Even though i met, dated and married the one it was for a short while. He passed away after 4 months of marriage. God showed me id be blessing him as a help-mate. He had cancer and it escalated quickly after we were married. Miss him so much. God truly brought my daughter and i a beautiful gift to know such a selfless man who truly loved our heavenly father and loved us unconditionally.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony. I love your perspective on seeing God's glory through this. Praying for sustained courage and blessings in your family's life.
It’s interesting just 2 weeks ago I went to go help out with volunteering at my church and out of nowhere A women from a single ministry shows up she recognized me from the group last year. I don’t know if this is the one God has for me so I’m not going to jump to conclusions but I will be in prayer for wisdom and guidance.
Right! Get to know her gradually. After a few weeks ask her for coffee or lunch. No need to be hasty or wonder is she the ONE? The main thing is that she truly loves God. That's the first thing you want to to find out.
Got all 5 (physical attraction came later) with my soon-to-be-husband. I actually prayed the prayer in Luke trying to run away from my feelings for him (which came suddenly after a vision of our wedding day). I asked God to take away his feelings for me so I didnt have to choose myself. I was told no twice by the Spirit. I finally felt peace when I said "let Your Will be done". Almost 2 years later and we are closer than ever. The only man I ever dated where the hardships brought us closer rather than tearing us apart.
ME TOO!! I kid you not I asked God to take my spouse away from me (like make him move somewhere else) As soon as I left the room I was praying in I bumped into him and had a short conversation with him! So I guess God said "Absolutely not! This is your guy." 😂😂
@@SelflessLiving yes. You have to write down what you're going to fast about. Speak to the Lord prior to fasting and let him know what you would like him to answer.
Where in the bible does it say fast for a husband and or wife for 3 days and write it down ??? This is false information that you're speaking and dangerous !!!
@@faithpatience. I believe the person is just stating that if we’re not sure of something in our lives and we’re not sure in how to discern and see God in it, we should fast with intention. That’s all throughout the Bible.
Thank you for this video, me and my friend we known each other 5 years ago but lost contacted this year we came into contact again and the hints that you mentioned makes a lot of sense, i pray and i do find peace when i pray about him, at the moment, but both of us have the same feelings for each other, so im sure that when God in His Will, will bring us together, i think we will go in the direction of marriage 🙏 May God always bless you 🙏🙏🙏
This is an answered prayer!🤍 If God wills, I know He will open doors of opportunity to lead us together. For now, the key is to SURRENDER everything to Him!
My first thought when I met this man even before we spoke was this..this is a Godly man of integrity. We both opened up pretty quickly. Realized we are on same path with Christ. Even shared a few laughs. He's got a great sense of humor. I thought him handsome & he thinks I'm attractive too. He confided in me that he had been feeling sick. I just learned he took leave from work ( where I met him) and is quite ill. Unable to work! Will you pray for him, Mark?
🙏🏻hey sister you know how its wrotten Everything is possible with God. ❤ My friend ( brother) that i mentioned sadly has multiple sclerosis do to trauma and canot work. He got social help , but its not enough for proper living. I think he is scared of love because he cant provide for future wife. But he first revealed to me and said you are so precious to me, I started loving you with love of Christ 😮 so now i dont know Im in shock. Since I also sense deeper love for him😢.
True teachings. I’ve experienced this! Doing God’s will when it comes to marital relationships, all you said is will be part of the journey. God bless you pastor AGW!🙏🏽
Hi thank you so much for this video. I met this guy at a catholic conference and all the signs you spoke about were there. Please pray for me so that he approaches me with an intent of romantic interest. I was attracted to him and we are good friends but he's not talking to me on a regular basis but still I have peace in my heart and I am fine with any unknown outcome as well. Great video 👍
I’m not sure how this happened. I crossed path with this guy at the church a few times. I was drawn to him and couldn’t understand why. Before I met him, I did pray to the Lord that I wanted a man of God and someone that is chosen by Him and foremost is someone who loves Him as much as I do but in my next life.. jokingly. Then this guy came out from nowhere.. on Good Friday.. We never talked to each other but somehow our paths crossed again a few times. When the feelings are getting stronger, I pray to the Lord to get him out of my sight, my way, or my path if this is not aligned with His will. Somehow the person showed up again. It was bizarre.. but now I would be obedient if this is aligned with His will.
