I’m Afraid To Leave My Cheating Girlfriend

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  • @joshw7415
    @joshw7415 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +334

    I could tell 45 seconds into this call that this guy is an absolute doormat. You gotta be stronger than that my friend.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Shes 30 he's 24 sounds like shes been preying on him since he was young. He needs to take his daughter and run.

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      A doormat who will oneday blame her for being a doormat.

    • @johnh4058
      @johnh4058 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Josh Right. (lol)

    • @IrishMexican
      @IrishMexican 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      45 seconds? Judge much, assume much, jump to conclusions much? You must be fun to hangout around

    • @joshw7415
      @joshw7415 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@IrishMexicancall it like I see it…

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +595

    Simpin’ ain’t easy

    • @garvincrosby4349
      @garvincrosby4349 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      But it's necessary. Lol 😂 Remember that song?

    • @billykotsos4642
      @billykotsos4642 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      and not cheap either...

    • @garvincrosby4349
      @garvincrosby4349 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @billykotsos4642 Not the way I do it. Compliments are free unless you talk to Instathots. They want you to pay them just to talk to them and I say fuck you girl. Bye. Lol 😂

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      I empathize with the guy. It must be really hard to be 24, no family around, daughter to care for, and your girl cheats. But he’s got to find the strength to leave.

    • @RichardPatrick84
      @RichardPatrick84 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Great comment.

  • @ARKenMan
    @ARKenMan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +280

    Free yourself my man - you'll be alright

    • @herbiehusker1889
      @herbiehusker1889 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He cares about his daughter.

    • @codyfournellcsrf5164
      @codyfournellcsrf5164 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No he cares more about keeping her trust me bro only cares about making excuses to stay with her​@@herbiehusker1889

    • @ea11111
      @ea11111 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@herbiehusker1889 yeah but he doesn’t care about himself. If she cheated on him, she doesn’t care about his daughter.

  • @dialac1
    @dialac1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +230

    There are a lot of men like this and they are always ripe for the taking. He has zero self esteem and she knows and she will continue cheating on him until she finds a better replacement

    • @JackThatcher-w3n
      @JackThatcher-w3n 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      🙏 Truth.

    • @Kim-bv3xn
      @Kim-bv3xn 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      pretty much

    • @Jpaxart
      @Jpaxart 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Find a richer replacement who will be as much a simp and cuck as this guy.

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      If she can walk all over you, how can she respect you?

    • @northgirl77
      @northgirl77 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes 💯

  • @BillykOTW
    @BillykOTW 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +221

    “Did it mess up brain function?” 😂😂😂 I know that’s right, Dave lol!

    • @JozelleRenia
      @JozelleRenia 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂😂😂

    • @SalisburySnake
      @SalisburySnake 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      "...or were you always like this?"

    • @kingpooh6429
      @kingpooh6429 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Lol poor guy needs to wake up quick

    • @pdxmusl1510
      @pdxmusl1510 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂
      Had the same thoughts 😂😂😂😂

    • @Superrradical42
      @Superrradical42 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Savage lol

  • @normILL
    @normILL 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +177

    Sounds like he's being abused and doesn't want to say it

    • @patricia-fz8et
      @patricia-fz8et 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I don't think he knows what narcissistic abuse is...he needs to check out Dr Ramini

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      He is definitely being abused!!!!! And at this age 24 and 30 is a huge age gap.

  • @marielang9552
    @marielang9552 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +171

    This man needs to respect HIMSELF!!!

    • @TElias5
      @TElias5 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      its nice to hear a woman telling a man to respect himself . youre right he needs some higher self esteem

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +126

    She's cheating. LEAVE.

  • @BillykOTW
    @BillykOTW 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +129

    Step son? Bro you not marrrrrrried!!

  • @dreadpiratewestley8599
    @dreadpiratewestley8599 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +248

    Get an attorney and a paternity test dude! Chances are the child isn’t yours.

    • @untouchable360x
      @untouchable360x 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Even if it's not his, the state will force him to support the child. He's considered a "father figure."

