Mann Family Dinner (😡Heated Family discussions) | Mann Tv
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- On this episode of Mann Family Dinner we discuss some of our past and present disagreements. We never want to paint a perfect picture and authenticity is what keeps our family close! Enjoy☺️
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TIFFANY IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. BLACK WOMEN WHEN SPEAKING FIRM ARE LABELED UNFAIRLY AS AGGRESSIVE.
You are family and human
Start your meeting with prayer and end in prayer.
Tiffany just had a bad day give her a bresk.move on..
Respect each other in or out of business
@@beverlybarthell3808 0
I've experienced this too many times. And as a biracial woman people always look to see what kind of biracial am I "the black or the white kind" 🤔 can't yall just not cross boundaries over and over again. I say something nice about 10x and by the 11 or 21st or 30th time now I'm not as nice but certainly not aggressive. Whooow Yahusha come to my aid please
"There is no way to get an understanding if you don't communicate." AMEN.
it seems like everyone is ganging up on Tia.
@@TheMscina19 She just needs to be able to freely communicate her real frustrations about the situation and feel heard.
By explaining to Tia the negative way she interacts in moments of frustration is not ganging up on Tia it’s making her aware of her actions. No one was disrespectful to Tia it was done in love. Tia has to learn how to respond in working situations as a part of the team and not the younger sister or the baby of the family. She seems a bit spoiled.
Heavenly Father i pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe,healthy and financially bless their family 🙏✝️!!!!!
Amen i needed to see this i pray 🙏🏾 god continue to bless you !!!!
Amen same for you
Amen, and the person writing it as well ♥️
Thank you! ❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen I pray God keep blessing you and your family
David Jr is correct Tia is a little Tamar(ish) 😂. Because like Tamar, she's the baby. I hope she doesn't tap out of a great opportunity with her sisters just because her feelings are hurt. I can tell she feels like the family is ganging up on her right now.
As for Tiffany, she's able to separate business (work) from family (home) life and that's an EXCELLENT trait 👏🏾. She's a professional and probably gets more done because of that.
I just hope things calm down and Porcia, Tiffany and Tia can come back to the table and work out the kinks for their new project. Praying Tiffany and Tia work on building a better sistership.
I love the Mann clan 💕
Amen. Like someone said " what happens if the person pass away, the next moment or day"?
I totally agree...
Your comment sums up my thoughts.
Absolutely! Sounds like there needs to be a part 2 to this episode! There seems to be deeply rooted issues with Tia and Tiffany! Every family has these sibling placement issues. I’m impressed at their level of vulnerability and willingness to just show the world that they are human! Prayers and blessings to each of them!
Amen, it appears there has been tension between those two the last few table sessions. Your sisters, please work it out. Tia, you must give to get.
Tiffany is spot on. Whether a family business or corporate business, there should always be a high level of professional decorum. Additionally, being an assertive, articulate black woman does NOT equate to aggressiveness. Please normalize embracing and respecting assertive women and not mislableing them as aggressive. Thanks.
NOT EVEN ASSERTIVE, JUST BEING STERN. ITS TRUE WHAT SHE SAYS. MEN ARE ABLE TO BE STERN AND DOMINANT IN PROFESSIONAL SETTINGS BUT A WOMEN DOESNT GET THE SAME PRIVILEGE AND GET TO BE RESPECTED AT THE SAME TIME
30:09 I love the correction. Holding your loved ones accountable
I believe the friction is due to Tia is used to the "working" world with Mom and Dad. Tiffany is used to the working world with professionals who are not family and are more firm with expectations. So Tiffany is bringing that work ethic to the family business. Tia doesn't like it because she's comfortable with how her parents allow her to work.
This is just my opinion from watching and listening this TH-cam channel, and the TVone show
Tia couldn't give a good reason why "everything was too much" 34:26
Tiffany was probably establishing order.
I like how y'all discuss this topic.
I agree, and well said
Yea...Tia maybe going through something 34:15 when Porcia started talkin about something deeper the knife and spoons started talking for her lord!!! You could see it in her face (TiA) What's wrong friend in my head? Am praying for you Tia🙏🏾
Yep!! Very well said!
I love looking at your program. My prayers for your family and mine is that your adult children come together and be able to communicate and work together more. They are all so talented in their own way. I really like Tiffany personality and work ethic. You Rock Mann Family!!
I agree
This episode was one of the realest and most raw interactions I've seen on this platform. Yall are a HUGE blessing.
