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The fact that he went up to her and showed her and wasn't afraid to ask her to join his snap chat, I give super props for him to do that because a lot of japanese guys do not go up to girls and ask. I like when guys take initiative and ask girls out.
It would be really interesting to see Asian Boss talking about the descendants of japanese migrants from Brazil that return to Japan. Brazil has the bigest comunity of Japanese descendants outside Japan. And there so many issues to this comunity.
yes would be super interesting! I visited brazil two times and have also been to japan, but I was so surprised to find so many japanese people in brazil and so many sushi restaurants haha would love a video on that topic
yeah we have so many people of japanese descent in Brazil (I myself am a hafu) and a lot of brazilian japanese kids who go to Japan don't have support from the goverment and end up relying on local community schools with teachers who are also brazilians of japanese descent, or not even going to school. And this is not a particular brazilian problem, foreigners in general face this educational issue in Japan
I live in Japan also. These interviews took place in Tokyo, which is an entirely different animal than the rest of Japan. Dating internationally is not common outside of Tokyo or military bases.
Yeah I would imagine that there aren't a lot of foreigners outside of the major cities. Like the one guy mentioned how he would get stared at when he went to the countryside
Well not entirely true but it still holds well for atleast 80% of the general population outside japan I used to work In Tokyo but then I was transferred to Sendei,Niigata and then now I work in one of the most Traditional perfecture in japan Gifu Ive been in japan for 6 years now(3 in Tokyo,1 in Sendei,2 months in Niigata and rest in Gifu) I got a japanese gf after moving to Gifu Met her in a traditional sun god festival dance and wah she was just shining But back to the elephant in the room it depends on the women Her family is not that comfortable with international marriage but she is independent and thinks opposite to conventional Im friends with some of my women neighbours partly cause since I'm a foreigner I take part in regional activities more to understand them and they treat me well They ask me questions about my culture and discuss about how central Asia is indifferent to the eastern.They always dream about international marriage to be similar to Hollywood stuffs but when it comes to reality they are more comfortable in marrying a japanese guy solely due to language barriers and cultural clashes Take your shot cause it not set in stones and it's relatively a large country Move to differentiate places and try to genuinely enjoy japanese culture then someone would find you Imma 8/10 back in my hometown but here I'm like 6 more or less Looks are added adv but japanese women looks for reliability like stable job,how you treat her and how you understand her
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For the guy who said about ghosting, that’s HUGE in Korea too. People in Korea who ghost other people, there basically saying it won’t work out or don’t want to talk with you anymore. Some of them don’t like confrontation so they ghost you to avoid that.
@@komea12 I guess. I've never had a problem talking truth and being direct. If you Ghost someone without any explanation, the other person will feel left wondering what did they ever do so wrong, especially if they really tried to make something happen. They'll feel sad and worthless. They'll have to get over it sure. And what goes around comes around.
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6:00 Blond girl: “Maybe 20 years ago there Were no Americans around to date.” Me,who first came to Japan in ‘88, “ Wow, there must be more foreigners here now than compared to twenty years ago (1968)” We all think that our individual discoveries are unique, but history has a way of repeating itself in odd ways.
I agree. I came here in 1989, and had the same feeling. People I met talked about the good times in the 70s and 80s when you could set up your own English school, etc., but by 1989, there were too many people doing it.
Yeah Kpop, Kdrama and Korean culture in general are HUGE in Japan. You can easily hear korean songs on the streets and in the shops. Also, many japanese enjoy watching korean dramas on Netflix.
thats why it is a lot easier for korean guy get attention from japanese girl many of 10, 20's girls in japan are so much into all of korean thing - drama music fashion food etc these phenomenon is more prominent in taiwan HK thailand phillipine vietnam etc all of asia korean entertainment is like hollywood in ASIA it is getting deeper and deeper
@@2x1qsdqw40 So true! Even in India especially north - east India korean culture is becoming very popular, people love kpop, kdramas, korean fashion and what not!
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@@daddyleon going to the goverment branch that regulate weapons in japan? even in japan you can buy guns but you need a license and that license demand to many burocratic steps and training even before buying a weapon, that's one of the reasons why japan it's so safe .
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@@batataebom5077 Most people watching English-language youtube videos are from the USA. The others are well aware of USA, its culture and people. Pick another nation and many people would just be less interested. It's sad, but it's probably how it is.
It’s funny how the guy explained about how he got his girlfriend’s dad to open up with alcohol. Mostly because he sounds just like my uncle, who is a stereotypical silent and seemingly unfriendly old Japanese man, but gets really chatty once he gets drunk. It’s unfortunate that it has to take alcohol to have a positive conversation though.
Really great interviews! Omg though, the guy talking about all the data he's collected about Japanese people. Like "95% won't date me cuz I'm American!" Um no bro, maybe they won't date you cuz you're weird.
Sorry to say, Japanese people tend not to be "woke". In any ethnically homogenous society there will be some xenophobia that comes with that. Try asking some Japanese folks whether their parents would approve of dating a foreigner, and you'll see this guy isn't wrong.
15:55 That's exactly what I did in Korea hahaha, I'm glad to see someone else say it because I thought I was weird. Whenever I'd occasionally see another American or non-Asian looking guy or girl passing by we'd always do a little smile and nod to each other even though we were strangers, it felt so fun xD
I've noticed alot of black people do this (the nod thing) it's like telepathy, they acknowledge or hi5 each others , kinda as if it was family. I love this energy
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I agree with the sentiment (ala eyes being windows to the soul, etc)... But no. Watch videos where girls (with great eyes vs whatever eyes) take their masks off. It is way , way , more complex than that. Even a new born baby can tell the difference between acceptable beauty and otherwise, in studies. The whole face matters in attraction determination.
@A J you won't believe how much we do it without realizing it.. Most infants and adults are lip readers and especially as you age when your hearing becomes defective your brain naturally compinsates by reading the lip movements of the person you are communicating with. It's not that the mask muffels the sound as much it's more that we can't read the lips at low volume.
and when you're an asian american, its always the ethnicity they're interested in, rather than the "american" part. at least, thats my experience. you have the face of a local but the mannerisms and mindset of a foreigner. its very confusing. gotta explain my entire life story everytime i meet someone.
Same my experience being an Asian /pacific islander American. For me people in general will they assume things and ask weird questions. But now I m less offend by the questions., And I just politely correct them on what the question they ask because most of the people don't mean to be offensive. I'm still excited about going to Japan with my husband. I m just so glad there are channels like this so I get an idea of what it might be , when we finally get to visit Japan.
