I’m 23 f and never had a bf. I don’t see myself finding someone anytime soon, especially given how people are these days. I don’t have a lot of experience but it feels like you hear more about cheating, players, abuse etc than healthy relationships. I hope I find a good person eventually though!
I understand that. It’s better to wait for someone who’s worth giving your time than rush into a bad relationship. I think you’re making the right choice and I’ll be doing the same now. 😂Thanks for your comment, I hope you find the right person for you too🩷🩷🥹!
im a 23m and in a similar situation. Probably won't get into something for a whileee. It's strange tho, i see everyone on here saying dating is difficult, yet some of my friends manage to find their dream partners so easy😂 almost falls in their laps lol. Hope I can be so lucky
I'm a guy and I never understand why some guys think a woman is a gold digger when asking if he has a job or not..Having a job is the bare minimum requirement. If you're unemployed you should put off dating until things change. And pay for the 1st date too, be a fricken man and leave the red pill bullsh*t behind!
These are such good tips especially the one about going on a date too soon. The 2-3 times I didn't follow that rule always ended up with me being disappointed. Now I follow that rule religiously and make sure we have chemistry over texts as well before meeting up 😊
Is dick size important to you ? Should men put that personal details on the website as well. That way you don’t need to waste time to find out later and you can’t be satisfied. 😂😂😂
Not going to lie I'm starting to lose hope myself. I haven't tried bumble but you've inspired me to do so. Tinder I would try to have positive communication but would either get ghosted or texted at an obscene hour. Hinge has had its ups and downs. I've been on dates but every time the person was either hiding red flags or lying about how she conducts herself. It just seems like with my standards (extremely similar to yours even though I'm a man) I won't have success for a while. Hearing that I'm not the only person with this mindset is reassuring though. I was really feeling like I'm just going to fall behind if I keep high standards. Hopefully your date went well and you don't have to be stuck sending shots in the dark through a screen anymore!
Maybe I’ll give an update in my next video😂 But to summarize, i won’t be seeing him again. i wish you best of luck with trying bumble! I have had a better experience with it but with these apps it’s really all chance and luck, so don’t take it personally. Just do your part with good communication and conversation. You’re definitely not alone in feeling that way, but not all things are meant to work out and that’s what makes life interesting 😊
Personally as a guy I genuinely put forth my personality and I didn’t really know what girls are looking for on there but dating apps are really hard from person to person experience. I found success with creating my dating profile with the intent to make girls comfortable and laugh and not taking it too seriously just enjoy the experience because men really don’t know women and all they should do is try to make it a safe environment where both can learn from one another cuz we gotta coexist somehow
I see “I DONT KNOW” I see a boy with no direction in life. You’re 30+ years old guy! When will you know what you want in life? 💀 You don’t know? Ha! Well it’s a No then.
BAHAHA exactly. This is why it’s so important for you to be the one who knows and communicates what you want to them. Funny how we have to be the ones to tell such older men that we aren’t looking for something casual though.
I love this video but the part about the astrology stuff made me laugh. One of my really good male friends is super into astrology and taught me most of what I know about it, so it is possible that it's genuine lol
Hahaha what can I say, I’m a bit of a skeptic 😚 I’ll definitely keep your comment in mind when I’m looking on bumble now. Thank you for your comment !! 🫶🏻
25m I would say all your tips are good. Your intentional. But I think you tend to prejudge men. The truth is all of us are in different classes of intents so not all men want the same thing. For example the drinks part. Be intentional but not too judgmental based off visuals and texts. I also want to say we’re much more complex than sex seekers and height and how useful we are. Like your videos
i dont think it matters if a single guy follows girls who are attractive cause personally i wouldnt care if a girl was following good looking dudes. if he's sliding in their dms as a single man that's his business. if hes following those girls while dating someone that's another story.
I’m 23 f and never had a bf. I don’t see myself finding someone anytime soon, especially given how people are these days. I don’t have a lot of experience but it feels like you hear more about cheating, players, abuse etc than healthy relationships. I hope I find a good person eventually though!
Girl is bad dating is really hard 😫
@@kendallbr9166 I bet. The options here in the Caribbean don’t look promising either lol
I understand that. It’s better to wait for someone who’s worth giving your time than rush into a bad relationship. I think you’re making the right choice and I’ll be doing the same now. 😂Thanks for your comment, I hope you find the right person for you too🩷🩷🥹!
im a 23m and in a similar situation. Probably won't get into something for a whileee.
