If they were married prior to all the money, she was always a millionaire / billionaire. Its not his money, its theirs. Marriage is a business partnership, nothing more. The religious / moral stuff means nothing to the state.
She married a doctor, young. Helped him build his practice. 10-15 years later, he's met a young nurse, divorces wife. Pays wife off to leave. (This is what I suspect happened or some version of it). A stay at home wife deserves her share of the wealth earned during a marriage. Just as a man does if the roles are reversed.
I got Bill Burr’s voice in my head at the 15k per month for the next 7 years … ‘all of a sudden .. it costs 20 grand a month to give a kid Fruit Loops’
“Can I live off of this monthly income?” Yes, you can barely survive off of $180,000 per year. It will be tough, but by the grace of God you will be just fine. Go out and re-invent yourself. Find your purpose.
I wanna know how she getting 15k a month and struggling to survive. I get she has kids, find a side income for just you stuff and like...that should he more than enough for anyone idk...hell of a lifestyle if not
Holy fuck... 3.1 million in a divorce at age 40... The husband was grinding his gears, just to have half of it gone. OMFG... That amount at age 40?????
most of the jobs that will make that much money requires to have a stay at home spouse if you have kids. They usually require you on call at all time (CEO of fortune 500, neurosurgery etc ). It is extremely difficult to have dual career in those fields. Most single people actually do not make it either as having a supportive spouse is essential, so think of it more as a team sport.
@@jaydubya9265she can retire now just buy a house outright and whatever is left invest and live off the 15k every month for 7 years and then start 4% withdrawal rate
She doesn't have to work again. Get a 500k house in cash. Invest the rest till the monthly money runs out. If she can just live on 7.5k a month she could live off the money till 54 then use the money she invested till 60 or 65 then live off the 401k forever lol. She is set the guy must of been loaded.
Stay at home mom IS WORK. Taking care of him and his home. Cooking everyday, cleaning everyday, driving the kids everywhere and being their full time manager, therapist and nurse. If she went to work, society would bash her for working and abandoning her kids.
The better question is… how much did the husband pay per 🥜 over the course of the entire marriage? And remember this is just the exit fee, not what he also paid during the marriage. A harem in Thailand seems like a better investment than marriage in the west
she was at home looking after the children, which meant she gave up a career and pension contributions. I'd agree 100 per cent if she was working full time and didn't have kids, but that's not the case.
ask most doctors out there if they would have made it without their spouse. Most of them tell you no. While you are in training you have to have someone home to take care of things for you. The US training for physicians assumes you have a family member taking care of everything for you and gives you no time to take care of others. Without this support many people have to drop out. So it's normal that anyone supporting a physician in training for sometimes 10-15 years should get compensated.
The man lost a wife, a child, and $3.1M. The woman gets a primary child custody, new man in no time, and $3.1M. Yet woman will tell you they are oppressed in our society. Disgusting.
It could be read a different way, he was willing to get rid of the wife and child for his new gf. Just as some women are willing to give up a husband and child for Chad.
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
This call should be mandatory listening for every man, shows what the consequences are of marriage even if u do everything right, the wife can leave just because shes not happy and take ur hard earned money/assets
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
What's crazy to me is the people who push you to get married cuz it's such a great thing, and tell you to just marry the right person and don't get divorced is the same ones hosting a call in show where women tell you how they've screwed over their ex husbands out of millions...
Or maybe he ran off with the hot young bimbo secretary/waitress/gym rat/insta/only fans model and left the whole family behind during his midlife crisis 🤔
try making $1M a year AND have kids without a stay at home spouse and tell us how it works. Almost everyone making that much money has a stay at home spouse or no kids.
@@comment_account2343 That’s easy especially since they can hire outside help like a live-in Nanny and cook. Most couples both have work and do all of that without 1M or help.
@@nathang2465 You know what nannies do? Call off at 6am when you had to be at work by 5:50am. Also no childcare center opens before 6am, and no one will come overnight when you get a 3am emergency at work. The only thing that works is au pair, because they stay at your home, but you can only keep them a year, and they do get stressed out by those crazy lifestyle too. Also remember that he probably didn't make that much money his entire career either, and still had to have a 24 hours on call nanny for those years where he was less paid (ie residency if he is a doctor).
15k may not be a lot if we knew what kind of income he has. If the judge ordered him to pay that amount I’m sure there’s plenty more where that came from.
At 47 she will have to go back to work. After that house it will go down to 500,000$ and one emergency happens aka hospital with no insurance there goes that money. Then 95,000$ will be gone and only thing left is 401 k money which if she uses will get taxed. Food for thought!
