As a woman raised by a single dad, often times single dads NEED to go into the woman's bathroom/changing room because they are the only ones with baby changing facilities, and every time that's happened the women in the bathrooms have been SUPER supportive of the dad!!
There needs to be more support for changing tables in men's restrooms. I also remember a time when I was 8 and my sister was 6 and we had to use the bathroom. My father would stand outside the restroom at a local McDonald's because he couldn't bring us to the men's and he couldn't go in either. The women in there were like super supportive and also made sure we made it okay. Good thing more popular places like stadiums, theme parks, airports and some major retailers have family restrooms now.
@@Yumi_Jay totally!! My nearest shopping centre has a separate place for changing babies but a lot of older places are still behind. When my dad first became a single dad he'd either never go to places long enough to have to take us to the bathroom or have my aunt or granny tag along. If you see a dad if a bathroom or a changing room genuinely just helping their kids, leave them be!! They don't want to be there either!
It’s increasingly common in the UK to have a dedicated diaper changing room next to public bathrooms. They are equal access instead of keeping changing tables in both restrooms.
@@phoenixfire8978 This is also normal in Australia in public facilities, malls etc. Often it's not a specific baby-changing room, but a uni-sex toilet suitable for wheel-chair, and also including a change table. They are open to everyone, you don't have to have a baby or be in a wheel-chair.
Sometimes I imagine Entitled Parents stories as Judge Judy cases. Judy: "So what happened, what caused the kid's pain? EM: "There was spicy chicken on the counter... and I gave some to my kid." Judy: "Where in that sentence did you say THEY gave the chicken to your child?" EM: "Well you shou-" Judy: "No, no! I asked you a question!" And it just goes like this
The fact that the changing room Karen didn't escalate the situation immediately implies she was actually enjoying the show. Normally a Karen would shriek and stomp off to find a manager the second she saw dong.
That's my thought as well. She liked looking at his privates. She had to seen them before since she had a SON! I'm sure her son wasn't even bothered by it at all. She got an eye full and felt guilty.
She came in with son for 15 minutes before the adult males got there, was still there while he showered for ten minutes and she shocked men are using the men room for changing!!! Why is she taking 25 minutes to get her son changed out and still there to stare at the man's penis? She is the voyeurs. She is only deflecting from her own bad behavior.
My money is on that she was taking her time hoping to catch a glance. And then tried to make it out to be the mans fault so she wouldn't be accused of being voyeuristic
My mother is CONSTANTLY telling me how to parent. A few days ago she came by and did it again. I said "Mom, I love you, but with all do respect, I'm doing the opposite of whatever you tell me because I see how your children turned out, and I don't want them to end up there. You were a great mom, but I aspire to be even better" she cried and left. Her 4 yr old died because she was visiting my grandmother across the street and left us alone. The rest of us turned into drug addicts. Myself and my older brother are doing well these days, but my baby brother is still a horrible loser addict, abandoned his kids, and lives with my dad at 34. Sorry if I don't take your parenting advice. Doesn't seem as if you know what you're talking about.
You did amazing telling her that, and you're completely right based on the info you provided. She has NO IDEA how to parent. Good luck breaking the cycle, and always remember your kiddo has just as many complex thoughts and feelings as you do! They just need extra help understanding. Good job!!
That reminds me of something i heard once from somewhere where a woman was on the subway that was so full someone else was sitting in the expectant mothers reserved seats. "Excuse me, it says these seats are for pregnant women!" "B#tch, move along, its not my fault you didnt F*ck someone with a car!" XD
The statement of, "your generation can't stay off the phone for more than 2 minutes," probably made a lot of young grocery store workers raise their eyebrows.
I was gunna say, definitely not just a grocery store thing. There is a lot of workplaces now that have a zero tolerance for having your phone on you while on the floor. Depends on the kind of worker you are if you're ballsy enough to be on your phone when you're supposed to be working. I hate the generational stereotype for being on your phone as a Gen Z or Millenial. I know a lot of people in their 40's + that are on their phone all the time, but it's the "younger" generations that get harassed about it.
@Project Oof While I was employed I spent eight hours out of ten on a computer. The rest of the time I spent doing research or helping other people. My son spends all day on a computer even when he's at work. Of course, he's been writing programs and working in the computer industry since he was 13. He loves it. He was working on his Doctorate in Computer Science but stopped once he realized the only thing a PhD would do for him would be to enable him to teach. He could teach but it is not what he likes doing.
People saying “I’m a single mom with X kids” enrages me every time I hear it, a mom i know is a single mom to 7 kids and never once has used that to guilt trip people or try to get something for free.
@@johnnyhuntrero6870 Yup! I'm from a family of 15 and my mom stayed home a great part of our young lives. Of course, that was a very long time ago and both my parents are gone now.
plus they act like it removes zero accountability. Odds are you chose to have that child, so it's on you. If the father isn't involved he is useless as a person, but you chose to sleep with a man who wouldn't be a good father smh
@@Harry-zz2oh I'm from a family of 9 and our family is pretty bad but were fine for now but the problem is people interfering who have no business my sister has become less like herself because our father and his girlfriend and dcf interfering it pisses me of to because I got in trouble for beating a old man for molesting my 3 year old sister and as the third oldest in the house I'm expected to manage parts of the house,kids and feed them whenever my mom doesn't eat to cook I gi shopping for the family alot and I'm constantly being asked to do things for people and sometimes I have to do regardless ofnhown8 feel and as a 13 year old guy it is alot for me to do and it's only harder because he my family never really respects how I feel except for my older brother and it has me constantly wishing there were less of us because my younger siblings are just a huge inconvenience and they only drive me crazy I'm constantly told by my mom and older sister I need to change when I'm trying to change I cant change without things being different and the pandemic I spent helping at all I can only hope things get better from here.
First story: I'm 33 and apparently never "matured past the not wanting kids phase". I'm thinking "bitch, I've been an aunt since I was almost TWELVE! I know how I am around infants and it's not ideal. This isn't a phase for me. It's a fact of life." I didn't start bonding with my nieces and nephews until they were several months old. It's not ethical for me to have kids when I won't even hold newborns. And to preempt the inevitable: the reason I became an aunt so young is because the first of my brothers to have kids is 13 years older than me. So yeah, I have a literal lifetime of figuring out how I am with kids. My parents don't pressure me because they're awesome, I'm single, and they now have seven grandkids. I'm a cat mom so they have a grandcat from me.
There is literally no good reason to have kids if you don't want them. Like, the only good reason I could think of is when you are suddenly one of the few survivors of the apocalypse and the only way to save humankind is to procreate. And even then I am not sure if that is worth it (I mean, our kind is not exactly good for the environment).
I decided in my 20s (I'll be 35 this year) not to have kids partly because of my chronic pain issues, many of which are genetic - my great-grandmother had them, my grandmother has them, Mum has them & I have them. They also seem to kick in & become more than just ignorable aches & pains earlier & earlier with each generation. Gram was in her late 40s, early 50s when they really started being a problem for her, Mum was in her 30s, and I was *19* I also just...never wanted any. I don't dislike kids, I do fine with babies, I just don't want any of my own. They're more fun when you can send them back to their parents 😆 I'm also an aromantic asexual, so, gonna be hard to ever get pregnant to begin with LOL
"I'm not racist, nor sexist. I just hate everyone equally." As bad of a feeling that is, that's something to strive for. if you can't like one group specifically, just hate everything. that doesn't mean that the dude can't at least have some basic decency, though.
@@jerryjones8470 for me this makes everyday more tolerable, I don't have to pretend to be nice to people, but i also don't try to screw people either, I just prefer they interact with me as little as possible
@Faisal Perdana or the kid will have some mental or medical problems (obviously not because of the vaccines) and she'll use that as "proof" that vaccines are bad. All she cares about is making sure she comes out either looking like a saint for praying or a genius for being "right". I hate antivaxxers with a burning passion but I can't even argue with them because I just so happen to have a couple of those problems associated with "vaccine injuries" (including the one all antivaxxers fear the most, autism) which they throw in my face and use against me.
My mom had nothing but bad husbands. My step-father was notorious for drinking and gambling, leaving mom as sole breadwinner and provider, homemaker, housekeeper, and alone to raise me and keep track of how age-appropriate my video games were for me. Actual hard-working moms will hold themselves to impossible standards of capability and integrity on all fronts. My mom's a goddamned superhero even at 72 years old, she was a better shot than any of her husbands whether it was with a handgun or a rifle, and the one time my stepdad tried to hit her, he was the one on the floor before anyone even realized he was about to swing mom reacted so fast. Actual hard-working moms will swallow every bit of their pride to do the best damned job they can and earn the biggest damned paycheck they can so they can take care of their kids most important needs.
