Putting this out there into the universe…. there’s a pregnant woman or girl that is looking to place their baby, but feels unsure… Maybe with you they will know it’s the right thing to do! ❤
Can I add on to this prayer that if there is a pregnant woman or a child in need of parents that they will be delivered with her TH-cam or information so they can reach out to them and make this beautiful blessing happen in Jesus name amen!!
100% I just met someone the other day who chose adoption and if it were me I would easily chose them I'm 35 but I would have gladly done surrogacy for them because I want them to have a baby so bad however I was unfortunately diagnosed with health issues so now that's no longer the greatest option I feel pregnant and have been so worried for my baby because of my issues thank God my baby's great I would have only done surrogacy with someone else's eggs ofc
This feels like a very wrong prayer. I seriously wouldn’t wish or pray for any woman to feel unsure about their pregnancy just to fit somebody else’s journey.
You gave that mama the blessing of feeling like she had a choice. That child was CHOSEN by her mom, all because you gave her the space to make that decision and not feel forced into motherhood or stuck with a baby. Your heart is broken, but you’ve blessed this mom and her baby more than you know. Your time is coming, chin up. ❤️
It’s never a “failed” adoption. A mother choosing to raise her baby is a beautiful thing. It will only benefit that baby and mama. And that baby doesn’t have to experience any separation trauma. This is why we don’t refer to expectant moms as birth moms. They are the primary and only mother until they sign those relinquishment papers. Praise the Lord!
I have to disagree when you say "It will only benefit that baby and mama." Many birth moms decide to place their children up for adoption because of circumstances that will likely cause the child to grow up in a less safe, stable, and healthy environment than if they were to be adopted into a family seen "fit" by the state and birth mom. I think it's very naive and almost harmful to create the notion that the "biological parent" = the best parent for a child. We've seen hundreds of thousands of cases where that could not be further from the truth.
@@emmab1745100% agree. All these commenters self righteously “educating” this heartbroken couple as if they aren’t aware it’s often better if the mom chooses to raise the child. There are MANY children raised in terrible environments by parents who love their kids but don’t know how to show it, parent them, protect them, and provide for them. All things that can be provided by an adoptive parent. The commenters here are infuriating. Even if they were right, time and place. Time and place. No wisdom.
It can be "failed" if the birth mother never had real intentions of adopting and this happens too often. OK, the child stays with the mother, which is a "success" if you want to view it that way. But from the perspective of a well-intending adoptive couple who gave up their hearts and a lot of money, and for the credibility of the adoption system, it's a huge failure !
I know it’s hard to hear/see right now but that mama choosing her baby was a huge blessing to them and a very big part of their story forever is both of you. The best way to rid your heart of hurt and feel peace is to do what you’re doing and pray for them. Imagine how sweet it’s going to be when you finally hold that baby who needs you more than anything in the world. That baby won’t have a mama that chose them. You will be the mama that chose them. I can’t wait to see the day. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for sharing. You deserve a baby. You deserve this.
Beautiful comment. A mother being moved & falling in love with her baby once it was earth side, finding she can’t walk away & choosing her child is a blessing, not a negative. ❤
Well said!!! Hallelujah that the Holy Spirit worked through that mom’s heart and soul to keep her child 🎉 Brittany, while we all appreciate you being transparent with us of this journey that you’re on, maybe this time just don’t tell us when a mom chooses you and your husband. Pray about this first before making a video. Honestly, it was really hard to sit through this video and to listen how you both are hurt about it falling through when you should rejoice for the mom to pick her child.
@@jessicadaniel6345 it is more than ok for her to be sad. I bet this helps a lot of people who struggle with the same thing. I respect your opinion. Praise God for us all to be kind and accepting and understanding of one another. 🙏🏻❤️
Try not to think of it as a failed adoption. It was a successful emotional attachment for the birth mother. That's a good thing. Hopefully, she will be able to raise her daughter well. I pray she does. Your baby will come.
I am so sorry, Brittany. How I choose to see it in Jesus' eyes is that, that mother needed you and Jordan to show her the love and guidance of God. You helped this family find their way, while working forward in yours. I sincerely hope your adoption comes to light and Jesus works a miracle. What is yours will always be yours.
100% it takes a good person with genuine care for that child to offer themselves as a resource for that woman if she ever go to a point that they needed something. They are still there for her. THIS is stewardship- fostering parenting as a Christian. Not simply purchasing a child.
That’s what I want to do as a single woman who loves Jesus ❤ Pray for me. I may be engaged soon but either way I know Jesus wants this for me. Edit: finances are going to be needed. It’s so expensive it’s saddening
Brittany, I am so sorry that this happened to y'all. My parents could not conceive for years... they adopted my sister in 1967 and I was born two years later.... GOD IS SO GOOD Brittany... YA'LL WILL BE BLESSED ONE DAY TOO!! 🙏
so sorry to learn of this! when we adopted our son just under a year ago, i was in awe at the peace i felt that it HAD to be be HIM. he was the child we waited and prayed for. God’s timing is perfect, don’t lose hope! i am praying for you, i know how long the journey can feel! you’re not alone.
It’s not a failed adoption. You aren’t entitled to adopt. You should be happy the mother chose to parent. We should be doing everything we can to make sure first mothers keep their children.
I'm sorry about the grief of the failed adoption I am also so happy the birth mom chose to raise her baby. God's plan is perfect. This is only going to refine you
@user-ke1ym9nh3j it literally is a failed adoption, that's the term used when the adoption falls through and it's still something people grieve over and that's fine. But it's God's plan and the best potential outcome for mommy to stay with her baby.
I know this must be hard, but you must be happy for that little baby and mumma. The right thing happened here, and the best possible outcome is for a baby to be with its mumma. I hope you can find the strength to be grateful. Mumma not only has the right to do that, but she made the right decision.
Thank you so much for educating this sweet couple with your wisdom. I’m sure they didn’t know that or hadn’t thought of it at all. Very wise of you to make sure you set them straight in the middle of their heartbreak. Can we clone you so more people can experience this “comfort”? Also unless you actually know this mom AND can see the future you have zero evidence to say the birth mom made the right decision. That implies that every mom who decides that adoption is best for her child made the wrong one. There are MANY situations where adoption really is best for both mom and baby. Ignoring these is irresponsible and childish and also hurtful to any mother who chose adoption who has the misfortune of running across your hurtful and inaccurate comment.
Our first call from our agency telling us a birth mother chose us to raise her baby boy turned into her changing her mind to parent him herself (which is a great thing but still a bittersweet to receive that call). The second call that another birth mom chose us, 4 months later, we were told we had a new daughter. They waited to call us once the revocation period had expired so we wouldn’t have our hearts broken again. I am sorry you guys have experienced this. You will understand this no once you are holding the baby God has for you in your arms.
People who adopt only give a shit about unborn babies when there are millions of children out there that need love too. They watch these videos and just wish they were good enough. Sorry but it is what it is. I am so grateful for my parents. They chose me as a 7 year old!! They chose me!
