Then you're not truly detached. Detachment is the ability to be detached from the outcome, not projecting your inner hopes and dreams and wishes of a person to who, what and where they are. You have to be firm and strong as you are but also realize that life has nuance. And I say this as a woman- Detach from outcomes, let them come and go because if they're the one, you'll KNOW. And it'll be easy to healthily attach, trust... YOU WILL KNOW.
@@Persefani-qu5bm I am interested or then I'll start to lose the initial feeling what I had about them. If the latter phase lasts long enough, I'll also lose rest of the interest. So many like cold people. I'm tired of playing games.
This is sadly true. Only the guys that I neglect, keep chasing me. Ones I like, don't chase until I start to get tired of chasing, they want me more. Once I detach, i really don't care anymore.
Me too, when man starts playing games, detaching, cold and hot, I ask once is there anything wrong you want to tell me, if he says no and keep repeating this crap I am detaching for good.
It’s best to stay detached from men not saying you can’t like them but they keep you around for a lifetime when you’re detached because it’s easier to handle the relationship and there emotions when there no pressure, and they know when your detached because your not bugging them and fussing with them about every little thing … you just don’t care especially if he’s not your husband stay in idgaf mode it will save you the stress
The most toxic thing ever. When women detach, it means they're done. Not oh let's f around and find out. If you "pretend" to detach and move on just to get a man back...that's toxic and pathetic. Not to mention this doesn't work on a smart healed man. They truly detach and move on as well. So all that gets you is a lost potentially good partner.
Stop! No one is pretending! When we detach it’s because that’s who we are! I don’t like clingy! And I also don’t tolerate bs so If I pull away in my own peace it’s because I’m done and I just don’t care and living my life!
This new editing is so refreshing and very interesting seeing some pictures from your private life. Thanks for that. Def way better than the typing vids.
When I was open and communicative, I was a "weirdo" who made people feel that "they weren't sure they could trust me". When I detached, I was a "stuck-up". I am so glad to be out of that toxic work environment--of primarily chismosas. I'm a woman. The less you are known and understood, the more people covet access to you. Even if out of fear. But got to scratch and sniff a hard to access resource, just to have it. They never value and nourish it. People who have a core personality are coveted by the empty yet can stand side by side with other cores without feeling out of place or in the way. It is a rare, healthy social dance to behold between people with self-assured core personalities.
I used to wonder why the guys I wasn't into chased me way harder than the ones I actually liked.💡.....and I would feel a small sense of loss when the ones I wasn't into moved on and stopped chasing me. 😂 12:53
This is too strategic😂😂 just prioritize yourself and they will prioritize you too that’s it that’s all. You always come first, energy never lies. When an emotionally healthy person feels you being too strategic with them they can tell the difference. Been it did it. A lesson will be learned in this lifetime or the next. Just my personal experience blessings to all.
I was thinking during this whole video that you really do your homework and research. Do you have a P.O. Box where I can send a check for various amounts from time to time? I don’t do a lot of electronic stuff.
@MindfulAttraction2.0 Hi. I really got into watching a lot your videos recently. I noticed somewhat recently that you were asking for advice and said your numbers were down. I didn't respond because I had actually been watching your videos and enjoying the content. However, I just noticed something on this video that I liked. I have read Robert Greene's book The 48 Laws of Power and I noticed how you were referring to the book in some of your videos I have seen, but I REALLY liked how you had a video reference which explained the law that you were referring to and allowed the already video ready clip to explain it. It just really caught my attention and integrated well with what you were explaining and I feel the video explaining it was a nice touch than just explaining it yourself. It just kinda simplified it with the written words on the video and the voice over. Love your content.
For God sake please introduce some variety of other important topics which focus on root cause of neediness etc... Only when people fix themselves, they'll be able to apply your strategies. Teach from books more often. You're good at it. No offense.
