@kisms8590 He's saying some people need supervision. Beautiful women giving a man attention like he's never experienced is hard for some men to deal with.
These guys never learn. I have been to Thailand 5 times.The first lesson is to avoid the girlie bars like the plague, you are going to get ripped of.Also avoid heavily tourist areas like Puket; I only went because of the fantastic diving,the food and the culture.I did find a nice Thai lady but she wasn't a bar girl and apart from a lunch or a dinner,didn't cost me a penny.
Actually there is absolutely nothing wrong with going to the bars if that’s what you are into. And the truth is that very few of the people who do go to the bars ever get scammed. This is because the huge majority of them are just going to these places to have some drinks and enjoy some conversation with both other westerners and with the girls. Furthermore most of the ones who actually take the girls out are just looking for sex and are not going to fall in love with one of them. And of course the bars girls can size you up pretty quickly and they know who they can take advantage of and who they cant. I have been visiting Thailand for over 30 years now and spend several years living there and although I got burnt out on the bar scene very early on there are plenty of people who still enjoy that scene. By the way, I have never been scammed in Thailand or anywhere else, not even back when I was frequenting the bars. And of course it is not true that all bar girls are scammers. I used to know a lot of bar girls who were really good people and some of these even got married to great guys. That being said, if you are going to Thailand to find a serious relationship you obviously do not want to be looking in the bars. Lastly, there is no reason to avoid Phuket simply because there are a lot of tourist there in the wintertime. There are a ton or tourist in Hawaii too but that is no reason to avoid it. And if you are like me and you loving freediving on the reef at Kata Beach or other nice beaches there you are not going to see anything but fish and coral out there, not other people. Anyway you seem to think that Patong is Phuket - its not.
Ha ha ha....you'r a hero....I've been to Thailand dozens of times......I taught at Khon Kaen University for 18 months and sure I met some really decent Thai people....my colleagues who opted for a romantic journey with their Thai colleagues or students were almost always burned/ripped off or worse .....There are certainly exceptions but they are few and far between.....Go to Thailand for fun but always keep an eye open and sure there are the very occasional success stories but there are a hell of a lot stung foreigners.....
Slam. Good job. I've lived overseas for years & I have seen a lot of girls scams. I have never seen a foreigner get revenge. I promise you rocked her world going to her town in province. Word travels fast, especially a juicy story like that. Asians hate to loose face and man, you stripped her in front of her parents, family & friends. That was beyond humiliating for her. You scored one for all the good guys that got scammed by her - as of course, she had 2 or 3 other guys on the string at same time. Good job. Possible because of honest local law enforcement.
interesting. i my self fell for a vietnamese girl. so charming. soon after i met her we started spending a little time together. the one thing i will say about her was she warned me. she told me i didn't want to know her but i still spent a little time with her. i really fell for her. we became friends and stayed in touch with each other for about 8 years before life separated us. i still think of her til this day. they can be just so damn charming.
*I met my Filipina wife in church when we were teens in Vallejo, Calif. Her dad was US Navy and had brought the family from the Philippines. Married at 18, now 55 years have passed by, and our three kids had grown up, and each owned a company. I could not be happier. Maraming Salamat Po. MABUHAY! Filipinos speak English better than most other foreign countries.*
I love Thailand and the people but. Don't fall in love with bar girls or massage ladies, a big red flag is when they ask for money for family these girls usually have several men sending money. Go there have fun but don't get attached
You want to see Issan? i lived in Non Dingdeang for 6 months, great place, there's a massive dam with loads of restaurants on the shore, well worth a visit
Thank you for sharing this valuable experience which provides a window into the type of people who choose to use their charm and looks to take advantage of others. It's also refreshing to hear how a village of local police with a moral compass and condone this bad behavior came to the aid of a foreigner to find the perpetrator. I wonder if this would have had the same outcome with someone else without a background in the US justice system. Did they see you just as a comrade from another country?
