I'm surprised OP in the last story didn't also think to check the security cameras, but the fact that he stitched his name on both his wallet and jacket definitely saved him for sure
@@DickQuang the way he said it came out wrong. I mean that the cops and restaurant staff are supposed to watch the camera footage, it's an actual part of the investigation process. So not only did the manager fuck OP over but also the cops.
@@36ydna It shouldn't be. I mean restaurants have had cameras since the 80s so it shouldn't been that long ago. I mean the op didn't specify it was a long time ago
That last story the mother and the teen both need to be put in prison. The guy's life could have been utterly destroyed. A "good Samaritan" could have attacked him. I'm so angry. What an awful awful awful human being those women are.
This is why people have a hard time believing victims of assault because people like that woman thinks that it’s some sort of weapon to use when you don’t get your way.
The problem with the story I have is theanager should have been able to settle it all quickly. Most places, especially McDonald's, have security cameras installed. One look at the cameras and the manager would have been able to see that the jacket had been on op since he showed up at the location.
I want to know is why didn't the manager look at the cameras? All McDonald's have cameras. I hate that women in this situation are automatically believed. Think logically, he would really start to rape a 16 yr old in a crowded McDonald's?
The last story makes me sick to my stomach. Sure, as a female I'm fully aware of the double standard due to my gender, but it still pisses me off to see men get treated like that. No man or woman should fear being treated as guilty till proven innocent just because of the genitalia they're born with!
The biggest problem is the lack of punishment. I mean, someone convicted of sexual assault can get years in prison, but a false accusation just gets a warning basically. There is not much detriment to doing it. Doesn't make sense to me, just up the punishment so the trash of society think twice and then thrice about pulling something like that. I would say, if someone is found guilty of false accusation beyond all reasonable doubt, they should be slapped with the same sentencing the accused would have faced. If you are trying to ruin someone's life, your life should be ruined back when you get caught...
False accusations should get punushed as they make the real victims of sexual assault seem invalid. I am also a woman, have had actual assault happen to me and it boils my blood when people falsely accuse others of smth so serious and then the accuser gets away scott free.
Sadly we as a society can't change these double standards because of the stereotype being nailed into other people's heads due to either a twisted upbringing or because many people from previous generations refuse to let go of these hateful ways and now it's even worse because of today's set standards increasing these ideals
This just tell you how much the world and most people are a hole because some random girl say something bad about you and suddenly the rest of the people believe them even though they saw nothing and ok I know op was a big guy then her but guy can get r to but it a teen girl then no this guy need to punished this lady and her kid Can both go home to hell
Honestly, when the mother starts making up all her own lies, it becomes readily apparent why the daughter is the way she is. The fruit is as rotten as the tree.
@@healingthroughchrist1988 in this case, Give the jacket or face jail time. Do you have any idea how many man is in jail because of these false accusations? Basically luck that officer did ask his side of the story.
@@voinyperkelee If they didn't verbalize it, then I'm not sure how it counts as blackmail. I agree they should face criminal charges. And of course, making false accusations is terrible and can destroy your life. What they did was wrong, but unless the law counts it as blackmail I don't see how it is since no threat was verbalized. They went straight to the false accusation as soon as OP said no.
Youve seen nothing yet if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet, including but not limited to Science-Deniers. Just the same thing that Professor Dave also just did with the 'Discovery Institute', showing how blood-related Atheist-Channel and TH-cam-Channel (and I'd argue even entitled-parent-covering Reddit-TH-camrs) are.
There needs to be harsher punishments for false accusations. I'm sure what they get is a less than slap on the wrist compared to what OP would put through if he were convicted of what they accuse him of. They tried to ruin this guy's life just to steal a jacket.
They should really suffer the same punishment as that they would accuse another of if it is proven that they falsified the claim. That should set them straight and make them think twice before making a false accusation.
@@BrutusAlbion I thought that would be the obvious answer but what if something like that actually happened and there wasn't much evidence the big issue is that it makes accusing someone of something they actually did a risky endeavour because if they aren't proven guilty you could spend years I prison or if somebody genuinely thought someone did something they might be too scared of getting it wrong.
It’s people like this that make *real* victims look like liars. In my area the police just don’t want to fill out paperwork so they literally do nothing. I have three friends who have been attacked yet the r*pist got away with no repercussions. When my friend was giving her report to police he asked her “What were you wearing?” She said she was wearing shorts because it was like 80 F outside. As soon as the word ‘shorts’ left her mouth the cop fucking laughed. And then went on to slut shame her. My blood still boils to this day about it.
@@lebird1559 You have to prove that the person making the accusation was making it up. As in the case of the video, there was clear proof that the accusation was bogus and made up. In the case that it is indeterminate or not possible to prove either way. The case should be considered neutral and neither party can be held accountable since there is no proof. The person even though they are accusing and have no evidence may also not have any evidence against them either. Innocent until guilty remains in effect. This ruling would thus only apply if there is direct evidence that the claim is bogus precisely to safeguard those that make a claim when it has happened to them but are unable to prove it yet there is also no direct proof against them that it is a false claim either.
Story 2: Man, you can smell the desperation coming from the dad. He needs to learn that things are changing and OP is no longer under their roof anymore. Soon, the siblings will be old enough to leave, and maybe THEN the dad will learn.
These delusionals will NEVER learn to be civilized and reasonable human beings. They always have to practically battle for their lives just in the vein hopes that maybe, juuuuuuust maybe, if they scream and whine enough, their self-imposed lie of "always being correct in everything they say or do or think" will somehow magically become true. OP is a Goddamn hero, plain and simple.
Not possible, my parents are the same way, it's impossible for them to comprehend that they're wrong or no longer in power. they get a God complex with their kids that's like "we are your parents, we are your God and you will obey us because we own you"
Nope. Can confirm that he won't. I was the youngest sibling in a situation like this and I am currently no contact with my parents because they still wanted to control my every move.
There's a giant difference between a single parent asking more of the children, especially the older child, after a spouse dies, a disability occurs, or doing extreme poverty. Since the parents are dumping the kids off so they can go and have fun. We know that's not this case. , In the exceptions that I mentioned the appearance are not off having fun.. they're trying their best to give as much free time and fun to their children while sacrificing all chances of fun for themselves. Because that's what parents do.
I had to be my mother's father starting from age 9. She's 70 this year. The only thing she's learned is how to abuse people enough to turn them into minions, and how to keep the law from doing anything. This type of animal (no insult to animals) only gets worse.
The last story makes me so angry. As someone who survived being SA, situations like these make it much harder to be believed. The girl should have been charged for false aligations. To OP I am so sorry.
The third story definitely annoys me. I have a denim jacket that my mom gave that I absolutely love. I have all kinds of enamel pins and pinback buttons on it that I love, and I have plans to sew patches on to it soon. Don't mess with other people's special jackets, please Edit: geez, just finished listening to that whole story, and it just makes me mad. Some people are just human garbage. I can't believe they falsely accused OP like that over a JACKET. More than that, a jacket that was very clearly incredibly important to him.
@@mandalorianhunter1 Because apparently hearing the r-word turns them into the most irrational person ever. I hope OP gives the manager a verbal tongue lashing or sue him for emotional damages.
That last story was intense. Why did no one think to check cameras to prove that he was telling the truth? Because honestly, it's ridiculous to think that had he not had that name on his jacket they would of believed the mother and daughters words over OPs. Grr entitled people suck
Or what about selfies or pictures people have taken of him in that jacket? I'm sure he must have a bunch especially if he wears that jacket all the time.
That's how things are now and days. Some people will cry that word to get someone in trouble and ruin their lives so they can get something out of it. Even with cameras and the patch, cops might incline to believe a victim of sexual assault or rape on such a situation especially when they were detained for it regardless of proof of guilt or innocence. It is sad cause people like this will likely affect individuals who were raped or sexually assaulted and have proof of it. It creates a stigma that leads to lower levels of justice and can negatively affect people.
@@missluciddreams3472 It happens more often than you think. Usually when a girl cries that against a guy, it's guilty until proven innocent. And sometimes, even after the guy is proven innocent, the damage is already done and people still think he's a sex offender, simply because he was accused, even if he wasn't convicted. Hell, it happened to a pretty famous voice actor a couple years ago, and even now some cons refuse to have him there, and some people will refuse to go to cons if he is there, even though he was proven innocent, meanwhile his accusers keep their jobs and get to walk away scott free.
last story evil false rape accuser: "officer he tried to rape me in the middle of mcdonalds and somehow the 20 or so other people in there missed it, he also stole my boyfriends jacket after he raped me and then sat down to eat a sandwich" police officer: "sounds believable" *cuffs OP and takes him to the squad car without taking a statement* OP needs to sue the crap out of the mother and daughter and then make a complaint against the officers, they are terrible at their job and aren't worthy of the badge, you do not assume guilt from an accusation you take the statement of both people for fuck sake.
as a victim of multiple sexual assaults (4 i remember, at least, 3 before the age of 10), accusing someone of it for your own benefit is horrible and disgusting. people who take legitimate, horrific trauma that i don't think i will EVER heal from for? what? a jacket? i have never wanted to wring a person's neck that intensely before (edited only bc i missed a word lsdkjfl)
First Story: Now I know why MIL's children didn’t want to take her in, this woman is hell lol! OP you should have called the police to get her ass kicked of your home.