Wow. All these comments. You guys can't see anything in life that doesn't make you hate women. It is also possible that he initiated the divorce and was happy to give her that quantity of money in order to be done with the marriage quick (or whatever reason). But hey, if you hate women, then it's probably not good for you to be married, or be in a relationship, or be near a woman.
is it just me... or is it batshit crazy to assume any basal rate of "compound interest" when projecting over 30 years? let alone promote advice off of the back of it? (8mill from what rate lmao?!?) Its like everyone is in an echo chamber assuming the last 10 years performance can just be projected forward...?
You say it like it's easy forgetting that not everyone is as lucky as you are. I've traded for months now without any progress. How are you able to do it?
I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear that you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small Investment, thank you Jihan Wu you're such a life saver
im thinking he kept the house, and thats part reason why so much more Is paid out to her. I cant see ex husband having nothing if he has to pay 15k a month. She said she didnt have a house anymore, im thinking part of settlement he kept house
She was divorced in a 50/50 state. She produced nothing in the marriage and got half the husbands worth. Very common, i know of several situations just like this.
It is horriifying that you say she contributing nothing to this marriage. And you have no idea what their net worth as a couple is or how much money her husband makes.
Probably divorced for no good reason, too. Woke up one morning and decided she was bored, and knew she would get well paid by the court to be single again.
@Yogastrong908 Yeah a lot of people don't know that the judge can throw it out for any number of reasons including that it simply wasn't fair enough to the woman aka it doesn't give her enough of your money
The state of humanity is screwed based on th comments. Everyone attackiing this lady wothout having any details other than the diivorce settlement. Just because your wife is SAH doesn't mean she isnt contrinuting to the marriage. Maybe he was abusing her? Maybe he was cheating? Maybe it just didn't work out? She got whatever she was entitled to based on the laws of the state they live in. If you fear getting divorced, then don't get married. The hate in the comments is unwaranted.
@ read the comments. They hate is clearly directed at her and since not one person who wrote a comment has any idea how much money this person makes her any other facts beyond what her settlement was literally no one knows if the settlement was fair or not
@@mtbokor1969 Reason for divorce doesn’t matter to the state. Maybe she was a cheater and abuser and still divorced him? You don’t know but regardless 3.1M is still robbery. 15k a mo is way more than necessary. Divorce system fails men and favors women that’s a fact.
How do you know 3.1 m is robbery or 15k a month is more than needed? What if he makes 50k a month and has a net worth of 10 mm. What is her fair share after 15 years of marriage? You have zero context for the comment@@mothegoat6865
Imagine being so inept with money you get $1.1 million, $750,000 401k, and $180k a year for seven years and have no idea if that’s not a fair settlement, all thinks considered 😂
@@maevamakendi2598"he got"...he made. Don't forget how different those two are. But yeah, its an agreement. Even she said its a fair amount of money, I think she felt it was enough.
I think the silliest thing about this call (and some of the comments) is telling the woman she needs to go find work and a purpose... Does she really? She has 3.1 million. That is enough to set you and 2 kids up for the rest of your life, living off dividends alone. You literally don't have to lift a finger with that huge or a pile of money working for you in dividend paying companies. The point of building to millions is to not have to do any more work.. WTF?
You should rethink the value of a woman. Especially a good one. Who gives you a family, and takes care of that family. For 14 years. In 14 years you probably won't be able to find one because of comments like yours.
@@bethanyboothe4817 Well the number 1 cause of divorce is marriage, and the only way to guarantee that your spouse won't divorce you is to not get one in the first place 🤷
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
I hate this radio format. She had so much more to say and ask, but they just cut her off because "they're running out of time"... I thought they owned the network. YOU MAKE THE SCHEDULE.
Fellas I don’t know why you’re arguing with these women. I promise they don’t actually believe she “earned” the right to become a multi millionaire by folding clothes and microwaving chicken nuggets until the kids went off to school. The average construction worker would have to work for 60 years to earn the income she was just given. No logical person would say this woman did the equivalent of 60 years of hard labor, they are just exercising the power the government provides them and talking to make themselves feel good. If he didn’t get married, this call couldn’t exist. Can only blame yourselves!
a construction worker clocks out, stay at home mum is 24/7. A millioner husband is barely around, due to the work, so she has to take on tasks the husband ought to do if he clocked out at 6. He gets to know kids are safe that a hired nanny can't do
clearly her husband was not a construction worker .... probably a surgeon or something like that. The top performers in medical schools who will be contenders for the most competitive specialties are the ones with a stay at home spouse who cooks, clean and do laundry for them so they can focus on studying, exercising and sleeping. Having a stay at home spouse is a strategic advantage that is probably worth $10M+ of the course of ones career.
Assuming they split the assets down the middle, it sounds like this guy had at least $6 Million in assets. I’d love to get $3 Million for being a stay at home free loader lol
When a company lets you go at most they give you a years pension if you've been there for more than 20+ years. She's was married for 15 and get a lumps sum of money with 15k for 7 years, ridiculous. She does not need this money yet the courts still think women are disadvantaged or handicapped in some way, bullocks!