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@@HealingwithPorciaMann 🥰💪 period!😍
@@HealingwithPorciaMann It was nothing cool about bringing drama on air to lash out at your sister. You used that platform/ this particular episode to lash out at Tia.
You all should had resolved that before the show. Tiffany was so humble...and regardless of how she felt...she refused to bring the drama to the table...Kudos to Tiffany...she was humble.
People like drama. What the oldest sister did lashing out at Tia was not cool.
@dyamond reid the only reason you called this episode the realist and raw is because it was drama in it.
Tiffany and Portia were really educating them on how “aggressive” is a trigger word for Black women (whether in professional settings or everyday life) but they decided to dismiss it through sarcasm and jokes and that’s unfortunate.
Agreed! It’s an opportunity for these men to learn….. listen to what these Black women are saying…. These are things we experience daily
I love Tiffany. She is so articulate, an intelligent
Yessss!
It’s such a blessing!
I honestly feel like that could be an insult to black people. It's not uncommon for us to be articulate and intelligent. It is just a stereotype that we don't have that in us.
@@ladennayoung2939 Girl bye. It's a compliment to her and is not in any way a dig at the African American race as a whole.
@@livelovelaugh4922 I said what I said. It irritate me when people act as if that's something to supposedly compliment a black woman or person on. It's an insult to me, as if it's so rare or impossible. You can't be in your feelings because I expressed what I felt. SMH. LOL. Internet people ALWAYS get in their feelings about everything. You didn't read between the lines of what I was saying. It get old to me.
@@ladennayoung2939 Well be irritated who cares? Your ignorant ass has not even mastered subject verb agreement...talking about "it irritate me"...So I would not expect your inarticulate brain to understand the compliment I gave to the young lady.
The way Tiffany expresses herself is me all day!
Yes I know it's just wanted to make PiOC and then we will go out ""??*
The best thing any family can do is address any issues than just sweeping it under the rug. Thank you for your transparency.
DoiVDJR are going back to sleep now though and
David Jr. so messy. He had me rollin😂😂😂😂
I honestly feel Tia’s pain because I literally feel that way when I’m explaining something to people or my sisters & they all make me feel like it’s no comprehension in what I’m saying so then at that point I’ll rather just hush cause the irritation is real 💯
Hello
I agree 🤦🏽♀️
I agree too
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Back in Going are you doing today and tomorrow and
Portia/Tiffany = detail person; Tia = overall big picture
Tiffany has a good point. In the business world, "aggressive" is a buzz word meaning angry regarding black women. Also don't call people out in front of others in a business environment.
I agree
I agree
Yes! This! That's all it is. Different thought processes
I love Porcia natural hair look.😍
Thank you 🥰
Tiffany you are absolutely right... ‘angry Black woman’ accusations do undermine your position... as someone who has led in corporate America for over 20 years and I’m a blank woman the most off putting and unsettling thing to be told or called is aggressive... it sets a tone to try to correct your behavior without asking you if your intent.
He and get together and get the morning and then I know you AT"*"*and then we are and
Good show. I would like to say in Tia's defense, (and I'm not the baby child in my family), when you ask someone how they feel, or tell them to talk; let them. When she started talking, she was told how to say it, what to say, "you gotta say this". She was interrupted, and then the conversation moved on, but it was partly about her. Maybe that's why she shuts down. Maybe, "I don't have to explain," means you won't accept, understand, or listen to my explanation.
I felt like the brother was interrupting a lot!! I wanted Tia to elaborate more & he would not stop talking!!! I must say, that I like Tia she has a “quiet soul” & she doesn’t allow some things to get into her space.
@@elizabethjackson Absolutely.
I agree. You cant tell people how to act and communicate sometimes. You work on how you YOU receive it. In situations like this. Its deeper than the situation.
@@iristbaker-keycreditconsul9514 So true.
Agree - and you can’t expect her to share the same personality as the control freak
You guys are so genuine with your flaws and thorns. Most Christians/famous families put on a façade. I respect y’all and your bond.
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?????Really. Trust me. This has been edited. We're only Allowed to see what they Want us to see. That's with All (so called) Reality shows.
@@inezlewis8573 I think the point shes trying to make is if it gets realer than this...then it would only make them more authentic. You're not really doing anything by saying this here.