@@mandalorianhunter1 at that point they would have had no choice but to go the eviction route which could take ages, and if it was happening during Covid, ya good luck on that
Police would do nothing unless there was a physical assault. This is classified as a domestic dispute and therefore a civil case, not a criminal one. Sad, but the way things work in the real world.
in some areas theres actually laws preventing police from removing people from houses as long as there is no outside access to the place...this means squaters will barricade the front and back doors with all windows locked some going as far as replacing original locks with new ones and end up using a "secret" access to inside like an upstairs window...few stories where people had to break in to own home to allow police inside to remove sqauters
@@CoolDude-kc4he no we're all guilty until proven innocent. You'll be healed off to jail and then taken to court, if you don't bail out, where you plead your innocence. Then it's up to the court to decide if you're innocent or not. Tbh for is poor people, even if we're innocent, because we can't afford attorneys (And court appointed attorneys are trash and will only help you "cut a deal"), we are usually still convicted. We have a terrible justice system.
Ugh! That last story pissed me off to where they must wanna be what's called "boy who cried wolf" yet end up getting served cold. Don't accuse someone of rape just because someone refused to give something to you. The damn nerve of teenagers nowadays.
@@avashnea its not feminists buddy. Its entitled people who refuse to have things not go their way. Don't say feminists since the only feminists who do that fit within another category where the "traditional women" type people can and sometimes do also fit in that same category.
That last story makes my blood boil. I still remember the story of Brian Banks. Knowingly falsifying such an accusation should be punishable as if the crime was actually committed.
Youve seen nothing yet if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet, including but not limited to Science-Deniers.
At the point where it took him calling the police for his mum to finally come to her senses and his dad to STILL act like a child, that would have been the "don't contact me again", block all their numbers and socials point for me.
If you're talking about the second story, I don't see why it's necessary. The parents aren't breaking down his door or chasing him down the street, in fact he said they were giving him the silent treatment for months at a time.
@@limiv5272 the restraining order is to keep them a from contacting him it doesn't have to be because of physical fear you can get a restraining order because of psychological abuse which is what this young man has been going throughp it's sometimes called a keep-away order if you're in a different state
@@aimeeprincessofpower I understand that, but the parents aren't harassing him and it sounds like it would be easy to get them to stop contacting him altogether. They go months without speaking.
The last story makes my heart hurt. And the worst part, that mom and daughter probably won’t change their actions because they are already “delusional-entitled”. A false accusation like theirs can ruin people’s lives. Barf.
I had a teacher back in middle school who was accused of assaulting a former student of his (she was 15 at the time of the accusation). He lost his wife, his career, he was excommunicated from his church, and disowned by his parents. He ended up taking his own life about 2 weeks after the accusations and the girl lost it. She admitted that she had lied to get back at him for rejecting her. She kept apologizing and eventually was hospitalized because she had like an emotional breakdown, she eventually had to switch schools as well.
What I’m thinking too is they saw how far ppl were willing to go for their false accusations, seemly meaning they’d probably do it again or have done it before to immediately jump from “can I try the jacket” to “HE TRIED TO R@PE ME!!” This is probably not an isolated incident tbh.
If there's anything I've relearned from parenting is that when you have kids, you're supposed to raise them to become their own person. Not keep them as a slave for your own benefit like some parents do. OP did an amazing job keeping their boundaries. So much respect to OP and I hope they do well in life after their parents failed him.
Youve seen nothing yet if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet, including but not limited to Science-Deniers. Just the same thing that Professor Dave also just did with the 'Discovery Institute', showing how blood-related Atheist-Channel and TH-cam-Channel (and I'd argue even entitled-parent-covering Reddit-TH-camrs) are.
2nd Story: Oh boy, OP's parents spoiled their favorite children (Now teenagers) and now they're living with the consequences. I'm SURE those kids will grow into productive members of society. (sarcasm) Last story just about made me burst a blood vessel. Public false accusations, the police and manager not even bothering to check the cameras, and cuffing OP without hearing their side of the story first. They were SO close towards ruining an innocent person's LIFE ... over a damn jacket.
A story from a friend of a friend from years back. I never met this friend of a friend but from what I was told her grandmother was a master seamstress and actually knitted a waterproof jacket for her (Have no idea how or with what materials) Another girl was jealous and pushed the girl over and kicked her. Then stole the jacket and ran off (they were both around 16). Her friends ran to a pay phone, before mobile/cell phones about the early to mid 90's and called the police. The thief was apprehended and claimed the jacket was hers. Well the friend of a friend then told the cops that her grandmother had stitched her full name under the collar at the back of the coat near the neck. The thief was arrested for assault and theft. When the thief got out of juvenile detention, a year later, she actually went looking for the friend of a friend and tried to stab her. She was then arrested for attempted murder and sent to prison for about 5 years. Never heard of her again.
That last story made me so furious. I'm a woman and I've been a victim of SA the idea that someone would use SA as a clever lie to steal a jacket is the definition of insanity. Burn in Hell Karen 1 and Teen Karen 2. Someday a victim will find the courage to tell others that she has been SA and people will doubt her. Because of you.
The second story about the dad who doesn’t respect his son made me think about something : respect for some people means authority, and for other means basic human rights. So the dad saying that his son doesn’t respect him is his authority and if his son doesn’t respect his authority, he won’t respect him as a human…
The last story is just the sad reality that people will automatically believe women over men. Not the first time I read a story like op. How low can you be to want to destroy a man's life for nothing? Women who falsely acuse men of r-- should go to jail in my opinion.
They absolutely should, and automatically max sentence. I lost my military career over this shit. It is absolutely unacceptable that we treat people as guilty until proven innocent. This stuff ruins lives, even when not convicted.
Of course! I feel like society is braindead, because even in the event that the falsely accused is PUBLICALLY PROVEN ON LIVE TV TO BE INNOCENT, jobs will still refuse to let them in as a hire despite logic dictating the person is innocent. However, if we punish false claims, we have to be careful to separate an actual false claim vs an actual victim who was unlucky enough to be unable to prove their case. Can't go punishing genuine victims on suspicions of lies after all.
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 You only punish people when you have evidence no matter the side. If the accuser does not have evidence, no one is punished, but if there is evidence the accuser is lying, then they should get punished.
That second story with the switch and forced babysitting is exactly the kind of thing that made me choose to move to a different state so my mother couldn't just show up on my doorstep and guilt trip me.
The last story bothers me on SO many levels, for so many reasons, but I think one of the worst things about it is the fact that the OP was stripped of his property and cuffed before any sort of questioning even occurred. A lot of folks here have rightly pointed out that it was incredibly odd that nobody even thought about security cameras, but I think it's a bit alarming to think about how actions were taken before any discussion was to be had. Of course it would be different if anybody was in immediate danger, but that was clearly not the case here, at first glance I feel like most people would view it as a verbal argument. That's not to say that it isn't prudent to believe a victim when they say they have been hurt, but doing that is not the same as blindly handing out punishments or anything before first investigating what is actually the case. The police in this story should have known to speak to eyewitnesses and check camera footage before taking any actions; it feels like they were ready to just throw OP in a cell just because an entitled brat decided to scream rape in the middle of a fast food establishment. That sort of blatant negligence is just one reason why a lot of Americans don't trust our police and justice system.
in regards to believe the victim i'd add ONE thing right off the bat, believe the victim IF there is hard evididence right at the scene (a.k.a. security camera's, eye witnesses etc.) otherwise treat both parties neutral and simly seperate them to get the stories. don't do that and you get those insane 'listen and believe' things where people's life's are annihilatyed like OP was at risk of, over baseless lies
First story: I had a similar case where distant family member will come live with us and basically eat our food, told us to watch his kid for 6 hours and rare cases 8 hours without pay and use our stuff out of the blue without any of us noticing or even asking, and at one point I had a Popeyes chicken sandwich and a few hours later it mysteriously disappeared and I even labeled the bag mine so I know who ate it.
Dad: "Don't let the door hit you on your way out, and don't come back!" Also dad: "Move back in and watch our kids, because faaamily is more important than your personal independence!"
