The Dark Side Of Dating In Dubai - Sadia Khan

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  • Sadia Khan reveals what the dating market is actually like in Dubai. Why does Dubai have more affairs than anywhere else in the world according to Sadia Khan? Why does Sadia Khan believe the women in Dubai are less emotionally attached? What role does Andrew Tate play in why promiscuity is so rampant in Dubai?
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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Watch the full episode with Sadia here - th-cam.com/video/8g0rMB6quiQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @alfredocornelio4329
      @alfredocornelio4329 ปีที่แล้ว

      Speaking of white dudes or whomever converting to Islam, I REALLY suggest for Chris to get in touch with a content creator named David Wood, he has been battling many of the myth that Islamists promote online vs what is in the Quran and haddith or what their dawahs and leaders say or promise to guys like Tate or Sneako. Wood and other former muslims have been calling this out and creating content for at least over 10 years.

    • @garynicolas
      @garynicolas ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey this was a really impressive episode. I think I learn some things that’s gonna change my life.

    • @sonymi5642
      @sonymi5642 ปีที่แล้ว

      ☝️🤲😇🇧🇩💞💁‍♂️ Brother plz don’t' use that type of picture 😢😢😢 . So sad 😢

  • @consciouscrypto3090
    @consciouscrypto3090 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    "Loyal women want to be spoiled by time; they don't want to be spoiled by possessions... so these men filter out loyal women." This is the most insightful take on dating to marry I've ever heard!

    • @francisikwueme1688
      @francisikwueme1688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Straight up banger right here 🔥🔥🙏🏿. Kudos Sadia

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Loyal women also want loyal men who genuinely love them and prove that by their actions. Words are cheap

    • @InspireFreedomForever
      @InspireFreedomForever 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad someone finally said it! Then men wonder why they end up with "crazy" lol

    • @AkeruZikora
      @AkeruZikora 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@InspireFreedomForever
      Crazy can come in different shapes & sizes.
      There are also the women who twerk on social media & wonder why they only get f**k boys

  • @BryanGrier
    @BryanGrier ปีที่แล้ว +169

    "More options means less happiness" Wow, incredibly profound statement. This hits home to me since realizing that I need to close more doors to achieve more of what I want recently. Great video.

    • @alfredocornelio4329
      @alfredocornelio4329 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The thing is that that is not "deep" or "profound". It's very basic knowledge that most people are aware or at least used to. It can also go by the term "Paradox of choice". The paradox of choice suggests that an abundance of options actually requires more effort to choose and can leave us feeling unsatisfied with our choice. Like going to a store for a cellphone before was easy, there weren't many models. Today however you gotta go thru amazon, youtube review videos, ask around etc. I realized this when I was in my teens back in late 90s early 00s.

    • @BryanGrier
      @BryanGrier ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alfredocornelio4329 I think you give society too much credit. Not very many people are going to be thinking about such an abstract concept like "paradox of choice".
      Don't mistake this comment as trying to take away from your point. Perhaps, I was not specific enough on the original comment. I just never put the two concepts together and looked them in the same glance.

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Before modern transportation and the internet, you were limited to who you could get.
      There is TOO MUCH choice out there.

    • @Beeso
      @Beeso ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “ If we really knew how to choose , we wouldn’t have to” instead we get stuck wrestling with the indecision before the choice is made, then we wonder if we’ve made the right one.

  • @MrHazz111
    @MrHazz111 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    As someone who grew up in Dubai, I will say all of this applies only to a small group of rich elite native emaratis and expats (immigrants from largely Western countries). Most of the middle class consists of migrant arabs from other (often poorer) countries, Migrant Africans, Indians and Filipinos and are generally socially conservative and culturally segregated.

    • @OwnD1
      @OwnD1 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      If you ain’t rich or beautiful in Dubai, I imagine you’re invisible

    • @jamescorfield534
      @jamescorfield534 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow cool story! You used to live there? What we’re you doin there?

    • @willh7352
      @willh7352 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Filipinos***

    • @MrHazz111
      @MrHazz111 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@OwnD1 Actually, if you are Middle class in Dubai, it's the rich that are invisible lol, unless you go to specific parts of the city. There's no general/mainstream culture there, more a Frankenstein of different people who live largely in their own cultural bubbles.

    • @suziebee4240
      @suziebee4240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But are they middle class from catering to the rich tho?