@@inezlewis8573 I’m sure things has been edited just as everything else;however, it’s my opinion, my view of this wonderful family. You have your option so 🤷🏽♀️. God bless you and goodnight
Yes I appreciate them for that.
I understand Tia, some people just don’t like to argue. Arguing gets no where. Once you say your part just move on
They all are working for their parents Tia is fine if Tia starts speaking more aggressively then it will be a problem
Yes
I understand Tia, but Tiffany is absolutely right. Just because Tia works for her parents doesn't mean she should not WORK well with others!
I think they were saying it's not that she don't like to argue. It's just she feel like she have the right to say what she think or feel, then dismiss the other person when they try to respond to what she said. That's being passive/aggressive so to speak. That's what I gathered they were saying.
New one to tell the kids "Get yo mind on Jesus" 😁😁😁
Tia is spoiled with the blessing of working in a successful family business. She would not be able to behave that way too many times at another company. Thank y'all for sharing.
SOOOOO TRUE!!
She would… everyone doesn’t have to argue to get their part across and in a lot of corporate settings time is money, so I appreciate a person that can take direction and execute successfully. Part of being a successful leader is realizing where your team members are strong and empowering to get the job done. She’d do very well!
You can tell David Jr & Tia are the babies of the family. Every family has " ugly moments " Tiffany is very passionate about her work. She is very detail oriented. Tiffany reminds me of myself. The key is communication. Great vlog.
I love Tiffany!!! Your a business woman and I think u will bring professionalism to the business!!
This definitely hit home for me. Family must communicate. No one is a mind reader.
It's something deeper with Tia going on.
I love how down to earth and real this family is. Everything is not roses all the time , but communication is important.
I like that they all sat down to talk about the situation whether or not they agree or not it was good that they spoke about it.
Thank you for this segment. It made me cry. My ONLY sister has cut me off, no explanation. I relocated to DFW a year ago in the middle of a pandemic and I need her. Watching you all is a breath of fresh air. Please keep loving each other 💔
Prayers to you!!
Wow me too my older sister and I where really tight my Aunt who raised me passed last year and she was like my mom and raised me so when she passed she left me and my sister some money, me more than my sister because she raised me and my sister really didn't need the money like I did. Anyway she stopped talking to me and I really miss her but she cut me all the way off. I love watching how The Mann sisters talk things out. Pray for me 😊🙏❤️
I agree with you Tiffany 100%. You are so on point!
I'm appreciating the maturity it takes for this kind of open conversation. Each of you and your relationships will be better for it. Much love, Mann family.
All David children looks just like him
People have different work styles. No one is wrong or right. Just needs to have a balance. Tiffany is a planner-into the details, Tia just wants to get the job done! So perhaps instead of having Tia at all the planning meetings, bring her in closer to execution. Tiffany just be careful that you are not making others around you feel insecure. I suspect your family might view you as the "bright "one, not that you view yourself in this way, but remember that everyone is gifted in their own way and have different work styles. You might therefore need to work a bit harder at making others feel comfortable and valued around you. Tia your sister means well, she's not trying to take over, she wants to bring the family and their craft to a higher level. Love conquers all.
Tiffany said she's open to others ideas and the way they want to get things done. She can't do it their way of they close off communication
Yes we all have different work styles and work ethics. With that said. We still have to be able to communicate with our partners and teams. Sharing one's views good, bad or indifferent provides data to the group to make informed decisions towards planning and execution. If a member fail to communicate their issues. It makes it harder for the team to work effectively. Asking Tia what was the issue was valid for clarity. I disagree with you bringing her in as a closer. Doing that will not help Tia nor the team. My reason for saying this is that Tia has trouble communicating her concerns. Which is what I believe they were communicating in this show regarding Tia.
Tia was wrong she needs to communicate, she is an adult.
We all have room to learn and grow, but when I look at David Jr. And Portia they have a family which has matured them. Tiffany had moved away from home and has had experiences that caused her to mature. I'm not saying Tia is not mature at all, but there are some areas she need to mature in.
@@smileonlegs1 I think she is communicating but perhaps not in the best way. She's saying enough meetings and she's disassociating. Remember communication is not only verbal. I do agree that she could try to express her feelings a bit more so that the others know how to address them. However, it is very clear from the video that Tiffany and Portia has a bit of work to do by way of their verbal communication. I find that they have very strong personalities and this might be a turn off for Tia. They want her to be an adult and communicate but they were clearly treating her in a demeaning manner. At times I felt they were speaking down to her. Also remember that Tia is used to working with Portia alone for a long time. In comes Tiffany and the dynamics have changed drastically. Tiffany should consider taking baby steps and not come out full force. No matter how good a leader you are if you can't get people to work with you then your plans will stall. Yes, Tiffany say she will listen to others ideas but the tone and body language is aaying something different. Tiffany definitely has alot to offer but approach is everything.
