“Deep down we’re all scared” is something that’s 100% true, everyone is scared and there’s so much growth in diving into the unknown. Even if everything goes to shit (it won’t) but if it does, you will still come out with so much more knowledge, experience and the knowing that you can do it again. Beautiful vlog, thank you for sharing.
Yeah but her reasons are so misguided. She's criticizing the "male gaze" for making her the way she is. Just be a funny fat girl, I'm sure someone will like you as long as YOUR standards aren't sky high.
i have never commented before but i really want to say this. You are very inspiring, the way you carry yourself, your passion is so clear. Many people like me don’t know what their ambitions are but seeing you doing what you want to do despite your doubts is admirable. Dooby u got this! You don’t have to have life figured out. Those feelings you have will eventually motivate yourself to do better, and before you know it you are healed. U got this im rooting for u dooby ❤
Really appreciate your openness about your childhood and how it’s effecting you now as an adult. This video makes me want to dig deeper in therapy and open up more. We are expected to just grind and get over past traumas and keep going when in reality, it’s always with us. Takes energy of its own just to get through the day let alone all the endeavors you’re currently doing. Proud of you!!
Aww, I wish I could tell you in person how awesome I think you are. I'm old enough to be your mom. I'd be over the moon proud of you for the things youve done and will be doing!! The ONLY failures are when we don't even try or take chances. As long as you are trying, even if you're feeling like you're failing, you're still trying so you havent failed! Hold your head high, be proud of being such a beautiful, smart, independent, hard working, funny, kind and determined soul!! You are so young and have done more then some folks (me included lol) will do in their entire lives. Don't let anyone else's support, or lack thereof, steer your journey. Your content has always been so well done and easy to watch. You have gifts that when shared with the world, will change lives. Think about the jobs you will create,the friendships you will make and even the ones that don't go well will still help you along the way. The food you share with folks will feel amazing. You cook from the heart and are soon going to be able to share that with so many people. I am nobody, but I AM PROUD OF YOU!!! I was also a chunky kid... I feel ya on all that. I'm 46 and still insecure. You are going to do great, Dooby. No doubt in my mind!!! ♥ I wish you the best in this journey and I'm looking forward to seeing your dreams come to life.
But I love that she spoke a bit about her insecurities and her bullying experience. Like it’s so refreshing to know that there are people who are willing to be real and vulnerable.
She is obviously a serious oenophile. Her expression of gratification, tasting the wine at 9:54, would make any sommelier blush. Made me happy and thirsty. 🍷☹️
dooby watching your vlogs is my therapy... Whenever I'm down i would watch your vlogs and it would lift up my mood and you also encourage me in a lot of ways.... Love you so much and will always support you ❤️❤️❤️
I just lost my job a few days ago and you showing your vulnerability was exactly what I needed. Everyone has doubts, everyone is afraid to fail, and that is apart of the process. Reflecting on your words and having time to process losing my job has shown me that better and exciting things are on the horizon for me, like they are for you. I can't wait to continue to watch your career grow and flourish🧡
I lost my job over a month ago (they got rid of me for being sick even though I had a doctors note, so that’s nice) and I understand how you feel. I’m hoping to get a job by February but meanwhile I’ve feeling so awful. But as you said, we have good things waiting over the horizon ❤
I'm currently jobless and feel so insecure too, I seem to be behind everyone in all the life aspects. Your reflection and openness made realize we all feel insecure and that's okay, we should keep trying. you made my day
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons from childhood). I made the most productive changes in my life when I began practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 40-60% effort into my habits (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my youtube channel. Because historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small-ish, consistent mediocre effort everyday. And it’s crazy how it adds up. I feel like I’m finally building real self esteem.
Seeing you trying to heal in your twenties, made me think how wrong I was when I thou that I am late to healing (I am not even 19 yet). You made me feel like healing never happens overnight, it takes time and effort and mostly brain energy. I feel So proud of you and I think all doobies are too.even if you are not getting support from people you expected to be supportive, we are here for you girl! I believe in your power and ability to achieve more and more than the greatness you achieved already
I know how you feel, I did that work for about 15+ years for remodeling interiors. I did it full time for about a decade. I'm older and have arthritis now. Take it steady. Eat wonderful food like you do. Stay motivated. I wash most of our dishes.
Thank you for being so open Tina, I’m only 23 and feel like a failure. I know that I have time but I feel it slipping from me sometimes. You make me feel like I’m not alone in my feelings. I hope these insecurities go to hell and you become a successful businesswoman!!
