That is just individuals with unhealthy attachment styles. You trigger inner wounds from childhood, manipulating their psyche, making them have unsettling feelings, and when they get the reward comfort, they feel at ease, so they start to form a memory and it becomes a learned behavior to seek the rewards. It's obsessive and not unhealthy, leading to frustration.
the term is called authenticity… it’s literally the highest of all vibrations on the emotions we express and attracts every naturally occurring experience we should have by being our most true self.
اختصار للفيديو 1-سوي مجهود قليل اكثر شيء يساعد 2-كوني الى طبيعتك ، كوني مرحة والبساطة ساحرة في عين الرجل اكثر من التظاهر بالثقة و القوة ، يقعون في الحب من الاشياء الصغيرة 3- المعايير القوية / لازم تعرف من انت وايش تتوقعي من شريكك و ايش نظرتك لنفسك؟ لا تبالغي في وضع معايير عالية ولا تنزلي من معاييرك للاسفل ، خليك واقعية و اعرفي انتي مين و ايش يناسبك وايش تحبي و ايش المرفوض والمقبول بالنسبه لك عشان ما تظلمي نفسك ولا تنزل ثقتك لمن تحطي معايير عالية اويحصل شيء سيئ ، لازم تكون واقعية بنظرتك لنفسك / مثال لو رجل عمره 40 ماعندو وظيفة يبغى يواعد بنت مودل عمرها 23 هذا غلط لانه ما شاف نفسه فلازم نكون واقعيين للمعاير الي نختارها وكيف نختارها 4- لا يجب عليك انت تكوني اكثر مما انتي ، مو لازم تظهري جسمك عشان يحبك الرجل ،مو لازم تكوني خاضعة عشان يحبك ( لا ن البعض يقنعك اذا سويتي الشيء هذا راح احبك اكثر ) هذا خطأ مو كدا الرجل يحب ، مو لازم تسمعي لتلاعبهم فيك عشان يحبونك اكثر ، هذا حب مزيف
It's like the home shopping networks. They show the product, talk about it. And you start finding it attractive and want to buy it Nobody is forcing you to buy, nobody is shoving the product on you. You just fall in love with the product.
I am a 42 years old attractive and fit also professional and I dated a CEO who isn’t ugly but you can say that I am better looking but he left me to date a remarkably less attractive woman also older
Its not that you were attractive, maybe you didn’t have “goddess energy”. Men fall in love with women who have goddess energy which is something that other woman he left you for had. What the other woman lacked in looks, she made up in goddess energy.
@@SchoolOfUnlearning3 i will create a playlist talking about goddess energy cuz other people in the comments were also asking me about it. And i will let u know. I just have to put all the videos together. Basically, having goddess energy is going to lock a man in to where he’s going to worship you and do everything for you, its not your beauty, its your energy. 👍
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
i can't agree. you always be the last one to realistically assess your own level of actractiveness. and from what I've learned how you perceive yourself is more about your self-esteem rooted in the childhood than any 'objective' facts. i can give my example: i never fully enjoyed my type of beauty but I can say a lot of people think of the way I look very highly, based on reactions but also what I used to hear. if someone pick it up out loud i always answer: what matters is if you like yourself, what do I have from suppsedly looking attractive? nothing because myself I don't enjoy my type of look. what is interesting my dad had the same attitude to his look - he never liked his look, to the point he unliked watch himself on the photos. it is inner conviction, you can't do much about it. and with interations with men the most important is what energy you exude. some men would catch that you don't value your look at the very beggining and then it depends on their personality if they gonna use it against you.
I was the same like you in my 20’s and now in my 30’s love every single photo even the ones I thought ugly as beautiful ones! Now I want to consciousness accept and enjoy my 30’s embracing my beauty!
If im not trying...im not interested..i dont do manipulation..old days 2 people just showed up for each other and showed each other they wanted them. Now days its all game playing and strategies !
Men fall in love with someone who leaves them alone more than they want them to. 😊
Well said! I will use that in my channel. Thank you 🙏🏽
That is just individuals with unhealthy attachment styles. You trigger inner wounds from childhood, manipulating their psyche, making them have unsettling feelings, and when they get the reward comfort, they feel at ease, so they start to form a memory and it becomes a learned behavior to seek the rewards. It's obsessive and not unhealthy, leading to frustration.
@ wow! You are spot on!! May h ask what’s your favorite source of info on attachment types?
Women ABSOLUTELY fall in love with a man's vulnerable side....and wish men would show it more.
It pissed me off to see my man cry.
@vrrr.j that's quite unfortunate. And literally the reason most men refuse to expose their emotions.
@@vrrr.jwe re talking about openness to approach women laugh with them and be intimate.
Be exactly as your are - that is the best advice.
the term is called authenticity… it’s literally the highest of all vibrations on the emotions we express and attracts every naturally occurring experience we should have by being our most true self.