    • @dreadpiratewestley8599
      @dreadpiratewestley8599 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@untouchable360x unfortunately that may be the case, but it depends on the state laws where he is at

    • @chuckdameron5626
      @chuckdameron5626 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      The problem is if you signed the birth certificate he's stuck

    • @untouchable360x
      @untouchable360x 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dreadpiratewestley8599 Tell that to the judge. He'll laugh your ass out of court.

    • @dreadpiratewestley8599
      @dreadpiratewestley8599 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@untouchable360x again, it depends on the state.

  • @kcdav7
    @kcdav7 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    This is over. No need for premarital counseling. You don’t marry someone that cheated on you. He needs to man up, let her go, thank God they not married, and go find someone else. Brothers yo.. really understand this… once a woman cheats that relationship is over.

  • @davidrojas6457
    @davidrojas6457 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +149

    Uh oh, Dave called him "hun", certified mess 😔

    • @Deans-jm3uf
      @Deans-jm3uf 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      lol subtle shots fired with that hun

    • @Ewalk.213
      @Ewalk.213 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      When Dave calls a grown man HUN it speaks volumes every single time 😂😂

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      You know your cooked when Dave calls you hun or honey 😂

    • @colterthompson6846
      @colterthompson6846 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I took it as a term of sympathy, or something. But yeah my ears did perk when I heard that too.

    • @Yummy2u
      @Yummy2u 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. When Dave calls a man hun, you know the caller got f'd over.

  • @BuiltNutritionFitness
    @BuiltNutritionFitness 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    If she doesn’t see you as her best option, end the relationship

  • @xxAl99xx
    @xxAl99xx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +152

    So he's a SIMP

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mean

    • @chrisardern4594
      @chrisardern4594 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True

    • @joycrowthers7563
      @joycrowthers7563 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What’s a simp?

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​​@@joycrowthers7563From what I gather a simp is a person (usually a man) that is desperate for affection or attention from someone else (usually a woman). I googled it because I don't really know what it means either.

    • @Slim5845
      @Slim5845 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bro, he’s 24 messing with a 30 yo

  • @MigukinEeyayo
    @MigukinEeyayo 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    He hooked up with a *single mother that's 6 years older than him.* WTF man???
    I'd like to think there were people in his life that were telling him that he was on the wrong path.

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Facts. This is a sad story. Young men need to hear this and let single moms be

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@PoyTroynothing wrong with single moms. Don't date someone with a large age gap.

    • @codyfournellcsrf5164
      @codyfournellcsrf5164 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@pinkpugginzeverything wrong raising another dudes kid. Yeh she's mentally unstable

    • @theclockworkcadaver7025
      @theclockworkcadaver7025 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      @@pinkpugginz Nothing wrong with age gaps (older guy/younger woman). Don't date single moms.

    • @zachwarren280
      @zachwarren280 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He is really stupid.

  • @KingCobra023
    @KingCobra023 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Single mother 6 years older than you, what could go wrong?

  • @BaconMountainMan
    @BaconMountainMan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    You drove by "She's cheating on me" like You went through the drive-thru at Burger King. 😅

  • @monsieurwolf6122
    @monsieurwolf6122 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    You can hear the lack of confidence in his voice. She doesn't respect him, which is why she is doing what she's doing. Have some self-respect and walk away.

    • @texasgoddess323
      @texasgoddess323 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yes, she loves his resources, not him.

    • @SDPtor
      @SDPtor 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She hasn’t respected him in a looonnnggg time (and neither has he respected himself in a long time)

  • @KathleenMcNe
    @KathleenMcNe 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    The caller needs to grow a pair, stop being a spineless doormat, dump his girlfriend, and secure custody of his child.

  • @howtopopo7118
    @howtopopo7118 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Leaving her will be the best decision this man ever makes.

  • @grecojones
    @grecojones 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Dave dropping that hun like it’s no thang. 😂

  • @miniDrew4
    @miniDrew4 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The look on John's face at 1:30 is priceless.

