@@ivettecastle3420 exactly. People are getting comfortable and complacent with being a side piece or home wrecker, zero shame. Then are shocked when they get shamed for their actions. The other woman was p*ssed at me for putting her and my ex on blast on fb. Do shameful things and you get shamed. Don’t do shameful things if you don’t want to get called out for your sh*tty behavior. It’s really that simple.
And at the end of the day - she's the one going down in history as "I sleep with someone else's husband, and I can reach you too!" Woman. That and her followers are embarrassing asf
@YahwehisGodandYeshuaisKingiamr lol not everybody believes in God. Please don't correct ppl my inserting a religion that you didn't have to even insert..? They said, karma, and that's what they meant.
The fact that she "danced" around glorifying cheating, acting dumb and acting like she actually accomplished something makes me want to raise funds for her mental asylum fees smh.
I think she’s more obsessed with the wife then her apparent “soul mate” all her joy from being around him seems the circle around the deception and harm in caused her. Think she took that man out of pure jealousy and you know what? She can keep him. Trash should be together.
That makes sense because that whole community for spiteing the wives who are victims.The wives who are mad are the villains because "they are human" Pathetic
I believe that what happened to her was all good (I mean the wife who was cheated on). God says in the Quran, “And evil men are for evil women.” This is true!
Shame is very important because not everyone is a good person and some people don't commit these things because of shame. It's not always bad to shame someone because it shows our society's moral structure. You feel ashamed for doing something wrong.
Society is already trying to normalize MAP’S. Don’t expect the world to be moral or advocate for the right thing all the time, it’s the world for a reason.
That's the problem... People before used to not do some things because there were religions who gave a moral compass for those people who don't have one, like this woman . While the laws existed (and still exist) to make people obey so that society isn't in danger (because, again, there are people who don't do some things only because there is a law about it, otherwise we would really live in chaos) . Now, laws are still obeyed by most people. But religions are not followed that much. There are many people that don't follow any religion (many more atheists than centuries ago), so of that group of people there are those who don't have a moral compass. They don't have a religion to give them and show them a moral compass, so they just do immoral things. There are people without a religion who have a moral compass, but not everyone is like that, and this woman from the video is an example.
I broke off a friendship because my former friend was having an affair with two married men. At first I thought it would end quickly but no, she didn't want to see it was wrong and that she was hurting other people in the process. She also said that cheating is normal... After a while, I just couldn't listen to her stories anymore and stopped talking to her altogether. Some people are only focused on themselves... They don't care that they are hurting other people as long as they are happy.
@@AltamiraDeSantanaCarvalho Very true. It's another good reason to end the friendship. Although I stopped talking to her because she was negatively influencing me/my mindset. It negatively impacted the situation with my crush.
You made the right decision. Just like you, I had to unfriend some people in my life because of their lack of morals and values. I rather have no friends than have friends who negatively influenced you.
My friend V dated my other friend M. V broke up with M because he fell out of love. M moved on and is now dating S. V is now jealous and hates S and is altogether isolating himself from our group of friends. He is a man child. But he’s also my best friend. I don’t know what to tell him.
As a 14 year old, how dare you! 😭 Even I have the emotional maturity to understand that this woman is pathetic. All it takes is simple first grade level reasoning and empathy to understand that cheaters are a stain on society...
I'm a 16 yr old girl and have never dated, and I worry cause I've never wanted to date after seeing how normalized and romanticized cheating and toxicity is now, especially with my gen. It would be nice to one day find love, but with how common and empowered cheating is I don't want to cause I don't know where to look. Especially since I wanna start my journey WITHOUT being cheated on immediately😭
Exactly that! I'm 16 too and sooo many people ik r just interested in the label of being " in a relationship" but would cheat on their partners in a blink of an eye😐...I hope this just a phase in our gen 🤞🤞
im 20, a girl here, never been in a relationship but so far so I've experienced. Men wants to date fantasies these days not the girl or their personality. And as soon as they have lived the fantasy they planned in head while chasing you, they are off too different target. That's kinda sad when I first saw it with my own eyes, never happened with me but how most men think about women grosses me out, never found anyone good enough up until now sadly 🤡
@@SesemeSaysYouNeedTherapy-e7m So do I. I'm not in any hurry but I wanna look around and see real genuine couples of my gen, and if I do find someone I want it to be someone who has a real heart. I hope you find that too!🖤
There is hope 😂. I am 33 years old, never been in a relationship, never dated. Last year in october I was on a language learning app (not a dating app, my profile stated not intrested in a relationship, that is how much i wanted to be clear for everybody i am not into that 😂). So one day I was speaking with an american guy from TX...friendly but our conversations revolved around culture and religion..maybe family, nothing more. After almost 3 weeks since we started texting, he bluntly told me "i like you and i am intrested in you, would you go out on a date with me?"...and I was like "yeah, why not" thinking there is half of a globe between us and is never going to happen or at least not in this period of our life. But 5 min after he asked me out he told me that he bought a plane ticket to come to Romania in 3 weeks (for Christmas eve last year)...and i was like "ups". So he came, we liked each other and he told me he wants to meet my family and friends and if I like him, I would visit him in TX for Easter, meet his family, friends and church...and if everything is ok we will get married and he will move to Romania....so i visited for Easter....than got married in august this year, less than one year since we started talking 😂😂. He is a great guy, his family is a nice loving family, he is loved by his friends and community...sometimes feels like a dream that i found such a kind, patient and loving person that knows how to deal with me, i can be quite overwhelming at times 😂. I love him and even though we have so many differences (language, culture, religion, race, and before he moved 8 h time zone difference) because we are resonable and care about the other one somehow we managed to make it work. I don't usually leave random comments about my life and stuff...but I hope you get to see this reply and feel encouraged that waiting, working one yourself and not settle for people that don't respect you eventually pays off. PS: no i did not marry him for a green card, i have a career in Romania and he didn't marry me for free healthcare 😂😂😂
Gurl same..... I wouldn't say I wanna be in a relationship right now. But later on in life I would want someone. But watching people like this makes me lose hope cuz wtf is this -
She is treating the man as if he was a prize, which is wrong by itself. But also he is not the prize she thinks he is lol. Honestly, his wife was better off without him
@@sweet_cupcak That's literally the relationship patterns of a gold digger. Glad you pointed that out in the comments so those who sees it can be aware of the dangers of dating one.
