We Got Ex-Best Friends To Go On A Friendly Dinner Together | Filipino | Rec•Create
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- When you consider someone a "bestfriend," that person becomes an important figure in your most important memories, and someone that you could say is family. But what happens when that special friendship is damaged to the point of an unfortunate end? A second chance to repair it all is usually unlikely. However, with the help of GrabFood, we got two ex-bestfriends to revisit what they once had, reminisce about their All Out Summer Moments, and come to what may be an opportunity to start over, or to have a final closure. Who knows what might happen?
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"Never ko kinuwento Yung Buhay mo sa iba".
That's a very good attitude. Other people would tell every breathing soul about their ex-bestfriend's secrets just to get even .
Truth. We should really apply confidentiality & consent sa kahit na anong aspeto ng life.
This hit me real hard and I've been doing my best to stop this attitude of mine. Tho I find them very toxic, I realized at the same time that I'm being toxic, too, the moment that I do it.
@@alyanna6230 atleast you're aware that the act is wrong and you Acknowledged it. You're also doing you're best to address it. Now that's also a good attitude.
People grew out of friendships. We grow, we move on, we meet other people. Nothing wrong with that.
Having a falling out with your best friend is one of the most underrated painful experience, especially since most of the time we're just dismissive about it, and think "oh well, ganyan talaga" but deep down you still long for the person the same way you'd do with a partner or a family member.
I agree. I’m experiencing it right now with a long time bestie too and it’s so sad.
Thats why i come off as an akward to be with”, but i just have trust issues with literally every one i meet
We had a fall out because of money. Meron naman times na gusto ako tumulong sa kanya pero kasi mas madalas na ang mga times na inaabuso na niya yung help na binigay namin sa kaniya. Ikaw na mismo ang napapagod at naiinis kakaremind mo sa kanya na dapat na siya magbayad, na kailangan na natin yung pera.
Mas masakit mawalan ng kaibigan kesa jowa. Atleast may closure na sila. ❤❤❤
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Dalawang lines na Favorite ko :
"Never kong kinuwento yung buhay mo sa iba"
"Wag mong i blame yung sarili mo masyado kase kilala naman kita, ayon lang problem, madali kang ma-influence ng iba" Then yung smile at relief ni Leo sa mukha parang "I'm thankful na sinabi mo yan bestfriend" ❤🤗
Angela seems awkward whenever Leo mentioned rebuilding their friendship, parang ayaw nya, ayaw nya lang sabihin directly- which I think very valid if ayaw nya na talaga kasi sya yung binetrayed so no point talaga to rebuild it.
Tingin ko yung pagbabalik ng friendship nila will only benefit Leo who seems very guilty talaga sa nangyari, parang rebuilding it will only give Leo peace, and Angela breaking her peace naman.
that was very well said! i loved it, bravo 👏
True
NawLa yung tiwaLa. Yung isa fulfilment Lang.
"I didn't know you were very hurt" the fact that it took 3 years before Leo realized that Angela was a wreck.
I also have a friend na madalas ako kinakalimutan if nakakausap niya ang isa pa niyang kaibigan. The abrupt feeling of betrayal after that, parang mararamdaman mong option ka lang.
same kmskmksks
Same. Tapos lahat ng sasabihin nung isa nyan friend like "wag mo syang kausapin" Ginagawa nya, ito namang friend ko (Girl A) after nilang mag-kaayos ako yung hindi pinansin kasi para daw maging independent ako kasi lagi na lang daw akong kasama ni friend aba malamang kaibigan nya din naman ako e yun pala gusto nyang sya (girl Z) lang yung kasama. After nun akala ko okay na e ilang araw pa lang bigla akong hindi kinausap dahil lang sa napakaliit na bagay 😂 ilang beses akong sumubok kausapin sya (si friend ko) kaso ako lang yung napapahinya so tumigil din ako pero ang ending after more than 5months ako yung unang kumausap sa kanya nung tinatanong ko kung anong dahilan ng pag-layo sabi ba naman sa akin wala lang daw yun trip nya lang.