Bless you. Dear Mark, I dont know what to think, this brother godly man pops everywhere, somehow his friends mention me to him and oposite, like we always think of each other. And I hear that he mentions me with love gratitude to his friends and brothers sisters. We know each other abot one year but only meet one time. And there was peace and joy. He sad he loves me like Christ love, we are very good friends I dont know is this real romantic love because I never had interaction with godly man.
God bless you too! You should try to spend more time in person with him. You won't know more until you get real evidence by interacting with him in person
@@danilaroche1156 Bless you sister. I think he is scared because of age gap and beacuse we are really good friends, he s affraid me also to ruin friendship . Since he said that I am precious to him ,but this feelings become growing I didnt know , I just sense somethin deep between us. And also when we pray together ,. I think he is scared because of past traumas dating in church etc
I know it’s not the most important but suddenly I’ve feeling super anxious about God bringing me someone im not physically attracted to, especially when it comes to a particular man. He is a very Godly man who has shown interest but im just not interested…. Im afraid of not being in Gods will if I decline his offer.
Attraction is a weird thing. You can meet someone and not be attracted but the more you get to know them that attraction grows to the point you’re surprised you didn’t find them attractive at the beginning. Attraction sometimes is based on familiarity. And in the beginning the other is not familiar.
@@sonofhibbs4425 not everyone feels that way ... For me attraction matters, physical looks do matter ... We may be All of GODs children's but we have different personalities, there's no "everything fits in for everybody".
My Rogie was literally an answer to a prayer …i didnt recognize it at first and my drinking fell away … because i liked him but he wasnt what i was expecting God to send lol ..needless to say we had 12 years together and im still thankful every day that he loves me and i love him …he passed 10 years ago …there has not been another …there is no marriage in heaven like on earth from what i understand …will i see him again and where in the bible can i find reference to seeing him again?
I got reconnected with God after sinning after my breakup with my ex fiancé. Now that I’m back with God there is a weight on my heart and idk like I’m fearful and scared bc there are different things that caused up to break up. One being my parents thought she changed me and wasn’t good for me. The thing is every time we go our separate ways like we stop chatting or when I check up on her. Something always brings us back into contact like she will reach out or I will. About a thing that happened in our lives that could affect the other person. Just confused and Ik I would have peace if this is my person. There wouldn’t be doubt…
I love my future husband so much I'm in love with him. God and my desires are so strong about him. I feel so good around him peace and excitement. I was open with him and didn't even know him much yet after seeing for first time.
Hopefully he feels the same. If he doesn't pursue or show interest, stay away & see if he misses you. I can't tell you the number of women I know waiting on a man whose not interested. They will wait YEARS. Don't let that be your scenario.
If I had no physical attraction when I first saw him, then began liking his personality, but still didn't really like him physically, then experienced some physical attraction, but it quickly faded because we argued a few times and I didn't like how he acted then, it means there's no chance of physical attraction, right? Now I have zero attraction towards him, after 3 months of dating..
Sometimes, i feel God wants me to take a prayer over him, i following those step for over 6 years, but technically a pastor told me that praying is influencing by Satan. So what’s the truth? Can someone helping me with this?
I am really confused 😕 I have known one person for a long time but suddenly In my heart one word is coming i want to marry him again again It's been happening for more than 6 months I don't know what to do?
What do you think when someone has been there for you and they do what they say but says that it's okay to have sex before marriage because it's natural
They are ignorant or deceived or BOTH. This is a stop sign. If she's open..lead her to scripture & a trusted elder or pastor. Be careful you don't comply with her.
So if she is not opening up because shes hurt from past relationships does this also mean she is not the one, shes confused about it so am I and although i was open to getting to know her she was not open because of past emotional hurt
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Thank you for this Mark I was literally so confused about this, and she wasn't excited to see me text her or pursue her, so she wasnt interested, I've been mulling over it for a while, shes been ghosting me these past four days, God just gave me the strength to remove her off my socials. I guess the Lord really does protect his children. She's a Christian too and we are equally yoked but I think this is the Lord telling me to move on, if she can't get over her past relationship hurt then that will demotivate her she also will not be interested in me, although I have been hearing a gentle voice telling me to be patient and wait. But now I'm very confused
I hope you will know one day what is love. But before knowing this special someone, you must find love in God. When you are happy with God ; you can be meet that special someone and be happy in wedding.
