Getting married early is like leaving the club at 1am. Discuss Which club? The club I never went to? I got married to get into "the club" 😁😁😁😁. Looking back at almost thirty years that have passed, I'm happy I joined 'the club' in my early twenties. Now that we are pushing fifty, we're able to enjoy so many things together since the responsibilities of taking care of young babies and children are behind us. All our children are in college, and we spend a lot of time hanging out, driving to any place, having sleepovers, and are planning to make our dreams of traveling around the world come true since we have more money to do so. CAVEAT EMPTOR APPLIES: MARRIAGE IS STRICTLY FOR MATURE PEOPLE. KAMA HUJA MATURE AT 40 USIJARIBU KUJARIBU MARRIAGE.
Joyride podcast, thanks for the great job you guys are doing. PS: please stay true to your authentic brand and not bring some of these couples I keep reading being suggested. It's not just about the clout but something more meaningful, which has been you guys and your brand. I come in peace
Totally support you in this...I usually learn alot from this podcast, especially about marriage...I wouldn't wish for this podcast to lose it's educative value by bringing in couples who are just in for entertainment or for clout.
Definitely agree with Wanjiru on her perspective of "failure" with the date. Dating is more of an opportunity to get to know people and if it doesn't pan out into a relationship, it's not necessarily a sign of failure. It's more of a redirection to see other people or try something else.
Heyo! I feel like early is relative. I got married at 27 and my doc gave me 5 years to be done with kids, so in this sense it can feel late. I think it depends on what’s more of a priority for you as well. If it’s kids or wealth creation etc etc it could be different.
I got married last year i was 23 the boat is sailing smoothly hoping for some positive feed on getting married early...,my husband is ready to support my dreams
I've been a silent follower but wacha nionge leo. I adore this couple and what you do. You mentor me a lot. Hopefully someday, I'll see how you guys look. How about doing an episode with Pascal and Grace
Hi wanjiru and Ben....I enjoy each episode especially season 3 has been really more interesting according to me this episode has really educated me being a 22 year old😂 like Ben said it's better first to pass through every stage at a tym en take my tym before I legally get married coz ryna am dating ❤️❤️❤️keep up the good work u guys r amazing 🎉ad also love to me Mitch ngoje and Ian on your podcast😍
Really related to this episode. At times I would still ask myself if I made the right decision or not coz when we are going through something, I get those reflections from friends and families who questioned my decision. But am glad we are at a good place with two sons and life is good.. maze I was a big fan of The Peaces. Never missed a vlog from them.
Ai... the leaving the club at 1, I could ask too, what club? Soko? What's fun about staying kwa soko for long😆? I enjoyed this episode. I believe as long as you've developed a certain level of self-awareness and know it's God leading you into marriage, there is no early or late... Just perfect time.
Victor tuko wengi kwa hiyo WhatsApp group - people who could not wait to get married. WAIT FOR WHAT? That is how people end up marrying as "strangers". It may or may not work. Same goes for those who marry as "friends". It may or may not work.
Everything Victor is saying its me..I got married at 24yrs didn't work after 3yrs left with a child now its the time am realizing I did it early,like I rushed,coz I did get time to have a career
Guys OCD is a serious mental disease its not about neatness its a compulsive disorder that can cause psychosis and even chronic depression , i love your show but aki please be sensitive on such matters
Before I even watch this episode, all I'd like to say is if I see Ruto on here, that's where I say bye. No hate. There are way better couples with better morals to bring. E.g Pastor T, Bamboo and his wife. Lot's of love for you guys though I learnt a lot from the guests. ❤❤
Leo Wanjiru si uko sentimental yawah.... I'm uku looking for tissues and then y'all just move on! @VictorPeace... aki si I rooted for that relationship. Yaani nlikuwa online in-law by force. Thank God for therapy and that you still believe in love!. Grow and thrive ❤. Love and light 🎉
I am 34 yrs I got married at 21 yrs.i couldn't advice anyone to get married early.i honestly feel like there's a stage in my life that I jumped...I really yean for me time.just doing what I like, going wherever I want without anyone questioning me... whenever we have arguments with hubby I just feel like escaping and experience life but again it's better what you know than what you don't know......I need therapy or something.
@judy I always wished to get married late, and I'm grateful 🙏🏾 that it didn't happen early. But also, it's interesting how those in marriage early feel like you do. And I somewhat understand, having friends in that scope. It's really a hard place because only you can convince you otherwise. I hope you find the peace in knowing our journeys are different and yours is also beautiful just as is!
Getting married early is like leaving the club at 1am. Discuss
Which club? The club I never went to? I got married to get into "the club" 😁😁😁😁.