Tia still looked upset 😢 at the ending
Tia I'm so happy 😊 that you didn't get upset with your family for talking to you about what happened. You guys talking it over helps you to understand each other better. I just love, The Mann Family 👪❤
📢 *R.I.P. FRANKIE LONS🥀🕊...NO MORE SUFFERING, NO MORE DEMONS TO BATTLE AND I PRAY YOUR RESTING WITH THE KING...AND PRAYERS🙏🏽 TO KEISHA COLE AND ALLLL THAT LOVED HER🙏🏽*
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I didn't know she died...praying for the family.
@@HealingwithPorciaMann GURL! I CAN'T STOP ADMIRING😍 YOUR NATURAL CROWN 👸🏿
Loved what Tiffany had to say about “that’s aggressive” undermining Black Women. Also enjoyed seeing the conflict get communicated and shared.
ACCEPTANCE of how a responsible and respectful business-minded person operates during working hours is key.
Ms Tamela looks gorgeous , the outfit , complexion, jewellery. She's the whole package. Tia is the last born and maybe feels ignored at times that's why she's an attention seeker. Tiffany is having a good work ethic. Porcia is a peace maker.
What are your thoughts on David Jr 😆 he's the comedian 😁
I disagree. Tia looks beautiful and have a nice boy friend. She is humble and more quiet
Porcia think she's the boss of everyone. who tells their father that his son is a bitch. She has no real respect for her father.
Wow!! 🤔
I see David, jr. as the attention seeker. He interrupts everyone's conversation with off humor.
We need to talk about how good both David and Tamela looked at the stellar awards and that hilarious dance battle between him and Kirk 😂😂😂
Honestly Tia could just be like me, I am not a fan of too many meetings especially if it feels as if progress is not being made as fast as I expected. Also keep in mind personality traits and styles, Tiffiany and Porsha come off as talkers or opinionated individuals and Tia appears to be more reserved. Could it just be that Tia preferred being involved behind the scenes and just wanted in on the first and final meeting whereas Porsha and Tiffiany could discuss and build the vision. I know we tend to get in trouble when we don't speak up or we go into situations with assumptions but I think that is all this may have been. Tia does have to stop downplaying her feelings and being dismissive otherwise she will continue to be misunderstood. I saw myself and family dynamic in this discussion so thanks for being open!!!
In my opinion Tia has to be open and speak with her sister about the issues she has....I do believe that there was some other opinion that were involved Tai (boyfriend) .They all work for the family which can cause some conflicts.Work it out Jesus.
I agree
@@cassandrafarrow5109 Hello, How are you?
No I think Tia is not a fan of change in structure. She is used to do stuff on the fly and that’s what’s she likes versus what they are trying to which is have more planning and a better structure overall to make sure things run smoother. She didn’t even really know what her own problem was when she was confronted.. she went over their heads and went straight to her daddy instead of properly communicating
Great discussion. I love the realness of this family. Tiffany is right tho. Saying a woman is aggressive especially a Black women is triggering. Black women are seen in society as aggressive or angry just for existing sometimes.
Tam summed it up when she said "Family Is All We Have" at the end of the day.
David Jr so petty lol he is ME 🤣🤣🤣 I enjoyed this episode tho the dynamic of trying to work through an issue. I appreciate y’all for the content! 💪🏽👍🏽
He reminds me of one of my favorite most crazy cousins!!! 😂🤣😂🤣
That's how my family is . They do stuff and don't be held accountable for it and it gets swept under the rug . And then come back and act like nothing ever happened. There is no communication about what happened and how to fix the issue .
Ok I definitely understand where Tiffany is coming from. I work in corporate & have bern in leadership over majority men & anytime i or any other female in leadership are to the point without a lot of pleasantries we are called a B*****.
I need to see that snap of Tamela yelling at Tia. I bet it is funny. Love the shows. Keep them coming.
