@billykotsos4642 Not the way I do it. Compliments are free unless you talk to Instathots. They want you to pay them just to talk to them and I say fuck you girl. Bye. Lol 😂
I empathize with the guy. It must be really hard to be 24, no family around, daughter to care for, and your girl cheats. But he’s got to find the strength to leave.
There are a lot of men like this and they are always ripe for the taking. He has zero self esteem and she knows and she will continue cheating on him until she finds a better replacement
This is over. No need for premarital counseling. You don’t marry someone that cheated on you. He needs to man up, let her go, thank God they not married, and go find someone else. Brothers yo.. really understand this… once a woman cheats that relationship is over.
He hooked up with a *single mother that's 6 years older than him.* WTF man??? I'd like to think there were people in his life that were telling him that he was on the wrong path.
@@joycrowthers7563From what I gather a simp is a person (usually a man) that is desperate for affection or attention from someone else (usually a woman). I googled it because I don't really know what it means either.
You can hear the lack of confidence in his voice. She doesn't respect him, which is why she is doing what she's doing. Have some self-respect and walk away.
When my ex cheated on me, I left her immediately and never looked back. I was always grateful not to have married her and/or having a kid with her. I will never understand anyone defending a cheater, sorry. If someone broke your trust like that, how can you trust this person ever again? And why would you? Also.. She is older than him, she SHOULD know better, but it seems she, sry, likes to FAFO.
Same here same day caught next day i had a uhaul pulled up and i moved out and on. Trust me it's not easy but you just gotta rip the bandaid and move on
@@alluringbliss4165 no matter what happens with me and my gf at least she’s way hotter and I’ve gotten over my ex 😁 getting under someone is how you move on
He needs to get out now while he still can. My brother went through something kind of similar. Now he's stuck with a bum of a wife who won't work, won't cook, won't take care of the house, and barely takes care of the kids. But she has no problem spending all the money. He's so exhausted and beaten down now after more than 10 years of this crap that he's basically thrown up a white flag. Various family members have offered to help him if he ever chooses to get out, but I don't think he will. He has no willpower anymore. This young man sounds so defeated and like he's lacking confidence. I hope he can find the inner strength to end this thing and make a better life for himself and his child (if it's even his). Men, women, whoever, you don't have to put up with someone who is unfaithful and/or a financial liability.
There are more guys like this than you think. There are a lot of guys out there who are simps and don't know it yet. These guys are invisible, and once a decent looking female with a baby gives him some box.... he gets emotionally attached so quick and in a situation like this before he knows it. He wants to leave her alone, but can't because his heart won't let him. A lot of these guys are your friends.
You’re right. I see it all the time. Have a co worker currently going through this now. I’m telling him get out before you put a baby in her and get stuck
💯 A co-worker of mine over 10yrs ago. Married & divorced this woman 2x! After learning about this, the drama never stopped. 1 day at work he gets a call & has to leave work asap for a couple days. His wife took off to FL and he had to go get her. She went on a bender & hooked back up with a different ex husband🤯 Dude was straight up ridiculous.
As polite as I can be, both the caller and the woman in question are acting like children. Fortunately, it seems like the guy calling in is starting to wise up. I hope he can gain the courage to leave her and gain some respect for himself. This woman clearly is headed down a dark path and is dragging him towards a lifetime of suffering. Praying for you man.
🎶 Mamas don't let your sons grow up to Simpboys 🎶. This is the grand result of a boy growing up without his father influencing him. Its soooo critical for mothers to let good, peaceable Dads to have full access to their sons.
Yeah I empathize with the guy. Everyone in the comments is going to flame him, probably deserved, but still when you’re in that spot it’s really hard. I got cheated on around his age and fortunately I found the strength to take my life in a better direction.