It's really a brave thing to show to many people your vulnerable side and ur purpose of it is not just to dump your emotion to us but to tell us that "everyone feel sht in some days and that's okay." & this really gives so much comfort to anyone out there including meee.
it takes a lot to be this vulnerable to such a big audience! you are so strong, and I know you can do anything you want to, the dooby gang will support you forever 💖
Kevin gave "up his life" and moved to you in Korea so I think you are on good ground there !! :) I am sure he saw how you and him could be together and furfill dreams together. :)
After hearing Dooby's thoughts, I really really empathised with her. Thank you Dooby. And you're right. Deep down, everyone is scared for what's to come. I really want to mention a song here. I know it's random, but it gave me such comfort and reassurance. I don't know if most of the people here watched Hospital Playlist s2? But one of their osts called 'Superstar' just reminded me of this video and how we're gonna be okay. If you don't know Korean, searching up the English lyrics would be great. Nobody has to, but if it gives anyone help, that'd be fine with me.
Thanks for opening up about your insecurities and feeling down this year. I, unfortunately/fortunately, can relate to your childhood story and recent feelings quite a bit. I am 27 and feel so incredibly lost and insecure this year, I am questioning every decisions I've made. All I want to do is pack a bag and go to the beach, disappear for a while, if only this was possible.. I know we've got this if we keep moving forward, this adulting shit is just real scary.
Thank you for showing the vulnerable side.. I think that's what we all need. To be able to be vulnerable and not being afraid of it.. :) I loved this video, it was very authentic and honest and right came out from the heart and found its place in our hearts:)
I’ve never been one to enjoy watching vlogs but I came across your videos about a month ago and they have honestly helped me so much. I just recently got out of a relationship around 2 months ago & I related a lot with what you shared today on insecurities and being a serial monogamist. Your videos have helped me get back to myself in some way, inspiring me to do more things on my own and truly enjoying my solitude. I know you have a lot on your plate rn with the restaurant, family, and what not but I wanna let you know your work truly is inspiring and admirable ❤ just remember these feelings will pass and everything is temporary so might as well enjoy the journey
Thank you wholeheartedly for sharing your childhood story and what is happening in your life now! We cherish you! Remember, we love you for who you really are, Tina! YOU are the very best! Looking forward to more videos from you! Take care of yourself! 🙏🏼💜
I love dooby so much because she shows her ups and downs, we have saw all the parts of her, i also love this journey. she inspires me to get out of my comfort zone and live life!!! You are the best and keep going dooby we are here for you no matter what!!!! 🥺💗💗
Tina im really thankful from you to be real and honest and to show ups and downs. Im tired of watching people living a perfect life. The way you vlog, although im kms away but i genuinely feel your happiness and sadness and all the emotions you go through. Thank you. Btw your doing great believe me. You got this (you already knew just a reminder..)
Dooby, i love watching your shorts but i dont think ive ever properly watched one of your videos but im so glad i did. i feel like i somehow could connect with someone through this and suprisingly felt understood and heard by your experiences right now. i love how vulnerable you are and how much it motivates, inspires me to push through. i havent cried in weeks but this made me tear up and im so so grateful for your channel. keep doing your best, im cheering you on and thank you "its going to be okay" keeps replaying through my head, im grateful for your comfort!!!
I appreciate your honesty, because it is very relateable. You are an awesome person. From the ability to think critically, have incredible work ethic, take on challenges to better yourself, and you're an amazing cook and editor, there is nothing about you that isn't wonderful. You are a good person, and I really do appreciate your content. So Thank You
I’ve been balling my eyes out today after some personal stuff happened recently and I clicked on this video. I feel every words you said. I was a chubby kid as well, struggled with self image for a long time, now I’m fit and have no problem getting attention and all that, but deep down I never fully become secure even though I really tried. The feeling of nobody would ever truly accept who I am and keep loving me is hitting me so hard, bc I have no problem doing this for others, but never reciprocate the same treatment. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side and I feel you! Hang in there❤ You are already doing so many amazing things at a young age!
Dooby…thank you for being transparent about this season in your life! I am actually in the process of opening my own restaurant and these past few days have felt extremely daunting. The stress of living up to others standards and my own are a lot to shoulder. Watching your videos have really given me solace and I don’t feel as alone. The anxiety eats away at me but I know it is also fulfilling and I have worked really hard to get to this point. I’m proud of us! I’m cheering you on and hopefully I will be able to visit your restaurant the next time I’m in Korea.
I just adore you and everything you’ve experienced with your insecurities resonated because I’ve been through similar. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us. Love you Dooby❤
I’ve been having the exact same thoughts these past few weeks and I haven’t told anyone so thank you for sharing your feelings with us and for making us feel like we’re not alone. We can’t wait for you to open up your restaurant!!! We’ll be visiting from the Philippines 🤍
I am starting my own business in 2023 as well because I've been wanting too for a while and recently I've been overwhelmed by how much work it is just to set up the business in the state and federal govts eyes. I cried a lot just thinking about it and I have a lot going on at the same time and hearing you talk about your own insecurities made me feel so validated in my feelings and I appreciate your "it's gonna be okay". Thank you for sharing your journey, you are such an inspiration for me to continue doing what I wanna do. Keep going, you're doing great! I hope when I get to go to Korea I can go and eat at your place!
you have no idea how much i love and appreciate you opening up to us and the honesty you give. you are a light in this dark world. thank you for being so amazing, dooby. you are truly, truly loved
Hey Dooby I resonate with those insecurities and I got a better grip around things when I went for therapy. Specifically with therapy that addresses my childhood/my inner child that has been lost through the years growing up. This journey is definitely a roller coaster ride, sending love from Singapore 🇸🇬 ❤
Thank you so much for sharing something so deeply to you Dooby. Being someone who felt such insecurities due to being bullied in school..it feels relatable. At the same time seeing you so strong and successful now, also feels inspiring to work hard for your passions and dreams.