The moral of this story is to never fall in love with a bargirl. Good video and advice for new farangs coming to the land of smiles. Get out into the provinces. Do some research there is plenty of nice ladies out here.❤
Thanks for this story. No better form of revenge than ruining this Thai Bar Girls reputation in her own village. Now whatever new & shiny thing she brings back to her village people there will always think and gossip (subsip ) that she probably attained her jewellery, phone, clothes, etc by cheating an unsuspecting foreigner out of his money...
Congrats to this fella on chasing down the girl and getting some stuff back from the go go bar girl and also rewarding the officers at the end of the story, glad I stayed for the ending and it was the perfect revenge story
Personally, I thought you got off light. The main thing is you had fun with her for over a year. She was doing what most women do, especially working girls like Apple. Sure, she betrayed you, but many men get betrayed by women. It could of ended much worse. I hear horror stories that make this story sound like child's play. Not just working girls, either.
There is more then one kind of girls in Thailand..... The few percentes bar-girls (That have NO VALUE at all in the society and normal living girls which is the most of the girls. Keep those girls apart.............
Wow, I somehow came across your channel and even though it was a very long video I followed it, First let me tell you my story. I came to Thailand in 2000 on a business venture with a US company. The big bosses left me in Thailand, Bangkok, when they left and I stayed for another month. I had actually began to learn Thai language before I even arrived with cassette tapes and books, as I would be setting up a factory in an area of Thailand South of Bangkok. As I followed your story I was able to predict each and every step of the way. I lived in Thailand from 2000 until 2007 when I returned home to the US with my Thai wife and Daughter. I'm glad that things worked out for you. One of the things that I have experienced is that the Go Go girls are usually more attractive than the beer bar girls. Also when you mentioned that she spoke English very well was a red flag.This means she had been working for quite a while. A friend of mine also bought into this washing machine business' as in my time was not really a thing. He also invested in a water purification machine as well.I was also very surprised that the local police were so helpful, in my experience that is not the norm. Well things worked out for you as as for all of us that venture into Thailand, Lesson learned. One thing I was confused by is that the video in your post was from Sukumvit Soi 11. I spent several months there in 2010 living on Soi 11 on a project. You stated your experience was in Phuket. I will save my Phuket story for another time,
Enjoyed the story and chalk it up as a good learning experience. No matter how great bar girls or gogo bar girls ect are just remember they are prostitutes and just enjoy them for what it is. Good luck in your future Thailand bar adventures 👊😎
From this video .. one moral is that we have to be careful and not to trust immediately to any unknown person specially on social media . Otherwise it’s very much risky . But all are not same . Thank you for sharing this kind of video to us . Blessings 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Good story really enjoyed listening to it.. It goes to show what there really like these bar girls liars and scammers.. The guy certainly got his revenge all but not all the money.. I bet there was no laundry business either all scamm photos to show him.. And more kids than she told him. Advice is 3 day rule then go 👌
Great story. I am glad you atleast had fun over and over with her. Some guys spend and dont even have fun. From the many videos i have watched in the past month i have learned 1 fundamental thing. Have ultimate fun while in Thailand and throw away the sim card at the airport when headed back home. I have no issue in having girl or girls in my room and taking good care of them while i am there. But it seems pointless to even keep in touch with a Thai girl after the holiday is over. I will be going on my first ever Thai trip hopefully in 2025. Pattaya sounds like my best choice from what i gather.
Nice told story, but this wasn't so bad at all. There are so many more profound horror stories. You came pretty scarless out off it. Anyways: where you from?? Did I miss this part? Keep up the love for Thailand. It is a very lovely country, with lovely people. And if you into it, I hope you'll find a good lady there in the future
i love your way of telling a story and here you are now with a new subscriber! so let me tell you one thing, as a farang, avoid admitting to a thai girl that you understand or speak her language...at least in the very first days or if it's the first time you meet her met. this behavior will save you from a lot of pitfalls and troubles, believe me!
Brave move to venture off into deep local territory. If she were truly rotten she could would have done some heavy damage. There are people in the jungle who could kill you and disappear back into the jungle.