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 more on : 1) How to "not fall" for someone easily or 2) How to control emotions and not get drowned in them. 3) How to not have an anxious attachment style. 4) How to focus more on developing a meaningful life full of various activities so that you don't feel void inside you. 5) Book reading videos (that u make sometimes in which u explain difficult topics easily) on character development. 6) How to get bodily conscious and be the best version of yourself. 7) How to build healthy and genuine friendships with people (without any ulterior romantic motives bcz not every connection is meant to be romantic). 10) How to improve self image and work on improving self worth (most important bcz I have seen you doing that for yourself over years). These are just some examples.... Take care.
The problem is that when I'm not interested anymore, then I'm done.
I don’t see it as a problem ;) @cherrylane79 life is long, take care
I mean my problem is when I detach I play mind games and they drive themselves crazy
Then you're not truly detached. Detachment is the ability to be detached from the outcome, not projecting your inner hopes and dreams and wishes of a person to who, what and where they are. You have to be firm and strong as you are but also realize that life has nuance. And I say this as a woman- Detach from outcomes, let them come and go because if they're the one, you'll KNOW. And it'll be easy to healthily attach, trust... YOU WILL KNOW.
@@Persefani-qu5bm I am interested or then I'll start to lose the initial feeling what I had about them. If the latter phase lasts long enough, I'll also lose rest of the interest. So many like cold people. I'm tired of playing games.
@@anje30b Haha! The same to you. :)
This is sadly true. Only the guys that I neglect, keep chasing me. Ones I like, don't chase until I start to get tired of chasing, they want me more. Once I detach, i really don't care anymore.
this is called detachment and yes it does make you magnetic….
When I detach...
I D E T A C H..I'm done..done after that. I turn into ice queen.🌪 Catch me when I'm interested and I care.
Same
Same here.
Agree same for me
Me too, when man starts playing games, detaching, cold and hot, I ask once is there anything wrong you want to tell me, if he says no and keep repeating this crap I am detaching for good.
Same
It’s best to stay detached from men not saying you can’t like them but they keep you around for a lifetime when you’re detached because it’s easier to handle the relationship and there emotions when there no pressure, and they know when your detached because your not bugging them and fussing with them about every little thing … you just don’t care especially if he’s not your husband stay in idgaf mode it will save you the stress
I had to learn the lessons. I'm just living for me now. If I meet someone, I meet someone. If not then I focus on more goals.
The most toxic thing ever. When women detach, it means they're done. Not oh let's f around and find out. If you "pretend" to detach and move on just to get a man back...that's toxic and pathetic. Not to mention this doesn't work on a smart healed man. They truly detach and move on as well. So all that gets you is a lost potentially good partner.
Wrong channel babygirl 😂😂😂
@@Solov_d444 oh because you love toxic? And I did not seek this channel out toots. Go bark up someone else's tree.
Well said
I totally agree
Stop! No one is pretending! When we detach it’s because that’s who we are! I don’t like clingy! And I also don’t tolerate bs so If I pull away in my own peace it’s because I’m done and I just don’t care and living my life!
reality check: if he or she left you NEVER go back.
Going down a rabbit hole with this channel, in a good way
I genuinely love this coach’s content . He teaches you to be emotionally stable guys .
Only toxic guys would fall for detachment. Healed guys don't have time for games but will genuinely wish you well.
This new editing is so refreshing and very interesting seeing some pictures from your private life. Thanks for that. Def way better than the typing vids.
Look when I detach is cause I no longer give a damn lol at that point, they can do whatever they want, there's no coming back
I always assumed men were naturally better at this.
They bluff way more than women
Great video! I been watching you for years. The story was a really good example. Things can change in romantic situations. We can control the energy.
i cannot thank you enough. you are everything i needed lately. you have helped me sooooooo much. THANK YOU ❤
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Where to find it?
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Thank you for the recommendation ❤
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I love your story time-it always grabs my attention
Love the editing
When I was open and communicative, I was a "weirdo" who made people feel that "they weren't sure they could trust me". When I detached, I was a "stuck-up". I am so glad to be out of that toxic work environment--of primarily chismosas. I'm a woman.