I’m sorry you feel that way, I too have been hurt by women, ghosted, cheated on etc you name it, but giving advice like a broken man doesn’t help anyone, stay single and do what exactly!? What the world wants you to do. Sometimes being single makes a man weak.
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” Mark 11:24 ESV
Amen, if it aligns with God's will (1 John 5:14) he will answer with a yes
[in accordance with God's will]
Amn!
Even though i met, dated and married the one it was for a short while. He passed away after 4 months of marriage. God showed me id be blessing him as a help-mate. He had cancer and it escalated quickly after we were married. Miss him so much. God truly brought my daughter and i a beautiful gift to know such a selfless man who truly loved our heavenly father and loved us unconditionally.
🙏🏾✝️
Sorry to hear that becca, be strong❤🥹
Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony. I love your perspective on seeing God's glory through this. Praying for sustained courage and blessings in your family's life.
My condolences ❤
I’m so sorry, may the Lord bless you❤
It’s interesting just 2 weeks ago I went to go help out with volunteering at my church and out of nowhere A women from a single ministry shows up she recognized me from the group last year. I don’t know if this is the one God has for me so I’m not going to jump to conclusions but I will be in prayer for wisdom and guidance.
Amen, no need to jump that far ahead. Best to be kind and see where things lead :)
Right! Get to know her gradually. After a few weeks ask her for coffee or lunch. No need to be hasty or wonder is she the ONE? The main thing is that she truly loves God. That's the first thing you want to to find out.
God advice Mark. People are so quick to make conclusions. Is she the ONE? Just get to know them first!
Got all 5 (physical attraction came later) with my soon-to-be-husband. I actually prayed the prayer in Luke trying to run away from my feelings for him (which came suddenly after a vision of our wedding day). I asked God to take away his feelings for me so I didnt have to choose myself. I was told no twice by the Spirit. I finally felt peace when I said "let Your Will be done". Almost 2 years later and we are closer than ever. The only man I ever dated where the hardships brought us closer rather than tearing us apart.
ME TOO!! I kid you not I asked God to take my spouse away from me (like make him move somewhere else) As soon as I left the room I was praying in I bumped into him and had a short conversation with him! So I guess God said "Absolutely not! This is your guy." 😂😂
Follow the peace. That's good advice. Thank you.🕊
When you meet somebody and you're not sure you could always fast and pray for 3 days with just water and the Lord will answer you.
This is the comment!
Really? Is that true?
@@SelflessLiving yes. You have to write down what you're going to fast about. Speak to the Lord prior to fasting and let him know what you would like him to answer.
Where in the bible does it say fast for a husband and or wife for 3 days and write it down ??? This is false information that you're speaking and dangerous !!!
@@faithpatience. I believe the person is just stating that if we’re not sure of something in our lives and we’re not sure in how to discern and see God in it, we should fast with intention. That’s all throughout the Bible.
Thank you for this video, me and my friend we known each other 5 years ago but lost contacted this year we came into contact again and the hints that you mentioned makes a lot of sense, i pray and i do find peace when i pray about him, at the moment, but both of us have the same feelings for each other, so im sure that when God in His Will, will bring us together, i think we will go in the direction of marriage 🙏 May God always bless you 🙏🙏🙏
God bless as you follow the Lord's leading!
This is an answered prayer!🤍 If God wills, I know He will open doors of opportunity to lead us together. For now, the key is to SURRENDER everything to Him!
God bless!
Yes .. follow the peace 🕊️
Thank you Mark 💯🤗
God bless!
I'm believing for my God's Best.🙏🙏🙏
My first thought when I met this man even before we spoke was this..this is a Godly man of integrity. We both opened up pretty quickly. Realized we are on same path with Christ. Even shared a few laughs. He's got a great sense of humor. I thought him handsome & he thinks I'm attractive too. He confided in me that he had been feeling sick. I just learned he took leave from work ( where I met him) and is quite ill. Unable to work! Will you pray for him, Mark?