Geez, what a heartbreaking story ever, I'm so lucky to be with my Malaysian wife who is my best mate. I've just been to Thailand in Bangkok once before the pandemic, It was great, but sth there I didn't like it was quite touristy, probably I went to the wrong place.
It would seem the first thing to expect going to Thai bars is to be scammed. The girls there have a job to get as much money as they can out of Westerner. Traveling in Asia appears to be dicey at best.
I made a mistake back in 1985 by asking my new found short term friend sitting with me at my table how long she had been a go go dancer? I found out real quick that her occupation is an entertainer not a go go dancer as she almost turned the table over on her exit! Ouch! Live and learn.
If you feel Thai people treat you like an ATM just say Dichan Farang Maj ATM or for a guy Pom Farang Maj ATM ... I'm a foreigner not an ATM , I also used Maj Ngeen .. no money When they try to sell you something and your not interested Maj AU (like miauw only with a brake in it) I don't want it... TingTong = Crazy Bababobo = even more crazy !!
You have many fun transactions and decided to get serious that was so wonderful.. you are a loving kind gentleman. Meanwhile a lot of the Thai girls had been robbed from their innocence and been mistreated by so many before they met a honest genuine guy like you she is sooOOOOO lucky!!.. but unfortunately these girls had been damaged beyond the repair constantly living in a poverty loop with no signs of hope/helps or mental health professionals' guidance to heal/ become better. She must be sooOOOOO beautiful even after so many offsprings.. you still fall in love with her beauty and charm. You are a lucky man all and all you have fun and fantastic time together - money well spent. BTW this is only one of a case in the drop of an ocean.. have heard many stories of ladies from Eastern Europe had also fall into a similar situation.. Let it go and be happy man.
This story is amazing LOL for once the guy had his head on his shoulders. Well mostly... The mistake was going back haha I am a married guy so when I go to Thailand it's just for relaxation. I wonder what it'd be like going there horny and lonely. Would I get taken like this? I wonder. I cant believe he found her and the police actually did shit!
i think that was his fault that for keep going back to the same bar he had drama with bar girls just to have a few drinks... at least he learned in the end...
I'm glad you got your revenge on her. To lose face in Thai culture is a very big thing.My girlfriend is Thai and she told me that it's very bad to lose face.You lose all respect from your nearest and dearest but I'm so glad that her days were numbered and great job from the local police.
If I develop a favourite type of bar to have a drink , watch a bit of sport etc , I never get involved with the girls , once you do that , That bar becomes a different scene altogether
I worked in Thailand for 18 months and had a lot of fun in BK and Pattaya but I never fell for any Girls! Perhaps it has to do that I worked in the Hospitality Industry and worked in many countries
To all guys, sometimes you catch feelings. That’s alright. Been to Thailand more than ten times but only twice had this situation. Here’s what you do. If you’re chatting every day and video calling, before you come tell her that she is your number one in and you want to LT her exclusively but you will ST other girls during your trip. This is how I’ve done it and girls respect you a lot more because you’re showing you’re not some heartless monster but also you know how to play the game.
Comparing this story to the ex wife story, he also got younger by about 10 years. They are viewer submitted stories my guy (like it says at the start of each video), not all the same person
Yeah sometimes we think with the wrong head😂 I did Bar Girls in 🇨🇺 Cuba but never believed them.😂 Cause one 1 thing I know, you can get her out of the 🍸 Bar, but you can't get the Bar out of her 😂🎉
good story, you have a big heart.... but are some no no, never ever a bar lady or a gogo.....been in thailand alot have house there but i never been to a go go bar and never will
I've watched a lot of videos about Thailand and Pattaya and it seems like the girls look down on you for being a butterfly, but you're also not supposed to get into a relationship with a bar girl so… Which one are you supposed to follow lol😂😂 meaning you can only ever have one from each bar?
