who's the "real" mom? | two moms & twins! Q&A

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  • @kharris7247
    @kharris7247 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The part about being supportive to first time parents is so true! You realize after you become a parent how to truly be a helpful friend.

  • @rubytuesdayism
    @rubytuesdayism ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’ll feel like a mom when you hear or see or feel them seeking out you and only you❤️

  • @lauriesharamitaro5891
    @lauriesharamitaro5891 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    FIRST TIME momma…SINGLE…with MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS and TWINS! Mine are 4 years old now 😊. Twinning is definitely by far the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life! You guys are doing great! ❤❤❤

    • @noraMD
      @noraMD ปีที่แล้ว

      You are amazing! Do you slso have some tips as single parent?

    • @lauriesharamitaro5891
      @lauriesharamitaro5891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I try to stay very organized. Find someone to vent to when you’re having a hard day. Allow others to help you. When things are crazy, it’s ok to walk away for a minute. Take some deep breaths and regroup. As my twins went through tough phases I kept the follow quote in my mind at all times…”This too shall pass”. It’s literally tattooed on my arm. I give my babies as much love and attention as I can to make sure they know that there is a strong woman in their life. Don’t sweat the small things. They may eat chicken nuggets every night and watch cartoons, but they are happy and healthy! Bottom line is parenting is hard. If your baby has a full belly and is in one piece at the end of the day, take it as a win!

  • @zkdenner
    @zkdenner ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New mom here, baby girl was born October 2nd 2022 and I completely agree with everything you said! ESPECIALLY the ways to help postpartum.. the best/ most useful gifts were prepared meals or meal delivery gift cards. One less thing to think about 🙌🏼

  • @cariiinen
    @cariiinen ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved hearing about their different personalities!
    It's a great reminder that every baby (and family) is different. And so not to worry too much about all the unsolicited advice we receive as new parents. We know our babies best. I feel I'm the best mom when I simply tune in to what my baby needs.

  • @annikaw3506
    @annikaw3506 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing job with editing Allie! Keep it up! Love both of your content. 😊

  • @elle7856
    @elle7856 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have this idea that having twins would make it a bit easier than having a single when they are older because my sister and I were always together, we always entertained each other instead of needing or wanting anyone else, it's a built in best friend.We were never lonely, and we really did take care of eachother often. Idk if that makes sense? You guys are doing great!

  • @oliviastevensable
    @oliviastevensable ปีที่แล้ว

    You two describe them in such a loving way, it’s so nice. I know that obv makes sense as you’re their moms and you love them but it shows so so much. But also I’m loving this honest outlook of motherhood and how much you’re willing to share! Thank you for your content :) I admire you both!

  • @EIIy
    @EIIy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I haven't even watch the full video but I can say I'm amaze of how you're both managing your content, being so active and making such good content on all platforms, all your animals, 2 babies, and yourselves and your couple! That's so much work, truly impressive 😳
    You both are awesome, I aspire to be a role model one day like you are 😊 Thank you for everything 💕

    • @elle7856
      @elle7856 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Elly, I'm Elle too! :) (pronounced Ellie)

    • @EIIy
      @EIIy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elle7856 Hiii 💚 I have greeted so many other fellow Ellie/Elly/etc on social media before, it's the first time someone did it to me, I'm so moved I don't know why 😭 Thank you, have a great day or night :D

    • @elle7856
      @elle7856 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EIIy You too girl!

  • @kevinward4202
    @kevinward4202 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job on the editing Allie. Also spot on with what you gals find that works for you

  • @deniseschaeffer9544
    @deniseschaeffer9544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I m so proud of u both. I'm sure it's not easy n as they get older it may get harder. You both seemed so laid back as moms n doing a wonderful job raising two wonderful boys. Good luck. Keep up the great job

  • @carolynhall1302
    @carolynhall1302 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish TH-cam had been around when I had my babies, so much helpful advice from both of you so it must be great for new parents

  • @071949
    @071949 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allie/Sam, Y´all seem to be adjusting well to the mommy business. It makes me happy to see you happy.🙂

  • @coasttocoast2011
    @coasttocoast2011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My nephew is nearly 10 months, when my SIL came round for lunch on Sunday she had a nappy, wipes and a clean singlet - we’re in Australia so it’s our summer

  • @ashleymora832
    @ashleymora832 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job with the editing! I hope and pray that all is well with u and ur wonderful family! Take care and God bless! 🙏❤🙏❤

  • @noraMD
    @noraMD ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I sm hoing through IVf and working as surgeon so I had to plan s lot in advance and I am happy to hear it helps! Also I am sure I won’t be happy handing my newborn to others 😂😅

  • @sharongreen2163
    @sharongreen2163 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My twin brothers have never had any similarities, physically or emotionally. They have always had to convince people that they are even related.