HUGE shoutout to the parents who educated themselves and changed their beliefs on their own research and facts, and for being humble about it. For doing what they feel is best for their family's health! And the MIL who did not agree with them, but still supported them in their choice as parents! This is how we break the cycle! 🙌💜
What about the opposite tho, I know stories for lots of people who are bring praised when they go away from anti-vacc to pro-vacc but never the other way around. Would you, hypotheticaly, support your kids if they chose to not vacc their kids?! If not then you did not break any circle.
"I hope something horrible happens to your baby!" "I'll be praying for your baby." Such distorted thinking, can't even tell when she's contradicting herself. 🙄
I hate people saying that. I'm someone who's always on the phone but not for gaming. I'm a bookworm and constantly read ebooks on my phone (my yearly challenge is reading 200 books per year). But so many people think being on the phone means "playing stupid games".
@@BlueFlameVampire Just 200 a year? Go for 300 a year. All my kids read as do I. The more I read the more I learn how much I don't know so I have to open another book to find out something new to learn. Great fun. And yes, I've read a lot of books since I was ten. I keep reading and learning and one of these days my kids will say "He was a well read man". A great epitaph.
@@Harry-zz2oh I'd love to, but due to working 5 days a week and also wanting to meet my friends regularly on the weekend, I don't have time to read more than that.
Imagine knowing 4 kids depend on you and treating your job like it doesn't matter. Honestly, I hope someone takes those kids away from her, she's terribly irresponsible.
“You haven’t matured past the ‘I don’t want kids’ stage.” Well ma’am, you already know I don’t want kids out of wedlock. You seriously want me to have kids right now?
I don’t have Reddit so I’m going to share this story here My family just moved to a new neighbor hood, so my mom sent out a post saying “hi! We are new to this neighborhood, is it always this windy?” And someone (E) replied “yeah it’s always windy in March, welcome to earth, enjoy your stay” which was super rude but we weren’t really going to say anything. My moms good friend, (we will call my mom K and her friend C) C told K that what the woman (who we will call E for entitled) said was super rude, and that she actually knew E, because she lived in her neighborhood. C recently had someone spam her email for months after asking them to stop and eventually threatened to report them (apparently they can be charged a couple thousand dollars per email if they don’t acknowledge the requests to stop, and this was going on for months) and the person eventually stopped spamming them. C made a post saying how annoying it was that businesses weren’t allowed to abuse emails or sell them or anything and she’s upset she had to work for several months to have them stop and they should’ve respected her request the first time. Other people in the comments were agreeing, but E commented and wrote “you’re exaggerating, you didn’t need to report him, calm down.” They also met up for a play date the first time C and her family moved in (they had 5 kids, they have one more now) and E reached out and wrote “Hey, seems like our kids like to play together! We should have a play date” so K agreed and they met up at their house. But wait, they didn’t. E just DROPPED OFF HER DAUGHTER at their house. And just left. For a few hours. E comes back and says “sorry, I had errands!” This happened a few more times. Me and my brother both have loved listening to the Rslash podcast and listen to the new one every morning, so we had heard this story before but didn’t think we would encounter it. Overall, I’ll keep y’all updated on if anything happens rip
@@dragonofkilln9663 I would appreciate that so much! Lemme know if you need clarification or editing of anything. Gosh I really appreciate that, I just don’t trust myself with Reddit 😂
@@Heyimjustriver I got you! 😂 And thanks! Since you'll have the link you can look at the comments yourself too. And if anyone has anything they would like to know, just send me the update/edit and I'll just copy and paste your response/edit. 😃
@@Heyimjustriver hey 😅 sorry to pester you with messages. But are getting those links? I'm getting the impression that it's being deleted because of reddits "spam deletions" policy.
"Im a mother/have kids! So Im allowed todo anything!" No. No you dont. "Youll hurt my kids if you forbid things to me or punish me!" No. YOU hurt your kids. It is YOUR behavior. Not mine or theirs. "I know better cause Im older/habe kids!" No. Age means nothing. Subject experiance does! And being a parent means nothing in your job or job capabilities. It actually hinders you. Why do you think younger generations get kids late?
“Matured past the not wanting kids phase” Me, almost 38 with no kids: 🤦♀️ How are people this dumb?? I’m glad she was fired! No workplace should put up with ageism and discrimination.
Y'know what? I'm really happy to hear about that family that changed their minds on vaccines. The parents who did the research and decided to trust science here for their own safety and the safety of their baby. Good for them!!
To the op who vaccinated their 6 month old. Thank you for doing research and coming to that decision. I understand growing up under those beliefs makes it hard to see past them but trust me, vaccinating you’re baby is for the best. Many of those illnesses are deadly and well a child’s immune system can only be so strong. So really it’s for the best. Having your (I’m assume gorgeous) little girl be a little fussy for a few days is much better than any side effects that could come from catching those awful illnesses.
The chicken thieving EM should be reported to CPS, this mother would intentionally give potentially poisoned food she stole to her child! That child must be saved!
"Mommy, why do I only know Grandma and Grandpa from Daddy's family?" "Well, you see, mommy's mommy wasn't a good person, and she hoped you'd get really sick and die because we decided to keep you safe from all the nasty diseases out there that mommy's mommy didn't think were a big deal. Mommy decided that she wasn't gonna let her mommy be mean to us ever again, so I never talked to her again. Daddy's mommy and daddy are a whole lot nicer anyway!"
Here's an analogy to sum up the chicken story "HEY I BROKE INTO YOUR HOUSE LAST NIGHT AND I STEPPED IN SOME BROKEN GLASS FROM THE WINDOW, HOW DARE YOU HAVE BROKEN GLASS LYING AROUND FOR PEOPLE TO GET HURT ON?"
I am a mortician, the story about the anti-VAX parents deciding to vaccinate their children makes me tear up with joy. It’s always tough when you have to smile at the family and pretend like they weren’t the cause of something happening to their child
I feel for the fathers in that last story...I’m going through a divorce from a narcissist and lucky enough I was granted full physical custody of my kids
If I may , can I get your male perspective on things. I'm also going through a separation with a narcissist with whom I had a rough marriage with. Its been a year plus and I have moved on to someone else. I don't think I will be considering marriage seriously until several solid years of relationship again but I do live together with my current partner. He's been great at bonding and taking care of her. My child calls him daddy and her bio father papa , she's always called the bio dad papa even when we were together. But recently he's taken offense at it and trying to make her call him daddy as well whenever he visits once in a while and starts tantrums when he heard her call the other daddy. I always brush it off as him being himself , as he does that kind of things alot , for example he never spent time with me or his child when we live tgt and when I did plan outings to zoo or park he would ruin it by staying up all night to play games , insist he will be fine , end up not being fine, sick, going home asap, be nursed all the way back , then be magically better at home and play games all day again etc. But when my current partner and I plan nice days out or picnics and he sees or hear about it he constantly goes on about how it should be him instead /He deserved to be there / he also wants to have nice outings and then proceed to ruin the outing for us. Things like this are very common with him so I just thought it was his usual fits. But I feel like after reading this , it might be something deeper than just jealousy. Is it wrong of me to approve of her calling my current partner daddy ? Should I have it changed to something else. But I'm unsure what.
last story: how can someone be SO detached from reality that they can’t accept that they’re to blame that something bad happen. EM is just like people who cause an accident from speeding and constantly deny that they caused the accident when it was a single car MVA
The chilli story reminds me of my friend, who was, or well, still is very into spicy food. He was making his food when his mom walked in and asked what he was making. He told her and she didn't believe him that it was so spicy. 5min later she's in the bathroom feeling like she's going to hurl, all the while my friend was enjoying his food with barely any tears or sweat. He had to cut back cause it was getting to a point where he just didn't taste the fire anymore no matter what he used.
My mom raised my sisters and I while struggling to find work, and she was always admired for her determination to take care of us and never once used as leverage to get a job. She was even doing odd jobs and hard labor as well.
"Vaccines make you sick!" That's...the point of them...your immune system is responding to either an inactive virus or something similar that will create a response in the form of antibodies. Reminds me of my helf-aunt, who had to get vaccinated for the common flu every winter for 3 years due to some other issue she had, but still got a mild flu twice and kept saying how the vaccines don't work cause you still get sick...
@@vaporean_boylove.0w083 Being anti-vax Believing in the murder of children Imagine being so delusional you think their is a difference, the ‘mother’ in that story is off her rocker
@@vaporean_boylove.0w083 what I said was a statement meant to agree with you and make fun of anti-vax people, apologies if it came of as a personal jab at your character instead
Karen: death stares at op in locker room OP: you can give me the stink eye all you want, but I know I’ll be smelling like roses when I leave 😏 See what I did there?? 😎
For the vaccine story, I believe one of the top comments was about telling the crazy mother 'If you're so hopeful that my baby dies, then she might as well will be dead to you from now on.'