  • @coopernecole7962
    @coopernecole7962 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Almost 30?! Poor baby... 😅😅😅she's playing you

  • @AlexHernandez-m1t
    @AlexHernandez-m1t 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Saw the title & had to click 😂😂

  • @jimmythegent45
    @jimmythegent45 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    It's over for this guy

  • @thomaspugh9969
    @thomaspugh9969 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Dylan, you are codependent and need to get counseling. She doesn't respect you or herself. Her cheating is not your fault, it is HER fault. You deserve better and that starts with your self esteem and self worth. I know it seems hard to you, but you need to walk away and get your self respect back.

  • @GunGlutton
    @GunGlutton 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    My wife had an affair after 9 years, 2 weeks later met the most amazing woman. Beautiful and successful! I couldn’t be happier now

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      2 weeks after divorce

    • @HOLDXSTEEL
      @HOLDXSTEEL 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      She ganna cheat too

    • @GunGlutton
      @GunGlutton 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@HOLDXSTEEL hater

    • @GunGlutton
      @GunGlutton 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alluringbliss4165 no matter what happens with me and my gf at least she’s way hotter and I’ve gotten over my ex 😁 getting under someone is how you move on

    • @HOLDXSTEEL
      @HOLDXSTEEL 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@GunGlutton it’s true

  • @lilmoo7682
    @lilmoo7682 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Can’t believe this guy called. Such doormat.

  • @floresnashvilledrummer
    @floresnashvilledrummer 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Seriously, what kind of call is this? He should've called Dr. John on his show.

  • @12VDHuey
    @12VDHuey 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    That really sucks, people who haven't been through something like this won't understand

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yea its sounds terrible.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah I empathize with the guy. Everyone in the comments is going to flame him, probably deserved, but still when you’re in that spot it’s really hard. I got cheated on around his age and fortunately I found the strength to take my life in a better direction.

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@12VDHuey exactly. I been through this minus the cheating part. Just wanted nothing todo with the mother of my child. And because you have a child together is hard to part ties. Luckily I got out. But I’m paying for it lol

    • @juanaguzman7419
      @juanaguzman7419 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He's in the I dont love myself stage yet he will grow out of it quickly

  • @tduck828
    @tduck828 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    You have to get a game plan and leave. This is why Dave says not to play house...makes it difficult to untangle things.

  • @monikaw1369
    @monikaw1369 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    She is looking for someone and will leave you as soon as she found that person.

  • @jbzzey
    @jbzzey 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    There are more guys like this than you think.
    There are a lot of guys out there who are simps and don't know it yet.
    These guys are invisible, and once a decent looking female with a baby gives him some box.... he gets emotionally attached so quick and in a situation like this before he knows it.
    He wants to leave her alone, but can't because his heart won't let him.
    A lot of these guys are your friends.

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You’re right. I see it all the time. Have a co worker currently going through this now. I’m telling him get out before you put a baby in her and get stuck

    • @MigukinEeyayo
      @MigukinEeyayo 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh yea. The _thirst is real_ out there.

    • @jjwalker2011
      @jjwalker2011 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      💯
      A co-worker of mine over 10yrs ago. Married & divorced this woman 2x!
      After learning about this, the drama never stopped. 1 day at work he gets a call & has to leave work asap for a couple days. His wife took off to FL and he had to go get her. She went on a bender & hooked back up with a different ex husband🤯
      Dude was straight up ridiculous.

    • @LU-ro8qb
      @LU-ro8qb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      TRUE.. But what you described actually creates two types of men... it creates men who loses their mind when a decent looking female gives them attention and sex... and it also creates the dudes like Fresh & FIT who sit on a podcast and destroy women all day, and utter misogyny bullshit all day... who has a strong hate and resentment towards women! It's crazy... what rejection does to a man lol.

  • @calgal5752
    @calgal5752 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Be careful who you have children with! He needs an attorney and a paternity test….

  • @KayleeCee
    @KayleeCee 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    He needs to get out now while he still can. My brother went through something kind of similar. Now he's stuck with a bum of a wife who won't work, won't cook, won't take care of the house, and barely takes care of the kids. But she has no problem spending all the money. He's so exhausted and beaten down now after more than 10 years of this crap that he's basically thrown up a white flag.
    Various family members have offered to help him if he ever chooses to get out, but I don't think he will. He has no willpower anymore.
    This young man sounds so defeated and like he's lacking confidence. I hope he can find the inner strength to end this thing and make a better life for himself and his child (if it's even his). Men, women, whoever, you don't have to put up with someone who is unfaithful and/or a financial liability.