Dun ko na patunayan na kahit na anong gawin ko para ituring nya akong kaibigan hinding hindi nya magagawa na ituring akong kaibigan. Ngayon nga lalapitan nya lang ako kapag may gusto syang ipagmalaki sa akin e hahahaha kaya ibinibigay ko yung gusto nya like kino-kompliment ko sya
@@blossom5696 we don't deserve them, and they don't deserve us also. a true friend will make us feel validated and valued hindi yung lalapit lang sayo pag may kailangan hahahahahaaha friend with someone na you both can benefit sa friendship nyo :)))
@@shrinking.violettt yes. sana all makahanap ng kaibigang kayang ibigay yung validation yung feelings nila and kaya silang pahalagahan. Chaka mas okay na din na hindi na kami masyadong nagkikita para naman hindi sya nabubwisit kapag nalalaman nyang mataas yung grade ko kaysa sa kanya, competitive kasi sya sa lahat ng bagay at medyo natatakot na din kasi ako sa ugali nyang may pagka-perfectionist sa image nya at backstabber din.
@@blossom5696 hahahahahha omg medj same situation hahhahahahahahahha but let's not ruin their image in our minds, kasi kahit papano they contributed something good naman before sa life natin 😍
I remember my bestfriend when i was still in college. She's very kind, tahimik, mahinhin, and pretty! tahimik sya sa iba pero pag magkasama kmi , pareho kaming kalog. Our friendship ended when i got into a relationship and nagka shuffle ksi noon sa sections kya we got separated na rin tas hnd pa tugma ung vacants namin. The thing I regret until now is the fact na mas pinili/ bnigyan ko ng time ung ex ko kesa sknya, though she had new friends na rin nmn non that time na when i try na lapitan sya, i felt out of place :( . If mababalik ko lng ung dati, i'd choose our friendship kesa sa (i didnt know that time) bad influence na relationship ko with my ex. Now, she's happily married and they already have a daughter. sometimes i stalk her, and im happy na may own family na sya.
“Never kong kinwento buhay mo sa iba” WOW. I really appreaciate those kind of friends ❤
I just watched the video earlier and I can't help realizing that I kept on smiling 🥲 my face can't even hide the fact that I was super happy to finally talk to my bff again. This was the longest conversation we ever had since the issue.
I was just really happy that day.
And yeah we're alright now. We're just both busy with our lives but we talk online naman hehe
I don't have any intention talaga to submit and hope for the chance to get featured. Basta all i remember was that i thought of her since the moment i saw the casting call post and i just carelessly wrote our story and shared it 😅
When you’re broken talaga you have the ability to be poetic haha 😅🤣
Thanks rec create ❤
I kept crying as if bestfriend din nila ako huhu.
I’ve lost my childhood bestfriend and hs bestfriend altogether when we were in college na. I miss them. We never had any closure. We interact on social media but I guess, it’ll never be the same.
Friendship break up is much more painful than a boyfriend/girlfriend break up. I pray for everyone’s healing 🙏🏼
I can really feel that Leo is sincere with apologizing to her ex best friend, Angela. It feels like she's ready to own up for her own mistakes. Angela, on the other hand I can really feel that she's still hesitating reconnecting with her and I can't blame her. She was betrayed by her own best friend. Like, Leo was her best friend and she's the one who knew her the most yet she listened to her new friends and her boyfriend and that really hurts the most. Though, I didn't believe Leo when she said she didn't expect that Angela would be so hurt of what she did. If you're really her best friend you would know how she will react on everything. There's this gut feeling since you really know the person.
I really hope they both heal from what happened especially Angela and it's not necessary they should rebuild their friendship and go back the way they were before, but just a mature mutual understanding and closure. Healing takes time. Kahit civil lang sila to each other no bad blood anymore.