As someone who owns many expensive pins, and has plans to make my own patched jacket, the last story infuriates me. Plus people who make fake rape accusations should be thrown in jail
Formally accusing someone of a crime is a big deal. Doing it falsely should carry the penalty of perjury at the minimum, and additional charges based on the severity of the accusation.
We’ve all heard the term “toxic masculinity” thrown around. I’d like to submit my opinion that a girl crying “rape” in a public place to try and steal someone’s property is an example of toxic femininity.
"You might want to stitch your name into articles of clothing that could be stolen." No. That's not normal. What a piece of shit cop. That line made me so mad. Edit: The problem here is that the mother is going to get a slap on the wrist for this. She should face the exact same punishment for her false rape allegations that the guy would've gotten if convicted. OP is the victim and should be treated as such, not told to sew his name into his clothes.
For me it's the exact same energy as "Well she shouldn't have been wearing that" when a rape actually does happen. But no he's a bloke so it must be okay, right?
The last story reminds me of the German case of Horst Arnold from 2002, who was falsely accused by another teacher (Heidi Külzer) that he had allegedly raped her. Despite his desperate pleas of innocence, and despite the lack of factual evidence, he was found guilty and had to serve full 5 years in prison, mostly because he maintained that he's innocent throughout his prison time. Only after he served his sentence, the truth was discovered, and Heidi Külzer's lies were revealed. Mr. Arnold sued the Federal Republic of Germany for proper compensation, to no avail; he was never properly compensated for his wrongful incarceration. He also tried to get reinstated as teacher, but also to no avail. In the end he lived on welfare until his death a few years later. His accuser, Heidi Külzer, did get a prison sentence as well in the end; but she still managed to ruin this man's life, with the help of the German state (and the federal state Hesse) who's officials to this day maintain that they were correct in automatically assuming Mr. Arnold's guilt.
Honestly as a guy sometimes I think I may need to start wearing some sort of bodycam so I always have prove I did nothing wrong, because getting falsely accused of the hard R crime would be my biggest nightmare and so often the people around you have already sentenced you to death before you're even in a police car.
Install at least a doorbell camera and subscribe to cloud storage of what it records. Then you’ll have some record of your and visitor activity to counter false allegations.
@@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats I wish I could but in my building there is a law that I can't record other peoples front doors so I can't have a camera at my front door. But I'm really more worried about what happens when I'm not home like this guy in the story getting accused in a McDonalds, I wouldn't have the bodycam on in my own home it's more for outside because it seem that's when these sorts of things happen.
@@TheMysterieRPGguy Certainly isn't a bad idea, although a voice recorder or a recording app on your phone should be more than sufficient as proof for something like this.
That last story made me so mad. Are people going to have to stitch their names into all of there close now? Geez, that teen girl should be tossed into prison.
Every time I hear something about parents not taking care of their kids I think back to this quote, "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."
That last story. That mom and daughter have made it just that much harder for every legitimate sufferer of abuse to get taken seriously. There needs to be harsher penalties for this shit. I say if you falsely accuse someone of a felony, and you knowingly lie, you should be charged with a felony of the same magnitude.
For the last story, that lady should seriously be sent to prison for as many years as OP would have, I don't know about you, but I am really getting sick and tired of people who bring up false accusations about assault getting off with a slap on the wrist.
The first story tore me apart. That was my life growing up and after I was kicked out for vaping and “being a danger to their family” they tried to hold things over my head all the time and everyone always gave the same advice “Oh you’re an adult, just stand up to them, what can they do?” But people truly don’t understand the mental hold your parents can have on you after YEARS of manipulation and mental abuse. I’m the oldest of 9 and was home schooled the last three years of highschool and basically became a third parent. I got married last year and told my parents I didn’t want kids at the wedding because I knew my parents would make it all about them like they always did. It was a huge argument and I ended up allowing them to come two days before the wedding and was devastated. Don’t get me wrong. I would die for every single one of those children. But being raised the way I was to basically parent them put a huge rift in our relationships when I left.
That last story man... if that girl's automatic reaction to a man telling her no is to scream r***, she is going to end up alone for the rest of her life because she is going to get a reputation. Not to mention, the fact that she jumped straight to that shows that she probably isn't above doing it again or has possibly even gotten away with it before. That mother should ashamed of how she is raising her daughter. It's honestly disturbing to know that an innocent man's life could be ruined so easily, because most if not all cops are going to believe the woman.
It boils my blood when people throw around R accusations. They take away from victims cause they feel so entitled they would rather see someone in jail just to have a jacket.
The boy with the entitled parents story…I have a dad who is very toxic. He had a regime Hitler could learn something from. He terrorized my mother and me. I am SO thankful that my mom teached me stand up for myself from a young age. She herself was not able to apply it to herself. I never took any BS of my dad, which led to endless huge fights. The final straw was when he locked the entire house en threatened to set it on fire with us in it. After that we went no contact for a few years. In 2015 my mom left him, that seemed to open his eyes. They came back together, my dad went and still goes to therapy. He has his bad moments, but he is trying. Some context: they were together for 43 years when my mom left. They never had any relationship or passionately hugging with someone else.
That's freaking scary that someone can just scream rape in a restaurant and nearly get what they wanted out of it. I'm sure the cameras in the place cleared OP but what if she accused him in an area that didn't have cameras. Stories like this make me worry for my son and always encourage him not to be alone anywhere. With how crazy people are now who knows what might happen. Especially, since it's clear that these entitled parents are teaching their kids to lie to get what they want and backing up their lies.
I think the MIL's plan in the first story was to get Squatter's Rights by staying on the property long enough. She probably didn't read the law though because it takes at least a decade in most places to get them, and there's no way she's barricading herself in for that long.
As terrible as the final story is I am actually pretty concerned for the teen. My antennae went up when I heard her offer an adult a kiss (or favor) in exchange for something she wants and the mother didn't stop her and because of it. That instantly made me concerned that she might have suffered past sexual abuse so went the SA lie came up right behind that, I wasn't surprised. The mother is in the story is clearly in the wrong but I'm worried about what might be overlooked with the teen. She lied and she should have consequences but I also think someone may need to investigate her life
If someone you suspect is underage offers to kiss (or more) you and you are an adult, say in a loud (but not shouting) voice "No kid, I don't think that's appropriate at your age" Make it known to the people around you that this person tried to encourage you into sketchy-if-not-illegal behaviour. The accusation of rape would also be lessened since you made a LOUD VERBAL statement that this young person is the aggressor
If OP said to check the cameras, the manager, the workers, the Karen, and the entitled brat would turn ghost white when they saw the footage, realizing they lied really hard.
That last story went from 0 to 100 real fast, I've said many times before that a person who falsely accuses people of rape is just as bad, and under some circumstances may actually be WORSE than an actual rapist. They really should face worse charges than filing a false police report, the inciting mayhem charge is a start but given what could have happened they need to be deincentivized from trying that BS again.
Women: life on easy mode. I love how women can just scream "RAPE!! PEDO!!! MOLESTER!!" and everyone automatically believes them. Those kind of women make real victims harder to believe, and need to be given the same sentence the falsely accused would have been given if convicted.
That last story gave me anxiety, even though OP says they were charged, I doubt they were arrested. Falsely accusing a man of rape should be punishable by jail time, but that rarely happens and the guy that gets the accusation’s life is ruined. I don’t know how some people sleep at night…
If an undesirable refused to leave my home, I’d grab them by the scruff of their neck and throw them out. And if they tried to force their way in, I’d immediately call the cops on them for attempted breaking and entering. Also the jacket guy deserved none of the crap he got. He was completely polite about his boundaries, and like all entitled women, the two of them lied to try and get their way. The fact that people still don’t have any doubts about these claims despite all the false accusations running around is really aggravating, especially since even when the accused is proven in the right, they’re still given blame even if they did nothing wrong (like how the cop said to put his name on his property next time). I mean, excuse us for minding our own business while some monsters try to ruin our lives for no reason.
Thats like almost any asylum whatsoever. There are lots of dark stories about these. Also healing of the mind was not a well researched field, so the patients were often subjects to studies and experiments about it. A lot of "healing" had been tried with electric hits or something painful like it to "shake the brain a little and lead the patient back". Didn't work too well, of course.
the last story is despicable. the mom and psycho girl basically got away with falsely accusing a guy of rape. this is why i dont believe many of the stories women make up about rape. especially when they never get punished for lying
As an abuse survivor I gotta say props to OP. I know he could have situations tying him back to his parents but I would recommend taking those silent treatments in stride and going no contact asap. I'd also recommend a therapist if he can afford one and the subreddit r/raisedbynarcissists. It can be super hard to unlearn all the things taught by his parents as the black sheep of the family but judging by the courage OP showed in this story I know OP can do it.