It was so nice to see that you are doing well in your journey. Although you may have a lot of difficulties, you have been doing everything constantly. Life is a constant journey, so we are becoming a perfect version in our own journey! Love you sis !
I appreciate that you shared your thoughts and opened up so much, it must have taken a lot of courage and maturity. One of the better vlogs on your channel, you definitely stand out from other vloggers whose videos are empty and don't add anything to the viewer's life. Love ya
Dooby, thanks for being vulnerable. It made my realize that I'm not the only one. Sometimes I wish I was not that sensitive or insecure at all, because I feel like a burden to the people I love most of the times. I have always wished I was different and that I was not this "weak". I wish I could put a positive spin towards the end of this comment, but I can't. I'm still in the joirney towards trying to be better at handling my emotions and insecurities and hoping one day that I would be able to get a hold of my emotions. Keep believing you're worthy!!!
Never commented on a yt video, but really love all your videos, your energy. The way you share not only your recipes but also your struggles. I feel very identified with many of yours. And for todays video, I have been feeling like you lately, and had some similar issues in the way I connect with people, thanks for sharing yours, really make me feel better and realised it’s fine and it’ll be ok! You’re an inspiration!
Mama Dooby is here imma watch the video i was feeling low your video will definitely help me and when I read the title i was how the hell this woman is insecure but i guess we all have bad days sending you virtual hugs you will be fine soon ❤️
Today its been an entire year since I followed you. I have seen you grown so much in 1 year and its been very inspiring to me. It was very real seeing you be so open about the issues you talked and it really felt great to see that. It is probably because it is always easier to publicize your achievements, but what you shared takes a lot more. Hats off to you Tina !!
Love your content! You're doing very ambitious things, it's natural to feel uncertain, but it looks like you have good support. It'll be okay, no matter what happens.
i've been watching your renovation journey quite anxiously since i know it's a hecking ton of work, being an interior architect myself - especially for a hospitality space. i always recommend people to seek advice from architect/ design professional before starting any project just to have a better understanding of what you're actually dealing with (given you manage to find the right people to start the conversation) glad that you seem to have found a good creative partner on this journey & excited to see how you guys realise the space together!
I've been feeling this exact same way with the insecure thoughts putting me down for a while and I just wanted to say thank you Tina for opening up and making me feel not so alone in these feelings. Your honesty and vulnerability is one of the coolest things about you ❤️
YOUR CREATING AMAZING CONTENT!! AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS STORM!! i relate to you so soo much and legit seeing you fight through the same issues i have gives me more motivation than those motivation vieos on yt. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
heyyy you can do it babes! you’ve come so far and accomplished so much. i also started my own business without my parents support and without having contact with them- it’s hard but believe in yourself no matter what! you are limitless~
Thank you for always being so transparent and vulnerable with your community. It really took me back to my childhood experience and how tough it was to be feel like an outsider and being bullied for the way I looked. But look at you now! You are the woman that you are today because of it. Little you would be so proud. The big surprise was me hearing you’re from Calgary as well! Come back and visit :)
she is so sweet, showing us her strengths and her weaknesses. we need more people who will show the reality of being human, because we all have our problems and some people act like they don't wich makes me feel insecure. thanks Doby
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings dooby💖 I hope you are feeling much better. A lot of us definitely relate to feeling so down all of a sudden even if things are working out. I recently read somewhere that we are always more capable than we feel and that we are always doing better than we think we are. Its okay to pause to be reminded of the good things.💖
Hey dooby 👋 first time caller here. Just sending some appreciation for your vulnerability and honesty all the way from Rhode Island, USA. Your vlogs have helped me understand some fellow humans in my own life in ways I didn't expect. Keep doing what you're doing - this internet stranger is affirming that your impact is so much larger than you know. And good luck on the restaurant renovations! 🙌
It’s gonna be okay 🥹💗- Ty for sharing this message dooby..I know how it is to no longer have the support from family. It’s funny how when we do what we really love and what our heart tells us is right, it can sometimes draw us apart from our loved ones. Doing what is right can sometimes feel lonely but you’re inspiring to so many and if you keep doing what you know is right then all the right people will come around. Your inner circle will grow and it’ll be with the healthiest people for you- keep going. You got this. Take some extra rest time when you need it. As a fellow content creator I’m telling you we HAVE to find little ways to take extra breaks to avoid burnout. Hugs dooby thanks again for sharing your journey with us! You got this dood
I like these talks you have directly into the camera that open up about the difficult parts of growing up and how it changes you as an adult. I think about it a lot but don't have anyone but a psychotherapist to talk about any of it with and even then, it's once a week.