I felt Leo's genuineness. I hope they'll find it in their hearts to mend the broken relationship, and for Gela to completely forgive. Hugssss
I love this, we can see na they are both self aware and have grown beautifully from their past. Good choice of people recreate we can definitelt learn from them.
that is why choose your company wisely talaga.
dear ate angela, if i were in ur shoes it's okay na maging "friends" na lang not "BEST FRIENDS" coz syempre for sure anlala na ng trust issues mo kay miss leo. but, yeah it's up to u naman po. so, think wisely pls. ily. take care always with ur baby!
I don’t think this friendship deserves a second chance. May mga friends lang talaga na dumadaan sa buhay mo na gives you a lesson and you should leave them in the past. Thanks for the memories na lang ganern. The fact na jowa pa ni ate girl yung nagcause ng lamat sa friendship nyo, betrayed you, caused you trauma, sira na yung trust sa isa’t isa. Ano yung assurance na d na nila yun gagawin? Move on na lang. You can make new memories with new people.
Huwag na..hayaan mo silang dalawa na malunod sa isat isa..kahit magkantutan pa sila sa harap ko, wala akong paki..ang mga basura nmn ksi wala nang halaga kapag tinapon na..marerecyle ungniba pero ung kagaya ng BF at ex-bff? God, worthless yang mga yan so bakit pa ba? Dba? Huwag nang hayaang makapasok ulit ksi nobody deserves a 2nd chance. Pag sinaktan ka sa una, huwag hayaang masaktan ka ulit. I dont believe in 2nd chances. People change? Wheee..kahit anong change pa yan, he/she will still go down as a worthless animal. Un lng un.
While watching this, I can't stop myself from tearing up. I can relate with Leo.
I got this college bestfriend named Red. I'm his sounding board. I knew him more than anyone else does (even his partners). We're bffs since freshmen. He was my favorite person.
I left because I was hurt. And I'm wanting to reconcile, but after hearing Angela's answers, it kinda made me think that maybe Red doesn't want to reconcile as he has already found new bestfriends. He even got a partner (for two years already).
I'm the only one wanting our connection to be rebuilt. But I think that would be too impossible now. And all that's left was for me to heal myself on my own. Alone.
I can definitely relate, I had a bestfriend for 7 years but we ended our friendship because of my values(I don't want to ellaborate it na but the context is, her boyfriend) I realized that everyone is different and no matter how you hold on to a friendship that didn't match your own values, who cant see right through your real self even without you saying it directly. Time heals, but it will never bring back the bond. We talk now tho after 5 years had gone by not as it was but the pain isn't there anymore. When our friendship ended, I found my soulmate in the form of friendship. She knows my triggers and all even I don't say it out loud. So if you're reading this, trust me when I say that everything happens for a reason and don't blame yourself why that friendship ended, it's just some things don't fit in together like puzzle pieces.
Ang cute at ang beautiful nyong tignan. ❤ Parang TOTGA nyo yung isat-isa bestfriend version. I wish maging bestfriend kayo hangang sa huli at wag na wag nyo na sisirain pa yung trust ng bawat isa. More power sa inyo. 😊 ❤❤❤
Some goodbyes set you free. Been there and this is worst than losing a boyfriend.
Theis left me teary-eyed. I really adore this girls. You guys are genuine. All love. ❤
This comes close to my heart.
I had a best friend named Carl. He's openly gay and we got super close in pandemic. I'm from Laguna and he's from metro manila but he visits here if it's vacation time or Holliday. So we will chat and vc everytime. In pandemic I discovered bisexuality and that suits me. I told my ate and him his they are the only ones who know, so you know close we are. While I'm vc-ing him he says he wanted to buy a vape and I advices him that we're still young and it had nicotine.
I jokingly said I will told his mother that he plans to buy a vape, then he retaliated and said he will out me (I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT HIS PARENTS NAME BECAUSE I NEVER MET THEM!!!) I unfriended him so I can cool off then forgive him next day.
Instead of apologizing like a normal person, he doxxed my old account and posted it on his story, I chatted him and I said to him to take it down (which he complied) and starting apologizing and at that time I just completely blocked him. Then when Christmas break starts pumunta sya ng Laguna and just I ignored him. Little did I know he outed me to our circle of friends to make him the angel.
