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The best relationships are when you don’t need to meet each other everyday. It’s all about being consistent and putting in effort to making it work. Sounds like the type of relationship you have - very happy for you! 😊
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So so true. Wishing them the best ❤
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There’s different types of best relationships for everyone! :)
You trying to say that couples that see each other everyday are unhealthy or something?
I was in a long distance relationship with my now husband for 4 years and because of COVID we weren’t able to see each other for 3 long years but we made it work. We are now married and together permanently. Good things take time indeed. Always cheering you, Dooby!
Long distance relationships almost never work.
I was in a similar situation with my now husband before covid and I can agree that it’s worth it 😅 tough but worth it
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder”, but it also provides an opportunity for someone else to step in! I’ve seen many long distance relationships fail. The key is to have a defined plan of eventual long term reconciliation. Otherwise love can dissipate, and one left with the memory of what could of been.
@@michaelpark5681 It really depends on how long you don't see each other. i was lucky that my work send me to Korea every 2 months for at least a month. But when you hear some people not seeing each other for a year... that is something we both would never be able to hold on too.
How did you handle the need for a cock I forreal would like to know pls thanks.
the storytelling with the text and cooking is so nice to watch.
I’ve been in a long distance relationship for about 14 months now, and I’m moving to live with him in two months. Trust me, this long distance thing it’s not the ideal, but it makes the relationship build up stronger because you have to focus in make it work without the touch. In my case, watching TV shows together helped a lot, and also being 100% clear in how we were feeling all the time. You got this dooby
yh id say that skills developed from long distance can be highly valuable. also proving that the relationship can work long distance too proves the strength of the bond imo
mmm i'd agree, but having witnessed a divorce after 6 years of long distance - moving in will reveal things about your partner you previously did not know.
Long distance can happen even if you are in same city with strict household 😅😅
Plus side to long distance relationships is you really learn to communicate. You're building a relationship based trust and faith. The energy needed to maintain a long distance relationship is not an easy thing to keep up with, but it’s positive energy that will help the relationship grow. You'll find ways to fill in those missing holes that a physical relationship has, but it'll strengthen it even more. It's an obstacle that you have to overcome if it's meant to be. Best wishes for you! :).
I agree, not just for romantic relationships but relationship with friends and family too. As currently me and some of my friends have a long distance friendship
This is my first time watching a full video from you and seeing you being so raw with your being and emotion is truly refreshing. This is my first time in awhile where I felt so connected with the creator and I thought to myself:" I would love to sit and chill with her and talk about whatever!"
Your videos have genuinely changed the way I take care of myself. I never thought it was worth my time to cook meals I enjoyed so I'd revert to unhealthy stuff or takeout food, but your vids have made me slow down and treat myself RIGHT lmao. Trying to keep my kitchen clean and use the cooking time to decompress! (Also this recipe was delicious)
I'm loving the bangs and your vlogs ❤️❤️ you always make my day so much better!
long distance is never easy but if theres an effort on both sides its worth it alsoo lovee how ur uploading constantly love the content mama dooby
So well said ❤
It’s really not. Long distance is for people in denial
@@sus425 what is it?
@@sus425 I completely agree. I was in a LDR for a while myself. It honestly breaks my heart that all these people in the comments are lying to Tina about how it's gonna work out and this and that and the other. LDRs work out probably 1% of the time on a good day, and if it does it most likely won't last that long. Way to much effort and sleepless night because of the time difference for something that has less than 1% chance of working out. I wish her good luck either way.
Been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years now (7 hour time difference), and it's been tough especially during covid. But it has also been the most rewarding relationship where I've been forced to take it slow, learn more about myself and my partner. It also has forced me to learn how to deal with being alone and to find things that make me happy on my own. In the end, I would not change a day. I hope that in the end you find that the struggles have given you more strength rather than taken anything away from you! Love your videos btw, the vibes are so relatable ❤
I never had a long-distance relationship but actually much more supportive since you've talked about it. I'm in love with the idea of love.
for those who live long distance from friends and family (especially with multiple time zones 🫠), we’ll get through it!