The story with the girl screaming R*** really pissed me off. The fact that people believe women over men more often just sickens me. Women who actively try to ruin men’s lives this way deserve to be jailed for the maximum sentence. This makes me want to carry around a recording device in case something like this happens to me.
This isn't even the first time I've said it today: OLDEST CHILDREN ARE NOT FREE CHILDCARE. They didn't choose to have more babies than they could afford or handle. They aren't built-in mandatory playmates either, and forcing them to take on these roles will make them resent you and their siblings.
*Story 1:* I'm surprised OP is so soft, he didn't call the police the first time his mom barricaded the house and the pressed for a restraining order. *Story 2:* OP's kind of at fault for remaining in contact. This will keep happening since they see that OP keeps responding.
Story 1: I think it was OP's mother in law. But yes, I too would've called the police and had her removed from the house. Story 2: I disagree. Keeping in some kind of contact with the parents might be the best way to keep in touch with the siblings, OP just needs to stand their ground
Last story, people who are found falsely accusing others of rape should by default face the EXACT same sentence that the accused would have if the claims were true.
First story: Take the tv out of the living room and put it somewhere she can't get to it. If she has your wifi password, change it. If you can, limit the amount of food in the house or lock it up. And look up what you need to do to legally evict her, because I don't think she'll leave otherwise. (Might if she's bored and hungry.)
I understand this belief makes me a misogynist, but it really should be a serious crime to make false accusations of s*x crimes. If the dude hadn't managed to prove the jacket's ownership by the skin of his teeth, he'd be spending a decade plus in prison. And as a society, we're fine with that.
That is in no way misogyny. Misogyny is believing women should only be in the home and be pregnant, and nothing else. False accusations hurt everyone, not just the person who they are directed against. It's for this reason that victims of assault (both men and women) are always second guessed, always asked what they were wearing, what did they do to provoke the assault, what were they drinking, why were they there, did they lead their attacker on, and of course told they deserved it for XYZ above. It's why so many don't come forward, and even when they do they get shunned and humiliated to the point that some even take their own lives while their attacker goes free (Bowen Turner...may he and the rest of that town have a seat in Hell). Religious leaders are no better and label them as whores who got what they deserved (or in the case of men, can't be raped because they wanted it), so no comfort there. All because of women like these that already add fuel to actual misogyny.
No way, that does not make you a misogynist. It's not like only women get raped and even if that were the case, accusing somebody of something so horrific like that dishonestly is one of the worst things you can do to a person.
@Abraham Brighton I don't have the energy or brainpower to explain to you all the reasons why your last statement is completely ridiculous. C'mon. The belief that falsely accusing somebody of such a horrific act of abuse is awful does not equate to men in general being considered as or treated like second class citizens on a broader scale. That's the result of traditional gender roles being toxic for everybody; not an indication that the past hundreds of thousands of years of history being rewritten or erased.
@Abraham Brighton ...Its still women, just because false claims like this favor women doesnt mean men have ever, on the basis of their gender, been oppressed. Lets not slip down that slope into far right propaganda, mkay?
@Abraham Brighton Oh, absolutely! Again, these things are the result of society refusing to give up traditional Western gender roles, and not the absence of misogyny in the West or anywhere. The belief that women are inherently caretakers, that they are somehow always the better choice for child placement regardless of objective reality is a part of why men are given the short end of the stick in family court. Rooted in the belief that parenting and homemaking is "women's work" and that fathers raising their children is somehow strange, or unnatural. It isn't even just a legal justice thing either I mean, it's 2022 and so many men's restrooms don't have changing tables still. Like what are they supposed to do? Put their babies on the filthy ass bathroom floor??? It just proves that gender roles hurt everyone in the end. Again, you aren't wrong about 90% of what you said, but the implication that women universally no longer suffer from misogyny or the same dumb gender stereotypes (in any place) is completely false
for the last one, wtf is that logic of "have your name on your clothes." As if everybody writes their name on every single article of clothing they have
The coat story physically hurt. I have a black denim jacket that I've been hand-sewing patches on and collecting pins for close to two years now. If anything happened to it I'd break down and cry. No one mess with patch jackets!
That last reddit post was fucking disgusting. Talk about double standards. They went to all this trouble JUST to move a GROWN MAN out of the room all because a little girl screamed rape and falsified it. I understand why they did it. Doesn't make it right.
Imagine being cautioned by a police officer to label your clothes to avoid issues in the future. Like, yeah don’t we all stitch our names on our jackets, shirts, etc?
ya the kind officer who handcuffed him and threw him in the cruiser for no reason...................... total saint....................................................
I'm surprised OP in the last story didn't also think to check the security cameras, but the fact that he stitched his name on both his wallet and jacket definitely saved him for sure
How could he check the cameras?
That was the manager and cops job.
@@mandalorianhunter1 pretty sure that's what they meant... OP should tell them to check the footage.
@@DickQuang the way he said it came out wrong.
I mean that the cops and restaurant staff are supposed to watch the camera footage, it's an actual part of the investigation process. So not only did the manager fuck OP over but also the cops.
I get the sense this story was from before we had cameras everywhere
@@36ydna It shouldn't be.
I mean restaurants have had cameras since the 80s so it shouldn't been that long ago.
I mean the op didn't specify it was a long time ago
That last story the mother and the teen both need to be put in prison. The guy's life could have been utterly destroyed. A "good Samaritan" could have attacked him. I'm so angry. What an awful awful awful human being those women are.
Some people are monsters that never learn from their mistakes
They oughta be shown what rape really is. Maybe then they won't be so quick to blindly accuse someone of it.
This is why people have a hard time believing victims of assault because people like that woman thinks that it’s some sort of weapon to use when you don’t get your way.
The problem with the story I have is theanager should have been able to settle it all quickly. Most places, especially McDonald's, have security cameras installed. One look at the cameras and the manager would have been able to see that the jacket had been on op since he showed up at the location.
I want to know is why didn't the manager look at the cameras? All McDonald's have cameras. I hate that women in this situation are automatically believed. Think logically, he would really start to rape a 16 yr old in a crowded McDonald's?
The last story makes me sick to my stomach. Sure, as a female I'm fully aware of the double standard due to my gender, but it still pisses me off to see men get treated like that. No man or woman should fear being treated as guilty till proven innocent just because of the genitalia they're born with!
And they're likely to get away with just a slap on the wrist too.
As a fem I totally agree. Love the way you phrased it,
False accusations cheapen the genuine ones, whether it's rape or racism.
The biggest problem is the lack of punishment. I mean, someone convicted of sexual assault can get years in prison, but a false accusation just gets a warning basically. There is not much detriment to doing it. Doesn't make sense to me, just up the punishment so the trash of society think twice and then thrice about pulling something like that. I would say, if someone is found guilty of false accusation beyond all reasonable doubt, they should be slapped with the same sentencing the accused would have faced. If you are trying to ruin someone's life, your life should be ruined back when you get caught...
False accusations should get punushed as they make the real victims of sexual assault seem invalid. I am also a woman, have had actual assault happen to me and it boils my blood when people falsely accuse others of smth so serious and then the accuser gets away scott free.
Sadly we as a society can't change these double standards because of the stereotype being nailed into other people's heads due to either a twisted upbringing or because many people from previous generations refuse to let go of these hateful ways and now it's even worse because of today's set standards increasing these ideals
Imagine almost getting a guy arrested and possibly ruin his life just because he said no to letting your crotch goblin try on his jacket smh
That happened with me when I was in high school, still makes me overthinking
This just tell you how much the world and most people are a hole because some random girl say something bad about you and suddenly the rest of the people believe them even though they saw nothing and ok I know op was a big guy then her but guy can get r to but it a teen girl then no this guy need to punished this lady and her kid Can both go home to hell
imagine a world where it is "guilty until proven innocent". Oh wait, no need to imagine anymore...
Honestly, when the mother starts making up all her own lies, it becomes readily apparent why the daughter is the way she is. The fruit is as rotten as the tree.
Probably cuz their plan was to "try it on" and run away with it. When that failed they went with plan B.
The mother and daughter in last story should get prison time. Seriously, accusing the guy of rape is soo wrong and hurts actual victims of rape....
@@benjiro8793 How is that blackmail? Blackmail would be if they tried to force OP to give them the jacket or else.
@@healingthroughchrist1988 in this case, Give the jacket or face jail time. Do you have any idea how many man is in jail because of these false accusations? Basically luck that officer did ask his side of the story.
@@voinyperkelee If they didn't verbalize it, then I'm not sure how it counts as blackmail. I agree they should face criminal charges. And of course, making false accusations is terrible and can destroy your life. What they did was wrong, but unless the law counts it as blackmail I don't see how it is since no threat was verbalized. They went straight to the false accusation as soon as OP said no.