I just know that he outed me when my friend joy and Kate said it to me. And I will never forgive you Carl M.
Let the Karma do on its own.
I am one of those situation that you had.
Few people had outed me and that makes me to distant myself from them.
But guess what, whenever I distant myself from those people..
The same situation are keep crawling back to me but from different individuals.
That is why, I do felt that this is my shadow work, that we need to face to help us grow as a person.
Coz everytime that you are scared or anxious..
It attracts the negative vibes from the universe.. and pouring to your soul and mental health.
People will always have the tendency to rain on your parade.. but then, let just dance in the rain, if that matters. 🤗
I would have started swinging at him, good for you for being the bigger person though.
Hard to trust gay males. Their mouth's just.can't shut
In conclusion, it was really because of Leo's boyfriend that crumbles the last thread of their friendship.
Thank you Recreate sa mga diverse videos. Ito yung 2nd video about ex friendships na nakita ko here.
And ang ganda lang isipin na like romantic relationships, ibang level din yung idea ng friendship and na same level (or more for some) sya ng sakit pagnawala & nahiwalay.
I hope we can also get this chance. She suddenly stopped talking to me and even after reaching out many times, she still wouldn't respond, it happened when we went to our own college lives until now. I don't feel any anger against her and always wishes her well 😢
Friendships most often are very low maintenance. You would have been attracted with each other's preference and attitude - that's what you call wave length.
Friendships grow apart when you let external factors take over.
This story is very common. 2 teenage girls being impulsive in their actions, 1 being more prominent than the other.
New environment and new people have taken control. Trust was betrayed.
There is a longing to mend the friendship but the environment and the people who have taken control are still there.
Some learnings:
1. Trust is like a paper. You can never have it in the same state as before even if you recycle.
2. Your partner should influence you to see good in people. Yes, people can do stupid things at times that comes with your maturity level and that is normal. But doing good and seeing good things should be constant. If your partner cannot support you in goodness, how can your partner support you in the bad times?
3. Forgiveness is a choice. It has it's own time. Do not force it. And if you are ready to give it, remember to give and let go. It is not required to let them in again. Peace of mind is far more important than making peace if you are not ready.
Good luck to the both of you.
I like your insights about this specially the number 2. Sila dapat ang supportive lalo pa't nauna mo nameet friends and bestfriends mo.
Basing from comments, I think we sometimes forget the power of forgiveness. We’re capable of that more than we think. Siguro it’s the Filipino value system in me din speaking but anyway..
I never liked siguro the concept of falling out and just making it another case of this or that. End of the day, unique parin ang friendship niyo and walang rulebook naman. (but yes may exceptions and absolutes pa rin)
Ofc di lang halata sa vid na to, and agree na guarded talaga vibes nila (esp Angela). Pero I wouldn’t dismiss the chance that they could be friends again. Siguro not the same as before, but friends nonetheless. Parang love transformed lng.
Anyway, dumaldal lng. Shoutout to my ka-fall outs lmao
Damn this one’s on another level. The emotion I felt after seeing just the title is different.
Hope you both just move on and never be friends again. Dami issues.
true
i think this kind of ganap with ex best friends is a nice way of two old friends getting to talk about there past like both of them having a closure or like going throwback to there memories from the past is something i kinda imagine having with my old friend now i just miss my old friend cause right now or since the day he left and went to a new school i never get a chance to talk or have a chance to chat him through fb or any social media accounts he might have
I had a close friend before (as in super close na tinuring ko ng kapatid) but we drifted apart due to some reasons. From best friends to strangers. It was painful on my part because she's like a sister to me and I really value her. Also, I love being with her (there's this euphoric feeling when we are together). I miss you so much my alter-ego. Hope you're well wherever you are. Maybe in a parallel universe we're still best friends.