It is easier for you to seek revenge after being scammed as you work in law enforcement and know how the system works. It may not be that easy for the average Joe to do what you did. Good for you! 😀
Take it slow, and ends up on Patong in Phuket Bangla Road, oh lordy?! If you're not experienced in the world and nightlife, and even if you are, its one of the most salacious places on the planet. If youre relatively naive or even experienced with woman... For some reason our Bangkok hotel concierge escorted me and my bestie / travel buddy via car and a pre booked driver to the airport . We had pre booked and paid for everything via our travel agent not really knowing about any of the details other than the event time and company name with address to turn up. So this was one of several unexpected events. Of course the concierge asked us if we were in relationships, and warned that many farang have said they are in committed relationships but cant resist the Thai womans charms. Well yeah theres something to that. Even on high alert and awareness, its easy to make mistakes.
Thanks for telling your story, it will help someone. Personally I don't condone the sx-tourism into poorer countries. I wish it wouldn't be a thing. Also wish western woman could find femininity again and laws change so marriage isnt a crap deal for men.
You pay money to have fun.So be it.Don't expect anything more than that.
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You are absolutely right pal!
Some men should never travel to Thailand alone.
Or at all.
Whys that
@@kisms8590Lots of traps and temptations that can get insatiable types in trouble
@kisms8590 He's saying some people need supervision. Beautiful women giving a man attention like he's never experienced is hard for some men to deal with.
This guy was lucky. He hooked up with a bargirl that wasn't as bad as most,but bad enough. He also got revenge! 👍
I just got through a problem with a freelancer/now bar girl from Bangla rd. These videos are helping me recover lol
These guys never learn. I have been to Thailand 5 times.The first lesson is to avoid the girlie bars like the plague, you are going to get ripped of.Also avoid heavily tourist areas like Puket; I only went because of the fantastic diving,the food and the culture.I did find a nice Thai lady but she wasn't a bar girl and apart from a lunch or a dinner,didn't cost me a penny.
The Philippines is better diving and located in the Coral triangle.
You are right........ My self married 12 years with a nice thailady
Actually there is absolutely nothing wrong with going to the bars if that’s what you are into. And the truth is that very few of the people who do go to the bars ever get scammed. This is because the huge majority of them are just going to these places to have some drinks and enjoy some conversation with both other westerners and with the girls. Furthermore most of the ones who actually take the girls out are just looking for sex and are not going to fall in love with one of them. And of course the bars girls can size you up pretty quickly and they know who they can take advantage of and who they cant. I have been visiting Thailand for over 30 years now and spend several years living there and although I got burnt out on the bar scene very early on there are plenty of people who still enjoy that scene.
By the way, I have never been scammed in Thailand or anywhere else, not even back when I was frequenting the bars. And of course it is not true that all bar girls are scammers. I used to know a lot of bar girls who were really good people and some of these even got married to great guys. That being said, if you are going to Thailand to find a serious relationship you obviously do not want to be looking in the bars.
Lastly, there is no reason to avoid Phuket simply because there are a lot of tourist there in the wintertime. There are a ton or tourist in Hawaii too but that is no reason to avoid it. And if you are like me and you loving freediving on the reef at Kata Beach or other nice beaches there you are not going to see anything but fish and coral out there, not other people. Anyway you seem to think that Patong is Phuket - its not.
Where was the fantastic diving?
Ha ha ha....you'r a hero....I've been to Thailand dozens of times......I taught at Khon Kaen University for 18 months and sure I met some really decent Thai people....my colleagues who opted for a romantic journey with their Thai colleagues or students were almost always burned/ripped off or worse .....There are certainly exceptions but they are few and far between.....Go to Thailand for fun but always keep an eye open and sure there are the very occasional success stories but there are a hell of a lot stung foreigners.....
Slam. Good job. I've lived overseas for years & I have seen a lot of girls scams. I have never seen a foreigner get revenge. I promise you rocked her world going to her town in province. Word travels fast, especially a juicy story like that. Asians hate to loose face and man, you stripped her in front of her parents, family & friends. That was beyond humiliating for her. You scored one for all the good guys that got scammed by her - as of course, she had 2 or 3 other guys on the string at same time. Good job. Possible because of honest local law enforcement.