I think the biggest thing is to surround yourself with people you trust. Since she's not savvy on investing and money she'll fall victim to scams maybe. Don't just splurge on an expensive house either - be smart! All that money, you can live wherever you want (within the divorce agreement parameters).
The men in the comments that are salty do not have a fraction of the money the husband clearly had. You don’t have these issues and won’t have to pay this much money because you don’t have it. She stayed at home because that was the agreement between them. So his income was their income.
This is scary. I don’t care how many years she stayed home and cared for her kids, or how many kids she gave this man. This feels like robbery. I don’t blame men for not wanting to get married. This woman never has to work a day in her life every again (if she’s careful)
Agreed. Child support I get. Alimony I don't when it is a choice to not work. I get Alimony if women can't work legally, but I have women bosses, so clearly that isn't the case anymore 😅
None of you know what you’re talking about. Stay at home mom’s add a lot of value to the family. that value is never measured in terms of dollars unless there is a divorce like this.
Only idiots are saying they don't do anything or add anything. But 3 million at age 40, has the kids, and she has no idea how much it is or how to manage it and thinks 3k rent is bad, despite having a check for 1m sitting there..
Here wondering what caused the divorce. What was this man thinking? What did he do? What did she do? You making this kind of money , you should try to do everything to keep your family together. Maybe this money does not touch her husband net worth. $15,000 a month for child support and alimony.
To all the men out there who are saying “this is an advertisement not to marry” -y’all are probably broke and need to grow a set. When you get married you do things together, each person brings something to this marriage and affords the other the opportunity to be successful. And before people ask - I am a multi millionaire guy who didn’t inherit a penny and respect the heck out of my wife.
No, you are a S.I.M.P. There is over a 50% chance that your marriage will end in divorce and over a 70% chance that your wife will be the one to file for the divorce. I hope you enjoy losing everything that you worked so hard for...
Gentlemen, listen to that, not a shred of remorse in her voice for what she did to this man. Because it's legal, they feel like it's rightfully theirs and have no guilt cos according to the law they did nothing wrong. I guess we gotta keep saying to not get married cos men are still getting themselves screwed.
Can you reverse all the years she dedicated to looking after his home and kids? But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
@@Atlas-tp8dwma’am, you understand this doesn’t indicating the message you think it does. In fact, you’re technically reiterating what this guy is saying from the opposite POV. I understand what you’re saying in trying to stand up for the stay at home mother (which is noble and has risk to it too). However, legally speaking what you’re saying justifies the anti marriage attitude many men today have.
@@Atlas-tp8dw please stop saying this, was her stay at home work a 200k per year income? Please maybe 50k so she got all the nice things she got for 14 k that’s what it was worth.
@@moggekungen Yeah and she also got free housing, free food, and free access to his money while they were married, THAT was payment for what she contributed during the marriage but of course the morons in these comments can't understand simple concepts.
What are some investing options to retire sooner? The 401k is probably better for employment because of the match but in her case, she doesn't need that but this 'bridge account' Jade said sounds like a good idea.
Girl, never get married again unless the next guy is worth more than you and wait til your kids are out of the house. Also, make sure there’s a prenup if you do.
She doesn't know what to do with the money because she wasn't the person who generated it.. sje was in a marriage where the husband created and generated the wealth .... she is legally entitled to half though because she probably was "his motivation"
Spoiler: Ex-Husband calls in next week. Ken and Jade, how do I rebuild my life after this divorce?
It’s crazy how she calls for financial advice afterwards.
@@Francisco-po1cf why is it crazy? it just shows the great job her husband did beforehand
Haha
@@daver7929 John will tell him to work at McDonalds.
I think if he got ordered to do that, he has a lot of money and he will be ok.
Where does that woman live? Asking for a friend. 🤣🤣 Man, 15K a month means that she was living a very high life before the divorce.
Definitely! Her husband has a 1M gross revenue.
The banner says Dallas, TX.
Yeah she screwed that guy over HARD lol, don't be the next one.
There's A LOT of money in Dallas, TX. It's just coming out of people's eyeballs, the ones who know how to make it that is.
@@luminous6969 I bet not. I bet she got about half of the assets they earned during their marriage. That's what she deserved.
7 yrs of 15k a month.. wow..
Scary!
She didnt even mention child support
Just imagine the amount of sex her ex- husband could’ve had spending that kinda of money with sex workers if he hadn’t married her:)
@@mtbokor1969that includes child support most likely as her youngest will be 18 when the payments stop.
@@mtbokor1969Thats probably chikd support and spousak support. Her ex husband has to be loaded for her to get this much
"How does a woman make a man into a millionaire very quickly?" She divorces him when he's a billionaire.