@@12VDHuey exactly. I been through this minus the cheating part. Just wanted nothing todo with the mother of my child. And because you have a child together is hard to part ties. Luckily I got out. But I’m paying for it lol
Dylan, you are codependent and need to get counseling. She doesn't respect you or herself. Her cheating is not your fault, it is HER fault. You deserve better and that starts with your self esteem and self worth. I know it seems hard to you, but you need to walk away and get your self respect back.
So basically she preyed on younger, dumber guy to have a baby with him and lock him in to care for her other kid too 😅She’s a tricky one and he was RIPE
There's a possibility his daughter isn't actually his. I hope he takes the daughter though and move back to Texas near his parents so the child will have loving grandparents and stop making babies out of wedlock.
😳 A 30+ broke cheating single mom, and he dont know what to do!?!? 😂 This is a red pills podcasters wet dream! Nawl, but all jokes aside. I cant tell he is hurt and still in love. My advice: Offer to keep your daughter with you as the full time parent and leave her with her son. That will relieve a-lot of her financial stress. But leave the relationship regardless
@@Piccolo_Re cause they share a child together now and he knows if he does. She run him through the court system. Child support and he’ll rarely get to see his daughter.
This is why you don't get your heart involved with these women (especially when it's a chick like in this story). Your heart will dominate your mind and you'll end up like this guy.
Do a paternity test, if she's cheating that kid may not be yours. Also, please respect yourself enough to not stay with her, you can do so much better! And definitely don't marry her, LEAVE!! Don't stay with someone who blatantly disrespected you. She'll probably do it again. Get out now.
This is a lost cause. A) Older women will NEVER listen to younger men unless they clearly are the breadwinners and act as such. 2) Two Baby daddies... That is UNLEARNABLE Behavior. Run.
Brotha. If your reading this. "When" you leave her it'll feel so much better in a week. Once your settled again you'll be like oh shit. Where's all that stress gone. Your saving and you have a kid/best friend. What else do you need.
Get a paternity test, and if it’s your child, file for custody BEFORE she takes you to court for child support. So she will be the one with visitation, or at least you could hopefully get 50/50 custody. This woman does not respect you, as you have co-signed on her unacceptable behavior and are co-dependent bc you’re too afraid to leave her. Your resources is what she loves, not you. Be well, Brother!
let this woman go! Pay child support on your daughter, but let her go. Do not pay her bills. Let her go move on. This is a crazy mess. She's already had one relationship and you're the second and she's cheating on you so go move on with your life, and let her go
to the caller: I hope you get to read this I speak from experience Do not give this woman another chance You will never trust her again, and she will never believe theres not more chances Its over between you, whether you want to believe it or not Try to get custody of your daughter, unless you want to never see your child, have her raised by her cheating mother and some step dad Even if shes does get custody, paying child support is nothing compared to the cost of staying with her The only reason to consider paying that price is for your daughter. And honestly, baring some true come to Jesus moment for her, your daughter is better off without her
plenty of men going through this because they know they wont be believed!! its not that they dont have respect its that they literally have nowhere to turn
5:28bthats why she got a man 6 yrs younger! She wants to run the relationship and cheat! She is in her 30s! Way too old to be calling herself a “girl”friend. WTH 🤦🏾♀️
Damn....already messed up dealing with a single mother with a bastard child in tow. Only to impregnate said single mother himself. While struggling financially. Smdh. And she's older than you. The dynamics are all wrong.
He's beat down and has no support.. being used by a shark for support because he cares.. His life sounds like it's been a yo yo, he doesn't need to be beat up anymore, he needs a plan to get out
Dylan is cooked. This is why we say , don’t date single mothers. It’s not your job to help them cause it didn’t work out with their child’s father. Now he put a baby in her, and he’s stuck with her. Just know if you leave , she will put you on child support and she’ll more than likely , alienate you from your daughter. Like she did to her prior man, before she met you. It’s a sad sad case
He's 24 now, so he was probably 22 when he got involved with this single mom. Young and dumb. He tried to be the noble 'Captain Save a Ho' to an older single mom. She probably got pregnant on purpose and told him oops it was an accident.
