Our Love Story | “How I Cheated On My Partner” | Cheating- Stay or Leave? | Ep.3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 มี.ค. 2024
- Hey loves,
This video is in no way encouraging infidelity. As we sit down answering some of your heated questions, do note that we are trying to create awareness and simply share our story.
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Until then, see you next time.
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Mr Dloto is right, there's always a reason just that people are not honest about it. They do not want to talk about it.
I accept your submission however the reason behind cheating is solely on being selfish. We can argue about how someone doesn’t do A,B, C and D but does that justify you to cheat? I’ll leave that there. And that’s the reason cheating does not stop because people are so eager on what the other person did wrong kanti when the perpetrator become accountable about their selfish ways?
You’re right Mrs Dloto, there is no valid reason for cheating, soze ibekho. But I also hear Mr Dlotho. A reason does not have to be valid or justify one’s act, but it is still a reason. Umzekelo one can say they cheated because they were h*rny and were not willing to practice self control masithi umzekelo the partner is out of town. That’s a reason why they acted that way, but is it a valid reason? No and it doesn’t justify your actions because if you’re in a committed relationship, you’re supposed to practice self control PERIOD. But it is still a stupid reason why they did something
love this!!!
thank you so much, our youth needed to hear this
Absolutely Mr Dloto. Thank you Mrs Dloto. well done.
Thank you so much for clarification my heart broke last time I thought it was infedility in marriage am.so relieved love you my favorite ❤
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Yabona wena! Love it ke sana!😉
Camera quality is soo good! I love the aesthetic of this video.
Thanks sis.❤️
Mr Dloto always on point👌👌and Mam'uDloto the beauty 😍♥️....thank you guys for this🙏🙏
Thank you.❤️
Yhoo Mr Dloto you're just a positive person Tata I wish men out there could listen or watch your videos 😊
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️, this was very insightful, I really appreciate you guys. These type of topics have helped me me so much in my relationship and also as a person individually.
This is what we want to witness, nothing else. Thank you sthandwa!❤️
a repeated mistake is not a mistake but a decision
and you are both right about the cheating aspect cause people come with excuses just to cover up their steps cause they got caught
its very true about being in a relationship with someone you grow with also goes back to friendships you can never be in a friendship were you dont grow but rather be in one place
its upon one individual to make their own decision
Ubuhle buka Mrs Dloto ngiyanichazela ❤ ..
Ngiyabonga nkosazana.❤️
So glad you cleared that the cheating happened before marriage. I was actually so disappointed and judgemental. Funny how society is, we judge women easily. I'm one of those sadly, who judge.
A thing called a person is capable of doing anything. Never be quick to judge someone else because you might be in the same position one day.
@TheDlotos true, 100% truth in that. But still, I'm glad it happened before sacred marriage vows. It was part of your growth. We are constantly becoming better versions of ourselves.
Thank you family ❤
For us who 👍 before watching the videos ❤
Thank you my couple for this conversation you made it clear
Yazi my husband has hurt me for so many times but even today I don't the reason to cheat on him at all I literally don't agree with that ..., you can fix a mistake with another mistake
On point Anele.
Sometimes cheating ufuna uku" fit in " nokubawa qha there's nothing to do with other person, I'm glad u tackled this in a positive perspective. Very educational, thank u fam. Love ❤Dloto's🙌
Hay siyabulela nge disclaimer , besendigowa😢❤❤❤
I honestly needed this conversation and I’m definitely having this discussion with my boyfriend and I’ll ask him all these questions that uBhuti Anele asked kumfana ❤. This sit down helped me in a lot of ways sana
There is my daughter’s fav couple 😅
I have not even watched yet,but I’m smiling
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There definitely is a reason someone cheats. The reasons vary from person to person. It does not justify the act and it does not mean a person is not accountable. It's very important to identify your feelings and understand them for reflection.
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WHAT A FRUITFUL CONVERSATION. THANK YOU GUYS❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
We’re glad that you enjoyed.😊
Mamu Dloto xaye passionate sana 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣
I hear Mr Dlotho fully.