It’s all about SAVING FACE 😮
interesting. i my self fell for a vietnamese girl. so charming. soon after i met her we started spending a little time together. the one thing i will say about her was she warned me. she told me i didn't want to know her but i still spent a little time with her. i really fell for her. we became friends and stayed in touch with each other for about 8 years before life separated us.
i still think of her til this day. they can be just so damn charming.
So darn beautiful....😘
The bar girl is the butterfly !
*I met my Filipina wife in church when we were teens in Vallejo, Calif. Her dad was US Navy and had brought the family from the Philippines. Married at 18, now 55 years have passed by, and our three kids had grown up, and each owned a company. I could not be happier. Maraming Salamat Po. MABUHAY! Filipinos speak English better than most other foreign countries.*
🇺🇸 My pinay wife is the best! And, she always makes me wear my mabuhay nike's and sunglasses.😆🇵🇭
I hope your out of Vallejo now . Dangerous place! at one time, it was a decent city!
I realised a long time ago that bargirls the world over have one thing in common......not all the lies they tell are true🤣🤣🤣
@palacespot2 Thats most of california now
Big Thumbs Up to the Police that helped you.
Bruh staying faithful to a bar girl is wild 😂
No one says "bruh" in 2024
- pretty true, especially since invention of internet/smart phones. But there was a time - they could be the best. But again, long, long ago.
@kendallevans4079 No one says “no one says” in 2024
@@kendallevans4079 someone just did.
@@kendallevans4079ok bruh
"Up to you" is a great saying. No blame and figuring it out by yourself is valuable.
Thank you for sharing
I'm glad you made it back alive.
I love Thailand and the people but. Don't fall in love with bar girls or massage ladies, a big red flag is when they ask for money for family these girls usually have several men sending money. Go there have fun but don't get attached
This story does have a happy ending. It’s a good experience even though some money was lost. It’s good to know there’s still good people around.
You want to see Issan? i lived in Non Dingdeang for 6 months, great place, there's a massive dam with loads of restaurants on the shore, well worth a visit
Your boldness is off the charts! End good, all good. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing this valuable experience which provides a window into the type of people who choose to use their charm and looks to take advantage of others. It's also refreshing to hear how a village of local police with a moral compass and condone this bad behavior came to the aid of a foreigner to find the perpetrator. I wonder if this would have had the same outcome with someone else without a background in the US justice system. Did they see you just as a comrade from another country?
Great story!!! Very good that you act and clear it up. Myself happy married with my thailady for 12 years....Far from Tourist areas.
you're a very lucky man to survive your trip to the village and come back unharmed to tell the tale, imho.
why? thai villages are not dangerous
clearly u have never been to Thailand
The moral of this story is to never fall in love with a bargirl. Good video and advice for new farangs coming to the land of smiles. Get out into the provinces. Do some research there is plenty of nice ladies out here.❤
Not the land of smiles...but.. the land of lies...that describe better Thailand...
Myby 40 years ago ??
but all these bar girls are from the provinces and the good ones are married so how to do??
@@ross9581 totally agreed,
I had a few bad experiences while visiting Thailand..
Interesting result with the Thai Police. thanks for sharing this mate
The Thai police are always on the lookout for a profitable transaction.
Thanks for this story. No better form of revenge than ruining this Thai Bar Girls reputation in her own village. Now whatever new & shiny thing she brings back to her village people there will always think and gossip (subsip ) that she probably attained her jewellery, phone, clothes, etc by cheating an unsuspecting foreigner out of his money...
it's such a normal thing in thailand though so i wonder if thai people really care about that and ostracize her for it or just resume normally?
What a strange society..
The stories are certainly informative and interesting. But I enjoy the walk about of the video. It's very clean there.
That was an amazing cute story. Thankyou for sharing it with us. 😊😜
Congratulations dude!!! I can relate to your experience somehow. Anyways, you did the right thing!!!!!!!!