  • @ronp-eb9bh
    @ronp-eb9bh 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    🎶 Mamas don't let your sons grow up to Simpboys 🎶. This is the grand result of a boy growing up without his father influencing him. Its soooo critical for mothers to let good, peaceable Dads to have full access to their sons.

  • @FlyWithVeiga
    @FlyWithVeiga 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Put yourself first… you don’t need that crap; good chance she’ll cheat again too. Leave her, take your time, and find the right woman.

  • @MagicalFishy
    @MagicalFishy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    As polite as I can be, both the caller and the woman in question are acting like children. Fortunately, it seems like the guy calling in is starting to wise up. I hope he can gain the courage to leave her and gain some respect for himself. This woman clearly is headed down a dark path and is dragging him towards a lifetime of suffering. Praying for you man.

  • @Rapscallion2009
    @Rapscallion2009 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    One of my favourite quotes is "The givers need to set boundaries as the takers sure as hell won't!".

  • @SheLoveSports
    @SheLoveSports 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    So, we are going to drive-by Dave being a diver like we are going through a Burger King drive-thru 🤣🤣🤣

    • @kendrapratt2098
      @kendrapratt2098 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Maybe that’s why he started cutting back on the 🍩 awhile back lol

    • @jenniferr.3574
      @jenniferr.3574 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I cackled at that!

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    "I am a very forgiving man and I can forgive practically everything. The only thing that I cannot forgive is betrayal." Vladimir Putin

    • @user-xs9835
      @user-xs9835 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The idiot you are citing here, betrayed his whole country! He is a murderer and terrorist who is doing genocide in Ukraine!

  • @TheEtherea
    @TheEtherea 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    When my ex cheated on me, I left her immediately and never looked back. I was always grateful not to have married her and/or having a kid with her.
    I will never understand anyone defending a cheater, sorry. If someone broke your trust like that, how can you trust this person ever again? And why would you? Also.. She is older than him, she SHOULD know better, but it seems she, sry, likes to FAFO.

    • @Twotonetonyy
      @Twotonetonyy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Same here same day caught next day i had a uhaul pulled up and i moved out and on. Trust me it's not easy but you just gotta rip the bandaid and move on

    • @Twotonetonyy
      @Twotonetonyy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Slasher4446-q3e no there's more to life i promise don't ever be afraid to be alone it gets better

  • @expertonmyself
    @expertonmyself 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    aside from money behaviors, this show should serve as a cautionary tale for not having pre-marital sex. geez louise.

  • @James_Hough
    @James_Hough 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    When you do things out of order...

    • @rsafree1139
      @rsafree1139 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So get married, have a kid, then get cheated on instead?

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rsafree1139I would honestly rather have that happen

  • @jojotwin002
    @jojotwin002 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dave was throwing shade with that “did you lose brain function” question. 😅

  • @lombardo141
    @lombardo141 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This guy is broken, probably his first time. He will be fine.

  • @kmerathaetra
    @kmerathaetra 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Take your L and leave today. Don't justify it to her, dont apologize, don't do it again.

  • @macklonrobinson8269
    @macklonrobinson8269 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Dave: That’s not a financial issue…that’s a simping issue

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@macklonrobinson8269 it’s turned into the Jerry springer of finances

  • @drewbaker5364
    @drewbaker5364 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    What a mess but in his defense he's only 24. Hope he wakes up and finds his self worth.

    • @KathleenMcNe
      @KathleenMcNe 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He should have kept his pee-pee in his pants.

  • @whosaidthat9265
    @whosaidthat9265 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    So basically she preyed on younger, dumber guy to have a baby with him and lock him in to care for her other kid too 😅She’s a tricky one and he was RIPE

  • @sherryd3299
    @sherryd3299 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    There's a possibility his daughter isn't actually his. I hope he takes the daughter though and move back to Texas near his parents so the child will have loving grandparents and stop making babies out of wedlock.

  • @bobmcdoggish9659
    @bobmcdoggish9659 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Although I heard the word "daughter", I didn't hear the word "married". That's the problem.

