with things are done differently in the various homes people were brought up. Amongst many example is the issue of shouting to say hello or shouting just having a discussion loool. My comment now is that, should we not also teach on what can be agreed as the right way or a better way to do things in alignment with the word. For example, am sure the bible teaches about be considerate about others. So I find shouting during conversations, especially in public areas not a considerate thing to do. That's why some have issues in the office, house share and even relationships because it's almost the norm for people in our part of the world (Nigeria) to be so loud during conversation. Even though the person is right next to you looool. Ps: I know it's not just part of our world that do such lool.
    Anyways just thinking out loud.

  • @FelixPatrick-k5j
    @FelixPatrick-k5j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God gives us wisdom to succeed in our marriage

  • @joshuapeter14794
    @joshuapeter14794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whenever I listen to PK I always feel blessed 😊 and motivated. God bless u sir and more wisdom for u 🙏🏾

  • @flondah4380
    @flondah4380 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Complete message
    From Cameroon

  • @VeryVicky
    @VeryVicky ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much pastor K. For the dispensation of this knowledge.This need to be taught in every church because many marriages are in conflict due to lack of this knowledge. I am blessed and l had so much fun.

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    EXCELLENT! In fact it was too short for me. Thank you for putting it all into perspective as you always do. Your teaching style helps me connect easily because I can relate. I see it in my relationship with the male. God bless you . Keep enlightening us. Blessings from Kenya.

  • @olamy8403
    @olamy8403 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aweome....so true yet hilarious....sooooo true....This is indeed your ministry!
    That chewing gum story in Dubai is super hilarious

  • @Priscilla_Oseremen
    @Priscilla_Oseremen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This teaching is a blessing to me ✨I thank God I came across it….. at the right time⏰

  • @MhizroseEtim
    @MhizroseEtim 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just when I needed this message
    Thank you pastor K🙌🙌

  • @Gafafrica
    @Gafafrica 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PK 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂 thank you sir

  • @JoanWanjikuwatenga-fp5wz
    @JoanWanjikuwatenga-fp5wz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have listened to this soo many times ❤❤

  • @Nonye17
    @Nonye17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your message always blessess my soul. More wisdom Daddy.

  • @StellaOluchi-v4s
    @StellaOluchi-v4s ปีที่แล้ว +2

    pastor k, you're full of wisdom, you and pastor m have been a blessing to me.

  • @MillicentChukwuma
    @MillicentChukwuma 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love listening to pst K

  • @GonaBlessed
    @GonaBlessed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woooow sir you know us very well

  • @marianaharita8834
    @marianaharita8834 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoyed this teaching 🙏

  • @Jjjjjmnn2910
    @Jjjjjmnn2910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This words are not just hilarious but very informative on or before marriage. Thank you sir!!!

  • @ob312100
    @ob312100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wowwwwwww. Powerful. Thank you Sir❤. Such a blessing

  • @modestermbah4881
    @modestermbah4881 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you pastor k my mind has been renewed

  • @faithomolara3172
    @faithomolara3172 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir....I have been blessed by all your teaching 🙏

  • @janemwanu6228
    @janemwanu6228 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very enlightening but also funny 😂😂😂😂😂 which makes it very interesting 😅

  • @Bella-u3z
    @Bella-u3z ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor Kingsley thank you so much your good work ❤

  • @antemelizabeth4543
    @antemelizabeth4543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am blessed to know you pastor k

  • @Obby_channel24
    @Obby_channel24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am so blessed Listening to you sir

  • @monicamburugu9815
    @monicamburugu9815 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you pastor Kingsley and Mildred. You inspire me every time you speak.

  • @bukiehuldah
    @bukiehuldah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Pastor K for your insight. I am always blessed and enlightened whenever I listen to you. God bless you sir.

  • @olateekay
    @olateekay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely the way you talked about cars as an example.
    I believe if both men and women understand each other, life would be easier and marriage would be sweeter.

  • @bankoleolufunke3909
    @bankoleolufunke3909 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoying these so real

  • @tahmichealineanim6941
    @tahmichealineanim6941 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm blessed sir.

  • @funmilayogbokoyi7363
    @funmilayogbokoyi7363 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this message sir
    I was richly blessed

  • @amutamercy143
    @amutamercy143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir. I'm blessed

  • @rudomwadiwa2183
    @rudomwadiwa2183 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, knowledge indeed profiteth much

  • @bellosudya2690
    @bellosudya2690 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir and ma, i recently started following you, and im truly blessed

  • @perpetualgbesemete6678
    @perpetualgbesemete6678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the teaching
    I'm much enlightened

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Papa for sharing your wisdom. I enjoyed every bit of it, insightful and interesting.
    More grace Sir!!! 😊🙏🙏♥️

  • @Original.Blossom
    @Original.Blossom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This message!!!! 👏

  • @christianaarokamoni3764
    @christianaarokamoni3764 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm blessed Pastor Kay, I hope you will visit kano some day

  • @Dovelyte10
    @Dovelyte10 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for your good work sir

  • @ericaharris4728
    @ericaharris4728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On point message

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much for this message. God bless you. 🙏🏾❤

  • @joshuaolutoke
    @joshuaolutoke ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect Pastor Kingsley.😅❤

  • @fredrickkiwala6767
    @fredrickkiwala6767 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful,,,, pastor K,,,,,I have received more than I expected 🎉🎉❤❤❤God continue to bless you

  • @theresanamonje
    @theresanamonje ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative and interesting, thank you Sir🙏🏽

  • @lucyphiri7352
    @lucyphiri7352 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have wisdom and sense of humor too... Keep up!🥰👏😁

  • @estherbless617
    @estherbless617 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you sir😂😂😂good message for me

  • @khayelihle2010
    @khayelihle2010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was too insightful and funny