I’ve been trying to find the video and I think she deleted it lmfao. I just wanted to tell her to please at least take dance lessons before attempting this again
I was married for 14 years and I found out that my husband had a mistress and had gotten her pregnant. I would've had more respect for him if he'd had just come to me and said this is not working and I would've let him go even though we have two kids. Even when I confronted him about it, he still lied so I divorced his ass. It was the best decision I made in my life.
Amen sister! I’m sos sorry you went through that, I pray you have a Godly man who loves you like Christ loves the church 🙏 You’re never alone. 1 Peter 5:7.
As someone who grew up in a household with a homewrecker: Started when i was 12. First cheated with my dad. Got caught by my mom Then cheated with my mom. Got caught with her. Homewrecker gets kicked out and moves next door. Cheats with my dad but gets pregnant this time. Disappears for a couple years. Randomly when i was 17 my mom decided to get up and leave. Moved out of state back with her family and left me with my dad. 2yrs later i learn the day she had me help her pack the moving truck was the day my half brother was being born. So. Without speaking upon the emotional stresses and physical fights, this is what can happen. Whether worse or not so, the outcome is rarely good for everyone involved. I hope the woman bites the curb. What shes prancing around about RUINS lives. Knowing she had a smile on her face talking about another womans kids fills me with fury.
I hope you have support around you and heal from the awful mistreatment your parents showed to you. No child deserved to live in a broken toxic household where disrespect is being shown by both parents... when you could've just been focusing on school or going out to play... Cheaters will never stop cheating until they get the consequences of their actions but once it catch up with them it'll be 100x worse. Virtual hugs with consent ❤
@rejiinamio it took quite a bit to get to a good place, but im so glad someone both cares enough to tell me that and understands what it takes to heal. It took me many years to realize what i NEEDED in order to grow: Support. Thank you kind stranger and virtual consent hug granted 🤗. Tho i would feel better knowing you got an actual hug. take care
@@kysimelani5056hope you are in a better place now! I dont have enough words to describe how strong you were after passing through this Wishing you the best!! ❤❤
Everything except for the fact u tried to put accountability on someone for breaking a marriage they made no vows to. People can only wreck their own marriage. It’s disgusting to act like everyone and their mom owes something to everyone’s marriage vows.
I hope one of the women who took her course ends up cheating with her husband. Then this can come full circle and maybe she will understand why you dont empower cheating.
She understands, she is just desperate to find others who will say they believe her so she doesn’t have to FEEL so ashamed. If she finds just one person who tells her she is right, then she can continue to live in her fantasy. That’s all this crap is about. Fooling herself, she knows she is not fooling anyone else. Like the obsessed person who stalks… they know what they are doing, but if they just try harder and lie out loud then they can’t hear their thoughts.
My aunt cheated on her husband with her 2nd husband. Her 2nd husband cheated on her and is now her ex-husband. It tends to work out this way. Cheaters tend to get what they deserve, Someone else's leftovers.
@@kandacelalo4787 I can only hope, that karma comes around and they get to experience the horrible feeling of hopelessness and questioning their self worth and why they weren’t enough? Because that pain changes you.
unforcunatly not all ...😂my aunt is also terrible she is the biggest sl** on the earth without exaggaration and all the men is simping fr her she is violent and she cheats on them
some people are just so disgusting they make me nauseous. Imagine being a homewrecker, cheater and being proud of it. Not having even the tiny bit of shame. Not recognizing the pain you've caused. Cheating is disgusting, but cheating and thinking you're right is even more disgusting
"When he lets her wear the jacket I gave him for Valentine's day"... And then she makes fun of the wife for looking her socials up to see who the husband is cheating with. But like.. That jacket thing was very specific. 😂 Sounds like she was already stalking the wife long before the wife even knew she existed. How creepy. Joe Goldberg's mom or somethin', I swear.
Yerrrrrrrp. Also: the wife looking at her socials probably has to do with… I mean maybe there’s some jealousy sure, maybe there’s *gathering evidence for court* to get the best outcome in alimony, child support, and splitting marital assets.
Literally, she’s delusional. The other woman are usually like this. They think they’re so tempting that they can have anyone’s man for their picking. They think they’re dangling a steak in a vegan’s face, when in reality they’re dangling it in a carnivore’s face. Weak men will cheat regardless. If it weren’t her, it would have been another woman
Rebal, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Believing it's a mistake is part of the reason people like her don't take accountability for their actions. It's a choice.
This!!! 💯💯 exactly! I could have cheated, I had plenty of options and opportunities! But I CHOSE not to act on those impulses and “opportunities”. Because of my own morals and integrity. I hope that they experience exactly what they did to the other woman/partner themselves. Karma.
I mean, you're arguing semantics. He clearly states she should be accountable several times in the video. But if you want the semantic route, mistakes can be accidental or intentional. What you're saying is don't call it an accident. But it should very much be a mistake and regret to betray a partner on that level.
@@0anon111 if you get drink and high enough that you can't control your action than you are not a relationship material and it's not yours but your partner's mistake to be in a relationship with you.
This is like watching my dads GF going on TikTok or something. Never met her and never will. But this is how I imagine she thinks. My dad said cheating is normal. Lying for years is normal. Said he wasn’t “happy” when my mom literally gave up everything just to make him happy. He also said I was to old to cry (I was 15 and on my period) oooh and then he started crying talking only about himself. He’s a narcissistic bipolar liar and I’m tired of it. (He cheated after a 20 year marriage and I don’t even know how long he has been cheating on my mom before she found out)
I swear they’re always like that my mum was the same I literally just had enough of her and keep low contact with her now because of it. I would’ve been no contact if she didn’t have my youngest sister with her especially since she’s extremely neglectful towards all of our siblings
She’s ashamed and instead of taking accountability, understanding there’s nothing that can erase what they did and move, she chooses to hide her shame by doing whatever this is. And when he cheats on her, she’s not going to have anything to hide under.