Ya this is true. But you really don't have to explain your life story. The confusion comes from the fact that they don't even know white Americans have their origins in Europe. Simply tell them "I'm American" and let that be the end of it. Eventually it will catch on that Americans don't have to look a certain way.
@Waldel Martell You may have misunderstood my comment. Asian Boss focuses on Asia so what I'm saying is that they should get the perspectives of other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans.
@@Sasquatch10 I meant that they should approach other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans. So we can have multiple perspectives of what it's like to live there.
@Waldel Martell Yes, nationalities from those continents. Meaning Southern Americans or Africans living within Asia. Which is to say they shouldn't just interview Americans living within Asia, there are other types of foreigners there.
The guy saying “GHOSTING!!” BROTHER I FEEL YOU!!! They sure dislike confrontation and how “aggressive” is to say someone “i don’t like you”, so they just ghost
Yes, it's big in a lot of places, makes you wonder if it's just Americans being thick and feeling entitled to being addressed directly. Seriously, take yourself down a peg, and take a hint.
@@Zhengrui0 this! I never understood why Americans act like ghosting makes you this horrible person. Like just grow up and move on, it clearly wasn't meant to be.
@@Zhengrui0 i think for us the ambiguity of leaving it unsaid or open ended can be confusing for people in our culture, being direct and straight forward is generally preferred in the US to avoid mixed messages. calling us thick and entitled feels a little antagonistic but each culture to their own.
@@barthamellow1138 I would agree, if not for the all-around need for continually confirmation, like they've be told way too many times that "it's other people who just don't see your worth", and more often than not, a creepy clinging to hope that often translates to a pushy and confrontational final goodbye. Let's not pretend like people don't know what I'm talking about
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@@Mickeii617 I’ve spent a few days in Macon and a few months in Tokyo, you’ll definitely be upgrading lol I’m in Bangkok right now but Tokyo is an amazing city.
@@CBMedia404 Love your content in Thailand man! I'm from Atlanta and moved to Japan in Dec 2020. Just before the borders closed again! I could say a lot about dating Japanese women, but I would probably never get interviewed since I don't live in Tokyo lol
That was informative. About the Ghosting thing, Japanese women are professional Ghosters. Great women, strong and beautiful but can ghost in a heart-beat.
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U need to put urself in their shoes , being ghosted is more kind then telling us they are not interested. They feel scared or too awkward saying it. And if they ghost they belong to the streets anyway lol
@@subiebrz2361 I am a female and got ghosted by a male, one day before everything was COMPLETLEY normal, no fight, argument, we never said anything wrong... I have never be so confused in my life.
If you ever want a Latin American in Japan perspective, hit me up. It is def very different compared to Americans. haha Like, culture and personality-wise, theres some really interesting cross-sections. Not to mention, more people I've met/dated here, don't seem to know where my country is. It's really funny, to be honest. lmao As always, great content!
I wish they'd focus more on other groups. These last months it has only been about why Americans are living here, what is it like for Americans to do this, Why do Americans eat breakfast in the morning, it feels like I'm following American Boss
Its because american midia is everywhere. I live in brazil and i know a lot of things about u.s.a but i dont know anything about argentina or other latin countrys (my neighbours)
Masks are so rather underwhelming in protecting the user. It's more of a containment, except people use masks as fashion now. Miss seeing faces too, might as well take off your mask if you live in a developed country
The guy at 10:20 talking about ghosting is speaking pure facts 💀 I had that experience quite a lot of times in Japan. I’d go on a great date or have a girl flirt with me one night, then from there on, ghosted 👻
Well to be fair he specifically referred to Japanese women, which implies he has an appreciation for the culture. Also, attraction doesn't always mean fetish.
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Can I ask why you moved out to Japan? As an American I just want to understand why a foreigner would choose to live there, since it's so dramatically different!
This video does say Americans in the title. I don't know what you were expecting. You showed up to a concert and wondered why the band on the ticket was on stage.
Apparently being american only means looking white or looking black. As an Asian american, we're always forgotten. Cause in japan, they always feel like if you look asian, you're not american or western enough. I'm getting tired of foreigner meaning looking different.
@@taidenpong2246 I mean obviously. You're in a country where 98% of people are of Asian decent, so of course you wouldn't approach them. When I see a black person, I automatically assume they are an American, in america, because that's what I was raised around. Stop being ignorant about it. Think logically, not emotionally.
Hey! You seem really sweet and down to earth. I have a lot of questions about visiting and living in Japan (especially since I plan on visiting one day haha). Would we be able to chat one day?
that last part is pretty sad ppl still have to remind themselves not everyone is the same. not every gender is the same, not every race/ethnicity is the same, not every nationality is the same.
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@@batataebom5077 they're not even for that and the owner made several vids about this channel before. They WANT to do it for free bc they wanna be a news channel on yt. Are you dumb that u cant even catch up on a few vids from last year till now? Go back and rewatch
This was a really insightful video. I feel like there's so much cultural difference compared to the western world in Japan, that it might be the hardest culture to adapt to in the world.
I think that dude that said only 5% are interested in dating foreigners just looks creepy so he gets turned down a lot. The people he talked to are probably saying they wouldn't date foreigners cuz they think that might give him hope.
Do you live in Japan? What's your experience dating there and why should it invalidate his experience? Sorry to say Japan is not a "woke" society and xenophobia is real there
I feel like thats a pretty legit assumption that 5% of the population would only date a foreigner in a country with solely one nationality. As many wouldn't want to date on the basis of cultural values and also language barrier so it makes sense. But, the kinda people that foreigners surround themselves with and generally make friends within these countries where the culture is vastly different from their own are likely going to make friends with locals that fit into this 5% and therefore be more open. Thus, making a synthetic inflation of this number from the observers point of view.
The "5% interested" estimation really strikes home with me. I've been in Japan for about 3 years and have had about the same success rate. However, still better than my at home percentage which is about 0.5%. Lol
@@sandracarli1110 My gf and I literally had a fight 2 times (once started by each of us) when we thought the other was slacking on chores. I would feel like an ass if I made her do everything.
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It must be sooo different in the city. I live in Kanazawa so I feel like it’s really hard to date. In fact every guy I’ve ever met here that I’ve gotten along with well lives in Tokyo. I also think it’s much easier for guys than it is for women, especially women of color. AT LEAST from my Kanazawa experience.
kanazawa is an ultra conservative japanese city (in comparison to tokyo) from my experience, sounds like it would be very frustrating for the type of person you described
@@BrickedUpp I’m from America. I wanted to live in Japan because I’m an artist and I wanted the chance to meet and learn from artists in Japan in order to further my career eventually.