Looking back at almost thirty years that have passed, I'm happy I joined 'the club' in my early twenties. Now that we are pushing fifty, we're able to enjoy so many things together since the responsibilities of taking care of young babies and children are behind us. All our children are in college, and we spend a lot of time hanging out, driving to any place, having sleepovers, and are planning to make our dreams of traveling around the world come true since we have more money to do so.
CAVEAT EMPTOR APPLIES: MARRIAGE IS STRICTLY FOR MATURE PEOPLE. KAMA HUJA MATURE AT 40 USIJARIBU KUJARIBU MARRIAGE.
This is very sound advice.
Thank you for this advice, i always wonder whether we took the right step even having our child early 20s. I feel affirmed and hopeful❤️.
Mkiita ruto next day mtaskia “ tax for podcasters has been increased”😭😭😭
We need to give Cyco a nickname
Am thinking @Wamai like a good one ,for sipping water alone during podcast
😂😂😂😂truee
Agreed 😂😂
😂😂😂
wamunyota
😂😂😂😂😂
Ben peleka Wanjiru dates please na tusikwambie tena😂😂
Please also bring pastor T on the podcast.
I love the show.
Yeesss, pastor T
🎉🎉🎉
I would like to see them😊
Yes please
Btw 🤔🤔
Looking forward to seeing King Kaka and Nana Owiti on the Joy Ride Podcast
Mazeeeee... looking forward also
Same here
Aki mimi mwanaume akishacheat sitakangi kumwona. Hata kama sio wangu. Nachukianga King kaka utadhani ni mimi alinihanya na Nana alishamove on
No. I dont think their values align.
Hell no. 💀. Atafanya podcast tena next week uskie amecheat. 😐
Joyride podcast, thanks for the great job you guys are doing.
PS: please stay true to your authentic brand and not bring some of these couples I keep reading being suggested. It's not just about the clout but something more meaningful, which has been you guys and your brand. I come in peace
I agree
Agreed, some of the collab people these season were a miss , ni poa they are celebrity friends but they don't seem to quite fit
Totally support you in this...I usually learn alot from this podcast, especially about marriage...I wouldn't wish for this podcast to lose it's educative value by bringing in couples who are just in for entertainment or for clout.
I agree 💯 I see suggestions here and I'm like please no😂😂
For example?😂😂😂
Definitely agree with Wanjiru on her perspective of "failure" with the date. Dating is more of an opportunity to get to know people and if it doesn't pan out into a relationship, it's not necessarily a sign of failure. It's more of a redirection to see other people or try something else.
Heyo! I feel like early is relative. I got married at 27 and my doc gave me 5 years to be done with kids, so in this sense it can feel late. I think it depends on what’s more of a priority for you as well. If it’s kids or wealth creation etc etc it could be different.
Meet the Peaces was a vibe ❤
I got married last year i was 23 the boat is sailing smoothly hoping for some positive feed on getting married early...,my husband is ready to support my dreams
I love how this started. Nduma and strungi is such a dope combo though 😂😂😂
I was so vested in the Peaces… where did the other piece of the Peaces go😢… let me stop with the pun-sense but I’ve not picked up some pieces since
Kwanza the intro dance they used to do😢😢😢was bomb!the other piece moved on😊😊
I've been a silent follower but wacha nionge leo. I adore this couple and what you do. You mentor me a lot. Hopefully someday, I'll see how you guys look. How about doing an episode with Pascal and Grace
Yeah king kaka next...am sure u gonna vibe, those guys r deep just like u❤
Here for Wanjirus Outfit!!!
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wanjiru's laugh at 1:02:25 was so wholesome.
Wanjiru you are soo hilarious btw. Also Ben, the drip is dripping. Looking great guys
Wanjiru your Makeup artist is "The one". Shout out from UG. Well done to both you and Ben.
Wanjiru genuine laughter gets me all the time 😂😂😂shiroo looks so pretty to ❤❤❤
Wanjiru Sasa una overdo 😂😂,, makeup👌hair 👌and the fashion as always 👌
Hi wanjiru and Ben....I enjoy each episode especially season 3 has been really more interesting according to me this episode has really educated me being a 22 year old😂 like Ben said it's better first to pass through every stage at a tym en take my tym before I legally get married coz ryna am dating ❤️❤️❤️keep up the good work u guys r amazing 🎉ad also love to me Mitch ngoje and Ian on your podcast😍
The guest we never knew we needed . Such a great episode ❤️
Wanjiru's look is on point..
Really related to this episode. At times I would still ask myself if I made the right decision or not coz when we are going through something, I get those reflections from friends and families who questioned my decision. But am glad we are at a good place with two sons and life is good.. maze I was a big fan of The Peaces. Never missed a vlog from them.