She is speculating with another life coach into gaslighting fragile ego driven women by selling "lessons of how to be cool while cheating". She is not naive, she's criminal.
That’s literally all I could think, was she’s lucky she hasn’t met the wrong one. I’m not advocating for her harm but there are women out there who would NOT take this lying down (the betrayal, the ridicule, none of it). She’s lucky she hasn’t crossed one of those women.
8:05 like what!? A cheater. They are saying you are a cheater. Lmao. And it’s shameful. You should feel shame but you obviously don’t, so we’ll shame you for you!
I don't support leaving your partner for anything short of adultery, gaslighting, manipulation and abuse amongst other things, but honestly you never know what one is going through in their relationship. I don't support divorce for the randomest most stupid things.
@eyelash-bug I don't understand your question. If a relationship can be worked on then let it work, if it can't, break apart, divorce not cheat, cheating on your partner says a lot about you. I don't know what you're trying to say, can you explain?
@@eyelash-buglol they meant that we shouldn't support cheating but instead try to work on things that dont work in a marriage. Not just break up over stupidest of things.
13:36 cheating is not a mistake, is something you decide. As adults, we can control ourselves and if someone don't love their partner anymore, that person should divorced instead of act like an inmadure respectless person and cheat,
My ex cheated on a younger Temu-version of me… like at least cheat with someone cuter? Not some 18 year old who smokes m*th and pretends to be pregnant without taking a pregnancy test, but will send photos of her cutting herself… abusive, toxic, and immature asf. I’m embarrassed for myself.
The fact that there are people who genuinely feed into, prop up, and perpetuate her (and countless other cheaters & adulterers) toxic ideologies. They have no shame, and all they care about is themselves; it’s sickening.
I know someone who had her husband cheat on her but she had to stay because her partner was abusive. He used to hit her even though she’s with his child. This is honestly devastating how some people find this okay…
Ooh i know someone exactly like her .. she is my mom's cousin, she ruined multiple lifes and she enjoys being in relationship with married men.... One time she was happy because one of her affairs hitted his wife because of her..... I'm disgusted by these kind of people
I think some of this is her monetising rage, it’s designed for people to comment, share, and interact with her content and they’re motivated to because they’re so angry
Horrible but also delusional. Think she is really insecure and getting some troglodyte man to cheat with her makes her feel special. Honestly she is boring at best. A vanilla pudding looking woman with zero muscle tone, dance skills or charisma.
An affair, he is probably on his 8th one. Even if he cheats on her with various men and women, everyday of the week, she won't let him go because the brand she has made that cheaters are successful... 😂 I am experiencing so much schadenfreude at the thought of it.
Knowing about psychology, it's funny to read what she says, because it is the literal reflection of how she feels about herself. ONCE YOU SEE IT, YOU CAN'T UNSEE IT 😂
Hey I found your comment quite interesting and if you don’t mind, could you go deeper into explanation on what you mean by a reflection of how she feels about herself?
this triggered me so much that I started laughing😂 clearly rage-bait . Ridiculous. Bestie. You don't have to go through this kind of things for us and make us suffer as well😂
My aunt’s husband cheated on her, she was the rich one in the relationship. The mistress thought that when they divorced she’d live a life of luxury. Nope, prenup said NO. The man left that relationship with nothing. Ex husband eventually cheated on mistress lol. Now my aunt is remarried, and expecting a child with her new husband, who’s actually a pretty good guy.
If her reasoning is 'cheaters gonna cheat' then why does she entertain the fact that the guy is keeping her a secret from his wife? Why are u ok with being the sneaky link if having an affair with a married person IS SOOO RIGHT? ig dignity is just not a thing for her...
I literally commented on one of her videos explaining to someone on why people hate her and so many GROWN woman came for me and told me not to judge or making me the bad guy😒
I have heard about one on reddit, I don't remember the name but they apparently talk about how to have secret phones and secret bank accounts. Seems tiresome.
Simple is that ..cheating is not acceptable.. if you can't live with the person communicate with him/her and leave properly and completely.. but don't ruin eachother's life.. especially if kids are included
I, for one, will thank her. Lady, thank you for taking that 💩of a man, for yourself. I cannot imagine the pain those kids are feeling. Having the other woman, making fun of you on the internet, and your dad just sitting there letting that happen? Wow. They really are soulmates… both are the same. Ugh
I’m wondering how much he actually knows ( if any of this is even real😂) she always is careful to not really have him speaking any videos and that’s the reason I feel like she put words on her videos instead of just talking while he’s in the room with her
As someone who was cheated on by my boyfriend who was seeing another girl while we long distance and practically ignored me while still being together and then got with her without breaking up with me yet, we are NOT normalizing cheating. If you cheat you suck tbh like there no if ands or buts. I cried for a week straight, my eyes swollen shut from crying, feeling like I had lost my ability to be happy. Until his best friend came along and helped me through it eventually we fell for each other and now we are on month 4 with each other. The feeling of being like betrayed like that is gut wrenching and I feel for whoever went through that. This woman is nuts
It so funny that she thinks it's a flex though. Like, it's a flex that a man was so unhappy in his relationship that he sought after any woman desperate enough to commit to him? A married man with children who has no shot with any self-respecting person of value? She thinks it's a flex? She's basically just celebrating the most pathetic thing I've ever witnessed. She's like, "Hooray! I was the only other option he had! Now I'm with the guy who was too much of a coward to just leave a marriage he was unhappy in! Woohoo! He'll do the same thing to me when he gets bored of me too! Yay! I'm a winner!" 💀 That's sooo embarrassing sis.
Both sides of my family were/are rife with cheating and guess what? Both sides are fucked the hell up - shocking I know, who'd have thought building families on lies, secrecy, selfishness and denial would end badly??????
I don't think cheaters fully understand that you will loose them how you earned them. Like they will get bored and leave you like they left their spouse for you. 😒
I was in a relation with this guy that by the time I found out and confronted him, He was the one who got mad and blamed me why he did it... When I was the one that was loyal from the start... The worst part is that the other person he was cheating on me also bullied me... That is why I never have even one respect for that type of individual... Ever!!!
If you ruined someone's relationship and took the partner away, it does mean the partner in question allowed it, do you think it's a "one time thing" and the partner would never do the same to YOU
She will lose him exactly how she met him.