I didn’t know they had a snap what’s the name
David Jr 🤣😂😊 the whole video like how can u take the conversation serious wit him at the table
Lol yo I died. He made this video
Hey Family, watching you gut give me hope. We use to have Sunday dinners all the time, but when our parents passed away it all stop . I pray that one day we can have it again. My parents had 10 children, 4 passed away, and the rest of us just can’t come together out of pride. I ask your family for prayer . Thanks you in advance .
Joanne
That was a blessing to hear your family had Sunday dinners together. At least you have the memories to tell the younger ones.
But I would start it again and move forwatd with the ones who want to do it
Even if it's just a few until the others come around.
Things do change and it's ok.
Sometimes it hurts when people break traditions but I wouldn't spend the rest of my life hoping for it to be the same.
Go with the ones who are willing.
@@paulettepoole5476 thanks, it means alot 👏🏾
@@joannehooten2986
You're welcome
I love you all so open and genuine. I agree with Tiffany ‘aggressive’ is a trigger word just use another word.
Y'all making me sad, this is too real. I wanna hug Tia.
I love the way you brought up a situation and talk about it just like you would talked it off on air. I hope Tia and Tiffany talk they issues out and resolve it because all you have beside God is you're family. Blessing for you all❤️
So true. Kids are like sponges soak up everything. Thanks for the show. Understanding is everything.
Hate to address the elephant in the room, but tam need to set aside one day a week for tia only. It seems, Tia's been sharing her mom with a lot of ppl for a very long time. Love the show!
Set aside a day? Tia is a woman over 30. I'm sure if she wants to spend alone time with her mom she knows how to ask for it.
@@shatonnadukes2814 Yes, A DAY! For her ONLY daughter... Clearly, you're NOT a mother or doesn't care enough about your child feelings... EVERY mother knows that her child could be 80 years old, and it's still her CHILD. I absolutely love all of the Mann sisters. They all have their own uniqueness. However, what is UNDERSTOOD, doesn't need to be explained. Again, Tam NEEDS one day a week with TIA only!
I love love love the transparency in you guys. It’s alway nice to see that "Stars” are ordinary people and go the same struggles we do. Thanks again for sharing y’all’s family.
Tiffany is right. As black women in the workforce we are quickly deemed as aggressive and angry. Then we are labeled and unable to move forward. And our feelings are dismissed...
Amongst my 3 sons, they say am aggressive and angry but I promise it’s not true
I really enjoyed this episode. Tia is my favorite
This is a good show....good communication is important...getting an understanding 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I just love your family,honesty, and humor. Always be who you all are and in Katt Williams voice “let the haters hate” 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️
Tia looked like she was going to cry :( She's so cute but she looked like she was really hurt.
I agree! The other sisters may be jealous of Tia and seem to be insecure. They are making the concern bigger than what it is. Tia seem to be cool w/whatever!
I agree
@@msjomorgan43 nope nope nope. Tia can't go through life being dismissive. ADULTS talk things out. I understand what Portia was saying because I absolutely LOATHE when someone has an issue with me and don't tell me AT THAT MOMENT... you create hostile environments when you could've just told the person how they rubbed you the wrong way so the person can FIX their actions and yall can move on...
@@msjomorgan43 hahah not that AT ALL. Tia has lived in a bubble her sisters are trying to push them and take them to a higher level and Tia doesnt like it. If Tia was cool with whatever she would have done the job she was tasked with.
@@TheKeemaJay thank you, I’m not sure why her sisters would be jealous of her. It’s Tia’s is what Portia was talking about. Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it. Tiffany seems like she was all good.
This really spoke to my heart, I remind myself of Tia, we both are Geminis 🤗. My sister and I haven't spoken since 2018. I just had enough of betrayal and double teaming. Even if I'm right to those sister I'm wrong. My way of handling it is to walk away in Jesus name. I wish nothing on them,their lives or the future, I must stay focused and pray for my strength. If I see anyone of them I will respect the space we share and keep it moving. To you Biscuit you handle it well. I love all of ya'll, she will be okay and Tiffany too. ❣✌🏾💕
I'm a Gemini too lol we will tap out on what we think is some mess quick won't we? :D
Spoken like a true ♊️! I love the walk away in Jesus Name!
Walking away all the time solves nothing though you gotta learn to communicate... I understand it ain't easy... im in a relationship with a Gemini... and we've had to work at it... but im so glad we did
I so njoyed the discussion on arguments & differences within family. We all have them & need to relate/respect each others feelings. Accountability. Ty.