I wish I had real friends. I was never the favorite, and because of that I've unconsciously created a boundaries to everyone. It's so easy for me to trust, but easier to be left out. I've found friendship to older co-workers but I'm longing for someone my age whom I can talk to everytime.
I have 2 ex best friends and it hurts kase ako lang yung nag rereach out and they never responded na... pero atleast ngayon, alam ko na.. na they are good with their lives without me. Ang tanging kasalanan ko lang ay ang maging mahirap.. di ko kase masabayan mga gala nila, mga naabot nila sa buhay, at ako lagi yung humihingi ng tulong... kaya it's like they got tired of me...
I have my own achievements naman, I became a mother, I landed on my dream job but not that high paying pero I am happy. But its like hindi yun enough para sa kanila.. Dapat katulad nila na nakakapunta sa Bora, may sariling bahay at sasakyan.. So they were never happy for my success kase hindi katulad ng naabot nila.
It just goes to show that we have different perspectives in life na and does not meet halfway anymore, so its just better na hindi na kami maging friends...
naiinis din ako sa mga toxic friend , kase nawawala yung bonding or trust ng isat isa kase sila ang real friend from before then from that ni lefr behind mo yung tai
Wow… nakaka relate ako… masarap panoorin kasi parang nakakacomforting kapag alam mo na may ibang tao na narasan din yung na narasan mo… wishing healing for bothh kasi in truth may respeto panaman sila sa isa’t isa pero magka iba na sila ng mundo lol…
Maayos man nila yung friendship nila but, I don't think it will be the same as before.
That right there is not a friend material. The minute she (Leo) said… they or she talked bad about her to her new friends and boyfriend was never a true friend from the get go. You should never replaced your old friend(s) with your new ones. They’ve known you the longest. And trusted. And you’ve been thru ups and downs of life In high school. And no matter what you should never talk behind your best friend. Staying loyal and trustworthy to a friend regardless if you have new friends is how you measure how true and loyal you are. You can pull away from the toxicity but you should never used that weakness against someone whom you consider your bestfriend
Can you also do the girlfriend & boyfriend's friends? Or vice versa lol Hahah I bet that is fun!
The real toxic I guess was Leo's new friends and bf. Hope they heal the wound of each other's heart
why am i crying here?
but honestly i feel happy for both of them cos they got a chance to talk things out int he past.
choose to be happy.
im like angela here 🫣
You shouldn't be apologizing for your friends, let them do that themselves.
If u really want ur bestfriend back, you should breakup with ur bf since he's the reason why ur friendship ended and still bad mouthed ur exbff kahit di na kayo friends.
So true. If her bf really loves her he should understand why they want to friends again. And people change, and normal pag highschool immature. Dapat Ang bf umintindi. Or maybe needs to find a more.mature bf. 23 is young and men are less mature.
true. parang si Angela lang nag grow sa kanila.
Agreed! Dagdag mo pa na lasang ipis yung corndog niya lol
Grabe kayo recreate sobra akong natamaan dito sa episode na ito. Ako kaya kailan ang closure ko sa X ko. 11 years na feeling ko parang last year parin. 😢
had a bsf for 10 years. tatakbo sayo when she's a mess kasi she can't vent out sa other friends nya, pero nakakalimot when shes happy. i gave up on her because she was draining me while im healing her. 3rd time of falling out, and i called it quits. im the happiest and healthiest now :')
Bat ganon ang mature ng vibes at looks nila at 23. Nung 23 ako parang batang yagit lang ako hahaha. And now at 30, yumaman lang ako pero di naman ako nag-mature. HAHAHA
Yagit din ako nung 23 ba't ganun 😅
At least may pera wahahaha
Hoping me & my ex bestfriend will be invited in this. Its been 5 yrs na pala. She betrayed me kasi jinowa nya ex ko while I was still in pain & sa kanya ako nag shashare lahat lolz mas nasaktan ako sa breakup namin kesa breakup namin ng ex ko but now we have different lives na & i think we’re mature na rin. Leave the past behind. Great content! Sana meron sa Cebu.