  • @Lydt95
    @Lydt95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was the opposite, I wanted someone to come round and just hold the baby so I could clean up. I was just desperate for a break

  • @alistairrae9807
    @alistairrae9807 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are both Amazing Moms Fred and George are very lucky

  • @Lozzie_14
    @Lozzie_14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always love these chatty videos🤗
    Out of interest, when do you feel you’ll start building their immune systems / taking them out or to classes? ❤

  • @amp-iv6tu
    @amp-iv6tu ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an old video so not sure if you'll see this, but when you say "talk through future scenarios and have a plan" - what kind of scenarios are you referring to? My wife and I are FINALLY expecting in April and we're trying to prepare :)

  • @DorisWalsh-n3j
    @DorisWalsh-n3j ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting 🤔 video 📷📸 i am a fraternal twin with a sister i was a premie born 25 wks early

  • @katiegabberdeen
    @katiegabberdeen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is twins in my family and you would not think that they are/was twins. They was that different they didn't actually know they was twins till they was adults (their mum died during child birth with them and they was separated and put to live with "spinster" aunts. That what was done in the late 30z early 40s) My mind was blown when I was told about it all

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Allie and Sam good morning happy Wednesday morning and I hope you all having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter

  • @salrodriguesilarsal9473
    @salrodriguesilarsal9473 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Both of you are the moms

  • @ShootingStarASMR
    @ShootingStarASMR ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought you wouldn’t be sharing their names? ❤

  • @teenytinysky130
    @teenytinysky130 ปีที่แล้ว

    So are Fred and George stand in names for the channel?

  • @nevaehsmith3960
    @nevaehsmith3960 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    my twin passed away when I was born we were born 23 weeks Just-station it has been sad because it is going to be 15 years now since she has been gone

    • @aliciadaniellewhitlock4853
      @aliciadaniellewhitlock4853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gestation. Not Just-station.

    • @nevaehsmith3960
      @nevaehsmith3960 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aliciadaniellewhitlock4853 okay

    • @nevaehsmith3960
      @nevaehsmith3960 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aliciadaniellewhitlock4853 I really don't care

    • @meluvfriends
      @meluvfriends ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@aliciadaniellewhitlock4853 I think we all knew what she meant. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful twin Nevaeh ❤

    • @staceymarshall2711
      @staceymarshall2711 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aliciadaniellewhitlock4853 ffs don't think that was the time for the grammar police! Secondly someone disclosed something personal and you felt the need for correction! Yes we are all judging your lack of emotion.. Did noone hug you as a child?

  • @cheapthriftymom7284
    @cheapthriftymom7284 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you going to share their actual names? ❤

  • @kharris7247
    @kharris7247 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fred’s temperament sounds just like my daughter!

  • @davidkey9940
    @davidkey9940 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi how are you guys

  • @greymoore86
    @greymoore86 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    those sweaters are so cute. i want for me with my name lmao

  • @warrenmurphy9620
    @warrenmurphy9620 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi

  • @emg7717
    @emg7717 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its funny how u say they are nothing alike, but my twins are identical and are the same way. Waaaay different personalities but it could be normal in twins lol

  • @wendyfilice7101
    @wendyfilice7101 ปีที่แล้ว

    It definitely takes a bit for Mom to feel real. But soon it will

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜💜

  • @namasthechicha123
    @namasthechicha123 ปีที่แล้ว

    cute

  • @dylanlyfield5071
    @dylanlyfield5071 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can use girls shoulder bump with eachother

  • @matiascarlosdasilva3023
    @matiascarlosdasilva3023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nantes tickling