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I totally felt it when u said"my love language is quality time and physical touch" and that is so me! I was in long distance relationship for almost 3 years and it got so hard for me to stay put.. and eventually it didn't work, but the funny part is we're still great friends(idk what people might think about it but its okay).
Sometimes long distance relationships can be really good, because they help you still maintain a sense of personal identity. You also learn to really appreciate that person and their presence, you can really easily see the value they bring into your life. Once you are able to be together all the time again, I think the relationship can be a lot more profound than the average relationship
As others have stated long distance relationships are very difficult. One pro to them is when things do work out you both tend to develop a very healthy level of communication with each other. Personally that is something I value a lot in a relationship. My longest relationship was just shy of 4 years and it was a long distance relationship. She unfortunately passed away a month before we hit 4 years but I genuinely wouldn't be the person I am now without her and it's been 4 years since then.
That's awesome and heavy at the same time, hope you're doing well!
@@Launders- Thanks that's very kind of you to say. I'm doing alright. Just trying to be the best version of myself that I can be. She would kick my ass if I weren't trying 🤣.
@@whatgoshere yeah, thats awesome.
Sending love. ❤
tbh sometimes I just sit down and eat with your video playing in front of me 😌you’re just such a chill person and I’m so glad that you’re doing better!! I would be one of those people in the comments trying to relate to you with the long distance relationships butttttt can’t say I’ve ever been in any relationship before lol
Crumble has you "yuking your yum".
Long Distance isn't easy and it's certainly more work than a normal relationship, but it's worth it when it works out. Every relationship has ups and downs and that's just the way life goes. I wish you and your boyfriend luck, happiness and joy
It won't last.
@@michaelpark5681 Jeez... what is your issue
@@michaelpark5681 you continue to be all over her comments section video after video . You’re not going to get her attention (or her ) by this continuous hate you spew all over her comments . It’s boring now . Get a life so you don’t have to be so bitter constantly
@@michaelpark5681 Damn. So you can see the future eh? Can you see which finger I'm holding up at ya? 😉
@@michaelpark5681 this is totally unnecessary 😒
Long distance relationships can become the best because your effort shows caring. I come here for the vibes.
If Costco is your therapy, your vlogs are mine. I love them so much, they put me at ease from all the studying stress I've been having from college, thank you doobyy!
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Your vlogs are very refreshing to me. Your rice looks sooo good.
Sending lots of love from the states. Hoping all is well! Thanks for the amazing vlogs and being personal with doobies. You'll always have our support
yayyyyy! Ur uploading consistently now! and your videos are just so relaxing to watch! i cant stop watching them. they’e so satisfying! stay healthy ❤
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I’ve now been in a long distance relationship for 14 months now and it really never gets easy. However there are some great positives that come out from it and I think that couples who have been in a ldr are more prone to stay together because they value their time together better. I know that every time I see my boyfriend we get closer and closer. In a way it allows both side to grow separately and together which is great because at the end of the day you are able to focus on yourself with knowing that you’re loved and supported! Arguments will happen and they will be worse than irl so communication is key; sometimes over communicating is better than under communicating! I hope your relationship goes well!
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I love watching you. You make me remember that sometimes it's okay not to be okay, then get up back again. I watch your vlogs everytime!
I’m rolling at your reaction to the crumble recipe. It makes me so happy that I’m not the only one that hates the food they cook sometimes. That actually gave me some confidence to keep trying new recipes. Thank you, I’m sorry it sucked😂
“Doesn’t really taste like anything, but sometimes I kind of want that”. Relatable. You really put into words a thought that I’ve been pondering for almost an entire lifetime 😄 Sometimes, our taste buds need a break. Our brain needs a break. Our digestive system needs a break lol! I totally get it.