Amen to That! 🙌
Then her whole business will fall apart
Imagine going nuts over a man
And that's exactly what she deserves.
I don’t condone cheating. But I definitely want him to cheat on her so we can watch the show
She can cheat but definitely can't dance.
Omg🤣🤣
Trying to hard to portray a human emotion
@@urielpolak9949perfect example of a narcissist
@@tonyak2446 yes. Definitely.
😂😂😂
he teleports to a new place every video 😭😭😭
Rilll
Wait is he on vacation or something ?
@@kun_chan he said neighbours so i dont think so
TRUEEEE😭😭
Frrr
Normalize this, normalize that, how about be ashamed by your behaviour for once
@@ivettecastle3420 exactly. People are getting comfortable and complacent with being a side piece or home wrecker, zero shame. Then are shocked when they get shamed for their actions. The other woman was p*ssed at me for putting her and my ex on blast on fb. Do shameful things and you get shamed. Don’t do shameful things if you don’t want to get called out for your sh*tty behavior. It’s really that simple.
Exactly. It’s so tiring to see this. We need shame, it exists for a reason.
Normalize being ashamed of your restarted actions💯💯
fr
Until she's in too deep with kids and he cheats on her, then she will understand. Karma will come to collect, one way or another.
Yeah
And at the end of the day - she's the one going down in history as "I sleep with someone else's husband, and I can reach you too!" Woman.
That and her followers are embarrassing asf
Not Karma but God...God makes us reap what we sown.
@@YahwehisGodandYeshuaisKingiamryep haughty comes before a fall
@YahwehisGodandYeshuaisKingiamr lol not everybody believes in God. Please don't correct ppl my inserting a religion that you didn't have to even insert..? They said, karma, and that's what they meant.
The fact that she "danced" around glorifying cheating, acting dumb and acting like she actually accomplished something makes me want to raise funds for her mental asylum fees smh.
"danced"
I'll be willing to start a gofundme LMAO
@@seachelle2316 lol thanks
where's the petition papers imma donate jk
Actually, there are more worthy people to be helped imo. Let her help unsuspecting wives learn about their men.
I think she’s more obsessed with the wife then her apparent “soul mate” all her joy from being around him seems the circle around the deception and harm in caused her. Think she took that man out of pure jealousy and you know what? She can keep him. Trash should be together.
She can't even keep him what is she on about 😂
she's ariana grande if she couldn't become a famous singer
That makes sense because that whole community for spiteing the wives who are victims.The wives who are mad are the villains because "they are human"
Pathetic
I believe that what happened to her was all good (I mean the wife who was cheated on). God says in the Quran, “And evil men are for evil women.” This is true!
Funny the same quran allows men to cheat on their wife's by allowing them to marry 4 women at the same time. @rahhchan5734
BRING BACK SHAME! We’re not going to normalize adultery and cheating 😒
Fr, cuz wow
Shame is very important because not everyone is a good person and some people don't commit these things because of shame. It's not always bad to shame someone because it shows our society's moral structure. You feel ashamed for doing something wrong.
Society is already trying to normalize MAP’S. Don’t expect the world to be moral or advocate for the right thing all the time, it’s the world for a reason.
It’s already normalized and it seems like it’s only going to get worse from here
That's the problem... People before used to not do some things because there were religions who gave a moral compass for those people who don't have one, like this woman . While the laws existed (and still exist) to make people obey so that society isn't in danger (because, again, there are people who don't do some things only because there is a law about it, otherwise we would really live in chaos) . Now, laws are still obeyed by most people. But religions are not followed that much. There are many people that don't follow any religion (many more atheists than centuries ago), so of that group of people there are those who don't have a moral compass. They don't have a religion to give them and show them a moral compass, so they just do immoral things. There are people without a religion who have a moral compass, but not everyone is like that, and this woman from the video is an example.
I broke off a friendship because my former friend was having an affair with two married men. At first I thought it would end quickly but no, she didn't want to see it was wrong and that she was hurting other people in the process. She also said that cheating is normal... After a while, I just couldn't listen to her stories anymore and stopped talking to her altogether. Some people are only focused on themselves... They don't care that they are hurting other people as long as they are happy.
If she didn't see anything wrong with that, she wouldn't hesitate to do the same to you.
@@AltamiraDeSantanaCarvalho Very true. It's another good reason to end the friendship. Although I stopped talking to her because she was negatively influencing me/my mindset. It negatively impacted the situation with my crush.
You made the right decision. Just like you, I had to unfriend some people in my life because of their lack of morals and values. I rather have no friends than have friends who negatively influenced you.
Great job😊
My friend V dated my other friend M. V broke up with M because he fell out of love. M moved on and is now dating S. V is now jealous and hates S and is altogether isolating himself from our group of friends. He is a man child. But he’s also my best friend. I don’t know what to tell him.
She really is the ultimate "other woman", what a dense woman to be so excited about such a demeaning title. Wild😂😂
Right it's so sad. Like girl, you're proud of being second place 😭
lmao fr
Its not though lol @@queenie.mp3
Bestie had a whole "man vs wild" adventure trying to film this video 😭🙏🏻
It was the curse of the hat
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂❤
@@ashleyb3795 truly what he deserves for wearing a backwards snapback 😔😔😔
After that if he said i try to film it but An alien stopped me im gonna believe him😂😂😂😂
man was experiencing the 7 different plagues in the beginning
Nearly put the Egyptians to shame 😅
since you refuse to free my people. . .
Pharaoh, Pharaoh, let Rebal record
stayyy omg
@ yessss ma’am
Imagine living into your 50s and never passing the maturity level of a 14 year old. This woman will never have peace in her life.
This is an underrated comment
Honestly I even feel insulted as a 14 yr old, this woman is insane I just got into an argument with her on tiktok
As a 14 year old, how dare you! 😭 Even I have the emotional maturity to understand that this woman is pathetic. All it takes is simple first grade level reasoning and empathy to understand that cheaters are a stain on society...