  • @wolfgangkranek376
    @wolfgangkranek376 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    When prostitution is called dating.

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When prostitutes are called women.

  • @j.d.1506
    @j.d.1506 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    She gave a better explanation that makes more sense than all the relationship coaches on the internet.

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She always does!

    • @TheUnique69able
      @TheUnique69able ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m from Dubai and all she said was bullshit that caters to westerners presuposiciones about Dubai.

    • @THEREALZENFORCE
      @THEREALZENFORCE ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheUnique69able The "dating scene" for 1200 USD per night 🤔 The local Emirati people are kind, the cars are cool (Hurracan's and G-Wagons everywhere), Cé La Vie restaurant is good and beautiful but the Nurs-Et Steakhouse is a joke (bad food and looks like a canteen), Service in many restaurants is bad at any price category. Dubai's beaches are a joke compared to Sardaigne, Corsica, Greece, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Phuket, etc. The activities in Dubai are very good : Sandbuggy, Diner in the Sky, Zip-lining, Topgolf, etc for 180 to 250 dollars per person on average . Dubai is an interesting city but very superficial and foreigners are mostly there because of the low to non-existant taxes. Las Vegas is more fun, Shanghai more impressive, Munich more beautiful, Porto and Barcelona have way more life quality, Monaco has more James Bond wealth feeling (the wealthy guys from Dubai go there and in the region of Southern France (Cannes, Menton, Roquebrune Cap Martin), London is more lively, Vienna and Prague are gems, Athens and Rome are open-air museums of architectural marvels and art and the food is excellent.

    • @elnathanmaduhu3689
      @elnathanmaduhu3689 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is well read

  • @none377
    @none377 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "A woman that craves a good life doesn't seek emotional intimacy, she seeks financial intimacy." True!

    • @dbmdrums1105
      @dbmdrums1105 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now what does that meaan man 😅😅😅?

    • @none377
      @none377 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dbmdrums1105 When a woman doesn't seek men for their company, she seeks them in order to help her have a good life, i. e. support her financially to get what she desires, she doesn't seek the emotional intimacy that a man offers, she seeks the financial stability that he offers when all she cares about is having a good life for herself.

    • @Jon92
      @Jon92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So a good life means having money and using men for that life.. got you. Do you see something wrong there? The women that you just described will get in their 40's and 50's alone or with a guy 30 years older than them and wonder where it went wrong

    • @pappa_panda
      @pappa_panda 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Jon92so true what she described was the definition of unhaply people😊

    • @BunnyOfThrones
      @BunnyOfThrones 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jon92 I ended up alone in my 36 because I didnt go after rich men. If I did I could afford "buying" a poor man for myself. There would be lots of men wanting to marry me for being rich.

  • @pollutingpenguin2146
    @pollutingpenguin2146 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She is so articulate and calm - she is so great to listen to

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Great video. I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?.

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @Shadow4977
      @Shadow4977 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Man up.

    • @nikolavojnovic6552
      @nikolavojnovic6552 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alright bro, listen up...
      You shouldn't be seeking to get back with her.
      If it was supposed to last, it wouldn't have been broken apart in the first place, so just drop that idea.
      Same goes for these "spiritual healers"... 🙄
      What you need instead is to assess your current situation.
      Your ex wife has left a huge hole in your life, so you need to start filling it up.
      Solve a problem, start a new hobby, start developing a new skill, take on a new project, get involved with your community through volunteering, even change your job if need be.
      You can't force yourself to stop thinking about your ex just like that.
      You can only gradually substitute thinking about her by starting occupying your mind with something else.
      Good luck!

    • @wesleyturner1979
      @wesleyturner1979 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your weakness not being able to get over her is likely the same reason she left. Get stronger. You don’t need her. No one needs anyone that doesn’t want them.

  • @chelsea7755
    @chelsea7755 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I knew from a very young age I wanted one man and a family (if I could get past health issues). I'm happy that I've gotten exactly what I wanted. I've been with my husband from highschool (we met at 12), been together 18 years and married for 2. Beyond perfection for me 👌❤️

    • @kyledodson2992
      @kyledodson2992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats. My sister has the same relationship with her husband. They were high school friends/ bf and gf. They are now in their 40s.