🙏🏻hey sister you know how its wrotten Everything is possible with God. ❤ My friend ( brother) that i mentioned sadly has multiple sclerosis do to trauma and canot work. He got social help , but its not enough for proper living. I think he is scared of love because he cant provide for future wife. But he first revealed to me and said you are so precious to me, I started loving you with love of Christ 😮 so now i dont know Im in shock. Since I also sense deeper love for him😢.
Sister maybe its time to go on fast. Seeking God s will. I will do that again. Its really not easy. Without Lord I cant do nothing. ❤
He completely recovered. He nearly died! Anyway, he knows I fasted & prayed. I am waiting on God to propel us to Godly courtship.
True teachings. I’ve experienced this! Doing God’s will when it comes to marital relationships, all you said is will be part of the journey. God bless you pastor AGW!🙏🏽
This made me cry
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO❤❤❤❤ GOD'S WILL BE DONE AS I HAVE EXPERIENCED ALL THESE
Trust to the Lord with all your heart and not your own understanding , if She/he is God will to you there is your's
Hi thank you so much for this video. I met this guy at a catholic conference and all the signs you spoke about were there. Please pray for me so that he approaches me with an intent of romantic interest. I was attracted to him and we are good friends but he's not talking to me on a regular basis but still I have peace in my heart and I am fine with any unknown outcome as well. Great video 👍
You’re doing just fine!
I’m not sure how this happened. I crossed path with this guy at the church a few times. I was drawn to him and couldn’t understand why. Before I met him, I did pray to the Lord that I wanted a man of God and someone that is chosen by Him and foremost is someone who loves Him as much as I do but in my next life.. jokingly. Then this guy came out from nowhere.. on Good Friday.. We never talked to each other but somehow our paths crossed again a few times. When the feelings are getting stronger, I pray to the Lord to get him out of my sight, my way, or my path if this is not aligned with His will. Somehow the person showed up again. It was bizarre.. but now I would be obedient if this is aligned with His will.
Bless you. Dear Mark, I dont know what to think, this brother godly man pops everywhere, somehow his friends mention me to him and oposite, like we always think of each other. And I hear that he mentions me with love gratitude to his friends and brothers sisters. We know each other abot one year but only meet one time. And there was peace and joy. He sad he loves me like Christ love, we are very good friends I dont know is this real romantic love because I never had interaction with godly man.
God bless you too! You should try to spend more time in person with him. You won't know more until you get real evidence by interacting with him in person
If he hasn't made a move towards courtship after a year? Looks like he sees you only as a friend in my humble opinion.
@@danilaroche1156 Bless you sister. I think he is scared because of age gap and beacuse we are really good friends, he s affraid me also to ruin friendship . Since he said that I am precious to him ,but this feelings become growing I didnt know , I just sense somethin deep between us. And also when we pray together ,. I think he is scared because of past traumas dating in church etc
Thank you for this video.
Thank you, brother Mark, for this video, it is really helpful. 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks for this video! Amen!
You are so welcome! All glory to God!
Wow, so good 😄🙏
God bless!
AMEN 🙏🙏
God bless!
Thank you 🙏🏾
I know it’s not the most important but suddenly I’ve feeling super anxious about God bringing me someone im not physically attracted to, especially when it comes to a particular man. He is a very Godly man who has shown interest but im just not interested…. Im afraid of not being in Gods will if I decline his offer.
If you’re not attracted, don’t worry, it’s not God. God’s voice brings a calmness by the way, not anxiety.
Attraction is a weird thing. You can meet someone and not be attracted but the more you get to know them that attraction grows to the point you’re surprised you didn’t find them attractive at the beginning. Attraction sometimes is based on familiarity. And in the beginning the other is not familiar.
@@sonofhibbs4425 not everyone feels that way ... For me attraction matters, physical looks do matter ... We may be All of GODs children's but we have different personalities, there's no "everything fits in for everybody".
Just because he’s a good man doesn’t mean he’s the one for you. God wants you to be attracted to your future spouse
God will drop the “One” right into your lap when you least expect it.
My Rogie was literally an answer to a prayer …i didnt recognize it at first and my drinking fell away … because i liked him but he wasnt what i was expecting God to send lol ..needless to say we had 12 years together and im still thankful every day that he loves me and i love him …he passed 10 years ago …there has not been another …there is no marriage in heaven like on earth from what i understand …will i see him again and where in the bible can i find reference to seeing him again?