That part where you spoke about slipping possibly into the darkness/being sad is just the perfect example how you can make thousands of others feel normal and feel comfort. I'm sure your videos have helped so many, thank you for being honest 😊✨️🌸
love the way dooby expresses herself. thanks dooby. you always make me realize that i´m very important. love you and your channel as well. thanks for the video 😘
This will make my day. I am feeling very low these days. Thanks Dooby ❤️
Dang. It's really cool to hear not just Dooby's but other people's experiences with long distance. I met my girlfriend in College while she was studying for her masters. She's Chinese and I'm Korean-American. She spoke Korean and I actually thought she was Korean at first lol. When she graduated, it was peak COVID time and Work Visas were on pause. With uncertainty, she decided to move back to China. Because of travel restrictions, we haven't seen each other in about 3 years. Finally, we found a workaround by meeting in Macau, but still in the process of figuring out the logistics and timing since we both work full time.
I love long distance because I really think it makes you focus on the important aspects of a relationship. You struggle and conquer insecurities you may have, you discover how to be open to build trust, and you develop patience for one another in a way that's honestly only possible through horrible wifi video calls that are time limited due to a 12/13 hours time zone difference. I think really amazing relationships can be built on long distance, but there's of course a lot of factors that go into where it heads. We were able to build a strong foundation before entering LD, so I think that was the only reason we were able to get through the biggest, initial hurdles.
may i ask how you guys managed with 3 years...I have to do 3 years of unexpected LDR, and im only in month 4, and it's been tough with the communication. When we're in person it's vastly different as he is not the best at being reliable through text. I've tried many times to lower my expectations but promises just fall through and it triggers my insecurities.
@@AriEllePhilia It definitely wasn't and still isn't easy. I was also HORRIBLE at texting and me and my girlfriend had some adjusting we needed to do in the beginning. The biggest part of how we got through was communication (ironically). We video call every day because 1) The time we get to talk, communicate, or see each other is limited because when I need to work, she's free and when she wakes up I need to go to sleep. 2) Texting is a huge part of Chinese Culture (WeChat). I honestly hate texting and I would rather talk on the phone, but my girlfriend has a lot of affirmation in a relationship with texting. It was the realization that for the LDR to work, there would need to be compromise and humility to give my girlfriend security that led me to actively develop that skillset. My GF shared her insecurities and her perspective, and so of course I wanted to do everything I could to give her security and affirmation. Part of this is also my personal values that had a factor as well. I don't date unless I'm intending on a future with someone in a marriage. I know she's the one I see myself sharing a life together, so I treat the relationship as I would in a marriage. Learning patience, flexibility, support, and communication to build upon a foundation of trust. We're not perfect and there are still times that BOTH of us may share insecurities once in a while, but by sharing with one another, we usually realize it's just in our heads. I do believe a lot of the responsibility falls on the man to understand what the relationship means. He needs to show effort and consideration to show that he cherishes and cares about the relationship. Not even just LDR but even if eventually you get married. You should never stop pursuing your significant other.
In a practical sense, I find sending pictures or videos sharing events that may have happened throughout the day to have helped. Also, I bought us a BOND bracelet (it sends a small vibration just to have another method of communicating to each other). As expensive as shipping is, we send gifts on 1 year anniversaries, birthdays, etc. but gifts aren't too big in our love language so this is just a plus. It's a culmination of a lot of little things and maybe a few big things. The main point is the active pursuit imo.
@@jjashekki thanks Joshua for taking the time to write your input. Unfortunately not all guys are as thoughtful or willing to put initiative like you. Seems like everywhere I go, whether it'd be support groups on reddit or discord, talking to helplines, friends or even my therapist. Everyone comes to the same consensus more or less, but it just doesn't work for my boyfriend. He is just that out of sight out of mind, oblivious. In person we are so much better and it made me feel defeated at the thought of the future. I tried to express what you wrote to me to him, he ended up not saying anything and fell asleep on me. I dont want to throw away 4.5 years of our relationship becaues of a few months into LDR. I am not sure what to do but ill just silently distract myself. I just so badly wish it could be as easy as it is when we are in person, but he just cant do it. Made things worse that he postpones doing activities with me and i accept his excuses and kept lowering my expectations, but idk anymore what is too much to ask for. It's hard not to get envious of what I read on forums and youtube comments,etc. seeing guys put in effort that I know is not too much to ask for but it seems impossible for him to be consistent in. I'm going on a tangent and youtube is probably not the best way to communicate all this, but i do want to thank you for your response.