Congrats to this fella on chasing down the girl and getting some stuff back from the go go bar girl and also rewarding the officers at the end of the story, glad I stayed for the ending and it was the perfect revenge story
Personally, I thought you got off light. The main thing is you had fun with her for over a year. She was doing what most women do, especially working girls like Apple. Sure, she betrayed you, but many men get betrayed by women. It could of ended much worse. I hear horror stories that make this story sound like child's play. Not just working girls, either.
If you are smart don’t go to the girl’s bar. That’s the worst place to be. I would go sightseeing and enjoy the scenery of Thailand.
I'm surprised the police were actually honest police😮😮😮
Why do you keep going back there ? u know how they are but yet you still dive in !
Clearly this Joe has never been there 😂😂😂 When you know, you’ll know why
There is more then one kind of girls in Thailand..... The few percentes bar-girls (That have NO VALUE at all in the society and normal living girls which is the most of the girls. Keep those girls apart.............
"you know how 'they' are"... Whos "they"?
Go and get your brains banged out by the hottest girl you've ever seen for 80USD, then you'll understand
He should see it the Buddhist way, he helped a mother getting out of vice and going back to her kid and family, doing some genuine work.
Wow, I somehow came across your channel and even though it was a very long video I followed it, First let me tell you my story. I came to Thailand in 2000 on a business venture with a US company. The big bosses left me in Thailand, Bangkok, when they left and I stayed for another month. I had actually began to learn Thai language before I even arrived with cassette tapes and books, as I would be setting up a factory in an area of Thailand South of Bangkok. As I followed your story I was able to predict each and every step of the way. I lived in Thailand from 2000 until 2007 when I returned home to the US with my Thai wife and Daughter. I'm glad that things worked out for you. One of the things that I have experienced is that the Go Go girls are usually more attractive than the beer bar girls. Also when you mentioned that she spoke English very well was a red flag.This means she had been working for quite a while. A friend of mine also bought into this washing machine business' as in my time was not really a thing. He also invested in a water purification machine as well.I was also very surprised that the local police were so helpful, in my experience that is not the norm. Well things worked out for you as as for all of us that venture into Thailand, Lesson learned. One thing I was confused by is that the video in your post was from Sukumvit Soi 11. I spent several months there in 2010 living on Soi 11 on a project. You stated your experience was in Phuket. I will save my Phuket story for another time,
Feel free to send the full long story in and I’ll read it ok talesbeyondhorizons@gmail.con 👍
Enjoyed the story and chalk it up as a good learning experience. No matter how great bar girls or gogo bar girls ect are just remember they are prostitutes and just enjoy them for what it is. Good luck in your future Thailand bar adventures 👊😎
Thanks for the very interesting story, live and learn, your lesson could have been a hell of a lot worse, hope you have more? I subscribed
From this video .. one moral is that we have to be careful and not to trust immediately to any unknown person specially on social media . Otherwise it’s very much risky . But all are not same . Thank you for sharing this kind of video to us . Blessings 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Well said
Immediately ? 3x 6 months between? Damn, how long he have should been waiting? :)
@@TalesBeyondHorizons 😊😇
Great story man!
You live and learn brother. You live and learn.
Good story really enjoyed listening to it.. It goes to show what there really like these bar girls liars and scammers.. The guy certainly got his revenge all but not all the money.. I bet there was no laundry business either all scamm photos to show him.. And more kids than she told him. Advice is 3 day rule then go 👌
Great story. I am glad you atleast had fun over and over with her. Some guys spend and dont even have fun. From the many videos i have watched in the past month i have learned 1 fundamental thing. Have ultimate fun while in Thailand and throw away the sim card at the airport when headed back home. I have no issue in having girl or girls in my room and taking good care of them while i am there. But it seems pointless to even keep in touch with a Thai girl after the holiday is over. I will be going on my first ever Thai trip hopefully in 2025. Pattaya sounds like my best choice from what i gather.
congrats to his guy for his perseverance!
oh good a new story i was about to give up for the week LOL.
Never give up, never!
Listened to some of these stories now and they are so scary, these men are very brave as I could never do what they do
The interesting part is staying faithful to a bar girl !!!!