She should also tell her grandpa that if EM contacts her through his phone number again, she will cut contact with him too. She doesn't want EM harassing and bullying her, and if Grandpa is gonna be complicit in that, he can suffer the same consequences as EM.
"By this point she's so out of control she's actually got snot coming out of her nose." It took 4 minutes to recover from my laughing fit. My cats thought that I had lost my mind. :'-D
can I just say, there's alot of spicy foods I can hold back but ho lord jesus that chicken sounded deadly to me and hearing that story made me wish it was her that had eaten it instead. That'd have made for a much funnier experience I think.
Unfortunately for those fathers in the last story the mothers almost always win custody. A man was held in contempt after his child died after he had warned the court about the mother's negligence. Society doesn't care about men or what's "in the child's best interest" because sometimes what's in the child's best interest is not being with their mother but the court decides otherwise.
Literally. How can parents be so ignorant. If the kid had a severe peanut allergy, the mother had a high chance of killing the kid. She had no idea if anything the kid couldn't have is in the chicken.
i think the mom in the fried chicken story actually felt super guilty after realizing she had hurt her child, and she self projected and took it out on op and their roommate. that’s probably why she was hysterically crying and freaking out. hopefully she learned her lesson from that.
The last story breaks my heart, taking the EM to court to take the kids away from her is near to impossible if the mom is not doing drugs or something mayor. Mens rights are underdeveloped around the world, the best they could do is get the kids for more time, maybe. Really breaks my heart.
If both fathers take her to court and both can prove she's a terrible parent its possible they can win. They have to take everything down and ect. Keep tight records and not to be pushed out. Some women don't deserve kids period. This is coming from a woman. I wish those two dads the best of luck.
Correction: Men's rights when it comes to family is underdeveloped and only in the western world. In the middle east and in Islam, men even holds the power when it comes to children. When a women remarries, the daughter custody is passed to the father. But in the context of the west, yes, it's underdeveloped when it comes to paternal rights.
Yo nice pfp And same, hopefully the "mom" won't win this case. The new boyfriend would hopefully be a good person too and see the lady for who she really is, too. If he does then it could help OP and the other dad.
The story with the transphobic manager had me rolling my eyes. I mean, who cares what restroom he goes in? In some countries, there aren't different restrooms for men and women. I am FTM and I faced something similar to this. I work in a grocery store; and, at the time, I worked in the apparel department. When I went up stairs for my break, I'd use the men's bathroom. Well, I use some guys saw me in there and told management who talked to my department head who talked to my lead who talked to me. She's an amazing woman and was laughing about this nonsense when she talked to me. Apparently, I was making people uncomfortable by going to the bathroom and management asked her to tell me to use the gender neutral one or the single stall ones downstairs. She said they thought I would listen to her better. We both laughed at that and she said that she didn't care what bathroom I used and that management can't really do anything against me because of the Union and the employee handbook that protects me. I decided to use the ones downstairs until I started hormones and now I occasionally use the one upstairs just cause I can.
Why is NOBODY talking about how CRAZY the last EM is?! My father was never in the picture. My brothers father didn’t really work out well with my mother. If I found out my mom did that, I would be PISSED
"ultimately we're confident with our desicion [...] altho at time we do question if we made the right decision" well .. i'm not even a parent yet but find this situation pretty relateable.
Plot Twist: The girl who ate the spicy fried chicken grew up to become a pepper head, just like OP. The mother who fed the girl the spicy fried chicken grew up to serve time in prison for child abuse.
My mom was anti-vaxx also. She had me, and my six siblings thoroughly convinced that vaccines would make us unhealthy, and that we were superior to other kids who were vaccinated. when I was in 9th grade, there was a measles outbreak in our county, and everyone who wasn't vaccinated, or who didn't provide titer tests as proof of immunity, were removed from school, for our own safety of course. Aside from being anti-vaxx, both my parents were also abusive, which in turn led to us being abusive to each other also, because monkey see, monkey do, right? Well, even though I hated school for all the bullies and teasing I went through, it was still safer than being home, so I BEGGED my mom to let me get vaccinated so I could continue going to school. She lectured me for two hours about the evils of vaccines, and convinced me, 'I don't want to be a sheep, do I?' Part of that lecture was telling me that the measles vaccine in particular was especially dangerous and had the highest death rate of all the vaccines, so I believed what she told me. I mean, she was my mom, why would she lie to me? Well, two years later, another measles outbreak happened, and they were talking about removing us from school again. This time, I was adamantly opposed to getting vaccinated, because of everything my mom had told me when I wanted one. They had to drag e into the health clinic, kicking and screaming, to get the vaccine. I was convinced I was going to die, o r get extremely sick at least. In fact, I secretly hoped I did die to teach my mom a lesson! ... Nothing happened. That was the moment I started to question everything my parents had ever told me. A year later, I contracted Whooping Cough, also called Pertussis, which there is a vaccine for. It destroyed my lungs, reduced my lung capacity so much, my aspirations of joining the Olympic Swim Team were dashed, my singing and flute playing also suffered, and I had recurring bouts of bronchitis ever since. I have since come to learn, the damage done to my lungs when I had Pertussis was permanent, and led to developing asthma. But that went undiagnosed and untreated for so man decades that it developed into COPD, putting my at high risk for the current virus we are trying to avoid. I am super glad my critical thinking and logical thought skills weren't completely destroyed by my parents' lack of either, and all my children are fully vaccinated, at least while I was in charge of that, they were. Now, most of them are adults. I not only became a vaccine believer, but for about seven years, I was a pro-vaccine activist, using my own, personal experience to help convince others to get vaccinated, and get their kids vaccined, because that is the best way to stay healthy!
About the chicken: I really hope EM got her daughter to a hospital. If the chicken was actually that spicy, it could cause GI problems - ulcers, gastritis, and diarrhea. Best to let a pediatrician (or at least a general practitioner, GI doc, or ER doc) sort that out. About custody for dads: Best of luck. I really do mean that. It's common knowledge the US courts are stacked in favor of the moms when divorce and/or child custody is the question.
The kid with the spicy chicken reminds me of a time at my friends birthday party, where he tricked us into eating really spicy noodles, and I mean REALLY spicy. It was just normal noodles, but with ghost pepper sauce added. I ate a single, inch long noodle, and my tongue felt like it physically caught fire. So the next kid comes, thinks it’s just normal flavouring and then EATS SOME OF THE SAUCE. It was soon after that when we learned; don’t eat the sauce of spicy noodles, and DO NOT drink Coca Cola to wash it down.
If I was the guy in the locker room story I would have hit her with a little helicopter action and tell her "If you don't like what you see then you shouldn't be staring this way" and then give her a wink lol
Tbh, when that last story started, I honestly thought it was my dad who wrote it. The exact same thing happened with him, except different ages and times for seeing his other children, and my dad doesnt have as much progress on gaining custody as the guy in the story
Vaccine doctor: pretty sure that's a privacy violation. Edit: actually, OP of that story needs to cut out her mothers, possibly even get a restraining order. That is very dangerous behaviour with multiple red flags
8:21 This actually happened once at one of my dance recitals And TLDR, old man goes to help daughter changed into her dance costume in the girls changing room, when there were other female helpers available So it was late June 2018 and the dance studio I was in hosted a dance recitals at our Catholic/Christian High-school bc it had the 2nd biggest auditorium and stage (right after the local Capital Theatre) and it was cheaper to use the school So I have to do 4 dances in 3 different costumes (tap and hip-hop shared outfits to help save money, and jaz and lyrical had completely different outfits) We used the 2 classrooms in the drama section of the school (cause it’s right behind the stage) one room for all the girls, and one for the boys, as well as helpers (who are parents of dancers or the older dancers themselves) for each room So imagine the surprise of a 14 year old girl who was getting changed from a street-performer look to a dress, when she looks to the side and finds about a 40 yo man helping his (who I hope so) 5-7 yo daughter... You bet I ran to the bathroom to get changed in a stall bc I was up soon and didn’t want to show off my unmentionables to an old man. After my dance was done, I told my dance teacher about him to have him removed from the room (which she already did as other helpers reported him) and she told me to tell her if he ever came back in there
The Mom in the changing room reminds me of a couple of instances in my past. The first was when my middle son was a baby he started scream crying whenever I touched him this ended up with him being admitted to the hospital. While I was there his older brother went with me into the women's restroom where I kept him in the stall with me until it was time to wash our hands. Since he was a curious child he pointed to the box hanging on the wall which dispensed feminine products and asked what it was. I told him it was a "necessaries" box which satisfied his curiosity. A woman came out of a different stall and told me that that was the best answer to that question she had ever heard. (They decided that the problem with my middle boy was likely a spider bite. That was when I learned that all spiders were poisonous and those labeled as such were the ones that could actually bite through the normal human skin. Babies and elderly people have thinner skin.) The second one was in relation to the man I called Pop. He was dying of cancer but while he could he would still go out with my mom and me from time to time. One day we were at a store with a bullseye logo. He needed to use the restroom and as he required help I asked a worker which one I should take him into. I was told either one would be okay. I am a female and was also a certified nurse's aide so since I felt that it is likely that women might be bothered by him being in that room more than a guy would be with me being in the men's room I took him in there. I think a few guys we a bit startled by me coming out of the stall with him but for the most part that was the most reaction we got. The woman in that story should not have brought the kid in that room if she was going to act offended that a guy might use the room as it was meant to be used.