If they were married prior to all the money, she was always a millionaire / billionaire. Its not his money, its theirs. Marriage is a business partnership, nothing more. The religious / moral stuff means nothing to the state.
hahaha
She married a doctor, young. Helped him build his practice. 10-15 years later, he's met a young nurse, divorces wife. Pays wife off to leave. (This is what I suspect happened or some version of it).
A stay at home wife deserves her share of the wealth earned during a marriage. Just as a man does if the roles are reversed.
@@USMC6976 wonder how much child support he pays & if he has to pay for their college
@@darex0827
So what you are saying is… dont get married, unless you are fine losing half of everything.
And Dave wonders why guys aren't getting married.
It's a Scoobydoo mystery!
Is the man complaining , he could be very rich ...
Lol and Dave is the beacon of knowledge for all things modern society...?
Listen to her talk. She got half and has no clue about life
He could be worth 10 to 20 millions
A advertisement not to marry.
So is married with children
@@tankprohp lol, hilarious show
Pretty much.
Called a prenup. He’s an idiot.
Or find the right person.
I got Bill Burr’s voice in my head at the 15k per month for the next 7 years … ‘all of a sudden .. it costs 20 grand a month to give a kid Fruit Loops’
“Can I live off of this monthly income?”
Yes, you can barely survive off of $180,000 per year. It will be tough, but by the grace of God you will be just fine. Go out and re-invent yourself. Find your purpose.
Plus $100,000 from the million invested.
I wanna know how she getting 15k a month and struggling to survive. I get she has kids, find a side income for just you stuff and like...that should he more than enough for anyone idk...hell of a lifestyle if not
She lives in Dallas. $15K is more than enough.
I’d be dancing on the roof
Holy fuck...
3.1 million in a divorce at age 40... The husband was grinding his gears, just to have half of it gone. OMFG... That amount at age 40?????
most of the jobs that will make that much money requires to have a stay at home spouse if you have kids. They usually require you on call at all time (CEO of fortune 500, neurosurgery etc ). It is extremely difficult to have dual career in those fields. Most single people actually do not make it either as having a supportive spouse is essential, so think of it more as a team sport.
This is one of the most ridiculous calls I’ve heard on this channel.
How so?
I agree
@@firststar2she can prob just work live below her means and invest the 15k a month and pretty much retire or semi retire at 50
@@jaydubya9265she can retire now just buy a house outright and whatever is left invest and live off the 15k every month for 7 years and then start 4% withdrawal rate
Hater 😂😂😂😂
She doesn't have to work again. Get a 500k house in cash. Invest the rest till the monthly money runs out. If she can just live on 7.5k a month she could live off the money till 54 then use the money she invested till 60 or 65 then live off the 401k forever lol. She is set the guy must of been loaded.
EXACTLY
lol this is the lazy mindset
@bape520 why work if you have over 3 millions dollars
Why a house for that amount? Downsize so the upkeep isn’t draining the funds.
@@1jw298 it might be hard to live in a cheaper house, less upgrades after where she was living
SHE HIT THE JACKPOT BY STAYING A HOUSEWIFE WHILE HER HUSBAND WAS HARD WORK.
Welcome to America
Stay at home mom IS WORK. Taking care of him and his home. Cooking everyday, cleaning everyday, driving the kids everywhere and being their full time manager, therapist and nurse. If she went to work, society would bash her for working and abandoning her kids.
I doubt she ever took care of him @@Atlas-tp8dw
@@Atlas-tp8dw Yes how hard is to replaces that?
@@Atlas-tp8dwGive me a break. My wife and I both work and take care of our kids. They’re two entirely different things.
Taking care of the home allowed the kids to have their mom with them. Probably valuable for the family.
They got it all wrong. This call, she already knows what to do. Marry another one, and divorce him for his money too!
Yup.. old girl gonna work it again..😅
Unless she cares about her kids.
@@spencer4258 do women still do that these days? Care for their own kids?
Perhaps rich hubby divorced her for a young flame.
No wonder marriage rates are falling .
The better question is… how much did the husband pay per 🥜 over the course of the entire marriage?
And remember this is just the exit fee, not what he also paid during the marriage.
A harem in Thailand seems like a better investment than marriage in the west
You mean you stole 3 million from
Your ex-husband.
she was at home looking after the children, which meant she gave up a career and pension contributions. I'd agree 100 per cent if she was working full time and didn't have kids, but that's not the case.
@@Jess-T This type of thinking is how you're gonna get replaced by AI women
Not everyone has the capacity to earn millions of dollars...she's dumb...she stole it...after she got fat.
She had kids for him and took care of the home while he went out and worked. She earned this
@@Jess-Ti mean, she was living rent free with all her bills being paid
I know a doctor who had to pay $21K in alimony for about a decade unless his ex remarried. She remarried a month after the alimony was up.