It’s kind of like puppies and kittens. Everyone wants the baby stage. Very sad. My aunt has done foster care since I was a young child. She has one biological child and all the children she has fostered were always older. She even fostered teen moms, and pregnant teen moms. She helped the kids that no one blinked in eye at. She made huge impacts in their lives and they are all still apart of her life to this day. Because of her it makes me want to do foster care and show these kids they deserve love no matter their age, or struggle. ❤
@@Reformedandrevivedthat situation is the exception not the rule. I work closely with foster and adopted kids. Olders kids are harder to place in foster homes and harder to get adopted.
I pray over you that you get your baby. And your house is full of little footsteps. God bless you, honey. Any baby would be blessed to have you as mom and dad.
Definitely time to get off of these platforms where THOUSANDS of people are wishing you ill and speaking death and curses over you non stop. Get out of the public eye for a good long while. Let them forget about you entirely. I'm sorry, but this is not helping you or Jordan. It truly is time to separate yourselves in faith and close this door the enemy is using against you
I am so sorry for you guys! 💔 The same thing happened to me in 2006. I was at the hospital with our baby for two days bonding and loving on her and bam out of nowhere the mom changed her mind. Total devastation…..Of course God was in total control with that situation. What I didn’t know at the time was exactly one year later I would become pregnant at age 42 after being diagnosed with two blocked tubes after having my last baby 16 years earlier. Heads up ~ the Lord has already gone before and knows the outcome. Prayers for another precious baby soon. 💖
First, I am so deeply sorry. I can’t imagine the heartbreak for you guys. Praise God this mama was able to still choose life for her sweet girl with the hope in knowing she had a plan if she didn’t feel able to raise this baby God gifted her. I’m sure knowing all the pressure was off gave her some time to reflect during pregnancy. Thank you for being selfless enough to give her the gift of hope and time. ❤
Praying for y’all!!! I promise that God has a child for you! We walked through a failed adoption in 2012 but God had an incredible plan for our family. We have 2 incredibly beautiful children. God’s timing is perfect!!!
@@rmukuzwazwait’s pretty disgraceful that you are making public assumptions about someone who is doing their literal job. She is a content creator. It’s not uncommon that they have videos ready to be posted in advance and I’m not understanding why she isn’t allowed to share the journey of her adoption process.
@@samanthaf.3270 I didn't say she couldn't post about her journey. But I think it's pretty awful to post about a failed adoption the way they did. In my opinion, the adoption had fallen through when they posted the nursery video and they only posted it so they could monetize it. The decent thing to do would be to skip that video and post this one. Just my opinion. Also it's her job to put her life on the internet so people will naturally read between the lines. If they don't like it, they should find another job.
Praying for you and your family ❤. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this with us. Benjamin Hasting’s song “seasons” helped me a lot through my waiting season.
i am a birth mama and i was not ready at 29 - i chose open adoption and it was a blessing to a couple who'd had 5 miscarriages in 6 years. It was all providence - God is absolutely in control! His timing ❤️
How can you say you weren't ready? And how did you get pregnant? At the age of 29, you don't know how to protect yourself against pregnancy? Does your child have to suffer because you are irresponsible? I just can't read such nonsense.
@@AbmafatimaI know Islam is against adoption but Christianity is not! You are not supposed to judge thats God work even some married people are not ready and sometimes people get pregnant even when on birth control you dont know the situation so maybe you should keep your judgement to yourself this woman loved her child enough to make sure he or she went to a loving family plenty of people have kids and are horrible parent so to assume the child is not well of because its adopted is just wrong.
@@c.j.m.mariaa I am a single mother myself and I often didn't have anything to eat. The situation was tragic for me... My pregnancy was conscious, but in the meantime the father of the child changed his mind and after giving birth I was alone. How stupid do you have to be not to protect yourself and then give someone YOUR OWN child who will suffer because of it? Oh no. Sad stories don't appeal to me. The girl wasn't ready ahahha SHE DID NOT WANT BABY. And she knows it. If you are not ready to have a child (and according to her statement that she was not raped, so she is just stupid and allowed herself to be impregnated), she protects herself!!!! If you don't have money to raise a child (there is a lot of help for single mothers nowadays), you can also protect yourself. Nowadays, if you get pregnant unexpectedly, it's only because of your own stupidity. You won't be able to change my mind. How should I empathize with such a person? Ps. And I don't believe in this nonsense that someone gets pregnant using contraception.
@@Abmafatima so you think your better because you raised your child? You know children from single mothers are at high risk to have problems? Do you know your child is not learning what a healthy marriage looks like because his father left you? I am not saying you cant be a wonderfull mother when your single but its not the best for the child. When you look at numbers adopted kids that are raised in a stable family setting with mom and dad and enough financially freedom to give them a good life are actually better of then around 80 procent of children from single mothers you said it yourself you didnt have money to get food yet you brought poverty upon your child. Not saying again that you are not a wonderfull mother but trust me that is also pretty hard on a child. I also assume from your story you got pregnant unmarried because in Islam it is not allowed to separate when a woman is with child al talak is very clear about it the man cant leave when you are with child and has to take care of you and the baby your pregnancy and the period you are breastfeeding.
@@Abmafatimawhat a hurtful thing to say. everyone is on their own journeys, you have no idea what she was walking through at the time. i am so glad she chose LIFE for her child and that she put them first in that difficult situation!
God is Good ALL THE TIME. He has something very special for your family 👪 Once he reveals his plan, you both will be in absolute awe. Until then, keep trusting and praying 🙏 God bless you both ❤️❤️❤️
I can only imagine how hard this must have been for you both. Thank you for being so transparent. Praying for your continued healing. Everything in its time 🙏🏽🤍
Its very difficult to watch this video with Jordan having a wad of dip in his mouth. I actually gagged a few times. Also- Im a nurse, so I swear this is supposed to be helpful and not snarky, but that he is so addicted he couldnt make a video without dipping during it may be why he struggles with his sperm count.
@@angelrebekah9153 THIS. Just because you are blood related to someone does not mean that is the best situation to be in, particularly when a child is involved.
The first part was great, but when you went to edit to add "(and not with y'all") we ALL could have went without that edit. Choose kindness over bitterness....it will elevate you further. ❤
Why are you both monetizing this whole journey… it’s giving Myka stouffer. So many influencers using these things that should be private being used to emotionally manipulate people to gain views and therefore money for you both. The amount of cuts and editing of different scenes just makes me realize how many take you both have had to make to make this video the most appealing and not genuine and definitely not “transparent” as you claim when you do so many takes
Praying for you both. This moved me to tears. Thank you for being so open to share. You are such a light. I ask God to continue guiding you and giving you strength. ❤
It’s not okay to refer to this as a failed adoption. There is NO failure here. The baby is exactly where your god designed it to be and as a supposed Christian and pro lifer you should understand that. Adoption means heartbreak for the baby and mom, not that it’s unjustified and for a purpose when done right, but all I heard In this video was self pity and self absorption.
She can refer to it as that. It was going to happen but at the last minute it didn’t so technically it did fail. They aren’t saying that God failed. I thought they were really gracious in the video and weren’t trying to get pity! They can be sad about it, the baby was almost theirs so it makes sense they would be super sad over it!
I know your sadness. I have been there. IVF, miscarriage, failed adoption. It was the closest I’ve ever come to shaking my fist at God and walking away. But who else would I have if I turned my back on God. He sustained us and called us to foster care. 14 little ones over 4 years (all of them prayed over and dedicated to God) and he blessed us with two baby girls we were able to adopt. He is good! His timing is perfect! His plan is your plan A. God bless you!