    • @Susu.1
      @Susu.1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May God give you health

  • @n-tv5fm
    @n-tv5fm ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As living guy in UAE ,this things applies to rich emiratis and rich expat millionaires, other working class from different parts of world are struggling for living and lives a normal traditional way 💯

    • @BunnyOfThrones
      @BunnyOfThrones 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello!
      Help me to find a good religious guy from there that truely loves Allah.

    • @BunnyOfThrones
      @BunnyOfThrones 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whats the minimum wage in there?

  • @kinger557
    @kinger557 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wow, the most profound statement about dating EVER. A loyal woman wants to be spoiled with time, a disloyal/unnemotional woman wanta to be spoiled with money

  • @ravchana2393
    @ravchana2393 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The concept of boundaries has fully gone out the window. Unfortunately it’s seen as a “controlling” tactic when in reality it’s a measure of respect.

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    ... Money is replacing ethical Behavior... Aristotle Onassis said that the reason he became a shipping billionaire was so that he would get enough sex. This says a hell of a lot about women.

    • @dirlenelopez6033
      @dirlenelopez6033 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, a certain type of woman. Not all women 😊

  • @oandsseedat
    @oandsseedat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So interesting. This is an excellent discussion. Part 2 would be great. Thank you both

  • @MsQ275
    @MsQ275 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    it sounds nightmarish

    • @sanjayraju988
      @sanjayraju988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dating in general sounds nightmarish these days.

  • @justinhinchliffe2355
    @justinhinchliffe2355 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As a young novelty seeker I would (go) have gone to Dubai.
    As an older (partially wiser) man, I would rather keep my money to myself and have learned to cook very well what I like in peace and quiet.

  • @bossman674
    @bossman674 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s all transactional. That’s why they’re all unhappy… but if that’s the life you lead and lust for, that’s the outcome. No sympathy lol

  • @DeadManVlog
    @DeadManVlog ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent content.

  • @limiwa
    @limiwa ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Loyal women want to be spoiled by your time." YES. This is basically what I comment on RP content. Those men are convinced all women want money, high status and luxury. Some do, but usually not the ones worth your time if loyalty matters to you.

    • @darynjackson816
      @darynjackson816 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ive never seen a homeless couple...and if it does exist, he wasn't homeless when she met him...im not saying you dont have a point but...

    • @ahmadjuwaidi8730
      @ahmadjuwaidi8730 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@darynjackson816hey thats good point.

  • @swirlcrop
    @swirlcrop ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such an interesting talk.

  • @rjflores438
    @rjflores438 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have only been to Dubai once, and I found that the women I encountered just seemed really off personality wise, which I don't experience in most other places most of the time, they were dressed to the nines, very attractive but very cold, materialistic and dismissive, but I guess Dubai attracts these types of women and people, I found the same thing in parts of L.A, London and even Santorini and Mykonos.

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor ปีที่แล้ว

      "dressed to the nines" which today means dressed like an actual prostitute.

    • @dantoinettetaylor1663
      @dantoinettetaylor1663 ปีที่แล้ว

      You left out Miami 😂

  • @leondelafonte
    @leondelafonte ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She's a true gem this woman. Proper 10 physically, spiritually and intellectually.

    • @oneviwatara9384
      @oneviwatara9384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's my ex 😂

    • @ahmadjuwaidi8730
      @ahmadjuwaidi8730 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@oneviwatara9384your day dreaming bruh

  • @HomeSlize
    @HomeSlize ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn! There was a lot of good content in this short video.

  • @benh.92
    @benh.92 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She’s fairly wise. Good stuff

  • @scarlet132011
    @scarlet132011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank You Sadia for finally telling it like it actually is, finally someone who is grounded and not influenced. ‘ more options means less happiness’ yes yes yes, finally, thats the key. 🙏♥️

    • @supernova4life1
      @supernova4life1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's no grounded. She got divorced within 1 month, no kids, no husband nearly 40

    • @user-nu8yp4qs7x
      @user-nu8yp4qs7x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Где найти её биографию ​@@supernova4life1

  • @Tweek31
    @Tweek31 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Damn she has the knowledge

    • @DadsCigaretteRun
      @DadsCigaretteRun ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Quite impressed, was expecting some half ass takes but very wise

  • @MrKrtek00
    @MrKrtek00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good points, but I do not think that most people know their boundaries well. There is a blurry line between having boundaries, being needy, or just being selfish, and people should learn it with time, often from feedback from others. Both men and women can have self-doubt, and the present screaming culture is not really a good place to have open discussions about which boundaries are necessarily, which are just feel good ones.