This video....really helped :) Was having a tough day today and feeling pretty insecure (and pretty failure-ish) and it really did help to see this. Thanks for being honest dooby
I really needed this video today! Been really stressed out lately because of the whole college applications process and everything you said is very relatable rn. And Yes everything is gonna be okay! Thanks for making this video 💜 Lots of best wishes for your new restaurant!🌻
I’ve never commented on a TH-cam video before, but this resonated so much with me in so many ways. Please never stop creating your content I love it so much
Thank you for sharing, and don't be so hard on yourself, ten years from now you will sit back and wish that you didn't let other ppl make you so stressed out and worried, enjoy each day, life is precious :)
Love your videos so much Dooby. Your videos helped me get through an incredibly difficult period when I was and felt totally alone - thank you for doing what you do!
you have such a deft hand with storytelling. what i’d give for a tenth of your editing aptitude. even if the entire restaurant project failed from top to bottom, we’d go on the journey with you and resonate with your content. but i think that project will work out, in time. i think you’re doing a great job ❤
I got emotional when you got so real with us, thanks for sharing your life's journey. This video made me really reflect that its 2023, feel like I've been on autopilot...
I really love the way you r so bold & legit about the things going on in ur life. It really helps & comforts tat there r people going through the same stuff... Also the anxiety of being on ur own & the burden to take care of urself & another human must be really tough . I know you are strong "D" to handle all this on ur own but tats a very heavy weight to carry on for long. I really look up to you . I also think tat ur parents r not wrong on what they disapprove of. They always know better even if they may not be modern like us. I'm saying this cuz I have been on ur shoes. Like wounds , relationship with parents may take time to heal but try to mend it little by little from ur side, just a suggestion. Its never too late . You don't have to change any thing ,just reach out to them. It may take time but i'm hopeful they they will slowly accept it. Take care ❤️
Thank you, you always manage to inspire me somehow, showing vulnerability is tuff and still the most beautiful gift one can make, in particular in this hard world..
“Deep down we’re all scared” is something that’s 100% true, everyone is scared and there’s so much growth in diving into the unknown. Even if everything goes to shit (it won’t) but if it does, you will still come out with so much more knowledge, experience and the knowing that you can do it again. Beautiful vlog, thank you for sharing.
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize^
Thanks for showing us your vulnerabilities as a person. You've shown us that it's okay not to feel okay sometimes.
Playlist to listen to WHEN you DREAM th-cam.com/video/wWJ-8PuUXVo/w-d-xo.html
bruh sophia from ysf
So youre saying you didnt know that before this vid
Like the kdrama
Yeah but her reasons are so misguided. She's criticizing the "male gaze" for making her the way she is. Just be a funny fat girl, I'm sure someone will like you as long as YOUR standards aren't sky high.
i have never commented before but i really want to say this. You are very inspiring, the way you carry yourself, your passion is so clear. Many people like me don’t know what their ambitions are but seeing you doing what you want to do despite your doubts is admirable. Dooby u got this! You don’t have to have life figured out. Those feelings you have will eventually motivate yourself to do better, and before you know it you are healed. U got this im rooting for u dooby ❤
Really appreciate your openness about your childhood and how it’s effecting you now as an adult. This video makes me want to dig deeper in therapy and open up more. We are expected to just grind and get over past traumas and keep going when in reality, it’s always with us. Takes energy of its own just to get through the day let alone all the endeavors you’re currently doing. Proud of you!!
Agree 100%. Opening up is the key, and that happens a lot on this channel, which is why I enjoy tuning in.
Playlist to listen to WHEN you DREAM th-cam.com/video/wWJ-8PuUXVo/w-d-xo.html
Aww, I wish I could tell you in person how awesome I think you are. I'm old enough to be your mom. I'd be over the moon proud of you for the things youve done and will be doing!! The ONLY failures are when we don't even try or take chances. As long as you are trying, even if you're feeling like you're failing, you're still trying so you havent failed! Hold your head high, be proud of being such a beautiful, smart, independent, hard working, funny, kind and determined soul!! You are so young and have done more then some folks (me included lol) will do in their entire lives. Don't let anyone else's support, or lack thereof, steer your journey. Your content has always been so well done and easy to watch. You have gifts that when shared with the world, will change lives. Think about the jobs you will create,the friendships you will make and even the ones that don't go well will still help you along the way. The food you share with folks will feel amazing. You cook from the heart and are soon going to be able to share that with so many people. I am nobody, but I AM PROUD OF YOU!!! I was also a chunky kid... I feel ya on all that. I'm 46 and still insecure. You are going to do great, Dooby. No doubt in my mind!!! ♥ I wish you the best in this journey and I'm looking forward to seeing your dreams come to life.