Youve seen nothing yet
if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet,
including but not limited to Science-Deniers.
Just the same thing that Professor Dave also just did with the 'Discovery Institute',
showing how blood-related Atheist-Channel and TH-cam-Channel (and I'd argue even entitled-parent-covering Reddit-TH-camrs) are.
@@slevinchannel7589 ?????????
There needs to be harsher punishments for false accusations. I'm sure what they get is a less than slap on the wrist compared to what OP would put through if he were convicted of what they accuse him of. They tried to ruin this guy's life just to steal a jacket.
Seriously. Also, like raping someone in the middle of a restaurant with countless witnesses? Suuuuuure.
They should really suffer the same punishment as that they would accuse another of if it is proven that they falsified the claim. That should set them straight and make them think twice before making a false accusation.
@@BrutusAlbion I thought that would be the obvious answer but what if something like that actually happened and there wasn't much evidence the big issue is that it makes accusing someone of something they actually did a risky endeavour because if they aren't proven guilty you could spend years I prison or if somebody genuinely thought someone did something they might be too scared of getting it wrong.
It’s people like this that make *real* victims look like liars. In my area the police just don’t want to fill out paperwork so they literally do nothing. I have three friends who have been attacked yet the r*pist got away with no repercussions. When my friend was giving her report to police he asked her “What were you wearing?” She said she was wearing shorts because it was like 80 F outside. As soon as the word ‘shorts’ left her mouth the cop fucking laughed. And then went on to slut shame her. My blood still boils to this day about it.
@@lebird1559 You have to prove that the person making the accusation was making it up. As in the case of the video, there was clear proof that the accusation was bogus and made up. In the case that it is indeterminate or not possible to prove either way. The case should be considered neutral and neither party can be held accountable since there is no proof. The person even though they are accusing and have no evidence may also not have any evidence against them either. Innocent until guilty remains in effect.
This ruling would thus only apply if there is direct evidence that the claim is bogus precisely to safeguard those that make a claim when it has happened to them but are unable to prove it yet there is also no direct proof against them that it is a false claim either.
Story 2: Man, you can smell the desperation coming from the dad. He needs to learn that things are changing and OP is no longer under their roof anymore. Soon, the siblings will be old enough to leave, and maybe THEN the dad will learn.
These delusionals will NEVER learn to be civilized and reasonable human beings. They always have to practically battle for their lives just in the vein hopes that maybe, juuuuuuust maybe, if they scream and whine enough, their self-imposed lie of "always being correct in everything they say or do or think" will somehow magically become true.
OP is a Goddamn hero, plain and simple.
Not possible, my parents are the same way, it's impossible for them to comprehend that they're wrong or no longer in power. they get a God complex with their kids that's like "we are your parents, we are your God and you will obey us because we own you"
Nope. Can confirm that he won't. I was the youngest sibling in a situation like this and I am currently no contact with my parents because they still wanted to control my every move.
There's a giant difference between a single parent asking more of the children, especially the older child, after a spouse dies, a disability occurs, or doing extreme poverty.
Since the parents are dumping the kids off so they can go and have fun. We know that's not this case. , In the exceptions that I mentioned the appearance are not off having fun.. they're trying their best to give as much free time and fun to their children while sacrificing all chances of fun for themselves. Because that's what parents do.
I had to be my mother's father starting from age 9. She's 70 this year. The only thing she's learned is how to abuse people enough to turn them into minions, and how to keep the law from doing anything. This type of animal (no insult to animals) only gets worse.
The last story makes me so angry. As someone who survived being SA, situations like these make it much harder to be believed. The girl should have been charged for false aligations. To OP I am so sorry.
She was
@@wta1518she was charged with falsifying a police report, not with falsely accusing someone of sexual assault.
The third story definitely annoys me. I have a denim jacket that my mom gave that I absolutely love. I have all kinds of enamel pins and pinback buttons on it that I love, and I have plans to sew patches on to it soon. Don't mess with other people's special jackets, please
Edit: geez, just finished listening to that whole story, and it just makes me mad. Some people are just human garbage. I can't believe they falsely accused OP like that over a JACKET. More than that, a jacket that was very clearly incredibly important to him.
It's not even that it's the false rape accusations for me
@@kheyonsmith1497 yeah. It's all in all just bad, like I said, some people are just human garbage. Like seriously, wtf
Also, why the hell did the employees not think to check the security cameras?
@@hamishstewart5324 my words exactly. How the fuck does the manager not think to check the cameras.
@@mandalorianhunter1 Because apparently hearing the r-word turns them into the most irrational person ever. I hope OP gives the manager a verbal tongue lashing or sue him for emotional damages.
That last story was intense. Why did no one think to check cameras to prove that he was telling the truth? Because honestly, it's ridiculous to think that had he not had that name on his jacket they would of believed the mother and daughters words over OPs. Grr entitled people suck
The story sounds kind of sketchy...like R/that happened sketchy
Or what about selfies or pictures people have taken of him in that jacket? I'm sure he must have a bunch especially if he wears that jacket all the time.
I guess the cops simply wanted to see if there was a faster way to sort out the mess instead of waiting a long time for the videos.
That's how things are now and days. Some people will cry that word to get someone in trouble and ruin their lives so they can get something out of it. Even with cameras and the patch, cops might incline to believe a victim of sexual assault or rape on such a situation especially when they were detained for it regardless of proof of guilt or innocence. It is sad cause people like this will likely affect individuals who were raped or sexually assaulted and have proof of it. It creates a stigma that leads to lower levels of justice and can negatively affect people.
@@missluciddreams3472 It happens more often than you think. Usually when a girl cries that against a guy, it's guilty until proven innocent. And sometimes, even after the guy is proven innocent, the damage is already done and people still think he's a sex offender, simply because he was accused, even if he wasn't convicted. Hell, it happened to a pretty famous voice actor a couple years ago, and even now some cons refuse to have him there, and some people will refuse to go to cons if he is there, even though he was proven innocent, meanwhile his accusers keep their jobs and get to walk away scott free.
last story
evil false rape accuser: "officer he tried to rape me in the middle of mcdonalds and somehow the 20 or so other people in there missed it, he also stole my boyfriends jacket after he raped me and then sat down to eat a sandwich"
police officer: "sounds believable" *cuffs OP and takes him to the squad car without taking a statement*
OP needs to sue the crap out of the mother and daughter and then make a complaint against the officers, they are terrible at their job and aren't worthy of the badge, you do not assume guilt from an accusation you take the statement of both people for fuck sake.
I 1000% agree with you I whould sue that Manger first because nobody saw him enter with the jacket ? I would press k I napping charges on him
and the cops wonder why ppl dont like them
nah its part of their training.
@@blackwatch2516 They can't hide behind that when things don't go their way
@@girl1213 hold up. what exactly didnt go their way?
as a victim of multiple sexual assaults (4 i remember, at least, 3 before the age of 10), accusing someone of it for your own benefit is horrible and disgusting. people who take legitimate, horrific trauma that i don't think i will EVER heal from for? what? a jacket?
i have never wanted to wring a person's neck that intensely before
(edited only bc i missed a word lsdkjfl)
First Story: Now I know why MIL's children didn’t want to take her in, this woman is hell lol! OP you should have called the police to get her ass kicked of your home.
I probably wouldn't have worked because she was there 3 months.
@@mandalorianhunter1 at that point they would have had no choice but to go the eviction route which could take ages, and if it was happening during Covid, ya good luck on that
@@nighteyeswolf Yeah that's what I was saying. You try to be nice to people but they become ungrateful or take a mile.
Police would do nothing unless there was a physical assault. This is classified as a domestic dispute and therefore a civil case, not a criminal one.
Sad, but the way things work in the real world.
in some areas theres actually laws preventing police from removing people from houses as long as there is no outside access to the place...this means squaters will barricade the front and back doors with all windows locked some going as far as replacing original locks with new ones and end up using a "secret" access to inside like an upstairs window...few stories where people had to break in to own home to allow police inside to remove sqauters
I fully believe that women who make false allegations like in the last story should face time equal to what the guy would have if charged as guilty
I agree 100%. All false accusations do is make actual victims look like liars, and destroys innocent people.
and when that happens ill be crowned king of mars
@@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821 i’ll be the princess of jupiter! and cats will sprout wings and fly
I hate that we live in an age where folks are automatically guilty until proven innocent in a country that was supposed to be the exact opposite.
Only if a man is accused by a woman or child.