Dad/stepdad The is comes from the bottom of my heart. A man the is willing to welcome a child not by blood to become his own. Even after the adult relationship is over, in my book. You are her daddy. And once you saw what truly happen to her bio; You helped both of them. You are a Hero and an Awesome Daddy!!!
Feminism means believing women should be treated the same as men. Meaning, yes, if they're being in a men's changing room, then should be treated the same as if they were a man in a women's changing room. I understand if she was in there alone, because then it's just a changing room. But being in a protected space and then being upset at the people who that space is for... come on, lady.
Think about how women have to get into the circles reserved for males, from Men's Sheds to Boy Scouts, because they have to break patriarchy. And yet males are forbidden to enter female circles like Girl Guides, because females need their safe spaces.
10:30: What? "I hope something happens to her so you'll learn the consequences of your actions! Oh I'll be praying for her though!" Yeah that doesn't scream mental case...
I respect and have a lot of love for people living and presenting as their truest self, regardless of what state they were born into. Gay, straight, bi, cis, trans, non-binary, etc., are all valid and deserving of respect and kindness. Consenting adults shouldn't be treated as pariahs or outcasts for how they identify or present themselves, no one is being hurt so it's not anyone's business. I have several trans and non-binary friends, many queer friends, lots of gay, pan, bi, etc. friends, and I adore them all. As a pan guy myself, I'd feel so fortunate to be loved by someone, and I couldn't care less about what they were born as as long as they're happy and comfortable with who they are now and going forward.
@Steve Delaney I'm sorry, sweetheart, but a C average in sophomore year doesn't make you an authority on subjects of biology, neurology, or anything else. Come back when you can debunk the neuroscience behind gender, or the biology behind intersex and chromosomal conditions. Until then, I find it laughable that you seem to think we've understood "Basic biology" for "thousands of years", it was only the past couple hundred we've realized that doctors should wash their hands between performing autopsies and delivering babies, after all. Basic Biology of today was the stuff people got thrown into insane asylums for suggesting just 100 years ago.
The changing room story reminds me of something that happened about 18 years ago now when I was 8/9. It's not really related to entitled people, more kids are stupid/kids are evil. I used to get swimming lessons every Wednesday at a local swimming pool. After my lesson ended one of these times, I was showering, naked as you would expect in the mens changing room. Some kid comes into the shower area and, as I was the only person in there, he asked me perhaps the stupidest question one can ask in a changing room: why are you naked? I immediately put my trunks back on. He didn't know it, but those four words changed how I view my body. There's a deal of shame and extreme embarrassment, even when I'm in changing rooms. Before that point, I had no issue being naked in a changing room, but afterwards I made every effort to hide myself. Even now at 26, I hate showing a lot of skin (even before I put on weight). I don't wear shorts, I wear long sleeved jackets and hoodies even in summer. All because some stupid kid asked why I was naked in the shower.
I love Entitled parents special episodes. Makes me my day Ngl. Heating adults cry like kids. Thankfully in southern texas, we don't have Entitled parents cause damn... I wouldn't handle a single one and have a pure panic attack. My panic attacks varies from paralyzed legs, blurry vision, and problematic anxiety and intense breathing with issues. I would cry too.
Waitresses: "You can't fire her, she has foOoOur kids!!!"
OP: "I missed the part where that's my problem."
Or as my little sister would always say "That is a you problem not a me problem."
Step 1: Have sex.
Step 2: Get pregnant.
Step 3: Give birth.
Step 4: Do whatever you want without any consequences because you are now beyond reproach.
OP: If you don't stop whining like brats then you'll be joining her in unemployment.
@@nalrashido Yep, that'll shut them up.
Empathy is lacking here, but she still needed to be fired because of attitude. She was not a match for that place.
As a woman raised by a single dad, often times single dads NEED to go into the woman's bathroom/changing room because they are the only ones with baby changing facilities, and every time that's happened the women in the bathrooms have been SUPER supportive of the dad!!
There needs to be more support for changing tables in men's restrooms. I also remember a time when I was 8 and my sister was 6 and we had to use the bathroom. My father would stand outside the restroom at a local McDonald's because he couldn't bring us to the men's and he couldn't go in either. The women in there were like super supportive and also made sure we made it okay. Good thing more popular places like stadiums, theme parks, airports and some major retailers have family restrooms now.
@@Yumi_Jay totally!! My nearest shopping centre has a separate place for changing babies but a lot of older places are still behind. When my dad first became a single dad he'd either never go to places long enough to have to take us to the bathroom or have my aunt or granny tag along. If you see a dad if a bathroom or a changing room genuinely just helping their kids, leave them be!! They don't want to be there either!
It’s increasingly common in the UK to have a dedicated diaper changing room next to public bathrooms. They are equal access instead of keeping changing tables in both restrooms.
@@phoenixfire8978 This is also normal in Australia in public facilities, malls etc. Often it's not a specific baby-changing room, but a uni-sex toilet suitable for wheel-chair, and also including a change table. They are open to everyone, you don't have to have a baby or be in a wheel-chair.
Our church put a changing table in the men's room years ago. The dads no longer had an excuse for ditching diaper duty.
Sometimes I imagine Entitled Parents stories as Judge Judy cases.
Judy: "So what happened, what caused the kid's pain?
EM: "There was spicy chicken on the counter... and I gave some to my kid."
Judy: "Where in that sentence did you say THEY gave the chicken to your child?"
EM: "Well you shou-"
Judy: "No, no! I asked you a question!"
And it just goes like this
@JSodaPop I thought I was the only person who thought like that 😂😂😂😂😂
Execute the mother for incompetence?
Judge Judy logic is what every entitled parent should be judged by.
And theyll all be found guilty
the best show ever. when is episode two
So glad I'm not the only one who thinks this!
The fact that the changing room Karen didn't escalate the situation immediately implies she was actually enjoying the show. Normally a Karen would shriek and stomp off to find a manager the second she saw dong.
This comment really made me lol
That's my thought as well. She liked looking at his privates. She had to seen them before since she had a SON! I'm sure her son wasn't even bothered by it at all. She got an eye full and felt guilty.
She came in with son for 15 minutes before the adult males got there, was still there while he showered for ten minutes and she shocked men are using the men room for changing!!! Why is she taking 25 minutes to get her son changed out and still there to stare at the man's penis? She is the voyeurs. She is only deflecting from her own bad behavior.
My money is on that she was taking her time hoping to catch a glance. And then tried to make it out to be the mans fault so she wouldn't be accused of being voyeuristic
OP should’ve called her a pervert and sexual deviant. Let’s see what excuse she gives to management.😂
My mother is CONSTANTLY telling me how to parent. A few days ago she came by and did it again. I said "Mom, I love you, but with all do respect, I'm doing the opposite of whatever you tell me because I see how your children turned out, and I don't want them to end up there. You were a great mom, but I aspire to be even better" she cried and left. Her 4 yr old died because she was visiting my grandmother across the street and left us alone. The rest of us turned into drug addicts. Myself and my older brother are doing well these days, but my baby brother is still a horrible loser addict, abandoned his kids, and lives with my dad at 34. Sorry if I don't take your parenting advice. Doesn't seem as if you know what you're talking about.
I wish you best of luck in life and never go back! don't give up
@@Bubu-tg6ul Yeah!
Bubu is right
You did amazing telling her that, and you're completely right based on the info you provided. She has NO IDEA how to parent. Good luck breaking the cycle, and always remember your kiddo has just as many complex thoughts and feelings as you do! They just need extra help understanding. Good job!!
I'm very happy that you strive to be better! All the best!
"She has 4 kids you can't fire her"
It's not the bosses fault that the mom is too stupid to use protection.
Yeah, it's not the bosses fault that she likes to make some "side income"
At maximum, 4 times
They can offer to babysit for free so she can easily find another job.
That reminds me of something i heard once from somewhere where a woman was on the subway that was so full someone else was sitting in the expectant mothers reserved seats. "Excuse me, it says these seats are for pregnant women!" "B#tch, move along, its not my fault you didnt F*ck someone with a car!" XD
The Best Burn ever.
The statement of, "your generation can't stay off the phone for more than 2 minutes," probably made a lot of young grocery store workers raise their eyebrows.
Grocery store workers? What am I missing?