Gosh this made me tear up. Hope she read it and is encouraged.
But I love that she spoke a bit about her insecurities and her bullying experience. Like it’s so refreshing to know that there are people who are willing to be real and vulnerable.
I love following ur journey its so entertaining and eye opening that how much it really takes to start a business!
watching dooby eat makes me happy
Same... and watching her cook!
She is obviously a serious oenophile. Her expression of gratification, tasting the wine at 9:54, would make any sommelier blush. Made me happy and thirsty. 🍷☹️
dooby watching your vlogs is my therapy... Whenever I'm down i would watch your vlogs and it would lift up my mood and you also encourage me in a lot of ways.... Love you so much and will always support you ❤️❤️❤️
True that, this channel is definitely a 'mood lifter'... 🙏
I just lost my job a few days ago and you showing your vulnerability was exactly what I needed. Everyone has doubts, everyone is afraid to fail, and that is apart of the process. Reflecting on your words and having time to process losing my job has shown me that better and exciting things are on the horizon for me, like they are for you. I can't wait to continue to watch your career grow and flourish🧡
Regret to hear about your job loss!
Praying you get a new and better job!
God bless you! 🙏
@@manuelm5664 that is so kind of you thank you
I lost my job over a month ago (they got rid of me for being sick even though I had a doctors note, so that’s nice) and I understand how you feel. I’m hoping to get a job by February but meanwhile I’ve feeling so awful. But as you said, we have good things waiting over the horizon ❤
I'm currently jobless and feel so insecure too, I seem to be behind everyone in all the life aspects. Your reflection and openness made realize we all feel insecure and that's okay, we should keep trying. you made my day
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons from childhood).
I made the most productive changes in my life when I began practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 40-60% effort into my habits (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my youtube channel.
Because historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small-ish, consistent mediocre effort everyday. And it’s crazy how it adds up. I feel like I’m finally building real self esteem.
I’d never heard that quote before but it resonated with me. Will def have to keep that in mind.
Seeing you trying to heal in your twenties, made me think how wrong I was when I thou that I am late to healing (I am not even 19 yet). You made me feel like healing never happens overnight, it takes time and effort and mostly brain energy. I feel So proud of you and I think all doobies are too.even if you are not getting support from people you expected to be supportive, we are here for you girl! I believe in your power and ability to achieve more and more than the greatness you achieved already
"ITS GONNA BE OKAY" gave me support and helped me to cope up to the struggle im going thru thanks and love you!
I know how you feel, I did that work for about 15+ years for remodeling interiors. I did it full time for about a decade. I'm older and have arthritis now. Take it steady. Eat wonderful food like you do. Stay motivated.
I wash most of our dishes.
i appreciate how transparent you are with being vulnerable, it's truly a strength.
Thank you for being so open Tina, I’m only 23 and feel like a failure. I know that I have time but I feel it slipping from me sometimes. You make me feel like I’m not alone in my feelings. I hope these insecurities go to hell and you become a successful businesswoman!!
You're not alone don't worry ❤️
everytime I watch dooby's vlogs, I feel relaxed and motivated 😍💖💕❤❤🤍🤍🔥🔥✨
Wow seeing a person that you really admire open up about her insicurities creates a very empathic connection. I truly resonate with her words.
It's really a brave thing to show to many people your vulnerable side and ur purpose of it is not just to dump your emotion to us but to tell us that "everyone feel sht in some days and that's okay." & this really gives so much comfort to anyone out there including meee.
it takes a lot to be this vulnerable to such a big audience! you are so strong, and I know you can do anything you want to, the dooby gang will support you forever 💖
The real influencer, you are gonna go really far believe me. So proud of you.
Kevin gave "up his life" and moved to you in Korea so I think you are on good ground there !! :) I am sure he saw how you and him could be together and furfill dreams together. :)
After hearing Dooby's thoughts, I really really empathised with her. Thank you Dooby. And you're right. Deep down, everyone is scared for what's to come.
I really want to mention a song here. I know it's random, but it gave me such comfort and reassurance. I don't know if most of the people here watched Hospital Playlist s2? But one of their osts called 'Superstar' just reminded me of this video and how we're gonna be okay. If you don't know Korean, searching up the English lyrics would be great. Nobody has to, but if it gives anyone help, that'd be fine with me.
Playlist to listen to WHEN you DREAM th-cam.com/video/wWJ-8PuUXVo/w-d-xo.html
Thanks for opening up about your insecurities and feeling down this year. I, unfortunately/fortunately, can relate to your childhood story and recent feelings quite a bit. I am 27 and feel so incredibly lost and insecure this year, I am questioning every decisions I've made. All I want to do is pack a bag and go to the beach, disappear for a while, if only this was possible.. I know we've got this if we keep moving forward, this adulting shit is just real scary.