LISTEN!!!!!!!!! David Jr. is a MESS! I love that you all are transparent especially in this video. It reminds us that you are real people with real family beef, but at the end of the day it all comes together through the love you all have🖤
I appreciate the honest conversation, in this episode! So many vital points on both sides, in the context of life as business.
I love yalls videos. This may be my favorite episode because Tiffany brought up a great topic when it comes to BLACK WOMEN being assertive and men taking it as being aggressive. I also relate to Tia as well. She said what she said! (Nene Leakes voice lol) Thank you for starting a dialogue. I can’t wait to see the new context you all have coming.
This was a really good show. I actually have siblings that aren’t currently speaking to me & I’m not speaking to them bc of a disagreement. It’s been almost a year & this really made me think. Thanks for sharing this.
Tamela is a very sweet person. When a person has a genuine caring heart, it shows in everything they do. Not to say there are not some not so great moments . But she's not a mean spirited person.
Tamela the peace maker. I love the way she goes about explainjng this topic that Porcia continued to talk about.
Hey it’s my favorite family!!!!!! Glad to everyone is doing great! Now let me see this video 🤣🙋🏼♀️
It cannot get any real than this. This is Life of what families go through but what I love is.....the communication in this family! I wish my family would sit and communicate like this. I love all of yall!
Genuine101- Take away lessons: "You need to get your Mind on Jesus"😍 and Tia is the typical baby girl. Your shows are always good💯!
David is so cray,cray lmfao😂 I can't with him
That was on Monday,
I think that was Wednesday,, that was like a Friday lol like really dude!? 🤦 I guess you on point!!....... 😂Get it!..😍
God Bless the fam.. at least y'all can talk about it, shade or not as family we learn to get though it.
Point Blank Period...😍🥰😍
Amen 🙌😇🙌
I really love how you talk over your problems. It is so true about you only have one family and have to be honest and close with them. Life is truly short. I'm going to implement discussion with my family when I'm upset with them. Thank you so much. Love you'll. Be blessed.
So true about generational drama passed down!! It is really are hard feeling…kids are listening and they don’t know how to process it like we think. We may have moved on but they still are trying to process the fight from years ago
Good discussion. I definitely get how uncomfortable these type of family discussions can be but they are so necessary!!! ♥️
This was good. At the end of the day family is everything. Praying for all families that we all come back to the table or wherever and communicate in love and agree to disagree, if we can't be on the same page. Thanks again.
The Mann family I just want to say thank you! I have been going through so much since 2016. From losing a 4 yr old cousin to a brother in 2018 both to gun violence. Then on top of that losing my mom to in november 2020 from broken heart and my aunt January 2021 to cancer that just came back out of no where after finishing ringing the cancer bell. Watching your family coming together and laughing gives me some hope for my family.
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I’m with Tia. It’s only so many times Ima keep meeting about the same stuff. I’ll be over it too.
I am against most of these comments. I am like Tia, I don’t like confrontation and her sisters are very outspoken. It doesn’t give her much of a voice to speak her true feelings in fear of retaliation.
Communication is not confrontation. Often we have been programmed to believe that. When Tia expressed her feelings, it does NOT end the communication. It opens the door for them to understand her feelings if she will allow it. There's only one way to deal with things and it's by addressing it. Things ignored don't change.
@@margarettasheart6967 Maybe I used a bad choice of words but if I am shy and my sister is very outspoken. It doesn’t matter how much of a communication issue I have or didn’t have. She will always have something to say! But I love them both
I am Tia and Tia is me in my family dynamic also…. There’s planning and there’s talking something to death. When I’m over it…. I’m over it… checked out and really don’t care. Also they don’t realize they cut Tia off and talk at her… so that’s probably why also. Love all of you though.
Exactly
I’m the same ways
They didnt cut Tia off or not hear her out, she just doesn't have effective communication skills(words and language) to articulate her point of view. So she naturally gives up and falls off in the conversation. This used to happen to my husband OFTEN and he would feel victimized until I helped him speak clearly about how he felt and convey his points of view. People are not villians because they can communicate effectively and another person's inability to communicate makes themselves insecure.
@faithoverfate Happy you helped your husband… the rest is a reach. No one said she felt victimized etc… so goodbye!
@@klscott05 Im not sure if we're watching the same video. Even when she was given a chance to speak, her communication and articulation was weak. Therefore she gave up. And does being online and unseen give people courage to be rude? I voiced my opinion same as everyone else, even if you disagreed, so the bye was unnecessary. Weird.