@@CoolDude-kc4he no we're all guilty until proven innocent. You'll be healed off to jail and then taken to court, if you don't bail out, where you plead your innocence. Then it's up to the court to decide if you're innocent or not. Tbh for is poor people, even if we're innocent, because we can't afford attorneys (And court appointed attorneys are trash and will only help you "cut a deal"), we are usually still convicted. We have a terrible justice system.
@@CoolDude-kc4he can you imagine if gender roles were reversed in the last story?
@@CoolDude-kc4he Righttt because women are ALWAYS getting justice against their r*pists.
Get out of your privilege bubble for two seconds.
Ugh! That last story pissed me off to where they must wanna be what's called "boy who cried wolf" yet end up getting served cold. Don't accuse someone of rape just because someone refused to give something to you. The damn nerve of teenagers nowadays.
Not just teenagers. Feminists have the same mentality.
@@avashnea Amen! I’m a female and I’ve never understood “chicks” as my husband calls them.
@@avashnea Excuse me? What's wrong with feminists?
@@avashnea its not feminists buddy. Its entitled people who refuse to have things not go their way.
Don't say feminists since the only feminists who do that fit within another category where the "traditional women" type people can and sometimes do also fit in that same category.
@@avashnea don't push your anti feminist agenda, its just terrible people who do that
That last story makes my blood boil. I still remember the story of Brian Banks. Knowingly falsifying such an accusation should be punishable as if the crime was actually committed.
Youve seen nothing yet
if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet,
including but not limited to Science-Deniers.
Dude needs a restraining order against the parents if he ever wants to be free
He could start by going completely no contact. I see no benefit to keeping in touch with such abusive people.
At the point where it took him calling the police for his mum to finally come to her senses and his dad to STILL act like a child, that would have been the "don't contact me again", block all their numbers and socials point for me.
If you're talking about the second story, I don't see why it's necessary. The parents aren't breaking down his door or chasing him down the street, in fact he said they were giving him the silent treatment for months at a time.
@@limiv5272 the restraining order is to keep them a from contacting him it doesn't have to be because of physical fear you can get a restraining order because of psychological abuse which is what this young man has been going throughp it's sometimes called a keep-away order if you're in a different state
@@aimeeprincessofpower I understand that, but the parents aren't harassing him and it sounds like it would be easy to get them to stop contacting him altogether. They go months without speaking.
The last story makes my heart hurt. And the worst part, that mom and daughter probably won’t change their actions because they are already “delusional-entitled”. A false accusation like theirs can ruin people’s lives. Barf.
I had a teacher back in middle school who was accused of assaulting a former student of his (she was 15 at the time of the accusation). He lost his wife, his career, he was excommunicated from his church, and disowned by his parents. He ended up taking his own life about 2 weeks after the accusations and the girl lost it. She admitted that she had lied to get back at him for rejecting her. She kept apologizing and eventually was hospitalized because she had like an emotional breakdown, she eventually had to switch schools as well.
What I’m thinking too is they saw how far ppl were willing to go for their false accusations, seemly meaning they’d probably do it again or have done it before to immediately jump from “can I try the jacket” to “HE TRIED TO R@PE ME!!” This is probably not an isolated incident tbh.
I can’t lie that I was scared of what going to happen to Smokey
I wish I could make a trucker joke right about now
When he said his racing name was Smokey, I almost thought he was Tony Stewart for a second
@in desperate need of a scotch what about rubber duck?
If there's anything I've relearned from parenting is that when you have kids, you're supposed to raise them to become their own person. Not keep them as a slave for your own benefit like some parents do. OP did an amazing job keeping their boundaries. So much respect to OP and I hope they do well in life after their parents failed him.
Youve seen nothing yet
if you never watched Atheist-TH-camrs cover the most-entitled people on the planet,
including but not limited to Science-Deniers.
Just the same thing that Professor Dave also just did with the 'Discovery Institute',
showing how blood-related Atheist-Channel and TH-cam-Channel (and I'd argue even entitled-parent-covering Reddit-TH-camrs) are.
entitled parents always makes me so angry, hits too close to home….
You ain't the only one
I'm sorry it hits so close to home for you. Entitled parents are burden to society imo
they make my blood boil especially when they want somebodies stuff
2nd Story: Oh boy, OP's parents spoiled their favorite children (Now teenagers) and now they're living with the consequences. I'm SURE those kids will grow into productive members of society. (sarcasm)
Last story just about made me burst a blood vessel. Public false accusations, the police and manager not even bothering to check the cameras, and cuffing OP without hearing their side of the story first. They were SO close towards ruining an innocent person's LIFE ... over a damn jacket.
A story from a friend of a friend from years back. I never met this friend of a friend but from what I was told her grandmother was a master seamstress and actually knitted a waterproof jacket for her (Have no idea how or with what materials) Another girl was jealous and pushed the girl over and kicked her. Then stole the jacket and ran off (they were both around 16). Her friends ran to a pay phone, before mobile/cell phones about the early to mid 90's and called the police. The thief was apprehended and claimed the jacket was hers. Well the friend of a friend then told the cops that her grandmother had stitched her full name under the collar at the back of the coat near the neck. The thief was arrested for assault and theft. When the thief got out of juvenile detention, a year later, she actually went looking for the friend of a friend and tried to stab her. She was then arrested for attempted murder and sent to prison for about 5 years. Never heard of her again.
Jesus, the lenght some people go for a jacket, smh
What the actual fuck
That last story made me so furious. I'm a woman and I've been a victim of SA the idea that someone would use SA as a clever lie to steal a jacket is the definition of insanity.
Burn in Hell Karen 1 and Teen Karen 2. Someday a victim will find the courage to tell others that she has been SA and people will doubt her. Because of you.
the scary part is it was an eyelash away from working
Second story: Just go NC. It's really not worth the aggravation.
The second story about the dad who doesn’t respect his son made me think about something : respect for some people means authority, and for other means basic human rights. So the dad saying that his son doesn’t respect him is his authority and if his son doesn’t respect his authority, he won’t respect him as a human…
Should have called CPS the minute she left
"You can't be a racer, you're too fat" lmao what, how are those two things correlated in any way
I would've said: "Oh, says the entitled brat wearing a frilly dress with beauty pageant make-up."
Maybe they think the weight of the driver can slow the car down?
Body shaming from a man hater.
They hate men.
Probably because they watch a lot of Nascar and only see thin people racing. Or the Fast and the Furious movies.
The last story is just the sad reality that people will automatically believe women over men. Not the first time I read a story like op.
How low can you be to want to destroy a man's life for nothing? Women who falsely acuse men of r-- should go to jail in my opinion.
They absolutely should, and automatically max sentence. I lost my military career over this shit. It is absolutely unacceptable that we treat people as guilty until proven innocent. This stuff ruins lives, even when not convicted.
Bruh its so damn fake
Of course! I feel like society is braindead, because even in the event that the falsely accused is PUBLICALLY PROVEN ON LIVE TV TO BE INNOCENT, jobs will still refuse to let them in as a hire despite logic dictating the person is innocent. However, if we punish false claims, we have to be careful to separate an actual false claim vs an actual victim who was unlucky enough to be unable to prove their case. Can't go punishing genuine victims on suspicions of lies after all.
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 actual victims need to go after the fake "victims " ..
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958
You only punish people when you have evidence no matter the side. If the accuser does not have evidence, no one is punished, but if there is evidence the accuser is lying, then they should get punished.
That second story with the switch and forced babysitting is exactly the kind of thing that made me choose to move to a different state so my mother couldn't just show up on my doorstep and guilt trip me.
the last story: they both should have been in jail for 10 years
the mother and the teenage girl
and fire the cops also
and the dispatcher also
The last story bothers me on SO many levels, for so many reasons, but I think one of the worst things about it is the fact that the OP was stripped of his property and cuffed before any sort of questioning even occurred. A lot of folks here have rightly pointed out that it was incredibly odd that nobody even thought about security cameras, but I think it's a bit alarming to think about how actions were taken before any discussion was to be had. Of course it would be different if anybody was in immediate danger, but that was clearly not the case here, at first glance I feel like most people would view it as a verbal argument. That's not to say that it isn't prudent to believe a victim when they say they have been hurt, but doing that is not the same as blindly handing out punishments or anything before first investigating what is actually the case. The police in this story should have known to speak to eyewitnesses and check camera footage before taking any actions; it feels like they were ready to just throw OP in a cell just because an entitled brat decided to scream rape in the middle of a fast food establishment. That sort of blatant negligence is just one reason why a lot of Americans don't trust our police and justice system.
in regards to believe the victim i'd add ONE thing right off the bat, believe the victim IF there is hard evididence right at the scene (a.k.a. security camera's, eye witnesses etc.) otherwise treat both parties neutral and simly seperate them to get the stories. don't do that and you get those insane 'listen and believe' things where people's life's are annihilatyed like OP was at risk of, over baseless lies
First story: I had a similar case where distant family member will come live with us and basically eat our food, told us to watch his kid for 6 hours and rare cases 8 hours without pay and use our stuff out of the blue without any of us noticing or even asking, and at one point I had a Popeyes chicken sandwich and a few hours later it mysteriously disappeared and I even labeled the bag mine so I know who ate it.