  • @JamesWynnReal
    @JamesWynnReal ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said

  • @johnbrand1893
    @johnbrand1893 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The world of relationships have been like that since the beginning of time, it’s just evolved with time to what it is presented as in today’s society.

  • @bubaba8938
    @bubaba8938 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Wherever there are rich men there are beautyful women" Yea right, I don't find anything beautiful about thousands golddigers seeking their millionaire

  • @Fathma63
    @Fathma63 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So absolutely spot on... I loved Dubai, still....

  • @sirskeptic
    @sirskeptic ปีที่แล้ว +50

    "It's the only city where the women are more promiscuous than the men" -- LOL. Has she been to any other city?

    • @theseeker7692
      @theseeker7692 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      "Far more"
      Key difference.

    • @-glitch-8195
      @-glitch-8195 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you think western women are the most promiscuous...then you haven't seen anything yet 😂😂😂 Western women, especially American women, are just more open about it in contrast to women in the east. It doesn't mean they're the most promiscuous at all.

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men would be way more promiscuous if they had the options. Most men can’t sleep with lots of women.

    • @rahil65us
      @rahil65us ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is right promiscuity has been happening in other countries way before it happened in west. If you didn't hear much about it, was because 1. There was no internet 2. it's taboo people don't openly talk about these things.

    • @Lyu-Phy
      @Lyu-Phy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      False deduction, women all around are always by far more promiscuous (but partly because they can and men simply cant), Dubai just makes it look over the top even more. It's also the city where men dump and pump even harder, thus no relationships and then you have women complaining about that. But these men simply dont want trouble from the modern woman, unidealistic. Either that or they are just in it to satisfy their ego.

  • @gpower9572
    @gpower9572 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is a bit like watching TH-cam there are endless distractions. While I listen to one story I am scrolling through others.

  • @perfectly22smith38
    @perfectly22smith38 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is 100% right! Live in D and BH

  • @jerryterwase9027
    @jerryterwase9027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " strong boundaries creates good neighbors". 👍

  • @winston1843
    @winston1843 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Strong boundaries create good neighbours"

  • @baron_von_brunk
    @baron_von_brunk ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought that was Tulsi Gabbard in the thumbnail at first.

  • @droberts4791
    @droberts4791 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I've been living in Dubai (well Sharjah... but every weekend I travel to Dubai) for over a year now.
    I think what this lady is saying is probably applicable to certain areas (the place where rich people go) and perhaps meeting girls in these high end clubs and bars may be a bad idea (I could imagine it attracts the type of woman she is warning about).
    But as she also brings up, the vast majority of the people that live here are expats and I can promise that most of those expats are not hanging out in high end clubs where you pay $15 for a beer.
    I'd been on a few dates here before meeting my current partner and the biggest complaint I heard from her and the other women here was that the men had the attitude that this was a place for just hook ups and kind of - what happens in dubai stays in dubai.
    The amount of stories I've heard about men cheating on their wives (who stayed in their country of origin) is really high.
    I can't say I dated a high enough % of women here to definitively say whether the women are as promiscuous as I've heard the men to be but my experience is that most of them are just lonely, stressed and looking for someone to come home to.
    But again, I'm not meeting these girls in high end bars, I've used dating apps and I can imagine that any girls seeking a sugar daddy will see a lack of Bugattis in my profile pictures and quickly swipe left

    • @puhkarhu
      @puhkarhu ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean 15 for a beer is high-end? In Finland that's normal price

    • @droberts4791
      @droberts4791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@puhkarhu I dunno, coming from Wales that seems a bit extortionate to me XD
      The other teachers I know (mostly from Ireland and SA agree that alcohol is very pricey here).
      Where I come from (before I left), you'd probably pay around $5 for a beer in some of the 'nice' clubs in the city.
      Ofc it would be more expensive for cocktails but the same is the case in Dubai.
      If it's $15 for a beer in a club in Dubai, then it's probably more like $20-$30 for a cocktail (brunches withstanding)

    • @sabinasb2445
      @sabinasb2445 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@puhkarhu; Open your mind, dont be ignorant, Those are Hook ups Clubs; 15 Euros for 1 beer is too much to pay in Europe. Check European Beer prices....