There are reasons that drive umntu to a certain behavior. There being a reason does not mean ba umntu akekho accountable. Moreover, it does not mean that the behavior was right.
Eg. I cheated because I felt emotionally neglected. That is the reason I did it. But I'm not saying it was right, I'm just stating what the reason was.
Next, as much as it is critical to analyse and disect the behavior of the person that cheated. It is equally important to also look at the part that the other person might have played. The person that cheated also has an emotional experience and it is valid as well.
The behavior was wrong yes, but their experience and story of what led to it is worthy of being heard and understood.
Not related to this video i just wanted to say it was sooo nice seeing at church izolo 🤭 ohhh what a warm sweet soul love you loads kesana😊❤
It was lovely seeing you too.😊❤️
My favourite people🥰🥰🥰 ohh Thotho umhle sana oko ingathi awudlangokwenza eza prank zakho acaphuke uAnele🤣🤣
Thank you babe.❤️😊
Hyooo qale ngo Commenta sana asonqeni bukela ke Lena sana love u alok kodwa the Dlothos...
Sanibonani ninjani ekhaya ❤
Some people especially women cheat when they meet a guy that they think is better than you, then once they get to know the true colours (i.e., the guy just wanted to hit and run) they come back with so much love 🥶.
Cold hearted. I agree with Aiger , there’s always a reason to cheat no excuse .
The word you where looking for is (atonement) sisiomdala❤
Yes, yes! That’s the word. Exactly!❤️
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love you guys so much❤❤❤❤❤
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Love you guys❤❤❤❤
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Flash and blood did not reveal this to you guys🙌♥️🥰But our FATHER in heaven.. this will help many couples, if they willing to learn from it!!!
I love the last line.🤞🏾❤️
Siyabonga sizwile impela I had to skip ama ads ayalibazisa ngifuna ukulalela mina 😂
Ave, ulwimi lushisa.🤭😅
Thank you so much we learnt a lot
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long time... molwen my role models❤
Hey mommy.😊❤️
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My couple ❤
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The academic in Anele jumped out and couldn't move on without critically unpack his position. 😂
It always comes out in all the videos with discussions. 🤭
I wanted to hear what Anele wanted to say 4:25.
He did make his submission. Did you listen to the whole video without skipping?
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Siyanithanda eThekwini
how did you cheat on ur husband?
In a marriage space, rather pack your bags & go then will talk about you giving up on ur marriage & do what u wanna do far away under any circumstances just to protect ur husband's dignity. But if you still the wife don't allow devil to take ur husband's dignity away. Ngase if kuyasokoleka uzame other methods or uvele unikezele uhamba. That's my view ke bethuna.
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Lulutho Didn’t get the context behind the “reason”😂😂😂
what is it that you should’ve communicated but instead chose to cheat and not communicate about??
If you were to communicate instead of Cheating what were you going to communicate about?
That’s the same reason behind your cheating, siyakuzwa ukuthi people should not cheat but communicate.
But the thing you should communicate about,Is the same thing that leads you to Cheating because you failed to communicate it.
Ukube you communicated it maybe you wouldn’t have cheated and the reason you cheated is because you never communicated what had triggered you or pushed you away
That is what Mr Dloto wanted🥴🥴
What triggered you into thinking about cheating? Simple
If you listened to the video you would know that I understood where he was coming from about his submission. The reason behind cheating is never about being triggered at all. It’s a moment of being selfish and that’s it. Yet, I still stand by saying many have gotten away with the reasoning behind cheating because it’s always to blame the other person instead of being accountable (it’s you the person commits the act that is ill disciplined). Now I’m not sure whether you listened to the whole video without skipping then you would hear and understand what the whole reason why I cheated.
Maybe you were probably waiting for me to say something else but do note cheating has nothing to do with the other person (victim). 🤍
@@TheDlotosmmmh very profound
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"Men change" 😂 Anele watsho wazijonga! 😂
I didn’t even notice.😅
That caught him off guard 😂