@@lalala6420people can change. You aren’t perfect. I don’t think you want things held against you if you’ve done your hardest work to become a different person. Forgiveness is good. You need forgiveness as well. We all do.
God gives us emotions. Anger being one of them. Read the book of Job! He had trials and tribulations, and he was angry, but he still gave everything to God and never gave up faith. Anger is an emotion given to us from God. Just like joy and happiness. Just give it to God.
Being a Christian doesn't mean one can never make a mistake or always follow through with God's words. It's possible to be angry as humans but as Christians we should be able to overcome that. I could say the same to you for swearing. It's a hard time for them, let's give them some grace.
Thank you for sharing this with us. My daughter has had 4 failed adoptions in the last 2 years. Yes, birth mother's have a write to change their mind and God bless them. But this is and emotional and financial loss that can stop you from moving forward. So thank you for sharing because it isn't all sunshine and rainbows.God bless you both and may you soon hold your beautiful baby in your arms. My daughters continues her journey also.
I am truly sorry for everyone that has fallen over the scheme of this saga that may have not been real. 😮. I would assume when it comes to these circumstances it would be relatively private. Instead she decided to possibly take some acting classes to appear a baby i happening
Hey girl, I’m so sorry that happened to you and your husband. God has it all planned out for y’all. It’s like He’s getting you prepared for a bigger and better blessing that you can ever imagine ❤️ Don’t give up! Ly
It seems maybe the Lord is trying to say he's closed the door on you having a baby adoption or whatever..he doesn't always give us what we want ..it's what HE wants...sorry
God doesn't influence in these ways or over human biology. What is the practicality that the Lord can affect billions of individual human beings daily going on? Is it practical or reasonable? of course not
I'm so sorry. Your faith is so incredibly inspiring and you're so blessed to have each other to lean on. I see you two with twins one day! I'm praying for you. 🙏💖
My heart is hurting for you guys. You can see the heaviness and weariness in your eyes but also god’s grace shining through. God is up to something big for you two! Praying hard
While it may feel sad to you that baby got to stay with their mother, and that's the best thing that could ever happen for that child. Adoption is a tragic situation for mother and child.
I really don't understand vloggers anymore, especially family vloggers. There for a little while it seemed like a pretty cool idea, but the thought of just having nothing sacred or private and constantly thinking of ways to set up shots or do videos to benefit the channel, even during the intimate and hard times of life just seems to cheapen these life experiences. It wasn't long ago that you were being called out for other drama, then you started dragging everyone through baby drama, and now it's adoption drama. Was any of it real? That's the thing, vlogging your whole life just makes everything seem like it's done for show, even if it isn't. I hope one day you'll consider shutting the camera off and just living life privately. Or if you want to be a content creator to make a living, maybe shift to something less personal. Family vloggers are really starting to give us all the ick.
Wow. I can’t imagine saying this to someone that just lost the child they thought they were going to adopt. Let’s say you’re 100% right about not keeping things sacred. Even so why are you so lacking in wisdom that you choose to basically call them out as farming drama for dollars on this day? I have no idea who this couple is and you may be totally right but in order to say something this cruel at this time I would need to be completely convinced that they did not care at all if they got this child and are faking being heartbroken. My god, your selfishness and inconsideration honestly takes my breath away.
@@jenniferlawrence9598 they didn't lose a child. FFS. There is ALWAYS a chance the birth mom will change her mind which is her right. It's wild that Brittany announced anything about this.
Yes, you're right.... it's probably the TH-cam money is good? Of course it is. Imagine what her family she is when they watch these videos.... I'll bet you they're secretly cringing and letting her do her thing because... they already know that she's one of these 21st century digital e-girls. This is e girl life
It’s really challenging. Have similar experience w/part of your story. It’s actually such a blessing for the child that people wanted her, you guys AND her birth mom/family. You never know how your faithful actions are influencing others…beyond what you perceive. He is faithful. Aloha n prayers ❤️🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing ❤. My heart is with you😢 “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;” Psalms 103:13
As a person who was adopted from China. I think most couple who are struggle with fertility, the couples does not think about adoption and how many babies need to be adopted by loving parent like y"all. I've been following your journey for awhile! I pray for y'all to adopt the baby The LORD has planned for y"all!♥
Need to share a little bit of my Mom story she couldn’t have children since she got married and waited for 14 years my dad wanted to adopt a child but my mom told him to wait since she had a feeling she was soon going to be pregnant. She trusted in God and here we are, God gave her 2 daughters. Alot of people always tell my mom God gave her the best daughters as in reward of her patience ❤
I am so proud of your faith and understanding that birth mom is best option in some cases. I know God has an amazing plan for you both and I trust there's a little one on their way to you soon.
Because think of all the views she was getting with this storyline!! These two are selfish and it’s all about them!! I do not know how people cannot see right through this woman…people seriously lack discernment!
My mom has worked in adoption over half of my lifetime. This happens often, I know it’s hard, but there are blessings coming…there’s a baby out there for you.
Awe im so sorry youre going thru this 🥺 as a birth mom who has had 2 give up 2 daughters 4 adoption, i know firsthand the devastation of walking into the hospital feeling ur baby kicking inside u & then having 2 walk out those same doors, empty handed... i wouldn't wish that experience on even my worst enemy 😭 so a part of me is so grateful that the birth mom was able 2 avoid that experience, & i applaud u guys 4 handling the same devastation, with grace. Much respect. God will give u beauty 4 those ashes. ❤💯🥹🫶
God will send you the child he has for you mama. But in this struggle you were able to intercede for another mom in a way that you least expected ❤ and that will not go unnoticed
I don’t know if this would help but I’m a CPS worker and I know of so many kids who need adopted. They may be a little older, they may be a set of siblings, and maybe they’re in another state but there are a lot of children who need help. I don’t know your full situation or what you have tried already but I’m just throwing that out there. I’m only saying this because I truly believe people don’t know how many children are actually needing help. I didn’t know how many until I became a CPS worker. I’m so sorry to hear about this happening to you guys and I will continue to pray for God’s will in your lives ❤️ I’m sorry if this wasn’t the right time to say this but I just felt led to.