    • @wesleyturner1979
      @wesleyturner1979 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@puhkarhuwent to Vegas last week… my wife and I paid $60.00 for 2, 22 oz Pacifico’s at a Garth Brooks Concert…. They gave us a plastic cup to pore the cans in though 😂👍

  • @jonathan4831
    @jonathan4831 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The East and West coast USA must be totally different than the Midwest. I have yet to experience this dramatic leftism, and see much of that being pushed in media, not by individuals.

  • @Jakub.K0
    @Jakub.K0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preach

  • @meagain9649
    @meagain9649 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All i got from this video is dubai is even more soulless than i envisioned... after avoiding going there for yearssss, had unfortunate luck to go there and it was worse than i imagined. Just a soulless horrible dark place

  • @arthurjawara6190
    @arthurjawara6190 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great city of Dubai, I love the city ❤

  • @rishidhingra319
    @rishidhingra319 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As a single, actively dating, Indian Canadian millionaire expat in his 32nd year in Dubai, I couldn't disagree with her more. She's a. talking about a very stereotypical Dubai image that doesn't exist, and b. given this stereotype exists for a reason, applies to a populous for perhaps 2-3% and that too to an uber rich expat elite that have been in Dubai for a very short amount to time to begin with.

    • @douglasherron7534
      @douglasherron7534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most of the high-end guys she is talking about will be arabs; who think western/ non-muslim women are nothing more than prostitutes to be used and discarded at will.

    • @mrb2643
      @mrb2643 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U make no sense

    • @TheUnique69able
      @TheUnique69able ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly. I’m Emirati and I agree with you. This women only came recently to Dubai and doesn’t know shit.

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor ปีที่แล้ว

      I rolled my eyes at Dubai = Beverley Hills and the rest. These people are not just dishonest, they are also likely stoopid.
      How many men and women share apartments and rooms with other "single" people. And they are not even labourers.

    • @Shane-ju7op
      @Shane-ju7op 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TheUnique69able She has that habit.... Psychology is B.S.

  • @hottrader4262
    @hottrader4262 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video! Now I am even more careful with women on dating sites who are now living in Dubai. I believe the truth will come out about those women, if they are living a promiscuous lifestyle. I believe in protecting my heart at all times.

  • @extra222love
    @extra222love ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree with Sadie 👌🏼

  • @AnthonyKellett
    @AnthonyKellett ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This clearly explains flaws in the 'Manosphere' philosophy. Whilst it promotes many good ideas, finding a loyal, peaceful, beautiful (on the inside and outside) partner is an extremely difficult task, for a wealthy man. I assume celebrities (particularly wealthy ones) have an even harder time doing so.

  • @Shane-ju7op
    @Shane-ju7op 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Experience places for yourself. This is her take on dating in Dubai, from a married lady. I'm sure some these thing are correct but the internet like to blow things up outside reality...

  • @Tygafttf
    @Tygafttf ปีที่แล้ว

    4:50-5:50 gold

  • @ConorClyneTsarExperience
    @ConorClyneTsarExperience ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Interesting that Dubai is such is a cornucopia of dating options but with so little long term satisfaction. This is the ‘Dubai dating disaster’, which explains the uptick in interest I’ve had in guys based in Dubai looking to date women in Eastern Europe. 👍🏻

  • @bane2486
    @bane2486 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hmm.. interesting..I always had a dream of goin to Dubai just because of how successful it looked to me..now I understand that every coin has two sides..and it's really interesting how a city with having Muslim values can also have promiscuity

    • @MsQ275
      @MsQ275 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      is this satire?

    • @pacomaciasarrate6809
      @pacomaciasarrate6809 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you kidding? One only has to say you're in a temporary marriage with a hooker or any lover and when done, utter three times that you're divorcing her, and you're religiously following the rules.

    • @mahammadsalah40
      @mahammadsalah40 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@pacomaciasarrate6809 actually you’re not following the religion you’re just “acting” like you follow religion as islam prohibits such marriages

    • @pacomaciasarrate6809
      @pacomaciasarrate6809 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mahammadsalah40 sure buddy, that's why it's in your "sacred" texts. I'll pass on your takya.