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If I have a kid with you and yet you still don’t want to put a ring on my finger, I might not think your serious about me tbh. Obviously cheating is a no but I mean that’s at least around a year together+. You start to have a pretty good idea by then if you really want to be with that person forever..
      People think that getting pregnant will make a guy/girl want to marry you but that’s not always the case. Some would rather have a kid out of wedlock then be married to the person…

  • @Piccolo_Re
    @Piccolo_Re 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Why can’t he just dump her??? What is so hard about that for him?

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Piccolo_Re cause they share a child together now and he knows if he does. She run him through the court system. Child support and he’ll rarely get to see his daughter.

    • @upforanadventure3039
      @upforanadventure3039 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bingo!! It’s cheaper to keep her!

  • @Sal-ub7lt
    @Sal-ub7lt 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Listening to this while literally at Burger King drive thru

  • @krobdawg
    @krobdawg 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Sounds like he's the woman and she's the man in this situation

  • @TimeisUp22
    @TimeisUp22 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    😳 A 30+ broke cheating single mom, and he dont know what to do!?!?
    😂 This is a red pills podcasters wet dream!
    Nawl, but all jokes aside. I cant tell he is hurt and still in love. My advice: Offer to keep your daughter with you as the full time parent and leave her with her son. That will relieve a-lot of her financial stress.
    But leave the relationship regardless

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This call hurt my brain.

  • @samuelkingo9995
    @samuelkingo9995 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Aint no way bro wants to take care of another mans child and a cheating girlfriend

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Some men can’t help themselves

    • @jbzzey
      @jbzzey 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is why you don't get your heart involved with these women (especially when it's a chick like in this story).
      Your heart will dominate your mind and you'll end up like this guy.

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He’s so young too 😢

  • @rogermarr9067
    @rogermarr9067 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love financial. Dave, but I think I love Dad Ramsey more for the way that he talks to these younger people about realistic life

    • @rogermarr9067
      @rogermarr9067 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh no! The guy is 24 and the woman is almost 30. Yep, she is just using him. They might have a child together, but she's probably just trash and this young man is probably the best looking woman he's ever gotten and thinks he's in love because of the baby because he thinks that's what he's supposed to be. Oh gosh, the more I listen to this one the more I'm feeling for this young man who probably doesn't have a strong male role model to help him

  • @Primitive_Code
    @Primitive_Code 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Careful calling him 'hun' he might reciprocate.

  • @handsomeawkward1822
    @handsomeawkward1822 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Us men absolutely have to have higher standards than this.

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I mean he was only 23 or below when he had the kid. A lot of people aren’t that serious around that age… not sure if he was super committed to her 😬 he’s young but having a kid before marriage would absolutely destroy me

  • @ae3209
    @ae3209 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    She's older and has a kid already, dude respect yourself!

  • @TheCheeseman37
    @TheCheeseman37 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    People seem to be getting dave Ramsey confused with Jerry springer

  • @josephloukota322
    @josephloukota322 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Um.....the name is 'Bye Bye' 👋

  • @evanlowe3005
    @evanlowe3005 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Brotha. If your reading this. "When" you leave her it'll feel so much better in a week. Once your settled again you'll be like oh shit. Where's all that stress gone. Your saving and you have a kid/best friend. What else do you need.

  • @KimNatasha-hr1rq
    @KimNatasha-hr1rq 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +304

    I'm 51yrs old. $40,000 weekly and *I'm retired, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways that I remember my past of how I struggled with many things in life to be where I am today!!!!* ❤️

    • @Donellephilbrick
      @Donellephilbrick 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hello how do you make such?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down myself because of low finance but I still believe in God

    • @FranyisDrak
      @FranyisDrak 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here
      waking up every 14th of each
      month to 210,000 dollars it's a blessing to l and my family... I can now retire knowing that I have a steady income❤️Big gratitude to
      Maria Frances Hanlon

    • @Pagsley-qh8oi
      @Pagsley-qh8oi 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I do know Ms. Maria Frances Hanlon, I also have even become successful....😊

    • @JohnUecker-k6p
      @JohnUecker-k6p 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Ms. Maria Frances Hanlon.