Don’t compare 14 yr old to that thing
even I wasn't like this when I was 14 HAHAHAHA
I'm a 16 yr old girl and have never dated, and I worry cause I've never wanted to date after seeing how normalized and romanticized cheating and toxicity is now, especially with my gen. It would be nice to one day find love, but with how common and empowered cheating is I don't want to cause I don't know where to look. Especially since I wanna start my journey WITHOUT being cheated on immediately😭
Exactly that! I'm 16 too and sooo many people ik r just interested in the label of being " in a relationship" but would cheat on their partners in a blink of an eye😐...I hope this just a phase in our gen 🤞🤞
im 20, a girl here, never been in a relationship but so far so I've experienced. Men wants to date fantasies these days not the girl or their personality. And as soon as they have lived the fantasy they planned in head while chasing you, they are off too different target. That's kinda sad when I first saw it with my own eyes, never happened with me but how most men think about women grosses me out, never found anyone good enough up until now sadly 🤡
@@SesemeSaysYouNeedTherapy-e7m So do I. I'm not in any hurry but I wanna look around and see real genuine couples of my gen, and if I do find someone I want it to be someone who has a real heart. I hope you find that too!🖤
There is hope 😂. I am 33 years old, never been in a relationship, never dated. Last year in october I was on a language learning app (not a dating app, my profile stated not intrested in a relationship, that is how much i wanted to be clear for everybody i am not into that 😂).
So one day I was speaking with an american guy from TX...friendly but our conversations revolved around culture and religion..maybe family, nothing more.
After almost 3 weeks since we started texting, he bluntly told me "i like you and i am intrested in you, would you go out on a date with me?"...and I was like "yeah, why not" thinking there is half of a globe between us and is never going to happen or at least not in this period of our life. But 5 min after he asked me out he told me that he bought a plane ticket to come to Romania in 3 weeks (for Christmas eve last year)...and i was like "ups".
So he came, we liked each other and he told me he wants to meet my family and friends and if I like him, I would visit him in TX for Easter, meet his family, friends and church...and if everything is ok we will get married and he will move to Romania....so i visited for Easter....than got married in august this year, less than one year since we started talking 😂😂.
He is a great guy, his family is a nice loving family, he is loved by his friends and community...sometimes feels like a dream that i found such a kind, patient and loving person that knows how to deal with me, i can be quite overwhelming at times 😂. I love him and even though we have so many differences (language, culture, religion, race, and before he moved 8 h time zone difference) because we are resonable and care about the other one somehow we managed to make it work.
I don't usually leave random comments about my life and stuff...but I hope you get to see this reply and feel encouraged that waiting, working one yourself and not settle for people that don't respect you eventually pays off.
PS: no i did not marry him for a green card, i have a career in Romania and he didn't marry me for free healthcare 😂😂😂
Gurl same..... I wouldn't say I wanna be in a relationship right now. But later on in life I would want someone. But watching people like this makes me lose hope cuz wtf is this -
She is treating the man as if he was a prize, which is wrong by itself. But also he is not the prize she thinks he is lol. Honestly, his wife was better off without him
If hes rich ofc hes a prize to her and if she found a better prize ofc she wouldnt hesitate to steal it too. Its all a pattern
@@sweet_cupcak That's literally the relationship patterns of a gold digger. Glad you pointed that out in the comments so those who sees it can be aware of the dangers of dating one.
"the other women community"?!?! Cheating & infidelity SHOULDN'T be empowered 😭🤷♀️😭 what's wrong with this world omg
Weaponizing therapy 🙃
The world is ghetto now
They need shame and to be shamed!
Sounds like a boomer club 😭😭
America 😊
The way she was dancing in the first video while talking about how she ruined a whole family is CRAZY. My anger issues could never💀
Like?? The audacity is insane💀💀
I’ve been trying to find the video and I think she deleted it lmfao. I just wanted to tell her to please at least take dance lessons before attempting this again
@@runaway66 right??? like bookie I've seen cutting boards w/ more fluidity 😭😭😭
@@runaway66 I found it, search "the other woman and the wife"
Nah I'd be punching, and not only the walls believe me
I was married for 14 years and I found out that my husband had a mistress and had gotten her pregnant. I would've had more respect for him if he'd had just come to me and said this is not working and I would've let him go even though we have two kids. Even when I confronted him about it, he still lied so I divorced his ass. It was the best decision I made in my life.
Girl you deserve a good life 😊 God bless you 💘
Boss move! Hope you thrive and find all the growth and joy for you and your children🙏🏼💕
Amen sister! I’m sos sorry you went through that, I pray you have a Godly man who loves you like Christ loves the church 🙏 You’re never alone. 1 Peter 5:7.
you have my respect for leaving him , men who disrespects their partner by cheating deserve nothing!
IM HAPPY FOR YOU
Maybe this is the reason why "thou shalt not commit adultery" is part of the 10 Commandments
Logically, it involves , encourages and breeds lots of negativity for all the parties involved.
Yep
As someone who grew up in a household with a homewrecker:
Started when i was 12.
First cheated with my dad. Got caught by my mom
Then cheated with my mom. Got caught with her.
Homewrecker gets kicked out and moves next door. Cheats with my dad but gets pregnant this time. Disappears for a couple years. Randomly when i was 17 my mom decided to get up and leave. Moved out of state back with her family and left me with my dad. 2yrs later i learn the day she had me help her pack the moving truck was the day my half brother was being born.
So. Without speaking upon the emotional stresses and physical fights, this is what can happen. Whether worse or not so, the outcome is rarely good for everyone involved.
I hope the woman bites the curb. What shes prancing around about RUINS lives. Knowing she had a smile on her face talking about another womans kids fills me with fury.
I hope you have support around you and heal from the awful mistreatment your parents showed to you. No child deserved to live in a broken toxic household where disrespect is being shown by both parents... when you could've just been focusing on school or going out to play... Cheaters will never stop cheating until they get the consequences of their actions but once it catch up with them it'll be 100x worse. Virtual hugs with consent ❤
@rejiinamio it took quite a bit to get to a good place, but im so glad someone both cares enough to tell me that and understands what it takes to heal. It took me many years to realize what i NEEDED in order to grow: Support.