sisihin ang jowa ni gurl HAHAHSHAH
the boyfriend sounds so pakielamero
I miss my bestfrined :(
Nagkalayo din kami nung nagka-relationship siya. Before that, we always include each other sa mga events ng lifes at gala. Now, kapag trip nalang magkayayaan. Altho nagkikita pa din kami nagu-usap, but Im not sure if Im stil her beshie. Ako, yes she is my bestfriend. But I missed her. We grew apart, as we grow older
This happens to me, I had a BFF since grade school to HS , after i work far from home, I outgrew our friendship and he seems very different, bitter and always talk shit behind my back, so I just blocked him on Facebook and I lived happily ever after
Omgggg😭 I can relate, bago lang I got an F.O with my best friends.Sobrang the same situations yung nangyari and I still hoping na someday we will meet again and we can reconciliate about the things happened. IMissYou So Much J.💙💯🥺
My bestfriend and I distance for a month because of different circle that he joined and I hate those people. I informed him that I have to stop joing with them. Then i cut ties with him and to the rest of them and I also blocked them on FB. After a month he talk to his GF to talk to me and send message about reconciliation. Then we started to get along again. After he apologize. But good thing during our time of separation we never betrayed each other. So now we are good and doing our best to fill the gap.
I'm the friend who betrayed. And that was the biggest regret of my life. I do crave for her presence din. I miss her so much.
If you read between the lines that friendship can never be rebuilt. At least they had their closure.
Dear people Never let your guard down even with your bestfriends.
Grabe!!! I can relate dun sa naka green, I've been betrayed by this ex-friend
Aaaa i remember my ex bestfriend toooo haha until now mabigat pa din. The more u treasure the more u hurt💔
Ramdam mo yung plastikan, but i wish na maging friends ulet sila.
waow timely bc i just recently went through a friendship break
Sana pwede po, circle of friends naman 😭 we're 4 in our group, we've been friends since 2018, shs days. Then nung nag college na, unti-unti na po kaming di nag uusap, though walang away na nangyari, naging parang silent na lang yung gc and then ayun awkward na.
This is one of the reasons why, I am glad that, I do not have any friends since birth even if, I am a perverted extrovert because, I am to scared that, I might hurt them through betrayal and they might realise and say that, you destroy my trust and true friendship! We should not be friends on the first place and you do not deserve nothing but to be forgotten and not exist in this society of this modern world! Even if, I do not have any plans hurt and betray a person, I just want to be safe and sound because, I believe that, prevention is a lot better than cure! I am not actually scared to be betrayed and also to be/get hurt as well because, I am heartless, souless, disgusting, gross, numb, emotionless psychopathetic monster!
WHY AM I BAWLING MY EYES OUT TO THIS?
Ganitong content yung hinihintay ko sa inyo RecCreate!! Thank you 😩💛
I answered all the questions that was ask on this video. I was hoping that she would eventually see it. Here's our short story
We met in college. It was a Maritime School so majority of the students there are boys. We had a training where we will stay inside the campus for the entire month. That's when I knew her.
We were 8-10 cadettes sa batch na yun. Nung umpisa hindi naman talaga kami magkasundo. Mas naging close lang kami after the training. 😂
1. What was the first thing on your mind when you saw your ex-bestfriend?
~ ini-ignore ko yung feeling na kinakabahan ako. pero deep inside, sobrang daming tumatakbo sa isip ko kung ano ang best reaction na pwede kong ipakita. ( This was after 2 or 3 years mula nung naging FO kami. )
2. Say 3 things that are new in your life right now.
~ I am officially residing here in Pangasinan na, nakabili kasi kami ng property.
~ My partner and I are enjoying the buhay probinsya.
~ When you left me, I am grateful for Marge coz she's always there for me. ❣️
3. What were your favorite food trip moments in the past?
~ Sa MacDulo. 😅 Madami tayong memories dun. Di ko na kailangang isa-isahin. Most unforgettable ko is yung pinatikim mo ako ng balot. First time ko yun. Lol!