Im sorry to hear that you're going through this pain and praying that God will open doors for you and your husband to conceive a child or even adopt an older child. I am also proud of the potential birth mama choosing to mother her baby. As a birth mom i placed my son in an open adoption almost 3 years ago to a couple who struggled with 11+ miscarriages and i truly felt compassion in knowing i could bring them the joy of a beautiful healthy baby boy. However, that was the hardest thing ive ever done and still continue to grieve the decision since the adoptive family made their decision to keep contact very limited. We are lucky to get pictures a few times a year.. It is a sad reality of how many open adoptions close after the baby is received and the papers are signed and many birth parents are discarded regretting their decision. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable journey and truly i know God will bless you in His perfect timing there is nothing impossible for Him
Your journey has really just been so amazing. The way you trust God in the midst of your pain. God is soo good even when our circumstances aren't. I pray that God will continue to give you peace and strength to keep going. Remember that song that says : You're not done with me yet. There is sooo much more to the story. You're not done with me yet. You have babies in heaven you are mom and soon in God's perfect timing you will have our earth side babies. It's not easy but God will you strength. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. God hears you when you have nothing to pray. He hears your ❤️❤️❤️
I can’t imagine what you are both going through, I can however see the faith and trust that you approach this area of your lives with. I have no doubt that our Father loves and delights in you. He will continue to guide you, to protect, to provide, to pour His favor out in your marriage, in building a family, in business and every other part of your lives. We continue to pray and believe that you will have the fulfillment of the promise of children to raise up knowing how much God loves them and how much you love them too! Rather through adoption, naturally conceiving, through medical intervention, or maybe even all of the above, He will deliver everything He has spoken over you and deliver it into your hands. He will anoint you and illuminate your path. He is faithful to finish what He begins. I know that He will take away any sorrow and sadness and turn it into immeasurable happiness as you continue to wait on The Lord. Mourning and weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning. Be of good courage and He will strengthen your heart. Not only are the two of you in our prayers as well as the precious little ones that God has already chosen to be yours, we also pray for your family and friends, your church community, the people you lean on, the people that stand with you, that impart into your lives that they would continue to remind you that you are surrounded by His goodness, His healing, His hope, His wisdom, His favor, mercy and grace, and above all else, His unwavering, steadfast love. I’m looking forward to one day soon seeing a video on TH-cam introducing all of us to the little one or little ones that He has chosen to entrust to you to raise in the wisdom and knowledge of God. To see a video with the baby, with the children that you will soon have the honor of dedicating to The Lord and raising them up to be known by Him, loved by Him and teaching them to walk in the ways of The Lord! Showing them daily how to love Him back by the way you live your lives, which is a beautiful example of a what a real relationship with The Father and His unconditional love looks like. With Jesus as Savior and friend, with The Holy Spirit as Comforter, as the one who illuminates and guides believers through The Word of God. Obviously He is so so so much more and I know you will teach them to pursue His heart and every part of who He is. We can’t wait to see your prayers answered in a way only God can do!
I am so sorry... praying for you both! We had a failed adoption as well and that was so hard because it all felt so right and lined up so perfectly. It was hard to grasp why and we questioned if we should continue on. A couple months later the Lord provided us a case, presented to birth mom our profile and a few hours later we were matched and next day leaving on a 13hr journey to wait for baby to be born. The amount of emotions you go through is so crazy. We got to bring him home a week and a half later but he was born the day we arrived.
Thank you for sharing your hearts in a real and raw way. I am not walking this journey but witnessing you living your testimony out loud is encouraging to me. I read somewhere that we are a microwave culture and as a Christian we fall victim to that thought pattern. I am learning to walk with Him at his pace and not my own. I pray He reveals your child to you soon!
@@Kelly_92she wasn’t calling the baby counterfeit. They were saying the situation that presented as an opportunity ended up not being THEIR miracle. Does that make more sense?
💔💔 “she has every right…” This video is loaded with self absorbed self centered views walking into adopting. In all of this they fail to show ANY compassion or joy for a woman to keep HER child. “We never could have imagined…” This is a statement from entitlement - people who get what they want when they want it. This is not prospective adoptive parents who KNOW what they are getting into. I hope if birth mom EVER watched this she knows- she made the right decision and has zero guilt for the let down these “vessels” are crying about. These are people who want a shiny white newborn baby.
Putting this out there into the universe…. there’s a pregnant woman or girl that is looking to place their baby, but feels unsure… Maybe with you they will know it’s the right thing to do! ❤
In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾
Can I add on to this prayer that if there is a pregnant woman or a child in need of parents that they will be delivered with her TH-cam or information so they can reach out to them and make this beautiful blessing happen in Jesus name amen!!
100% I just met someone the other day who chose adoption and if it were me I would easily chose them I'm 35 but I would have gladly done surrogacy for them because I want them to have a baby so bad however I was unfortunately diagnosed with health issues so now that's no longer the greatest option I feel pregnant and have been so worried for my baby because of my issues thank God my baby's great I would have only done surrogacy with someone else's eggs ofc
This feels like a very wrong prayer. I seriously wouldn’t wish or pray for any woman to feel unsure about their pregnancy just to fit somebody else’s journey.
It wasn’t a prayer… I’m just putting it out there in the universe…. It’s manifestation🫶🏼
As a birth mama. I’m so grateful that this mama felt safe enough to change her mind.
same...from one birth mom to another
No it's the way adoptions are done, prebirth matching should not be done.
I am too
Glad that child didn’t end up with them thank you God 🙏
I’m glad the child didn’t end up
With them thank you God 🙏
You gave that mama the blessing of feeling like she had a choice. That child was CHOSEN by her mom, all because you gave her the space to make that decision and not feel forced into motherhood or stuck with a baby.
Your heart is broken, but you’ve blessed this mom and her baby more than you know.
Your time is coming, chin up. ❤️
It’s never a “failed” adoption. A mother choosing to raise her baby is a beautiful thing. It will only benefit that baby and mama. And that baby doesn’t have to experience any separation trauma. This is why we don’t refer to expectant moms as birth moms. They are the primary and only mother until they sign those relinquishment papers. Praise the Lord!
Thank you!! That’s what I stated above as well.
I have to disagree when you say "It will only benefit that baby and mama." Many birth moms decide to place their children up for adoption because of circumstances that will likely cause the child to grow up in a less safe, stable, and healthy environment than if they were to be adopted into a family seen "fit" by the state and birth mom. I think it's very naive and almost harmful to create the notion that the "biological parent" = the best parent for a child. We've seen hundreds of thousands of cases where that could not be further from the truth.
@@emmab1745100% agree. All these commenters self righteously “educating” this heartbroken couple as if they aren’t aware it’s often better if the mom chooses to raise the child. There are MANY children raised in terrible environments by parents who love their kids but don’t know how to show it, parent them, protect them, and provide for them. All things that can be provided by an adoptive parent. The commenters here are infuriating. Even if they were right, time and place. Time and place. No wisdom.
It can be "failed" if the birth mother never had real intentions of adopting and this happens too often. OK, the child stays with the mother, which is a "success" if you want to view it that way. But from the perspective of a well-intending adoptive couple who gave up their hearts and a lot of money, and for the credibility of the adoption system, it's a huge failure !
@@jenniferlawrence9598 your words don't matter, this is TH-cam
I know it’s hard to hear/see right now but that mama choosing her baby was a huge blessing to them and a very big part of their story forever is both of you. The best way to rid your heart of hurt and feel peace is to do what you’re doing and pray for them. Imagine how sweet it’s going to be when you finally hold that baby who needs you more than anything in the world. That baby won’t have a mama that chose them. You will be the mama that chose them. I can’t wait to see the day. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for sharing. You deserve a baby. You deserve this.
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So beautifully said!! ❤
Beautiful comment. A mother being moved & falling in love with her baby once it was earth side, finding she can’t walk away & choosing her child is a blessing, not a negative. ❤
Well said!!! Hallelujah that the Holy Spirit worked through that mom’s heart and soul to keep her child 🎉
Brittany, while we all appreciate you being transparent with us of this journey that you’re on, maybe this time just don’t tell us when a mom chooses you and your husband.