Theyre not interested in you anime obsessed weebs that fetishize a mythical japan either!!! If you just simply enjoy the scenery, respect and culture of the people, cars, and food.... they are more interested in that by far
I wish Asian Boss would leave the links of their interviewees because I noticed that a lot of the people they've interviewed are youtube personalities and I'd really be interested in looking them up.
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To be fair all the dudes in the video aren’t exactly social charmers; they’re talking about not getting play like it would happen for them in America- it wouldn’t. The women’s perspective is the accurate one.
Usually when it comes to talking about cultures theres always something negative or controversial but this topic was wholesome please make more of these 10/10
I mean, do normal people from the West just casually move to some Asian country and live there, in a totally opposite culture to theirs ? I like Japanese and Korean cultures, they're the most interesting for me (partly because they're so different from the Western cultures), but i've never for a second thought, as an European, to move there and live there, i'd feel like an alien. It's different than moving to some other European country, or even Europe -> USA and vice versa. I feel like you HAVE to be a strange person to do what they did.
@@DoctorStrange01 all the time man, I lived in Seoul for two years. It was a great time. All of my friends including the foreign ones were pretty normal and moved for random reasons. Also got to me the kid who played Joffrey from GoTs. Who was out and about. No of my friends there brits, aussies, kiwis and other countries moved to Korea for some weird Asian fetish. Most were exploring the world and stopped in Seoul. Then fell in love with it. I would actually say this had a higher percentage of weirdos than normal. Additionally the one girl was pretty clueless about how many Americans are in Japan. Lol there’s been hundreds of thousands stationed there since the end of WWII. like 2 hours south of Tokyo is a massive base.
i will agree with some saying this is overdone played out content, but i thought (as an American) this was entertaining and still interesting. keep doing what you gotta do to stay afloat asian boss, we need channels like you on the platform!
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I love your videos, but you should have asked the question most channels don't ask: "What about marriage or long-term relationships?" I've been in Japan for more than 5 years in total and I feel like most people I've met with we're mostly looking for ONS or short-term relationships with marriage in sight (many told me that they only wanted to try doing it or dating with a foreigner).
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These “What’s it like for {insert western country} people to date in/with {insert asian country}” videos are becoming more and more cringe inflicting by the minute. I hope this is the last one lol
My roomate who lived in Japan for 4 years just said that "dating in asia as a sub bottom is disapointing" and I'm not actually sure what that means xD Do I even want to know?
Can’t stand this guy @3:18 Such ego. Interracial relationship is very common he’s in one so what about stop judging other women for having other preferences.
As a Japanese , I can imagine that it’s much easier to meet people in a big city like Tokyo. But it would be completely different if you go countryside. It’s gonna be difficult even for me to move and live in a countryside.
It’s interesting how all these people have already adopted more of a Japanese tone and pace to their voices than what you would hear the typical American talking like such. Goes to show how malleable we are when we live amongst different cultures than our own
5:12 similar to Kpop. Thousands of fans would like to marry Korean men because of Korean wave. It's also no different to those who like J-doramas, anime,manga and video games. 6:51 He said it right. Korean wave is now more popular than American popculture.
I wouldn't say more popular but it has been gaining attention. There's this data that shows that K-entertainment consumption has outperformed Hollywood.. but in Southeast Asia only. But again, K-entertainment is currently up there, only second to Hollywood.
@@chickenman2949 Of course. American pop remains number 1. I'm just surprised how easy it is for the U.S to promote Kpop when they could just produce more American music videos and monopolize the internet to remain superior. At first, it gave me cringe when a world-power nation started joining the Kpop hype and play safe with this Asianbaiting.. I mean of course, America is still the home of legendary and iconic artists who started and invented pop on this planet. But with what's happening and the slowly-deteriorating produce of new American artists, it will no longer be shocking if the next generation would see POP as simply "Korean" as that's the first thing the young ones would see on the media. In fact, it's slowly happening now. Some younger delusional fans would claim that BTS choreo is all original when in fact it has 75% Western influences. The kids in my neighborhood would quickly say "Kpop" when they see a sort of fashion that's colorful, stylish and when they hear random auto-tune instrumentals in some gatherings. Seriously, Hollywood needs to wake up.
asianbaiting? get over yourself. just because another country excels at something your country is trailing behind doesn’t make it some weird racial fetishy thing.
About ghosting, I think it also depends on how your personality fits the culture because for me it's the opposite. When I lived in the US, it felt like I would get ghosted everytime I thought I made a new friend, man or woman. People whom I thought were my friends would also frequently stop contacting me. Basically, I don't know how to make/keep friends in the US, lol. However in Japan, it just works naturally. I'm rarely ghosted and friends stay friends.
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The Japanese girls I dated never ghosted me. I got ghosted more in the States, worst part is they reappear a year later acting like nothing happened. Contacting you wondering why you never kept in touch, but they were the ones that never responded back to your messages,
Honestly being an introvert with manners I really love Japanese culture. Love shouldn’t be in public, same reason you don’t stare at people in the gym. In professor oaks words “there’s a time and place for everything but not now.”
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"It happened pretty naturally" proceeds to say the guy literally hit on her at a bar, with complete obvious intention of making a relationship happen lol
The American men having trouble with dating Japanese women not realizing they give off creeper vibes, so of course ghosting is a form of self preservation/safety. Men mistake kindness for genuine attraction. Maybe in her eyes it was the softest way to say "move on, im not the one for you".
@@edwardcm9175 it's fine not to have guts when you feel like someone could assault you or try to convince you, you are wrong about feeling uncomfortable around them. Japan is big on politeness so there's a culture difference as well.
It would also be interesting to see the same stuff but with non-American foreigners living in Japan, to see how other cultural backgrounds mix with Japanese culture.
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My boi really managed to charm his dreamgirl with the meme approach 😂
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yes he did 😌
@@batataebom5077 maybe because most of their subscribers are Americans and they wanna cater to that audience.
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The fact that he went up to her and showed her and wasn't afraid to ask her to join his snap chat, I give super props for him to do that because a lot of japanese guys do not go up to girls and ask. I like when guys take initiative and ask girls out.
The dude that said he blamed Disney, LMAO wasn't expecting that
😂😂😂
I think he is a man of culture.. disney.. Kpop.. avoiding parents like the plague..., just perfect hha
Yeah.. but that is true 😂😂
@@anthonymc8361 he’s like the perfect bf for me lmao. Avoiding parents part was so true.