4. Have you missed each other?
~ Nung fresh pa, sobra kitang miss. 🥺 Hanggang sa natanggap ko na na wala kana talaga. 😥 ( Di pa siya patay. ) Nag make up nalang ako ng reason for my own sake. Para matanggap ko na talaga na FO na tayo. Ikaw? Hmmm. Di ko sure kung miss mo din ako.
5. In one sentence, tell each other why your friendship ended.
~ Hanggang ngayon clueless parin ako. 😅 Di ko nga alam kung paano tayo magbabati kasi wala naman tayong pinag awayan. Pero sobrang sariwa parin saakin nung araw na bigla mo nalang akong hindi kinausap. Parang I will never heal from our broken friendship. 💔
6. In what ways were you a bad friend.
~ I was always there for you, alam mo yan. Until I met Jim. You know naman our story. Alam mo kung gaano ka importante itong tao na 'to saakin. I need to give my full undivided attention sa relationship namin para mag work yun. I became a bad friend kasi I left you out. 😔 I know there are times na you wanted to see me but I can't. But for the record, I was so jealous and happy at the same time, nung nakikita kitang nagkakaroon nang new friends.
7. In what ways were you a good friend.
~ I don't have one on my list anymore. I started to question everything simula nung iniwan mo ako sa ERE. Umabot na nga sa point na takot na akong makipag kaibigan sa iba kasi pakiramdam ko, iiwan lang din ako. 😅
8. Did you ever expect that you wouldn't be friends anymore?
~ Yes. I finally accepted the reality na tapos na talaga. We tried di ba? Pero sorry kasi hindi ko talaga alam kung paano tayo maayos. Kasi nga wala naman tayong pinag awayan. Hinihiling ko nga, na sana meron tayong reason. Para kapag may nagtanong may isasagot naman ako. 🙃 And I don't have to make an alibi for myself para maka move on.
9. How would you have described the friendship you had?
~ I would have described it as my favorite. You were my favorite person. Madami akong kaibigan na tinabla noon but you were never one of those. Ibang klase yung future na nakikita ko sa friendship natin. I imagine pa dati na you would be my maid of honor sa wedding ko, ikaw magiging ninang ng mga anak ko at we will travel together with our own future family. Ganun! Tapos lahat yun nawala lang ng parang bula. 🥺
10. Did I cry when our friendship ended?
~ Oh myyyy. You have no idea. I even questioned my worth. 😓
11. What kinds of things would you have done together if you stayed friends?
~ More midnight road trips. Tapos maghahanap ng makakainan. 😅
12. Have your ex-friend impacted your life in anyway?
~ Yes! Nagkaroon ako ng phobia na makipag kaibigan. Kasi kung yun ngang taong pinagkatiwalaan ko ng sobra, tinabla ako. Dun pa kaya sa bago? Hahaha lol.
13. Would you ever be friends again?
~ I don't think so. Kasi yung reason na binigay ko sa sarili ko para matanggap yung break up natin is " Hindi mo tunay na kaibigan yan. Kasi kung tunay yan di niya yan magagawa sayo! "
Hindi mo alam kung gaano ko katagal pinaniwala yung sarili ko sa linyang yan. Ilang puyat, ilang iyak at ilang tanong kung napano tayo. Bakit mo nagawa saakin yun? 😭
14. Finally name a fond memory you have from one of your summer together?
~ I don't have anything in mind. Kasi Wala naman tayong summer outingi . But one of the best memory na hindi ko makakalimutan is yung nag sorry ka saakin. Akala mo Kasi nung una, mataray ako, malandi , maharot. Pero nung nakilala mo ako ng lubusan, you said sorry because I was completely different from the person na inakala mo. ♥️
I am grateful for you and for the memories that we had. But I don't want to risk anything anymore. I miss you Yohj. And I'm sorry kasi hindi ko na alam kung paano tayo magiging magkaibigan ulit. 😢☹️
Gela's makeup lewk though, so flawless mami✨
This is what happened to me and my first and only bestfriend. Okay na kami but never na kami naging bffs. Vowed to never have a bestfriend ever again.