Pray about this first before making a video.
Honestly, it was really hard to sit through this video and to listen how you both are hurt about it falling through when you should rejoice for the mom to pick her child.
@@jessicadaniel6345 it is more than ok for her to be sad. I bet this helps a lot of people who struggle with the same thing. I respect your opinion. Praise God for us all to be kind and accepting and understanding of one another. 🙏🏻❤️
Try not to think of it as a failed adoption. It was a successful emotional attachment for the birth mother. That's a good thing. Hopefully, she will be able to raise her daughter well. I pray she does. Your baby will come.
“Birth mother” only applies after they’re separated from their babies. Until then, they are expectant mothers or mothers.
I am so sorry, Brittany. How I choose to see it in Jesus' eyes is that, that mother needed you and Jordan to show her the love and guidance of God. You helped this family find their way, while working forward in yours. I sincerely hope your adoption comes to light and Jesus works a miracle. What is yours will always be yours.
100% it takes a good person with genuine care for that child to offer themselves as a resource for that woman if she ever go to a point that they needed something. They are still there for her. THIS is stewardship- fostering parenting as a Christian. Not simply purchasing a child.
Adopt older kids, there are thousands that need a home!
That’s what I want to do as a single woman who loves Jesus ❤ Pray for me. I may be engaged soon but either way I know Jesus wants this for me.
Edit: finances are going to be needed. It’s so expensive it’s saddening
Yes ❤
Stop telling people what they should do!
@@alishamashburn412 adopt older kids!!!
They won't. A newborn/baby is easier to exploit.
Prayers for the birth mom and baby. Prayers for you and your future family. 🙏❤️
Brittany, I am so sorry that this happened to y'all. My parents could not conceive for years... they adopted my sister in 1967 and I was born two years later.... GOD IS SO GOOD Brittany... YA'LL WILL BE BLESSED ONE DAY TOO!! 🙏
so sorry to learn of this! when we adopted our son just under a year ago, i was in awe at the peace i felt that it HAD to be be HIM. he was the child we waited and prayed for. God’s timing is perfect, don’t lose hope! i am praying for you, i know how long the journey can feel! you’re not alone.
It’s not a failed adoption. You aren’t entitled to adopt. You should be happy the mother chose to parent. We should be doing everything we can to make sure first mothers keep their children.
They never said they were entitled to adopt. I feel they were very gracious.
They literally said in the video they knew that this could happen and that they know they aren’t entitled to adopt! Did you even watch the video lol?!
Did you even watch the video?
Life can be so hard, but it's such an amazing thing to have God by our sides with His peace and comfort. I'm praying for you both.
I'm sorry about the grief of the failed adoption I am also so happy the birth mom chose to raise her baby. God's plan is perfect. This is only going to refine you
Is it not a failed adoption. The mother and child stayed together, which is the best situation possible for that child.
@user-ke1ym9nh3j it literally is a failed adoption, that's the term used when the adoption falls through and it's still something people grieve over and that's fine. But it's God's plan and the best potential outcome for mommy to stay with her baby.
I know this must be hard, but you must be happy for that little baby and mumma. The right thing happened here, and the best possible outcome is for a baby to be with its mumma. I hope you can find the strength to be grateful. Mumma not only has the right to do that, but she made the right decision.
Yes I totally agree.
Thank you so much for educating this sweet couple with your wisdom. I’m sure they didn’t know that or hadn’t thought of it at all. Very wise of you to make sure you set them straight in the middle of their heartbreak. Can we clone you so more people can experience this “comfort”? Also unless you actually know this mom AND can see the future you have zero evidence to say the birth mom made the right decision. That implies that every mom who decides that adoption is best for her child made the wrong one. There are MANY situations where adoption really is best for both mom and baby. Ignoring these is irresponsible and childish and also hurtful to any mother who chose adoption who has the misfortune of running across your hurtful and inaccurate comment.
A purchased baby for more content and so God will “bless her with her own”.
@@aubreylong4942🎯🎯🎯
Our first call from our agency telling us a birth mother chose us to raise her baby boy turned into her changing her mind to parent him herself (which is a great thing but still a bittersweet to receive that call). The second call that another birth mom chose us, 4 months later, we were told we had a new daughter. They waited to call us once the revocation period had expired so we wouldn’t have our hearts broken again.
I am sorry you guys have experienced this. You will understand this no once you are holding the baby God has for you in your arms.
Oh, this comment is really encouraging 💜 bless you!
People who adopt only give a shit about unborn babies when there are millions of children out there that need love too. They watch these videos and just wish they were good enough. Sorry but it is what it is.
I am so grateful for my parents. They chose me as a 7 year old!! They chose me!
I’m sorry if that’s your experience but that’s not true. ❤️ Many people adopt older children. My cousin was adopted at 3 ❤️
Agree, there are so many kids that need a home, but they get overlooked because they aren't newborns.
It’s kind of like puppies and kittens. Everyone wants the baby stage. Very sad. My aunt has done foster care since I was a young child. She has one biological child and all the children she has fostered were always older. She even fostered teen moms, and pregnant teen moms. She helped the kids that no one blinked in eye at. She made huge impacts in their lives and they are all still apart of her life to this day.
Because of her it makes me want to do foster care and show these kids they deserve love no matter their age, or struggle. ❤
@@Reformedandrevivedthat situation is the exception not the rule. I work closely with foster and adopted kids. Olders kids are harder to place in foster homes and harder to get adopted.
@@de5072 Totally. But is the system a big part of that? I’ve heard they make it harder to adopt older children?
I pray over you that you get your baby. And your house is full of little footsteps. God bless you, honey. Any baby would be blessed to have you as mom and dad.
Praying for you all! Once you get your baby you’ll say I would’ve gone through whatever it took to get to you ❤
Definitely time to get off of these platforms where THOUSANDS of people are wishing you ill and speaking death and curses over you non stop. Get out of the public eye for a good long while. Let them forget about you entirely. I'm sorry, but this is not helping you or Jordan. It truly is time to separate yourselves in faith and close this door the enemy is using against you
She invites it
You realize this is her only source of income. She isn’t giving it up.
I am so glad that the mama chose her baby. I also understand your disappointment.
I am a birth mom and I have placed twice ❤ so just know God has the perfect plan for your beautiful family xo
I am so sorry for you guys! 💔 The same thing happened to me in 2006. I was at the hospital with our baby for two days bonding and loving on her and bam out of nowhere the mom changed her mind. Total devastation…..Of course God was in total control with that situation. What I didn’t know at the time was exactly one year later I would become pregnant at age 42 after being diagnosed with two blocked tubes after having my last baby 16 years earlier. Heads up ~ the Lord has already gone before and knows the outcome. Prayers for another precious baby soon. 💖
I was praying so hard for this outcome. I do not wish you pain, but I also wish to save any baby you would be gifted.
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First, I am so deeply sorry. I can’t imagine the heartbreak for you guys. Praise God this mama was able to still choose life for her sweet girl with the hope in knowing she had a plan if she didn’t feel able to raise this baby God gifted her. I’m sure knowing all the pressure was off gave her some time to reflect during pregnancy. Thank you for being selfless enough to give her the gift of hope and time. ❤
Praying for y’all!!! I promise that God has a child for you! We walked through a failed adoption in 2012 but God had an incredible plan for our family. We have 2 incredibly beautiful children. God’s timing is perfect!!!