He is talking real tho! Lols
Dude explaining his Asian fetish is cracking me up.
big same 😆
At least he's honest... 😅😅
@@lizzybennet5726 valid point lizzy. I just light how he was trying to word it. He clearly realized how he was coming across.
I do recommend everyone go to japan. It’s a cool country and Japanese are very nice people. At least that was my experience.
Dude should of just said he had Yellow Fever.
imagine a guy coming up to u and he asks - have u seen this meme before? damn smooth af. ladies get urselves a man who is this smooth
Absolute legend
He was really smooth lmao I’ll show him this 😂
@@kjmintokyo oh it was you? great for u XD
@@kjmintokyo Dude, your hair is incredible! I came to the comments section to post about it, but I'll just leave this here.
Hey it worked so good for him :-)
*You guys have to do videos on Japanese/Korean/Chinese people asking them from experience what its like to date a foreigner*
Now that would be interesting
Hard to catch those in crowd
interesting topic but bit tricky to find them lol
Koreans experience in Japan would be good too
They'll have to make a forum or appointments. In the street it would be impossible
"Have you met Japanese parents, by any chance?"
"God no...I avoid them like the plague."
Smart man, he knows the way.
As a Blasian I can confirm this
Why ??
@@alditahervianto9179 just don't. No questions asked
True he is a smart man
@@daisuke2795 i need to know the reason mate, i got no clues hahaha
"I blame disney, pop culture, high school musical, Justin Bieber" lmao
Smart man
But his haircut resembles Justin Bieber
my man aint wrong
@@shruti4733 its typical male hair cut, just how justin looks like a typical male
A lot of things are Justins fault 😂
It would be really interesting to see Asian Boss talking about the descendants of japanese migrants from Brazil that return to Japan. Brazil has the bigest comunity of Japanese descendants outside Japan. And there so many issues to this comunity.
@asianboss ^^ this is something we would like to watch & know more about
Ohhh..that's going to be some culture shock, I think!
i had no idea about that community in brazil, i would be very interested in a video about that as well
yes would be super interesting!
I visited brazil two times and have also been to japan, but I was so surprised to find so many japanese people in brazil and so many sushi restaurants haha
would love a video on that topic
yeah we have so many people of japanese descent in Brazil (I myself am a hafu) and a lot of brazilian japanese kids who go to Japan don't have support from the goverment and end up relying on local community schools with teachers who are also brazilians of japanese descent, or not even going to school. And this is not a particular brazilian problem, foreigners in general face this educational issue in Japan
The two girls with black hair are mad pretty and seem so nice!
Nah fr like UGH WHY ARE WOMEM SO PRETTY who let them do that
Describing someone in Japan with black hair might not be the best way to differentiate between people there.
YESSS, the black/mixed ones, they're crazy beautiful, they look like models!
they mid at best
the girl on the left has very pleasant smilling eyes
I live in Japan also. These interviews took place in Tokyo, which is an entirely different animal than the rest of Japan. Dating internationally is not common outside of Tokyo or military bases.
Yeah I would imagine that there aren't a lot of foreigners outside of the major cities. Like the one guy mentioned how he would get stared at when he went to the countryside
You forget Kyoto also
Thanks for the info 😀
@@Mo10tov there aren’t nearly as many foreigners in Kyoto as Tokyo, it’s 60k vs Tokyo’s 560k
Well not entirely true but it still holds well for atleast 80% of the general population outside japan
I used to work In Tokyo but then I was transferred to Sendei,Niigata and then now I work in one of the most Traditional perfecture in japan Gifu
Ive been in japan for 6 years now(3 in Tokyo,1 in Sendei,2 months in Niigata and rest in Gifu) I got a japanese gf after moving to Gifu
Met her in a traditional sun god festival dance and wah she was just shining
But back to the elephant in the room it depends on the women
Her family is not that comfortable with international marriage but she is independent and thinks opposite to conventional
Im friends with some of my women neighbours partly cause since I'm a foreigner I take part in regional activities more to understand them and they treat me well
They ask me questions about my culture and discuss about how central Asia is indifferent to the eastern.They always dream about international marriage to be similar to Hollywood stuffs but when it comes to reality they are more comfortable in marrying a japanese guy solely due to language barriers and cultural clashes
Take your shot cause it not set in stones and it's relatively a large country
Move to differentiate places and try to genuinely enjoy japanese culture then someone would find you
Imma 8/10 back in my hometown but here I'm like 6 more or less
Looks are added adv but japanese women looks for reliability like stable job,how you treat her and how you understand her
"Doing things for her without her asking me made her fall in love with me." -This man has unlocked the secret
I love him too now. What a gem.
forreal this is not even a secret for Japanese women
Wow, he discovered wooing ... good on him 😅
wow so so romantic
Yeah it should go both ways too
Thank you so much for having us! I really enjoyed the interview! -From the Black girl on the right
Hey nice pants! My gf and I noticed you had cool pants on hahaha.
@@thisisntsergio1352 Thank you! these pants are my favorite!
Tell your friend good on her for putting boundaries on her relationship! Boys can make their own bentos lmao
You are so beautiful.
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For the guy who said about ghosting, that’s HUGE in Korea too. People in Korea who ghost other people, there basically saying it won’t work out or don’t want to talk with you anymore. Some of them don’t like confrontation so they ghost you to avoid that.
People that Ghost people act cowardly. Just have the decency to end the thing and move on!
Ghosting is not real
@@edwardcm9175 cry some more
@@edwardcm9175 they don want problems and hurt feelings no shame in that
@@komea12 I guess. I've never had a problem talking truth and being direct. If you Ghost someone without any explanation, the other person will feel left wondering what did they ever do so wrong, especially if they really tried to make something happen. They'll feel sad and worthless. They'll have to get over it sure. And what goes around comes around.
“If nobody is having sex, why are there so many love hotels?”
THAT IS A GREAT QUESTION.
I think this channel receives money from the United States to advertise them. they just talk about the united states all the time, they wouldn't do it for free.
@@batataebom5077 what?
6:00 Blond girl: “Maybe 20 years ago there Were no Americans around to date.”
Me,who first came to Japan in ‘88, “ Wow, there must be more foreigners here now than compared to twenty years ago (1968)”
We all think that our individual discoveries are unique, but history has a way of repeating itself in odd ways.