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I could tell 45 seconds into this call that this guy is an absolute doormat. You gotta be stronger than that my friend.
Shes 30 he's 24 sounds like shes been preying on him since he was young. He needs to take his daughter and run.
Simpin’ ain’t easy
But it's necessary. Lol 😂 Remember that song?
and not cheap either...
@billykotsos4642 Not the way I do it. Compliments are free unless you talk to Instathots. They want you to pay them just to talk to them and I say fuck you girl. Bye. Lol 😂
I empathize with the guy. It must be really hard to be 24, no family around, daughter to care for, and your girl cheats. But he’s got to find the strength to leave.
Great comment.
Free yourself my man - you'll be alright
He cares about his daughter.
No he cares more about keeping her trust me bro only cares about making excuses to stay with her@@herbiehusker1889
@@herbiehusker1889 yeah but he doesn’t care about himself. If she cheated on him, she doesn’t care about his daughter.
There are a lot of men like this and they are always ripe for the taking. He has zero self esteem and she knows and she will continue cheating on him until she finds a better replacement
🙏 Truth.
pretty much
Find a richer replacement who will be as much a simp and cuck as this guy.
“Did it mess up brain function?” 😂😂😂 I know that’s right, Dave lol!
😂😂😂
"...or were you always like this?"
Lol poor guy needs to wake up quick
😂😂😂
Had the same thoughts 😂😂😂😂
Savage lol
Sounds like he's being abused and doesn't want to say it
I don't think he knows what narcissistic abuse is...he needs to check out Dr Ramini
This man needs to respect HIMSELF!!!
its nice to hear a woman telling a man to respect himself . youre right he needs some higher self esteem
Get an attorney and a paternity test dude! Chances are the child isn’t yours.
Even if it's not his, the state will force him to support the child. He's considered a "father figure."
@@untouchable360x unfortunately that may be the case, but it depends on the state laws where he is at
The problem is if you signed the birth certificate he's stuck
@@dreadpiratewestley8599 Tell that to the judge. He'll laugh your ass out of court.
@@untouchable360x again, it depends on the state.
Step son? Bro you not marrrrrrried!!
YUSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
😂
This is over. No need for premarital counseling. You don’t marry someone that cheated on you. He needs to man up, let her go, thank God they not married, and go find someone else. Brothers yo.. really understand this… once a woman cheats that relationship is over.
Uh oh, Dave called him "hun", certified mess 😔
lol subtle shots fired with that hun
When Dave calls a grown man HUN it speaks volumes every single time 😂😂
You know your cooked when Dave calls you hun or honey 😂
I took it as a term of sympathy, or something. But yeah my ears did perk when I heard that too.
Yes. When Dave calls a man hun, you know the caller got f'd over.
He hooked up with a *single mother that's 6 years older than him.* WTF man???
I'd like to think there were people in his life that were telling him that he was on the wrong path.
Facts. This is a sad story. Young men need to hear this and let single moms be
@@PoyTroynothing wrong with single moms. Don't date someone with a large age gap.
@@pinkpugginzeverything wrong raising another dudes kid. Yeh she's mentally unstable
@@pinkpugginz Nothing wrong with age gaps (older guy/younger woman). Don't date single moms.
He is really stupid.
She's cheating. LEAVE.
If she doesn’t see you as her best option, end the relationship
So he's a SIMP
Mean
True
What’s a simp?
@@joycrowthers7563From what I gather a simp is a person (usually a man) that is desperate for affection or attention from someone else (usually a woman). I googled it because I don't really know what it means either.
Bro, he’s 24 messing with a 30 yo
You can hear the lack of confidence in his voice. She doesn't respect him, which is why she is doing what she's doing. Have some self-respect and walk away.
Yes, she loves his resources, not him.
She hasn’t respected him in a looonnnggg time (and neither has he respected himself in a long time)
Almost 30?! Poor baby... 😅😅😅she's playing you
When my ex cheated on me, I left her immediately and never looked back. I was always grateful not to have married her and/or having a kid with her.