Matching that Energy Is power and not trying to control the outcome.
اختصار للفيديو
1-سوي مجهود قليل اكثر شيء يساعد
2-كوني الى طبيعتك ، كوني مرحة والبساطة ساحرة في عين الرجل اكثر من التظاهر بالثقة و القوة ، يقعون في الحب من الاشياء الصغيرة
3- المعايير القوية / لازم تعرف من انت وايش تتوقعي من شريكك و ايش نظرتك لنفسك؟ لا تبالغي في وضع معايير عالية ولا تنزلي من معاييرك للاسفل ، خليك واقعية و اعرفي انتي مين و ايش يناسبك وايش تحبي و ايش المرفوض والمقبول بالنسبه لك عشان ما تظلمي نفسك ولا تنزل ثقتك لمن تحطي معايير عالية اويحصل شيء سيئ ، لازم تكون واقعية بنظرتك لنفسك / مثال لو رجل عمره 40 ماعندو وظيفة يبغى يواعد بنت مودل عمرها 23 هذا غلط لانه ما شاف نفسه فلازم نكون واقعيين للمعاير الي نختارها وكيف نختارها
4- لا يجب عليك انت تكوني اكثر مما انتي ، مو لازم تظهري جسمك عشان يحبك الرجل ،مو لازم تكوني خاضعة عشان يحبك ( لا ن البعض يقنعك اذا سويتي الشيء هذا راح احبك اكثر ) هذا خطأ مو كدا الرجل يحب ، مو لازم تسمعي لتلاعبهم فيك عشان يحبونك اكثر ، هذا حب مزيف
I 100% think Moo Deng watches Father Alex and uses Moo Deng strategies
Like Moo Deng I am also shaped like a hippo and people love me!
😂😂😂
Me too!! 😂 @@fembot521
I’d have to say you give the best advice on TH-cam ❤ you’re so realistic and in touch and why I love listening to you :)
Father Alex, I think I just had an epiphany! All the way from South Africa, you're great at this! Love your work! ❤
Just be your true self. In time a man will fall in love with you from head to toe.
It's like the home shopping networks. They show the product, talk about it. And you start finding it attractive and want to buy it
Nobody is forcing you to buy, nobody is shoving the product on you. You just fall in love with the product.
I am a 42 years old attractive and fit also professional and I dated a CEO who isn’t ugly but you can say that I am better looking but he left me to date a remarkably less attractive woman also older
Not surprised
Its not that you were attractive, maybe you didn’t have “goddess energy”. Men fall in love with women who have goddess energy which is something that other woman he left you for had. What the other woman lacked in looks, she made up in goddess energy.
What do you mean by goddess energy mean?
@@luxuryqueen42what is this goddess energy? First time hearing!
@@SchoolOfUnlearning3 i will create a playlist talking about goddess energy cuz other people in the comments were also asking me about it. And i will let u know. I just have to put all the videos together. Basically, having goddess energy is going to lock a man in to where he’s going to worship you and do everything for you, its not your beauty, its your energy. 👍
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
the examples you mention with each point make your view so understandable and simple. Thank you Alex
I see couples in which one person is more attractive than the other alot.
Ok . This makes sense
Amennnn❤best wishes from Istanbul
The facial expression when you were talking about homeless guys who want to date a swedish model 😂😂😂
Lol😂😂😂
What is in the background of father Alex😮
A wall.
Definitely a woman with glasses Eve’s dropping … and yes that’s the intentional spelling
Father Alex!
How can i book a session with uuu
Zelda sound track?
Yeahhh
thx
i can't agree. you always be the last one to realistically assess your own level of actractiveness. and from what I've learned how you perceive yourself is more about your self-esteem rooted in the childhood than any 'objective' facts. i can give my example: i never fully enjoyed my type of beauty but I can say a lot of people think of the way I look very highly, based on reactions but also what I used to hear. if someone pick it up out loud i always answer: what matters is if you like yourself, what do I have from suppsedly looking attractive? nothing because myself I don't enjoy my type of look. what is interesting my dad had the same attitude to his look - he never liked his look, to the point he unliked watch himself on the photos. it is inner conviction, you can't do much about it. and with interations with men the most important is what energy you exude. some men would catch that you don't value your look at the very beggining and then it depends on their personality if they gonna use it against you.
I was the same like you in my 20’s and now in my 30’s love every single photo even the ones I thought ugly as beautiful ones! Now I want to consciousness accept and enjoy my 30’s embracing my beauty!
If im not trying...im not interested..i dont do manipulation..old days 2 people just showed up for each other and showed each other they wanted them. Now days its all game playing and strategies !
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That sounds like 50/50 to me….
But I’m not even gonna continue commenting coz your fanbase is too much.
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I like what you’re saying but that’s not what you used to say or the advice you used to give us 🤔
That sounds like 50/50 to me….
But I’m not even gonna continue commenting coz your fanbase is too much.