Oh how amazing will it be to finally see gods promise fulfilled.
“Even when we are faithless….. he remains faithful”
Click bait? Same with Bella and her husband…
Exactly! I think they posted the last video knowing that they weren't getting the baby. All for views and money. Disgraceful.
@@rmukuzwazwait’s pretty disgraceful that you are making public assumptions about someone who is doing their literal job. She is a content creator. It’s not uncommon that they have videos ready to be posted in advance and I’m not understanding why she isn’t allowed to share the journey of her adoption process.
@@samanthaf.3270 I didn't say she couldn't post about her journey. But I think it's pretty awful to post about a failed adoption the way they did. In my opinion, the adoption had fallen through when they posted the nursery video and they only posted it so they could monetize it. The decent thing to do would be to skip that video and post this one. Just my opinion. Also it's her job to put her life on the internet so people will naturally read between the lines. If they don't like it, they should find another job.
@@rmukuzwazwa they also would still need to prepare a nursery since they are still planning on adopting so even still, what the fuck is the problem 🤣
@@rmukuzwazwa crazy what money does to people.
Praying for you and your family ❤. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this with us.
Benjamin Hasting’s song “seasons” helped me a lot through my waiting season.
i am a birth mama and i was not ready at 29 - i chose open adoption and it was a blessing to a couple who'd had 5 miscarriages in 6 years. It was all providence - God is absolutely in control! His timing ❤️
How can you say you weren't ready? And how did you get pregnant? At the age of 29, you don't know how to protect yourself against pregnancy? Does your child have to suffer because you are irresponsible? I just can't read such nonsense.
@@AbmafatimaI know Islam is against adoption but Christianity is not! You are not supposed to judge thats God work even some married people are not ready and sometimes people get pregnant even when on birth control you dont know the situation so maybe you should keep your judgement to yourself this woman loved her child enough to make sure he or she went to a loving family plenty of people have kids and are horrible parent so to assume the child is not well of because its adopted is just wrong.
@@c.j.m.mariaa I am a single mother myself and I often didn't have anything to eat. The situation was tragic for me... My pregnancy was conscious, but in the meantime the father of the child changed his mind and after giving birth I was alone. How stupid do you have to be not to protect yourself and then give someone YOUR OWN child who will suffer because of it? Oh no. Sad stories don't appeal to me. The girl wasn't ready ahahha SHE DID NOT WANT BABY. And she knows it. If you are not ready to have a child (and according to her statement that she was not raped, so she is just stupid and allowed herself to be impregnated), she protects herself!!!! If you don't have money to raise a child (there is a lot of help for single mothers nowadays), you can also protect yourself. Nowadays, if you get pregnant unexpectedly, it's only because of your own stupidity. You won't be able to change my mind. How should I empathize with such a person? Ps. And I don't believe in this nonsense that someone gets pregnant using contraception.
@@Abmafatima so you think your better because you raised your child? You know children from single mothers are at high risk to have problems? Do you know your child is not learning what a healthy marriage looks like because his father left you? I am not saying you cant be a wonderfull mother when your single but its not the best for the child. When you look at numbers adopted kids that are raised in a stable family setting with mom and dad and enough financially freedom to give them a good life are actually better of then around 80 procent of children from single mothers you said it yourself you didnt have money to get food yet you brought poverty upon your child. Not saying again that you are not a wonderfull mother but trust me that is also pretty hard on a child. I also assume from your story you got pregnant unmarried because in Islam it is not allowed to separate when a woman is with child al talak is very clear about it the man cant leave when you are with child and has to take care of you and the baby your pregnancy and the period you are breastfeeding.
@@Abmafatimawhat a hurtful thing to say. everyone is on their own journeys, you have no idea what she was walking through at the time. i am so glad she chose LIFE for her child and that she put them first in that difficult situation!
Women interrup men So Much its so annoying. Please let him finish a dang sentence 😫😫😫
I’ve been down this exact road. It’s so hard. Praying for you guys.
God is Good ALL THE TIME. He has something very special for your family 👪 Once he reveals his plan, you both will be in absolute awe. Until then, keep trusting and praying 🙏 God bless you both ❤️❤️❤️
Fast forward to a few days ago and she’s pregnant!!! Not sure how far along but she just announced it😊
@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade Yes, I saw that. Jesus is so FAITHFUL. God bless 🙌 🩷
I can only imagine how hard this must have been for you both. Thank you for being so transparent. Praying for your continued healing. Everything in its time 🙏🏽🤍
Hugs, Your baby will find you, in HIS time. You are so faithful. Bless you 🙏🏻 ❤
Its very difficult to watch this video with Jordan having a wad of dip in his mouth. I actually gagged a few times. Also- Im a nurse, so I swear this is supposed to be helpful and not snarky, but that he is so addicted he couldnt make a video without dipping during it may be why he struggles with his sperm count.
Why are they doing this when its such a private matter
When I was born, I was meant to be given to a young christian couple, but my mom decided to keep me after she had a look at me. I'm so glad she did. ❤
This is so beautiful. I'm so happy you stayed with your family ❤
At this point she is only doing it for the views
Thank you for sharing. I am waiting on something different. But yes, the ups and downs are both heartbreaking and yet wonderful.
That is really hard to take in praying for both of you guys! ❤
Thank goodness it did!
So beautiful when a baby gets to stay with the mother that grew it! (and not with y’all)
That may be true, but we can also sympathize with the ones who didn't get to adopt. Also, not all birth mothers are good moms.
@@angelrebekah9153 THIS. Just because you are blood related to someone does not mean that is the best situation to be in, particularly when a child is involved.
I took this as rude. How about try being nice and if u can’t say anything nice don’t say anything!
The first part was great, but when you went to edit to add "(and not with y'all") we ALL could have went without that edit.
Choose kindness over bitterness....it will elevate you further. ❤
I also took this as rude. You should see yourself out because they have enough of heavy hearts to have to deal with smart a$$ people who are mean!
Why are you both monetizing this whole journey… it’s giving Myka stouffer. So many influencers using these things that should be private being used to emotionally manipulate people to gain views and therefore money for you both. The amount of cuts and editing of different scenes just makes me realize how many take you both have had to make to make this video the most appealing and not genuine and definitely not “transparent” as you claim when you do so many takes
God is so good. I can’t wait to see at the end of your trial how he blesses you! Praying praying praying for y’all!
Praying for you both. This moved me to tears. Thank you for being so open to share. You are such a light. I ask God to continue guiding you and giving you strength. ❤
🫂❤ - virtual hugs to you both! Keep your head up and your faith strong. The Lord will answer your prayers...We just never know when. ❤
Praying for continued peace for your hearts and strength for pushing forward. Praying for birth mom and baby as well. Sending you so much love! ❤️
I’m so sorry.
Delayment is not always denial. I hope your time comes soon.
It’s not okay to refer to this as a failed adoption. There is NO failure here. The baby is exactly where your god designed it to be and as a supposed Christian and pro lifer you should understand that. Adoption means heartbreak for the baby and mom, not that it’s unjustified and for a purpose when done right, but all I heard In this video was self pity and self absorption.