I agree. I came here in 1989, and had the same feeling. People I met talked about the good times in the 70s and 80s when you could set up your own English school, etc., but by 1989, there were too many people doing it.
How old are you?
@@newbabies923 54, and you?
@@newbabies923 late 50s for me.
Probably both right. There were probably more foreigners in Japan in 88 than 68, but there is also probably more foreigners now in 21 than in 88
LOL he said Kpop stealing Hollywood's attention. That's so true and it's so funny how he said it.
Yeah Kpop, Kdrama and Korean culture in general are HUGE in Japan. You can easily hear korean songs on the streets and in the shops. Also, many japanese enjoy watching korean dramas on Netflix.
thats why it is a lot easier for korean guy get attention from japanese girl
many of 10, 20's girls in japan are so much into all of korean thing - drama music fashion food etc
these phenomenon is more prominent in taiwan HK thailand phillipine vietnam etc all of asia
korean entertainment is like hollywood in ASIA
it is getting deeper and deeper
@@2x1qsdqw40 So true! Even in India especially north - east India korean culture is becoming very popular, people love kpop, kdramas, korean fashion and what not!
@@sambatra6162 more like they are into anime and stuff...and then got introduced to kdrama
@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 true after i watched anime i got into kpop and kdrama
Wanna date someone? Show em spongebob meme
lolll😂
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Thank u Korone
Day One: her mother in law is really interested in american culture
Day Two: she brings a gun to the meeting
How'd she get a gun in Japan??? That'd scare me the most!
lol
@@daddyleon going to the goverment branch that regulate weapons in japan? even in japan you can buy guns but you need a license and that license demand to many burocratic steps and training even before buying a weapon, that's one of the reasons why japan it's so safe .
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@@batataebom5077 Most people watching English-language youtube videos are from the USA. The others are well aware of USA, its culture and people. Pick another nation and many people would just be less interested.
It's sad, but it's probably how it is.
It’s funny how the guy explained about how he got his girlfriend’s dad to open up with alcohol. Mostly because he sounds just like my uncle, who is a stereotypical silent and seemingly unfriendly old Japanese man, but gets really chatty once he gets drunk. It’s unfortunate that it has to take alcohol to have a positive conversation though.
It was the first meeting. I am sure next time, we won't need booze to get him to talk more.
Me too. That's how to win the old man over.
Really great interviews! Omg though, the guy talking about all the data he's collected about Japanese people. Like "95% won't date me cuz I'm American!" Um no bro, maybe they won't date you cuz you're weird.
😂😂💀💀💀💀
He's probably just given up, after bad experiences.
He’s not lying though, most Japanese people are not open to dating foreigners.
Sorry to say, Japanese people tend not to be "woke". In any ethnically homogenous society there will be some xenophobia that comes with that. Try asking some Japanese folks whether their parents would approve of dating a foreigner, and you'll see this guy isn't wrong.
no its just japanese people dont like wierd creapy people who collect data on them if i was even an american girl i wouldnt date his ass
15:55 That's exactly what I did in Korea hahaha, I'm glad to see someone else say it because I thought I was weird. Whenever I'd occasionally see another American or non-Asian looking guy or girl passing by we'd always do a little smile and nod to each other even though we were strangers, it felt so fun xD
I've noticed alot of black people do this (the nod thing) it's like telepathy, they acknowledge or hi5 each others , kinda as if it was family. I love this energy
@@MegumiHayashida I'm not black but I understand that yeah haha
Sometimes they also ignore your head nod or wave.
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Many Americans do this including black people but not limited to
This mask wearing situation has reiterated my believe that 80% of a beautiful face is the eyes.
I agree with the sentiment (ala eyes being windows to the soul, etc)... But no. Watch videos where girls (with great eyes vs whatever eyes) take their masks off. It is way , way , more complex than that. Even a new born baby can tell the difference between acceptable beauty and otherwise, in studies. The whole face matters in attraction determination.
It’s really the existence of the nose that’s the issue. Only my opinion though
I think a smile makes the person. And masks have completely hidden thag
This mask wearing situation has reiterated my belief that we foreigners have big noses lol
@A J you won't believe how much we do it without realizing it.. Most infants and adults are lip readers and especially as you age when your hearing becomes defective your brain naturally compinsates by reading the lip movements of the person you are communicating with. It's not that the mask muffels the sound as much it's more that we can't read the lips at low volume.
and when you're an asian american, its always the ethnicity they're interested in, rather than the "american" part. at least, thats my experience. you have the face of a local but the mannerisms and mindset of a foreigner. its very confusing. gotta explain my entire life story everytime i meet someone.
felt
Same my experience being an Asian /pacific islander American. For me people in general will they assume things and ask weird questions. But now I m less offend by the questions., And I just politely correct them on what the question they ask because most of the people don't mean to be offensive. I'm still excited about going to Japan with my husband. I m just so glad there are channels like this so I get an idea of what it might be , when we finally get to visit Japan.
Ya this is true. But you really don't have to explain your life story. The confusion comes from the fact that they don't even know white Americans have their origins in Europe. Simply tell them "I'm American" and let that be the end of it. Eventually it will catch on that Americans don't have to look a certain way.
Would be cool if these kinds of interviews were done on other nationalities. Perhaps in the African and South American continents.
They'd have to make other channels called AfricanBoss or LatinAmericanBoss 🤣🤣
@Waldel Martell You may have misunderstood my comment. Asian Boss focuses on Asia so what I'm saying is that they should get the perspectives of other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans.
@@Sasquatch10 I meant that they should approach other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans. So we can have multiple perspectives of what it's like to live there.
@Waldel Martell Yes, nationalities from those continents. Meaning Southern Americans or Africans living within Asia. Which is to say they shouldn't just interview Americans living within Asia, there are other types of foreigners there.
@@a.m4520 shut up
The guy saying “GHOSTING!!” BROTHER I FEEL YOU!!! They sure dislike confrontation and how “aggressive” is to say someone “i don’t like you”, so they just ghost
It’s huge in Korea too. Huge
Yes, it's big in a lot of places, makes you wonder if it's just Americans being thick and feeling entitled to being addressed directly. Seriously, take yourself down a peg, and take a hint.
@@Zhengrui0 this! I never understood why Americans act like ghosting makes you this horrible person. Like just grow up and move on, it clearly wasn't meant to be.
@@Zhengrui0 i think for us the ambiguity of leaving it unsaid or open ended can be confusing for people in our culture, being direct and straight forward is generally preferred in the US to avoid mixed messages. calling us thick and entitled feels a little antagonistic but each culture to their own.