Thank you kind stranger and virtual consent hug granted 🤗. Tho i would feel better knowing you got an actual hug. take care
@@rejiinamioExcept the disrespect from the mom to the dad is valid. People deserve what they dish out.
@@kysimelani5056hope you are in a better place now! I dont have enough words to describe how strong you were after passing through this
Wishing you the best!! ❤❤
Trying to normalize cheating and flexing cheating or being a home wrecker is shameless and disgusting
Preach 🗣️ ❤
💯👏
Yeahh like who are these people I can't believe it at all what the fuck is wrong with these people now a days 😭🙏
Everything except for the fact u tried to put accountability on someone for breaking a marriage they made no vows to. People can only wreck their own marriage. It’s disgusting to act like everyone and their mom owes something to everyone’s marriage vows.
@ I’m confused on what you mean are you saying people can’t wreck marriages by getting into a relationship with someone they know is married?
I hope one of the women who took her course ends up cheating with her husband. Then this can come full circle and maybe she will understand why you dont empower cheating.
Damn, I really really hope this happens, it'd be epic 😂😂😂😂
I would bite the bullet, but... I have taste
Somebody contact that OF girl who was messaging women's husbands 😂
Nope people like this will just say she had a open marriage.
She understands, she is just desperate to find others who will say they believe her so she doesn’t have to FEEL so ashamed. If she finds just one person who tells her she is right, then she can continue to live in her fantasy. That’s all this crap is about. Fooling herself, she knows she is not fooling anyone else. Like the obsessed person who stalks… they know what they are doing, but if they just try harder and lie out loud then they can’t hear their thoughts.
My aunt cheated on her husband with her 2nd husband. Her 2nd husband cheated on her and is now her ex-husband. It tends to work out this way. Cheaters tend to get what they deserve, Someone else's leftovers.
Periodt
@@kandacelalo4787 I can only hope, that karma comes around and they get to experience the horrible feeling of hopelessness and questioning their self worth and why they weren’t enough? Because that pain changes you.
Was she surprised by her ex-husband's cheating?
Yep... They definitely reaped what they've sowed.
unforcunatly not all ...😂my aunt is also terrible she is the biggest sl** on the earth without exaggaration and all the men is simping fr her she is violent and she cheats on them
some people are just so disgusting they make me nauseous. Imagine being a homewrecker, cheater and being proud of it. Not having even the tiny bit of shame. Not recognizing the pain you've caused. Cheating is disgusting, but cheating and thinking you're right is even more disgusting
"When he lets her wear the jacket I gave him for Valentine's day"...
And then she makes fun of the wife for looking her socials up to see who the husband is cheating with. But like.. That jacket thing was very specific. 😂 Sounds like she was already stalking the wife long before the wife even knew she existed. How creepy. Joe Goldberg's mom or somethin', I swear.
Yerrrrrrrp. Also: the wife looking at her socials probably has to do with… I mean maybe there’s some jealousy sure, maybe there’s *gathering evidence for court* to get the best outcome in alimony, child support, and splitting marital assets.
She was only able to steal the married man because he is weak. At the end of the day she is the insecure one and needs a weak man to control.
Couldn’t agree more
“Steal the man” lmaoooo
Literally, she’s delusional. The other woman are usually like this. They think they’re so tempting that they can have anyone’s man for their picking. They think they’re dangling a steak in a vegan’s face, when in reality they’re dangling it in a carnivore’s face. Weak men will cheat regardless. If it weren’t her, it would have been another woman
She preaches compassion yet lacks it for anyone but herself. It’s a shame!
narcissism💁
@@h0neym00nl0ve0 💯
Rebal, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Believing it's a mistake is part of the reason people like her don't take accountability for their actions. It's a choice.
This!!! 💯💯 exactly! I could have cheated, I had plenty of options and opportunities! But I CHOSE not to act on those impulses and “opportunities”. Because of my own morals and integrity. I hope that they experience exactly what they did to the other woman/partner themselves. Karma.
I mean, you're arguing semantics. He clearly states she should be accountable several times in the video. But if you want the semantic route, mistakes can be accidental or intentional. What you're saying is don't call it an accident. But it should very much be a mistake and regret to betray a partner on that level.
@@Adelaide_Cuthbert Either way, you don't accidentally cheat. It's not a mistake. Cheating is intentional.
the only way u could accidentally cheat is being drunk af or high af
@@0anon111 if you get drink and high enough that you can't control your action than you are not a relationship material and it's not yours but your partner's mistake to be in a relationship with you.
Cheaters, bad person meet bad person, mirroring, they derserve everything but good like they deserve each other.
"Once you know something, you cant unknow it" 14:27😭this is what I wrote in my essay to make it longer
Rebal was HEATED, like I think this is the first time he got so close to getting angry, but like seriously POP OFF BESTIE.
He was legit upset, but I think we all were!
This was the justice I didn’t know I needed/deserved from getting cheated on! Thank you Rebal!
As he should! I mean tf is wrong with her????
@@chandrajicha907he really is like your bestie who gets angry at your ex on your behalf
00:08 mother nature cannot handle u touching this much grass. Like gurl so many outside videos
Yeah 😂😂 mother nature was like no no rebal is time you go inside and not touch grass for months 🫡🫡
I thought he was joking, but then i saw the evidence and CRIED😭😭😭
This comment is about second 00:08 with 888 likes
I love how not even a hurricane will stop bestie from wearing his tank top
he ain’t hitting the gym for nothing
😂😂❤
@@feathery_machine for real
This is like watching my dads GF going on TikTok or something. Never met her and never will. But this is how I imagine she thinks.
My dad said cheating is normal. Lying for years is normal. Said he wasn’t “happy” when my mom literally gave up everything just to make him happy.
He also said I was to old to cry (I was 15 and on my period) oooh and then he started crying talking only about himself. He’s a narcissistic bipolar liar and I’m tired of it.
(He cheated after a 20 year marriage and I don’t even know how long he has been cheating on my mom before she found out)
Sorry about your crappy dad. It may just be best to cut ties as soon as you're able to.
I swear they’re always like that my mum was the same I literally just had enough of her and keep low contact with her now because of it. I would’ve been no contact if she didn’t have my youngest sister with her especially since she’s extremely neglectful towards all of our siblings
I doubt he's bipolar. More likeely mis-diagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder.