I will never understand anyone defending a cheater, sorry. If someone broke your trust like that, how can you trust this person ever again? And why would you? Also.. She is older than him, she SHOULD know better, but it seems she, sry, likes to FAFO.
Same here same day caught next day i had a uhaul pulled up and i moved out and on. Trust me it's not easy but you just gotta rip the bandaid and move on
@Slasher4446-q3e no there's more to life i promise don't ever be afraid to be alone it gets better
Single mother 6 years older than you, what could go wrong?
My wife had an affair after 9 years, 2 weeks later met the most amazing woman. Beautiful and successful! I couldn’t be happier now
2 weeks after divorce
She ganna cheat too
@@HOLDXSTEEL hater
@@alluringbliss4165 no matter what happens with me and my gf at least she’s way hotter and I’ve gotten over my ex 😁 getting under someone is how you move on
@@GunGlutton it’s true
Can’t believe this guy called. Such doormat.
The caller needs to grow a pair, stop being a spineless doormat, dump his girlfriend, and secure custody of his child.
Leaving her will be the best decision this man ever makes.
He needs to get out now while he still can. My brother went through something kind of similar. Now he's stuck with a bum of a wife who won't work, won't cook, won't take care of the house, and barely takes care of the kids. But she has no problem spending all the money. He's so exhausted and beaten down now after more than 10 years of this crap that he's basically thrown up a white flag.
Various family members have offered to help him if he ever chooses to get out, but I don't think he will. He has no willpower anymore.
This young man sounds so defeated and like he's lacking confidence. I hope he can find the inner strength to end this thing and make a better life for himself and his child (if it's even his). Men, women, whoever, you don't have to put up with someone who is unfaithful and/or a financial liability.
There are more guys like this than you think.
There are a lot of guys out there who are simps and don't know it yet.
These guys are invisible, and once a decent looking female with a baby gives him some box.... he gets emotionally attached so quick and in a situation like this before he knows it.
He wants to leave her alone, but can't because his heart won't let him.
A lot of these guys are your friends.
You’re right. I see it all the time. Have a co worker currently going through this now. I’m telling him get out before you put a baby in her and get stuck
Oh yea. The _thirst is real_ out there.
💯
A co-worker of mine over 10yrs ago. Married & divorced this woman 2x!
After learning about this, the drama never stopped. 1 day at work he gets a call & has to leave work asap for a couple days. His wife took off to FL and he had to go get her. She went on a bender & hooked back up with a different ex husband🤯
Dude was straight up ridiculous.
You have to get a game plan and leave. This is why Dave says not to play house...makes it difficult to untangle things.
Saw the title & had to click 😂😂
It's over for this guy
As polite as I can be, both the caller and the woman in question are acting like children. Fortunately, it seems like the guy calling in is starting to wise up. I hope he can gain the courage to leave her and gain some respect for himself. This woman clearly is headed down a dark path and is dragging him towards a lifetime of suffering. Praying for you man.
🎶 Mamas don't let your sons grow up to Simpboys 🎶. This is the grand result of a boy growing up without his father influencing him. Its soooo critical for mothers to let good, peaceable Dads to have full access to their sons.
So, we are going to drive-by Dave being a diver like we are going through a Burger King drive-thru 🤣🤣🤣
Maybe that’s why he started cutting back on the 🍩 awhile back lol
I cackled at that!
Seriously, what kind of call is this? He should've called Dr. John on his show.
You drove by "She's cheating on me" like You went through the drive-thru at Burger King. 😅
That really sucks, people who haven't been through something like this won't understand
Yea its sounds terrible.
Yeah I empathize with the guy. Everyone in the comments is going to flame him, probably deserved, but still when you’re in that spot it’s really hard. I got cheated on around his age and fortunately I found the strength to take my life in a better direction.