@@limiv5272 Grocery store workers basically spend all day without their phones
@@limiv5272 it’s actually harder to get on your phone during shift than what you would think(unless your workplace isn’t that busy)
I was gunna say, definitely not just a grocery store thing. There is a lot of workplaces now that have a zero tolerance for having your phone on you while on the floor. Depends on the kind of worker you are if you're ballsy enough to be on your phone when you're supposed to be working. I hate the generational stereotype for being on your phone as a Gen Z or Millenial. I know a lot of people in their 40's + that are on their phone all the time, but it's the "younger" generations that get harassed about it.
@Project Oof While I was employed I spent eight hours out of ten on a computer. The rest of the time I spent doing research or helping other people. My son spends all day on a computer even when he's at work. Of course, he's been writing programs and working in the computer industry since he was 13. He loves it. He was working on his Doctorate in Computer Science but stopped once he realized the only thing a PhD would do for him would be to enable him to teach. He could teach but it is not what he likes doing.
People saying “I’m a single mom with X kids” enrages me every time I hear it, a mom i know is a single mom to 7 kids and never once has used that to guilt trip people or try to get something for free.
@@johnnyhuntrero6870 Yup! I'm from a family of 15 and my mom stayed home a great part of our young lives. Of course, that was a very long time ago and both my parents are gone now.
plus they act like it removes zero accountability. Odds are you chose to have that child, so it's on you. If the father isn't involved he is useless as a person, but you chose to sleep with a man who wouldn't be a good father smh
@mike sixx yuuuuuuup. tbh I blame weak men for this, but the woman re f*cked up too
That's when you reply, "So you're too stupid to figure out a condom. Whaddaya want, a trophy?!"
@@Harry-zz2oh I'm from a family of 9 and our family is pretty bad but were fine for now but the problem is people interfering who have no business my sister has become less like herself because our father and his girlfriend and dcf interfering it pisses me of to because I got in trouble for beating a old man for molesting my 3 year old sister and as the third oldest in the house I'm expected to manage parts of the house,kids and feed them whenever my mom doesn't eat to cook I gi shopping for the family alot and I'm constantly being asked to do things for people and sometimes I have to do regardless ofnhown8 feel and as a 13 year old guy it is alot for me to do and it's only harder because he my family never really respects how I feel except for my older brother and it has me constantly wishing there were less of us because my younger siblings are just a huge inconvenience and they only drive me crazy I'm constantly told by my mom and older sister I need to change when I'm trying to change I cant change without things being different and the pandemic I spent helping at all I can only hope things get better from here.
First story: I'm 33 and apparently never "matured past the not wanting kids phase". I'm thinking "bitch, I've been an aunt since I was almost TWELVE! I know how I am around infants and it's not ideal. This isn't a phase for me. It's a fact of life."
I didn't start bonding with my nieces and nephews until they were several months old. It's not ethical for me to have kids when I won't even hold newborns. And to preempt the inevitable: the reason I became an aunt so young is because the first of my brothers to have kids is 13 years older than me. So yeah, I have a literal lifetime of figuring out how I am with kids. My parents don't pressure me because they're awesome, I'm single, and they now have seven grandkids. I'm a cat mom so they have a grandcat from me.
There is literally no good reason to have kids if you don't want them. Like, the only good reason I could think of is when you are suddenly one of the few survivors of the apocalypse and the only way to save humankind is to procreate. And even then I am not sure if that is worth it (I mean, our kind is not exactly good for the environment).
Grandcat. I like that name.
@@Love2Banime my cat's name is Tifa. She's like my parents' furry grandchild because she's mine.
I decided in my 20s (I'll be 35 this year) not to have kids partly because of my chronic pain issues, many of which are genetic - my great-grandmother had them, my grandmother has them, Mum has them & I have them. They also seem to kick in & become more than just ignorable aches & pains earlier & earlier with each generation. Gram was in her late 40s, early 50s when they really started being a problem for her, Mum was in her 30s, and I was *19*
I also just...never wanted any. I don't dislike kids, I do fine with babies, I just don't want any of my own. They're more fun when you can send them back to their parents 😆 I'm also an aromantic asexual, so, gonna be hard to ever get pregnant to begin with LOL
hey my brother is 13 years older than me! never thought i’d see another person with a sibling gap like that!
How is no one else giving praise to that MIL in that vaccine story? Even with her different opinions she still supported them, what an MVP!
Yeah she’s a really goodmom
Is this what society has been reduced to?Praising ppl for not pushing their beliefs on others?
true!
@@raidernation7427 yes
@@raidernation7427 To quote Metallica, sad but true.
“Aren’t you above the age to be in the men’s”
That one got me,
Same. I was blown back by that instant uno reverse
"Aren't you a little big for a stroller?"
"Aren't you a little big for a sidewalk?"
but of course women are allowed to do that. but switch it and the dude is called a rapist
"I'm not racist, nor sexist. I just hate everyone equally."
As bad of a feeling that is, that's something to strive for. if you can't like one group specifically, just hate everything. that doesn't mean that the dude can't at least have some basic decency, though.
I do this on a daily basis, everyday is miserable
I think its more "You can be an asshole as long as you aren't a hypocritical asshole."
@@jerryjones8470 for me this makes everyday more tolerable, I don't have to pretend to be nice to people, but i also don't try to screw people either, I just prefer they interact with me as little as possible
You lot may be the only people I like.
The “Only Introverts” gang here
The anti vax Karen logic
"something bad should happen to the kid"
Aslo Karen
"I pray that she will be alright"
nono, she's praying that the kid will get a vaccine injury
and when the kids turn out fine and very healthy, she'd say "i know my prayers worked"
The faith here is used as a meaningless tool to get your results. It just disgusts me
@@arabesquewhyisthistakennow yeah that's a good point, either way her delusions are confirmed.
@Faisal Perdana or the kid will have some mental or medical problems (obviously not because of the vaccines) and she'll use that as "proof" that vaccines are bad. All she cares about is making sure she comes out either looking like a saint for praying or a genius for being "right". I hate antivaxxers with a burning passion but I can't even argue with them because I just so happen to have a couple of those problems associated with "vaccine injuries" (including the one all antivaxxers fear the most, autism) which they throw in my face and use against me.
Karen: Complaining about losing there job and saying "I work for my 4 kids"
Actual Hard Working Mom: _Pathetic_
Exactly!! Don't use your kids to get pity out of other people! So damn irritating
This here is why random cats get sad. Jeez.
So, is every kitten in your current litter healthy?
Use your kids as motivation to work hard, not as pawns to get free stuff!! I applaud you!! 👏🏻👏🏻
My mom had nothing but bad husbands. My step-father was notorious for drinking and gambling, leaving mom as sole breadwinner and provider, homemaker, housekeeper, and alone to raise me and keep track of how age-appropriate my video games were for me.
Actual hard-working moms will hold themselves to impossible standards of capability and integrity on all fronts. My mom's a goddamned superhero even at 72 years old, she was a better shot than any of her husbands whether it was with a handgun or a rifle, and the one time my stepdad tried to hit her, he was the one on the floor before anyone even realized he was about to swing mom reacted so fast.
Actual hard-working moms will swallow every bit of their pride to do the best damned job they can and earn the biggest damned paycheck they can so they can take care of their kids most important needs.
HUGE shoutout to the parents who educated themselves and changed their beliefs on their own research and facts, and for being humble about it. For doing what they feel is best for their family's health! And the MIL who did not agree with them, but still supported them in their choice as parents! This is how we break the cycle! 🙌💜
What about the opposite tho, I know stories for lots of people who are bring praised when they go away from anti-vacc to pro-vacc but never the other way around.
Would you, hypotheticaly, support your kids if they chose to not vacc their kids?!
If not then you did not break any circle.
Ya but she still never vaccinated her children
"If you're gonna be a douchebag,be an equal opportunity douchebag"
Best quote ever.
Oh definitely and such wise words too.
Props to the mom on learning and educating her self on vaccinations for the health of her baby.
but a big screw you to the relative who narced on her to the psycho
"I hope something horrible happens to your baby!"
"I'll be praying for your baby."
Such distorted thinking, can't even tell when she's contradicting herself. 🙄
Thats the typical mindset of those people.
Hyprocrisy. Smh
this is reddit so no emojis😠😠😠😠
Last story, I hope the fathers end up getting their children back.
That lady who said "your generation is always on your phone" is like my mom and is always on the phone more than I am, and I sit in my room all day.
Parents: you kids are always on your phone
Kids: what level are you on candy crush
Parents: I dont know, I think 6578, might be a little more though
I hate people saying that. I'm someone who's always on the phone but not for gaming. I'm a bookworm and constantly read ebooks on my phone (my yearly challenge is reading 200 books per year). But so many people think being on the phone means "playing stupid games".