@@barthamellow1138 I would agree, if not for the all-around need for continually confirmation, like they've be told way too many times that "it's other people who just don't see your worth", and more often than not, a creepy clinging to hope that often translates to a pushy and confrontational final goodbye. Let's not pretend like people don't know what I'm talking about
Thanks for interviewing me !! (green cardigan girl) :)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, that was really interesting
You have the coolest style ^_^
Can I get your snapchat?
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omg you’re so pretty and well-spoken :))
Good to see other people from Atlanta/Georgia over here in Asia 🤘🏻
I always get excited when I see people from Georgia I'm from Macon. I can't wait for me to be there.
@@Mickeii617 I’ve spent a few days in Macon and a few months in Tokyo, you’ll definitely be upgrading lol I’m in Bangkok right now but Tokyo is an amazing city.
@@CBMedia404 Love your content in Thailand man! I'm from Atlanta and moved to Japan in Dec 2020. Just before the borders closed again! I could say a lot about dating Japanese women, but I would probably never get interviewed since I don't live in Tokyo lol
@@Soffex thanks for watching dude and congrats on getting out in just the right time lol I did the same
CB Media Thank you for your videos about Thailand. :)
The "I avoid all parents" guy and the "i didn't wanna look like a samurai" guy were so funny to me!!
That was informative.
About the Ghosting thing, Japanese women are professional Ghosters.
Great women, strong and beautiful but can ghost in a heart-beat.
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@@batataebom5077 Bastos at malabad ka
U need to put urself in their shoes , being ghosted is more kind then telling us they are not interested. They feel scared or too awkward saying it. And if they ghost they belong to the streets anyway lol
@@subiebrz2361 I am a female and got ghosted by a male, one day before everything was COMPLETLEY normal, no fight, argument, we never said anything wrong... I have never be so confused in my life.
If you ever want a Latin American in Japan perspective, hit me up. It is def very different compared to Americans. haha
Like, culture and personality-wise, theres some really interesting cross-sections. Not to mention, more people I've met/dated here, don't seem to know where my country is. It's really funny, to be honest. lmao
As always, great content!
I wish they'd focus more on other groups. These last months it has only been about why Americans are living here, what is it like for Americans to do this, Why do Americans eat breakfast in the morning, it feels like I'm following American Boss
@@osumanaaa9982 true...
@@osumanaaa9982 yeah I feel ya
Its because american midia is everywhere.
I live in brazil and i know a lot of things about u.s.a but i dont know anything about argentina or other latin countrys (my neighbours)
Mas é porque os outros países não estudam a geografia em geral.
"I blame Justin Bieber." Lol
Lol
2:24 wow, they are stunning
Yup, girls like that all around Maryland and the East Coast
Eh ok
I miss seeing people's faces, but stay safe.
Safe safe too, Remy you are beautiful
@@kelvinpeters1047 😐📸
Masks are so rather underwhelming in protecting the user. It's more of a containment, except people use masks as fashion now. Miss seeing faces too, might as well take off your mask if you live in a developed country
Best quote 5:20
“I blame Disney”
2:20 Not me being distracted by the My hero academia billboard behind them 🙈😂
Same!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed it lol!
I was searching for that comment 😌
I'm mad at Disney, Disney
They tricked me, tricked me
Had me wishing on a shooting star
The guy at 10:20 talking about ghosting is speaking pure facts 💀 I had that experience quite a lot of times in Japan. I’d go on a great date or have a girl flirt with me one night, then from there on, ghosted 👻
Happens a lot in America too tho
The one man explaining his Asian woman fetish was so uncomfortable my lord- poor host
Timestamp please?
Well to be fair he specifically referred to Japanese women, which implies he has an appreciation for the culture. Also, attraction doesn't always mean fetish.
@@exiledanon1406 it's rlly just a preference lol
Google the difference between the words; attraction and fetish. You're welcome.
Pickle Rick guy is spot on. The ghosting and the too busy... It's tough out here.
Yeah many Japanese date a foreigner just for the sake of saying they dated a foreigner
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Can I ask why you moved out to Japan? As an American I just want to understand why a foreigner would choose to live there, since it's so dramatically different!
@@pozloadescobar Me? Because I was given the opportunity and wanted to try something new.
Next : what is like dating in America as a Korean Chinese Japanese???🙂🙂🙂
that's going to be ugly... Bunch of stereotypes and overall toxicness.
@@jayson4119 that is not true!
@@jayson4119 what's wrong with Asian Americans talking about their dating experience..?
Racism 🤗
Impossible, you're more likely to be assisted post COVID than be seen as a sexual partner
It would be nice if you would include foreigners from other countries in videos like this too.
Not everyone living abroad is from the US
yeah except germanoids like yoy
They already have videos about foreigners that aren't necessarily Americans on their channel
This video does say Americans in the title. I don't know what you were expecting. You showed up to a concert and wondered why the band on the ticket was on stage.
@@themanicmarauder if that’s what you think then you did not get my comment right🥴
@@dianakonig2988 Sorry, I thought you had seen other videos on this channel already.
Apparently being american only means looking white or looking black.
As an Asian american, we're always forgotten. Cause in japan, they always feel like if you look asian, you're not american or western enough.
I'm getting tired of foreigner meaning looking different.
You gunna cry about it?
@@Brickcellent I already did. Same as what your ancestors did for centuries when they were facing injustice.
@@taidenpong2246 I mean obviously. You're in a country where 98% of people are of Asian decent, so of course you wouldn't approach them.
When I see a black person, I automatically assume they are an American, in america, because that's what I was raised around.
Stop being ignorant about it. Think logically, not emotionally.
I feel ya buddy, Latino Americans are the same
@@taidenpong2246 Don't think my ancestors ever cried about something so trivial as "not looking American" lmao
15:34 "Doing thing without her asking me, pretty much made her fall in love with me."
This is universal.
Great video. The “I blame Disney” guy gave my favorite answers.
hey thanks for the interview again i was the one from Georgia!
*black people nod*
Awesome! Georgia represent! 🍑👏🏻
Hey Georgia
Hello 👋 nice to meet you good morning ☀️☀️ send me your Gmail address to talk more better over there
Hey! You seem really sweet and down to earth. I have a lot of questions about visiting and living in Japan (especially since I plan on visiting one day haha). Would we be able to chat one day?
that last part is pretty sad ppl still have to remind themselves not everyone is the same. not every gender is the same, not every race/ethnicity is the same, not every nationality is the same.