@@AriEllePhilia just want to let you know that first off, everything will be ok. I totally understand and sometimes talking to strangers about personal matters can be easier than sharing with those that are close to you. I’ve definitely been there.
I’m not a licensed therapist and want to preface that this is all a matter of opinion for me, but you have the right to feel appreciated and should always have a sense of security with your significant other. There are ups and downs of course, but never let time be what dictates your decision and blind you from objectively examining your relationship. Grass is always greener, especially in social media. I found the best advice was not even advice at all, but hearing about other peoples struggles and experience overcoming adversities (lowest points) deepened a better understanding of what to pursue in a partner than looming at the “perfect” relationships. It’s still early on, but at the same time, you know the situation best. Sometimes you’re right for a guy but the guy might not be right for you. But I do wish you guys the best and your boyfriend has a wake up call to cherish what he has; a blessing. A relationship is a precursor to a partnership (marriage). You want to be with someone that you want to grow with, struggle with, laugh with, cry with, and experience every beautiful opportunity life has to offer. So, not in a self conceited way, you deserve the best.
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My husband and I were in an 8 year LDR, between Singapore and Canada.. I cried everytime we had to leave each other, it never gets easy. My love language was also quality time and physical touch. We found ways to spend quality time online together, and made Mid term plans (not giving ourselves too much pressure, being open about what the future holds). 8 years later, we got married :) he relocated to Singapore and we've been living together for 4 years ever since. Hang in there!
I Know how it feels when you know you're slipping into a "sad 3 days" its like seeing a storm in the distance and you know its coming, keep your head up and keep finding the joy to life!
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you know what i just realized that i love about you, you put the reasoning behind certain cooking tips/instructions--which makes it so much easier to remember and to understand why ofc!
Glad you are making a special effort to not stay in a dark place. You have matured so much (in a cool way) since I started watching your channel! I love seeing different parts of Seoul.
I’m in a long distance relationship and it sucks! I’m strong enough to hold on as we coordinate our life together but some days I just break down and tell him “Please hug me.” Watching this gave me so much inspiration
I feel u😭
Long distance is really tough, especially was during covid. But me and my boyfriend have pulled through it. However, he and I are still in long distance for work purpose, though we get to see each other every two or three months. He works from home for at least a month to stay close to me. I am blessed to have him in my life. And the awesome part is we are going on our first ever high altitude trek this October. Can't wait to finally see things falling in place as we will be completing 6 years this November. Writing this out really feels like so much happened in the last couple of years.
You do much awesome content no need to be sad just remember you have all the peeps on here cheering you on 🎉keep up the great work
Im struggling with my own long distance relationship and this was so empowering to watch, made me feel less alone thank you
I think it actually gets better as both sides adjust to the distance. The distance allows you to focus more on your emotional attachment rather than a mixture of that and physical attachment. It really deepens two people's relationship quickly. I'm sure everything will work out!
I’m just happy your happy. Anything worth having won’t come easy and though it can be tough the hard times will only make the relationship better. Rooting for you always Doobs ❤
I see u again😃
Your videos and lil humorous matured educational subtitles are my all time therapy after weeks
Doobydobap, I love your videos! It is so soo wholesome :) It brings me much purity and joy
Doobies comment section is full of insights and engagement. People really pour their heart out to you.
Screw tv shows, I've never been more invested in anything than I am with these vlogs! Also, "everything's about to change"?? excuse me little miss cliffhanger?? I need the deeets. I'm also in a LDR so I've been relating to these videos more than ever omgg
Always a good day when a doobie vlog arrives! 😍
What! No eggs? All your meals usually have eggs.
I am in long distance relationship and trust me its hard but after 3 years i realized we need to balance our relation and not expect more from other person becz they are also busy in their schedule and time difference....
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Loving the music on this one dooby!!