She’s ashamed and instead of taking accountability, understanding there’s nothing that can erase what they did and move, she chooses to hide her shame by doing whatever this is. And when he cheats on her, she’s not going to have anything to hide under.
She is speculating with another life coach into gaslighting fragile ego driven women by selling "lessons of how to be cool while cheating". She is not naive, she's criminal.
LMAOOO THE CUT TO THE TROPICAL STORM😭😭
how dare yt keep me from this video for 20 secs
Same I just got the notif
21 minutes late sucks
its been 8 hours... *_the audacity_* ...
19 hours for me! The AUDACITY!!!
She’s a core and she knows it, she’s rage baiting and gaslighting. She should meet the wrong person.
That’s literally all I could think, was she’s lucky she hasn’t met the wrong one. I’m not advocating for her harm but there are women out there who would NOT take this lying down (the betrayal, the ridicule, none of it). She’s lucky she hasn’t crossed one of those women.
0:47 oh sweet you meet the owner of the property. Tends to monitor things at inconvenient times of weather
Anyone who cheats, or helps someone cheat is so disgusting
girlie's channel is slowly turning into a documentary😭
I'd watch it over animal planet
@@NikolKatsaAnimal planet is more educational then what she post😭😭
@@NikolKatsa i thought her channel was animal planet
@eyelash-bug don't disrespect Animal Planet like that.
0:18 what a vibe lol 😭
I was literally searching what to watch and he just posted !! pretty good timing i see.
Nah fr XD. I been refreshing my uplaods for like an hour XD
@@soul-ringgames8835 ikrrr i was literally getting bored scrolling what to watch
same
8:05 like what!? A cheater. They are saying you are a cheater. Lmao. And it’s shameful. You should feel shame but you obviously don’t, so we’ll shame you for you!
She is not in denial, she is very aware of what she did and is doing. She just plays dumb and feels very satisfied with what she causes...
“I’m not like that” -> breaking one’s vows to the person they committed to love and honor… until death do they part?
I don't support leaving your partner for anything short of adultery, gaslighting, manipulation and abuse amongst other things, but honestly you never know what one is going through in their relationship. I don't support divorce for the randomest most stupid things.
@@olachiokoye506 if someone wants to leave a relationship let them leave???? how does it affect you
@eyelash-bug I don't understand your question. If a relationship can be worked on then let it work, if it can't, break apart, divorce not cheat, cheating on your partner says a lot about you. I don't know what you're trying to say, can you explain?
Lmao everybody in this reply section missunderstood the other and is trying to correct them. Even though they are all on the same side 😭
@@eyelash-buglol they meant that we shouldn't support cheating but instead try to work on things that dont work in a marriage. Not just break up over stupidest of things.
5:33 ”chelsea’s just mad that all of you guys are in relationships, not you tho” REBAL YOU DID NOT HAVE TO DO ME THAT DIRTY😕😓
rebal's effort is real. mans failed 6 times but gotta pay the bills🗣🗣🗣
This is lowkey more about the wife than the so called soulmate guy
13:36 cheating is not a mistake, is something you decide. As adults, we can control ourselves and if someone don't love their partner anymore, that person should divorced instead of act like an inmadure respectless person and cheat,
True that 🙏
3:46 naw leaving your wife for this is crazy 💀
Why does her face look burned though
@@lydia4549also why is she so pale around her eyes? Flexing while looking like a inbred hairless raccoon, the audacity 😭🙏🏻
Right!? I’m embarrassed for him.
My ex cheated on a younger Temu-version of me… like at least cheat with someone cuter? Not some 18 year old who smokes m*th and pretends to be pregnant without taking a pregnancy test, but will send photos of her cutting herself… abusive, toxic, and immature asf. I’m embarrassed for myself.
@@chandrajicha907 his ex didn’t lose anything ☠️
The level of copium and denial is UNREAL
The fact that there are people who genuinely feed into, prop up, and perpetuate her (and countless other cheaters & adulterers) toxic ideologies. They have no shame, and all they care about is themselves; it’s sickening.
I know someone who had her husband cheat on her but she had to stay because her partner was abusive. He used to hit her even though she’s with his child. This is honestly devastating how some people find this okay…
You can tell how big Rebal heart is the way he always defends people who are clearly hurting
Ooh i know someone exactly like her .. she is my mom's cousin, she ruined multiple lifes and she enjoys being in relationship with married men.... One time she was happy because one of her affairs hitted his wife because of her..... I'm disgusted by these kind of people
That dinosaur encounter must have been so traumatic 😔
Fr😢
😂😂😅
Some people are seriously such horrendous human beings; how can you put someone through that? Also, hiii bestie!
Yes. My father in a nutshell.
I think some of this is her monetising rage, it’s designed for people to comment, share, and interact with her content and they’re motivated to because they’re so angry
Horrible but also delusional. Think she is really insecure and getting some troglodyte man to cheat with her makes her feel special. Honestly she is boring at best. A vanilla pudding looking woman with zero muscle tone, dance skills or charisma.
Finally somebody talks about this outrageus woman.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I wanna see what happens when her “soulmate” ends up cheating on her and going with another woman🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A cheater is always a cheater, he's probably going to have an affair and cheat on her.
An affair, he is probably on his 8th one. Even if he cheats on her with various men and women, everyday of the week, she won't let him go because the brand she has made that cheaters are successful... 😂 I am experiencing so much schadenfreude at the thought of it.
Knowing about psychology, it's funny to read what she says, because it is the literal reflection of how she feels about herself. ONCE YOU SEE IT, YOU CAN'T UNSEE IT 😂
Hey I found your comment quite interesting and if you don’t mind, could you go deeper into explanation on what you mean by a reflection of how she feels about herself?
Not og commenter but the lady is projecting.
12:52 her pouting and showing finger like a middle school kiddo 😂😂😂😂
DID HE JUST PURR?😭 2:31
HE DID 😭😭
LMFAO 💀
idk diddy?