@@12VDHuey exactly. I been through this minus the cheating part. Just wanted nothing todo with the mother of my child. And because you have a child together is hard to part ties. Luckily I got out. But I’m paying for it lol
He's in the I dont love myself stage yet he will grow out of it quickly
She is looking for someone and will leave you as soon as she found that person.
Put yourself first… you don’t need that crap; good chance she’ll cheat again too. Leave her, take your time, and find the right woman.
Dylan, you are codependent and need to get counseling. She doesn't respect you or herself. Her cheating is not your fault, it is HER fault. You deserve better and that starts with your self esteem and self worth. I know it seems hard to you, but you need to walk away and get your self respect back.
Be careful who you have children with! He needs an attorney and a paternity test….
Dave dropping that hun like it’s no thang. 😂
So basically she preyed on younger, dumber guy to have a baby with him and lock him in to care for her other kid too 😅She’s a tricky one and he was RIPE
One of my favourite quotes is "The givers need to set boundaries as the takers sure as hell won't!".
This guy is broken, probably his first time. He will be fine.
When you do things out of order...
So get married, have a kid, then get cheated on instead?
"I am a very forgiving man and I can forgive practically everything. The only thing that I cannot forgive is betrayal." Vladimir Putin
The idiot you are citing here, betrayed his whole country! He is a murderer and terrorist who is doing genocide in Ukraine!
There's a possibility his daughter isn't actually his. I hope he takes the daughter though and move back to Texas near his parents so the child will have loving grandparents and stop making babies out of wedlock.
Although I heard the word "daughter", I didn't hear the word "married". That's the problem.
Dave: That’s not a financial issue…that’s a simping issue
@@macklonrobinson8269 it’s turned into the Jerry springer of finances
What a mess but in his defense he's only 24. Hope he wakes up and finds his self worth.
He should have kept his pee-pee in his pants.
Us men absolutely have to have higher standards than this.
Take your L and leave today. Don't justify it to her, dont apologize, don't do it again.
aside from money behaviors, this show should serve as a cautionary tale for not having pre-marital sex. geez louise.
😳 A 30+ broke cheating single mom, and he dont know what to do!?!?
😂 This is a red pills podcasters wet dream!
Nawl, but all jokes aside. I cant tell he is hurt and still in love. My advice: Offer to keep your daughter with you as the full time parent and leave her with her son. That will relieve a-lot of her financial stress.
But leave the relationship regardless
Sounds like he's the woman and she's the man in this situation
On god!!
Why can’t he just dump her??? What is so hard about that for him?
@@Piccolo_Re cause they share a child together now and he knows if he does. She run him through the court system. Child support and he’ll rarely get to see his daughter.
Bingo!! It’s cheaper to keep her!
Careful calling him 'hun' he might reciprocate.
Um.....the name is 'Bye Bye' 👋
People seem to be getting dave Ramsey confused with Jerry springer
Aint no way bro wants to take care of another mans child and a cheating girlfriend
Some men can’t help themselves
This is why you don't get your heart involved with these women (especially when it's a chick like in this story).
Your heart will dominate your mind and you'll end up like this guy.
She's older and has a kid already, dude respect yourself!
Listening to this while literally at Burger King drive thru
Poor guy. Don’t know his power
Do a paternity test, if she's cheating that kid may not be yours. Also, please respect yourself enough to not stay with her, you can do so much better! And definitely don't marry her, LEAVE!! Don't stay with someone who blatantly disrespected you. She'll probably do it again. Get out now.
Exactly! She will because she can..
You get what you tolerate..
This is a lost cause. A) Older women will NEVER listen to younger men unless they clearly are the breadwinners and act as such. 2) Two Baby daddies... That is UNLEARNABLE Behavior. Run.
Brotha. If your reading this. "When" you leave her it'll feel so much better in a week. Once your settled again you'll be like oh shit. Where's all that stress gone. Your saving and you have a kid/best friend. What else do you need.