Thank you for showing the vulnerable side.. I think that's what we all need. To be able to be vulnerable and not being afraid of it.. :) I loved this video, it was very authentic and honest and right came out from the heart and found its place in our hearts:)
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize^
It feels so personal when she talks to us. Like i am sitting in front of her and listening to her. Its great tbh
I’ve never been one to enjoy watching vlogs but I came across your videos about a month ago and they have honestly helped me so much. I just recently got out of a relationship around 2 months ago & I related a lot with what you shared today on insecurities and being a serial monogamist. Your videos have helped me get back to myself in some way, inspiring me to do more things on my own and truly enjoying my solitude. I know you have a lot on your plate rn with the restaurant, family, and what not but I wanna let you know your work truly is inspiring and admirable ❤ just remember these feelings will pass and everything is temporary so might as well enjoy the journey
Thank you wholeheartedly for sharing your childhood story and what is happening in your life now! We cherish you! Remember, we love you for who you really are, Tina! YOU are the very best! Looking forward to more videos from you! Take care of yourself! 🙏🏼💜
I love dooby so much because she shows her ups and downs, we have saw all the parts of her, i also love this journey. she inspires me to get out of my comfort zone and live life!!!
You are the best and keep going dooby we are here for you no matter what!!!! 🥺💗💗
Tina im really thankful from you to be real and honest and to show ups and downs. Im tired of watching people living a perfect life. The way you vlog, although im kms away but i genuinely feel your happiness and sadness and all the emotions you go through. Thank you. Btw your doing great believe me.
You got this (you already knew just a reminder..)
Being this honest and openly vulnerable is giving you such strength!!! And to me as well I am so motivated to be this open as well it's so healing
Stay strong tina!♥️
Giving you so much props for making content while starting your business! So motivating 😍🥹🥰
Dooby, i love watching your shorts but i dont think ive ever properly watched one of your videos but im so glad i did. i feel like i somehow could connect with someone through this and suprisingly felt understood and heard by your experiences right now. i love how vulnerable you are and how much it motivates, inspires me to push through. i havent cried in weeks but this made me tear up and im so so grateful for your channel.
keep doing your best, im cheering you on and thank you
"its going to be okay" keeps replaying through my head, im grateful for your comfort!!!
I appreciate your honesty, because it is very relateable. You are an awesome person. From the ability to think critically, have incredible work ethic, take on challenges to better yourself, and you're an amazing cook and editor, there is nothing about you that isn't wonderful.
You are a good person, and I really do appreciate your content. So Thank You
You’re courageous! Let it out, cause I’m with ya!
I’ve been balling my eyes out today after some personal stuff happened recently and I clicked on this video. I feel every words you said. I was a chubby kid as well, struggled with self image for a long time, now I’m fit and have no problem getting attention and all that, but deep down I never fully become secure even though I really tried. The feeling of nobody would ever truly accept who I am and keep loving me is hitting me so hard, bc I have no problem doing this for others, but never reciprocate the same treatment. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side and I feel you! Hang in there❤ You are already doing so many amazing things at a young age!
Thanks for being so vulnerable with us. Love from Texas!
Dooby…thank you for being transparent about this season in your life! I am actually in the process of opening my own restaurant and these past few days have felt extremely daunting. The stress of living up to others standards and my own are a lot to shoulder. Watching your videos have really given me solace and I don’t feel as alone. The anxiety eats away at me but I know it is also fulfilling and I have worked really hard to get to this point. I’m proud of us! I’m cheering you on and hopefully I will be able to visit your restaurant the next time I’m in Korea.
I just adore you and everything you’ve experienced with your insecurities resonated because I’ve been through similar. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us. Love you Dooby❤
i really needed to hear someone else share their insecurities especially when they sort of match mine... so thank you a bunch
I’ve been having the exact same thoughts these past few weeks and I haven’t told anyone so thank you for sharing your feelings with us and for making us feel like we’re not alone.
We can’t wait for you to open up your restaurant!!! We’ll be visiting from the Philippines 🤍
I am starting my own business in 2023 as well because I've been wanting too for a while and recently I've been overwhelmed by how much work it is just to set up the business in the state and federal govts eyes. I cried a lot just thinking about it and I have a lot going on at the same time and hearing you talk about your own insecurities made me feel so validated in my feelings and I appreciate your "it's gonna be okay". Thank you for sharing your journey, you are such an inspiration for me to continue doing what I wanna do. Keep going, you're doing great! I hope when I get to go to Korea I can go and eat at your place!
thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. much needed in the online sphere these days
youve became my comfort person in just a day of watching series of ur uploads, i felt that. i hope u peace of mind cos u desrve it sm girlie ily
you have no idea how much i love and appreciate you opening up to us and the honesty you give. you are a light in this dark world. thank you for being so amazing, dooby. you are truly, truly loved
Hey Dooby I resonate with those insecurities and I got a better grip around things when I went for therapy. Specifically with therapy that addresses my childhood/my inner child that has been lost through the years growing up.