Tbh if a guy did that during the deed I’d marry him…
I GASPED
Boy, is SHE gonna have a long fall off her high horse when he does the same thing to her😂
What goes around comes around, sweetheart
this triggered me so much that I started laughing😂 clearly rage-bait . Ridiculous. Bestie. You don't have to go through this kind of things for us and make us suffer as well😂
She's so gonna get what's coming to her this one. Karma is a B-word. She even had the guts to be proud about having an affair with a married man
Karma is an angel, not a bitch in these cases. The actual bitch is that cheating woman
The intro made me dead 😂😭😭 LMAO
WELCOME TO INDONESIA BESTIE ❤❤❤😂
Wait it’s Indonesia😭 sri lanka looks just like that
@@Kuromiyappplay outside more,BESTIE😑
Yeah the weather here is in the "pancaroba" season. Please take care of your health bestie because now is the season when many people geting sick 😢
So he's still in Bali, huh. No wonder he experienced such an Indo core 😭
15:22 Bestie became a poet 😂
If this woman can make money by coaching the homewreckers, I can make money by teaching how to fart.
bestie is taking us out because we’re rotting inside 😭
why is this genuinely not illegal
In some countries cheating in marriage is actually illegal
It used to be illegal in America. It makes sense since marriage is basically a contract between two people and the government towards eachother.
White collar man are the too cheaters thats why
It is illegal in my country
Cheating is illegal in my country (Saudi Arabia)
the way i thought he was lying about 7 times, storm and dinosaurs but came out to true is obnoxiously funny.😂😂😂.
dinosaur was scary asf.
My aunt’s husband cheated on her, she was the rich one in the relationship. The mistress thought that when they divorced she’d live a life of luxury. Nope, prenup said NO.
The man left that relationship with nothing. Ex husband eventually cheated on mistress lol.
Now my aunt is remarried, and expecting a child with her new husband, who’s actually a pretty good guy.
If her reasoning is 'cheaters gonna cheat' then why does she entertain the fact that the guy is keeping her a secret from his wife? Why are u ok with being the sneaky link if having an affair with a married person IS SOOO RIGHT? ig dignity is just not a thing for her...
Went on a couple of dates with a guy I met online then found out he had a gf. So that was the end of that! No thank you
I literally commented on one of her videos explaining to someone on why people hate her and so many GROWN woman came for me and told me not to judge or making me the bad guy😒
Nah bro you are completely on the right side. Kinda shocking how grown up people are normalising this and think this is ok.
Bestie has been through so much trying to film this video for us 😂
1:28 LMFAO his forbearing expression😂 sitting there quietly, waiting till they stop the lawn mower.... like i can't 😂😂😂😂
WTF did she forget to take off her glasses before sunbathing in that first video or what
I thought I was the only person who'd noticed 😂 you'd think someone so concerned with how they're perceived would do something about that
I cannot believe there’s an online community for cheaters now 😮
I have heard about one on reddit, I don't remember the name but they apparently talk about how to have secret phones and secret bank accounts. Seems tiresome.
Simple is that ..cheating is not acceptable.. if you can't live with the person communicate with him/her and leave properly and completely.. but don't ruin eachother's life.. especially if kids are included
Here under 1 hour gang
Cheating will always be so hypocrite, because of cheating my entire childhood was ruined and so was my parents relationship.
I, for one, will thank her. Lady, thank you for taking that 💩of a man, for yourself. I cannot imagine the pain those kids are feeling. Having the other woman, making fun of you on the internet, and your dad just sitting there letting that happen? Wow. They really are soulmates… both are the same. Ugh
I’m wondering how much he actually knows ( if any of this is even real😂) she always is careful to not really have him speaking any videos and that’s the reason I feel like she put words on her videos instead of just talking while he’s in the room with her
This video is award-worthy!
A truly compassionate Queen 👸 How dare they be in a relationship with her soul mate
imagine having a parent like that , who is okay with cheating ?! disgusting
As someone who was cheated on by my boyfriend who was seeing another girl while we long distance and practically ignored me while still being together and then got with her without breaking up with me yet, we are NOT normalizing cheating. If you cheat you suck tbh like there no if ands or buts. I cried for a week straight, my eyes swollen shut from crying, feeling like I had lost my ability to be happy. Until his best friend came along and helped me through it eventually we fell for each other and now we are on month 4 with each other. The feeling of being like betrayed like that is gut wrenching and I feel for whoever went through that. This woman is nuts
Slay for you tbh👑I’m sorry you went through that tho! Being cheated on WRECKS self esteem for a long while :/
It so funny that she thinks it's a flex though. Like, it's a flex that a man was so unhappy in his relationship that he sought after any woman desperate enough to commit to him? A married man with children who has no shot with any self-respecting person of value? She thinks it's a flex? She's basically just celebrating the most pathetic thing I've ever witnessed. She's like, "Hooray! I was the only other option he had! Now I'm with the guy who was too much of a coward to just leave a marriage he was unhappy in! Woohoo! He'll do the same thing to me when he gets bored of me too! Yay! I'm a winner!" 💀 That's sooo embarrassing sis.
Both sides of my family were/are rife with cheating and guess what? Both sides are fucked the hell up - shocking I know, who'd have thought building families on lies, secrecy, selfishness and denial would end badly??????
"I've got to find a way to make money off of this!" - this woman, after having an affair
OH MY GOD IM HERE WITHIN THE MINUTE. (what am i doing with my life?)
Real
My mom is a proud other woman. One of the reasons i stopped talking to her
@@BlasianLynn does you’re dad actually still respect of like her?
@ what does that have to do with my dad?
I don't think cheaters fully understand that you will loose them how you earned them. Like they will get bored and leave you like they left their spouse for you. 😒
I was in a relation with this guy that by the time I found out and confronted him, He was the one who got mad and blamed me why he did it... When I was the one that was loyal from the start... The worst part is that the other person he was cheating on me also bullied me... That is why I never have even one respect for that type of individual... Ever!!!
She looks like a product from cheating herself😭😭
If you ruined someone's relationship and took the partner away, it does mean the partner in question allowed it, do you think it's a "one time thing" and the partner would never do the same to YOU
these kind of women will go menace if their cheater partner started to cheat ON THEM with other side chick 😂
Conspiracy theory: she tried to stop you filming this video but beeeestie you persevered! 👏👏👏👏👏