Hmmm yes those damn video games melt your brain
Now excuse me,as i go back to 5 hours of facebook
@@BlueFlameVampire Just 200 a year? Go for 300 a year. All my kids read as do I. The more I read the more I learn how much I don't know so I have to open another book to find out something new to learn. Great fun. And yes, I've read a lot of books since I was ten. I keep reading and learning and one of these days my kids will say "He was a well read man". A great epitaph.
@@Harry-zz2oh I'd love to, but due to working 5 days a week and also wanting to meet my friends regularly on the weekend, I don't have time to read more than that.
Imagine knowing 4 kids depend on you and treating your job like it doesn't matter.
Honestly, I hope someone takes those kids away from her, she's terribly irresponsible.
I always feel bad for kids who have parents who like that, if she actually cared for her kids she wouldn't be a bitch.
I was thinking the same thing.
Dang we need an update on that last story at some point. That's just a narcissistic mom right there
Right? I just came down to the comments to see if there was a link or something
When one of my employees complains "because I have a lot of kids" I understand "I'm irresponsible and I can't keep it in my pants"
“You haven’t matured past the ‘I don’t want kids’ stage.”
Well ma’am, you already know I don’t want kids out of wedlock. You seriously want me to have kids right now?
I don’t have Reddit so I’m going to share this story here
My family just moved to a new neighbor hood, so my mom sent out a post saying “hi! We are new to this neighborhood, is it always this windy?” And someone (E) replied “yeah it’s always windy in March, welcome to earth, enjoy your stay” which was super rude but we weren’t really going to say anything.
My moms good friend, (we will call my mom K and her friend C)
C told K that what the woman (who we will call E for entitled) said was super rude, and that she actually knew E, because she lived in her neighborhood. C recently had someone spam her email for months after asking them to stop and eventually threatened to report them (apparently they can be charged a couple thousand dollars per email if they don’t acknowledge the requests to stop, and this was going on for months) and the person eventually stopped spamming them. C made a post saying how annoying it was that businesses weren’t allowed to abuse emails or sell them or anything and she’s upset she had to work for several months to have them stop and they should’ve respected her request the first time. Other people in the comments were agreeing, but E commented and wrote “you’re exaggerating, you didn’t need to report him, calm down.”
They also met up for a play date the first time C and her family moved in (they had 5 kids, they have one more now) and E reached out and wrote “Hey, seems like our kids like to play together! We should have a play date” so K agreed and they met up at their house. But wait, they didn’t. E just DROPPED OFF HER DAUGHTER at their house.
And just left.
For a few hours.
E comes back and says “sorry, I had errands!” This happened a few more times.
Me and my brother both have loved listening to the Rslash podcast and listen to the new one every morning, so we had heard this story before but didn’t think we would encounter it. Overall, I’ll keep y’all updated on if anything happens rip
If it's alright with you, I'd be willing post this on entitled parents. Credit you and post the link in this comment thread.
@@dragonofkilln9663 I would appreciate that so much! Lemme know if you need clarification or editing of anything. Gosh I really appreciate that, I just don’t trust myself with Reddit 😂
@@Heyimjustriver I got you! 😂 And thanks! Since you'll have the link you can look at the comments yourself too. And if anyone has anything they would like to know, just send me the update/edit and I'll just copy and paste your response/edit. 😃
@@dragonofkilln9663 I'd like to see it too pls!
@@Heyimjustriver hey 😅 sorry to pester you with messages. But are getting those links? I'm getting the impression that it's being deleted because of reddits "spam deletions" policy.
"Im a mother/have kids! So Im allowed todo anything!"
No. No you dont.
"Youll hurt my kids if you forbid things to me or punish me!"
No. YOU hurt your kids. It is YOUR behavior. Not mine or theirs.
"I know better cause Im older/habe kids!"
No. Age means nothing. Subject experiance does!
And being a parent means nothing in your job or job capabilities.
It actually hinders you.
Why do you think younger generations get kids late?
Your not wrong.
“Matured past the not wanting kids phase”
Me, almost 38 with no kids: 🤦♀️
How are people this dumb?? I’m glad she was fired! No workplace should put up with ageism and discrimination.
Y'know what? I'm really happy to hear about that family that changed their minds on vaccines. The parents who did the research and decided to trust science here for their own safety and the safety of their baby. Good for them!!
To the op who vaccinated their 6 month old. Thank you for doing research and coming to that decision. I understand growing up under those beliefs makes it hard to see past them but trust me, vaccinating you’re baby is for the best.
Many of those illnesses are deadly and well a child’s immune system can only be so strong. So really it’s for the best. Having your (I’m assume gorgeous) little girl be a little fussy for a few days is much better than any side effects that could come from catching those awful illnesses.
The chicken thieving EM should be reported to CPS, this mother would intentionally give potentially poisoned food she stole to her child!
That child must be saved!
She also said “people are going to think I hit my child”. No one said it, but she decided to mention it like she was defending herself.
@@LunaP1 Ngl, her saying that makes her sound extremely suspect. A rare case of shooting yourself in the foot
But that aside, jeesus christ, they were trying to commit suicide creating that hell chicken for themselves.
@@williamlevison9966 I bet that chicken felt ten times worse coming out the other end, fuck me.
@@FSKyurem my thoughts exactly…where there’s smoke, there’s fire
11 minutes in... harm to a 6 month old baby that SHE said was "my little girl"
"Mommy, why do I only know Grandma and Grandpa from Daddy's family?"
"Well, you see, mommy's mommy wasn't a good person, and she hoped you'd get really sick and die because we decided to keep you safe from all the nasty diseases out there that mommy's mommy didn't think were a big deal. Mommy decided that she wasn't gonna let her mommy be mean to us ever again, so I never talked to her again. Daddy's mommy and daddy are a whole lot nicer anyway!"
I'm so heartbroken for the father in the last story. Imagine seeing your child for the first time after seven years.
"I'm not discriminating. I'm just an asshole to everyone"
Not Guilty
You can either be an absolute A-hole or an absolute Angel, no in-between.
flawless logic
Guilty of HR violations and should still be sacks lol.
I should get that on t-shirt! Good merchandise idea 💡!
"To become her daddy"
"x amount of time later we had a son"
Am I the only one that thought OP was from Alabama?
Or Florida, as the Daily Show rightly named, "America's dong."
The person from your lawsuit story: "I yearn for true equality."
Didn't know Kazuma got sued
@@костячачба KIRYU-CHAAAAAAAN
Cop doesn't see color, shoots everything
Here's an analogy to sum up the chicken story
"HEY I BROKE INTO YOUR HOUSE LAST NIGHT AND I STEPPED IN SOME BROKEN GLASS FROM THE WINDOW, HOW DARE YOU HAVE BROKEN GLASS LYING AROUND FOR PEOPLE TO GET HURT ON?"
I am a mortician, the story about the anti-VAX parents deciding to vaccinate their children makes me tear up with joy. It’s always tough when you have to smile at the family and pretend like they weren’t the cause of something happening to their child
I feel for the fathers in that last story...I’m going through a divorce from a narcissist and lucky enough I was granted full physical custody of my kids
If I may , can I get your male perspective on things. I'm also going through a separation with a narcissist with whom I had a rough marriage with. Its been a year plus and I have moved on to someone else. I don't think I will be considering marriage seriously until several solid years of relationship again but I do live together with my current partner. He's been great at bonding and taking care of her. My child calls him daddy and her bio father papa , she's always called the bio dad papa even when we were together. But recently he's taken offense at it and trying to make her call him daddy as well whenever he visits once in a while and starts tantrums when he heard her call the other daddy. I always brush it off as him being himself , as he does that kind of things alot , for example he never spent time with me or his child when we live tgt and when I did plan outings to zoo or park he would ruin it by staying up all night to play games , insist he will be fine , end up not being fine, sick, going home asap, be nursed all the way back , then be magically better at home and play games all day again etc. But when my current partner and I plan nice days out or picnics and he sees or hear about it he constantly goes on about how it should be him instead /He deserved to be there / he also wants to have nice outings and then proceed to ruin the outing for us. Things like this are very common with him so I just thought it was his usual fits. But I feel like after reading this , it might be something deeper than just jealousy.
Is it wrong of me to approve of her calling my current partner daddy ? Should I have it changed to something else. But I'm unsure what.
Nothing better than Coffee and rSlash in the morning
it's actually night for me
Amen
agreed
Agreed!!
The
last story: how can someone be SO detached from reality that they can’t accept that they’re to blame that something bad happen. EM is just like people who cause an accident from speeding and constantly deny that they caused the accident when it was a single car MVA
The chilli story reminds me of my friend, who was, or well, still is very into spicy food. He was making his food when his mom walked in and asked what he was making. He told her and she didn't believe him that it was so spicy. 5min later she's in the bathroom feeling like she's going to hurl, all the while my friend was enjoying his food with barely any tears or sweat.
He had to cut back cause it was getting to a point where he just didn't taste the fire anymore no matter what he used.