Ai... the leaving the club at 1, I could ask too, what club? Soko? What's fun about staying kwa soko for long😆? I enjoyed this episode. I believe as long as you've developed a certain level of self-awareness and know it's God leading you into marriage, there is no early or late... Just perfect time.
He's so peaceful Hata mtu haweziamini alikua anahanya.
He said so?its min??
Ben, najua umeinua mguu tuone viatu😂
It's Victor's smile for me
Ben should learn how to be moved by words like Waihiga Mwaura😂😂😂
😂😂it comes naturally lol
I really enjoy these episodes. Good job.
😹 Victor sounds like a person who can fuel a fight
Iyo date ya Victor sounds like a 'Kesha' 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I really liked you& sagini together but life happens
Wanjiru wishing God's Speed to Victor 😂😂
Victor tuko wengi kwa hiyo WhatsApp group - people who could not wait to get married. WAIT FOR WHAT?
That is how people end up marrying as "strangers". It may or may not work.
Same goes for those who marry as "friends". It may or may not work.
So this guy was Sagini's man?
I watched the live trend then
😂😂 I receive dates like that..Dinner, park & breakfast ya Victor
Cmon...if not going on a second date is a failure then so is the end of a relationship. I second Shiro
Victor is such a vibe
Shirooo is the funniest 😅😅😅I find her Lowkey funny
Part 2 guys??? No newsletter 🥺
Victor is so funny lol😂😂😂where is pt2????!!!!!!
Ben's outfit 👌
Am such a karanja fan yaani 😍
Wholesome episode.❤
Ben is the guy who brings views 😅😅😅😅(Abel Mutual joke)😊
Mkurugenziii😂😂😂
Why are you not talking about Ben's shoes??🤣😅
Everything Victor is saying its me..I got married at 24yrs didn't work after 3yrs left with a child now its the time am realizing I did it early,like I rushed,coz I did get time to have a career
Been eagerly waiting forvthis episode...wanjiru looking good as always❤❤❤sending lovevfrom meru and the episode was 💥💥💥
I really enjoyed this conversation❤
I even forgot Victor was once married 😂😂😂
Always waiting for a notification from you guys🔥💞♥️🥵♥️🥵I love you guys yaani always laughing and learning 😭😘💖💓thank you for gracing my screen 😭🥵💙♥️💙
Part2 iko wapi wanjiru
Guys OCD is a serious mental disease its not about neatness its a compulsive disorder that can cause psychosis and even chronic depression , i love your show but aki please be sensitive on such matters
Great content 👍👍
I thought Wanjiru amevaa stockings 😭😭😭🤣
Me three!🤭😆 but looking great, as always!
Same here 😂
That’s so me I missed stages
I was in Icc
Moved to the USA 🇺🇸 n everything was 🤪🤪🤪
@victor I understand 😂😂
28 is not considered early.
I thought so too. Our parents generations got married at 22.
Heh 🙏 22 you had a stable income 🧐
Bencyco is always funny😂😂
No offense to anyone but when you compare having a family to having money. Money is great but if you have a great family, it has no value.
Victor brought me here😍😍😍
Ouch Ben.
Make the dates happen jamani
52:19 hehehehhehehe, If you want to see Ben silenced.....
Before I even watch this episode, all I'd like to say is if I see Ruto on here, that's where I say bye. No hate.
There are way better couples with better morals to bring. E.g Pastor T, Bamboo and his wife. Lot's of love for you guys though I learnt a lot from the guests. ❤❤
Pastor T
I love this 😊
💜💜💜
😊
😅😅
Leo Wanjiru si uko sentimental yawah....
I'm uku looking for tissues and then y'all just move on!
@VictorPeace... aki si I rooted for that relationship. Yaani nlikuwa online in-law by force.
Thank God for therapy and that you still believe in love!.
Grow and thrive ❤. Love and light 🎉
I am 34 yrs I got married at 21 yrs.i couldn't advice anyone to get married early.i honestly feel like there's a stage in my life that I jumped...I really yean for me time.just doing what I like, going wherever I want without anyone questioning me... whenever we have arguments with hubby I just feel like escaping and experience life but again it's better what you know than what you don't know......I need therapy or something.
@judy I always wished to get married late, and I'm grateful 🙏🏾 that it didn't happen early.
But also, it's interesting how those in marriage early feel like you do. And I somewhat understand, having friends in that scope. It's really a hard place because only you can convince you otherwise.
I hope you find the peace in knowing our journeys are different and yours is also beautiful just as is!
@@irene_peacewambui6987 thanks gal.thats encouraging our journey is different we just need to find peace with it somehow.
Thanks for sharing.