Yes you will.. I'm sure of it.
www.gotquestions.org/family-heaven.html
I got reconnected with God after sinning after my breakup with my ex fiancé. Now that I’m back with God there is a weight on my heart and idk like I’m fearful and scared bc there are different things that caused up to break up. One being my parents thought she changed me and wasn’t good for me. The thing is every time we go our separate ways like we stop chatting or when I check up on her. Something always brings us back into contact like she will reach out or I will. About a thing that happened in our lives that could affect the other person. Just confused and Ik I would have peace if this is my person. There wouldn’t be doubt…
Amen, amen!!!
I love my future husband so much I'm in love with him. God and my desires are so strong about him. I feel so good around him peace and excitement. I was open with him and didn't even know him much yet after seeing for first time.
Hopefully he feels the same. If he doesn't pursue or show interest, stay away & see if he misses you. I can't tell you the number of women I know waiting on a man whose not interested. They will wait YEARS. Don't let that be your scenario.
Don't be such an open book and tell all to a man you don't know.
I am discouraged to meet the guy God has for me now. All of them is not worked out.😩
Don’t be discouraged friend! Trust me when I you God has you and has best for you! 🤗
Trust in God. His grace is enough
Amen 🙏🙌🙏
If I had no physical attraction when I first saw him, then began liking his personality, but still didn't really like him physically, then experienced some physical attraction, but it quickly faded because we argued a few times and I didn't like how he acted then, it means there's no chance of physical attraction, right?
Now I have zero attraction towards him, after 3 months of dating..
seems like a dead end and you would be forcing it
But HE confirmed me that she is the one
If God said it, it will happen. If it doesn't happen, God didn't say it
You should pursue her then.
I haven't met my future husband yet, and I haven't experienced any of these yet.
❤
Sometimes, i feel God wants me to take a prayer over him, i following those step for over 6 years, but technically a pastor told me that praying is influencing by Satan. So what’s the truth? Can someone helping me with this?
Seek God. Seek him and you will find.
Thank goodness God didn’t choose anyone for me.
They hate us because we have the best cuisine all around. I don’t blame them.
lol
I am really confused 😕
I have known one person for a long time but suddenly In my heart one word is coming i want to marry him again again
It's been happening for more than 6 months I don't know what to do?
What do you think when someone has been there for you and they do what they say but says that it's okay to have sex before marriage because it's natural
they are not following Scripture. The rest doesn't matter if they're not following Scripture
They are ignorant or deceived or BOTH. This is a stop sign. If she's open..lead her to scripture & a trusted elder or pastor. Be careful you don't comply with her.
Comply with HIM. I see trouble if you want the truth.
Nah dating is wrong in our community
So if she is not opening up because shes hurt from past relationships does this also mean she is not the one, shes confused about it so am I and although i was open to getting to know her she was not open because of past emotional hurt
Even if she's hurt, the fact that she's not opening up means the relationship is not going to work. Something would need to change for this to work
She is not the one for you. People who won't open up are not ready for relationships because they're still broken.
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Thank you for this Mark I was literally so confused about this, and she wasn't excited to see me text her or pursue her, so she wasnt interested, I've been mulling over it for a while, shes been ghosting me these past four days, God just gave me the strength to remove her off my socials. I guess the Lord really does protect his children. She's a Christian too and we are equally yoked but I think this is the Lord telling me to move on, if she can't get over her past relationship hurt then that will demotivate her she also will not be interested in me, although I have been hearing a gentle voice telling me to be patient and wait. But now I'm very confused
@@seansworldkc thankyou for this, God bless you
I agree. My last ex was still hurt from old relationships. He wouldn't allow God to heal him & marry me. I don't want that. We broke up.
Actually it’s very frustrating listening to your videos. How do you know all theses facts???
Fuck this shit! Gents marriage is hard work and sacrifice and doesn't guarantee happiness...go your own way and stay single
I hope you will know one day what is love.
But before knowing this special someone, you must find love in God.
When you are happy with God ; you can be meet that special someone and be happy in wedding.
I’m sorry you feel that way, I too have been hurt by women, ghosted, cheated on etc you name it, but giving advice like a broken man doesn’t help anyone, stay single and do what exactly!? What the world wants you to do. Sometimes being single makes a man weak.
Thank You ♥️