Just accept your differences, you either maneuver around the differences or welcome those
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@@batataebom5077 they're not even for that and the owner made several vids about this channel before. They WANT to do it for free bc they wanna be a news channel on yt. Are you dumb that u cant even catch up on a few vids from last year till now? Go back and rewatch
@@2468whodoweappreciate you are so naive
@@batataebom5077 u are more naiive and u dont even watch all videos
This was a really insightful video. I feel like there's so much cultural difference compared to the western world in Japan, that it might be the hardest culture to adapt to in the world.
so we're not gonna talk about conan walking by in the background @ 13:17
I thought you meant Conan O'brien 😅
@@emericask8r130 I was looking for him too!
I think that dude that said only 5% are interested in dating foreigners just looks creepy so he gets turned down a lot. The people he talked to are probably saying they wouldn't date foreigners cuz they think that might give him hope.
@BlueEyed Babe get off ur burner we know it’s u
Do you live in Japan? What's your experience dating there and why should it invalidate his experience? Sorry to say Japan is not a "woke" society and xenophobia is real there
I feel like thats a pretty legit assumption that 5% of the population would only date a foreigner in a country with solely one nationality. As many wouldn't want to date on the basis of cultural values and also language barrier so it makes sense. But, the kinda people that foreigners surround themselves with and generally make friends within these countries where the culture is vastly different from their own are likely going to make friends with locals that fit into this 5% and therefore be more open. Thus, making a synthetic inflation of this number from the observers point of view.
He can probably only date 5% of American women as well so it makes sense
The "5% interested" estimation really strikes home with me. I've been in Japan for about 3 years and have had about the same success rate. However, still better than my at home percentage which is about 0.5%. Lol
The bald black guy is so annoying! They are probably ghosting you because you’re weird.
Kudos to the man who cleaned the apartment! It's not very common!
IDK about you but where im from in America its pretty 50/50.
@@redswift31 In Europe it is not so much, unfortunately.
@@sandracarli1110 My gf and I literally had a fight 2 times (once started by each of us) when we thought the other was slacking on chores. I would feel like an ass if I made her do everything.
same i aint never seen a guy clean something without being asked...the bar is so low :(
@@sandracarli1110 where in Europe tho, Europe is not a country
LoL hahaha I bet when the question came out those individuals became quite awkward hahaha. The one guy was pretty straight forward tho
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It must be sooo different in the city. I live in Kanazawa so I feel like it’s really hard to date. In fact every guy I’ve ever met here that I’ve gotten along with well lives in Tokyo.
I also think it’s much easier for guys than it is for women, especially women of color. AT LEAST from my Kanazawa experience.
i feel like this is true for me sometimes
kanazawa is an ultra conservative japanese city (in comparison to tokyo) from my experience, sounds like it would be very frustrating for the type of person you described
If you don’t mind me asking where are you from and what made you want to move to Japan?
@@alexanderroot6086 yeah. Tell me about it. I’ve been here almost 2 years and had a prettty hard time dating. My guy friends do fine though.
@@BrickedUpp I’m from America. I wanted to live in Japan because I’m an artist and I wanted the chance to meet and learn from artists in Japan in order to further my career eventually.
Lol the guy who talks about learning things and calling it data made me laugh.
Theyre not interested in you anime obsessed weebs that fetishize a mythical japan either!!! If you just simply enjoy the scenery, respect and culture of the people, cars, and food.... they are more interested in that by far
Dating in Japan is like a constant battle between being yourself and playing by their rules.
I wish Asian Boss would leave the links of their interviewees because I noticed that a lot of the people they've interviewed are youtube personalities and I'd really be interested in looking them up.
Those two girls have tiktok and one of them have a TH-cam channel
the girl with the black hair & pants has a tiktok! @blackloserinjapan
@@GmingTai but what’s their @ ?
I learned several things I didn't know about Japanese dating culture. Interesting video.
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@@batataebom5077 That's o.k. with me because I am an American. 😆
To be fair all the dudes in the video aren’t exactly social charmers; they’re talking about not getting play like it would happen for them in America- it wouldn’t. The women’s perspective is the accurate one.
Facts
I liked the guy with ballcap and striped shirt. Seems he knows what he's talking about. Also the guy who blamed Disney lol.
“I blame Disney” lmao 😂 so casually-said
the girl from kansas was so sweet and introspective!! she makes me proud to be from kansas. i cant wait to move back to japan ♡
Usually when it comes to talking about cultures theres always something negative or controversial but this topic was wholesome please make more of these 10/10
3:08 “one of those types of asians” what? why move there if you’re just gonna stereotype all of them? what’s the point?
Some of these people are a little strange. Lol
I mean, do normal people from the West just casually move to some Asian country and live there, in a totally opposite culture to theirs ? I like Japanese and Korean cultures, they're the most interesting for me (partly because they're so different from the Western cultures), but i've never for a second thought, as an European, to move there and live there, i'd feel like an alien. It's different than moving to some other European country, or even Europe -> USA and vice versa. I feel like you HAVE to be a strange person to do what they did.
Some people in all places are strange. Go and interview ten randos in NYC and see what you get.
and you look strange but that's just my opinion
@@DoctorStrange01 all the time man, I lived in Seoul for two years. It was a great time. All of my friends including the foreign ones were pretty normal and moved for random reasons. Also got to me the kid who played Joffrey from GoTs. Who was out and about. No of my friends there brits, aussies, kiwis and other countries moved to Korea for some weird Asian fetish. Most were exploring the world and stopped in Seoul. Then fell in love with it. I would actually say this had a higher percentage of weirdos than normal. Additionally the one girl was pretty clueless about how many Americans are in Japan. Lol there’s been hundreds of thousands stationed there since the end of WWII. like 2 hours south of Tokyo is a massive base.
@@2468whodoweappreciate cool
18:51 ''tell me you are American without telling me you are American''
i will agree with some saying this is overdone played out content, but i thought (as an American) this was entertaining and still interesting. keep doing what you gotta do to stay afloat asian boss, we need channels like you on the platform!
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Ok but Justin Bieber is Canadian
yea but canada is the 51st state of the US....
Stop insulting Canada
@@NO1xANIMExFAN bruh that’s like saying Mongolia is a part of China
Yes but he’s made his career in the US is what he I hunk he’s referring to.
@@cakeyummy2401 Lol it's a joke... relax
I love your videos, but you should have asked the question most channels don't ask: "What about marriage or long-term relationships?" I've been in Japan for more than 5 years in total and I feel like most people I've met with we're mostly looking for ONS or short-term relationships with marriage in sight (many told me that they only wanted to try doing it or dating with a foreigner).