YEA,THINK WITH YOUR BIG HEAD NOT THE SMALL HEAD
😂😂😂😂 that’s the problem
I'm a simple man, 5am and a new train wreck is posted and I have to watch.
Thanks TBH.
I live in Ubon almost 20 years. Its a paradise. 😊
Thai woman are loyal, loving and will do anything to make you happy just stay away from bar girls .
Well said!
So true
Nice told story, but this wasn't so bad at all. There are so many more profound horror stories. You came pretty scarless out off it. Anyways: where you from?? Did I miss this part? Keep up the love for Thailand. It is a very lovely country, with lovely people. And if you into it, I hope you'll find a good lady there in the future
I heard another Thai scam with a bar girl named Apple. She retired with a lesbian from the bar. I forget the channel.
i love your way of telling a story and here you are now with a new subscriber! so let me tell you one thing, as a farang, avoid admitting to a thai girl that you understand or speak her language...at least in the very first days or if it's the first time you meet her met. this behavior will save you from a lot of pitfalls and troubles, believe me!
Great job!!
Thanks for the interesting love story gone bad. Better luck next time. 🙂🤞
Good story m8
Brave move to venture off into deep local territory. If she were truly rotten she could would have done some heavy damage. There are people in the jungle who could kill you and disappear back into the jungle.
great watch! such a satisfying ending!
Been there, done that and got the T shirt and got married and now divorced. The girls are sooo alluring, so watch out.
Geez, what a heartbreaking story ever, I'm so lucky to be with my Malaysian wife who is my best mate. I've just been to Thailand in Bangkok once before the pandemic, It was great, but sth there I didn't like it was quite touristy, probably I went to the wrong place.
a beautiful story well told! Thank you for sharing
Interesting. Little money for all your fun. She was not able to start a business. She did not know how.
It would seem the first thing to expect going to Thai bars is to be scammed. The girls there have a job to get as much money as they can out of Westerner. Traveling in Asia appears to be dicey at best.
Good on you, great story..........really impressive how you managed yourself.
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I made a mistake back in 1985 by asking my new found short term friend sitting with me at my table how long she had been a go go dancer? I found out real quick that her occupation is an entertainer not a go go dancer as she almost turned the table over on her exit! Ouch! Live and learn.
Congratulations !!!
Thank you for shearing this excellent video with priceless advices.
If you feel Thai people treat you like an ATM just say Dichan Farang Maj ATM or for a guy Pom Farang Maj ATM ... I'm a foreigner not an ATM , I also used Maj Ngeen .. no money When they try to sell you something and your not interested Maj AU (like miauw only with a brake in it) I don't want it... TingTong = Crazy Bababobo = even more crazy !!
You have many fun transactions and decided to get serious that was so wonderful.. you are a loving kind gentleman.
Meanwhile a lot of the Thai girls had been robbed from their innocence and been mistreated by so many before they met a honest genuine guy like you she is sooOOOOO lucky!!.. but unfortunately these girls had been damaged beyond the repair constantly living in a poverty loop with no signs of hope/helps or mental health professionals' guidance to heal/ become better.
She must be sooOOOOO beautiful even after so many offsprings.. you still fall in love with her beauty and charm.
You are a lucky man all and all you have fun and fantastic time together - money well spent.
BTW this is only one of a case in the drop of an ocean.. have heard many stories of ladies from Eastern Europe had also fall into a similar situation..
Let it go and be happy man.
This story is amazing LOL for once the guy had his head on his shoulders. Well mostly... The mistake was going back haha I am a married guy so when I go to Thailand it's just for relaxation. I wonder what it'd be like going there horny and lonely. Would I get taken like this? I wonder. I cant believe he found her and the police actually did shit!
Stay away from slippery places.
Pussay is some powerful shiat
Very interesting.
What was the cost of bar and gogo fines + girls,,, luv ur story,, thanks for ur experience
i think that was his fault that for keep going back to the same bar he had drama with bar girls just to have a few drinks... at least he learned in the end...
