POWER DYNAMICS IN RELATIONSHIPS || Is it ever 50/50? || SEASON 3 EP 4

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  • Hey Joyriders,
    Welcome to Season 3 episode 4, we talk about power dynamics in our relationship and explore questions on equity, whether more money equals more power in our relationship and much more.
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  • @michelekamau4026
    @michelekamau4026 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wanjiru and Ben, please consider creating conversation cards based on these questions and market them, we will buy them.

    • @joymuthoni6260
      @joymuthoni6260 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My thoughts exactly!

  • @faithwndr8
    @faithwndr8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can't miss seeing the color coordination between Ben and Wanjiru, the background and the surrounding, very beautiful colors indeed. Whoever comes up with those questions, kuddos to them.

  • @fehnbrillia4588
    @fehnbrillia4588 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I feel like I have watched so much if your podcasts and I know you and you SHOULD BE knowing me 😂😂😂😂. Can't imagine how disappointed I'll be when I meet and I'm all psyched up for you then you stare at me blankly because you have no idea who I am😂😂😂😂.I enjoy every bit of your content, I 100% relate.
    I love to be here .

  • @eymarjohn
    @eymarjohn ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ben looks really tired 🥺 y'all doing great work 👏we appreciate you

  • @njerikamau8913
    @njerikamau8913 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Its Ben saying herbalist for me 😂😂😂😂. Love the rawness in every episode.

  • @neemaamariah.
    @neemaamariah. ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I've never seen Ben from an emasculated POV. It's so surprising!! I've always viewed him as a unique individual bringing his 100 just like Wanjiru. The dynamic duo 😉, Joyride wouldn't be amazing if they weren't so different yet the strongest and best in their own qualities

  • @estelschannelec8790
    @estelschannelec8790 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think most husbands who show love,respect and affection to their spouses ndio huambiwa "wamekaliwa"... we need to unlearn alot

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wanjiru, i think what you are describing in minute 22 is inter-dependency not co-dependency. Co-dependency is an EXCESSIVE emotional reliance on your partner which is negative coz it means you are unable to "move" without the person. Inter-dependence is mutual sober reliance on each other, where you know you can still "move" and do it well but you choose both of you for a more positive outcome.
    I really LOvE this podcast........Your genuineness is evident and i like it.

  • @hellenkwagala5633
    @hellenkwagala5633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a very interesting topic based on leadership in marriage looking at our African setting. It's so interesting.

  • @relaxingzensoundz1349
    @relaxingzensoundz1349 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great episode. I hope in the future you can also mix it up with new format/content- not directly relationship related?

  • @nyaguthiinjuguna668
    @nyaguthiinjuguna668 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You guys are My favourite ❤ Every Thursday I am constantly waiting for an episode.Its very educative

  • @lintolinky
    @lintolinky ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This feels nice am so happy you guy are the best and a blessing to many for me this is free therapy .I really learn alot in every episode it a life changing podcast THANKS alot guy continue blessing us with your content .May GOD's blessings, favour and grace be with you in your marriage may HE continue enlightening you every day 🙏🙏

  • @michelekamau4026
    @michelekamau4026 ปีที่แล้ว

    The conversation is very organic and authentic. Love that both of you are doing this, it’s giving genuine!

  • @lamuriasworld
    @lamuriasworld ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aki Ben😂😂😂😂😂the two of you make me glued to my screen 🥰🥵🖤😍💜

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    100% common. The emotional part.amazing conversation... You are growing on me. 😂💕

  • @janegicheru973
    @janegicheru973 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben your end just has to be hilarious. Good job Wanjiru and Ben. Road to 100k-the silver button is coming home. Tsatsa strategy one on one....hizo campus tours mnatoka na subscribers kila wakati you meet the young adults who look up to you. Wanjiru the strategist give Ben the lines to speak to audience to get subscribers in his witty hilarious way from the crowd who take time to listen to you!!!!!!!!

  • @midbrianisindu58
    @midbrianisindu58 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She said God I love it here.

  • @angiek8164
    @angiek8164 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had missed a sit down with just the two of you.

  • @geah9621
    @geah9621 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this episode, season 3 is amazing

  • @wanjirumuchiri253
    @wanjirumuchiri253 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Every time Bomba is mentioned on the podcast I always go and watch so I can add the view count. So it was still successful in its own way 😂😂😂

  • @ttanufaith763
    @ttanufaith763 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Had to watch that Bomba song😁😁😁

  • @jenwm
    @jenwm ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben's energy 😢😢

  • @Cecilia4205
    @Cecilia4205 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Ben wasn't in the mood like always. Even his volume was done. Good episode though

    • @beenneen3295
      @beenneen3295 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think ur projecting

    • @Yv1o5
      @Yv1o5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are all human at the end of the day. What if they’ve had a busy day hence tired?