This journey is definitely a roller coaster ride, sending love from Singapore 🇸🇬 ❤
the level i relate to your insecurities is crazy, love what you do. major inspo. keep doing you dooby
Thank you so much for sharing something so deeply to you Dooby. Being someone who felt such insecurities due to being bullied in school..it feels relatable. At the same time seeing you so strong and successful now, also feels inspiring to work hard for your passions and dreams.
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize!!
I always love when a creator/influencer show's his or her real side on camera like dooby ❤️
Agreed!
@@FlavorofMind ❤️
It was so nice to see that you are doing well in your journey. Although you may have a lot of difficulties, you have been doing everything constantly. Life is a constant journey, so we are becoming a perfect version in our own journey! Love you sis !
It's Hard... But you've got this Dooby !!! More power to you and anyone who is going through similar train of thoughts. 💐
Nicely said. There are so many people who go through (and are going through) these kinds of anxieties...
This is gonna be one of those videos that I'm gonna rewatch whenever I feel low.... ❤
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize^ ,
I appreciate that you shared your thoughts and opened up so much, it must have taken a lot of courage and maturity. One of the better vlogs on your channel, you definitely stand out from other vloggers whose videos are empty and don't add anything to the viewer's life. Love ya
I'm so glad you are getting help making the restaurant your vision.
Can't wait to see it all come true for you!
Dooby, thanks for being vulnerable. It made my realize that I'm not the only one. Sometimes I wish I was not that sensitive or insecure at all, because I feel like a burden to the people I love most of the times. I have always wished I was different and that I was not this "weak". I wish I could put a positive spin towards the end of this comment, but I can't. I'm still in the joirney towards trying to be better at handling my emotions and insecurities and hoping one day that I would be able to get a hold of my emotions. Keep believing you're worthy!!!
Thanks for showing us all the hard work your going through with the reno and everything else. Your doing a awesome job
Never commented on a yt video, but really love all your videos, your energy. The way you share not only your recipes but also your struggles. I feel very identified with many of yours. And for todays video, I have been feeling like you lately, and had some similar issues in the way I connect with people, thanks for sharing yours, really make me feel better and realised it’s fine and it’ll be ok! You’re an inspiration!
Mama Dooby is here imma watch the video i was feeling low your video will definitely help me and when I read the title i was how the hell this woman is insecure but i guess we all have bad days sending you virtual hugs you will be fine soon ❤️
Today its been an entire year since I followed you. I have seen you grown so much in 1 year and its been very inspiring to me. It was very real seeing you be so open about the issues you talked and it really felt great to see that. It is probably because it is always easier to publicize your achievements, but what you shared takes a lot more.
Hats off to you Tina !!
Love your content! You're doing very ambitious things, it's natural to feel uncertain, but it looks like you have good support. It'll be okay, no matter what happens.
Thank you for your transparency ❤ it really helped me get out of my own personal funk 🥰
i've been watching your renovation journey quite anxiously since i know it's a hecking ton of work, being an interior architect myself - especially for a hospitality space. i always recommend people to seek advice from architect/ design professional before starting any project just to have a better understanding of what you're actually dealing with (given you manage to find the right people to start the conversation) glad that you seem to have found a good creative partner on this journey & excited to see how you guys realise the space together!
I've been feeling this exact same way with the insecure thoughts putting me down for a while and I just wanted to say thank you Tina for opening up and making me feel not so alone in these feelings. Your honesty and vulnerability is one of the coolest things about you ❤️
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize^
The music choices in your videos are always 🔥✨️💕
OMLLL THE FOOD LOOKS LENG 🫶🏽🫶🏽 QUEEN UR ARE BEAUTIFUL UR PERSONALITY IS LEGENDARY
YOUR CREATING AMAZING CONTENT!! AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS STORM!! i relate to you so soo much and legit seeing you fight through the same issues i have gives me more motivation than those motivation vieos on yt. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
heyyy you can do it babes! you’ve come so far and accomplished so much. i also started my own business without my parents support and without having contact with them- it’s hard but believe in yourself no matter what! you are limitless~
Thank you for always being so transparent and vulnerable with your community. It really took me back to my childhood experience and how tough it was to be feel like an outsider and being bullied for the way I looked. But look at you now! You are the woman that you are today because of it. Little you would be so proud.