    • @billytheripper4
      @billytheripper4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want as little as possible to do with countries rife with slavery, and there is so much wealth in Dubai that I'm convinced there must be a tonne of slavery somewhere there

  • @freddie_mvp
    @freddie_mvp ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sadia Khan would get it! Hard!

  • @Beeso
    @Beeso ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything in Dubai looks, feels synthetic. Of course you can argue that all cities are, but what I mean is that it has no “soul”, distinct style or even a true defining finger print to it. It’s all look at me, I’m shiny, loud and big. It never felt like a real city to me, more like a IKEA catalogue, a theme park of “THE modern city”.
    I think that’s fair assessment, not an attack (I have no reason to). Not even Dubai itself (Inc.) shies away from the fact that it is one giant advertisement campaign.

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like I bring a lot to the table normally as long as I’m not drinking like I’m really loving and caring and sweet my brain just got a really fucked up when I drink 😭😐🥴

  • @AdamMc192
    @AdamMc192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sound like what Mark Manson would call “Toxic codependence”.

  • @ceemapicardo3236
    @ceemapicardo3236 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i dont know if they speak for the majority, but as an indian, we COMPRISE a huge population in Dubai ( individuals who mostly have good jobs and those who own businesses) , but our community goes to dubai to make money by working hard, maybe they're talking about the few East europeans?

  • @Ballinout30
    @Ballinout30 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do agree with the points but i think men on a large scale are becoming avoidant because of how the world is society is today and the divorce laws.

  • @douglasyong6939
    @douglasyong6939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hard to focus on the explanation , when someone is so eloquent and ridiculously attractive…

  • @thaneknight
    @thaneknight ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent observation "wrong philosophy for the machine" there's too many men and women trying to be something they're not. I don't see how converting to Islam solves this. Unless you truly believe, but if it's to met a girl with a low body count I don't see it as a good strategy.

  • @muhammadm4582
    @muhammadm4582 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why these western people can’t just get married? Why is it always dating dating dating?

    • @fgcpeak9591
      @fgcpeak9591 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because the western way of life is FAR too liberal now. Women are just running amock and exercising RAMPANT hypergamy (they have WAY too many options and it goes unchecked - listen to the part where she said too many options = you will always be looking for the next best thing). Imagine being a woman and making a dating profile in Dubai and your inbox is full of millionaires. How can you ever marry anyone?

    • @roi9
      @roi9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's why u muslim man use western women

  • @tomjones5338
    @tomjones5338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wealth comes from the heart not a wallet i doubt any woman will ever understand that set stupid unrealistic expectations tgen ur trapped in a monetary and materialistic lifestyle

  • @scottbarnett3566
    @scottbarnett3566 ปีที่แล้ว

    When did the meaning of simp change?

  • @brockparaf97
    @brockparaf97 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    First world problems.

  • @MsSimpleMovies
    @MsSimpleMovies 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a Muslim suitor living in Dubai attempt to meet me via friends. I'm a very average looking Muslim woman, and I'm not into "stuff," so I declined to meet him. I hope he's happy, and protected from the worldliness. Not my environment. My Muslim husband is a New Yorker who appreciates a good bagel and schmere. That's my speed. 😂

  • @alberthenriette8976
    @alberthenriette8976 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Porta potty ladies😂😂

  • @suny1265
    @suny1265 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Gold diggers Paradise

    • @josueveguilla9069
      @josueveguilla9069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know, right.

    • @crustybomb115
      @crustybomb115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      pretty much

    • @samlsd9711
      @samlsd9711 ปีที่แล้ว

      In Dubai, there is prostitutes, or married women.
      Nothing in between, everyone knows it.
      It's only you westerners think it's paradise.

  • @VedranPrema
    @VedranPrema ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is no wonder that a type like Tate converted to islam

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she is telling about 1% of dubai

  • @willyhwang1059
    @willyhwang1059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    no.
    more options doesn't mean less happiness.
    more options that have limiting implications mean less happiness.
    if i could eat all i want without getting fat or sick, i would be happy.

    • @Jay-vt1mw
      @Jay-vt1mw ปีที่แล้ว

      People hate this fact so much but yes she's right more options means less happiness, if you could eat all you wanted you would gain minimal satisfaction from food after time and probably even get depressed when you weren't eating.

    • @willyhwang1059
      @willyhwang1059 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jay-vt1mw sure, there's diminishing return involved. but i would say at least for me, it would take A LOT to get to that point, and in the meantime, life is wonderful.