My mom raised my sisters and I while struggling to find work, and she was always admired for her determination to take care of us and never once used as leverage to get a job. She was even doing odd jobs and hard labor as well.
i feel like you could've seen the chicken as most spicy foods have a red tint, as well as you could probably SMELL the spice
major props to the mother that actually did research and educated herself on vaccines
"Vaccines make you sick!"
That's...the point of them...your immune system is responding to either an inactive virus or something similar that will create a response in the form of antibodies.
Reminds me of my helf-aunt, who had to get vaccinated for the common flu every winter for 3 years due to some other issue she had, but still got a mild flu twice and kept saying how the vaccines don't work cause you still get sick...
Vaccines were basically running your immune system through practice runs so you won't get horribly sick.
@@vaporean_boylove.0w083
Being anti-vax
Believing in the murder of children
Imagine being so delusional you think their is a difference, the ‘mother’ in that story is off her rocker
@@ethanmacleod1721
What the hell? I'm pro vax.
@@vaporean_boylove.0w083 what I said was a statement meant to agree with you and make fun of anti-vax people, apologies if it came of as a personal jab at your character instead
@@ethanmacleod1721
Oh, it's cool my dude. X3
"be an equal opportunity douche bag" is probably the best thing I've heard all week
Welcome to RSlash, today we were going to do r/entitled parents but instead we did r/ilovethispodcast
You have now reached the magical number because of moi haha.
Day 4 of asking rslash to censor curse words with Yugo's bark.
I support this.
Good luck.
YES ABSOLUTELY THIS NEEDS TO HAPPEN
EVERYONE LIKE THIS COMMENT
Yesss
Agree
Day 35 of telling him he's making everyone day better
lets go for day 100
@@pacmnaooow I'm aiming for 2 years
At least 2 years! R/slash makes everyday of my life better
@@jefffoo6891 how bout' 4
@@fabirquenationalefusilauto8387 lets make It 6
I just lay in bed until it’s time for him to post
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@@The_Chitrakarist yep
I go to the bathroom and wait for him to upload then I do my business in there
I listen to him when getting ready for school, from 7-7:30
Karen: death stares at op in locker room
OP: you can give me the stink eye all you want, but I know I’ll be smelling like roses when I leave 😏
See what I did there?? 😎
and if a guy did that hed be arrested for rape
I am proud of the family in the vaccine story. It’s hard to break a chain or do something you are raised by, so props to op for taking that big step
For the vaccine story, I believe one of the top comments was about telling the crazy mother 'If you're so hopeful that my baby dies, then she might as well will be dead to you from now on.'
She should also tell her grandpa that if EM contacts her through his phone number again, she will cut contact with him too. She doesn't want EM harassing and bullying her, and if Grandpa is gonna be complicit in that, he can suffer the same consequences as EM.
I'm glad the OP in the last story was man enough to admit he was wrong and apologize
"By this point she's so out of control she's actually got snot coming out of her nose."
It took 4 minutes to recover from my laughing fit. My cats thought that I had lost my mind. :'-D
can I just say, there's alot of spicy foods I can hold back but ho lord jesus that chicken sounded deadly to me and hearing that story made me wish it was her that had eaten it instead. That'd have made for a much funnier experience I think.
Whats sad about the chicken story is that child is never gonna eat anything given to her by her mother ever again
Unfortunately for those fathers in the last story the mothers almost always win custody. A man was held in contempt after his child died after he had warned the court about the mother's negligence. Society doesn't care about men or what's "in the child's best interest" because sometimes what's in the child's best interest is not being with their mother but the court decides otherwise.
I’m having a pretty shitty day, but rslash will give me some joy!
So, I'm not the only one!!
Well, that's a **Spicy** revenge...
Literally. How can parents be so ignorant. If the kid had a severe peanut allergy, the mother had a high chance of killing the kid. She had no idea if anything the kid couldn't have is in the chicken.
She was all fired up.
Plot twist: They were trying to commit suicide by destroying their body with hell chicken.
i think the mom in the fried chicken story actually felt super guilty after realizing she had hurt her child, and she self projected and took it out on op and their roommate. that’s probably why she was hysterically crying and freaking out. hopefully she learned her lesson from that.
no she did not
I really do love how wholesome rSlash's comments are. It gives me hope for this world
It's too bad that EM gave the spicy chicken to the kid and didn't eat it herself, she would totally deserve what happened.
The last story breaks my heart, taking the EM to court to take the kids away from her is near to impossible if the mom is not doing drugs or something mayor. Mens rights are underdeveloped around the world, the best they could do is get the kids for more time, maybe. Really breaks my heart.
If both fathers take her to court and both can prove she's a terrible parent its possible they can win. They have to take everything down and ect. Keep tight records and not to be pushed out. Some women don't deserve kids period. This is coming from a woman. I wish those two dads the best of luck.
Correction: Men's rights when it comes to family is underdeveloped and only in the western world. In the middle east and in Islam, men even holds the power when it comes to children. When a women remarries, the daughter custody is passed to the father.
But in the context of the west, yes, it's underdeveloped when it comes to paternal rights.
Yo nice pfp
And same, hopefully the "mom" won't win this case. The new boyfriend would hopefully be a good person too and see the lady for who she really is, too. If he does then it could help OP and the other dad.
I love the "you have 4 kids? Then maybe you should have tried to keep your job"
Chuckling to myself cause I'm actively putting ghost pepper hot sauce on my eggs while listening to the chicken story
oh jeez,
you: ah yes this is my best friend spice tolerance
me: spice tolerance? who’s he?
Ghost pepper + Cayenne pepper + Chill powder = "MANOLOOO! CALL 911!"
You do not have to eat it. Just smell it! You can taste it!
“Sick, entitled parents make me. Hmf.”
- Jedi Grandmaster Yoda, 67 BBY.
4:50 i feel so bad for the trans employee, that must’ve sucked
The story with the transphobic manager had me rolling my eyes. I mean, who cares what restroom he goes in? In some countries, there aren't different restrooms for men and women. I am FTM and I faced something similar to this. I work in a grocery store; and, at the time, I worked in the apparel department. When I went up stairs for my break, I'd use the men's bathroom. Well, I use some guys saw me in there and told management who talked to my department head who talked to my lead who talked to me. She's an amazing woman and was laughing about this nonsense when she talked to me. Apparently, I was making people uncomfortable by going to the bathroom and management asked her to tell me to use the gender neutral one or the single stall ones downstairs. She said they thought I would listen to her better. We both laughed at that and she said that she didn't care what bathroom I used and that management can't really do anything against me because of the Union and the employee handbook that protects me. I decided to use the ones downstairs until I started hormones and now I occasionally use the one upstairs just cause I can.
Time for my morning rslash.
Why is NOBODY talking about how CRAZY the last EM is?! My father was never in the picture. My brothers father didn’t really work out well with my mother. If I found out my mom did that, I would be PISSED
my favorite thing about the rslash comments is how flippin positive everyone is. its insane. i rarely see a comment thats negative.
Yeah, I like that too!
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@@joeycampbell940 😂
3rd story OP. You made the right choice. Welcome to the world of caring for your family.
"ultimately we're confident with our desicion [...] altho at time we do question if we made the right decision"
well .. i'm not even a parent yet but find this situation pretty relateable.
Plot Twist:
The girl who ate the spicy fried chicken grew up to become a pepper head, just like OP.
The mother who fed the girl the spicy fried chicken grew up to serve time in prison for child abuse.
My mom was anti-vaxx also. She had me, and my six siblings thoroughly convinced that vaccines would make us unhealthy, and that we were superior to other kids who were vaccinated. when I was in 9th grade, there was a measles outbreak in our county, and everyone who wasn't vaccinated, or who didn't provide titer tests as proof of immunity, were removed from school, for our own safety of course. Aside from being anti-vaxx, both my parents were also abusive, which in turn led to us being abusive to each other also, because monkey see, monkey do, right? Well, even though I hated school for all the bullies and teasing I went through, it was still safer than being home, so I BEGGED my mom to let me get vaccinated so I could continue going to school. She lectured me for two hours about the evils of vaccines, and convinced me, 'I don't want to be a sheep, do I?' Part of that lecture was telling me that the measles vaccine in particular was especially dangerous and had the highest death rate of all the vaccines, so I believed what she told me. I mean, she was my mom, why would she lie to me?
Well, two years later, another measles outbreak happened, and they were talking about removing us from school again. This time, I was adamantly opposed to getting vaccinated, because of everything my mom had told me when I wanted one. They had to drag e into the health clinic, kicking and screaming, to get the vaccine. I was convinced I was going to die, o r get extremely sick at least. In fact, I secretly hoped I did die to teach my mom a lesson!