😂😊
Disgusting
ask most doctors out there if they would have made it without their spouse. Most of them tell you no. While you are in training you have to have someone home to take care of things for you. The US training for physicians assumes you have a family member taking care of everything for you and gives you no time to take care of others. Without this support many people have to drop out. So it's normal that anyone supporting a physician in training for sometimes 10-15 years should get compensated.
also that settlement was dumb.... because obviously people will wait to get remarried.
@@comment_account2343 crazy how you just can’t admit she robbed
She disclosed this, and neither one of them even blinked! My jaw dropped!
I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger but…
@@AmericanWears she is a gold digger
But she ain't messin' with no broke -
The man lost a wife, a child, and $3.1M.
The woman gets a primary child custody, new man in no time, and $3.1M.
Yet woman will tell you they are oppressed in our society. Disgusting.
It could be read a different way, he was willing to get rid of the wife and child for his new gf. Just as some women are willing to give up a husband and child for Chad.
She raised the kid for 14 years .. nice try making her the bad guy
@@Kroh13and? Like that’s a hard gig😆
"I wonder if she has plans tonight." - Ken Coleman
😂😂😂
LMFAO 😂
Reminder to all men that marriage is the only contract where one party is rewarded for breaking it. And it won't be you with the reward.
It's all about the cash and prizes. But for only one party. Interestingly, the same one responsible for 80% of divorce filings...
Poor mens bust their asses building an empire and a woman gets to walk away with half their fortunes🤦🏻♂️
more than half, consider legal fees, alimony child support. It's 70 % most of the time.
Y they getting divorced tho
14 years and children is contributing to that income.
@@lionheart93because 80% divorces are initiated by women u dummy
The que should be. "Why marry?"
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
How many men get this type of settlement after a divorce? Zero.
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That's because it's rare the wife has more money than the husband
My ex boyfriend was married to a doctor and they had five kids he got 8k a month he made 100k a year she made 400k
Another reason not to get married
Wonder what the ex husband done for his work? And what's left for him?
This call should be mandatory listening for every man, shows what the consequences are of marriage even if u do everything right, the wife can leave just because shes not happy and take ur hard earned money/assets
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
What's crazy to me is the people who push you to get married cuz it's such a great thing, and tell you to just marry the right person and don't get divorced is the same ones hosting a call in show where women tell you how they've screwed over their ex husbands out of millions...
@@Atlas-tp8dw noted ✅️ good thing most don't have plans to do so anyways 😂
You have not seen my family😂
Or maybe he ran off with the hot young bimbo secretary/waitress/gym rat/insta/only fans model and left the whole family behind during his midlife crisis 🤔
"A pretty good amount of money..."
😅😅
Us marriage law is an absolute disgrace and garbage
No stay home mom deserves 15k a month
try making $1M a year AND have kids without a stay at home spouse and tell us how it works. Almost everyone making that much money has a stay at home spouse or no kids.
@@comment_account2343 'he can have it all'
@@comment_account2343 That’s easy especially since they can hire outside help like a live-in Nanny and cook. Most couples both have work and do all of that without 1M or help.
@@comment_account2343This is a joke right? You could hire a nanny for way less than that.
@@nathang2465 You know what nannies do? Call off at 6am when you had to be at work by 5:50am. Also no childcare center opens before 6am, and no one will come overnight when you get a 3am emergency at work. The only thing that works is au pair, because they stay at your home, but you can only keep them a year, and they do get stressed out by those crazy lifestyle too. Also remember that he probably didn't make that much money his entire career either, and still had to have a 24 hours on call nanny for those years where he was less paid (ie residency if he is a doctor).
Don’t get married guys 😂
If you have money 😂 none of yall have money anyway saying “ don’t get married guys” 😂😂😂😂
@@kristamonaeprobably been married and divorced and got screwed over already..
Wised up to the greedy ladies that are supported by the government
"It's cheaper to keep her"!!! Godfather of soul James Brown...husband should have found this song on Spotify b4 divorcing!!!LOL
I feel bad for the guy, 15k a month is outrageous. I agree with child support, but 15k that he has already paid tax on is just nuts.
15k may not be a lot if we knew what kind of income he has. If the judge ordered him to pay that amount I’m sure there’s plenty more where that came from.
@@breenee6995then go pay 15k if it not a lot
I swear these host don’t listen
they asked her when she wants to retire?? retire from what, she is a sahm
sounds like she had a good lawyer
The ex got screwed.
You have no idea
Or he us really rich
He probably had to sale some things. Men who get divorced without this amount of money end up in an apartment or someone else’s couch.
Men always get screwed in divorce court. I can't believe men even still get married in the US.
He’s still rich. But damn
Jade: Retire at 65...does that sound good?