Dad: "Don't let the door hit you on your way out, and don't come back!"
Also dad: "Move back in and watch our kids, because faaamily is more important than your personal independence!"
Right? OP should have responded with “you told me to never come back, so I can’t, sorry!” and then just block his number.
Dont forget the dad demanded he return and then PAY them (aka rent) for the duty to watch the kids. This makes it worse!
As someone who owns many expensive pins, and has plans to make my own patched jacket, the last story infuriates me. Plus people who make fake rape accusations should be thrown in jail
This channel got me through the beginning of the pandemic.
I hear ya. In 2019, I spent about 10 months in hospitals & R/slash helped keep my humor.
Same op
Agreed
Last story OP could've ask the police to check the surveillance video at McDonald's.
like that wouldve worked
yeah false accusations of r are a thing and her just getting a false report charge is disheartening considering the charges he could have faced.
Formally accusing someone of a crime is a big deal. Doing it falsely should carry the penalty of perjury at the minimum, and additional charges based on the severity of the accusation.
We’ve all heard the term “toxic masculinity” thrown around. I’d like to submit my opinion that a girl crying “rape” in a public place to try and steal someone’s property is an example of toxic femininity.
"You might want to stitch your name into articles of clothing that could be stolen." No. That's not normal. What a piece of shit cop. That line made me so mad.
Edit: The problem here is that the mother is going to get a slap on the wrist for this. She should face the exact same punishment for her false rape allegations that the guy would've gotten if convicted. OP is the victim and should be treated as such, not told to sew his name into his clothes.
For me it's the exact same energy as "Well she shouldn't have been wearing that" when a rape actually does happen. But no he's a bloke so it must be okay, right?
but the mom and psycho girl wont be punished bc the cops still believe they did nothing wrong
The last story reminds me of the German case of Horst Arnold from 2002, who was falsely accused by another teacher (Heidi Külzer) that he had allegedly raped her. Despite his desperate pleas of innocence, and despite the lack of factual evidence, he was found guilty and had to serve full 5 years in prison, mostly because he maintained that he's innocent throughout his prison time. Only after he served his sentence, the truth was discovered, and Heidi Külzer's lies were revealed. Mr. Arnold sued the Federal Republic of Germany for proper compensation, to no avail; he was never properly compensated for his wrongful incarceration. He also tried to get reinstated as teacher, but also to no avail. In the end he lived on welfare until his death a few years later.
His accuser, Heidi Külzer, did get a prison sentence as well in the end; but she still managed to ruin this man's life, with the help of the German state (and the federal state Hesse) who's officials to this day maintain that they were correct in automatically assuming Mr. Arnold's guilt.
Or just think about the Weatherguy Kachelmann ...
Disgusting. And they wonder why men nowadays refuse to work alongside and trust women?
the women never get punished enough for ruining the dude's life for fun
I'm so mad that the guy in the last story had to be detained and handcuffed! Before they even decided to hear the whole story! Absolute bs.
That last story sent chills down my spine.
I plan on marking my jacket I'm having my legal name and My thumb print
Honestly as a guy sometimes I think I may need to start wearing some sort of bodycam so I always have prove I did nothing wrong, because getting falsely accused of the hard R crime would be my biggest nightmare and so often the people around you have already sentenced you to death before you're even in a police car.
Install at least a doorbell camera and subscribe to cloud storage of what it records. Then you’ll have some record of your and visitor activity to counter false allegations.
@@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats I wish I could but in my building there is a law that I can't record other peoples front doors so I can't have a camera at my front door. But I'm really more worried about what happens when I'm not home like this guy in the story getting accused in a McDonalds, I wouldn't have the bodycam on in my own home it's more for outside because it seem that's when these sorts of things happen.
@@TheMysterieRPGguy Certainly isn't a bad idea, although a voice recorder or a recording app on your phone should be more than sufficient as proof for something like this.
@@vgamesx1 Yeah that probable works.
That last story made me so mad. Are people going to have to stitch their names into all of there close now? Geez, that teen girl should be tossed into prison.
and the mom.
and the cops should be fired
Not nearly enough justice in that last story. That mom daughter combo should be behind bars and should pay a huge settlement to OP
Every time I hear something about parents not taking care of their kids I think back to this quote, "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."
That last story. That mom and daughter have made it just that much harder for every legitimate sufferer of abuse to get taken seriously. There needs to be harsher penalties for this shit. I say if you falsely accuse someone of a felony, and you knowingly lie, you should be charged with a felony of the same magnitude.
For the last story, that lady should seriously be sent to prison for as many years as OP would have, I don't know about you, but I am really getting sick and tired of people who bring up false accusations about assault getting off with a slap on the wrist.
Especially when just the accusation can destroy mens life so easily even if they are cleared and the opposing side found guilty of false claim.
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Ikr! If this keeps happening, people probably won't take real r***ing seriously. Because you know, "The boy who cried wolf"?
@@dracko158 that's what I keep saying
yep but when that happens ill be elected king of pluto
The first story tore me apart. That was my life growing up and after I was kicked out for vaping and “being a danger to their family” they tried to hold things over my head all the time and everyone always gave the same advice “Oh you’re an adult, just stand up to them, what can they do?” But people truly don’t understand the mental hold your parents can have on you after YEARS of manipulation and mental abuse. I’m the oldest of 9 and was home schooled the last three years of highschool and basically became a third parent. I got married last year and told my parents I didn’t want kids at the wedding because I knew my parents would make it all about them like they always did. It was a huge argument and I ended up allowing them to come two days before the wedding and was devastated. Don’t get me wrong. I would die for every single one of those children. But being raised the way I was to basically parent them put a huge rift in our relationships when I left.
That last story man... if that girl's automatic reaction to a man telling her no is to scream r***, she is going to end up alone for the rest of her life because she is going to get a reputation. Not to mention, the fact that she jumped straight to that shows that she probably isn't above doing it again or has possibly even gotten away with it before. That mother should ashamed of how she is raising her daughter. It's honestly disturbing to know that an innocent man's life could be ruined so easily, because most if not all cops are going to believe the woman.
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False accusations of rape should carry jail time as punishment
It boils my blood when people throw around R accusations. They take away from victims cause they feel so entitled they would rather see someone in jail just to have a jacket.
That last story is terrifying! Thank goodness he had matching patches, that must've saved his life!
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The boy with the entitled parents story…I have a dad who is very toxic. He had a regime Hitler could learn something from. He terrorized my mother and me. I am SO thankful that my mom teached me stand up for myself from a young age. She herself was not able to apply it to herself. I never took any BS of my dad, which led to endless huge fights. The final straw was when he locked the entire house en threatened to set it on fire with us in it. After that we went no contact for a few years. In 2015 my mom left him, that seemed to open his eyes. They came back together, my dad went and still goes to therapy. He has his bad moments, but he is trying. Some context: they were together for 43 years when my mom left. They never had any relationship or passionately hugging with someone else.
That's freaking scary that someone can just scream rape in a restaurant and nearly get what they wanted out of it. I'm sure the cameras in the place cleared OP but what if she accused him in an area that didn't have cameras. Stories like this make me worry for my son and always encourage him not to be alone anywhere. With how crazy people are now who knows what might happen. Especially, since it's clear that these entitled parents are teaching their kids to lie to get what they want and backing up their lies.
I'll never understand how falsifying rape is not punished more severely
bc in the cops mind it wasnt false
A classic tale of Smokey and the entitled bandit
I think the MIL's plan in the first story was to get Squatter's Rights by staying on the property long enough. She probably didn't read the law though because it takes at least a decade in most places to get them, and there's no way she's barricading herself in for that long.
Yay! ❤ Entitled Parents!
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@@yurionice1131ok comrade
I love how a man can have his life ruined with no evidence but a woman can get away with a minor charge/warning for the same situation.
As terrible as the final story is I am actually pretty concerned for the teen. My antennae went up when I heard her offer an adult a kiss (or favor) in exchange for something she wants and the mother didn't stop her and because of it. That instantly made me concerned that she might have suffered past sexual abuse so went the SA lie came up right behind that, I wasn't surprised. The mother is in the story is clearly in the wrong but I'm worried about what might be overlooked with the teen. She lied and she should have consequences but I also think someone may need to investigate her life
u shouldve been concerned for the poor guy who got assaulted and falsely accused of rape
The Officer: ”Do you have any proof it's yours?”