The big surprise was me hearing you’re from Calgary as well! Come back and visit :)
she is so sweet, showing us her strengths and her weaknesses. we need more people who will show the reality of being human, because we all have our problems and some people act like they don't wich makes me feel insecure. thanks Doby
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings dooby💖 I hope you are feeling much better. A lot of us definitely relate to feeling so down all of a sudden even if things are working out. I recently read somewhere that we are always more capable than we feel and that we are always doing better than we think we are. Its okay to pause to be reminded of the good things.💖
Hey dooby 👋 first time caller here. Just sending some appreciation for your vulnerability and honesty all the way from Rhode Island, USA. Your vlogs have helped me understand some fellow humans in my own life in ways I didn't expect. Keep doing what you're doing - this internet stranger is affirming that your impact is so much larger than you know. And good luck on the restaurant renovations! 🙌
It’s gonna be okay 🥹💗- Ty for sharing this message dooby..I know how it is to no longer have the support from family. It’s funny how when we do what we really love and what our heart tells us is right, it can sometimes draw us apart from our loved ones. Doing what is right can sometimes feel lonely but you’re inspiring to so many and if you keep doing what you know is right then all the right people will come around. Your inner circle will grow and it’ll be with the healthiest people for you- keep going. You got this. Take some extra rest time when you need it. As a fellow content creator I’m telling you we HAVE to find little ways to take extra breaks to avoid burnout. Hugs dooby thanks again for sharing your journey with us! You got this dood
4:22 happy that ya decided to finally get some professional help with the building of your restaurant. 💜💕
I like these talks you have directly into the camera that open up about the difficult parts of growing up and how it changes you as an adult. I think about it a lot but don't have anyone but a psychotherapist to talk about any of it with and even then, it's once a week.
When you said it's gonna be okay 😢 thank you tina, I needed that
Thank you for being vulnerable about that, I can relate to some level and yeah its very difficult but we will get through it!!!!
This video....really helped :) Was having a tough day today and feeling pretty insecure (and pretty failure-ish) and it really did help to see this. Thanks for being honest dooby
Thank you for what you said about insecurities,it really helped me think about life in a different way and i'm happier now.
I really needed this video today! Been really stressed out lately because of the whole college applications process and everything you said is very relatable rn.
And Yes everything is gonna be okay!
Thanks for making this video 💜
Lots of best wishes for your new restaurant!🌻
I’ve never commented on a TH-cam video before, but this resonated so much with me in so many ways. Please never stop creating your content I love it so much
thank you for being so wholesome and real. we love you dooby
Thank you for sharing, and don't be so hard on yourself, ten years from now you will sit back and wish that you didn't let other ppl make you so stressed out and worried, enjoy each day, life is precious :)
So much strength and courage. You’ve got us and we’ve got you!
I love your honesty and appreciate it so much❤️
You’re doing amazing. Like you’re truly changing the game.
Love your videos so much Dooby. Your videos helped me get through an incredibly difficult period when I was and felt totally alone - thank you for doing what you do!
omg yay an upload from dooby is one of my mini highlights each week :)
you have such a deft hand with storytelling. what i’d give for a tenth of your editing aptitude. even if the entire restaurant project failed from top to bottom, we’d go on the journey with you and resonate with your content. but i think that project will work out, in time. i think you’re doing a great job ❤
this really spoke to my soul. feeling much less alone. love you Tina 🥺
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize^
I got emotional when you got so real with us, thanks for sharing your life's journey. This video made me really reflect that its 2023, feel like I've been on autopilot...
it was a pleasure meeting you, Tina. looking forward to continue working with you! - David 중꺾마
Can’t wait to see the result
I really love the way you r so bold & legit about the things going on in ur life. It really helps & comforts tat there r people going through the same stuff...
Also the anxiety of being on ur own & the burden to take care of urself & another human must be really tough . I know you are strong "D" to handle all this on ur own but tats a very heavy weight to carry on for long.
I really look up to you . I also think tat ur parents r not wrong on what they disapprove of. They always know better even if they may not be modern like us. I'm saying this cuz I have been on ur shoes.
Like wounds , relationship with parents may take time to heal but try to mend it little by little from ur side, just a suggestion. Its never too late .
You don't have to change any thing ,just reach out to them. It may take time but i'm hopeful they they will slowly accept it. Take care ❤️
☝️☝️ Thanks for watching you have been selected among my lucky winners message me on Telegram name above to claim your prize!!
You have been my comfort go to creator.
Thank you for being you Dooby. Much love💌
When you said, “it’s going to be ok” I really felt it. We’re all in this till together and being guided home.
And ps I am also having a bath filled with essential oils
You’re a brave woman. We love and respect you for who you are. It’s okay to feel like that, it really do be like that sometimes.
Thank you Dooby. I really needed to hear that today.
I'll be rooting for you and your new business!
Thank you, you always manage to inspire me somehow, showing vulnerability is tuff and still the most beautiful gift one can make, in particular in this hard world..
thank you for sharing, Dooby. feelings of unworthiness are so common and so hard to kick.