Caller: Yes..(while thinking no friggin' way am I working and why should I)
At 47 she will have to go back to work. After that house it will go down to 500,000$ and one emergency happens aka hospital with no insurance there goes that money. Then 95,000$ will be gone and only thing left is 401 k money which if she uses will get taxed. Food for thought!
@RobertDeffley-l4r She never needs to work again if she chooses not to do so.
Wow. All these comments. You guys can't see anything in life that doesn't make you hate women.
It is also possible that he initiated the divorce and was happy to give her that quantity of money in order to be done with the marriage quick (or whatever reason).
But hey, if you hate women, then it's probably not good for you to be married, or be in a relationship, or be near a woman.
Yep, because everybody that does not agree with you hates women. Never seen that before.
Exactly they just think every women is some gold digger it’s annoying
If you can't comprehend how silly this call is then that is on you. It's not about hating on anyone for most comments so wake up.
Not hate just stating facts, we all know women initiate divorce, alienate the father from the children and take all the money… facts!
is it just me... or is it batshit crazy to assume any basal rate of "compound interest" when projecting over 30 years? let alone promote advice off of the back of it? (8mill from what rate lmao?!?)
Its like everyone is in an echo chamber assuming the last 10 years performance can just be projected forward...?
Hit 240k today. Appreciate you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 24k in August 2024…,,
You say it like it's easy forgetting that not everyone is as lucky as you are. I've traded for months now without any progress. How are you able to do it?
I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear that you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small Investment, thank you Jihan Wu you're such a life saver
I hope the husband wasn't left with just nothing, having to restart.
Would he still have half
im thinking he kept the house, and thats part reason why so much more Is paid out to her. I cant see ex husband having nothing if he has to pay 15k a month. She said she didnt have a house anymore, im thinking part of settlement he kept house
@@vqinred9689 This is true.
She's got half his retirement so he has at least 750k
This is why I won't get married.
She was divorced in a 50/50 state. She produced nothing in the marriage and got half the husbands worth. Very common, i know of several situations just like this.
It is horriifying that you say she contributing nothing to this marriage. And you have no idea what their net worth as a couple is or how much money her husband makes.
@mtbokor1969 you're a beta male.
She was a married stay at home wife for 14yrs ...you can't put a price on that....meanwhile it was ok with her then husband 🤷
Probably divorced for no good reason, too. Woke up one morning and decided she was bored, and knew she would get well paid by the court to be single again.
@lawv804 , I've seen scenarios like this, several times. Stay single or marry a woman with a career. You'll be better off at divorce time.
Dave Ramsey is the best unintentional MGTOW channel on TH-cam:)
Protect your assets gentlemen 🤝
This is why you insist on a prenup fellas
That her lawyer will get tossed.
Don't get married. Mutual living don't get the government involved
Go to Google and put in "top 10 ways to get out of a prenup".
Most prenups get thrown out.
@Yogastrong908 Yeah a lot of people don't know that the judge can throw it out for any number of reasons including that it simply wasn't fair enough to the woman aka it doesn't give her enough of your money
I GUARANTEE YOU THEY ARE GOING TO TURN OFF THE COMMENTS FOR THIS VIDEO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Susan does Dallas. She hit the jackpot. Living the dream
The state of humanity is screwed based on th comments. Everyone attackiing this lady wothout having any details other than the diivorce settlement. Just because your wife is SAH doesn't mean she isnt contrinuting to the marriage. Maybe he was abusing her? Maybe he was cheating? Maybe it just didn't work out? She got whatever she was entitled to based on the laws of the state they live in. If you fear getting divorced, then don't get married. The hate in the comments is unwaranted.
The hate is not for her, the hate is for the system, which is wholly justified.
@ read the comments. They hate is clearly directed at her and since not one person who wrote a comment has any idea how much money this person makes her any other facts beyond what her settlement was literally no one knows if the settlement was fair or not
@@mtbokor1969 Reason for divorce doesn’t matter to the state. Maybe she was a cheater and abuser and still divorced him? You don’t know but regardless 3.1M is still robbery. 15k a mo is way more than necessary. Divorce system fails men and favors women that’s a fact.
How do you know 3.1 m is robbery or 15k a month is more than needed? What if he makes 50k a month and has a net worth of 10 mm. What is her fair share after 15 years of marriage? You have zero context for the comment@@mothegoat6865
Imagine being so inept with money you get $1.1 million, $750,000 401k, and $180k a year for seven years and have no idea if that’s not a fair settlement, all thinks considered 😂
It still might not be fair still. You don't know what he got.
@@maevamakendi2598"he got"...he made. Don't forget how different those two are.
But yeah, its an agreement. Even she said its a fair amount of money, I think she felt it was enough.