    • @MiracleDaniels-j4j
      @MiracleDaniels-j4j 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states
      also paid for my son's surgery
      (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

  • @jhonilocran6077
    @jhonilocran6077 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “What kind of relationship issue?”
    “What do you mean?”
    “You said relationship issues”
    “Cheating and stuff like that.”

  • @johnh4058
    @johnh4058 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s me. You did this, it’s over. I’m gonna do everything I can to keep my kid. That kid becomes my number one priority in life and then I gotta find somebody else to marry…

  • @texasgoddess323
    @texasgoddess323 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Get a paternity test, and if it’s your child, file for custody BEFORE she takes you to court for child support. So she will be the one with visitation, or at least you could hopefully get 50/50 custody. This woman does not respect you, as you have co-signed on her unacceptable behavior and are co-dependent bc you’re too afraid to leave her. Your resources is what she loves, not you. Be well, Brother!

  • @geeem7889
    @geeem7889 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Do a paternity test, if she's cheating that kid may not be yours. Also, please respect yourself enough to not stay with her, you can do so much better! And definitely don't marry her, LEAVE!! Don't stay with someone who blatantly disrespected you. She'll probably do it again. Get out now.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly! She will because she can..
      You get what you tolerate..

  • @LaaLooTv
    @LaaLooTv 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My man needs a wake up call, 😢😢

  • @jaeshasway
    @jaeshasway 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Key word is Girl Friend. He needs to literally Man up, get custody of his daughter and leave his GF. Staying will not yield a good outcome.

  • @shaneoneil894
    @shaneoneil894 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Poor guy. Don’t know his power

  • @janhatcher6991
    @janhatcher6991 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    let this woman go! Pay child support on your daughter, but let her go. Do not pay her bills. Let her go move on. This is a crazy mess. She's already had one relationship and you're the second and she's cheating on you so go move on with your life, and let her go

  • @Justin-uc8sc
    @Justin-uc8sc 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    5:27 “and where’s your family, hun?”

  • @The_Generalgr
    @The_Generalgr 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I seriously feel for this guy. I was driven into therapy from a previous relationship, 4 years long. Spent all my money, all my time, missed family events, stayed up late to be with her because she wanted me there even though I had to be up at 4AM daily. When she finally (thank God) broke up with me, I was just a shell of a little boy. I did nothing to stand up for myself. I did EVERYTHING for her. My self worth went away with her. Thankfully I had a crazy good therapist that knew exactly how to help me.
    I still remember it to this day. We were talking about how I believe people look at me, what their image is of me and why I care. I was trying to explain so earnestly to my therapist that I was a great person, that I loved people and cared about their well being. He just kept saying “I’m not so sure” or “I don’t know if I believe you”. Until one point I just said, “I don’t need to convince you, I know who I am.” He got the biggest smile on his face and just said “and there he is.”
    It’s like a light bulb went off in my head. My self worth is not defined by other people. It’s not defined by my family or my friends or my job, it’s defined by God, and the decisions I make. From there he taught me how to stand up for myself. How to have healthy conflicts. How NOT to be a doormat that people just walk all over. Now I’m not perfect, but man was this a great start.
    It was one of the most transformative moments of my adult life.
    Got into another relationship, been married to her 1 year and with her for 5. We are an amazing team and she’s my best friend. I can be myself around her and she respects me for who I am. I love her to death!!

  • @WhatShallEyeDo4U
    @WhatShallEyeDo4U 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is a lost cause. A) Older women will NEVER listen to younger men unless they clearly are the breadwinners and act as such. 2) Two Baby daddies... That is UNLEARNABLE Behavior. Run.

  • @kithkin01
    @kithkin01 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    to the caller:
    I hope you get to read this
    I speak from experience
    Do not give this woman another chance
    You will never trust her again, and she will never believe theres not more chances
    Its over between you, whether you want to believe it or not
    Try to get custody of your daughter, unless you want to never see your child, have her raised by her cheating mother and some step dad
    Even if shes does get custody, paying child support is nothing compared to the cost of staying with her
    The only reason to consider paying that price is for your daughter. And honestly, baring some true come to Jesus moment for her, your daughter is better off without her

  • @KS-cl8br
    @KS-cl8br 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    if the partner cheated man or woman leave them

  • @LisaLisa-in4vw
    @LisaLisa-in4vw 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This guy sounds 12. Emotionally as well as audibly. Time to grow up, kick her to the curb and get some self respect and self esteem!