Omgggg u r sooo pretty!!! I love the bangs
Amazing update as always Dooby! All the best in the long distance relationship! Till the next vlog! You're doing great! ❤
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effort from both people is needed to make it worth it in the end :)
Dig the bangs!! Wishing you all the best Dooby!
I think the message you’re sharing is great, but on a production side of it, the pacing of the video was so phenomenal, great work!
Whenever Tina posts a new dooby vlog, I will be as focussed as a stalker stalking a colony of ants making sure i am their supreme leader
What a strange thing to say.
@@michaelpark5681 yeah true
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Your vlogs are the only videos I'm able to sit trough without skipping forward or anything
dobby's video(s) was literally a healing to me
How long has it been since doob gourmand!!!! Can't wait for it
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I was in an LDR for 4 years, it didn’t work out in the end but I’ll never regret the time I spent, and the distance always made the time when you’re physically with them even more special.
You just made my day with this new upload
Iam also doing long distance. It's pretty hard but I always try my best :)
im a nurse in brooklyn & i met this cute medical student on my unit. i gave them my number & went on a couple dates (lived our greys anatomy dream) and told each other that it wasn't going to be too serious because they were planning to go out of state for their residency and we didnt wanna do LDR.
7 months later, they're in california as a doctor while i'm still in new york but we're making this work! i love them so much & this has been the best relationship ive ever been in 🥺
come to cali! nurses earn more over here hehe
I love how you are using the pronouns
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Greatest Therapy for me has been reaching out to those who are in need of help/company. Like visiting random old people in nursing homes and sitting with them while they tell stories about their life or helping a random person do their gardening. I find the greatest joy and peace in life when turning outwards. Just my two cents, love the content you create! Keep it up 😁
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Giving you all the love ♥️ and hope you stay healthy & safe 🤲
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all the background music......just amazing... Tina you are def gifted
Long distance relationships are a nightmare. I tried it only once for about a year. It is too heart-wrenching every time you have to say goodbye for a while. I couldn’t deal with the trust issues and not really knowing what he was up to in my absence. I do not recommend it go anyone!
😳 I think you have other things to sort out before you enter any relationship
Just started a long distance relationship after being together for 2 years (we met in Japan but he’s moving back to his home country). The first night without him beside me was the absolute worst haha. Haven’t cried myself to sleep like that in so long. We don’t have a definitive date yet on when we’ll meet again but we’re both pretty hopeful. :)
Hope you guys stay togheter forever and ever!
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Dated my LDR boyfriend for 3 years, got married a few weeks ago and back to long distance again. Yes it can be hard, but it builds a level of space, maturity and a communication skill that I’ve never felt in any other relationship. We tell each other that the fact that we’ve made this work, means that when we’re finally physically together, we will get through anything. You sound happy and in a healthy place, good luck and hope you’re well :)
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It feels so good to see you and your vlogs❤
Thank you for showing us that sometimes the recipe does not turn out the way we imagine it to be. 😊
Old hairstyle>>>
Dooby you should do new things in the world like going into the night life of tokyo. streets of india. You know experiencing life. All of it. You got money. 🤷♂️. Thats what I would’ve done.
I think this video illustrates nearly all of the reasons why Doobydobap is quickly becoming one of my favorite vloggers.
why is dooby so relatable. leftover food, the bad-tasting apple crumble, long-distance stuff... been there done that
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people who always talk der relationship in public will never last long
Dooby I rewatch your vlogs all the time ❤
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Ur haircut looks terrible :(
who asked u hm?
@@emperor8804 nobody but its a free fuckin country to talk HMMMMMM
Maybe stop wearing a face mask when working out, its just stupid lol
im in the same predicament as well, long distance but its the best relationship ive been in. good things definately take time.
Best Dooby vlog I've ever watched!!!
Is it weird to say you are soothing to watch?? keep up the great vids im a fan
i love your content sooooo much Tina! keep shining girl
Btw your vlogs are so cool & I really enjoy watching your vlogs!!
I would love to have a friend like you! You are effortlessly yourself yet get along so well with friends with different personalities. That's #friendgoals fasho!
I think you look absolutely gorgeous stunning with your new hair cut… love your vids