Me in that situation: “So you're taking them at face value, no evidence, just their word?”
that does prevent them from having to do their jobs.........................................................................................
Jacket skit has me pissed!! Happy they actually caught a charge.
but they didnt get shit for a punishment
If someone you suspect is underage offers to kiss (or more) you and you are an adult, say in a loud (but not shouting) voice "No kid, I don't think that's appropriate at your age" Make it known to the people around you that this person tried to encourage you into sketchy-if-not-illegal behaviour. The accusation of rape would also be lessened since you made a LOUD VERBAL statement that this young person is the aggressor
Last story, yeah, I'm not going to joint ever again. One of the workers probably saw him and did not say a damn thing.
If OP said to check the cameras, the manager, the workers, the Karen, and the entitled brat would turn ghost white when they saw the footage, realizing they lied really hard.
That last story went from 0 to 100 real fast, I've said many times before that a person who falsely accuses people of rape is just as bad, and under some circumstances may actually be WORSE than an actual rapist. They really should face worse charges than filing a false police report, the inciting mayhem charge is a start but given what could have happened they need to be deincentivized from trying that BS again.
Women: life on easy mode. I love how women can just scream "RAPE!! PEDO!!! MOLESTER!!" and everyone automatically believes them. Those kind of women make real victims harder to believe, and need to be given the same sentence the falsely accused would have been given if convicted.
That last story gave me anxiety, even though OP says they were charged, I doubt they were arrested. Falsely accusing a man of rape should be punishable by jail time, but that rarely happens and the guy that gets the accusation’s life is ruined. I don’t know how some people sleep at night…
nah they werent arrested or fined or anything.
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Tell that to Tony Stewart, also called Smoke
If an undesirable refused to leave my home, I’d grab them by the scruff of their neck and throw them out. And if they tried to force their way in, I’d immediately call the cops on them for attempted breaking and entering. Also the jacket guy deserved none of the crap he got. He was completely polite about his boundaries, and like all entitled women, the two of them lied to try and get their way. The fact that people still don’t have any doubts about these claims despite all the false accusations running around is really aggravating, especially since even when the accused is proven in the right, they’re still given blame even if they did nothing wrong (like how the cop said to put his name on his property next time). I mean, excuse us for minding our own business while some monsters try to ruin our lives for no reason.
OP in the last story should sue them. Rape accusations are really serious and they tried to ruin his life over a jacket.
but that wont work bc they wont be punished they never do
It's amazing what lengths that people will go through just to get something from someone. Please tell me again why insane asylums were closed.
Because folks weren't mostly treated there but rather tortured in the name of science and medicine
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What was the name of that asylum?
Thats like almost any asylum whatsoever. There are lots of dark stories about these. Also healing of the mind was not a well researched field, so the patients were often subjects to studies and experiments about it. A lot of "healing" had been tried with electric hits or something painful like it to "shake the brain a little and lead the patient back". Didn't work too well, of course.
the last story is despicable. the mom and psycho girl basically got away with falsely accusing a guy of rape. this is why i dont believe many of the stories women make up about rape. especially when they never get punished for lying
I hope that everyone is having a good Saturday!
Cop: "can you prove that it's yours?"
OP: "can she prove that it's hers?"
Cop: "nananana we don't do that here"
Please stop being a cop
What a great start to my morning
As an abuse survivor I gotta say props to OP. I know he could have situations tying him back to his parents but I would recommend taking those silent treatments in stride and going no contact asap. I'd also recommend a therapist if he can afford one and the subreddit r/raisedbynarcissists. It can be super hard to unlearn all the things taught by his parents as the black sheep of the family but judging by the courage OP showed in this story I know OP can do it.
The story with the girl screaming R*** really pissed me off. The fact that people believe women over men more often just sickens me. Women who actively try to ruin men’s lives this way deserve to be jailed for the maximum sentence.
This makes me want to carry around a recording device in case something like this happens to me.
This isn't even the first time I've said it today: OLDEST CHILDREN ARE NOT FREE CHILDCARE. They didn't choose to have more babies than they could afford or handle. They aren't built-in mandatory playmates either, and forcing them to take on these roles will make them resent you and their siblings.
RSLASH 4 LIFEE
It really pisses me off when parents think that they can do whatever they want to their children regardless of anything
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@@A.n0neeM0usee entitled parents think its they're property
@@fatestaydaystudios1782 *their*
The last story: Why didn't the manager and cops check the cameras?!
Because they are WHITE KNIGHTS! At least the lady cop eventually did her properly. He should have been asked if he wanted to press charges
*Story 1:* I'm surprised OP is so soft, he didn't call the police the first time his mom barricaded the house and the pressed for a restraining order.
*Story 2:* OP's kind of at fault for remaining in contact. This will keep happening since they see that OP keeps responding.
Story 1: I think it was OP's mother in law. But yes, I too would've called the police and had her removed from the house.
Story 2: I disagree. Keeping in some kind of contact with the parents might be the best way to keep in touch with the siblings, OP just needs to stand their ground
Last story, people who are found falsely accusing others of rape should by default face the EXACT same sentence that the accused would have if the claims were true.
when that happens ill be elected king of pluto
Woo hoo rSLASH
First story: Take the tv out of the living room and put it somewhere she can't get to it. If she has your wifi password, change it. If you can, limit the amount of food in the house or lock it up.
And look up what you need to do to legally evict her, because I don't think she'll leave otherwise. (Might if she's bored and hungry.)
I understand this belief makes me a misogynist, but it really should be a serious crime to make false accusations of s*x crimes.
If the dude hadn't managed to prove the jacket's ownership by the skin of his teeth, he'd be spending a decade plus in prison. And as a society, we're fine with that.
That is in no way misogyny. Misogyny is believing women should only be in the home and be pregnant, and nothing else. False accusations hurt everyone, not just the person who they are directed against. It's for this reason that victims of assault (both men and women) are always second guessed, always asked what they were wearing, what did they do to provoke the assault, what were they drinking, why were they there, did they lead their attacker on, and of course told they deserved it for XYZ above. It's why so many don't come forward, and even when they do they get shunned and humiliated to the point that some even take their own lives while their attacker goes free (Bowen Turner...may he and the rest of that town have a seat in Hell). Religious leaders are no better and label them as whores who got what they deserved (or in the case of men, can't be raped because they wanted it), so no comfort there. All because of women like these that already add fuel to actual misogyny.
No way, that does not make you a misogynist. It's not like only women get raped and even if that were the case, accusing somebody of something so horrific like that dishonestly is one of the worst things you can do to a person.
@Abraham Brighton I don't have the energy or brainpower to explain to you all the reasons why your last statement is completely ridiculous. C'mon. The belief that falsely accusing somebody of such a horrific act of abuse is awful does not equate to men in general being considered as or treated like second class citizens on a broader scale. That's the result of traditional gender roles being toxic for everybody; not an indication that the past hundreds of thousands of years of history being rewritten or erased.
@Abraham Brighton ...Its still women, just because false claims like this favor women doesnt mean men have ever, on the basis of their gender, been oppressed. Lets not slip down that slope into far right propaganda, mkay?
@Abraham Brighton Oh, absolutely! Again, these things are the result of society refusing to give up traditional Western gender roles, and not the absence of misogyny in the West or anywhere. The belief that women are inherently caretakers, that they are somehow always the better choice for child placement regardless of objective reality is a part of why men are given the short end of the stick in family court. Rooted in the belief that parenting and homemaking is "women's work" and that fathers raising their children is somehow strange, or unnatural. It isn't even just a legal justice thing either I mean, it's 2022 and so many men's restrooms don't have changing tables still. Like what are they supposed to do? Put their babies on the filthy ass bathroom floor??? It just proves that gender roles hurt everyone in the end. Again, you aren't wrong about 90% of what you said, but the implication that women universally no longer suffer from misogyny or the same dumb gender stereotypes (in any place) is completely false
for the last one, wtf is that logic of "have your name on your clothes." As if everybody writes their name on every single article of clothing they have
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The coat story physically hurt. I have a black denim jacket that I've been hand-sewing patches on and collecting pins for close to two years now. If anything happened to it I'd break down and cry. No one mess with patch jackets!
That last reddit post was fucking disgusting. Talk about double standards. They went to all this trouble JUST to move a GROWN MAN out of the room all because a little girl screamed rape and falsified it.
I understand why they did it. Doesn't make it right.
Imagine being cautioned by a police officer to label your clothes to avoid issues in the future. Like, yeah don’t we all stitch our names on our jackets, shirts, etc?
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The last story just appalled me with the stupidity everyone had except for OP and the kind officer
ya the kind officer who handcuffed him and threw him in the cruiser for no reason......................
total saint....................................................