I feel like it’s hard to receive something when 5 people seem like they are all not seeing what your saying y’all should have let two ppl talk only with TIA so it didn’t seem like everyone was talking AT her🤣💯‼️but tiff I’m from NY and I’ve learned that down south ppl are sensitive to the way we are, our approach, speed, and the way we articulate things so from them you are aggressive and you may need to turn it down because it is rude in the south from my experience but I love yall‼️💯🖤and I love mama Tam(beautiful)she just be looking like I wish y’all just figure this out 🤣🤣that’s who Tia get it from 🤣🤣🤣
I totally agree with you.
Tia is over it right now- 🤣😂
How do Dad Mann come to the conclusion that his children have their own voice. I’d love to have a family that can disagree without the man saying everyone is disrespecting him for having different opinions. My family is in silent treatment bc the child was told to blow an inflatable balloon and it was in the right valve that he told her too, she was smacked in the face twice. Insecurity is men is very scary. Pray for me but I really love the authentic conversation with out attacking. These married, Christian, leader men and women need help. For real
real people, real family, real stuff. real love, much peace and prayers.
This was great familyconversation & tiff handled herself like a strong black queen
Tamela Mann is so beautiful inside out. I lover her personality
Y'all are a real family with problems and Issues like everyone else. We all are human beings that blood flow through our venis. ♥️♥️🙏🏽
Tia i was looking at this and to me i see how poshia over powered you with the conversation.. Your sister porsha or however you spell her name. I love your swagg and how you keep your cool.tell her give other people a chance to talk. she takes over the convo and i be looking foward to hearing the rest of the family.Porsha love just breath
What yall not gonna do is antagonize my girl Tia!!!!! lolololololololololol
I really enjoy your conversation. It reminded me of my parents conversation with me and my siblings. Family is all that we have and take of care each other. May God continue to bless you and your family ❤️.
Nooo😂😂😂😂 this remind me of that episode on “it’s a Mann’s world” where tia had got fired and her and porcia got into it cause she didn’t wanna give porcia the schedule or something 🤣🤣🤣🤣 then got into it with David sr cause he didn’t tell her that he replaced her with porcia🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
THE BEST FAMILY ON TH-cam
I just love the realness and dialogue you all are having. I’m sure it was a bunch of hugs and kisses after this taping. ❣️
Love to Tia💗 my heart felt sad for her.
You guys are THE BEST family on TH-cam. I loved this episode because it is so REAL... I never miss an episode and will continue to watch; I know I will get some life lessons. (Tia seemed like she wanted to cry at the end, it's okay to be soft Tia!)
David (son) is so loving lol. His hearts seem to always be in a good place.
I agree with Tiffany.. Don't call her aggressive it does undermine her leadership. She is being a leader and getting things done!!!
Yall stay Beautiful, Black, and Blessed! 💯❤
I really liked this episode, the transparency was raw! Keep the open communication going!
I loved this episode and could totally relate to how everyone felt at some point in an argument. But like everyone said you must button up an argument and either resolve or agree to disagree and mean it, do not come back to it.
Great episode, as always 💜💜 The communication talk at the end was real. I pray Tia opens up and actually communicates with her family. She says that she states what she says and stops, but that is not effective communication. I did appreciate what David and Porsha had to say. I also agree with Tiffany when speaking about the “angry black woman” in the workplace. I myself try my best to not “be” that in the workplace. It’s like a pressure that no one else has.
TIA IS WEARING THAT HAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tia and Tiffany y’all look so much alike😳🤣 I pray that you two hear what your family is saying and just love on each other life is short and family is really all that you have
I love the realness this episode
Thank you so much for having this open real discussion. This ministered in so many ways. I thank God for this. I love your family and I can truly tell you all love each other.
May each of you continue to be your authentic selves and as a family may you continue to grow in Christ and share the gifts and blessings He has given you with others.
Well done David and Tamela, well done!
This was a very informative segment, yes family members won't always agree, but at the end of the day you still going to be family. Communication is so important, it's truly sad when there is a disagreement and it's never settle. Sometimes things go on for years because family didn't take the time to just come back and have a conversation. I like what Father Mann stated, sometimes just take a time out and then come back after everyone has had time to re-group their thoughts and feeling. The worst thing is for families to have a disagreement and it spill over to the next generation. God Bless each of you, thanks for just keeping it real with us. Love you guys to pieces.