  • @TariqAq
    @TariqAq ปีที่แล้ว

    They all seem to know that but they still have no trouble putting themselves on the display shelves.

  • @SweetSourPickle
    @SweetSourPickle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys please don't "Dubai Porta Potties"

  • @luckywinner4936
    @luckywinner4936 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can never pay me enough money to eat ice cream with ketchup. Yuk!

  • @sw-sq5gk
    @sw-sq5gk ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart girl

  • @Analconda98
    @Analconda98 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alright who's the girl in the thumbnail? 👀

  • @ken_yap
    @ken_yap ปีที่แล้ว

    @2:48 "Lots of women filled with lots of silicone" 💀💀💀

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Talum is like that she would no one told me it was so like jarring because I was always like I am too ugly to ever go to any of those places but then for some reason I got psychosis on my birthday so I was in the room of the hottest people I’ve ever seen and I was like I’m the ugliest girl in the world but that sometimes I would be like I’d say really crazy things that you’re not supposed to say out loud it was so humiliating like imagine a really ugly girl just like saying the most out of pocket shit

  • @gregorybible7610
    @gregorybible7610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't think no body in dubi will simp for a portapodies

  • @niggle6425
    @niggle6425 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there and truth in the phenomena in women having No2 done over them for a very high price in Dubai?

  • @user-ww2lc1yo9c
    @user-ww2lc1yo9c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it true that this woman is divorced?

  • @thegreathonourandprosper52
    @thegreathonourandprosper52 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dating or prostitution in dubai? What is she on about?

  • @josueveguilla9069
    @josueveguilla9069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmm. Interesting.

  • @thecannyshow8354
    @thecannyshow8354 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These rich beautiful people and their dating,?
    Different story over here...
    Noone got money for love or dating ... and many turn to drink or drugs...

  • @user-ck6ly4st3v
    @user-ck6ly4st3v 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WRONG!! A real woman doesn't want a man generous with his money OR his time, she requires BOTH!

  • @gimmyward
    @gimmyward ปีที่แล้ว

    I need a life partner in a relationship

  • @alfredhitchcock45
    @alfredhitchcock45 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100 millionaires = 100 beautiful women

  • @newtonmoon
    @newtonmoon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not true at all that women are promiscuous there. While it may be true for a certain type, I'd argue the typical IG stereotype that shows themselves half undressed etc., there are loads of normal women who would appreciate to meet a normal guy and get married. It seems impossible finding them perhaps because of conversation such as those fueling the stereotypes attracting a certain type.

  • @xxxstar90dustxxxr
    @xxxstar90dustxxxr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That outfit is too revealing for a night out is not boundaries, it is abuse. But of course for that woman it is just normal for a man to control a woman in this way. bravo!

  • @edbop
    @edbop ปีที่แล้ว

    So in short, if you are looking to date some of the most vaccous people in the world Dubhai is the place for you.

  • @giorgikacharava97
    @giorgikacharava97 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    "Money is not enough for the women out here" nice joke 😂

    • @MsQ275
      @MsQ275 ปีที่แล้ว

      and silicon filled women are not enough for the men
      dystopic to the nth degree

    • @ericselectrons
      @ericselectrons ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s all cap. Just another delusional person hijacking the manosphere

    • @abhisheklingwal7961
      @abhisheklingwal7961 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Having money is common there, and common things are of no value.

    • @-glitch-8195
      @-glitch-8195 ปีที่แล้ว

      When every man has money, no man has money. Even their President Mohammed Bin Rashid's ex-wife had a whole affair with her body guard and she divorced him. Thing is she was never in love with him. She was in love with his money.

    • @hunterbarnes9497
      @hunterbarnes9497 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@abhisheklingwal7961 having money is common, but certainly the guy who has $100 million is more attractive than man with $10 million

  • @riggins872
    @riggins872 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fewer options are better. Get married early. Stop sampling.