She can refer to it as that. It was going to happen but at the last minute it didn’t so technically it did fail. They aren’t saying that God failed. I thought they were really gracious in the video and weren’t trying to get pity! They can be sad about it, the baby was almost theirs so it makes sense they would be super sad over it!
I’m so thankful you’ve been so vulnerable and brave sharing your whole story. Thank you ❤️ praying you have children filling your home very soon xx
I know your sadness. I have been there. IVF, miscarriage, failed adoption. It was the closest I’ve ever come to shaking my fist at God and walking away. But who else would I have if I turned my back on God. He sustained us and called us to foster care. 14 little ones over 4 years (all of them prayed over and dedicated to God) and he blessed us with two baby girls we were able to adopt. He is good! His timing is perfect! His plan is your plan A. God bless you!
I thought they were doing IVF?! God sees you....the birth Mum sees you....and thank goodness you didn't get that baby!
She believes most of her followers are not intelligent.
What are you talking about!? Don’t say that to someone! They seem like they would be good parents!
@alishamashburn412 look into a video of him on duty beating someone up. Look into her being sued by the state. Now tell me they would be good parents.
@@lalala6420people can change. You aren’t perfect. I don’t think you want things held against you if you’ve done your hardest work to become a different person. Forgiveness is good. You need forgiveness as well. We all do.
"Anger?" Wtf! Religion hasn't changed a thing in this dude's heart.
God gives us emotions. Anger being one of them. Read the book of Job! He had trials and tribulations, and he was angry, but he still gave everything to God and never gave up faith. Anger is an emotion given to us from God. Just like joy and happiness. Just give it to God.
Being a Christian doesn't mean one can never make a mistake or always follow through with God's words. It's possible to be angry as humans but as Christians we should be able to overcome that. I could say the same to you for swearing. It's a hard time for them, let's give them some grace.
Yikes! That’s a big assumption to make about someone you don’t even know!
It’s a normal part of grieving for a dream they had and were so close too. Lucky you if you’ve never felt anger in an emotional situation ….🙄
Thank you for sharing this with us. My daughter has had 4 failed adoptions in the last 2 years. Yes, birth mother's have a write to change their mind and God bless them. But this is and emotional and financial loss that can stop you from moving forward. So thank you for sharing because it isn't all sunshine and rainbows.God bless you both and may you soon hold your beautiful baby in your arms. My daughters continues her journey also.
I am truly sorry for everyone that has fallen over the scheme of this saga that may have not been real. 😮. I would assume when it comes to these circumstances it would be relatively private. Instead she decided to possibly take some acting classes to appear a baby i happening
Hey girl, I’m so sorry that happened to you and your husband. God has it all planned out for y’all. It’s like He’s getting you prepared for a bigger and better blessing that you can ever imagine ❤️ Don’t give up! Ly
🙏Greater is in-store for you both, Jordan-and-Brittany!🙏
It seems maybe the Lord is trying to say he's closed the door on you having a baby adoption or whatever..he doesn't always give us what we want ..it's what HE wants...sorry
So like a teen adotion or older?
God doesn't influence in these ways or over human biology.
What is the practicality that the Lord can affect billions of individual human beings daily going on? Is it practical or reasonable? of course not
I'm so sorry. Your faith is so incredibly inspiring and you're so blessed to have each other to lean on. I see you two with twins one day! I'm praying for you. 🙏💖
Went through the same and it is heartbreaking. But God had a plan and He send us a beautiful baby one month later. Dont give up, keep on trusting Him❤
My heart is hurting for you guys. You can see the heaviness and weariness in your eyes but also god’s grace shining through. God is up to something big for you two! Praying hard
While it may feel sad to you that baby got to stay with their mother, and that's the best thing that could ever happen for that child. Adoption is a tragic situation for mother and child.
God is good!!! Thank you Jesus!
So, sorry. You are right, God has the perfect child for your family.
I really don't understand vloggers anymore, especially family vloggers. There for a little while it seemed like a pretty cool idea, but the thought of just having nothing sacred or private and constantly thinking of ways to set up shots or do videos to benefit the channel, even during the intimate and hard times of life just seems to cheapen these life experiences. It wasn't long ago that you were being called out for other drama, then you started dragging everyone through baby drama, and now it's adoption drama. Was any of it real? That's the thing, vlogging your whole life just makes everything seem like it's done for show, even if it isn't. I hope one day you'll consider shutting the camera off and just living life privately. Or if you want to be a content creator to make a living, maybe shift to something less personal. Family vloggers are really starting to give us all the ick.
Wow. I can’t imagine saying this to someone that just lost the child they thought they were going to adopt. Let’s say you’re 100% right about not keeping things sacred. Even so why are you so lacking in wisdom that you choose to basically call them out as farming drama for dollars on this day? I have no idea who this couple is and you may be totally right but in order to say something this cruel at this time I would need to be completely convinced that they did not care at all if they got this child and are faking being heartbroken. My god, your selfishness and inconsideration honestly takes my breath away.
@@jenniferlawrence9598 they didn't lose a child. FFS. There is ALWAYS a chance the birth mom will change her mind which is her right. It's wild that Brittany announced anything about this.
Yes, you're right.... it's probably the TH-cam money is good? Of course it is.
Imagine what her family she is when they watch these videos.... I'll bet you they're secretly cringing and letting her do her thing because... they already know that she's one of these 21st century digital e-girls.
This is e girl life
What other people do in the comments section is none of your business @@jenniferlawrence9598
AMEN
Brittany, hugs for you! May the peace of God just continue to be wirh you in everything.
Oh guys I'm so sorry ❤ The Lord is preparing your miracle. Praying that your hearts are filled with peace, in Jesus' name.
GODSPEED, & deepest condolences
It’s really challenging. Have similar experience w/part of your story. It’s actually such a blessing for the child that people wanted her, you guys AND her birth mom/family. You never know how your faithful actions are influencing others…beyond what you perceive. He is faithful. Aloha n prayers ❤️🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing ❤. My heart is with you😢 “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;”
Psalms 103:13
As a person who was adopted from China. I think most couple who are struggle with fertility, the couples does not think about adoption and how many babies need to be adopted by loving parent like y"all. I've been following your journey for awhile! I pray for y'all to adopt the baby The LORD has planned for y"all!♥
Prebirth matching is problematic.
x100 fact
I’m praying for you both. Love you guys! ❤
Need to share a little bit of my Mom story she couldn’t have children since she got married and waited for 14 years my dad wanted to adopt a child but my mom told him to wait since she had a feeling she was soon going to be pregnant. She trusted in God and here we are, God gave her 2 daughters. Alot of people always tell my mom God gave her the best daughters as in reward of her patience ❤
What a beautiful testimony. The promises of God are so good. God is so good.
This happens a lot it’s heartbreaking I’m so sorry. I’m confident that you will get your baby soon. 😘 sending all the prayers!
I am so proud of your faith and understanding that birth mom is best option in some cases. I know God has an amazing plan for you both and I trust there's a little one on their way to you soon.
take in older kids that need a home... but you wouldn't bother with them hey!