  • @fogandwhirlwind
    @fogandwhirlwind 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This guy sounds like an overthinker and someone with a big heart. I'm definitely an overthinker too. It's sad, he probably really wants to be the dad to his stepchild that they need and otherwise won't have. But the important thing to remember is that he can't stay with a cheater for the children's sake. It will wreak havoc on his mental health and he will either be depressed and withdrawn or he'll become a very angry person. And many cheaters don't stop, they'll do it again.

  • @user-vi5vd3ty9d
    @user-vi5vd3ty9d 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    😂😂😂 at John’s reaction.

  • @musselmanmedia5236
    @musselmanmedia5236 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    plenty of men going through this because they know they wont be believed!! its not that they dont have respect its that they literally have nowhere to turn

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Bad girlfriend = ex-girlfriend. Calller-please don't be an idiot. You can't fix this.

  • @Julia-i9m3c
    @Julia-i9m3c 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I'm favoured, $22K every week! I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America.

    • @Johnteardonmanagement
      @Johnteardonmanagement 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As a beginner what do I need to do? How can I invest, on which platform? If you know any please share.

    • @DavidDonald-p8t
      @DavidDonald-p8t 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Waking up every 14th of each month to 210,000 dollars it's a blessing to I and my family... Big gratitude to Sofia Duke 🙌🏻

    • @azmatwassan8857
      @azmatwassan8857 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah, 253k from Sofia Duke, looking up to acquire a new House, blessings.

    • @SyailaChannel
      @SyailaChannel 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was skeptical at first till I decided to try. Its huge returns is awesome. I can't say much

    • @FibfvkFibfvk
      @FibfvkFibfvk 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad to write her tay I do hope she will help handle my paycheck properly☺️☺️☺️

  • @books4739
    @books4739 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I wanna hear Tyrone's side of the story

  • @princessgumbo
    @princessgumbo 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Simpin aint easy

  • @BalloonFight
    @BalloonFight 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Make her pinky promise to not cheat again, that surely will stop her! Just leave her bro, you and your daughter deserve a better woman in your lives.

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly. "Go about what?" Anyway, he seems to want to stay for the baby even though he says it is for her.

  • @SundaySpeaks
    @SundaySpeaks 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    5:28bthats why she got a man 6 yrs younger! She wants to run the relationship and cheat! She is in her 30s! Way too old to be calling herself a “girl”friend. WTH 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @workinonit9562
    @workinonit9562 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Messed up call, get it together people!

  • @bidu2379
    @bidu2379 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LEAVE HER IMMEDIATELY

  • @LetsGoforDabash
    @LetsGoforDabash วันที่ผ่านมา

    Staying with cheater is self abuse , its not love... Its just ur low self-esteem

  • @joeriveracomedy
    @joeriveracomedy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't have social media so I am just here to annoint Dave the "Kingmaker".

  • @Jade7159-
    @Jade7159- 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s usually the woman that continues in a relationship like this one. He’s too soft so therefore, she will continue to cheat on him. I’m pretty sure they’re living together and that’s not a good thing either. She’s almost 30 and he’s 24. She’s too old for him.

  • @BusyBodyVisa
    @BusyBodyVisa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    SIMPing is as SIMPing does.

  • @MichaelSBowen
    @MichaelSBowen 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Did Dave and John get dressed out of the same closet 😂

  • @clarifyingquestions
    @clarifyingquestions 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One day this same caller will be in the DV's bitter men's club hating and blaming the women instead of looking in the mirror and wondering what was so wrong with me that I choose this lying cheating human. Guilt helps no one.

  • @SBfor
    @SBfor 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Never go back to a cheater! NEVER, NEVER, NEVVVVVEEEEEERRRRRR!

  • @stephengamber7000
    @stephengamber7000 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Leave her like the house is on fire. Bet she'll likely cheat again.