I'm glad you got your revenge on her. To lose face in Thai culture is a very big thing.My girlfriend is Thai and she told me that it's very bad to lose face.You lose all respect from your nearest and dearest but I'm so glad that her days were numbered and great job from the local police.
Your first mistake was falling for a bar girl.
Good channel
If I develop a favourite type of bar to have a drink , watch a bit of sport etc , I never get involved with the girls , once you do that ,
That bar becomes a different scene altogether
lol, he got punished for being a butterfly so the bar girls successfully trained him.
Standard Bar girl vs Buffalo behaviour. Nothing new here.
I worked in Thailand for 18 months and had a lot of fun in BK and Pattaya but I never fell for any Girls! Perhaps it has to do that I worked in the Hospitality Industry and worked in many countries
Great..
To all guys, sometimes you catch feelings. That’s alright. Been to Thailand more than ten times but only twice had this situation. Here’s what you do. If you’re chatting every day and video calling, before you come tell her that she is your number one in and you want to LT her exclusively but you will ST other girls during your trip. This is how I’ve done it and girls respect you a lot more because you’re showing you’re not some heartless monster but also you know how to play the game.
Stay away from the bar girls guy. Listen to this advice
once a Whre always a Whre they will take you for everything they can
same o same o nothing new about that especially with Isaan ladies.
You “tested” a girl. She gave herself to you. And you took back money and jewelry. Revenge is never good for the soul.
I watched your vid about your horrible ex wife and now you came back to Thailand again!!! 😅😅😅😅😅
Comparing this story to the ex wife story, he also got younger by about 10 years.
They are viewer submitted stories my guy (like it says at the start of each video), not all the same person
To allow yourself to fall in love with a go-go dancer or bargirl, you have to be prepared to write off your investment, when (if) things turn bad.
Yeah sometimes we think with the wrong head😂 I did Bar Girls in 🇨🇺 Cuba but never believed them.😂 Cause one 1 thing I know, you can get her out of the 🍸 Bar, but you can't get the Bar out of her 😂🎉
It's always about money with Bar girls always, they try everything to get the most out of you, I was surprised you found her and she wasn't married.
They are trained to separate you from your money
First mistake was going to Thailand. You get what you pay for, generally
Omg. It's all like vegas... house always wins
good story, you have a big heart.... but are some no no, never ever a bar lady or a gogo.....been in thailand alot have house there but i never been to a go go bar and never will
She was playing the long game with you.but well done in getting some money back
moral of this story is dont expect anything from them - they cant see a future only the $$$$$$ u have just given them -
I've watched a lot of videos about Thailand and Pattaya and it seems like the girls look down on you for being a butterfly, but you're also not supposed to get into a relationship with a bar girl so… Which one are you supposed to follow lol😂😂 meaning you can only ever have one from each bar?
where are u walking here?
Making thai lose face Infront of family & friends is the biggest revenge anyone could take trust me they scared for life. Well done on that
It is easier for you to seek revenge after being scammed as you work in law enforcement and know how the system works. It may not be that easy for the average Joe to do what you did. Good for you! 😀
Was this Apple from Suzy Wong ?
love yr northern accent.
Take it slow, and ends up on Patong in Phuket Bangla Road, oh lordy?!
If you're not experienced in the world and nightlife, and even if you are, its one of the most salacious places on the planet.
If youre relatively naive or even experienced with woman...
For some reason our Bangkok hotel concierge escorted me and my bestie / travel buddy via car and a pre booked driver to the airport . We had pre booked and paid for everything via our travel agent not really knowing about any of the details other than the event time and company name with address to turn up. So this was one of several unexpected events.
Of course the concierge asked us if we were in relationships, and warned that many farang have said they are in committed relationships but cant resist the Thai womans charms. Well yeah theres something to that. Even on high alert and awareness, its easy to make mistakes.
Thanks for telling your story, it will help someone. Personally I don't condone the sx-tourism into poorer countries. I wish it wouldn't be a thing. Also wish western woman could find femininity again and laws change so marriage isnt a crap deal for men.