God is on the throne, he is with you, and this journey will wnd in praise.. sending you guys love
I’m curious as to why you are heartbroken. Isn’t the goal for a child to be with their parent. you should be celebrating according to God.
Because think of all the views she was getting with this storyline!! These two are selfish and it’s all about them!! I do not know how people cannot see right through this woman…people seriously lack discernment!
Are you guys serious?
My mom has worked in adoption over half of my lifetime. This happens often, I know it’s hard, but there are blessings coming…there’s a baby out there for you.
Cant they adopt a child from the orphanage that has no parents?
She will conceive that baby
@@ashleyfraser114There are no orphanages in the US. Internationally, 80% of children in orphanages have at least one living parent.
@@bahalto Ohh Thanks I didn’t know that
As a foster mom I’m praying for you guys.
My friends !!!! I am so sorry this happened . Your unwavering faith continue to help so many people
Awe im so sorry youre going thru this 🥺 as a birth mom who has had 2 give up 2 daughters 4 adoption, i know firsthand the devastation of walking into the hospital feeling ur baby kicking inside u & then having 2 walk out those same doors, empty handed... i wouldn't wish that experience on even my worst enemy 😭 so a part of me is so grateful that the birth mom was able 2 avoid that experience, & i applaud u guys 4 handling the same devastation, with grace. Much respect. God will give u beauty 4 those ashes. ❤💯🥹🫶
God will send you the child he has for you mama. But in this struggle you were able to intercede for another mom in a way that you least expected ❤ and that will not go unnoticed
I don’t know if this would help but I’m a CPS worker and I know of so many kids who need adopted. They may be a little older, they may be a set of siblings, and maybe they’re in another state but there are a lot of children who need help. I don’t know your full situation or what you have tried already but I’m just throwing that out there. I’m only saying this because I truly believe people don’t know how many children are actually needing help. I didn’t know how many until I became a CPS worker. I’m so sorry to hear about this happening to you guys and I will continue to pray for God’s will in your lives ❤️ I’m sorry if this wasn’t the right time to say this but I just felt led to.
Praying for all. 🙏 God’s will, God’s timing, peace that passes all understanding. 🙌🙌
Praying for you both! ❤🙏🏻 so brave to share !
Thank goodness the mom changed her mind.
Im sorry to hear that you're going through this pain and praying that God will open doors for you and your husband to conceive a child or even adopt an older child.
I am also proud of the potential birth mama choosing to mother her baby. As a birth mom i placed my son in an open adoption almost 3 years ago to a couple who struggled with 11+ miscarriages and i truly felt compassion in knowing i could bring them the joy of a beautiful healthy baby boy. However, that was the hardest thing ive ever done and still continue to grieve the decision since the adoptive family made their decision to keep contact very limited. We are lucky to get pictures a few times a year..
It is a sad reality of how many open adoptions close after the baby is received and the papers are signed and many birth parents are discarded regretting their decision.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerable journey and truly i know God will bless you in His perfect timing there is nothing impossible for Him
Your journey has really just been so amazing. The way you trust God in the midst of your pain. God is soo good even when our circumstances aren't. I pray that God will continue to give you peace and strength to keep going. Remember that song that says : You're not done with me yet. There is sooo much more to the story. You're not done with me yet. You have babies in heaven you are mom and soon in God's perfect timing you will have our earth side babies. It's not easy but God will you strength. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. God hears you when you have nothing to pray. He hears your ❤️❤️❤️
God will not take away something from you without giving you something better ❤❤❤
My heart goes out to you... I pray that G-d brings a baby into your arms and hearts. So many of us are praying for you both.
You guys talking about it is exactly what God needs you to do. Your emotions are valid and processing them is so good for yall!! Praying for yall!!
I can’t imagine what you are both going through, I can however see the faith and trust that you approach this area of your lives with. I have no doubt that our Father loves and delights in you. He will continue to guide you, to protect, to provide, to pour His favor out in your marriage, in building a family, in business and every other part of your lives. We continue to pray and believe that you will have the fulfillment of the promise of children to raise up knowing how much God loves them and how much you love them too! Rather through adoption, naturally conceiving, through medical intervention, or maybe even all of the above, He will deliver everything He has spoken over you and deliver it into your hands. He will anoint you and illuminate your path. He is faithful to finish what He begins. I know that He will take away any sorrow and sadness and turn it into immeasurable happiness as you continue to wait on The Lord. Mourning and weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning. Be of good courage and He will strengthen your heart. Not only are the two of you in our prayers as well as the precious little ones that God has already chosen to be yours, we also pray for your family and friends, your church community, the people you lean on, the people that stand with you, that impart into your lives that they would continue to remind you that you are surrounded by His goodness, His healing, His hope, His wisdom, His favor, mercy and grace, and above all else, His unwavering, steadfast love. I’m looking forward to one day soon seeing a video on TH-cam introducing all of us to the little one or little ones that He has chosen to entrust to you to raise in the wisdom and knowledge of God. To see a video with the baby, with the children that you will soon have the honor of dedicating to The Lord and raising them up to be known by Him, loved by Him and teaching them to walk in the ways of The Lord! Showing them daily how to love Him back by the way you live your lives, which is a beautiful example of a what a real relationship with The Father and His unconditional love looks like. With Jesus as Savior and friend, with The Holy Spirit as Comforter, as the one who illuminates and guides believers through The Word of God. Obviously He is so so so much more and I know you will teach them to pursue His heart and every part of who He is. We can’t wait to see your prayers answered in a way only God can do!
I am so sorry... praying for you both! We had a failed adoption as well and that was so hard because it all felt so right and lined up so perfectly. It was hard to grasp why and we questioned if we should continue on. A couple months later the Lord provided us a case, presented to birth mom our profile and a few hours later we were matched and next day leaving on a 13hr journey to wait for baby to be born. The amount of emotions you go through is so crazy. We got to bring him home a week and a half later but he was born the day we arrived.
I am so sorry♥️. Continue to choose joy. This journey will reap beautiful rewards. God is good. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your hearts in a real and raw way. I am not walking this journey but witnessing you living your testimony out loud is encouraging to me. I read somewhere that we are a microwave culture and as a Christian we fall victim to that thought pattern. I am learning to walk with Him at his pace and not my own. I pray He reveals your child to you soon!
Satan will always give you or show you the counterfeit before the miracle happens!
I will keep praying for you guys ❤
So true!!
Kinda odd to call a newborn baby a counterfeit from the devil but uhhh to each their own?
@@Kelly_92 she meant the opportunity to adopt…🙄
@@Kelly_92she wasn’t calling the baby counterfeit. They were saying the situation that presented as an opportunity ended up not being THEIR miracle. Does that make more sense?
@@abby4027 so this situation isn’t the counterfeit?
💔💔 “she has every right…”
This video is loaded with self absorbed self centered views walking into adopting.
In all of this they fail to show ANY compassion or joy for a woman to keep HER child.
“We never could have imagined…”
This is a statement from entitlement - people who get what they want when they want it. This is not prospective adoptive parents who KNOW what they are getting into.
I hope if birth mom EVER watched this she knows- she made the right decision and has zero guilt for the let down these “vessels” are crying about.
These are people who want a shiny white newborn baby.