    • @Cecilia4205
      @Cecilia4205 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please note it was just an observation not like am saying it's bad. I understand people get tired

    • @Yv1o5
      @Yv1o5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cecilia4205 But you say that he's always tired. I watched the previous episode with Georgie, he wasn't moody.

    • @Cecilia4205
      @Cecilia4205 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yv1o5 look clearly I have stated not in the mood like always????where did I say he is always tired??? Kindly re-read my comment

  • @joyjeptoo6453
    @joyjeptoo6453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please welcome Lornzie and Diallo ... I like them❤

  • @much-gracehealthcare
    @much-gracehealthcare ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the bomba song is not that bad, it’s actually timeless, thou made a while back it is still relevant today, great beat , danceable and very nice rhymes.

  • @margretwambui811
    @margretwambui811 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hii show inakuanga Bomba I say❤❤

  • @oliverokello154
    @oliverokello154 ปีที่แล้ว

    Power Dynamics,a great topic, I wish you would introduce the topic first for better understanding..am definitely looking forward for part 2 of this..a good show!👌

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😅😅😅😅I feel Ben on that part of bank sending you happy birthday... struggles

  • @paulnyagah181
    @paulnyagah181 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love it here♥

  • @lintolinky
    @lintolinky ปีที่แล้ว

    you both are beautiful both inside and out😍😍 I just love how you don't fake

  • @variniawandere4468
    @variniawandere4468 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    48.3 k subbies yeeeyyyy❤

  • @wanjikumumbi8256
    @wanjikumumbi8256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree the Kameme niggas are hilarious AF

  • @bigg1091
    @bigg1091 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yenyewe Wanjiru is now the official president of foreheads .

  • @wawanjohi
    @wawanjohi ปีที่แล้ว

    Wapi nduru ya man Saimo na Katta 😂 the kameme show
    #andu a nyumba

  • @linnet.kkimari3423
    @linnet.kkimari3423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please get a mix of fun/less serious and serious question ⁉️ it would land better in one episode guys😊

  • @DavidOkikiAmayoJr.
    @DavidOkikiAmayoJr. ปีที่แล้ว

    Taking notes.

  • @_a.w.o
    @_a.w.o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ati the urban people didn't like it 😂😂😂 Ben is hilarious 😂

  • @priscillaangwenyi8574
    @priscillaangwenyi8574 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it!!!

  • @faithwendy1843
    @faithwendy1843 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂😂😂😂😂😂the way Ben gets shocked about Wanjiru's experiences is mad funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jacqueskarani
    @jacqueskarani ปีที่แล้ว +1

    on the comments 😂😂😂😂,its something that pops up from the conversations and mostly its when you guys aren't reading from the same page

  • @annunziatakinya
    @annunziatakinya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just had to go and watch Bomba because this is the second time its coming up on the podcast and its really not that bad for a 2018 song I think🤣

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya ปีที่แล้ว

    waiting....

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm wanjiru 😅😅😅I will narrow it down to your childhood traumas😅😅😅I mean ,I just need to understand deeper 😅😅😅

  • @Larissareson
    @Larissareson ปีที่แล้ว

    I really hope Catholic University is part of 'outside of Nairobi' 😭😭

  • @findinglela
    @findinglela ปีที่แล้ว

    Wanjiru is leading Ben. I only hope she won't demand he leads her soon. Something that wives default to few years in. That'll bring them down. Pray for them.

  • @bigg1091
    @bigg1091 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If manipulative was a person, she will be from Embu

    • @ian_1111
      @ian_1111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hard truth

  • @mslornzie
    @mslornzie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    just as the title states for me its somewhat triggering the last relationship I was in was the worst I have been in. At first i never paid much attention but the dynamic changed ( his money and influential friends) paying too much attention to outsiders and not the person your with theirs is alot of low low jabz , disrepect in terms of not being in the same social rank .

  • @jamesnjogu7354
    @jamesnjogu7354 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happened to the headphones.....

  • @LauraPosh247
    @LauraPosh247 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @neemaamariah.
    @neemaamariah. ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we please have the clip video Button returned 😭😭😭

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 ปีที่แล้ว

    Police station!!! Really Ben?

  • @musamutetwi1948
    @musamutetwi1948 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wanjiru alikataa headphones za ben. si poa 😅

  • @mayhemandmadness5725
    @mayhemandmadness5725 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me it's tye non verbal cues, Hawa watu wako salama at this moment kweli, the way wanjiru interrupts Ben, when Ben is managing his anger, mlikua mme kosana wapi