Get a paternity test, and if it’s your child, file for custody BEFORE she takes you to court for child support. So she will be the one with visitation, or at least you could hopefully get 50/50 custody. This woman does not respect you, as you have co-signed on her unacceptable behavior and are co-dependent bc you’re too afraid to leave her. Your resources is what she loves, not you. Be well, Brother!
let this woman go! Pay child support on your daughter, but let her go. Do not pay her bills. Let her go move on. This is a crazy mess. She's already had one relationship and you're the second and she's cheating on you so go move on with your life, and let her go
My man needs a wake up call, 😢😢
if the partner cheated man or woman leave them
I wanna hear Tyrone's side of the story
This call hurt my brain.
5:27 “and where’s your family, hun?”
Bad girlfriend = ex-girlfriend. Calller-please don't be an idiot. You can't fix this.
Simpin aint easy
to the caller:
I hope you get to read this
I speak from experience
Do not give this woman another chance
You will never trust her again, and she will never believe theres not more chances
Its over between you, whether you want to believe it or not
Try to get custody of your daughter, unless you want to never see your child, have her raised by her cheating mother and some step dad
Even if shes does get custody, paying child support is nothing compared to the cost of staying with her
The only reason to consider paying that price is for your daughter. And honestly, baring some true come to Jesus moment for her, your daughter is better off without her
😂😂😂 at John’s reaction.
plenty of men going through this because they know they wont be believed!! its not that they dont have respect its that they literally have nowhere to turn
Kamala voter
Messed up call, get it together people!
He needs to get a paternity test.
Exactly. "Go about what?" Anyway, he seems to want to stay for the baby even though he says it is for her.
Did Dave and John get dressed out of the same closet 😂
5:28bthats why she got a man 6 yrs younger! She wants to run the relationship and cheat! She is in her 30s! Way too old to be calling herself a “girl”friend. WTH 🤦🏾♀️
This guy sounds 12. Emotionally as well as audibly. Time to grow up, kick her to the curb and get some self respect and self esteem!
Run man. Take your daughter and run
@@AlphaShadowSphere if only it was that easy 😂
Guy should make sure that is his daughter !
DING DING that’s a bingo
I don't have social media so I am just here to annoint Dave the "Kingmaker".
Make her pinky promise to not cheat again, that surely will stop her! Just leave her bro, you and your daughter deserve a better woman in your lives.
Damn....already messed up dealing with a single mother with a bastard child in tow. Only to impregnate said single mother himself. While struggling financially. Smdh. And she's older than you. The dynamics are all wrong.
This much dependancy is a disease
Too bad Dave hopped in on this one. I really thought he would see that Delony is much better equipped to handle this one.
Delony is terrible at relationships advice
Damn they really beat around the bush with this one … he needed a strong hand here .. got off easy
He's beat down and has no support.. being used by a shark for support because he cares.. His life sounds like it's been a yo yo, he doesn't need to be beat up anymore, he needs a plan to get out
Leave her like the house is on fire. Bet she'll likely cheat again.
He should get a DNA test on the daughter.
Never go back to a cheater! NEVER, NEVER, NEVVVVVEEEEEERRRRRR!
Dylan is cooked. This is why we say , don’t date single mothers. It’s not your job to help them cause it didn’t work out with their child’s father. Now he put a baby in her, and he’s stuck with her. Just know if you leave , she will put you on child support and she’ll more than likely , alienate you from your daughter. Like she did to her prior man, before she met you. It’s a sad sad case
He's 24 now, so he was probably 22 when he got involved with this single mom. Young and dumb. He tried to be the noble 'Captain Save a Ho' to an older single mom. She probably got pregnant on purpose and told him oops it was an accident.
LEAVE HER IMMEDIATELY
he so soft he called dave ramsey about her n she cheating so fk her as a man you gotta be willing to walk away from everything over respect
Step son but not married?
He needs to call a Dr and have him or her write a Rx for 2 testicles.
What a doormat. He deserves to be cheated on for not leaving.