The less you are known and understood, the more people covet access to you. Even if out of fear. But got to scratch and sniff a hard to access resource, just to have it. They never value and nourish it. People who have a core personality are coveted by the empty yet can stand side by side with other cores without feeling out of place or in the way. It is a rare, healthy social dance to behold between people with self-assured core personalities.
What should one do, if they’ve already shown the guy that he’s very special to them and like them a lot? How to reverse that dynamic.
Pull back stop initiating
I used to wonder why the guys I wasn't into chased me way harder than the ones I actually liked.💡.....and I would feel a small sense of loss when the ones I wasn't into moved on and stopped chasing me. 😂 12:53
I love your new style of making videos 😊😊😊
I love this new set up
I hear the Zelda music 🥹❤️❤️
This literally works.
This is too strategic😂😂 just prioritize yourself and they will prioritize you too that’s it that’s all. You always come first, energy never lies. When an emotionally healthy person feels you being too strategic with them they can tell the difference. Been it did it. A lesson will be learned in this lifetime or the next. Just my personal experience blessings to all.
The problem is if we detach there is no turning back again bcz we 're done loving .
I was thinking during this whole video that you really do your homework and research. Do you have a P.O. Box where I can send a check for various amounts from time to time? I don’t do a lot of electronic stuff.
It also has to do with things like oxytocin testosterone vasopressin hormones
How do i detach i struggle with it cause im sensitive and too attached
The big women meme has me in tears 😂
Good stuff!! ❤
Alright Alex,
I see you with that Zelda medley in the background 😉
Talking about fixation
I’ve been trying to disconnect from someone and having a hard time. Thanks!!
Lolololol “we’re Latinos”
What are those cute drawings ?
the book that changed everything for me was Magnetic Aura from Borlest
0:02 wth 🤣🤣
😅
This is so funny but so true..😂😂
You’re so awesome ❤
Not necessarily
Average cholesterol count 😂
Thank you ❤
Like a boss 😂😂😂❤❤❤
So true Alex 🤣
Average cholesterol count is ceazy lol
💀💀
Does it work if they're entertaining someone else or only when you're both in a relationship?
Does that work with causal situations?
This post 2 thumbs up👍👍
Is the dragon ball gt intro instrumental?
@MindfulAttraction2.0 Hi. I really got into watching a lot your videos recently. I noticed somewhat recently that you were asking for advice and said your numbers were down. I didn't respond because I had actually been watching your videos and enjoying the content. However, I just noticed something on this video that I liked. I have read Robert Greene's book The 48 Laws of Power and I noticed how you were referring to the book in some of your videos I have seen, but I REALLY liked how you had a video reference which explained the law that you were referring to and allowed the already video ready clip to explain it. It just really caught my attention and integrated well with what you were explaining and I feel the video explaining it was a nice touch than just explaining it yourself. It just kinda simplified it with the written words on the video and the voice over. Love your content.
Please tell Father Alex, how to move on genuinely?? Please tell that
This works only with none secure attached men
For God sake please introduce some variety of other important topics which focus on root cause of neediness etc... Only when people fix themselves, they'll be able to apply your strategies. Teach from books more often. You're good at it. No offense.
No, you're totally right. Give me an example
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 more on :
1) How to "not fall" for someone easily or
2) How to control emotions and not get drowned in them.
3) How to not have an anxious attachment style.
4) How to focus more on developing a meaningful life full of various activities so that you don't feel void inside you.
5) Book reading videos (that u make sometimes in which u explain difficult topics easily) on character development.
6) How to get bodily conscious and be the best version of yourself.
7) How to build healthy and genuine friendships with people (without any ulterior romantic motives bcz not every connection is meant to be romantic).
10) How to improve self image and work on improving self worth (most important bcz I have seen you doing that for yourself over years).
These are just some examples.... Take care.
I think it would be interesting to talk about projection
Why can't we just like eachother without the push and pull... why can't we both just chase eachother
💯💯💯💯 facts
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This sounds hella dysfunctional
guys just read ebook magnetic aura from borlest and you'll never need to watch these videos again
Sigh. Spam reported.