"Where's my bento?!" LMFAO 😂
Yeah, where’s my bento????
2:24 they are so pretty! And I'm so jealous of their hair, mines wavy but it rarely looks this good 😍
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@@batataebom5077 I think you replied to the wrong comment buddy
how about interviewing citizens of different Asian countries for a change? Cambodians, Vietnamese, Malaysians...
Another episode of the dating series!!! ✌️❤️
Tackling the hard issues head-on, can't wait for the dating in Tibetan and Uyghur internment edition
Its so played out
@@Zhengrui0 OOP-
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These “What’s it like for {insert western country} people to date in/with {insert asian country}” videos are becoming more and more cringe inflicting by the minute. I hope this is the last one lol
right, mongering to the insecure white dudes going to asia
18:52 glad she brought this up 😊
Ikr, Americans gotta check those privileges.
"I blame disney..." WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEW
My roomate who lived in Japan for 4 years just said that "dating in asia as a sub bottom is disapointing" and I'm not actually sure what that means xD Do I even want to know?
Sub bottom?
omg i got it and well i guess they're right lol
Lololololol omg
@@whyamihere6438 but what does it mean? xD
@@satyasyasatyasya5746 Submissive bottom, google it if you'd like
Can’t stand this guy @3:18
Such ego. Interracial relationship is very common he’s in one so what about stop judging other women for having other preferences.
14:49 that guy is a keeper!
I get the feeling that the young gent with the blue shirt hasn't dated extensively, he is vibing jaded+desperate simultaneously.
As a Japanese , I can imagine that it’s much easier to meet people in a big city like Tokyo. But it would be completely different if you go countryside. It’s gonna be difficult even for me to move and live in a countryside.
It’s interesting how all these people have already adopted more of a Japanese tone and pace to their voices than what you would hear the typical American talking like such. Goes to show how malleable we are when we live amongst different cultures than our own
5:12 similar to Kpop. Thousands of fans would like to marry Korean men because of Korean wave. It's also no different to those who like J-doramas, anime,manga and video games.
6:51 He said it right. Korean wave is now more popular than American popculture.
Cap ,American popculture is undefeated ,even korean entertainment culture (music, movies, etc) is heavily influenced by America.
@@chickenman2949 silence yankoid
I wouldn't say more popular but it has been gaining attention. There's this data that shows that K-entertainment consumption has outperformed Hollywood.. but in Southeast Asia only. But again, K-entertainment is currently up there, only second to Hollywood.
@@chickenman2949 Of course. American pop remains number 1. I'm just surprised how easy it is for the U.S to promote Kpop when they could just produce more American music videos and monopolize the internet to remain superior. At first, it gave me cringe when a world-power nation started joining the Kpop hype and play safe with this Asianbaiting.. I mean of course, America is still the home of legendary and iconic artists who started and invented pop on this planet. But with what's happening and the slowly-deteriorating produce of new American artists, it will no longer be shocking if the next generation would see POP as simply "Korean" as that's the first thing the young ones would see on the media. In fact, it's slowly happening now. Some younger delusional fans would claim that BTS choreo is all original when in fact it has 75% Western influences. The kids in my neighborhood would quickly say "Kpop" when they see a sort of fashion that's colorful, stylish and when they hear random auto-tune instrumentals in some gatherings.
Seriously, Hollywood needs to wake up.
asianbaiting? get over yourself. just because another country excels at something your country is trailing behind doesn’t make it some weird racial fetishy thing.
Do not watch this high HAHAHAHHA
Free Palestine
Defend Israel
@@cakeyummy2401 defund*
@@asmasm9736 Fine*
Do with Latinamericans!!!
Would be nice
Pues conseguir una novia japonesa sería más fácil para los latinos porque ya hay bastante gringos y la cultural latina es más interesante.
Are there lots of them in Japan?
@@Chironex_Fleckeri I would think yes...we are like...10 or more countries in totally there should be a good amount of latins in Japan
About ghosting, I think it also depends on how your personality fits the culture because for me it's the opposite. When I lived in the US, it felt like I would get ghosted everytime I thought I made a new friend, man or woman. People whom I thought were my friends would also frequently stop contacting me. Basically, I don't know how to make/keep friends in the US, lol. However in Japan, it just works naturally. I'm rarely ghosted and friends stay friends.
I think this channel receives money from the United States to advertise them. they just talk about the united states all the time, they wouldn't do it for free.
@@batataebom5077 ???? no they just earn revenue from the videos they make.
That is so true I feel this way also living here in LA
The Japanese girls I dated never ghosted me. I got ghosted more in the States, worst part is they reappear a year later acting like nothing happened. Contacting you wondering why you never kept in touch, but they were the ones that never responded back to your messages,
"Language barrier" youre living in japan you should know japanese
Why foreigners in Japan got to be so creepy sometimes
Honestly being an introvert with manners I really love Japanese culture. Love shouldn’t be in public, same reason you don’t stare at people in the gym. In professor oaks words “there’s a time and place for everything but not now.”
Did y'alls see Detective Conan at 13:20?
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I've notice it now after pointing it out
"It happened pretty naturally" proceeds to say the guy literally hit on her at a bar, with complete obvious intention of making a relationship happen lol
she means naturally as in it didnt happen online on the internet like a lot of relationships start these days
That’s pretty natural. Not like it was on tinder.
It would be nice if they do these interviews with other nationalities too.
Why don't you rename this channel to american boss
The American men having trouble with dating Japanese women not realizing they give off creeper vibes, so of course ghosting is a form of self preservation/safety. Men mistake kindness for genuine attraction. Maybe in her eyes it was the softest way to say "move on, im not the one for you".
As do the women.
I feel that people that Ghost people don’t have the “guts”, the marbles to talk and end the thing
@@edwardcm9175 it's fine not to have guts when you feel like someone could assault you or try to convince you, you are wrong about feeling uncomfortable around them. Japan is big on politeness so there's a culture difference as well.
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@@IskyHassan So you are at fault if the guy leaves you after he has done anything he wanted to? That's nonsense.
Go against all your instincts if you are a foreigner in a foreign country - you might learn something about yourself and the country.
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It would also be interesting to see the same stuff but with non-American foreigners living in Japan, to see how other cultural backgrounds mix with Japanese culture.
This discussion was so honest and interesting. Great vid, Asian Boss!
I'm a foreigner living in South Korea and I didn't realize the experience with the dating culture is very similar