  • @hashimsytc8141
    @hashimsytc8141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need more progressive Muslim ideas like the ones this lady presents. Very articulate and intelligent. What we should value women for not just their looks like our modern society tries to makes us do

  • @THEREALZENFORCE
    @THEREALZENFORCE ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The "dating scene" for 1200 USD per night 🤔 The local people are nice, the cars are cool (Hurracan's and G-Wagons everywhere), Cé La Vie restaurant is good and beautiful but the Nurs-Et Steakhouse is a joke (bad food and looks like a canteen), Service in many restaurants is bad at any price category. Dubai's beaches are a joke compared to Sardaigne, Corsica, Greece, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Phuket, etc. The activities in Dubai are very good : Sandbuggy, Diner in the Sky, Zip-lining, Topgolf, etc for 180 to 250 dollars per person on average . Dubai is an interesting city but very superficial and foreigners are mostly there because of the low to non-existant taxes. Las Vegas is more fun, Shanghai more impressive, Munich more beautiful, Porto and Barcelona have way more life quality, Monaco has more James Bond wealth feeling (the wealthy guys from Dubai go there and in the region of Southern France (Cannes, Menton, Roquebrune Cap Martin), London is more lively, Vienna and Prague are gems, Athens and Rome are open-air museums of architectural marvels and art and the food is excellent.

  • @hannahdreyfuss7120
    @hannahdreyfuss7120 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like a not very happy toxic place

  • @alfredhitchcock45
    @alfredhitchcock45 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wome can only think of 1 men will have a hard time though

  • @liberator328
    @liberator328 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Does Sadia have any data to support her claims on Dubai's dating market and women's detached behavior? As interesting as they are, they sound based off opinion, or personal experience.

    • @DT-ip4db
      @DT-ip4db ปีที่แล้ว

      You ain't going to get data on such behaviours, she does have lots of experience with these women in Dubai

    • @samii6178
      @samii6178 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Visit Dubai once ….just once and see how you believe every word comming out of her mouth 😊

    • @Shane-ju7op
      @Shane-ju7op 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DT-ip4db She Married (so she claims), take that into account.... She from Luton Uk! I think she talks alot of ish. She using her Look to cash in online...

    • @newtonmoon
      @newtonmoon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DT-ip4db Maybe you looked in the wrong places...

  • @SmokeMamba-pi5xk
    @SmokeMamba-pi5xk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In dubai 99% people are foreigners, natives are very less

  • @michaelcorey9890
    @michaelcorey9890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed listening to Chris much more than her in that segment

  • @mohammedm8683
    @mohammedm8683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The biggest bullshit ever; her statement about: "There's more promiscuity in dubai than anywhere else in the world?"
    In dubai exists what we call "shariah law," although promiscuity exists just like any other place; It is condemned and a punishable offence with heavy fines imposed; as an alternative to corporal punishment to those unlucky ones that get caught.
    I don't know where she is getting her statistical data, but it's more of a self proclaim that I can sense and guage from her talk. It seems like as if she's lived through all she talks about on her TH-cam videos. As a muslim woman and very modern, I find some of her opinions so revolting, especially the fact that she's a muslim from kashmir as she states but not a good representative of its customs and culture. I think she would have done very well in her teaching profession if she continued as a psychology teacher in the U.A.E and would have got right at the top end after judging her clarity of talk.
    The bottom line is; that the realistic nature of men and women will never change. Capricious female mentality is constantly a challenge for men. Lucky are those men who can wrangle themselves out of the female money withdrawal mental framework, which is a real challenge and mastermind prerequisite.
    "Money is to Women what Sex is to Men and they coexist". This was a fundamental base for chase between the 2 genders from day dot, Either way, it's a game, i.e., aim is to win without succumbing to the gender opposites' desires."Money is the root to all evil, but that's what makes the world go around."
    Poor men, I pity them in this horrible whirlwind of life. Looking for a good woman nowadays is like finding a "diamond in a tonne if coal"
    I agree with her that social media has destroyed the very fabric of relationships.
    Men are simple and have simple expectations. High grade and honorable status women will value a legacy of their existence in this planet as opposed to a non emotionally investing women that will only chase money to only see its futility at the end..hence zero life lived and no outcome but the legacy woman got a gold medal and memories for all before she leaves this planet! That's an achievement 👏

    • @phylicia595
      @phylicia595 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We Pakistanis hate her soooo much

  • @boyunderbridge
    @boyunderbridge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Playground? You mean poo ground

  • @alfredhitchcock45
    @alfredhitchcock45 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True women crave time and attention

    • @johnsmith-ht3sy
      @johnsmith-ht3sy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are hard work, and you pay for it. Crazy investment.

  • @nitroxize
    @nitroxize ปีที่แล้ว

    First