@@maevamakendi25983 million ain’t enough? Damn women man yall all bums man
I think the silliest thing about this call (and some of the comments) is telling the woman she needs to go find work and a purpose...
Does she really? She has 3.1 million. That is enough to set you and 2 kids up for the rest of your life, living off dividends alone. You literally don't have to lift a finger with that huge or a pile of money working for you in dividend paying companies. The point of building to millions is to not have to do any more work.. WTF?
Someone forgot to get a prenup. 👀
Jade's hair budget is probably my grocery budget
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She may do her own hair. Or she may get a good deal that fits her budget. Her hairstyles aren’t complicated.
Legalized robbery. Where’s the highway at?
Wow such cold twisted irony.....she divorced the one guy who knew what to do with the money.
And this is what they mean when they say its cheaper to keep her.
This is definitely a low key flex call😂
Shes set for life ❤
@kristamonae yep it's still a low key flex 🤙
Get married again asap...dont lose the momentum.
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Some lucky chap will have a cougar wife!
The irony could be that in such cases they may have divorced because her husband cared too much about saving money and not splurging/living life.
Now he’s probably not enjoying life because she took it. If he was broke and struggling, she’d still leave. Damed if you do and damed if you don’t.
Ken: Susan are you down for Lunch…
I'm thinking a nice ham Subway sandwich...
@ lol
@@Blittsplitt5 I think she'll be expecting a lobster tail with the highest grade of filet mignon.
She could easily be a target now and very vulnerable to men. It will be quite an adjustment.
A stark reminder to not get married, these women will take everything from you despite not earning it and you providing for them for years.
Amen
Sounds like a stark reminder not to get divorced. There’s a thought.
You should rethink the value of a woman. Especially a good one. Who gives you a family, and takes care of that family. For 14 years. In 14 years you probably won't be able to find one because of comments like yours.
@@bethanyboothe4817 Well the number 1 cause of divorce is marriage, and the only way to guarantee that your spouse won't divorce you is to not get one in the first place 🤷
But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
We need to check up on the husband
I hate this radio format. She had so much more to say and ask, but they just cut her off because "they're running out of time"... I thought they owned the network. YOU MAKE THE SCHEDULE.
Fellas I don’t know why you’re arguing with these women. I promise they don’t actually believe she “earned” the right to become a multi millionaire by folding clothes and microwaving chicken nuggets until the kids went off to school.
The average construction worker would have to work for 60 years to earn the income she was just given. No logical person would say this woman did the equivalent of 60 years of hard labor, they are just exercising the power the government provides them and talking to make themselves feel good.
If he didn’t get married, this call couldn’t exist. Can only blame yourselves!
Don’t be salty. When a man finds a wife..he finds a good thing 😊
@ That’s what he thought as he was saying his vows, then he learned a $3.1 million dollar lesson 😊
a construction worker clocks out, stay at home mum is 24/7. A millioner husband is barely around, due to the work, so she has to take on tasks the husband ought to do if he clocked out at 6. He gets to know kids are safe that a hired nanny can't do
clearly her husband was not a construction worker .... probably a surgeon or something like that. The top performers in medical schools who will be contenders for the most competitive specialties are the ones with a stay at home spouse who cooks, clean and do laundry for them so they can focus on studying, exercising and sleeping. Having a stay at home spouse is a strategic advantage that is probably worth $10M+ of the course of ones career.
@black_tech_owner why do you men assume her exhusband is now broke? 😊
Assuming they split the assets down the middle, it sounds like this guy had at least $6 Million in assets. I’d love to get $3 Million for being a stay at home free loader lol
Yeah you sound jealous
@ Yeah you sound like you don’t understand sarcasm
@@Jessica-xw7xy she isn't a freeloader she was raising their children
“Stay at home free loader” girl hush you a hater for even joking like that
@@kristamonae lol You look like you’re one of them too🙄🤡
When a company lets you go at most they give you a years pension if you've been there for more than 20+ years. She's was married for 15 and get a lumps sum of money with 15k for 7 years, ridiculous. She does not need this money yet the courts still think women are disadvantaged or handicapped in some way, bullocks!
Ken: grieve
Caller: 😅 I can fake that part.
Marriage is a woman's retirement plan 😂
Some not all 😢😢😢😢😢😢
…and a man’s bankruptcy plan!
Exactly, they don't invest money they invest in time instead and pull a divorce after a certain amount of time 😂
It literally is since the dawn of time.
I wanna hear what Dave has to say
Dave would say: just say he is so sorry to hear and blame the husband without and details.
“You don’t have to eat rice & beans.” 😂
1:49 - Do I need to get a job? How cliche.
I think the biggest thing is to surround yourself with people you trust. Since she's not savvy on investing and money she'll fall victim to scams maybe. Don't just splurge on an expensive house either - be smart! All that money, you can live wherever you want (within the divorce agreement parameters).