... Nothing happened. That was the moment I started to question everything my parents had ever told me. A year later, I contracted Whooping Cough, also called Pertussis, which there is a vaccine for. It destroyed my lungs, reduced my lung capacity so much, my aspirations of joining the Olympic Swim Team were dashed, my singing and flute playing also suffered, and I had recurring bouts of bronchitis ever since. I have since come to learn, the damage done to my lungs when I had Pertussis was permanent, and led to developing asthma. But that went undiagnosed and untreated for so man decades that it developed into COPD, putting my at high risk for the current virus we are trying to avoid. I am super glad my critical thinking and logical thought skills weren't completely destroyed by my parents' lack of either, and all my children are fully vaccinated, at least while I was in charge of that, they were. Now, most of them are adults. I not only became a vaccine believer, but for about seven years, I was a pro-vaccine activist, using my own, personal experience to help convince others to get vaccinated, and get their kids vaccined, because that is the best way to stay healthy!
About the chicken:
I really hope EM got her daughter to a hospital. If the chicken was actually that spicy, it could cause GI problems - ulcers, gastritis, and diarrhea. Best to let a pediatrician (or at least a general practitioner, GI doc, or ER doc) sort that out.
About custody for dads:
Best of luck. I really do mean that. It's common knowledge the US courts are stacked in favor of the moms when divorce and/or child custody is the question.
Babe wake up new Rslash vid 😩 💅
The kid with the spicy chicken reminds me of a time at my friends birthday party, where he tricked us into eating really spicy noodles, and I mean REALLY spicy. It was just normal noodles, but with ghost pepper sauce added. I ate a single, inch long noodle, and my tongue felt like it physically caught fire. So the next kid comes, thinks it’s just normal flavouring and then EATS SOME OF THE SAUCE.
It was soon after that when we learned; don’t eat the sauce of spicy noodles, and DO NOT drink Coca Cola to wash it down.
ITS ABOUT TIME R/ YOU BETTER PAY ME FOR WAITING FOR YOUR VID.
If I was the guy in the locker room story I would have hit her with a little helicopter action and tell her "If you don't like what you see then you shouldn't be staring this way" and then give her a wink lol
Tbh, when that last story started, I honestly thought it was my dad who wrote it. The exact same thing happened with him, except different ages and times for seeing his other children, and my dad doesnt have as much progress on gaining custody as the guy in the story
Vaccine doctor: pretty sure that's a privacy violation.
Edit: actually, OP of that story needs to cut out her mothers, possibly even get a restraining order. That is very dangerous behaviour with multiple red flags
finally something to listen to
8:21
This actually happened once at one of my dance recitals
And TLDR, old man goes to help daughter changed into her dance costume in the girls changing room, when there were other female helpers available
So it was late June 2018 and the dance studio I was in hosted a dance recitals at our Catholic/Christian High-school bc it had the 2nd biggest auditorium and stage (right after the local Capital Theatre) and it was cheaper to use the school
So I have to do 4 dances in 3 different costumes (tap and hip-hop shared outfits to help save money, and jaz and lyrical had completely different outfits)
We used the 2 classrooms in the drama section of the school (cause it’s right behind the stage) one room for all the girls, and one for the boys, as well as helpers (who are parents of dancers or the older dancers themselves) for each room
So imagine the surprise of a 14 year old girl who was getting changed from a street-performer look to a dress, when she looks to the side and finds about a 40 yo man helping his (who I hope so) 5-7 yo daughter...
You bet I ran to the bathroom to get changed in a stall bc I was up soon and didn’t want to show off my unmentionables to an old man. After my dance was done, I told my dance teacher about him to have him removed from the room (which she already did as other helpers reported him) and she told me to tell her if he ever came back in there
Day 1 of telling rslash to make his wife a guest star for 1 video
Yes please! I’d love to hear her reactions to this stuff! I also want more clips of yugo
I hope so!
That would be awesome!
The Mom in the changing room reminds me of a couple of instances in my past. The first was when my middle son was a baby he started scream crying whenever I touched him this ended up with him being admitted to the hospital. While I was there his older brother went with me into the women's restroom where I kept him in the stall with me until it was time to wash our hands. Since he was a curious child he pointed to the box hanging on the wall which dispensed feminine products and asked what it was. I told him it was a "necessaries" box which satisfied his curiosity. A woman came out of a different stall and told me that that was the best answer to that question she had ever heard. (They decided that the problem with my middle boy was likely a spider bite. That was when I learned that all spiders were poisonous and those labeled as such were the ones that could actually bite through the normal human skin. Babies and elderly people have thinner skin.)
The second one was in relation to the man I called Pop. He was dying of cancer but while he could he would still go out with my mom and me from time to time. One day we were at a store with a bullseye logo. He needed to use the restroom and as he required help I asked a worker which one I should take him into. I was told either one would be okay. I am a female and was also a certified nurse's aide so since I felt that it is likely that women might be bothered by him being in that room more than a guy would be with me being in the men's room I took him in there. I think a few guys we a bit startled by me coming out of the stall with him but for the most part that was the most reaction we got.
The woman in that story should not have brought the kid in that room if she was going to act offended that a guy might use the room as it was meant to be used.
As a certain soldier once said "here you are all equally worthless"
Dad/stepdad The is comes from the bottom of my heart. A man the is willing to welcome a child not by blood to become his own. Even after the adult relationship is over, in my book. You are her daddy. And once you saw what truly happen to her bio; You helped both of them. You are a Hero and an Awesome Daddy!!!
Feminism means believing women should be treated the same as men. Meaning, yes, if they're being in a men's changing room, then should be treated the same as if they were a man in a women's changing room.
I understand if she was in there alone, because then it's just a changing room. But being in a protected space and then being upset at the people who that space is for... come on, lady.
Think about how women have to get into the circles reserved for males, from Men's Sheds to Boy Scouts, because they have to break patriarchy. And yet males are forbidden to enter female circles like Girl Guides, because females need their safe spaces.
@@Seele2015au normalize 👏 male 👏 safe 👏 spaces!!!
the entitled mom voice is iconic... I love it way too much.
5/7 isn't just good, that's a near perfect score for the chicken!
10:30: What? "I hope something happens to her so you'll learn the consequences of your actions! Oh I'll be praying for her though!" Yeah that doesn't scream mental case...
As a trans man that story of the other tran man being forced into the women’s bathroom made me sooo mad and sad :(
I respect and have a lot of love for people living and presenting as their truest self, regardless of what state they were born into. Gay, straight, bi, cis, trans, non-binary, etc., are all valid and deserving of respect and kindness. Consenting adults shouldn't be treated as pariahs or outcasts for how they identify or present themselves, no one is being hurt so it's not anyone's business.
I have several trans and non-binary friends, many queer friends, lots of gay, pan, bi, etc. friends, and I adore them all. As a pan guy myself, I'd feel so fortunate to be loved by someone, and I couldn't care less about what they were born as as long as they're happy and comfortable with who they are now and going forward.
@Steve Delaney I'm sorry, sweetheart, but a C average in sophomore year doesn't make you an authority on subjects of biology, neurology, or anything else.
Come back when you can debunk the neuroscience behind gender, or the biology behind intersex and chromosomal conditions. Until then, I find it laughable that you seem to think we've understood "Basic biology" for "thousands of years", it was only the past couple hundred we've realized that doctors should wash their hands between performing autopsies and delivering babies, after all. Basic Biology of today was the stuff people got thrown into insane asylums for suggesting just 100 years ago.
The changing room story reminds me of something that happened about 18 years ago now when I was 8/9. It's not really related to entitled people, more kids are stupid/kids are evil.
I used to get swimming lessons every Wednesday at a local swimming pool. After my lesson ended one of these times, I was showering, naked as you would expect in the mens changing room.
Some kid comes into the shower area and, as I was the only person in there, he asked me perhaps the stupidest question one can ask in a changing room: why are you naked?
I immediately put my trunks back on.
He didn't know it, but those four words changed how I view my body. There's a deal of shame and extreme embarrassment, even when I'm in changing rooms. Before that point, I had no issue being naked in a changing room, but afterwards I made every effort to hide myself.
Even now at 26, I hate showing a lot of skin (even before I put on weight). I don't wear shorts, I wear long sleeved jackets and hoodies even in summer. All because some stupid kid asked why I was naked in the shower.
Yes it is 6:00 I the morning for me, nothing like an rSlash vid to start the day.
yes indeed. best wake up videos
I love Entitled parents special episodes. Makes me my day Ngl. Heating adults cry like kids. Thankfully in southern texas, we don't have Entitled parents cause damn... I wouldn't handle a single one and have a pure panic attack.
My panic attacks varies from paralyzed legs, blurry vision, and problematic anxiety and intense breathing with issues.
I would cry too.
“I should get something for free!!” I’m one of the first to comment. Lol
Ya want a cookie for comment first? 😂
@@_madd9527 I'm currently eating a cookie
Wow, that last story hit me right in the feels, idk what I would do if I couldn't see my daughter.