It's strange tho, i see everyone on here saying dating is difficult, yet some of my friends manage to find their dream partners so easy😂 almost falls in their laps lol. Hope I can be so lucky
@@clockedfre YMMV and ESID, I guess
I'm a guy and I never understand why some guys think a woman is a gold digger when asking if he has a job or not..Having a job is the bare minimum requirement. If you're unemployed you should put off dating until things change. And pay for the 1st date too, be a fricken man and leave the red pill bullsh*t behind!
These are such good tips especially the one about going on a date too soon. The 2-3 times I didn't follow that rule always ended up with me being disappointed. Now I follow that rule religiously and make sure we have chemistry over texts as well before meeting up 😊
Thank you 🥺 I’m glad you agree.. definitely something I learned the hard way too.
Is dick size important to you ? Should men put that personal details on the website as well. That way you don’t need to waste time to find out later and you can’t be satisfied. 😂😂😂
Not going to lie I'm starting to lose hope myself. I haven't tried bumble but you've inspired me to do so. Tinder I would try to have positive communication but would either get ghosted or texted at an obscene hour. Hinge has had its ups and downs. I've been on dates but every time the person was either hiding red flags or lying about how she conducts herself. It just seems like with my standards (extremely similar to yours even though I'm a man) I won't have success for a while. Hearing that I'm not the only person with this mindset is reassuring though. I was really feeling like I'm just going to fall behind if I keep high standards. Hopefully your date went well and you don't have to be stuck sending shots in the dark through a screen anymore!
Maybe I’ll give an update in my next video😂 But to summarize, i won’t be seeing him again. i wish you best of luck with trying bumble! I have had a better experience with it but with these apps it’s really all chance and luck, so don’t take it personally. Just do your part with good communication and conversation. You’re definitely not alone in feeling that way, but not all things are meant to work out and that’s what makes life interesting 😊
The best dating advice video I wish I saw a year or two ago
Personally as a guy I genuinely put forth my personality and I didn’t really know what girls are looking for on there but dating apps are really hard from person to person experience. I found success with creating my dating profile with the intent to make girls comfortable and laugh and not taking it too seriously just enjoy the experience because men really don’t know women and all they should do is try to make it a safe environment where both can learn from one another cuz we gotta coexist somehow
lol A 10:00 "I;m an old man that's looking to prey on younger women looking to hook up and have a good time" and "sorry sir, but thats not me"
I'm in my late teen years (18) so this might as well apply to me.
I see “I DONT KNOW” I see a boy with no direction in life. You’re 30+ years old guy! When will you know what you want in life? 💀 You don’t know? Ha! Well it’s a No then.
BAHAHA exactly. This is why it’s so important for you to be the one who knows
and communicates what you want to them. Funny how we have to be the ones to tell such older men that we aren’t looking for something casual though.
@@ellenisvloggingjust don’t date much older men because they view you as a toy Trust me
I love this video but the part about the astrology stuff made me laugh. One of my really good male friends is super into astrology and taught me most of what I know about it, so it is possible that it's genuine lol
Hahaha what can I say, I’m a bit of a skeptic 😚 I’ll definitely keep your comment in mind when I’m looking on bumble now. Thank you for your comment !! 🫶🏻
gorgeous! thanks for the tips, hope you had a good date
This video was so entertaining lol
25m
I would say all your tips are good. Your intentional. But I think you tend to prejudge men. The truth is all of us are in different classes of intents so not all men want the same thing. For example the drinks part. Be intentional but not too judgmental based off visuals and texts. I also want to say we’re much more complex than sex seekers and height and how useful we are. Like your videos
No you’re not
lol @ 11:34 "put your shirt on, boy"
Im a dude, idk why im into all these videos but ill take the advice
Glad you liked the video 😊!
Very good information. Thanks for posting.
Thanks for watching!! 😊😊
i dont think it matters if a single guy follows girls who are attractive cause personally i wouldnt care if a girl was following good looking dudes. if he's sliding in their dms as a single man that's his business. if hes following those girls while dating someone that's another story.
Ewww
17:19 - 17:21 how she brushies and then looks up lol cute (I'm a female fan not a creepy dude lol donrt worry, girl)
Damn
Hello Ellen ~! so fast your new vlog here ~! happy dating... just enjoy your life ok ? i will always support.
Thank you very much🥹 I try my best!