When I saw the title I knew it was a female caller.
This is why women are top earners from divorce don't let the media lie to you and say it's from hard work who in they're right mind would get married
Getting married soon. This video just inspired me to call my lawyer and get a prenup
The men in the comments that are salty do not have a fraction of the money the husband clearly had. You don’t have these issues and won’t have to pay this much money because you don’t have it. She stayed at home because that was the agreement between them. So his income was their income.
Man, I thought women were so smart, independent, can make their own way ect?
she's set for life while the man took a huge hit smh
Whoa lol she hit the jackpot. She looking for a Sugar baby 😂😂😂
BS call.
Waiting for the jealous and bitter comments!
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Asshole
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This is the only comment I've found that isn't just malice and projection 😂
YAY! "Traditional" women for the win. You don't have to earn your own money. Just let the "traditional" men provide everything!
This is scary. I don’t care how many years she stayed home and cared for her kids, or how many kids she gave this man. This feels like robbery. I don’t blame men for not wanting to get married. This woman never has to work a day in her life every again (if she’s careful)
Agreed. Child support I get. Alimony I don't when it is a choice to not work. I get Alimony if women can't work legally, but I have women bosses, so clearly that isn't the case anymore 😅
Damn... its really rough for some folks... I'm struggling to afford a crappy roof over my head... 3 mil is WILD
None of you know what you’re talking about. Stay at home mom’s add a lot of value to the family. that value is never measured in terms of dollars unless there is a divorce like this.
Only idiots are saying they don't do anything or add anything. But 3 million at age 40, has the kids, and she has no idea how much it is or how to manage it and thinks 3k rent is bad, despite having a check for 1m sitting there..
Here wondering what caused the divorce. What was this man thinking? What did he do? What did she do? You making this kind of money , you should try to do everything to keep your family together. Maybe this money does not touch her husband net worth. $15,000 a month for child support and alimony.
80% divorces initiated by women
70% of them are no fault or i got bored
To all the men out there who are saying “this is an advertisement not to marry” -y’all are probably broke and need to grow a set.
When you get married you do things together, each person brings something to this marriage and affords the other the opportunity to be successful.
And before people ask - I am a multi millionaire guy who didn’t inherit a penny and respect the heck out of my wife.
No, you are a S.I.M.P. There is over a 50% chance that your marriage will end in divorce and over a 70% chance that your wife will be the one to file for the divorce. I hope you enjoy losing everything that you worked so hard for...
Reasons not to get married if you're wealthy
Gentlemen, listen to that, not a shred of remorse in her voice for what she did to this man. Because it's legal, they feel like it's rightfully theirs and have no guilt cos according to the law they did nothing wrong. I guess we gotta keep saying to not get married cos men are still getting themselves screwed.
Can you reverse all the years she dedicated to looking after his home and kids? But she gives up her career and pension building to look after his home and children, women need to be compensated too because it's work to build the man's family. If you don't want to take care of woman who becomes your wife and takes care of your home and raises your kids while giving up her career, don't get married.
@@Atlas-tp8dwma’am, you understand this doesn’t indicating the message you think it does. In fact, you’re technically reiterating what this guy is saying from the opposite POV. I understand what you’re saying in trying to stand up for the stay at home mother (which is noble and has risk to it too). However, legally speaking what you’re saying justifies the anti marriage attitude many men today have.
@@Atlas-tp8dw please stop saying this, was her stay at home work a 200k per year income? Please maybe 50k so she got all the nice things she got for 14 k that’s what it was worth.
@@Atlas-tp8dw babysitting kids and watching TV all day isn't worth that much 😂
@@moggekungen Yeah and she also got free housing, free food, and free access to his money while they were married, THAT was payment for what she contributed during the marriage but of course the morons in these comments can't understand simple concepts.
Yall get money through a divorce?
Damn.. no one ask hows hes doing? 😂
An old Bill Burr routine comes to mind.
Damn, when I got divorced at 40, all I got was a headache and a $50k bill.
What a great reason to get married! Those poor children getting divorced when starting high school.
What are some investing options to retire sooner? The 401k is probably better for employment because of the match but in her case, she doesn't need that but this 'bridge account' Jade said sounds like a good idea.
Don’t ever get married! Don’t do it! This guy has nothing now!
If she's taking him for that much, he likely has millions in assets. You and me? We would be completely wiped out.
Free women cost the most.
Shit I should marry rich
when its over a mil the hitman is always cheaper
Girl, never get married again unless the next guy is worth more than you and wait til your kids are out of the house. Also, make sure there’s a prenup if you do.
She doesn't know what to do with the money because she wasn't the person who generated it.. sje was in a marriage where the husband created and generated the wealth .... she is legally entitled to half though because she probably was "his motivation"
😂 or couldn't have done it without you person 😅