Grabe kloka just a while ago in the back of my mind lang bago ko toh mkita dito sa YT iniisip ko if applicable din ba sa friendship ang closure I've had an F.O to my 7 yrs friendship and this happened 3 yrs ago already but still painful to me
Expecting Celine D and Kyle N on this episode.
Ako dapat yung nainterview ng ganito. Ang dami daming kong exbestfriends na tinalikuran ako for unknown, petty reason. Kahit wala ng pa-grab.
I'm crying. 🥺 Just to share with you guys, I somehow feel the pain. 🥺 I remember my ex best friend which is my buddy and considered my own sister, however I never thought that her choice of happiness will lead us apart. I share all the things with her though I know she has her own group of friends, she's the only one I can rely on when there are things and situations we can't share with my family.
I trusted her so much yet she's now in a relationship with my ex boyfriend.
I already moved on, however I'm sad that we'll never be on good terms again. 🥺
Madaling mainflunce ang isang tao lalo na kpg may inggit sa katawan😅
Sana magkaroon din kami ng dinner together with my ex-bestfriend (bestfriend for 12years) one last time. Miss her so much!
I really cried..i can't imagine ending my friendship with my best friend....
we need an update, nag work out ba yung friendship nila???
Naway magtuluy-tuloy na maging beshies ulit. 😊
I feel the same way kakarelate I hope nagmatured na din mga ex best friends ko😂😅❤ I hope they'll be okay🎉😊
Breakup with a friend brings about a different level of pain. Parang breakup with a boyfriend, pero more intense, more painful.
wooh! this was a heavy one ha!
7:59 Leo knew Angela was more than that. Toxic man si Angela that time, Leo knew na hindi na sya ganung klase ng tao. Siguro naipit lang din sa situation si Angela since it was her boyfriend and bestfriend.
,minsan na ako nag betray ng kaibigan,,kaya sabi ko sa sarili yun na yung una at huling beses ko gagawin yun,,kaya nakakaconsincya alam ko nakakawala ng trust yung ginawa ko,,kaya ngayun ang pinaka ayaw ko yung tinatraidor ako,,kaya kung saakin ng yari yan,,Never na cguro, ibabaun kita sa limot
MORE OF THIS PLEASE!!!
NEXT: MUNTIK NANG MAGBREAK NA BESTFRIENDS.
Pwede naman kasing natutunan nalearn pa daw!
Friendship break ups are really painful because true friends are hard to find
parang yung bf talaga yung may problem lol jk
if mag kakaroon din ako ng chance na mangyari samin to ng ex-bff ko ipush ko talaga, i miss her 😭
To be honest naka experience din ako ng ganyan. We are childhood friend. Sobrang sakit ipagpalit sa boyfriend grabe.
i miss u ving, ikaw ang bestfriend ko kahit diko alam kung ganun din ba ako sayo, sorry if nagkasakitan tayo sa paraan na hindi nalang tayo nagusap basta, i regret those days, i regret that everyday, i trust you parin and i wish i can see you on my wedding for the last time 🥺🤞🏼
I felt for Angela:(((
betrayal and misunderstanding talaga biggest enemy ng magkakaibigan
This isn't my friendship but it made me veryyy emotional.
Betrayal between best friends, its usually the end of the friendship.
I want this kind of date, andami ko panamang naging ex bestfriend 😅
Ang ganda ng content na ito!
i really relate to this video. i miss my x bff too although she betrayed me and siniraan ako sa iba :(.
im happy for both of u :)
sbi nila pag 7 yrs plus na kayu ng bffs nyu it will last na forever,, kmi 20 yrs bff.. sa isang iglap wala na,, ngkausap na mn kmi peru bat ganun d na na min nblik yung dati😢
I have new friends that I can trust sakit non
I feel like friendship breakup hurts worse than jowa breakup... char
I remember my old bestfriend it hurtss so badd
online bff's that drifted away HAHAHAHA sakit